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Me and my friends or My friends and I? Which is correct?

“My friends and I” is grammatically correct when it is placed before the verb and is the subject of the sentence.

“I and my friends” is also correct but less common as it is more polite to put your friends first.

My friends and I are going to the cinema.

The most important thing to remember is that “I” is the subject pronoun(the person that does the action) and “me” is the object pronoun(the person that receives the action. You can read more about subject and object pronouns here. 

When “Me and my friends” is incorrect

“Me and my friends” is incorrect at the beginning of the sentence but it is common to hear people saying it all across the English-speaking world . 

People tend to make this mistake as the subject includes more than one noun. 

We are so used to subject(I) + verb that when this structure is disrupted, it can be easy to make a mistake.

I remember being corrected as a child that it is always “my friends and I “ and finding it difficult to say this structure. It is much easier to say “me and my friends” and for that reason, we often make this mistake.

Subject    verb

I                play tennis. 

Subject     verb     object

She           loves       me 

Subject                              verb

My friends and I             play tennis

When to use “Me and my friends”

“Me” is an object pronoun that means that you receive the action.

He punched me.

In this example, you received the punch. It doesn’t make sense to say “me punch”.

You can only use “me and my friends” when you and your friends receive the action.

They started a fight with me and my friends. 

The artist painted a picture of my friends and me.  

Again, it is just a form of politeness to put “my friends” before “me”.

Let’s look at more examples of “me and my friend”

Let’s consider these sentences:

• The coach selected my friends and me for the team.
• The coach selected me and my friends for the team.

Now, let’s shorten them:

• The coach selected me for the team.

Both shortened sentences make sense, showing that either original sentence is correct.

Now, consider these sentences:

• My friends and I are attending a party.
• Me and my friends are attending a party.

Shorten them:

• I am attending a party.
• Me am attending a party.

Here, the first shortened sentence makes sense, but the second doesn’t. So, “My friends and I” is correct in the original sentence.

Let’s test our knowledge with a removal test

Fill in the blanks with either “my friends and I” or “me and my friends”:

• _______ went to the amusement park last weekend.
• The movie tickets were given to _______ by the school.
• _______ are planning a surprise party for our teacher.
• The football coach selected _______ to represent our school.
• She shared her snacks with _______ during the break.

Once you’ve filled in the blanks, check your answers with the Removal Test by taking out “my friends” and seeing if the sentence still makes sense.

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99 Awesome Trip with Friends Quotes

Is there anything better than travelling with friends? We don’t think so, either! Whether you want to cruise along iconic rivers, hike to incredible sites like Machu Picchu, spot the Big Five on a safari, or just relax on a beach , everything’s better together – including travel! To help you get inspired for your next adventure with friends, we’ve put together a list of our 99 favourite quotes about travelling and friendship. Enjoy!

• “As soon as I saw you, I knew a grand adventure was about to happen.” – Winnie The Pooh

2. “A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.” – Tim Cahill

3. “Life was meant for good friends and great adventures.” – Unknown

4. “There is an unspoken bond you create with the friends you travel with.” – Kristen Sarah

5. “Friends that travel together, stay together.” – Unknown

6. “A good friend listens to your adventures. A best friend makes them with you.” – Unknown

7. “You can pack for every occasion, but a good friend will always be the best thing you could bring!” – Unknown

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8. “Life by the water is always better, especially with a few good friends in tow.” – Unknown

9. “I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain

10. “Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.” – Maya Angelou

11. “Everyone needs a friend that will call and say, ‘Get dressed, we are going on an adventure.’” -Unknown

12. “When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.” – Unknown

13. “The more I traveled, the more I realized fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.” – Shirley MacLaine

14. “One of the great things about travel is that you find out how many good, kind people there are.” -Edith Wharton

15. “The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way.” – Unknown

16. “Wanderlust isn’t about running away from it all.  It’s about experiencing the outside to discover the inside.” – Unknown

17. “True friends never apart maybe in distance never in heart.” – Helen Keller

18. “We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” – Robert Louis Stevenson

19. “Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.” – Ernest Hemingway

20. “Friendship isn’t about being inseparable…it’s being separated and knowing nothing will change.” – Unknown

21. ”Having a best friend is like having your own little corner of the world to escape to.” – Unknown

22. “Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter.” – Izaak Walton

23. “Good times and crazy friends make the best memories.” – Unknown

24. “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” – Unknown

25. “Good friends follow you anywhere.” – Winnie the Pooh

26. “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” – Lao Tzu

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27. “Everything you do is based on the choices you make” – Wayne Dye

28. “Travel like Gandhi, with simple clothes, open eyes, and an uncluttered mind.” – Rick Stev

29. “The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a page.” – Saint Augustine

30. “Not all those who wander are lost.” – J. R. R. Tolkien

31. “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness.” –Mark Twain

32. “Don’t tell me the sky’s the limit when there are footprints on the moon.” – Paul Brandt

33. “The urgent things are not the most important ones.” – Unknown

34. “Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling”. – Margaret Lee Runbeck

35. “Tourists don’t know where they’ve been, travelers don’t know where they’re going.” – Paul Theroux

36. “Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.” –Charles Swindoll

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37. “A ship in a harbor is safe, but it not what ships are built for.” – John A. Shedd

38. “Do not follow where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

39. “If you think adventure is dangerous, try routine; it’s lethal.” – Paulo Coelho

40. “Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer.” – Unknown

41. “Discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” – Marcel Proust

42. “Wherever you go, go with all your heart!” – Confucius

43. “The most beautiful in the world is, of course, the world itself.” – Wallace Stevens

44. “Own only what you can always carry with you: known languages, known countries, known people. Let your memory be your travel bag.” – Alexandr Solzhenitsyn

45. “Don’t listen to what they say. Go see.” – Chinese Proverb

46. “Travel sparks our imagination, feeds our curiosity, and reminds us how much we. all have in common.” – Deborah Lloyd

47. “Life is like a camera: you focus on what is important, capture the good times, develop from the negative and if things do not work out, take another shot.” – Unknown

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48. “Little by little, one travels far.” – J.R.R. Tolkein

49. “You know all those things you always wanted to do? You should go do them.” – Unknown

50. “Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and celebrate it for everything that it is.” – Mandy Hale

51. “Without new experiences, something inside of us sleeps. The sleeper must awaken.” – Frank Herbert

52. “At the end of the day, your feet should be dirty, your hair messy and your eyes sparkling.” – Shanti

53. “Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.” – Unknown

54. “We take photos as a return ticket to a moment otherwise gone.” – Katie Thurmes

55. “Add life to your days, not days to your life.” – Unknown

56. “Quit your job, buy a ticket, get a tan, fall in love, never return.” – Island Company

57. “We all start as strangers.” – Unknown

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58. “If you want something you never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.” – Thomas Jefferson

59. “Life is short and the world is wide.” – Simon Raven

60. “I don’t know the question, but travel is definitely the answer.” – Unknown

61. “I always wonder why birds stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere on the earth. Then I ask myself the same question.” – Harun Yahya

62. “Because in the end, you won’t remember the time you spent in the office or mowing your lawn.” – Jack Kerouac

63. “Don’t call it a dream, call it a plan.” – Unknown

64. “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go further, go together.” – African proverb

65. “It is not down in any map, true places never are” – Herman Melville

66. “To travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about other countries. ” – Aldous Huxley

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67. “In the end… we only regret the chances we didn’t take.” – Lewis Carroll

68. “Travel leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller.” – Ibu Battuta

69. “If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.” – Unknown

70. “I am not the same having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world.” – Mary Anne Radmacher

71. “There are seven days in the week, and someday isn’t one of them.” – Unknown

72. “Traveling tends to magnify all human emotions.” – Peter Hoeg

73. “Find joy in the ordinary.” – Unknown

74. “It’s called the present. Open & use it!” – Unknown

75. “Travel is still the most intense mode of learning. ” – Kevin Kelly

76. “Travel is better with friends.” – Unknown

77. “As with any journey, who you travel with is more important than the destination.” – Unknown

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78. “Only the people you don’t know well enough seem normal. Every person you know well enough is odd, weird and different. This is called friendship!” – Unknown

79. “There are no strangers in this world, only friends I haven’t met yet.” – Unknown

80. “Travel far enough, you meet yourself” – David Mitchell

81. “Having a best friend is like having your own little corner of the world to escape to.” – Unknown

82. “Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer” – Unknown

83. “Of all the books in all the world, the best stories are found between the pages of a passport” – Unknown

84. “Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind.” – Anthony Bourdain

85. “Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world.” – Gustave Flaubert

86. “A true traveler’s journey is never complete.” – Unknown

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87. “If you wish to travel far and fast, travel light. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness and fears.” – Glenn Clark

88. “If there is no way, create one” – Unknown

89. “Like all great travelers, I have seen more than I remember, and remember more than I have seen.” – Benjamin Disraeli

90. “It doesn’t matter where you’re going, it’s who you have beside you.” – Unknown

91. “So much of who we are is where we have been.” – William Langewiesche

92. “We are all travellers in the wilderness of the world, and the best we can find in our travels in an honest friend.” – Robert Louis Stevenson

93. “You never really travel alone. The world is full of friends waiting to get to know you.” – Unknown

94. “An acquaintance merely enjoys your company, a fair-weather companion flatters when all is well, a true friend has your best interests at heart, and the pluck to tell you what you need to hear.” – E.A. Bucchianeri

95. “True friends will always push you towards the great possibilities of your future, false friends will always chain you to the mistakes in your past.” – Seth Brown

96. “Wherever it is you may be, it is your friends who make your world.” – Chris Bradford

97. “When you get lost in a really strange place, nothing is more comforting than finding your friend whom you trust and can show the way.” – Toba Beta

98. “Happy is the soul that has a friend. Happier is the soul that trusts in the truth of the heart of a friend. Happiest is the soul that knows the solemnity of friendship and honours its laws.” – Ogwo David Emenike

99. “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive.” – Anais Nin

Whether you’re a young adult or simply young at heart , a trip with friends is always a good idea! Find the next adventure for you and your friends on TourRadar .

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Maggie is a life-long traveller with a special affinity for the United Kingdom. When she's not reading, writing, or dreaming about her next trip, you can find her talking at length about her dog to anyone who'll listen.

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Traveling with Friends: How to Avoid Disaster

A few years ago, one night over dinner with some friends with whom I shared a love of gourmet food, sushi, great cocktails, politics, and movies, we realized that in all the years we’d known each other, we had never taken a trip together.

As we all had lots of points and miles saved , we thought about how fun it would be to go somewhere spontaneously.

“Let’s do it,” we all declared. So we found award tickets to Hong Kong for the following week.

Halfway around the world, we arrived at our hotel late in the evening. After a late dinner, we went back to the hotel, where I decided to go to sleep. As fun as Hong Kong is at night (and it is very wild), I wanted to try to adjust to the local time zone, so I could make the most of the rest of our trip.

My friends had other ideas: they were going to party. So I said good night and off they went.

When I woke up, it was still dark out. I looked at the time. It was 5:30am. I found two of my friends asleep; the third was apparently still out partying.

Letting them rest, I got ready and headed out to enjoy the city before the commuters rose and it became a maelstrom of noise, chaos, and crowds. Hong Kong is one of my favorite cities , and I love its peaceful calm in the morning. It’s all grandmothers and grandfathers out for walks, doing tai chi in parks, and eating dim sum.

With so much to do (and eat), I didn’t want to waste any time. After an early breakfast of dim sum, I wandered around, grabbed some tea, read a book, and took photos of empty streets.

It was midday when I finally heard from my friends. We met for lunch at a noodle shop and plotted our day.

Before we booked our trip, I had asked them what they wanted to do. Knowing them, I knew it would involve fancy dinners (Hong Kong has some really fine dining), but I emphasized that as a backpacker at heart, what I really love are hole-in-the-wall restaurants, cheap activities, wandering around, and just enjoying the day-to-day life of a place.

“No problem,” they said. They were travelers too, and they also wanted to get below the surface. The idea of dim sum, markets, and fun local bars appealed to them as much as it did to me.

But that was not what happened.

My friends stayed out late partying every night, slept in late, only wanted to eat at expensive restaurants, and didn’t want to do any sightseeing.

As the days ticked by, we were like ships in the night. Outside a few dinners, I didn’t see too much of them. But, being used to traveling alone, that was fine with me. I can make my own fun. But it was disappointing not to have time with my friends. It defeated the purpose of the trip.

On the way back to the airport, they talked about doing it all again someday. But not me. I thought to myself, “We’re never doing this again.”

The trip taught me that, while people might like a certain travel style in theory, the reality is often very different. In fact, over the years, I’ve traveled with many friends who have completely different styles than I do.

As Mark Twain said, “I have found out there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” I couldn’t agree more. It’s important to be cautious when traveling with anyone, even your closest friends. It’s a very personal experience, and you’re going to want to make sure their style matches yours.

After many successful — and not so successful — trips with friends (some of whom I count as my closest), I’ve come up a list of questions that I think are important to ask people (of course, you know your friends, but I’ve found this still helpful):

• What activities do you want to do?
• I like [activity]. I’ll probably see/do lots of this/these on our trip. Would you come with me?
• How do you feel about [activity]?
• Are you okay doing things alone, or do you want to do everything together?
• I don’t eat a lot of expensive food on the road. How do you feel about that?
• Are you okay with eating street food?
• I like to be out the door by 9am each morning. Do you? (Or: I’m a night person. Are you okay with a late start?)
• Do you plan to stay out late?

It’s fine if you all aren’t on the same page, so long as you are comfortable with spending time apart. If you have different travel styles but aren’t okay being an independent traveler (or vice versa), that’s going to cause a problem. I’ve had plenty of trips with friends where we only overlap on some stuff, but that was not a problem. No one cared when any of us went off to do our own stuff, and it gave us things to talk about when we came back together later.

The more trips I’ve taken with friends, the more I’ve gotten smarter about which I take trips with. But sometimes you just never know ahead of time. What people say and what they do can be two different things. They may say they want to travel the same way or do the same things — and then you get on the road and it’s the opposite.

But, ever since that big spontaneous trip with friends, I’ve learned that asking the right questions in advance can really reduce the likelihood that you’ll run into these kinds of conflicts.

Use my list — or come up with your own — but don’t go on a trip with a friend who isn’t at least 60% aligned with your style and interests!

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• Hong Kong Hostel
• The Mahjong

For even more places to stay in Hong Kong, check out my post on my favorite hostels in the city . It has an even more detailed list!

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• Safety Wing (best for everyone)
• Insure My Trip (for those over 70)
• Medjet (for additional evacuation coverage)

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How to travel with friends – without falling out

Sep 3, 2019 • 6 min read

Travelling together offers friends the chance to enjoy quality time awash with in-jokes, proper catch-ups and unforgettable experiences. Sound like bliss? It can be. But beware: even the best of friendships can be tested on the road.

Whether you’re about to embark on your first adventure with your mates in tow or are looking to improve on past experiences, here are writer Emma Sparks' 10 tips for having a harmonious trip with friends.

Beginners: start on the right foot

1. choose the right people to go with.

Pick any old pal with a passport at your peril. Just because you share a love of Nicolas Cage movies and Chinese food doesn’t mean you’re compatible travel buddies. Think twice before travelling with someone you only ever see in one context; your coffee-and-cake companion, yoga chum or work bestie might be a dream to hang out with at home, but a nightmare when it comes to exploring somewhere new. Opt for someone you’re confident you could tolerate for three days straight and you should have a reasonably hiccup-free trip – but there are no guarantees.

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2. Set expectations

Is this trip about winding down and going with the flow, or ticking off a list of sights the length of your arm? Will it be action-packed and outdoorsy, or heavy on the hangovers? It’s easy to make assumptions about your friends’ vision for a trip based on their usual behaviour, but travel can bring with it a different set of priorities and reveal a totally different side of people. Night owl travelling with early birds or vice versa? Proceed with caution – or agree to adjust your body clocks accordingly. Verbalise your needs: a simple conversation about what each of you wants to get out of the holiday – and what you don’t want to do – should do the trick.

3. Discuss your budget

You probably have an idea of how flash or frugal your friends are, but it’s worth chatting about what you intend to spend on food and activities before you go. In situ, manage money sensitively – some people are happy to split the bill every time, while others will find subsidising your dessert addiction stressful. Keep a tally in a group budgeting app like Splitwise if you like, but don’t sweat the small stuff – no-one likes a penny-pincher.

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4. Prepare for close quarters

If you’re sharing accommodation, prepare to learn a lot more about your mates. Sleeping habits, bathroom routines and kitchen cleanliness (or lack thereof) can all cause friction between friends. Years of sharing rooms with incessant snorers, shower hoggers and the occasional gleeful farter have taught me that the best way to overcome small irritations is to make light of them – no doubt you have your own shortcomings too – and always pack earplugs...

‘When we travel as a three, Emily always gets a room to herself as she’s the loudest snorer. Emma puts up with my mild snores and I ignore the fact she leaves hair in the plughole’ – Mary, Emma’s travel buddy on many long weekends in Europe .

Intermediate: avoid common pitfalls

5. hanger and fatigue.

The needs of travelling adults often mirror those of a two year old’s. If someone’s acting moody, chances are they’re hungry or overtired. Punctuate sightseeing with plenty of pit stops and snacks, or work siestas into your holiday routine to keep the peace.

‘I like my sleep and I’m prone to energy dips if I don’t eat at regular intervals. Before a long hike through the Latvian wilderness, Emma made sure to buy some carb-heavy snacks and sugary sweets, which saved the day’  – Helen, Emma’s travel buddy in Australia , Latvia and Estonia .

6. Too much time together

Find yourself lingering in the loo, or volunteering to pop to the shops for the milk and a few precious minutes by yourself? Don’t feel bad about taking some time away from each other. Introverts in particular often need plenty of alone time to avoid burnout – but splitting up for a few hours here and there can refresh and revive everyone. 

7. Lack of flexibility

Travelling with friends is a masterclass in the art of the compromise. When Friend A is laser-focused on finding a tabbacheria for their strictly-on-holiday smokes, Friend B wants nothing more than an Aperol spritz and a sit down, and you want to get to the top local landmark before it closes, something has to give. If it isn’t essential to you, let it go – but don’t let dominant or demanding personalities get their way every time. If you’re lucky, everyone’s wants and needs can be met with some tactical shuffling of schedules. 

‘Emma has dragged us up church spires and medieval towers in Florence , Porto , Seville and more – we expect it now, just as she expects to skip a few sights so we can sample local tipples in the sun’ – Emily, Emma’s travel buddy on many long weekends in Europe.

8. Overenthusiasm

The weeks and months ahead of a trip can be saturated with hope and high expectations, excited text messages and squeals of anticipation. So much so that by the time you board the plane, you’re already exhausted. Then, in the face of adversity – a disappointing Airbnb, bad weather or mosquito invasions – one friend may appoint themselves as a hype man, ignoring glaring issues and refusing to let anyone whinge. While positivity is a lifesaver on group trips, you can still keep it real. It’s OK if things aren’t perfect, so don’t put pressure on yourself or each other to have the best time ever – go with the flow and it will happen naturally.

Advanced: be your best self

9. forgive (and apologise) quickly.

An intense dose of togetherness coupled with new, sometimes challenging experiences means minor niggles are almost inevitable. Left to fester, resentment and pettiness can thrive. Unresolved tension is a sure-fire way to spoil a trip, so be honest about the way you’re feeling. If anyone gets snappy, forgive and forget immediately – and always apologise if you’re the grump of the group.

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10. Be considerate and self aware

When it comes to maintaining a good group dynamic, basic courtesies go a long way – and taking extra care of each other (without fussing) will give you the warm and fuzzies. Make sure you’ve got the fundamentals covered, such as doing your fair share of washing up and collecting the morning croissants, then go the extra mile by keeping tabs on hydration levels and sunscreen top ups, or volunteering to drive.

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My 9 Tips to Survive Traveling with Friends (and Stay Friends)

Written by Becca

Updated on May 15th, 2024

Traveling with friends is way easier than it looks! Here’s my advice to anyone traveling in a group of friends, for what to expect and how to avoid issues.

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• Assume that someone will become the ringleader
• Bring up your desires as early as possible
• Talk about the group’s spending and budgets
• Allow the group to break up into sub-groups
• Beware of couples vs. non-couples
• Allow yourself to pull out of the trip!
• Feel free to take time for yourself
• Sense if any friendships need repairing
• Reflect afterward how the trip could’ve been improved

The first time I traveled with a group of best friends, it went so poorly that I swore I would never travel with a group of my friends again. The “ick” for me in traveling with groups of my friends is that someone becomes the decision-maker, everyone else has to follow, and if you’re not down for this, you’re not going to have a good time.

After this trip, and other trips with friends, I’ve come up for some guidelines that can help everyone survive and stay friends even if they have some conflicts.

If you want to see more advice, read into my experience-inspired tips here.

Assume that someone will become the ringleader

There’s always that one person who has a “leader” sort of aura to them. It was probably the friend who came up with the idea for the trip in the first place. This rings true in my experience of the rental house that seven of my friends and I went to, at an Airbnb in the Hudson Valley of New York .

The ringleader is a natural leader. This person may be your close friend, or even a best friend. Either way, this person probably is doing all the organizing, or delegating it. You can go along with this, or interject and try to pave the way for some people in the group who have “minority opinions,” in order to get heard.

Regardless, if this person is you, congrats! You’ll be the natural leader among your friends and most of the decision-making will be what you want out of the trip. Everyone else can follow.

For the trip I went on, the leader was NOT me, even though I like being a leader.

Bring up your desires as early as possible

Like how I mentioned my one friend was the naturally-elected ringleader, that person also got into planning food with one more person. Everyone was allowed to chime in and edit the Google sheet, but eventually the people with the cars did the shopping and everyone paid them back.

For me, well, this is pretty specific, but I’m the gluten-free person and usually I stay hyper-focused on gluten-free travel . In taking a trip with my very best friends, everyone knew my limitations, and shopped for me best they could. They did a great job! But there’s always going to be something that doesn’t work out.

The way to go into having your “wants” taken into account is to speak up early. Mention something specific, like a vegan product you want. Maybe you can order a set of groceries to the house so that it arrives when you do. Maybe you can bring your own special hot sauce, or nut-free spread, or whatever it is that you need, that other people may not understand.

Bringing up what you want on the early side makes sure everyone goes into the trip knowing that you would like to be listened to, if you’re not the one in control.

Talk about the group’s spending and budgets

One of the hot-button topics for me when traveling with a group is how the money gets spent. When I’ve traveled with other people, whether it’s large groups or even small groups of friends, I find that no two people have the exact same opinion about travel money.

Here’s an example. I don’t drink beer, and the group is probably going to buy a few cases of beer, split the cost and call it a day. If someone thinks of the fact that I won’t have any (and shouldn’t be responsible for splitting it), they may let me know. Otherwise, I have to speak up.

Next, there’s the fact that a lot of people go into trips with friends not wanting to look cheap. They actually might want to save money while traveling . Some friends in the group may already feel cash-strapped after splitting the cost of a vacation rental or beach house, while some do not care.

Regardless, feel free to talk about your budget and expectation, either with a trusted member of the group, or with the “leader.” It pays to speak up, rather than get frustrated and have anger toward the situation about how things are going with the group’s spending.

Allow the group to break up into sub-groups

Over the years, with lots of different types of traveling in friend groups (and even groups of strangers), I’ve come to get really familiar with how to make the most of group travel .

People naturally have different opinions and desires, so any group larger than three is going to break into smaller groups and factions.

In a group of 8, there’s going to be the people who want to eat all the time, and those who don’t. There’s going to be the people who get cabin fever being holed up in the Airbnb, and those who want to drive to the nearby town or beach.

There’s going to be those who want to go to bed early, and those who want to maximize every minute spent together, going to bed super late. (I’ve been in the “go to bed early” group.)

Letting the group break up into smaller groups is natural, and cannot be stopped. The best way to go into this is to naturally experience the group of friends getting chopped up, and seeing where you fall or want to fall.

Beware of couples vs. non-couples

The first big group trip I went on was with seven friends, like I mentioned. What I haven’t mentioned yet is that six of these seven people were in couples with each other (three couples). One other friend and I were single. Who do you think had to sleep on air mattresses or sofas?

Yes, that’s right: while the three couples all got their own private bedrooms, my other single friend and I had to sleep in the vacation house living room. I’m fine with this, usually, and I’m happy to sleep anywhere: it just felt kind of excluded to be shafted like this. It kind of made us feel like “others.”

Allow yourself to pull out of the trip!

If you sense at any point that the trip planning is not what you expected, make up an excuse to get out of going on the trip.

That’s right: unless you’ve all already put in funds and reserved a vacation rental or hotel block, you are still free to choose not to go.

If you have a gut feeling that the planning stress would translate into trip stress, or if there’s one person who’s giving bad vibes, consider if not going would be better than going on this trip with friends. Maybe traveling solo is your jam instead, and that is OK!

Feel free to take time for yourself

When I get overwhelmed, I sometimes like to go off by myself for a walk, or do something like go swimming, if I’m near water.

If you are feeling like the trip isn’t going how you thought it would, or if everyone’s being intense, or too loud, or doing things you don’t want to do, it might be time to take a little break.

Depending on where you are, this could mean taking a walk in the neighborhood of a vacation rental, or taking a walk on a beach, a lake or in a forest. It might even mean just going to a hotel lobby or the hotel gym or pool, to blow off steam.

You don’t even have to phrase the fact that you want to go take a solo break as needing “me time.” You can just say, “Hey, you know what? I heard the hotel has a great pool, and I’m going to go check it out for all of us.” No one will bat an eye.

Sense if any friendships need repairing

This is the part about “staying friends.” While I was great friends with everyone on my “friends trip” at the vacation rental, I wanted to put the occurrences of the trip aside and leave my friendships unaffected.

This meant putting myself in someone else’s shoes and thinking, “If I had to buy food for 8 people from Costco and make everyone happy, how would I do it?” and “Did I overreact to that thing that happened?”

While I was a bit bitter after this trip that my hard-earned money had gone to a friends trip that I didn’t 100% enjoy, I took a little break from everyone and came back refreshed a few weeks later, with the details of the trip behind me.

Reflect afterward how the trip could’ve been improved

After you get back from a trip with friends, reflect on the logistics that unfolded. For me, this was, “Why did I wind up so upset during some of this trip?” and, “How can I have better experiences traveling with friends in the future?”

Look at the trip objectively, and see if issues stemmed from the person who was doing the organizing, or maybe, how you reacted to surprises and unexpected tensions (if any).

Of course, if the trip went swimmingly well, you can do it again soon!

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75 Best Quotes About Traveling With Friends

Because your epic adventures together call for the perfect saying.

It’s no secret that traveling can open your eyes to new experiences, cultures and perspectives. What can make those memorable journeys even better? A companion, of course! Traveling with friends can enhance trips in unimaginable ways. For starters, they can be your personal photographer when selfies won’t suffice. That’s what friends are for, right ?

Exploring the world together can create enlightening experiences that you will look back on for years to come. But, before you embark on your next adventure, we’ve rounded up some of the best traveling with friends quotes to get you excited about the trips that you have yet to take.

From short and sweet to deep and meaningful, these quotes will boost your anticipation for your future travels. If you’ve taken trips together in the past, these travel quotes can help you reflect and reminisce. Text them in your special group chat or post as captions on Instagram . Regardless of how you share them, these quotes and messages are sure to resonate with your travel buddies.

No matter if you’re going with one friend or a group of your closest buds, traveling with friends presents an opportunity to strengthen bonds while having fun. So, pack your bags and get ready to create memories that will last a lifetime.

• “ Sharing adventures means enjoying them 100% more .” – Anonymous
• “ There are no strangers in this world, only friends I haven’t met yet. ” – William Butler Yeats
• “Friends make everything better, vacations included! ” — Anonymous
• “ A friend may be waiting behind a stranger’s face .” – Maya Angelou
• “ Traveling with a friend is like stepping into a storybook adventure together.” – Unknown
• “It’s not the destination, it’s the journey” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
• “Travel far, travel wide, but always travel with a friend by your side. ” – Unknown
• “ Just as the stars shine brighter in the night sky, so do friendships glow stronger amidst the wonders of the world discovered together .” – Unknown
• “ As the road stretches out before us, I’m grateful for the company of my best friend, knowing that no matter where we end up, the journey together is what truly matters. ” – Unknown
• “ No matter where our journey takes us, friendship will always be our guiding light. ” —Anonymous
• “ I can speak to my soul only when the two of us are off exploring deserts or cities or mountains or roads. ” – Paulo Coelho
• “Good company on a journey makes the way seem shorter.” — Izaak Walton
• “A good friend listens to your adventures. A best friend makes them with you.” — Unknown
• “A journey is best measured in friends rather than miles.” — Tim Cahill
• “No adventure is complete without you by my side.” — Unknown
• “Friends that travel together, stay together.” — Unknown
• “It doesn’t matter where you’re going — it’s who you go with that makes it fun!” — Unknown
• “As soon as I saw you, I knew a grand adventure was about to happen.” — Winnie The Pooh.
• “Life was meant for great adventures and close friends." — Unknown
• “You can pack for every occasion, but a good friend will always be the best thing you could bring!” — Unknown
• "We all have that one friend who is either on a road-trip or planning a road-trip or thinking about a road-trip or talking to people who are on road-trip or posting quotes about road-trip." — Crestless Wave
• “It’s the friends we meet along the way that help us appreciate the journey.” — Unknown
• “You never know where life will take you, but it will always be better with friends.” —Unknown
• “We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” — Robert Louis Stevenson
• “The tans will fade but the memories will last forever.” — Unknown
• “Wherever it is you may be, it is your friends who make your world.” — Chris Bradford
• ​​“When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.” — Unknown
• “If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” — African Proverb
• “A good trip is an even better one with your bestie.” — Unknown
• “The more I traveled the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends” —Shirley MacLaine
• “Embarking on new adventures is a million times better with close pals.” — Unknown
• “Life was meant for great adventures and close friends.” —Unknown
• “I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” —Mark Twain
• “Adventure awaits — all you need is your best buddy to make it a reality.” — Unknown

• “Life is a beach, enjoy the waves.” — Unknown
• “Frozen drinks are better with friends.” — Unknown
• “With friends by your side, every journey becomes an opportunity to discover the beauty of the world and the depths of your bond.” — Unknown
• “If you go looking for a friend, you’re going to find they’re very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere.” — Zig Ziglar
• “On the road, strangers become friends, sharing stories and laughter, creating bonds that last beyond the journey.” — Unknown
• “ The best way to travel is to always pack light, with the exception of a friend . ” —Anonymous
• " If you want to have fun, bring a friend.” — Unknown
• “ Nothing makes the journey more enjoyable than a friend who can make you laugh.” — Unknown
• “ I soon realized that no journey carries one far unless, as it extends into the world around us, it goes an equal distance into the world within .” —Lillian Smith
• “ In the tapestry of life, friends are the threads that weave together our most cherished travel stories .” – Unknown
• “ May your travels be filled with the magic of friendship, the wonder of new experiences, and the warmth of shared memories that last a lifetime .” —Unknown
• " T raveling the world is great, but nothing tops going around the world with a friend ." —Unknown
• “ The beach and my besties are all I need to have a good time." —Unknown
• "Travel memories we make alone may fade, but those made with friends will last a lifetime." — Unknown
• “Away is a place where it’s not about the money you spend. It’s about the moments you share.” —Unknown
• “Just grab a friend and take a ride, together upon the open road.” —The Goofy Movie
• Life is about doing things that don’t suck with people who don’t suck.” —Unknown
• “I would like to travel the world with you twice. Once, to see the world. Twice, to see the way you see the world.” —Unknown
• “Everyone needs this friend that calls and says, “Get dressed, we’re going on an adventure.” —Unknown
• “Getting to know new people and gaining new friends is one of life’s greatest pleasures. So, conquer your fears and get out there.” —Tony Clark
• “Traveling with friends is always better.” —Unknown
• “No road is long with good company.” —Turkish proverb
• "Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." —Anais Nin
• "In life, it’s not where you go – it’s who you travel with.” — Charles M. Schulz
• “Exploring new places is always sweeter with your favorite people.” — Unknown
• “Getting lost with you is a risk I’m always willing to take.”— Unknown
• “As with any journey, whom you travel with is more important than the destination.” —Unknown
• “At the end of the day, your feet should be dirty, your hair messy and your eyes sparkling.” —Shanti
• “May your adventures bring you closer together, even as they take you far away from home.” — Trenton Lee Stewart
• “I get a friend to travel with me… I need somebody to bring me back to who I am. It’s hard to be alone.” —Leonardo DiCaprio
• “Travel should make friendships stronger and memories sweeter.” —Unknown
• “Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.” —Ernest Hemingway
• “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” — Thelma & Louise
• “One of the great things about travel is that you find out how many good, kind people there are.” —Edith Wharton
• “We are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.” — Paul Coelho
• “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and thirst for adventure.” —Unknown
• “Nothing makes a good trip more memorable than experiencing it with your best friends.” —Unknown
• “Traveling with a pal can be the foundation for a lifelong friendship.” —Unknown
• “Good times and crazy friends make the best memories.” —Unknown
• “The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way.” —Unknown
• “Don’t be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends.”— Richard Bach

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Friends Trip Captions for Instagram

They say that best friends who travel together, stay together. Honestly, I couldn’t agree more.

It’s not easy finding someone you get along with who also shares the same passion for travel. And this is especially true the older you get. So when you do, make sure to treasure them.

If your friend group needs a little nudge, these travel with friends quotes  will make you wanna pack your bags ASAP!

Best Friends Trip Quotes

• Nothing makes a good trip more memorable than experiencing it with your best friends.
• Getting lost with you is a risk I’m always willing to take.
• We’d rather have a passport full of stamps than a house full of stuff.
• The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way.
• Good times and crazy friends make the best memories.
• My favorite place in the world is next to you.
• The view is better when it’s shared with good friends.
• Exploring new places is always sweeter with your favorite people.
• Life is about doing things that don’t suck with people who don’t suck.
• “In life, it’s not where you go – it’s who you travel with.” – Charles M. Schulz.
• I would like to travel the world with you twice. Once, to see the world. Twice, to see the way you see the world.
• Travel should make friendships stronger and memories sweeter.  
• “We have nothing to lose and a world to see.” – Rainie Rainie Navarro.
• There is a whole world out there. Pack your backpack, your best friend, and go.
• You can pack for every occasion, but a good friend will always be the best thing you could bring!
• We made our travel dreams into plans and into reality.

Short Travel Quotes with Friends

• Together is the best place to be.
• Together is our favorite place to be.
• My travel family.
• #SquadGoals
• Friends that travel together, stay together.

• “Any day spent with you is my favourite day.” – A.A. Milne.
• Happier with you.
• We have nothing to lose, and a world to see.
• Making the best memories along the way.
• “Good friends follow you anywhere.” – Winnie the Pooh.
• Let’s travel together and get lost in beautiful places.
• Let’s find some beautiful place to get lost together.
• You can’t do epic stuff with basic people.
• Travel is better with friends.
• Traveling is better with friends.
• Our wanderlust made us do it.
• Tired feet, happy hearts.
• Experiences with friends > things.
• Full-time travelers, full-time friends.
• A good trip is an even better one with your bestie.
• Traveling is the ultimate friendship test.
• My favorite travel companion.
• The “she” to my “nanigans.”
• The world is ours to explore.

Adventure with Friends Quotes

• The adventure begins with good company.
• My favorite thing is going on adventures with you.  
• Everyone needs this friend that calls and says, “Get dressed, we’re going on an adventure.”
• Friendship is the compass that leads us on adventures.
• Life was meant for good friends and great adventures.
• Oh darling, let’s be adventurers.
• Every day is an adventure with you.
• Adventure more, worry less.
• Friends. Backpacks. Adventure. Repeat.
• No adventure is complete without you by my side.
• Not all girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice… Some girls are made of adventure and wine and all things fine.
• Sharing adventures means enjoying them 100% more.
• Embarking on new adventures is a million times better with close pals.
• With the right people, every day has the potential for adventure.
• A good friend listens to your adventures. Your best friend makes them with you.
• “As soon as I saw you, I knew a grand adventure was about to happen.” – Winnie the Pooh.
• Adventure awaits – all you need is your best buddy to make it a reality.
• “Have your adventures, make your mistakes, and choose your friends poorly – all these make for great stories.” – Chuck Palahniuk.
• Life was meant for great adventures and close friends.
• “May your adventures bring you closer together, even as they take you far away from home.” – Trenton Lee Stewart.
• Sometimes all you need is a great friend and thirst for adventure.
• A daring adventure with your best friends might be just what the doctor ordered.

Hiking with Friends Quotes

• Life is better with friends and hiking boots.
• Friends that hike together, stick together.
• Happiness is hiking with friends.

• We are wild and free.
• Life is too short to not go on epic hikes with your favorite people.
• Let’s hike until our legs give out and our souls are satisfied.
• It’s not how many miles you walk, it’s how many smiles you share.
• Nothing beats a good hike with good friends.
• Friends don’t let friends hike alone.
• The trails may be tough, but the friendships are tougher.
• You keep me safe, I’ll keep you wild.
• The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way, especially on hikes with friends.
• “Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” – Albert Camus.
• “We are all travellers in the wilderness of the world and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” – Robert Louis Stevenson.
• Life is an adventure, and hiking with friends is the best way to experience it.

Road Trip with Friends Quotes

• Happiness is a car, the open road, and a best friend.
• We’re going on an ad-van-ture!
• The best road trips are fueled by good food and even better conversations.
• “A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.” – Tim Cahill.
• Living our best lives on the open road.
• Friends who road trip together, stay together. Or at least until someone has to go to the bathroom.
• “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” – Thelma & Louise.
• “No road is long with good company.” – Turkish proverb.

• On the road with my ride or die crew.
• I need a good road trip with friends.
• “Just grab a friend and take a ride, together upon the open road.” – The Goofy Movie.
• Some roads aren’t meant to be travelled alone.  
• Good friends and endless highways.
• We’re having a wheel-y nice time!
• Friends, road trip, and camp fire. That’s all he dreamed of.
• The best thing about going on a road trip with friends is the memories you make along the way.

Need more road trip caption ideas? I got you!

Journey with Friends Quotes

• “Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter.” – Izaak Walton.  
• No journey is too far with you by my side.  
• A journey well shared is a journey well enjoyed.
• I’ll share my journey with you every time.
• The journey starts with us.
• It’s the friends we meet along the way that help us appreciate the journey.
• When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.
• As with any journey, whom you travel with is more important than the destination.
• “We are travellers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.” – Paul Coelho.

Vacation with Friends Quotes

• Let’s always vacay together.
• Friends, sun, sand, and sea – that sounds like a good summer to me.
• Good times and tan lines.
• Life by the water is always better, especially with a few good friends in tow.

Funny Travel Buddies Quotes & Puns

• If traveling was free, you would never see us again.
• All we need is a 3-month vacation four times a year. That’s really not asking for much.
• “Good friends pee together, but best friends puke together!” – Akansh Malik.
• Bring a compass. It’s awkward when you have to eat your friends.
• Girls just wanna have sun. – “Girls Just Want To Have Fun” by Cyndi Lauper.
• Camping with friends is time well tent.
• “I have found that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain.
• “As long as we don’t die, this is gonna be one hell of a story.” – John Green.
• You’ll never end up sitting next to a stranger on a long haul flight, train or bus journey.
• Us working our fifth summer job so we can travel together again soon.

Other Travel with Friends Captions for Instagram

• Traveling with friends means bringing your home everywhere.
• Your company makes my backpack feel lighter.
• “If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far go together.” – African proverb.
• Together we’ll travel far and then a bit further.
• The best things happen outside of our comfort zones.
• Everyone should believe in something. I believe I should travel with you.
• Having a best friend is like having your own little corner of the world to escape to.
• Wherever it is you may be, it is your friends who make your world.
• With my other side on the other side of the world.

• Is there anything better than being with you? Being with you on the other side of the world.
• You and me, we are more than friends. We are like a small travel gang!
• It doesn’t matter where you’re going, it’s who you have beside you.
• Traveling with a pal can be the foundation for a lifelong friendship.
• “We take photos as a return ticket to a moment otherwise gone.” – Katie Thurmes.
• “Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.” – John Evelyn.
• You never really travel alone. The world is full of friends waiting to get to know you.
• It doesn’t matter where you’re going – it’s who you go with that makes it fun!
• Experiences you share with those dear to you are a treasure that lasts a lifetime.
• Away is a place where it’s not about the money you spend. It’s about the moments you share.

Famous Quotes About Traveling with Friends

• “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” – Anais Nin.
• “There is an unspoken bond you create with the friends you travel with.” – Kristen Sarah.
• “Travel has a way of removing the gaps in your friendship timeline.” – Christina Pfeiffer.  
• “Come with me where dreams are born and time is never planned.” – Peter Pan.
• “Traveling in the company of those we love is home in motion.” – Leigh Hunt.
• “Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.” – Ernest Hemingway.
• “Will you come travel with me? Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?” – Charles Bukowski.
• “In the end, what you do isn’t going to be nearly as interesting or important as who you did it with.” – John Green.
• “The more I travelled, the more I realized that fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.” – Shirley MacLaine.
• “The fastest way to make a friend for life is to travel with a stranger.” – Christina Pfeiffer.
• “We wander for distraction, but we travel for fulfillment.” – Hilaire Belloc.
• “Travel sparks our imagination, feeds our curiosity, and reminds us how much we all have in common.” – Deborah Lloyd.
• “To the world, you may be just one person. But to one person, you may be the world.” – Brandi Snyder.
• “Wherever it is you may be, it is your friends who make your world.” – Chris Bradford.
• “Here’s to all the places we went. And here’s to all the places we’ll go.” – John Green.

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How to Travel with Friends: Tips and Etiquette

Tips & Resources , Blog / August 25, 2022 by Monica / Leave a Comment

Traveling with friends is not always easy. With different preferences, personalities, and priorities, things can go awry quickly! If you are wondering how to travel with friends, this tips and etiquette guide will set you up for a smooth trip. Let’s go!

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Those of you who have been here for a while know that I am a big fan of solo travel . I believe that it is the best way to facilitate personal growth, find your strength, become more humble, and appreciate the planet. Without a doubt, solo travel has shaped me into the person I am today.

However, not even I travel solo 100% of the time. When I look back at my travels over the years, some of my favorite trips have included friends , significant others, and family. And, while many are a breeze, if I’m being transparent, they have not all gone smoothly.

Anytime you share a trip with another human being, there is a potential for misunderstandings. We all have our own unique perspectives, priorities, and preferences on how to have a great trip.

In order to avoid major clashes – or worse, the loss of a friendship – I thought I would share some insight on how to travel with friends. These tips and suggestions will help you to have a relaxed and problem-free trip from beginning to end.

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I’m gonna be transparent here – I’ve had some unforgettable and really special experiences on my friend-trips. But, I have also experienced a few… interesting clashes in the past while traveling with friends.

Mixing expectations, budgets, and personality types is not always an easy feat. In fact, I’ve heard quite a few stories where friendships were permanently ruined after traveling together!

Thankfully that last sentence does not apply to me. Whew ! However, I’ve definitely had small clashes along the way with the people I care about. In my opinion, who hasn’t? It’s part of being human and it’s normal. The trick is how you deal with it.

This little guide is going to outline some tips and etiquette to consider before traveling with friends. My goal is to help you and your pals have a (mostly) stress free trip that will leave you with loads of memories and zero resentment.

Traveling with Friends: Pros and Cons

1. You’ll have memories that you’ll talk about for a lifetime.

I still talk about a decade-old trip to Mexico that I took with my bestie. We reminisce arily regularly about all the things that went wrong on that trip!

The “cold tub” (read: the hot tub that didn’t work the entire time that we were there.) Or, when the receptionist told us the wrong time for a pre-booked beautiful dinner cruise… and when the boat left without us, they offered us a spot on the loud party boat instead. Or, the Australians we met out to dinner one night and traipsed around the busy streets with.

The memories are simply golden. With just a half-a-sentence, we can have each other cracking up about something we experienced on that trip.

There is something so special about takin trips with friends. The mishaps, the sunsets, the funny moments and fond memories are truly beautiful – and the reminiscing never gets old.

2. It is cheaper.

There is no denying it – travel with friends is cheaper. By splitting the cost of rooms, of taxis, of Ubers, and even food or attractions when applicable, you can save mega moolah.

Sometimes a hotel room will cost the same whether there are one or two people sleeping there. If you were solo, you would have to foot the bill yourself. When you travel with a friend, you each end up paying only have of the price.

And, if you’re traveling with a larger group, prices can get even cheaper per person, too.

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3. You might see sights you wouldn’t have seen on your own.

You may end up having awesome experiences that you wouldn’t necessarily have had otherwise.

For example, let’s say you prefer to hike, but your friend is all about museums. You might spend one day on the trails and then spend the next day museum hopping. And, you might be pleasantly surprised by trying out each others preferences!

You’ll likely leave your trip with a new insight or a postcard-worthy memory that you would not have even considered if you had gone without them.

This can apply to restaurants, hikes, museums, historical architecture, cathedrals, lakes – the list goes on and on. Two minds means two different sets of interests and potentially double the fun of new activities if you’re willing to try it out!

4. You have the chance to become closer friends.

Spending large quantities of time together can really cement a close friendship.

Yes – there will be loads of fun and goofy experiences. But, its the calm quiet nights when you might find yourselves really opening up to one another about life – whether it’s personal challenges or tough experiences or hope for the future.

When you find someone you travel well with, more time together usually means more bonding.

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1. You don’t have full control of the itinerary.

Yep, that’s right, say it with me – compromise .

You may need to include certain stops on the itinerary that you really don’t care for. Like, if your travel buddy is super into cafes but you can’t stand coffee. You’ll likely need to suck it up and wait in line with them while they buy their drink. (Yes, even in long lines.)

Or, if one of you needs to do a lot of souvenir shopping and the other could not care less. One of you will need to have some patience while the other finds the perfect gift or the perfect dress or the perfect journal. You get the idea.

The point is, when you travel with friends, there are bound to be times where one of you is waiting on the other while you finish your preferred activities.

2 You likely have different timing needs.

I’m personally very quick at getting ready in the morning. I do not need very long at all between waking up and getting out the door.

But, many people are the exact opposite. I can think of a few travel companions I have had who take a very long time to wake up, get ready, do their hair, make a coffee, eat some food, get dressed, blah blah blah. When I travel with someone in this category, I find myself with a lot of extra “sitting” time on my hands.

To avoid feeling antsy or “trapped” I usually try to have a book handy or use that time to check emails or download photos I’ve taken. Basically, I try and use that time productively rather than pester my friends to hurry. But yes, truth be told, if I was solo I’d rather be out the door much faster.

3. You have to consider each other’s budget.

This one can be tough, particularly if you are traveling with someone on a very different budget.

If you have a higher budget, you ether need to be ready to foot the bill for both of you, or you need to be willing to splurge less often than you’d like. Or, option three, do the more expensive activities solo.

If you have the lower budget, you need to be okay with the other(s) going extravagant without you – or come to some other compromise where no one feels like they’ve missed out terribly.

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So, How Should You Handle Things?

It can be tricky to travel with friends. After many experiences over the years, here is my best advice. Hopefully this will lead you and your group to a fulfilling vacation and a closer friendship!

1. Be direct.

I find it is better to be up front about issues if you see them as a real problem. It is much better to have a hard conversation than to have resentment build up during a trip.

Be direct but not rude when you need to talk something through. You are perfectly within your right to bring up concerns about sleep, budget, timing, diet, etc. Name your concern and explain why you’re worried.

And if you are on the receiving end of that directness, listen . Don’t laugh, don’t dismiss it, and don’t get defensive. Facing issues head on will lead to much better results than letting resentment build.

2. Determine the budget ahead of time.

Never have vague discussions like “I need to be frugal” or “I’m gonna go all out!” The definitions of those two statements can be very different from one person to another.

Rather, speak very specifically about what each of you wants to spend on accommodation, transportation and food. Name dollar amounts for each category and talk ahead of time about what activities and events you are willing to pay for and which ones are not a good place for your dollars to go.

Things can get awkward fast if one of you wants to go all-inclusive and the other wants to live on rice and beans, and you never talked about it beforehand .

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3. Plan a loose itinerary together.

You don’t need to schedule every hour of the trip (frankly that sounds terrible to me), but you do need to have a conversation about what sights and places are a must-see for each of you.

This will get the conversation rolling about preferences and what you’d each like to spend money on. It’s always interesting to learn what things someone can’t live without experiencing and what they want to skip.

If you are headed to more than one location, this will also help you decide how many days you need to allow for each place.

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4. Determine each other’s travel style.

This is a different aspect than planning the itinerary, although it can be related. I would definite “travel style” as the way in which someone prefers to spend their vacay days.

For example. Some people are more adventurous and want to be hiking and skydiving and climbing mountains! For others that might sound like a nightmare. Perhaps they prefer spa days and relaxing by the pool.

In general, friends who have similar travel styles will have an easier time together, because they have similar preferences on how to spend their time. It’s not impossible to balance two dissimilar travel styles, but it does take itinerary-planning and compromise.

And honestly, that’s what this all comes down to – communication and compromise.

5. Schedule some “me” time.

If you are used to traveling solo, or if you just know that you will need alone time, this one is a biggie. Luckily, it’s quite easy to do.

If you’re with a group, decide in advance which activities you might opt out of to instead spend some time solo. Or, try waking up early for a solo yoga session on the beach. Or, you could simply put in earbuds and zone out poolside, away from the conversation. Still present, but in your own world.

I find all three of these to be great options for solo time even when with a large group. When I’m traveling one-on-one with someone, it’s not uncommon for me to enjoy a sunrise solo or get lost in a book rather than a conversation.

It’s all about balance.

And there you have it! Now you’re ready to grab your friends, book a trip, and come back even closer than when you left. Travel with friends can sometimes be tricky, but overall is a wonderful idea.

If you’re feeling nervous, or have had a bad experience in the past, I promise. These tips have got you covered.

Communicate, compromise, and find a balance between alone time and friend time. Your trip is bound to be unforgettable!

Okay, spill – what was the best and worst friend trips you have ever had? Let me know below!

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25 of the best travel quotes with friends

By: Author Sylvia

Posted on Last updated: May 11, 2022

Are you looking for the best travel quotes with friends? You came to the right place. 

For me, traveling is not laying on the beach sipping cocktails. Although that can sometimes be lots of fun and relaxing too.

For me traveling is all about seeking new adventures and making travel memories. And these adventures become even more fun when you can share them with a good friend.

That’s why I wanted to share this list with 25 of the best travel quotes with friends.

So they can inspire you to travel more and share adventures and memories with a good friend.

Let’s be honest.

A journey becomes even more beautiful when you can share it. 

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1.“Life was meant for great adventures and close friends.”

We start this list with one of my favorite travel with friends quotes because lets be honest, what do you need more in life than a good friend and a great adventure?

Our adventures brought us already to all 7 continents. One of the most memorable adventures we experienced was our cruise to Antarctica.   This is a continent that cannot be compared with anything else. 

But we also have great memories of our travels to Japan , Korea , and Borneo. 

Recently we discovered the Azores . At this moment we haven’t yet planned our next trip which is quite strange for us.

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Where is your next adventure taking you? 

2. “A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.”  – Tim Cahill

Although we’re not keen on organized tours or any other form of mass tourism, except the occasional cruise to spoil ourselves, we are no hermits. 

We love to socialize and we always have a great time when we meet locals or other travelers during our trips.

With social networks like Facebook, it’s easier than ever to stay in touch after your trip.

The locals were very sociable in the Azores but in bigger cities, it is often not as easy to make a connection. 

That’s why we love websites like HiHiGuide where you arrange private tours with locals in major cities around the world.

Such tours are really great to learn more about the city, the culture of the country and the habits of the people.

3. “I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain

This is so true.

While traveling together you learn to know someone’s flaws.

Spending 24 hours with someone can be quite challenging at times but it will also create memories that last for a lifetime. 

4. “There is a whole world out there. Pack your backpack, your best friend, and go.”

Although we don’t travel with a backpack anymore I definitely agree with this travel quote. 

Impulsive decisions are not always good but they can create really memorable vacations.

I still remember how we changed plans last-minute on a friend’s trip.  Initially, we wanted to stay close to home but because the weather was so bad we packed some clothes, jumped in the car and drove for several hours until we found some sun. 

We didn’t know where we were going but we had the best time.

The world is so big and there are so many places to discover that we’re always looking forward to our next trip. 

It seems like our bucket list is only getting longer…

5. “A good friend listens to your adventures. Your best friend makes them with you.”

This is one of my favorite best friend quotes. Nothing is better for friendship than making shared memories. 

It doesn’t necessarily need to be a long vacation.  You can just take your best friend on a city trip.  It will create a lifelong bond and years later you will still exchange great memories of your adventures together.

Which is the last adventure that you experienced and with whom?

6. “Friends that travel together, stay together.”

I do not fully agree with this traveling with this enjoying with friends quote. 

If you do not have the same idea about a vacation, it can sometimes be very disappointing to go on a trip with a friend.

Even to such an extent that this can put pressure on your friendship afterward.

So when you plan to go on a trip with friends, make good arrangements in advance about what you expect from the trip.

Good agreements make good friends and it will avoid that you or your friend will be disappointed and the dream journey turns into a nightmare.

7. “Sharing adventures means enjoying them 100% more.”

Everything is more fun in life if you can share it.

This is even psychologically proven. You’re more emotionally touched by the things you experience when a friend is going through the same experience.

All humans love to share their experiences. 

Ideally, with a friend who is traveling with you but it also explains why we love to share so many pictures of our trips on Instagram and Facebook.

8. “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and thirst for adventure.”

We certainly have thirst for adventure…

Kris and I dream about seeing polar bears in the wild, we have plans for an epic road trip through Australia and New Zealand, we still haven’t seen the northern lights and although we already spend a night in the desert we wonder how it would be to sleep under a starry sky instead of a tent …

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I can go on for hours. 

What adventures are still on your bucket list and more importantly with whom do you want to experience them? 

 9. “There is an unspoken bond you create with the friends you travel with.” – Kristen Sarah

When traveling together you make collective memories that are definitely creating a special bond.

I already had some amazing vacations with friends and I can for sure testify that traveling with friends is much more fun than traveling solo. 

I tend to enjoy the places I visit and the things I do much more when I can share them with my friends.

Just think about some amazing experiences you had in the past.  There’s a big chance that this was a moment that some of your closest companions were at your side.

Being 24/7 with each other can be challenging at times but it will also bring you closer together.

10. “You can pack for every occasion, but a good friend will always be the best thing you could bring!” 

This is a perfect friendship travel quote to write on a small card and give to your best friend as a sign of your friendship.

11. “True friends never apart maybe in distance never in heart.” – Helen Keller

I have a few friends that I don’t see that often, but when we see each other we always have the best time and it feels like we saw each other just last week.

12. “If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far go together.”

This is supposed to be an African proverb but it’s not sure in what context it was originally used. 

Today it is often used in a business context referring to successful companies that are the result of true teamwork.

It does apply to travel as well. 

I don’t mind traveling solo if it’s just for a few days and my itinerary is jam-packed for each and every minute. 

I’m however reluctant to leave on a long trip without any friends. 

I think loneliness would start to creep in really fast.

13. “When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.” 

Life is not always perfect, inevitable you will encounter some bumps in the roads.

It’s good to have a friend by your side. 

Not only for the setbacks but also during the good times. 

True friends share your successes and are also there when things don’t go so well.

Good friends are priceless and must be cherished.

14. “Only the people you don’t know well enough seem normal. Every person you know well enough is odd, weird, and different. This is called friendship!”

I just laughed when I read this quote and at the same time asked myself whether my best friends would think so too.

Maybe I should ask them or maybe I rather don’t know. 😀

The question is whether they would dare to answer this honestly but I think that true friends should be able, to tell the truth and tell each other just how crazy they think you’re. 😀

15. “There are no strangers in this world, only friends I haven’t met yet.”

This is a great attitude that I absolutely agree with and try to apply daily. 

If you approach strangers in this way and you set negative prejudices aside you will often be positively surprised. 

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16. “We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world & the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” –  Robert Louis Stevenson

This is so true.  The world is such an intriguing and complex environment.  When we are young we have our parents to guide us but then there comes a point when we’re on our own.

Even though everybody wants to be independent there’re always moments when you need to rely on somebody else.  Sometimes we are just looking for some good advice, at other times we need some help.

This is especially true when you’re abroad in a country you don’t know with a language you don’t speak. 

We traveled independently through China and we must agree that we underestimated how challenging this would be.  We often were completely helpless.  There were no English-speaking ticket offices in the train stations and to our surprise we didn’t meet that many people who spoke English during our trip.  

But those people who spoke English really did anything they possibly could to help us.  They never took advantage of us, they never asked anything in return. 

They just seemed happy to help us.

They acted as an honest friend and that’s something I will never forget about our trip.

17. “The more I traveled, the more I realized fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.” – Shirley MacLaine

If there’s one thing that I learned from my trips it is that most people are helpful and will be happy to help if they can.  This is how we are born. 

Unfortunately, some people make abuse of this and we become cautious.  When a stranger asks us for help we sometimes tend to make something of it. It’s a pity that our helpful attitude is challenged by the abuse of a few.

If we could set our fear aside we would be able to make more friends.

18. “Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter.” –  Izaak Walton

As they say, time flies when you are having fun. 

19. “Life is about doing things that don’t suck with people who don’t suck.”

Wouldn’t it be fun if all days were like this?

This is a little too good to be true but the proverb is absolutely true.  We should make the best of each and every other day.  

That means that we should spend our time on things that make us happy and that we should surround ourselves with people that make us better.

Or like they say in another proverb: “Life is too short to be anything but happy!”.

20. “Everyone needs this friend that calls and says, “Get dressed, we’re going on an adventure.”

Sometimes you just need that little push.

Although I’m always looking forward to a new adventure I notice how I sometimes postpone the booking. 

And the more I postpone it the bigger the resistance becomes to finally take the step.

That’s why I’m so happy with my friends who are always ready to join me on my next adventures.  

Afterward, I always wonder why I was so reluctant at first because it always turned out to be so much fun.  And it is of course always so much more fun with your friends around.

How about you? Do you prefer to stay at home or are you the person that calls and says get dressed we”re going on an adventure? 

21. “Travel is better with friends.”

This is certainly true, or at least 99% of the cases.  I personally only had great experiences during the trips with my friends and so does my husband.

But everybody knows some horror stories about friendships or relationships being destroyed during holidays. 

Don’t let this scare you.  As long as you make good arrangements in advance you will have the best time of your life.

Do you know such a horror story? 

22. “As with any journey, whom you travel with is more important than the destination.”

The experience is indeed largely made by the person with whom you share it. 

The destination can be extremely beautiful but the experience can be completely ruined if you’re there in bad company.

And this proverb also has a second meaning. 

Traveling is not only about checking things off the bucket list. 

It’s also about enjoying the moments and sharing them with those you love.

23. “Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all people cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.” – Maya Angelou

This traveling with friends quote reminds me of a lot of a story we experienced when we were traveling through Vietnam a few years ago. 

We were hiking and accompanied by a local tribe that didn’t speak English.

Suddenly one of our fellow hikers slipped out in the mud and she desperately tried not to fall. It was really funny to see how she alternately was gliding forward and backward. 

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Once she had regained her balance everybody started laughing including the ladies of the local tribe. 

This really shows how all people are the same and even when we come from completely different backgrounds, and we don’t speak the same language, we still have more in common than we think.

This event even broke the ice. 

Before this happened we had no contact with the local tribe but when we continued onward we were helping each other to cross the muddy parts and we tried to do some basic conversation.

24. “You and me, we are more than friends. We are like a small travel gang!”

This is one of the most beautiful travel with friends captions that I found and it is absolutely true. 

Once you’ve gone on a vacation with a friend and you have that special bond you really form a small travel gang. 

Who’s in your travel gang?

25. “I get a friend to travel with me… I need somebody to bring me back to who I am. It’s hard to be alone.” –  Leonardo DiCaprio

I completely understand Leonardo. 

Humans are social beings and while some need more social contact than others we all love to be among other people. 

Spending time with friends will help relax those with stressful lives.

I had a great time putting together this list with travel memories quotes.  It reminded me again that every once in a while I need to spend time with my friends, preferably in an exotic vacation spot.  

I also decided that I will use one of these quotes every once in a while to show them how much I appreciate our friendship.

I hope that these quotes will help you to do the same. 

Looking for more inspiring travel quotes, check out these vacation travel quotes. 

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Travelling With Friends: 25 Problems, 10 Rules & 12 Excuses

You’ve woken up in the AirBnb and it looks like it’s been hit by a bomb. It’s already midday and your buddies are lying all over the place. Wet towels are slopped on the floor and empty beer cans cover the table. You never realised that travelling with friends would carry so many problems.

There are dozens of disadvantages and problems when travelling with family and friends, including: clashing personalities, different budgets, different levels of cleanliness, different diets, different interests, extended waiting times, sharing facilities, assigning beds, and lack of opportunity to socialise.

In this article, I’ll share the 25 problems I’ve faced when travelling with friends and family. I’ll also share 10 rules you can use when travelling with friends to ensure that you stay friends.

Plus, I’ll provide you with 12 excuses to get out of a trip last minute. And teach you how to tell someone they are not invited on a trip.

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After taking 10+ group trips, I’ve compiled the ultimate list of problems and disadvantages to travelling with friends and family.

Here are 25 ways that a vacation can ruin a friendship.

1. Sharing a stinking bathroom

I hate using the bathroom when travelling with friends.

There are wet towels all over the floor. Hair clogging the drain. Skid marks in the toilet bowl. Someone knocking on the door asking how long you’ll be.

And after waiting 3 hours for your turn to shower, all the hot water is gone.

When you travel alone, you get to enjoy the privacy and cleanliness of your own hotel or motel bathroom (unless you’re backpacking and using shared hostel bathrooms).

2. Romantic conflicts 

‘I saw him first,’ says one friend. ‘Yeah but he likes me more,’ says the other friend.

If you are travelling with friends who are single and ready to mingle, I can almost guarantee that there’ll be fights over love interests.

And when one friend reigns victorious and hooks up with that love interest, the other friend is left heartbroken (meaning they’ll be sulking and bitter for the rest of the trip).

When you travel alone, you do not have to compete with your friends to win people’s hearts. That’s why solo travellers have more sex than the average person !

3. Clingy partners 

‘Hang on, I’ve just got to use the hotel Wifi to message my boyfriend before we go out.’ 

5 hours later…

If you’re travelling with a friend who is deep into a committed relationship, they’ll spend hours each day messaging their partner back home. And you’ll be left lying on your bed, feeling sick as you listen to their lovey-dovey conversations.

When you travel alone, you don’t have to wait around for friends who say, ‘My partner doesn’t want me doing this or that.’

4. Bossy b*tches and catfights

Not all of the friends that you travel with will get along – especially when forced to share accommodation for a week.

Some of your friends will be bossy. They’ll be the ones barking orders and dictating:

• What you are doing today;
• Where you’ll be eating;
• When you’ll be where;
• Who does what (e.g. cleaning, cooking, booking the taxi, etc.).

At some stage, one of your friends will snap back – no grown adult likes being told what to do. That’s when all hell breaks loose, the catfights begin and the friend group dissolves into warring factions for the rest of the trip.

Or you could just travel solo and plan your own itinerary based on your own interests!

5. Wildly different budgets 

Some of your friends will be rolling in cash and wanting a luxury vacation – booking into 5-star resorts, dining at Michelin restaurants and splashing out on high-end retail shopping. 

Other friends will be on a tighter budget and looking to save wherever they can – sharing a dorm room with 12 strangers, preparing all their own meals and sticking to a strict itinerary.

You’ve got to decide how much you’re willing to spend. Then you’ve got to convince your friends to stick to a similar travel budget (easier said than done).

The beauty of solo travel is that you and you alone get to determine your budget on a day-by-day basis!

6. Heavy haulers and super spreaders 

There’s always one friend that hauls along a heavy suitcase full of unnecessary crap. You’ve got to wait around for them whilst they drag it from the airport and take up all the space in the taxi or shuttle bus.

When you do finally arrive at your accommodation, that same friend flips open their case and starts spreading their clothes, cosmetics, snacks and knick-knacks all around the room.

You find yourself tip-toeing between t-shirts and pants on the floor. Your bed ends up covered in their towels and linen. And where are you supposed to put your toothbrush and cosmetics when there’s no space on the bathroom counter?

It feels like you’re living with a goblin. Not to mention the anxiety you feel when it comes time to check out and your friends’ stuff is still scattered willy-nilly.

7. Dividing the good, the bad and the ugly bedrooms

You and your friends have all paid equal amounts for your accommodation. But when you arrive, some friends run to reserve the best bedroom whilst the rest of you are left sleeping on the pull-out couch. 

If you’re sharing an Airbnb or a rental whilst travelling with your friends, each bedroom will vary. 

Some bedrooms will be spacious and airy with an ensuite bathroom, charging points, wardrobes and a TV. Other bedrooms will be poky and poorly furnished. Some of you may even end up sleeping on the floor in the living room.

Not to mention, some of your friends may be snorers (I hope you brought earplugs). 

When you travel alone, you get to choose your accommodation. Whether you want to stay in a hostel dorm, a private hotel room or have an entire AirBnB to yourself – the choice (and comfort) is all yours.

8. Different dietary requirements (and allergies) 

One of your friends is a vegan. Another is a pescatarian. And the other friend is trying the carnivore diet. 

Then you’ve got to account for intolerances to gluten and lactose. As well as allergies to peanuts, shellfish and alike.

By the time you take into account all your friends’ tastes and dietary requirements, it can be a nightmare trying to find a restaurant or cafe with a suitable menu.

But when you travel solo, you get to eat whatever you like without worrying about others. Whether it’s a 7-Eleven snack or a fine dining experience – the choice is yours.

9. Ailments, injuries and fitness levels

Your asthmatic friend has forgotten his inhaler. Another of your mates has been burnt to a crisp by the sun. And your lazy friend doesn’t want to do anything that involves leaving the hotel room.

One of the problems when travelling with friends is that you feel like a medic – ensuring that each of your buddies is healthy enough to carry on. 

And when one of your friends is feeling unwell, you inevitably have to stay behind and keep them company whilst the rest of your mates are out having the time of their lives.

When you travel alone, you only have to take care of yourself and your ailments.

10. One person is left to organise everything

You don’t want to be the person that is left to organise the trip for your friend group – trust me, I’ve been that guy.

You’ve got to gather everyone’s details to book accommodation. You need their passport numbers to book flights. Someone is always upset because they don’t like the itinerary you’ve planned. 

And at the end of it all, you’re left out of pocket because one friend ignores your messages about how much they owe.

The advantage of travelling alone is that you only have to worry about organising your own trip.

11. Different interests 

What do you want to do during your vacation? Visit historic sites? Throw yourself into some extreme sports? Laze around on the beach all day? Dance the night away in a club?

But maybe the friends that you are travelling with only want to sit around the hotel room and watch movies all day.

One of the problems when travelling with friends is that everyone has different interests. You don’t want to be stuck only doing what your friends want to do.

Solo travel allows you to focus on your own interests. It’s up to you whether you want a lazy day to yourself or an action-packed adventure! 

12. Night owls and early birds 

You’re trying to get some shut-eye when your drunk friend stumbles back into the hotel at 2 am, stinking of booze and shaking you awake.

Or maybe you’re trying to enjoy a vacation sleep-in when your friend, the fitness freak, decides to get up at 6 am for their morning run.

Or maybe you are that friend – the night owl or the early riser. And you’re the one keeping everyone else awake on holiday.

When you travel alone, you can go to bed and wake up whenever you like without worrying about waking others. Unless you’re sleeping in a hostel dorm room (but backpackers are used to this).

13. The bill is never split fairly

You’re at a restaurant with your friends on vacation. One of them ordered starters, a main, dessert and three drinks. You just ordered the main and a drink. Yet when the check is brought to the table, that friend decides ‘Let’s just split it evenly!’

Another example… you get to your accommodation and your friends have taken the master bedroom whilst you’re left with the pull-out couch. Yet you all paid the same amount for the rental.

The bill is rarely ever split fairly when you travel with friends.

The beauty of solo travel is that you get to determine your own budget and spoil yourself without going broke.

14. The clean freaks vs the grubby grots

You can expect things to get a little messy when travelling with friends.

One of them will be a clean freak and expect the accommodation to be left spotless – no dirty dishes, no rubbish left on the table and everyone’s luggage stored neatly in the wardrobes.

Your other friends might be a bit grubby – wet towels left on the bathroom floor, skid marks left in the toilet bowl and wet food scraps sitting in the kitchen sink.

Inevitably, the clean freak ends up throwing a hissy fit, the grub laughs in their face and the vacation turns sour.

Travel alone and you can be as tidy or as filthy as you like!

15. Tumultuous transport

Organising transport when travelling with friends can be a nightmare.

Road trips tend to be the worst. Who’s going to drive? Whose car are you taking? Who’s paying for fuel?

But trying to organise flights can be just as bad. You have to time your bookings so that you all end up on the same flight and sit near one another.

And when it comes to catching an Uber, taxi or bus, you’ve got to make sure that there’s enough room for all of you.

This makes travelling and backpacking hard. You can’t just jump on the next available flight, ferry or coach. And you’re constantly waiting around for your friends to book their tickets.

When you travel alone, you can move as quickly or as slowly as you like. Booking transport is easy.

16. One friend gets left out of the photos

I was on a cruise holiday once and noticed an attractive group of women. These women were all friends and spent most of the trip posing for the perfect bikini pic.

But there was a problem – they always insisted that the least attractive friend in the group take the photos.

That poor woman must have felt so demoralised after spending all week snapping photos of her friends and having no photos of herself.

This is a problem that friends often face when travelling.

I recommend taking an all-in-one selfie stick and tripod . Use the timer feature on your phone and you can capture some awesome snaps of the whole group.

17. Adventurous friends vs timid friends

One of your friends wants to go skydiving whilst on vacation. Your other friend is too afraid to swim in the sea.

A problem that arises when travelling with friends is differences in adventurousness.

If you’re the adventurous type, you don’t want to be held back by timid friends. On the other hand, if you like to stay well within your comfort zone, you don’t want to be constantly hounded by your wild mates. 

When you travel alone, you can be as daring or cautious as you like – tread your own path!

18. Making reservations for large groups

If you’re travelling in a group of more than 5 friends, you’re going to have a tough time making bookings and reservations.

You’ll have to plan in advance and make sure that there is enough space for all of you when booking:

• Restaurants
• Taxis and Ubers
• Some attractions (i.e. white water rafting)
• Some accommodation (i.e. AirBnB)

Travel solo and you only have to make reservations for yourself!

19. It’s impossible to get anywhere on time

Is one of your friends notorious for always running late? Every time you meet up for dinner or drinks, you’re left waiting alone and awkward for 20 minutes.

You can expect that slowpoke to be twice as bad on vacation.

You’ll be waiting to use the bathroom. Waiting at the breakfast table. Waiting out the front of the hotel. Waiting at the airport.

Always. Waiting.

And sometimes, their tardiness will mean that you miss out on your allotted time slot (e.g. when you have tickets to visit an attraction at a set time).

Travel alone and you’ll never be waiting on anyone but yourself!

20. The forgetful friend

Maybe one of your friends is notorious for always forgetting their things?

They leave behind their glasses. Their keys. Their wallet. Their phone.

And when you’re halfway to the beach and that friend realises they’ve forgotten their things, you have to waste another 20 minutes going back to the hotel to get them.

Plus, that forgetful friend is always asking to borrow your stuff because they didn’t pack properly.

Travel solo and you won’t have to babysit your forgetful friends!

21. The whinging friend

Nothing is ever good enough for the whiny friend – and it drags the rest of you down when you’re trying to enjoy your travels.

It’s too hot. It’s too cold. This restaurant sucks. This hotel is crumby. Those people are too loud. The ice cream is too expensive.

The list of complaints never ends!

22. Uninvited guests

One of your female friends has picked up a boy at the bar. Or maybe your mate has attached himself to a drunken group of lads.

And now, they’re all coming back to your accommodation to party the night away!

Chances are, someone is going to end up shagging in your bed. The motel staff will knock on the door at 1 am with noise complaints. The toilet will be blocked. And when you wake up in the morning, everyone will leave you to clean up the mess.

23. Room temperatures

One of your friends runs hot – they insist on pumping the aircon all night so that it is freezing.

Another friend runs cold – they want to run the heating despite the fact that you’re already sweating buckets.

You’re stuck in the middle, trying to keep everyone else happy.

Travel solo and you’ll sleep like a baby every night in the comfort of your own room.

24. You don’t meet as many travel buddies

It’s easy to make 100s of friends when travelling solo . You meet interesting people from all over the world and forge lifetime bonds as you adventure together.

But when you take a trip with your friends from home, you barely interact with other travellers. You form your own social bubble and have no time to spare on strangers.

You return from your trip with the same friends that you’ve always had and your social confidence is none-the-better.

25. You don’t challenge yourself or grow as a person

You always have someone to rely on when you travel with friends. They are always there to help you through sticky situations (e.g. speaking a foreign language, trying exotic foods, skydiving out of a plane, etc.).

Travelling with friends also tends to be less adventurous than solo travel. You stick to the tourist traps and comfortable resorts instead of venturing out into the remote regions to uncover true culture.

When you take a trip with friends, you rarely challenge yourself. And because you fail to challenge yourself, you fail to grow more self-confident.

When you travel solo, you have to independently face unique challenges every day. Plus, have a heap of alone time to reflect on your life (e.g. your career, relationships, etc.)

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1. allocate bedrooms before you pay for the accommodation.

It’s not fair that all your friends pay the same amount for accommodation when some of them will end up sleeping on the couch or floor.

To prevent this problem, look at the different bedrooms when booking your accommodation online. If the bedrooms are not equal in size or quality, then not everyone should have to pay the same price.

Ask within the group chat, who wants the nice bedrooms and who is happy to sleep in the common areas?

Adjust the amount that your friends have to pay accordingly (i.e. friends staying in nice bedrooms should pay 25%-50% more than a friend sleeping on the couch).

2. Partners do not dictate the rules 

Travelling with friends who have clingy partners? Worried they’ll be on their phone 24×7, making you sick with their lovey-dovey chit-chat?

Set a limit as to how much time you can spend on your phone each day (I suggest 2 hours). This will ensure that your friends spend some time together.

And make it known that their partners back home don’t dictate the rules for your group trip. If you want to go to a nightclub, do it. If you want to go to a pool party, do it. If you want to go skydiving, do it.

As friends, you determine what your trip will involve – not your partners.

3. Set a maximum daily budget 

As a group, set a maximum daily budget per person (e.g. $250 per person each day). Take into account accommodation, food, drinks, activities and transport.

Don’t set a daily budget so high that the less financially fortunate friends in your group can’t afford to keep up. But also, don’t set the budget so low that none of you can have any fun.

This should help to minimise any arguments over money.

4. Eat one meal together each day

Prevent your friend group from splitting into smaller factions throughout the trip.

As a group, decide on one meal that you will eat together each day.

I think that breakfast is the best meal to share with your friends on a trip. It gives you a chance to agree on what you are going to do together that day.

Don’t let one friend dictate which cafes and restaurants you visit. Each day, let someone new make a recommendation. 

5. Do one thing together each day 

If your friend group divides into smaller factions during your trip, you will spend very little time together and it will defeat the point of the vacation in the first place.

Before you leave, you should have a basic itinerary. Try to plan one thing that you will do together as a group each day.

If it’s too difficult to plan in advance, simply plan together over breakfast in the morning.

Each day, give someone new a chance to recommend something. Don’t let one friend dictate what you are doing each day. 

6. No loud music or noise after a set time

There’ll be days on your trip when some of your friends want to head to bed early, whilst others will want to party until sunrise.

That’s fine – but try to come to a fair arrangement that will keep both parties happy.

Set a time each night (e.g. 11 pm), after which there should be no loud noises such as music speakers, shouting and screaming.

In all likelihood, your accommodation will have a set time after which there should be no loud noise. It’s probably best to use this as your benchmark.

7. Everyone has to organise one part of the trip

Don’t leave all the trip planning to one of your friends. It’s not fair.

Allocate one part of the trip to each friend:

• One friend arranges accommodation
• One friend arranges transport
• One friend arranges activities
• One friend arranges dining options and reservations

Post some options in the group chat (e.g. accommodation options) and let your friends vote on which they like most. Once everyone agrees, make the booking.

8. Everyone needs to download the same bill-splitting app

Don’t leave one friend to pay for the accommodation, tickets, meals and drinks. 

Sure, everyone promises that they’ll pay them back – but it seems to slip their mind as soon as they get home.

Before you leave for your trip, share a link for the Splitwise app in your group chat. Ask everyone to download the app (it’s free on iOS and Android).

Splitwise makes it easy to keep a running tab of who owes who what during your trip with friends:

• Create a group for your friends
• Add expenses (in any currency) as you go
• Everyone can log in and view their expenses and IOUs
• Keep track of who pays next or settle the bill using Paypal or Venmo.

9. Everyone has to clean up after themselves

Messy accommodation puts a dampener on a trip with friends.

Implement this rule – everyone must clean up after themselves before going to bed.

If people don’t clean up after themselves promptly, there’s a second part to the rule – their mess will be dumped on their bed or in their luggage (don’t take this too far and soak their bed in beer because it will only cause fights).

10. If you aren’t there on time, you get left behind

You shouldn’t have to waste all day waiting around for your slowpoke friend.

As a group, agree upon a time that you will arrive at your destination that day (e.g. the hiking trail).

Make it known that if everyone isn’t there within 10 minutes of that agreed-upon time, the people who are there will proceed without them.

1. Running low on money 

This excuse works particularly well if you’ve recently had to make big purchases or pay overwhelming bills:

• Car service or registration
• Home or car insurance
• Hospital visit or dental work
• Student debt
• Tax (say that your tax bill was bigger than you expected)

But it also works well if you’re self-employed or a freelancer. You can cancel a trip with friends by saying that you recently lost a big client and won’t make enough this month to cover the cost of going away.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a trip with friends last minute using money as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I’m sorry but I just can’t afford to travel right now. I recently (insert financial excuse from the list above) and I’m strapped for cash this month. But I hope you have an awesome time – we can catch up when you get back and I can hear all your stories!’

2. Sick pet or pet sitting

Tell your friends or family that you can’t make the vacation because you had to take your pet to the vet for one of these common animal ailments:

• Skin conditions or rashes
• Vomiting or diarrhoea 
• Ear or eye infections

If you don’t own a pet but one of your family members does, you can tell your friends that your family member had an emergency (see below) and you have to mind their pet. 

Want to really sell the pet-sitting excuse? Let the pet stay at your home for a night and send your friends a selfie with the animal.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a vacation with friends using pets as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I’m sorry but my (insert pet) has (insert animal ailment from list above). I’m not going to be able to make the trip. I’ve got to take (insert pet) to the vet and get it sorted ASAP. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back, I want to hear all about the trip!’

3. Feeling unwell 

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the trip because you are suffering from one of these common illnesses:

• Flu or cold
• Asthma and allergies
• Muscle pain or sprains
• Sore throat
• Eye infection
• Urinary tract infection
• Headaches and migraine
• Rashes, sunburn or eczema
• Diarrhoea, vomiting or reflux

Most of the time, there’s no need to explain your illness to your friends. And there’s certainly no need to go to a doctor (unless you’re actually sick).

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a holiday with family or friends using illness as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I feel awful. I’m not going to be able to make the trip. Think I’ve got (insert medical condition). Going to spend a few days at home recovering, don’t want to make you ill. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back!’

4. Problem at home

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the trip last minute because an emergency has arisen in your home:

• The car won’t start
• There’s a leak from your plumbing/roof/drainage and it’s flooding your home
• There’s a power outage and your fridge is starting to leak
• There’s damage to the roof/walls from wind/rain/fallen branches
• There was a fire in the kitchen
• The fire or security alarm keeps going off
• The security camera caught someone scoping out your home
• The window has been smashed.

Make it seem like the problem could get worse if you leave the house unattended. You might even suggest that the problem presents a security risk (e.g. it’s easy for thieves to break in through a broken window).

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a trip last minute using a problem at home as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, there’s been an (insert problem at home). I’m really sorry but I’m not going to be able to make the trip. I have to stay here and get it sorted before it gets any worse. I won’t be able to enjoy the holiday with this on my mind. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

5. Mental health 

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the holiday because you are suffering from one of these mental health issues:

Only rely on these excuses if you legitimately suffer from one of these mental health issues. Your friends and family will worry about you.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a vacation with family and friends using mental health problems as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I’m really having a tough time with my (insert mental health problem). I’m sorry but I’m not going to be able to make the trip. I want to stay here until I’m in a better mental state. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

6. Urgent job or work opportunity

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the holiday because one of the following work-related problems has arisen:

• You’ve been asked to interview for a new job
• Your boss has dumped a big project on you and it’s due ASAP
• You have taken on a major project that could lead to your promotion
• You made a mistake at work and have to spend time fixing it

This excuse works well because your friends do not necessarily know what’s going on at your workplace.

You can also add that you asked for time off but your boss denied your request (shift the blame).

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a holiday with family and friends using work as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, this (insert work commitment) has popped up at work. I’m really sorry but I’m not going to be able to make the trip. If I do well at this project, I could get promoted – so I’m going to take it on. I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

7. Family emergency 

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the vacation because one of the following family emergencies has arisen:

• A family member is sick or injured (e.g. Covid or rolled ankle)
• A car accident
• A family member has had a home problem (see above) and you have to help
• A natural disaster has affected your family (high winds, fire, flood, etc.)
• Your family isn’t able to take care of your kids.

Avoid using these excuses unless your family has actually suffered some sort of emergency. Your friends will worry about your family and it could put a downer on their holiday. 

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a trip using a family emergency as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, my (insert family member) has (insert family emergency). I’m really sorry but I’m not going to be able to make the trip. I have to help them get it sorted out. I won’t be able to enjoy the holiday with this on my mind. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

8. Freak accident 

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the trip because of one of these freak accidents:

• You were stung or bitten by a bee/wasp/ant/spider/dog
• You had an allergy attack to pollen/nuts/shellfish
• You were robbed
• Your car won’t start or was hit by someone
• You rescued an injured animal
• You smashed your phone
• You got locked out of your house
• You got called up for jury duty
• You have an infestation of mice/rats/cockroaches
• You stepped in glass

Some of these excuses are more believable than others. Try to strike a balance between believability and being serious enough to warrant cancelling the trip.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a trip last minute using a freak accident as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, can’t believe it, I’ve (insert freak accident). I’m really sorry but I’m not going to be able to make the trip. I have to get this sorted out ASAP. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

9. Wrong dates 

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the trip last minute because you thought the trip was next week or next month.

Make the excuse believable by writing the wrong date in your diary or calendar and sending a screenshot.

Add that you’ve requested time off from your employer but they won’t allow it at this late stage.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a trip using the wrong date as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I can’t believe I’ve done this but I thought the trip was (insert wrong date). I just asked the boss for time off but they said it’s too late at this stage. So stupid of me – sorry! But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

10. Underprepared for exam

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the holiday because you have an exam coming up and you aren’t properly prepared.

This excuse works best if you are a high school or college student. However, it can also work if you are studying for a work exam or career course/certificate.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a vacation with family and friends using study as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I’m super sorry but I won’t be able to make the trip. I’ve got this important (insert exam) coming up and I’m just not properly prepared yet. I really want to nail it and I won’t be able to enjoy the vacation knowing that I’m underprepared. I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

11. Your family/partner/boss doesn’t want you to

Tell your friends or family that you have to cancel the trip because your:

• Boss refuses to give you time off
• Parents are worried about you
• Partner is feeling down and doesn’t want you to go

However, be aware that using this excuse could draw some backlash from your friends against your parents or partner. They will likely say, ‘Your parents/partner shouldn’t be controlling your life like this.’

This could be harmful to your relationship.

Here’s a template you can use to cancel a holiday with friends using your family, partner or boss as an excuse:

‘Hey guys, I’m super sorry but I won’t be able to make the trip. My (insert boss/parent/partner) doesn’t want me to come because (insert excuse). I want to do what’s right for them. But I hope you have an awesome time – we’ll catch up when you get back.’

12. Be honest 

It’s cliche but it’s true – honesty is the best policy.

Instead of making up a fake excuse, I think it’s always best to just be honest with your friends and tell them that you don’t feel like going on a trip right now.

This way, you don’t have to spin a web of lies. 

And true friends will respect the fact that you’re just not up for it.

I’m not going to judge you – I’ve been in this situation myself. 

You’ve got an awesome trip lined up with your friends when an acquaintance catches word and invites themselves. Or even worse, they were invited by one of your friends without first consulting the group.

When you tell someone that they are not invited on a trip, you must include these 4 elements in your message:

• There is not enough room in the accommodation
• There are not enough seats (e.g. car trips)
• The activities you have planned only allow a certain number of people
• It would make the trip more expensive for everyone if you included another person.
• Suggest alternative plans – perhaps they could travel on their own or with their own group of friends and spend some time with them when they arrive.
• Offer reimbursement – if the person has already paid to join the trip, you must offer to return the money they have already contributed.
• Reaffirm that you are still friends – you hope that this doesn’t affect your friendship and you look forward to hanging out with them when you get back.

You should not feel guilty about disinviting someone from a trip if they invited themselves. In this case, you can tell this person that they are not invited on a trip by wording your message like this:

“Hey (insert name), I’m really sorry but I think there’s been a miscommunication. (Insert friends’ names) and I have spent ages planning this trip but we didn’t know you were coming. Unfortunately, there’s (insert logistical problem from list above). I’m sorry you can’t come with us, but if you want to travel alone or with friends, we could hang out with you once you get there. I hope this doesn’t come between us – I always love spending time with you and I’m keen to (insert future activity) when I get back!”

But if they were invited and you are now revoking that invitation, you probably should feel a little guilty. In this case, you can tell the person that they are not invited on the trip by wording your message like this:

“Hey (insert name), I’m really sorry but there’s a problem with our booking. Unfortunately, there’s (insert logistical problem from list above). Would you mind travelling alone or with friends? We can all hang out together when you arrive. And I’ll send back all the money you’ve already paid. Sorry again – I had to choose someone and the fairest way I could think to do it was the last friend to join the trip. Hope this doesn’t come between us, would be great to hang out with you in (insert destination)!”

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Summary: problems travelling with friends and family.

Travelling with friends and family comes with dozens of problems.

With all these disadvantages, you can see why solo travel is now the #1 travel trend in the world!

If you do travel with your friends, be sure to implement the rules above so that you stay friends upon your return.

But if you become overwhelmed and decide that you don’t want to go on vacation with your friends and family, you can always rely on one of the above excuses to get out of a trip last minute.

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7 Ideas for Starting a Yearly Travel Tradition With Your Best Friends

From yoga retreats to wine tastings..

Traveling with friends can get complicated. It means coordinating schedules, appeasing different interests, and merging travel styles — all of which can make friend trips harder to organize than traveling solo or with a partner. But as we get older and busier, making time for friends becomes even more important. Traveling together is a perfect way to set aside quality time to spend with your besties, reconnecting and creating new, lasting memories— and when you make it an annual tradition, you know you’ll always have something to look forward to. Below, you'll find some firsthand ideas for how to start up a yearly travel tradition for you and your friend group, whether you’re interested in outdoor activities, arts and culture, food, or something else entirely.

For outdoor adventurers: Take a ski trip

For several years after graduating, the thing that brought me and my college friends back together when we’d scattered across the country was an annual ski trip. It’s a great option for a co-ed group, offering a balance of action from days on the slopes and relaxation in the hot tub at night. And once you’ve all got your lift tickets, friends can choose the day that matches their desired activity level: Avid skiers can be up early for first chair, and those not into downhill can try other activities like snowshoeing, ice skating, and cross-country skiing. As for where to go, you can alternate coasts depending on where friends live or spring for a true destination trip. On the East Coast, Killington, Vermont (a two-hour drive from the Burlington Airport) is a popular choice for its nearly 2,000 skiable acres and 250 inches of natural snowfall per year . On the West Coast, fly into Salt Lake City, Utah, where you’ll have your choice of 10 ski resorts within an hour of downtown, including ritzy Park City and Deer Valley, the advanced terrain of Snowbird, and Snowbasin (which hosted the 2002 Winter Games). You can even take your annual ski trip abroad, to St. Moritz in Switzerland (get there from the Zurich airport) or Nagano in Japan (from the Tokyo airport).  —Andrea Morabito, Director, Branded Content

For getting some balance: Go on a yoga retreat

Full disclosure: my mom is typically my yoga retreat companion — and honestly, she is actually my best friend. For me, yoga retreats combine the best of so many other friend vacation worlds. You get a bit of movement, opportunities to take day trips, really incredible food, and a healthy dose of classic relaxation. My favorite retreats have been those where you don’t just stay at a retreat center. For example, on a retreat I attended in Colombia, we rounded out our yoga practices with hikes up to waterfalls, excursions to hidden beaches, and a chance to explore historical sites. Same goes for one I did in the wintertime in Colorado — tons of winter sports and spa trips (hello, hot and cold plunges!) were among some of the other activities we were able to take part in beyond the actual yoga. All that is to say, the best part of a yoga retreat is the structure. When you and your group have tons of options, everyone can spend their days exactly how they want, while the scheduled morning and evening yoga classes make it easy to ensure that everyone comes together at least a few times each day. —Aviel Kanter, Director, Branded Content

For connecting over a glass: Explore a wine region

My best friend and I grew up on the same street, but now that there are 1,700 miles between us seeing each other takes a bit more organization. We both love to travel, so in the past we would choose a city we wanted to explore and plan a few days there together. Now, though, we both started taking courses on wine — and we look forward to geeking out over our newfound knowledge together. This year, we’re heading to Willamette Valley in Oregon to try some fantastic pinot noir, explore the area’s food scene, and hang out over a glass of wine at our short-term rental. It will likely be a bit slower paced than our usual treks, but that means we’ll have more time to just enjoy each other’s company. For next year, I’ve already got my sights set on Burgundy, the iconic French region that also produces their red wines from pinot noir, so we can compare tasting notes. —Christie Rotondo, Associate Director, Branded Content

For understanding a country’s culinary landscape: Visit different regions

If there’s one thing my friends and I bond over, it’s food. We had heard of Mexico City being lauded as a culinary destination, with its restaurants at the top of the world rankings and a bustling street food scene. So in 2021, we, along with every other New Yorker, booked our trip. We quickly learned that the city’s, and the country’s, food scene was diverse: We visited the markets, went on a taco crawl, tried traditional indigenous cuisine, and enjoyed a contemporary seven-course tasting menu. The next year, we visited Oaxaca City for Dia de los Muertos. There we discovered the city’s distinct cuisine, understanding how smoke is integral to the region and its food. We plan to keep the momentum going, and want to taste food that Mexico’s different regions have to offer. Next year, we’re planning a trip to Valle de Guadalupe, Mexico’s wine country a short drive from the San Diego airport, and beyond that, maybe one of the many amazing beach towns. —Rayna Rossitto, Associate Editor, Branded Content

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For spreading the planning responsibilities: Try surprise trips

In every friend group, there's usually one Type A friend who always gets stuck making the dinner reservations, selecting the movie times, and planning the weekend trips. (Yes, hi, it's me.) If your friends are up for it, try splitting up the planning responsibilities with annual surprise trips. Here's how it works: Every year, a different friend in the group picks a destination and plans everything. That means one friend books everyone's flights, accommodations, excursions, dinner reservations —the whole nine yards. The destination remains a total secret, but they can drop hints about the weather or type of clothes their friends will need to help them pack. Surprise trips could work for domestic destinations (think: telling your friends you're going to a beach vacation, but they don't know whether that means Miami or Santa Barbara), or international locations, as long as everyone has a current passport. The day before the flight, the planner reveals the destination to the rest of the group. Since planning responsibilities rotate every year, no one gets burnt out, and everyone gets a chance to pick their dream destination every few years. It's a win-win! —Annalise Mantz, Senior Editor, Branded Content

For the sporty friend group: Run a race in a cool city

If your friend group likes to exercise together (or if most of your friends are people from your local run club), try an annual trip to run a unique race in a new city. Whether it’s a marathon, half-marathon, or 5K, you’ll be able to spend time together training and then experience the thrills of race day together. There are endless notable marathon and race options across the globe for those looking for a challenging run in a new environment: Try the world-famous marathons in cities like Berlin, Tokyo, or London, or opt for a more unique race, like running up the stairs of the Empire State Building in New York City. Once race day is over, you and your squad can focus on enjoying the city at a slower pace (and eating some well-deserved local treats!) —Helen Murphy, Editor, Branded Content

For the artsy friends: Explore art and culture excellence

My friends are spread across multiple states so when it’s time to pull everyone together, it’s always a task. But once we started traveling together, we realized the one common denominator among all of us is that we all appreciate a trip filled with culture. If the destination has impressive architecture with historical intrigue (like Boston and Savannah) and gallery walks and museums (Chicago and New Orleans), we are there. What we most appreciate are the more obscure attractions. A museum about the history of posters is a yes. An art show showcasing miniature sculptures that require a magnifying glass to see? Count us in. We also include food options into the adventure: We love trying new, experimental restaurants that many might second-guess. We’re talking needing a blindfold to eat a 10-course meal or having chocolate sauce poured over your hands for an interactive dessert; the more experimental the better. We’ve found the most fun, culturally impressive locations on the coasts, California and New York City of course, and also in smaller cities like Santa Fe and Detroit. We leave knowing we created new, picturesque memories while also learning so many things. —Moná Thomas, Editor, Branded Content

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70 Most Inspiring Friendship Travel Quotes

Heading on a trip with your friend and searching for the best friendship travel quotes to capture the feeling of the trip? You’re in the right place.

There’s nothing better than reminiscing on a special trip with your friend, and sometimes it’s difficult to find the perfect words to sum it up. So I’m here to save you the hassle.

In this article, I’ve put together 100 of my favourite quotes to inspire your adventure with your friend. I’ve also added some pictures you can pin to your board on Pinterest, in case you want to come back to them later.

Hopefully, after reading it, you’ll feel inspired for your trip. Ready for the 100 most inspiring quotes about travelling with your friend? Let’s go.

Meaningful friendship travel quotes

1. “In life, it’s not where you go – it’s who you travel with.” —Charles M. Schulz

2. “I would like to travel the world with you twice. Once, to see the world. Twice, to see the way you see the world.”—Unknown

3. “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart” – Eleanor Roosevelt 4. “Will you come travel with me? Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?” – Walt Whitman

5. “We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world & the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” – Robert Louis Stevenson

6. “Don’t walk in front of me… I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me… I may not lead. Walk beside me… just be my friend.” – Albert Camus

7. “Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.” – John Evelyn

8. “As with any journey, who you travel with can be more important than your destination.”

9. “If you’re twenty-two, physically fit, hungry to learn and be better, I urge you to travel – as far and as widely as possible. Sleep on floors if you have to. Find out how other people live and eat and cook. Learn from them – wherever you go.”― Anthony Bourdain

10. “When you get lost in a really strange place, nothing is more comforting than finding your friend whom you trust and can show the way.”– Toba Beta

11. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”— Mark Twain

12. “A good friend is a connection to life—a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world.”– Lois Wyse

13. “Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you; spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life.”– Amy Poehler

Short friendship travel quotes

14. “Having a best friend is like having your own little corner of the world to escape to.”  – Unknown

15. “The road is long, but the company is good.” – Unknown

16. “The open road is calling, and I must go.”  — John Muir

17. “Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.“– Ernest Hemingway

18. When one is travelling, everything looks brighter and lovelier.– Catherynne M. Valente

19. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”– Tennessee Williams

20. “Travel far, travel wide, and travel often with your closest friends.”– Unknown

21. “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and thirst for adventure.” – Unknown

22. “Good friends follow you anywhere.“– Winnie the Pooh

23. “Our battered suitcases were piled on the sidewalk again; we had longer ways to go. But no matter, the road is life.”– Jack Kerouac

24. “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.” – David Tyson

25. “You travel faster alone, but farther together.”– Michael Benanav

26. “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” —Thelma & Louise

27. “Of all the books in all the world, the best stories are found between the pages of a passport”  – Unknown

28. “I get by with a little help from my friends.” – John Lennon

29. “There’s no one I’d rather sea the world with.”

30. “No road is long with good company.” – Turkish Proverb

31. “Ten minutes with a genuine friend is better than years spent with anyone less.” – Crystal Woods

​​32. “When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.”

33. “Just grab a friend and take a ride, together upon the open road.” – A Goofy Movie

34. “A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.” – Tim Cahill

Long friendship travel quotes

35. “We are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.” —Paul Coelho

36. “Because the greatest part of a road trip isn’t arriving at your destination. It’s all the wild stuff that happens along the way.” – Emma Chase, Tamed (2014)

37. “Let’s wander, and decorate our memories with wild love, epic adventures, and soul talk with badass people. Help me collect stories people won’t believe and memories that will keep us warm when we’re old.”– Brooke Hampton

38. “Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind.” – Anthony Bourdain

39. “Happy is the soul that has a friend. Happier is the soul that trusts in the truth of the heart of a friend. Happiest is the soul that knows the solemnity of friendship and honours its laws.”  – Ogwo David Emenike

Funny friendship travel quotes

40. Life is about doing things that don’t suck with people who don’t suck.”  — Unknown

41. “I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain

42. “Good friends pee together, but best friends puke together!” – Akansh Malik

43. “When you’re in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, ‘Damn, that was fun’.” – Groucho Marx

44. “As long as we don’t die, this is gonna be one hell of a story.” – John Green

45. “A true best friend may get you into trouble, but they will always be there to pull you out of it too.” – Kaylee Stepkoski

46. “Traveling with friends is like living with them, but with more exotic scenery and fewer chores.”

Cute friendship travel quotes

47. “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey we share.”

48. “The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with those who matter to you.”– Ritu Ghatourey

49. “Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.”– Woodrow T. Wilson

50. “There is an unspoken bond you create with the friends you travel with” – Kristen Sarah

51. “Sometimes an adventure is a mundane thing. A trip to the shore with your best friend. Learning you can laugh in unearthly ways.”— Rose Christo

52. “No road is too long with the right person beside you.”

53. “As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was about to happen.” – A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh

54. “The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way.” —Unknown

55. “May your adventures bring you closer together, even as they take you far away from home.” —Trenton Lee Stewart

56. “Travel should make friendships stronger and memories sweeter.”  — Unknown

57. “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”  — Anais Nin

58. “Wherever it is you may be, it is your friends who make your world.”  – Chris Bradford

59. “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”– C.S. Lewis

60. “Things are never quite as scary when you’ve got a best friend.”– Bill Watterson

61. “You can’t stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.”– Winnie the Pooh

62. “People are always in good company when they are doing what they really enjoy. “– Samuel Butler

63. “My old grandmother always used to say, summer friends will melt away like summer snows, but winter friends are friends forever.”– George R.R. Martin

64. “Best friends can turn a horrible day into one of the best days of your life.”– Nathanael Richmond

65. “You and me, we are more than friends. We are like a small travel gang!” Unknown 

66. “If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far go together.” African proverb

67. “A friend may be waiting behind a stranger’s face.” Maya Angelou

68. “There’s not a word yet for old friends who’ve just met.” Jim Henson

69. “It is not the destination where you end up but the mishaps and memories you create along the way!” Penelope Riley

70. “Find someone who is a home and an adventure all at once.” Unknown

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How to Travel with Your Best Friend (& Still be Friends After!)

Posted on Published: June 9, 2022  - Last updated: January 22, 2023

In 2022, I spent 3 weeks in Spain and North Africa with one of my closest friends. Miraculously, we’re still close- and planning our next trip.

I thought I knew a lot about traveling with others, based on my experiences with group and family travel , but traveling with a best friend held different challenges.

In this article, I will share with you advice for traveling with a friend that will help you avoid conflict, maximize enjoyment, and return home even closer than ever.

How to Avoid the Worst-case Scenario

The fact is, both best friends who travel together and couples do sometimes break up on a trip – and it’s not that uncommon!

Ask around in any hostel common room, and you’ll probably hear stories about people who arrived as inseparable pairs and departed with an absolute loathing for each other. These travel stories don’t make it onto Instagram and TikTok (although they occasionally make appearances on Reddit’s relationship advice forms 😬), but they do happen.

Thankfully, avoiding major conflict when traveling with a friend is reasonably easy to avoid.

Although I give more specific travel advice below, the basics of staying friends through a big trip boil down to these three things:

To travel with your best friend, you’ll need:

• good communication,
• good boundaries, and
• self-awareness.

Communication skills help us resolve conflict instead of escalating it. Good boundaries help us avoid conflict in the first place, and self-awareness helps us take ownership of our own actions (and apologize when it’s appropriate).

All these things add up to travel with friends that strengthen the relationship after we return home.

👭 How to Travel with a Friend without Conflict:

1. don’t go with someone who doesn’t enjoy the same kind of travel you do.

This might seem obvious, but plenty of best friend travelers have arrived at the destination with entirely different expectations for the trip!

When one friend assumes that “vacation” means endless days of lying on the beach doing nothing, and the other expects that “vacation” involves packed-full itineraries of things to do, it’s a setup for disappointment, conflict, and a big argument!

As you plan travel with your best friend, make sure that you are on the same page about the type of travel you’ll be doing.

Some things to communicate about include:

• 🏖️ Travel Style: a relaxing vacation, full days of sightseeing, or a little bit of both?
• 🏨 Accommodations: will lodging will be budget or luxury. Have you communicated about whether you will share a bedroom or bed?
• 🚌 Transportation: will you be taking ride shares or public transportation? Walking or relying on private cars?

While you both can navigate all of these issues even if there are differences in opinions, it can be a setup for conflict if your companion wants to sleep in and sunbathe on the beach while you ache to leave the resort and explore the region nearby. Make sure you agree on travel style, accommodations, budget, and transportation – or reach an agreement about a split on time spent with each other versus doing things alone .

2. Don’t travel with a friend without an itinerary. Communicate about a plan

When solo traveling, it’s relatively easy to make spontaneous decisions and change plans on a whim. When traveling with a friend or friend groups , however, it’s important to have an itinerary.

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You and the friend you are traveling with should discuss booking reservations, handling various responsibilities, a complete packing list for the things you both want to do, and contingency plans if certain activities aren’t available.

A well-developed and collaboratively created itinerary is essential for successful travel with a friend.

3. Check in with each other regularly

When traveling with a friend, you’ll depend upon each other in ways that you usually don’t.

Away from your home, other friends, and family, you’ll become each other support system in a unique way. Not every friendship adjusts easily to this transition. One way to make it a little easier is by being very intentional about communicating.

One thing that caused conflict during my first time on a big trip with my best friend was a failure to communicate in advance about time spent solo. While my friend assumed I knew that she was going out for a walk while I showered, I emerged from the bathroom instantly concerned that she was missing! The conflict that ensued when she returned could have been easily avoided if we had both better communicated our expectations during the trip.

4. Remain aware of other people

You know that feeling when you are catching up with your best friend and no one else in the world matters? That totally oblivious-to-the-world mind-space where you’re just engrossed in being fun, silly, or playful with your bestie? It’s best to keep that in check on vacation together.

Yes, you are there to support one another and share the experience of travel with your best friend- BUT, it can be easy to be lulled into a false sense of security.

Remember two things:

• Stay aware of your surroundings always. Prevent travel crime and scams by being aware of people beyond your best friend.
• Follow the local norms and customs. Sometimes being with our best friend can tempt us to ignore local customs – like being obnoxiously loud on a train in Japan or dashing out of the hotel in Morocco in short shorts- while these things probably won’t be a danger to us, they’re disrespectful to those around us.

Avoid the temptation to think that “my friend is doing it, so it’s fine,” Instead, stay aware of your surroundings and follow the cues of those around you.

5. Stay in the moment, not on social media

Of course, updating your friends and family through a story or tweet is fine, and everyone expects a few Instagram posts during your travel, but live in the moment, not on your phone .

This is especially true when traveling with a friend. When you travel solo, it’s your choice if you want to spend hours glued to your phone – no one else will care. However, when you’re traveling with your best friend, it’s different. You are their person- their one familiar face and in-person contact. On a trip with a friend, try to minimize your phone time. Doing so can avoid conflict and help strengthen your relationship.

One study found that even having a phone upside down but visible on a table makes it more difficult to focus on a task or conversation! 1 So pack it away in a safe spot.

These days, when I travel with my best friend, we designate phone time. Perhaps because we are both therapists in our day job or possibly because we live thousands of miles away from each other now, we’re very intentional about this. However, when we travel together now we often say “I need some phone time now,” and take a break to check out. We have agreed, though, that during shared meals, phones go in our bags, not on the table.

6. Plan time apart

Spending time apart can be good for friends traveling together- especially on a longer trip.

Time spent alone helps introverts recharge. Days spent independently exploring gives you more to talk about when you meet back up for dinner!

If and when you separate, have plans and backup plans for how you’ll meet back up. While cell phones are an increasingly reliable way for travelers to communicate in international destinations, it’s not always guaranteed. Instead of simply saying “text me when you’re ready to meet back up,” always share a backup plan. Rather, Say to your best friend, “Text me when you want to meet back up, or if I don’t hear from you all see you at the restaurant at 7?” Without much effort, you can build in a backup plan so during travel with a friend you always know how to meet back up if separated.

7. No how, when, and what expenses will be split

Money can be a major source of arguments and hurt feelings when you are on a trip with a friend. Who is paying, how they’re paying, and when they’re paying can be a major headache.

Try and structure your travel so that money doesn’t have to be discussed constantly. If you communicate up front about “who, what, and when,” then you can relax and focus on the trip.

Paying for meals separately can often be the easiest way to split dining expenses. However, it’s less straightforward when it comes to shared costs like hotels, avoiding expensive resort fees , and excursions purchased with a group discount.

To keep expenses split evenly and each friend accountable for paying their balance, consider using an expense-splitting app like Splitwise or SettleUp .

While it can take a few moments to enter each transaction that needs to be split into an accounting app, it’s well worth it to avoid the conflicts, confusion, and resentment that can come from poorly managed money during travel with a friend.

8. Share Responsibilities

In every relationship – whether traveling as a couple or with a best friend – there’s a divide in responsibilities. Often, the “more responsible” person takes on more tasks related to planning, timekeeping, or managing transportation and lodging details.

Now, it is a good idea to plan travel with a friend by relying on each of your strengths. When I travel with my best friend, I handle the logistics of hotels, transportation, and bookings while she shines at researching attractions and pairing them with top-rated restaurants. However, when one person ends up doing more work to keep the trip on track, it can create resentment. When this resentment builds up, such as during multiple destination travel , it’s a recipe for conflict.

Instead, try to share responsibility evenly for creating and managing your itinerary and travel details. Or, at the very least, acknowledge the labor of the person working harder and make it up to them in some way.

Final thoughts on how to return home still best friends after traveling together

Traveling with a best friend will likely challenge your relationship in a way you may not have experienced before. Some relationships, under this pressure, may never quite be the same again. However, with good planning, boundaries, and communication, you can plan best friend travel that will strengthen your relationship and bring you and your best friend home even closer than ever.

What’s your take on vacationing with a friend? Have you tried it? What are your best tips for staying besties through the travel experience?

Lynli Roman’s unique approach to travel is informed by decades of experience on the road with a traveling family and, later, years spent as a solo international traveler. When she’s not writing about Seattle from her Pike Place Market apartment, Lynli writes on-location while conducting hands-on research in each destination she covers. Lynli’s writing has been featured by MSN, ABC Money, Buzzfeed, and Huffington Post. She is passionate about sharing information that makes travel more accessible for all bodies.

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"Friendship and travel are two of life's most precious treasures, and when you combine them, the result is nothing short of magical. The bond between friends grows stronger as they embark on adventures together, exploring new horizons, and creating memories that last a lifetime. Traveling with friends not only fuels your wanderlust but also enriches your journey with laughter, support, and shared experiences. In this collection of 100 inspiring friends travel quotes, we celebrate the joy of exploring the world with your best pals by your side. These quotes capture the essence of friendship, the thrill of adventure, and the beauty of discovering the world together. So, whether you're planning your next epic trip or reminiscing about past adventures, let these words inspire you to keep exploring and cherishing the incredible gift of friendship."

Friends Travel Quotes

• "A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles." - Tim Cahill
• "Traveling with friends is the best therapy."
• "Adventure is always better when shared with friends."
• "Exploring new horizons with old friends."
• "Friends who travel together, stay together."
• "Every trip is a chance to create unforgettable memories with friends."
• "The best souvenir from a trip? A heart full of memories with friends."
• "Friends and adventures: the perfect combination."
• "Travel far, travel wide, but never travel without friends."
• "Friendship is the compass that leads to great adventures."

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Trip with Friends Quotes

• "Trips with friends: where the journey becomes the destination."
• "The best trips are the ones taken with friends."
• "Traveling with friends turns moments into memories."
• "Life was meant for good friends and great adventures."
• "Friends who plan together, travel together, and stay together."
• "On a trip with friends, every day is a new adventure."
• "With friends by your side, every trip is a grand escapade."
• "Friendship is the key that unlocks the door to unforgettable trips."
• "Adventures are sweeter when shared with friends."
• "In the company of friends, even the ordinary becomes extraordinary."

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• "Creating memories one adventure at a time with my favorite people."
• "Lost in wanderlust with the best travel buddies."
• "Epic adventures and unforgettable moments with my squad."
• "Chasing dreams and making memories with friends by my side."
• "Exploring the world, one friend at a time."
• "Traveling with friends: where every day is a new story."
• "Friendship and travel: a perfect match."
• "Life is short; take the trip and bring your friends along."
• "Friendship is the best souvenir of any journey."
• "Adventures are better when shared, especially with friends."

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Short Travel Quotes with Friends

• "Wander often, wonder always."
• "Adventure awaits, go find it."
• "Travel far, travel wide."
• "Collect moments, not things."
• "Friends and adventures, the perfect blend."
• "Travel, explore, repeat."
• "Roaming with my favorite crew."
• "Discovering new horizons with friends."
• "Life is a journey; travel it well."
• "Friends make the journey worthwhile."

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Travel with Friends Quotes Funny

• "Friends don't let friends travel alone."
• "Traveling with friends: because you'll need someone to laugh at your bad jokes."
• "Adventure is calling, and it's bringing your friends along."
• "If traveling were free, you'd never see me again...with my friends, of course!"
• "Friends and adventure: a combination more potent than coffee."
• "Traveling with friends means always having someone to blame for getting lost."
• "On this trip, we plan to eat, drink, and make questionable decisions together."
• "Friends who travel together share the therapy bills afterward."
• "Exploring the world with friends: guaranteed to be entertaining."
• "Our travel motto: 'We'll sleep when we're old!'"

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Trip with Friends Captions for Instagram

• "Adventure is out there, and I've got my friends with me."
• "Exploring new horizons with old friends – that's the best kind of journey."
• "Making memories around the world, one trip at a time."
• "Friends who travel together stick together."
• "Just a bunch of friends and a world full of adventures."
• "Finding joy in the journey, one destination at a time."
• "Wherever we go, we go together."
• "Every adventure is better with friends in tow."
• "Traveling with friends: where every picture tells a story."
• "To new places, new faces, and the best of friends."

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Travel with Friends Caption

• "Exploring the world hand in hand with my best friends."
• "Together is our favorite place to be, especially on a trip."
• "Friends who travel together stay together."
• "Wandering with friends – where every path becomes an adventure."
• "Collecting moments and memories with my travel buddies."
• "Friends make the journey as memorable as the destination."
• "Traveling is fun, but it's even better with friends."
• "We travel not to escape life, but for life not to escape us, and we do it together."
• "Wherever we go, we take a little bit of each other with us."
• "Friends and adventures are the best souvenirs."

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Journey Wishes for Friend

• "Wishing you a journey filled with discoveries, laughter, and cherished moments."
• "May your journey be as extraordinary as the friend you are to me."
• "Safe travels, dear friend, and may your journey be filled with beautiful surprises."
• "As you embark on this new journey, may it lead to exciting adventures and new horizons."
• "Here's to your journey, my friend, and the amazing stories you'll bring back."
• "Bon voyage! May your journey be as bright and promising as your spirit."
• "Travel safe, explore, and make the most of your journey, my dear friend."
• "Wishing you a journey that fills your heart with joy and your soul with wanderlust."
• "May your journey be a tapestry of unforgettable moments and thrilling experiences."
• "Enjoy every step of your journey, knowing that your friends are cheering you on."

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Travel Buddies Quotes

• "Good friends follow you anywhere; best friends join you on your travels."
• "Travel buddies: partners in adventure and mischief."
• "Exploring the world with friends makes the journey sweeter."
• "Friends who travel together share a bond like no other."
• "A trip with friends is a journey into the heart of togetherness."
• "Travel buddies turn ordinary trips into extraordinary adventures."
• "With friends by your side, the world becomes your playground."
• "Adventure is always better when shared with your favorite travel buddies."
• "From strangers to travel buddies, and now lifelong friends."
• "In the company of travel buddies, every destination feels like home."

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Adventure with Friends Quotes

• "Adventures are better when shared with friends who share your enthusiasm."
• "Friends and adventures: the perfect blend of excitement and camaraderie."
• "With friends, even the most ordinary day can turn into an epic adventure."
• "Life is short; choose friends who add adventure to your journey."
• "Every adventure becomes a legendary tale when experienced with friends."
• "In the grand story of life, friends are the chapters filled with adventure."
• "True friends inspire you to seek out new adventures and create lasting memories."
• "Adventure is calling, and it's bringing my friends along for the ride."
• "Adventure awaits, and I've got the best crew to explore it with."
• "The best journeys are those that lead to unforgettable adventures with friends."

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Journey with Friends Quotes

• "Life is a beautiful journey, and it's even more magnificent with friends."
• "Traveling is not just a journey; it's a celebration when friends are involved."
• "Friends light up the path on your journey, making it brighter and more memorable."
• "Journeys are made sweeter when shared with friends who understand your heart."
• "As we embark on this journey together, let's make every moment count."
• "Every journey with friends is a testament to the power of friendship."
• "With friends by your side, the journey itself becomes the destination."
• "Let's cherish every step of this journey and the bonds that grow stronger along the way."
• "Journeying with friends is like having a compass that points toward happiness."
• "To the friends who have joined me on this incredible journey, I'm forever grateful."

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Vacation with Friends Quotes

• "Vacations are better when shared with friends who bring joy to every moment."
• "Exploring new places and making memories with friends is the best kind of vacation."
• "On vacation, we relax, unwind, and create lasting bonds with our dearest friends."
• "A vacation with friends is a recipe for relaxation and rejuvenation."
• "Vacations are meant for friends, laughter, and unforgettable experiences."
• "In the company of friends, every vacation feels like paradise."
• "Vacationing with friends turns ordinary trips into extraordinary adventures."
• "Friends and vacations: the perfect combination for happiness and fun."
• "To the vacations that bring friends closer and create stories to last a lifetime."
• "Cheers to vacations with friends that leave us refreshed and grateful."

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Best Friend Travel Quotes

• "A best friend is like a compass on your journey, always pointing you in the right direction."
• "Traveling with your best friend is like having a piece of home with you, no matter where you go."
• "With a best friend by your side, every destination becomes an unforgettable adventure."
• "Best friends turn ordinary trips into extraordinary escapades."
• "On this journey called life, a best friend is the most treasured companion."
• "Traveling with your best friend is not just a journey; it's a celebration of your bond."
• "The best kind of therapy is a getaway with your best friend."
• "Life is an adventure, and it's best experienced with your best friend."
• "In the story of your life, your best friend is the co-author of your greatest adventures."
• "To my best friend, my travel buddy, and my partner in adventure – thank you for making every journey extraordinary."

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Trip with Friends Caption

• "Adventure is calling, and my friends are the answer."
• "Exploring new horizons with my favorite people."
• "Life is a journey, and I'm grateful to have friends to share it with."
• "Friends who wander together, stay together."
• "Here's to the friends who make every trip unforgettable."
• "Traveling the world, one friendship at a time."
• "Creating memories around the globe with my travel squad."
• "Adventure is better with friends; it's like a party on the road."
• "Lost in wanderlust, but never lost with friends by my side."
• "Traveling with friends: where the journey becomes the destination."

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Travel with Friends Captions for Instagram

• "Wanderlust and friendship: my perfect travel combo."
• "Exploring the world one Instagram post at a time with my travel squad."
• "Making memories and sharing laughter with friends around the world."
• "Every journey is an opportunity to add another chapter to our story."
• "Capturing moments, creating memories, and cherishing friendships."
• "Traveling with friends: because the best stories are told over and over."
• "Our passports may change, but our friendship remains the same."
• "From wanderlust to wander-must with my incredible travel companions."
• "The world is a book, and my friends are the best travel partners to read it with."

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Funny Sayings About Travel with Friends

• "Friends don't let friends travel alone; they also don't let them navigate."
• "Traveling with friends is like living in a reality TV show—full of drama and hilarious moments."
• "Vacations with friends: where you learn that 'squad goals' sometimes means finding a restroom on a remote road trip."
• "Traveling with friends: because you need someone to laugh at your terrible travel jokes."
• "On a trip with friends, every decision is a group decision, and every wrong turn is a 'collective exploration.'"
• "Traveling with friends means always having someone to blame for getting lost—and that's priceless."
• "In the world of travel, friends are like Wi-Fi: you can't always find them, but when you do, they make the journey more enjoyable."
• "Traveling with friends: where 'Are we there yet?' is the theme song and 'I'm hungry' is the chorus."
• "The best part of a road trip with friends? The endless supply of inside jokes and unforgettable memories."
• "When you travel with friends, every adventure becomes a comedy show."

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Road Trip with Friends Quotes

• "Life is a highway, and the best journeys are the ones taken with friends." - Unknown
• "A road trip is better with good company and great music." - Unknown
• "The open road and a car full of friends: that's all you need for a memorable adventure." - Unknown
• "Road trips are the equivalent of human wings spread out wide." - Victoria Erickson
• "Road trips with friends: where the journey is the destination." - Unknown
• "Adventure is worthwhile in itself, especially when shared with friends." - Amelia Earhart
• "A road trip is a way for the whole family to spend time together and annoy each other in interesting new places." - Tom Lichtenheld
• "Life was meant for good friends and great adventures." - Unknown
• "Road trips are the best therapy sessions you can have with your friends." - Unknown
• "Road trips may have detours, but with friends, they're always worth taking." - Unknown

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Inspirational Friendship and Travel Quotes

• "Friends that travel together, stay together." - Unknown
• "Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world." - Gustave Flaubert
• "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" - C.S. Lewis
• "To travel is to discover that everyone is wrong about other countries." - Aldous Huxley
• "Friendship is not just one thing; it's a million little things." - Unknown
• "Travel is the only thing you can buy that makes you richer." - Unknown
• "Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world." - John Evelyn
• "To awaken quite alone in a strange town is one of the most pleasant sensations in the world." - Freya Stark
• "True friendship is like a compass; it shows us the right direction in life's journey." - Unknown

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"In the grand tapestry of life, friendships and travels are threads that weave together unforgettable moments, turning ordinary days into extraordinary adventures. As we conclude this journey through 100 inspiring friends travel quotes, remember that the bonds you create with your travel companions are as enduring as the memories you make together. Whether you're setting off on a road trip, backpacking through foreign lands, or simply enjoying a weekend getaway with friends, cherish every moment. Let these quotes be a reminder of the profound connection between friendship and travel, a relationship that deepens with each mile traveled and each destination explored. As you continue to wander the world with your friends, may your hearts be full, your spirits be high, and your adventures be endless. For it is the combination of friendship and travel that ignites our wanderlust and makes life's journey all the more remarkable."

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WHAT A RIOT!

Travelling with friends is a whole different dynamic than travelling with family or with a partner.

It seemed unavoidable that our trip turns was going to be filled with a  series of mishaps, complications, and unending laughter.

     It is a crazy adventure and one that I have not experienced in a while.

The last time I went on a trip with friends was in May 2011….come October 2015, here we are, six friends heading out to Barcelona for a destination birthday. Four of us flew from Vienna, two from London.

The plan was to meet at Barcelona El Prat Airport, then head over to our Air BnB Apartment. Needless to say, our plans didn’t turn out to be so simple. 

I left my darling hubby and little one and embarked on my two-hour flight from Vienna with two of my besties, and headed off to Barcelona. The flight was great. We talked for the duration of the flight even though it was 06:30 am and we said all we were going to do was sleep on the flight.

Arrival in Barcelona would bring on the adventure! We couldn’t find the rest of our “crew” at the El-Prat Airport. After almost two hours of searching, looking, turning on roaming, sending text messages, Whatsapp, Facebook messages in order to find each other, we finally made our way to the apartment. Got there at 11:30/12:00, our check-in was at 15:00, but at this point nothing could faze us.

           We were hungry and ready for TAPAS TAPAS TAPAS! 

It was 25 degrees (centigrade) outside, sunny, and I felt a sense of calm wash over me. I had hardly slept for three days before this trip, wondering if I was doing the right thing for leaving my baby at home for TWO NIGHTS!!!  I know it seems like a short time, but for a new mum, and likely all mums, the first time away from your child, no matter their age it was going to be tough!

So grateful for a supporting hubby who knew I needed a break. OK – back to the story.

We had lunch at Trobador  at Rambla Catalunya. For me, t he food was a 6 on a scale of 1-10.

It is at times hard to figure out how much food will actually be served on the Tapas plate. Having been to Barcelona before, I knew that at times all you get are little finger bites, other times it is a plate large enough food to fill you for a few hours!

Walked around, took pictures of some of the sights along the way, went back to our apartment and relaxed. Stopped briefly for our group selfie.

That night, after a few more miscommunication, false directions from the receptionist, and a crazy walk and taxi ride, we had dinner at Boca Chica , in the heart of Barcelona’s Eixample.

The website does not do the restaurant justice for its’ grandness, but definitely worth going to if you are ever in Barcelona.    Make reservations as you won’t be seated without.

This restaurant was a recommendation of a friend of a friend. The restaurant is very…..antique, unusual, and the bathroom is the best place in the establishment. Sounds crazy, but it is the truth!

I LOVED the tapas, however the main course was very mediocre. In my opinion…..overpriced, but worth it for the ambiance!

Boca Chica has four floors, we ended up missing out on a floor because the place is so big. We had drinks after dinner in the Lounge, which we confused for the Bar. Too many cocktails maybe – it did turn out to be the better choice though.

Did I mention that one of us set the menu on fire with the candle placed on the table? OH GOSH!

Beautiful Barcelona At Night

Our last  day in Barcelona was spent sightseeing on the Hop On Hop Off bus, which was a great way to see the main sights of the city. There are two routes, East and West, so depending on what you want to see, you make your choice.

We chose the East Route which takes you to the Gothic Quarter, the Aquarium, the seafront, Agbar Tower, the Sagrada Familia and Park Güell.

Of course, you cannot visit Barcelona without seeing the Sagrada Familia !

Sagrada Familia

Although the final stages of construction are still underway, the beauty of this building is beyond fascinating, over 100 years since its foundation stone was laid and 90 years after its designer, Spanish architect Antoni Gaudi died. 

We also visited the Park Güell which is absolutely gorgeous if you visit on a day with great weather and sunshine. Greeted by the Gaudí dragon fountain at the entrance, you can take a beautiful walk through the park with stunning gardens and amazing scenery.

We met this guy on the way up – he insisted on a kiss – this is a close as he got.

Did you notice that he is just sitting there in the air?

Once you get to the top the park, you find a terraced area with a wonderful view of Barcelona City.

We had a great day out, went on a quick shopping spree then headed back to our apartment.

Dinner was more relaxed as we were all exhausted. I decided on taking an early flight home on Sunday, I missed my boys too much. So first thing in the morning I headed back to Vienna, while the others stayed on for a last full day in Barca, before heading home on evening flights.

They had a blast at the beach – and I got to come home to hug and kiss my boys again.

Read About My Other Trip To Barcelona  Here

Have you traveled with friends recently? Or planning to? Please share your experiences or funny moments with me in the comments section below.

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I love Barcelona! The vibe and the city’s architecture are incredible. And with friends even better and more fun!

Traveling with friends can surely make or break the relationship. Stressful times can be difficult but so worth it to experience the world together!

This sounds like so much fun! I don’t have a kid of my own but I left my husband behind as I went to Tulum last year with my friends. I love him and the experience would have been wonderful with him there but there’s something special about sharing experiences with your friends. I’ve never been to Barcelona but I’ve always wanted to go!

Sounds like you had a great time! I always worry about setting menus on fire with those little candles, it’s hysterical that someone did that!

What fun you had traveling with friends. I haven’t taken a vacation in years!!!

I have the best memories of travelling with friends, definitely something I want to do again!

This trip looks incredible. How lucky you are. Glad you have good friends to do this with. Barcelona looks beautiful. More pics please.

I’m sure you made a great decision for some ‘you’ time. Every mom needs it, and deserves it. Glad you were able to go with friends- looks like an awesome experience.

Travelling with friends is always fun. Especially when there are lots of different personalities.

I have yet to take a vacation with my friends. Isn’t that sad? But this post gave me lots of inspiration. Barcelona looks absolutely beautiful and I cannot wait to visit. Thanks for sharing!

When you get a chance to vacation with your friends, you will have a blast Briana! Hope you get to do it soon.

Seems like you had a great time.. Travelling with friends is always fun 🙂 Barcelona is so beautiful added this to my bucket list . Thanks for sharing wonderful information.

Wow! Looks like it was an awesome time — not just visiting Spain, but spending time with your besties! I’m super jealous. Hopefully I can travel soon too!

I love travelling with friends! You make such fond memories and have laughs unlike any other 🙂 I enjoyed your photos. It looks like you had a wonderful time!

Traveling with friends would be a blast! I haven’t done it in years. This place looks fun! And now I want some tapas.

Traveling with friends is a very memorable moment. Sagrada Familia is love. I’d love to visit this one too with hubby. Me and my friends don’t always plan our vacay because the more weplan it, it is often cancelled ha-ha so when we’re all together that’s it we just decide on the spot where to go and that is always a crazy and fun bonding 🙂

Traveling with friends would definitely come with mishaps but tons of laughter as well! I myself tend to choose the group of friends I travel with because I prefer the on the go travel style whereas other friends of mine prefer the chill type of travel 🙂 I think it’s best to travel with people you’re sure to have fun with for the entire trip. Next step is to collect more travel buddies!

I agree! Traveling with friends will definitely come with mishaps but tons of laughter as well 🙂

I love how you enjoyed your trip with your friends. Been traveling with a friend also, and that what makes our travel trip so unique and memorable sometimes it is not the money you invest but the memories you treasured and share. Lucky you for founding your friends that you will really get along with and will love your company. Btw, I never been in Barcelona but when I will have a chance, will really go there.

Oh how I love travelling with friends. Given that you were able to do lots of stuffs. I think it was very amazing to have some time to walk together and have fun!

Traveling with friends is indeed fun and memorable especially if you are in a group and its your first time to visit such place. Its doubly fun with everyone in the group cooperate to try for the first time new delicacies or activities. Looks like you had such great experience. More travels to come!

Discovering new places with friends is indeed fun and memorable especially if you travel in group. It can be real enjoyable as well if you will do things for the first time like tasting new delicacy or trying the zipline, for instance.

Travelling with friends is certainly the best activity one can try. You don’t just travel with them but you make good memories too! How I wish my friends could spend at least a 2 day vacay abroad but unfortunately, it’s quite expensive. But if ever, I’ll surely grab the opportunity to spend time with them at least once in a while.

Boca Chica sounds super fun. The way you described it, seems that one visit is not enough. You and your friends looked like you had a blast. Trips are crazier and more fun when spent with friends.

I agree that travelling with friends are a lot more exciting! Me and my friends have plans to visit Baguio City here in the Philippines on July and we are pretty excited about it! Glad you had a great time!

Hi Ainie – I am so excited for you that you are going to travel with your friends, I would love to hear all about it when you are back. Have fun and take lots of pictures.

Hi, Sheri. What a nice adventure you had. More than anything else, it is the company of friends that makes your trip special. It is the mishaps that makes for endless tales later on in life. 🙂

Yes Robert – The stories we get to tell later are the fun parts because you get to travel back in time while telling the story and relive the mishaps and drama in a light and funny way.

I think traveling with friends is a lot of fun as long as you have common goals. If someone wants to shop while another person wants to go tour the country, I think that could be hard to have a really fun trip! I love being with people who have similar interests as I do so that I feel comfortable stating my opinion and seeing what I want to see. It sounds like you had a great trip with friends!

Yes Alison, this is one of those times when you have to choose your friends carefully. You cannot travel with certain friends, it will only bring stress and drama. Some friends are great to travel with because you are guaranteed an amazing time. You need to be free around those who you surround yourself with.

Wow! Looks like such an amazing trip! I haven’t tried visiting another country with a bunch of friends, I hope it goes smoothly though hehe. And I must say, Sagrada Familia WOW. Ommmyyy, we were meant to go here a few weeks ago while we were in Europe, sadly we didn’t get to stop by, such a shame! It would’ve been amazing 😀

You would have loved in Johna. If you get to go back, try to see it. The restoration might even be done by then!

Loved hearing about your trip, sounds like you enjoyed yourself for the most part! I would love to go to Barcelona one day! 🙂

That sounds really fun! I haven’t traveled with anyone else except for my mother when I was a kid, so it’s difficult for me to imagine. But Barcelona is a great city! Isn’t La Sagrada Familia amazing? Maybe you can bring your whole family when your son is older.

What a fun trip!

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But before you decide on a destination, be sure to keep the personalities and preferences of your friends top of mind. Some friends are awesome to lay on a beach with, but not so great for trekking through the jungle or road tripping through Europe.

My top tip: Embrace the personalities and preferences of who you’re traveling with, and let it guide your destination.

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15 FUN Places to go with friends on the weekend

I highly recommend OFTEN taking fun trips with friends near where you live. Short and sweet trips are a great way to “test the waters” of traveling with friends without putting too much stress on a relationship. Especially if your travel styles are quite different.

Here are awesome places to go with friends on the weekend, including ideas across the US and Canada.

1. HOUSEBOATING near you

My very first BIG trip with friends was a houseboating weekend in beautiful British Columbia. It was perfect! 

We soaked in the hot tub and slid down the waterslide when we got too hot. Ate way too much ice cream. Met some cuties. And we even crashed. Yup, we did. There’s nothing like a little drama to pull you together! (Make sure you get insurance, ‘cause those boats are harder to steer than they look!)

Find the nearest pretty lake country near you, book a car and make it happen. It’s like camping but with a waterslide.

2. Fun LOS ANGELES weekend getaway for girls

A girls trip to LA is pretty classic. Strut your stuff like Pretty Woman on Rodeo Drive. Hit up the star-prone restaurants. And time it with the Oscars to experience the red carpet. It’s possibly THE most epic place to travel with friends on the weekend.

Or, if you’re not into the Hollywood mayhem, stay on beautiful Santa Monica Beach. Cycle The Strand bike path along the waterfront. Ride the ferris wheel on the pier. And people-watch while enjoying incredible beachfront restaurants.

Where to stay with friends in Los Angeles:

• Casa Del Mar resort and spa (Santa Monica): Right on Santa Monica Beach, with an outdoor pool, restaurants and live music on Sundays. Every room has a hydrotherapy spa tub and floor-to-ceiling windows, some with an ocean view.
• Beverly Wilshire (Beverly Hills): As close as you can get to Rodeo Drive, overlooking Rodeo Drive and the Via Rodeo fountain and steps. An epic place for a trip with friends to explore Rodeo Drive’s boutique shops and cafes.
• SIXTY Beverly Hills (Beverly Hills): Five blocks from Rodeo Drive along Wilshire Blvd, with a pretty rooftop pool and bar.

3. FLORIDA KEYS road trips with friends

A road trip from Miami to the tip of the Florida Keys is the perfect mix of beach and culture. It’s only about 3.5 hours, with plenty of time to stop along the way.

If you’re not from Miami, spend a day exploring its museums, Bayside Marketplace at the waterfront, or cultural neighborhoods like Little Havana.

Then, rent a car and head out to Key West. Along the way, stop to play with dolphins, feel the sand between your toes, and eat and drink with a view. Want more adventure? Where better to go skydiving with the girls than in Key West?!

Find all you need to plan your Florida Keys road trip with friends .

4. NEW ORLEANS weekend getaway with friends

Visiting the plantations in Louisiana would certainly make for a memorable travel experience with friends in the USA. Stay in a former plantation mansion, the elegant Nottoway Plantation that dates back to the 1850s. It’s the south’s largest antebellum mansion, located right on the Mississippi River. It features antiques and fireplaces in the rooms. Plus, an outdoor pool, hot tub, onsite dining and self-guided tours.

Plantations to visit near New Orleans, Louisiana:

• Oak Alley Plantation : Known for the stunning Oak-lined path entrance to this sugarcane plantation. Features tours of the “big house” (with a pretty wrap-around upper balcony), slave cabins, expansive garden and exhibits.
• Whitney Plantation : Famous for its ground-breaking slavery museum, with restored buildings and educational guided tours.
• Destrehan Plantation : Established in 1787, this sugar plantation was the site of one of the three trials following the 1811 Slave Revolt. Features interpretive tours, exhibits and pretty grounds.

5. Fun trips with friends to NEW YORK CITY

New York City can be anything you and your friends want it to be. 

Times Square and Fifth Avenue are perfect for high-end shopping, flashing lights and nightlife. Its museums, Broadway theater and The Lincoln Center for the Performing Arts are epic for the culturalists. Foodies will love exploring Manhattan, Queens and Brooklyn. And for those who love relaxation, Central Park, Staten Island and Brooklyn waterfront promise amazing views. I’d argue that NYC is one of the BEST places to travel with friends.

On my trip with friends to NYC, we stayed in a boutique hotel in the Upper West Side . Within a block, we had a small pastry shop, grocery store and plenty of cute cafes. We could easily walk to Central Park and Riverside Park (perfect for a You’ve Got Mail walking tour). And since we were surrounded by residential streets, I got to meet so many dogs out for their walk! Plus, easy subway access to everything else.

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6. SEATTLE jazz weekend trips with friends

I love Seattle, Washington. Its Pike Place Market and waterfront restaurants. Plenty of jazz clubs. And lots of excellent shopping and coffee shops, too. Seattle has beautiful waterfront parks, artsy museums, Space Needle views, and boat tours to stay busy. Time it with a concert, too!

When I visited Seattle with one of my best friends, we LOVED the comfortable beds and pillows at the Staypineapple Maxwell Hotel . You simply cannot get a better sleep! It’s colorful vibe is super fun, too, and it has an indoor pool and bikes you can use. Price includes wifi.

Now, as much as I love the Staypineapple beds, you can’t get a better location than The Edgewater . It’s right at Pier 67, with fabulous views of Elliot Bay and the Olympic Mountains. Elegant rooms have fireplaces, cozy furnishings and spa bathroom. The property features an onsite restaurant, gift shop and coffee bar. Price includes wifi and downtown shuttle.

7. Fun LAS VEGAS weekend trips with friends

I’ll admit that Las Vegas is pretty low on my list of places to visit, but I understand the appeal – especially with friends. Awesome shows. Epic shopping. Sights you just won’t see anywhere else.

If you want to embrace the chaos, Las Vegas Strip is the place to stay. If you want to come up to breathe, consider a place like Tahiti Village Resort & Spa near the airport and outlet mall.

You’ll also find some incredible house rentals on VRBO , both near The Strip or near the mountains.

8. Epic CANYON road trips with friends

A great add-on to a friends Vegas trip, especially for the outdoorsy adventurers at heart, is a 2-day canyon road trip . Hike the amazing canyons of Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon National Park, Grand Canyon North Rim and Antelope slot canyon.

You have some incredible options for places to stay, too. Under Canvas near Lake Powell has lovely tents with a cozy wood-burning stove and private balcony with canyon views. Or book the luxury Amangiri spa resort, tucked right into the rocks. It has an onsite restaurant, bar, concierge, sauna and spa. And the rooms look AMAZING.

9. AMUSEMENT PARK hopping trips with friends

Are you guys dare-devils? How fun would it be to go amusement park hopping together?!

Top on my list are Coney Island in New York City and Knott’s Berry Farm in Buena Park, California. In Canada, Montreal’s Six Flags is lots of fun.

To visit a bunch on one trip, take a road trip through California or Pennsylvania. Yup, Pennsylvania! Check out this USA Today article for 17 awesome parks.

10. BEACH resort weekend getaway with friends

You can have an amazing beach resort getaway with friends even without leaving the continental USA. One of my favorite spots is about half an hour from downtown Jacksonville, Florida, at the lovely Ponte Vedra Beach seaside community. It’s also known as San Pablo Island, and is a great mixture of relaxing beaches and bustling Jacksonville nearby.

A wonderful place for a beach weekend getaway with friends is Ponte Vedra Inn and Club . Its beach and gardens are beautiful, with warm and comfortable rooms. Enjoy four heated pools, bikes, seven restaurants and lounges, and plenty of onsite shops and boutiques. Despite all of its amenities, it feels like a charming boutique inn.

Our equivalent for relaxation in Canada is Prince Edward Island. It’s super low-key and perfect for friends who just want to chill.

Dalvay by the Sea Hotel is classic and luxurious, located on the north shore. It’s inside a national park and has an onsite restaurant, bar, tennis courts and bike rentals. Or stay in one of many lovely historic inns in Charlottetown. I highly recommend the charming Fairholm National Historic Inn .

11. Fun ARTSY places to go with friends

Here are two very different types of artsy places to go with friends.

First, East Hampton Art Bed and Breakfast on Long Island. This sprawling property is perfect for art lovers and those looking for a refreshing getaway. Relax in the outdoor pool and jacuzzi while admiring the meditation garden, waterfalls, and lotus pond.

And second, head to Memphis to meet the king! If your friends are big music buffs, you’ll enjoy exploring the Memphis Rock ‘n Soul Museum, Gibson Guitar Factory, and Orpheum Theatre. And of course, the iconic Beale Street’s shops and restaurants. 

Stay at the Peabody Memphis with an onsite dining room, spa, indoor pool and luxurious bathrobes. And don’t miss Peabody’s “March of the ducks” tradition!

12. LAKEFRONT retreat weekend trips with friends

Head to Upstate New York for a weekend trip with friends at the lake. 

Inns of Aurora is a community of five lakefront properties. They’re beautiful and cozy, with wine tastings, yoga and painting classes. Plus, a private beach, lakeside firepits, paddling and bikes. Organic, fair-trade coffee and fresh scones in the morning. Farm-to-table restaurant during the day. Book a room with a fireplace and lake views.

13. Fun weekend trips with friends in TEXAS

There are plenty of beautiful resorts in Texas perfect for weekend trips with friends. One of my favorites is the JL Bar Ranch Resort and Spa in lovely Texas Hill Country. This estate is grand, with a full-service spa, outdoor pool and two restaurants. Plus, pretty gardens to explore, complete with a fountain. Rooms offer warm decor, with gorgeous dark wood accents, furnished patios, bathrobes and slippers. Price includes wifi.

Another favorite is Commodore Perry Estate in Austin Texas. Its manicured gardens are gorgeous, as is the massive library with floor-to-ceiling bookcases and plush couches. You’ll also spend plenty of time in its elegant tea room, pool, terrace and restaurant. Book a room with a terrace for pretty views. Price includes wifi and shuttle service.

14. WINE AND SPA getaways with friends

Do you girls love sipping wine and relaxing with beautiful views? One of the best places to travel with friends in the USA is Napa Valley, California. Napa Valley is about 1.5 hours northeast of the San Francisco International Airport. You’ll find more than 375 wineries, more than 150 restaurants, and beautiful weather year-round. Napa Valley is nestled among two mountain ranges, with incredible views wherever you look.

For weekend getaways with friends at Canadian wineries, choose from gorgeous views in the Okanagan Valley of British Columbia, Niagara-on-the-Lake in Ontario, and Annapolis Valley in Nova Scotia. All three locations have excellent wines, spas and views.

Where to stay for a wine and spa getaway with the girls:

• Auberge du Soleil Resort (Rutherford, California): This gorgeous resort is the ultimate friends weekend getaway, surrounded by a 33-acre olive grove. Relax in cabanas at the pool. Indulge at the spa and fine dining restaurant.
• Therapy Vineyards (Okanagan, BC): Suites overlook the vineyard and Okanagan Lake, with oversized windows, fireplace, patio and oversized tub. The property also has an outdoor fireplace and hot tub, and serves breakfast.
• Prince of Wales (Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario): This elegant Victorian-style luxury hotel is the perfect base for exploring nearby wineries. Features an onsite spa and indoor pool. Enjoy traditional English tea at the onsite restaurant and local wines in the cozy lounge.

15. CRAFTING retreat with the girls

There’s something about a crafting getaway that screams “treat”! How often do you dedicate time to create together?

You can find accommodations that offer things like cooking classes or join a retreat that focuses on a particular craft, like painting. For me and my friends, we’d just bring our favorite crafting supplies to a cozy cabin retreat with a hot tub and views.

15 BEST Places to travel with friends in Europe and the world

Taking international trips with friends is a sure way to create lasting memories and bonds. But the stress of international travel will put pressure on your friendship. Make sure you choose a destination that complements your relationship and how you enjoy spending time together.

In Europe, my favorite place to look for accommodations is Plum Guide . You’ll find the coolest house rentals ever, all verified and not all ridiculously expensive.

Here are awesome places to travel with friends in the world, including Europe.

16. European CASTLE getaway with friends

Take your international trip with friends around Europe chasing castles! The biggest challenge will be narrowing your castle adventure to a geographical area, like England or France.

Pick the most iconic castle or area you most want to see and plan the rest of your friends vacation from there. Here are three ideas:

• Neuschwanstein Castle (Germany): The most classic fairytale-like castle nestled in the Bavarian Alps. Take in its stunning architecture, lush surroundings, and panoramic views. Other (relatively) nearby castles to visit include the medieval and mountaintop Hohenwerfen Fortress in Austria and 
• Château de Chambord (France): A Renaissance masterpiece with elegant French architecture and vast gardens. It’ll enchant you with its grand halls and intricate details. Other notable French castles to visit include the lovely Château de Chenonceau built atop an old mill and the opulent Palace of Versailles.
• Eilean Donan Castle (Scotland): A remarkably enchanting castle among many in Scotland, with its charming bridge and moss-covered walls near the entrance to the Isle of Skye. My other favorite castles are on the opposite side of Scotland: the grand Sterling Castle and romantic cliffside Dunnottar Castle.

17. International trips with friends to AUSTRIA

Austria is a captivating blend of stunning landscapes, rich history, and cultural experiences. Start your trip with friends in Vienna , the capital city. It’s a hub of art, music and architecture, with magnificent palaces, cathedrals and museums. Pick accommodations near City Center so you can walk to St. Stephen’s Cathedral for evening drinks.

Then, travel through the Danube’s Wachau Valley before heading south to Salzburg. Wachau Valley is a beautiful area of vineyards and cute villages along the river valley. I also highly recommend a stop at Stift Melk Abbey .

Roam the streets and hills surrounding the lovely city of Salzburg , the birthplace of Mozart and setting for the Sound of Music. It’s a charming old town with cobblestone streets, lovely gardens, and the iconic Hohensalzburg Fortress looming above.

18. ENGLAND road trips with friends

Take a road trip with friends through the English countryside. There are SO many romantic castles, parks and gardens. Quaint villages in the Cotswolds. Rugged rolling hills in the Lake District. And haunting mysteries of Rosslyn Chapel. Experience England’s beauty on a drive from London to Edinburgh .

If you’d prefer a relaxing group tour rather than driving yourself, check out excellent tours of England from Trafalgar . Include a tour of Scotland and Ireland, too.

Find amazing places to stay on PlumGuide.com .

19. EUROPEAN CRUISE vacation with friends 

A European cruise vacation with friends would be AMAZING. You have all the benefits of world-class service, entertainment and food. Plus the gorgeous cities, islands and rugged coastline of the Mediterranean Sea. Elegant spires off the Baltic Sea. Incredible history and the Cliffs of Dover off the North Sea. And then the more intimate cruise experience of exploring the Rhine or Danube.

Choosing your perfect European cruise option will be the toughest part. River cruises are quite unique, and an incredible way to experience Europe together.

20. Road trips through ITALY with friends

I’ve been to Italy only once and long to go back. There is SO much to see in Italy and it would be absolutely amazing to experience it with my best girl friends. Given the variety of sights to see, I recommend either getting a train pass for the time you’re there or renting a car.

On a road trip through Italy, start and stop in the vibrant city of Rome. Rome is a must-visit for historical landmarks like the Colosseum, Vatican City, and the Trevi Fountain. Stroll its charmings streets while indulging in pastas and gelato.

Then head up to Venice, a unique floating city built on canals. On your return to Rome, stop in Florence to see the famous Statue of David and beautiful churches. Then calm things down with a few days exploring the stunning Cinque Terre coastline and Tuscany wineries.

If you have more time, continue south of Rome to explore the historic ruins of Pompeii. It’s just south of Naples, another gorgeous coastal city. Sorrento and the Amalfi coast promise more spectacular views and memories for an epic trip with friends.

Find amazing home rentals on PlumGuide.com and hotels on Booking.com .

21. Explore ICELAND on a trip with friends

Iceland is a magical land of fire and ice, with waterfalls, the Blue Lagoon and ice caves. It’s an amazing trip with friends who love exploring nature’s wonders … and don’t mind a remote experience. There are no Starbucks in Iceland! But you will find other delicious coffee.

Visit the famous Golden Circle, which includes the breathtaking Gullfoss waterfall, the Geysir geothermal area, and the Þingvellir National Park. Take in the Jökulsárlón Glacier Lagoon and nearby Diamond Beach. Hike through the mesmerizing landscapes of Landmannalaugar or the volcanic region of Mývatn. Discover rugged fjords and black sand beaches, and then soak in the soothing Blue Lagoon geothermal spa.

If you want to explore Iceland’s famous ice caves or chase the Northern Lights, you must come in winter. Plan your friend’s trip between mid-November and mid-March.

22. Fun CARIBBEAN CRUISE trips with friends

A cruise is as easy as they come for trips with friends. Choose a destination, timing, and go!

A super easy cruise vacation for friends would be the Bahamas or Caribbean. Hop from beautiful island to beautiful island, all while enjoying luxury amenities, entertainment, and dining onboard.

A cruise is also a fantastic solution to taking trips with friends who have different interests. So long as you can agree on a cruise destination, you can go your separate ways in the afternoon and come back together at dinner.

Explore cruises on CruiseDirect.com .

23. INDIA adventure places to travel with friends

India is rich in cultural heritage, diverse landscapes, and unforgettable experiences for friends traveling together. Explore the bustling streets of Delhi and vibrant markets of Jaipur. Visit the iconic Taj Mahal in Agra. And take a spiritual journey in Varanasi.

But to see the best of India on your trip with friends, you need to leave the popular northern cities. Travel south to the popular Kovalam Beach and witness the breathtaking landscapes of Kerala’s backwaters.

Find incredible treehouses for your next best adventure with friends! Check out these treehouses on Booking.com , including in India, Chile, Costa Rica and more.

24. International trips with friends to THAILAND

Are you and your friends intrigued by Asian culture and finding the perfect secluded beach (like in The Beach movie)? Then I’m guessing Thailand is on your radar for international places to visit with friends. 

My main tip for visiting Thailand is to get out of Bangkok as quickly as possible. It’s busy, smoggy and not especially friendly. Instead, head north to Chiang Mai to experience the floating markets . Climb an ancient temple and brush up against an elephant. Then indulge at a beach resort at Phuket or the Phi Phi islands . Bask on white sand beach, surrounded by gorgeous limestone peaks and perfect turquoise waters.

Interested in a guided group tour? I highly recommend Intrepid small group tours for an incredibly rich, “local” experience. They have tours into Northern and Southern Thailand, including food and beach tours!

You may also like 5 Charities in SE Asia Tourists Should Visit .

25. Epic CAMBODIA trips with friends

Ancient temples, jungle and Tomb Raider. And an incredibly resilient people that carry an awful history of genocide. Cambodia is a place that will touch your soul and guarantees a friends trip you’ll never forget.

You’ll want to visit both the capital of Phnom Penh and Siem Reap, home to the famous temples. In Phnom Penh, visit markets, temples and gardens. But hold onto your food, because those monkeys are gutsy! And my opinion is that tourists should pay their respects at the genocide sites . How else can we begin to appreciate what their people have been through?

In Siem Reap, explore the gorgeous temple ruins of Angkor Wat, Bayon Temple and Ta Prohm. A local guide can also take you to lesser-known temples you can climb with a jungle view all to yourself. Be sure to have a drink at The Red Piano and ask for a Tomb Raider drink. Cheers!

When I was in Siem Reap, my sister challenged me to do more than visit, so I will challenge you. Read about my experience of donating blood in Cambodia . (Yes, it was safe.)

26. JAPANESE MONASTERY places to travel with friends

I’ve only had a taste of visiting Japan on a layover in Tokyo on our way to Vietnam, but they completely charmed me with their hospitality! Japan is now on my bucket list, and specifically the zen experience of staying in Japanese monasteries.

Two iconic Japanese monastery communities to visit on a trip with friends include Kōya-san (Mount Kōya) and Kinkaku-ji (Golden Pavilion). Mount Kōya is in a mountainous region about 7 hours southwest of Tokyo. It’s home to over a hundred temples including the famous Kongōbu-ji. Stay in shukubo (temple lodgings) with traditional Japanese-style rooms, vegetarian meals, and the opportunity to participate in morning meditations.

Kinkaku-ji (Golden Pavilion) is right in Kyoto. It’s known for its stunning golden exterior, and creates a breathtaking view as it reflects off the surrounding pond. Explore its exquisite gardens and the historic tea house inside the complex.

27. Fun AUSTRALIA beach road trips with friends

Australia is known for powdery white-sand beaches. So, rent a car and go beach-hopping on a road trip with friends!

Fly into Sydney and start your trip with friends at the iconic Bondi Beach . It’s known for its vibrant atmosphere, excellent surf and coastal walks. Take in the lively beach culture as you sample the many beachside cafes.

Then, head south for about 3 hours to Hyams Beach in Jervis Bay. It holds a Guinness World Record for having the whitest sand. Swim and snorkel at these beautiful clear waters and enjoy the laid-back coastal vibe.

Along the way, stop at the coastal Royal National Park and inland Heathcote National Park . They offer rugged hiking and other adventures that balance nicely with beach-bumming!

28. International trips with friends to BRAZIL

Have you heard of Iguazu Falls? Iguazu Falls is the world’s LARGEST waterfall, made up of a massive 270 separate falls! Check it out for yourself in the best virtual tours of waterfalls around the world . Iguazu Falls is right on the Brazil and Argentina border. 

Along with Iguazu Falls, experience Brazil’s beaches, rainforest and Rio de Janeiro. Make the epic climb up to Christ the Redeemer for epic views.

If you’re interested in a guided tour, check out Trafalgar’s tours in South America . This would be an easy way to explore the best sights on a trip with friends.

29. COSTA RICA best places to travel with friends

I SO want to experience the Monteverde Cloud Forest Reserve in Costa Rica. And stay in treehouse resorts. It sounds incredible.

Costa Rica is a tropical paradise known for its incredible biodiversity and natural wonders. The Monteverde Cloud Forest Reserve offers breathtaking views, misty forests, and the chance to see rare wildlife. The nearby Arenal Volcano National Park provides thrilling hikes and hot springs for relaxing afterwards. 

For a beach experience, head to Manuel Antonio National Park. Manuel Antonio National Park is renowned for stunning beaches and lots of wildlife, perfect for relaxing and snorkeling. It’s on the Pacific Ocean and accessible by road.

With its lush rainforests, stunning coastlines, and eco-friendly practices, Costa Rica offers a memorable and sustainable travel experience for friends.

30. Fun MEXICO beach trips with friends

There’s a reason why North Americans flock to beautiful Mexico! Mexico has some of the world’s finest beaches, best preserved Mayan ruins and fascinating, colorful cultures. But with all the options, where should you travel with friends? I suggest two. 

First, Cancun is an obvious choice. It’s a world-class destination with something for everyone. Exquisite beaches, first-class hotels, a more authentic downtown area, Mayan ruins and fantastic weather year-round. For an incredible trip with Mom to Cancun, stay at the adults-only all-inclusive Le Blanc Spa Resort . 

A second, quieter choice is Playa Maroma. About 30 miles from Riviera Maya, Playa Maroma has arguably the best beaches in the world. Plus rainforests and snorkeling right off the beach. A beautiful all-inclusive resort to check out is Catalonia Playa Maroma .

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Incredible Friend Travel Quotes To Share With Your BFF

Traveling solo may have its perks, but when you’re with a friend it can leave you with everlasting memories that are priceless. So if you’re getting ready for a travel adventure or strolling down memory lane with the bestie, I have compiled a list of best friend travel quotes to share with your BFF.

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Best Friend Travel Quotes

Time to grab your BFF and share these friend travel quotes. Be prepared to laugh, cry, and reminisce on all the exciting adventures you had together!

Inspirational Best Friend Travel Quotes

1|“There is an unspoken bond you create with the friends you travel with.” – Kristen Sarah

2|“Good friends follow you anywhere.” – Winnie the Pooh

  3|“Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” – Albert Camus

4|“Having a best friend is like having your own little corner of the world to escape to.” – Unknown

5|“True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.” – David Tyson

6|“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” – Oprah Winfrey

7| “Friends that travel together, stay together.”- Unknown 

8| “You can pack for every occasion, but a good friend will always be the best thing you could bring!”- Unknown 

9|“True friends never apart maybe in distance never in heart.” – Helen Keller

10| “We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world & the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” – Robert Louis Stevenson 

11|“Life was meant for good friends and great adventures.” – Unknown 

12| “Travel is better with friends.” – Unknown

 13|“It Doesn’t Matter Where You’re Going, It’s Who You Have Beside You.”- Unknown 

14|“Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter.” — Izaak Walton

15| “Will you come travel with me? Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?” — Walt Whitman

16| “Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.” – Helen Keller  “Friendship isn’t about being inseparable…it’s being separated and knowing nothing will change.” -Unknown

17| “Some souls just understand each other upon meeting” – N.R Hart

18|”A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.”– Bernard Meltzer

19| “To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.”– Brandi Snyder

20| “Traveling in the company of those we love is home in motion.” — Leigh Hunt 

21|“You travel faster alone, but farther together.” — Michael Benanav

 22| “Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.”- Henry David Thoreau 

23|“I get a friend to travel with me… I need somebody to bring me back to who I am. It’s hard to be alone.” – Leonardo DiCaprio 

24|“People Don’t Take Trips, Trips Take People.”– John Steinbeck

25|“The real test of friendship is can you literally do nothing with the other person? Can you enjoy those moments of life that are utterly simple?”– Eugene Kennedy 

26|“It is not the destination where you end up but the mishaps and memories you create along the way!”– Penelope Riley 

27|“When traveling life’s journey, it’s good to have a friend’s hand to hold on to.” – Unknown

28| “The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way.” – Unknown 

29|“I want to travel the world with you.”- Unknown

30| “I would like to travel the world with you twice. Once, to see the world. Twice to see the way you see the world.”- Unknown

31| “Surround yourself with people who make you hungry for life, touch your heart, and nourish your soul.” – Unknown

32|“Friends are as companions on a journey, who ought to aid each other to persevere in the road to a happier life.” — Pythagoras

33|“The most beautiful things in life are not things. They’re people and places, memories, and pictures. They’re feelings and moments, and smiles and laughter.” — Unknown 

34|“We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.” – Jawaharlal Nehru

34| “I want to travel the world with you.”- Unknown

35| “Home is not where you are from, it is where you belong. Some of us travel the whole world to find it. Others, find it in a person.” – Beau Taplin 

36|“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”– Helen Keller 

37|“The more I traveled, the more I realized fear makes strangers of people who should be friends.”- Unknown

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Funny Friend Travel Quotes

Alright, so after reading those mushy friend travel quotes  you can put the Kleenex away. It is time for a laugh. Here are some funny quotes about traveling with friends. More than likely if have had your adventures with your ‘partner in crime’ you can relate to these best friend travel quotes. 

38| “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” – Thelma and Louise

39| “A good friend listens to your adventures. Your best friend makes them with you.” – Unknown

40| “There is nothing like puking with somebody to make you into old friends.” – Sylvia Plath

41| “A good friend listens to your adventures. Your best friend makes them with you.”-Unknown 

42| “Life is about doing things that don’t suck with people who don’t suck.”-Unknown 

43|“Everyone needs this friend that calls and says, “Get dressed, we’re going on an adventure.”- Unknown 

44|“You and me, we are more than friends. We are like a small travel gang!”- Unknown 

45| “I have found out that there ain’t no surer way to find out whether you like people or hate them than to travel with them.” – Mark Twain  

46|“Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.” – Ernest Hemingway

 47|“Only the people you don’t know well enough seem normal. Every person you know well enough is odd, weird and different. This is called friendship!” – Unknown 

48|“Friends, sun , sand and sea. That sounds like a summer to me.”- Unknown

49| “The fastest way to make a friend for life is to travel with a stranger.” – Unknown 

50|“As Soon As I Saw You, I Knew A Grand Adventure Was About To Happen.”-Winnie The Pooh 

51|“We’ve been friends for so long I can’t remember which one of us is the bad influence.”-Unknown

52|“Let’s find some beautiful place to get lost together.”- Unknown

53|“There Is A Whole World Out There. Pack Your Backpack, Your Best Friend And Go.”- Unknown

54| “Sharing adventures means enjoying them 100% more.”- Unknown 

55|“Sometimes me think, “What is friend?’ Then me say, ‘Friend is someone to share the last cookie with.” -Cookie Monster

56|“Some people go to priests. Others to poetry. I to my friends.” —Virginia Woolfe “

57|“Best friend: the one you can only get mad at for a short period, because you have important stuff to tell them.”- Unknown

58|“If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far go together.” – African Proverb

59|  “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive.” – Anais Nin

60| “When you get lost in a really strange place, nothing is more comforting than finding your friend whom you trust and can show the way.” – Toba Beta

61| “Let’s travel together, and get lost in beautiful places.” — Unknown 

62|”As with any journey, who you travel with can be more important than your destination.” — Gossip Girl 

63|”I wanna travel the world with you, go to every country, every city, take pictures, and be happy.” — Unknown

64| “A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.”– Donna Roberts 

65|“Oh darling, let’s be adventurers.”-Unknown

66|“Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and to have her nonsense respected.”– Charles Lamb 

67| “Mighty proud I am that I am able to have a spare bed for my friends.”— Samuel Pepys

68|“Good times and crazy friends make the best memories” – Unknown 

69|“Friends make the world go ‘round” – World Wild Hearts

70|“In the end, what you do isn’t going to be nearly as interesting or important as who you do it with.”–  John Green 

71|“Tell me with whom you travel, and I’ll tell you who you are.”- German Proverb

72|“ A daring adventure with your best friends might be just what the doctor ordered.”- Unknown

73|“Life by the water is always better, especially with a few good friends in tow.”– Unknown 

74|“No road is long with good company.”– Turkish proverb 

75|“Our goal is to run out of pages in our passports.”- Unknown 

76|“I want to travel the world with you, go to every country, every city, take pictures and be happy.”- Unknown

77|“The best way to form a song bond with someone is to travel with them.”- Unknown

78| “I would gladly live out of a suitcase if it meant I could see the world with you.”-Unknown 

79|“Let’s go on an adventure. I’ll make some sandwiches and a flask of tea, we’ll get out walking boots on and get lost somewhere.” – Unknown

80|“When traveling with someone, take large doses of patience and tolerance with your morning coffee.” – Helen Hayes 

81|“You keep me safe, I’ll keep you wild.”- Unknown

82| “The tans will fade but the memories will last forever”- Unknown

83| “There are no strangers in this world, only friends I haven’t met yet.”- Unknown

84|“Good friends are like stars. You don’t always see them, but you know they are there.”-Unknown

85|“Be careful whom you make memories with. Those things can last a lifetime.” – Ugo Eze

86|“Travel has a way of removing the gaps in your friendship timeline.”- Unknown

87| “Travel only with thy equals or thy betters; if there are none, travel alone.” –The Dhammapada

88| “You never really travel alone, the world is full of friends waiting to know you”- Unknown 

89|“Friends are like walls, sometimes you lean on them and sometimes it’s good just knowing they’re there.”- Unknown 

90| “You cannot do epic s**t with basic people.”- Unknown

91| “Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up.”-Thomas J. Watson

Best Friend Travel Quotes Conclusion

I really enjoyed writing this post and collecting a list of best friend travel quotes. It brought back memories of epic trips I have taken with my gals. Please comment below and tell me which one of these friend travel quotes was your favorite. And, please share any friend travel quotes you may have. 

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Aww, I love this. I always enjoy traveling with my friends and this just made me want to book another trip and wonder where we’re going to go next

Hey Emma! It is fun traveling with friends and making some awesome memories. I would love to book a trip right now with my bestie too! Thanks for reading.

Ah these quotes have reminded me that I don’t travel often enough with friends! I love “Sometimes all you need is a great friend and a tank of gas.” but I also love “A good friend listens to your adventures. Your best friend makes them with you.” I really want to plan a girls trip now!

I am so glad they inspired you Hannah! Hopefully, we will be able to plan a trip soon with our besties soon!

Travel is so much better with friends, I cannot wait to be able to travel with my girls again. I loved these quotes.

I completely agree May. Waiting to travel with my girls again. Glad you loved the quotes.

Such an extensive list, very inspiring! I miss the times when we could all travel freely with friends.

Oh me too Tina. I miss it and so miss the plane.

Love these! I met one of my best friends while I was on an exchange during University! 3 years later and we still plan a trip together each year 🙂

Hey Kelly! That is one awesome story. I hope you guys were able to still have a trip together this year. What an awesome tradition.

These are all so sweet – friendship is more important now than ever I think! Though I often have trouble getting some friends to come out on adventures with me…

Hey Caitlin! Completely understand about getting friends to go on adventures.*sigh

I must say the list is long and impressive. It was interesting, thanks for sharing!

Thanks so much for reading Smith! I think you will find it is really easy to use for travel planning!

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How to make friends as you travel – according to the women who’ve done it 

Call us biased, but it’s hard to deny the benefits of small-group travel. Want the inside scoop on a place? Say hello to your local leader. Tired of travel logistics? We’ve got you covered. Need a travel buddy? Well, that’s kind of our thing…  

With us, you’ll always explore the world with a group of like-minded travel companions – but some Intrepid travellers are lucky enough to find solid, long-term friendships on our adventures, often quite unexpectedly.

To celebrate Galentine’s Day, we’re putting the spotlight on female friendships forged on the road. Read on for expert tips on how to make friends as you travel from Claire Cohen, author of BFF? The Truth About Female Friendship – and get inspired by real-life friendship stories from Intrepid women. 

Tips from female friendship expert Claire Cohen  

As bonding experiences go, it was up there. As I pulled on my disposable underwear and sat down in the hot room, thick with steam and the scent of soap, I could just make out the faces of my new friends – the three of us ready for our first Moroccan hammam experience. For locals, a trip to these public baths means a moment to bond with family, friends and neighbours – all while being scrubbed (and I mean scrubbed ) with a loofah, washed down with black soap and having buckets of water poured over their heads.  

Yet, here I was with two women I’d only met two days earlier, almost naked and very nervous. Of course, we needn’t have worried – a few moments of eye contact as we were scoured and soaped meant we hadn’t only been stripped of layers of dirt and skin, but all our inhibitions. After that, we didn’t stop talking about it for the rest of our trip and, even better, remained in touch for years, even meeting up in London – our travel experience creating a unique bond that no one else in our lives had shared.  

Making friends when travelling solo can seem daunting but, trust me, it’s easier than you think – and you don’t have to take your clothes off, promise. Here are my tips for success. 

Get out of your comfort zone  

When was the last time you did something out of the ordinary? It’s hard to push your boundaries when faced with the daily grind and that’s where travel comes in. When I’m away, I try to think of myself as a sponge (albeit with a better tan), soaking up every new experience. And it’s the perfect state of mind for making new friends: your guard is down and your mind open.  

On a trip to Italy , years ago, I made myself take part in a Vespa-riding excursion. As I nervously pulled on my helmet, I smiled at the woman on the scooter next to me. She was also mildly terrified and we spent the day encouraging one another. It was positive and supportive, creating a bond. After that, we stayed in touch over email, sharing our other travel experiences to spur one another on. After I did a skydive in Australia? She was the first person I told.  

Be honest   

The key to making new friends is vulnerability. If you stick to small talk, there’s only so deep your connection will ever go. That’s where travel can make things easier: there’s something about being away that enables you to let your guard down and talk about what you want out of life.  

You can connect with others over the ‘big’ topics you might struggle to raise with friends at home, or the dreams you might feel silly admitting to. Grab the opportunity to do so now; after all, you’re surrounded by other people who probably feel the same way. Take a deep breath and start answering their questions honestly – you won’t regret it. 

‘Trust in the unexpected’  

Those four words are what a fellow author told me as I started writing my book about female friendship – and I think they apply to how we make friends, too. So often, we judge whether someone is a potential pal by their similarity to us, but it’s those ‘unlikely’ friendships that can be life’s most rewarding – offering you the chance to see the world through the eyes of someone with different experiences to yours.  

Travel is the ideal way to encounter people you might never meet at home. Take my friend Alexa, who met a fellow solo female traveller, 30 years her senior, on a trip to Austria . Turns out they lived 15 minutes apart back home but their paths had never crossed. Five years on, they regularly meet for coffee or walks – living proof that it’s worth seeking out the unfamiliar. 

Take the pressure off  

While travelling is a fantastic way to make new friends, try not to put too much pressure on it. Instead, look at it as a way to expand your community: not everyone you meet is going to be your BFF, but at the very least, you’ll share some incredible moments with friendly new people. That said, don’t shut the door once you’re home. 

A woman I interviewed for my podcast, BFF? , told me about a climbing holiday she took in an effort to make new friends post-Covid. She’d never climbed before and bonded with two other women, also novices. Back home, she received an email: would she like to take a US road trip with them? My friend found herself saying yes to a holiday with two women she barely knew. That lay the foundation of a solid friend group, all thanks to solo travel and saying ‘yes’ to female friendship. 

BFF? The Truth About Female Friendship by Claire Cohen is out now.  

Real-life Intrepid friendships  

‘i like to think of us as long-lost sisters’ – chloe on her friendship with arantxa  .

We met on a group trip to Peru six years ago. We’re both from Canada (I’m from Calgary, Arantxa’s from Toronto) and that sparked our first conversation, but we quickly realised how similar we are, so we just clicked. Since then, we’ve made it a tradition to travel together around Thanksgiving every year. Last year I got married in Chile, and of course, Arantxa was there. 

We’ve been to Egypt with Intrepid and we loved it so much we booked Premium Turkey for later in 2023! I think Intrepid’s small group sizes mean you are bound to make friends – but it was still surprising to find someone I bonded with so quickly. 

Sometimes I like to think of us as long-lost sisters. We know each other so well now, making travel plans is easy. We even FaceTime each other before we pack for a trip to make sure we both love what each other is bringing so we can share outfits! 

‘They taught me to be more self-reliant’ – Fiona on her group of travel pals  

I knew when I joined an Intrepid trip to Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia in 2015 that I would meet like-minded people – but I was delighted to end up with three long-term friends, Denise, Ronny and Yvette.  

Our trip was a month long, which is sufficient time to get to know people quite well. I think our shared enthusiasm and willingness to join in with the activities and exchange life experiences brought us together. Denise and Ronny had met on a previous trip and got on so well they decided to travel together again. Now all four of us meet up every year for a new adventure.

The other ladies are younger than me – very independent and far more tech savvy. They aren’t afraid of getting lost – they could find the best places to go just by pushing the right buttons on their phones. Travelling with them has taught me to be more self-reliant, widened my horizons and brought much laughter and joy into my life.  

‘We bonded over our similar life experiences’ – Jan on her friendship with Sharon

Sharon and I have both travelled separately with Intrepid quite a bit – me to Turkey, Peru, Bolivia, Botswana and Namibia, and Sharon to China, Romania, Moldova and Ukraine. We met on a Best of Cuba trip back in April 2016. We hit it off over our shared love of photography and penchant for wandering around, chatting to locals.  

I don’t think we realised at the time that we’d remain friends – but I’m very happy we did! After keeping in touch and bonding over our similar life experiences (kids, ex-husbands, etc.) we decided to go to Morocco together in 2017. I did the longer Morocco Encompassed trip, while Sharon could only do the first section of the itinerary ( North Morocco Adventure) due to time restraints – but we got to be roommates between Casablanca and Marrakech!  

I believe Intrepid trips are a great way to make friends, as people tend to be like-minded, responsible and friendly. As Sharon says, ‘they don’t just want to be herded from place to place’. It’s nice to travel with a friend without having to spend so much time planning beforehand. Or go solo and know that you are safe and can meet new people!  

Keen to travel with your very own girl gang? Check out our Women’s Expeditions .  

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Me and My Friends or My Friends and I – Which is Correct?

Are you ever confused about whether to use “Me and my friends” or “My friends and I” when referring to a group of people? This is a common grammar dilemma that many people face. The confusion arises because both phrases sound grammatically correct, but are they?

We use “my friends and I” when we are the subject of the sentence and “my friends and me” when we are the object of the sentence.  

In this article, we will explore the correct usage of “Me and my friends” and “My friends and I”. We will provide you with the necessary information to help you make the right choice when using these phrases. We will also look at some common misconceptions and answer the question of which phrase is correct in different situations.

By the end of this article, you will have a clear understanding of when to use “Me and my friends” and when to use “My friends and I”. So, let’s dive in and find out which phrase is grammatically correct.

Subject-Verb Agreement

Subject-verb agreement is an essential part of constructing grammatically correct sentences. It refers to the rule that the subject and verb in a sentence should use the same number, person, and gender. In English, subject-verb agreement is about matching the number, with the exception of the verb “be.”

For example, “My friends and I are going to the cinema” is grammatically correct because the subject “my friends and I” is plural and requires a plural verb “are.” On the other hand, “Me and my friends are going to the cinema” is incorrect because “me” is an object pronoun and cannot be a subject. The correct subject pronoun is “I.”

It’s important to note that the order of the pronouns in a compound subject doesn’t affect subject-verb agreement. For instance, “My friends and I” and “I and my friends” are both correct as long as they are the subject of the sentence.

Here are some more examples of subject-verb agreement:

Remember, choosing the correct subject and verb will help you avoid errors of subject-verb agreement. By following this basic rule, you can ensure that your sentences are grammatically correct and convey your intended meaning clearly.

Using “Me and my friends” or “My friends and I” correctly depends on whether the phrase is the subject or object of the sentence.

When the phrase is the subject of the sentence, it should be “My friends and I.” For example, “My friends and I are going to the cinema.”

When the phrase is the object of the sentence, it should be “My friends and me.” For example, “My aunt invited my friend and me to dinner.”

It is important to note that this rule applies to compound subjects and objects. For example, “My sister and I went to the store” is correct, while “Me and my sister went to the store” is incorrect.

Using “Me and my friends” as the subject of the sentence is grammatically incorrect, but it is a common mistake.

It is important to use the correct form to avoid sounding uneducated or careless. Remember, the rule is to put yourself last in the phrase when it is combined with others. This is considered more polite and flows better in conversation.

Common Mistakes

Using “me” instead of “I” or vice versa is a common mistake that many people make. Here are some examples of common mistakes:

• Incorrect: Me and my friends went to the movies.
• Correct: My friends and I went to the movies.
• Incorrect: The teacher gave the award to my friend and I.
• Correct: The teacher gave the award to my friend and me.

It’s important to remember that “I” is used as the subject of a sentence, while “me” is used as the object of a sentence. This means that “I” comes before the verb, while “me” comes after the verb or preposition.

Another common mistake is using “myself” instead of “me” or “I”. “Myself” is a reflexive pronoun that should only be used when the subject and object of the sentence are the same person. Here’s an example:

• Incorrect: My friend and myself went to the party.
• Correct: My friend and I went to the party.

Finally, it’s important to remember that colloquial speech often breaks grammar rules. While it might be common to hear people say “me and my friends” in casual conversation, it’s still important to use proper grammar in more formal writing or situations.

When to Use ‘Me and My Friends’

Using ‘Me and My Friends’ is acceptable in certain contexts. For example, when ‘Me and My Friends’ is the object of a sentence, it is grammatically correct to use it. Here are some examples:

• He invited me and my friends to his party.
• The teacher gave candy to me and my friends for answering the question correctly.

However, it is important to note that using ‘Me and My Friends’ as the subject of the sentence is incorrect. In these cases, ‘My Friends and I’ should be used instead. Here are some examples:

• My friends and I went to the beach yesterday.
• My friends and I are planning a trip to Europe next summer.

It is also important to consider the context and formality of the situation. Using ‘My Friends and I’ is considered more polite and formal than using ‘Me and My Friends’. Therefore, it is recommended to use ‘My Friends and I’ in formal situations such as business meetings, interviews, and academic writing.

When to Use ‘My Friends and I’

When it comes to using “my friends and I” or “my friends and me,” it’s important to understand when to use each phrase. In general, “my friends and I” is the correct choice when it is the subject of the sentence. Here are a few examples:

• My friends and I went to the movies last night.
• My friends and I are all in the same English class.

Notice that in each of these examples, “my friends and I” is the subject of the sentence. It is the group of people who are performing the action in the sentence (going to the movies, planning a trip, being in the same class).

On the other hand, “my friends and me” is the correct choice when it is the object of the sentence. Here are a few examples:

• My aunt invited my friend and me to dinner.
• Could you take a picture of my friends and me ?
• He gave a present to my friends and me .

Notice that in each of these examples, “my friends and me” is the object of the sentence. It is the group of people who are receiving the action in the sentence (being invited to dinner, having a picture taken, receiving a present).

Overall, it’s important to pay attention to the role that “my friends and I” or “my friends and me” plays in the sentence. By understanding the difference between the subject and object of a sentence, you can use these phrases correctly and avoid common grammar mistakes.

Here are some more examples to clarify the usage of “me and my friends” or “my friends and I.”

• My friend and I are going to see a movie tonight.
• My friend and I volunteered at the animal shelter last weekend.

Notice how “my friends and I” is used as the subject of the sentence, while “my friend and I” is used as the object. It’s important to use the correct pronoun based on the sentence structure.

Here are a couple more examples:

Remember, using “my friends and I” is considered more polite, but both “I and my friends” and “my friends and I” are grammatically correct. It’s up to personal preference and the context of the situation.

As we have seen throughout this article, the question of whether to use “me and my friends” or “my friends and I” can be a bit tricky. However, there are some simple rules that can help you determine which one is correct in a given situation.

Always remember that “I” is used as the subject of a sentence, while “me” is used as the object. So, if you and your friends are the subject of the sentence, then you should use “my friends and I”. On the other hand, if you and your friends are the object of the sentence, then you should use “me and my friends”.

You should also be aware that there are some situations where either one can be correct, depending on the context. For example, if you are describing a photo of you and your friends, you might say “that’s me and my friends in the picture” or “that’s my friends and I in the picture”. Both are acceptable, but the first one might be more common in casual conversation.

Finally, it’s worth noting that while proper grammar is important, it’s not always the most important thing. In many cases, using “me and my friends” instead of “my friends and I” might sound more natural and conversational. So, don’t be afraid to trust your instincts and use the phrasing that feels right to you.

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How to Find Travel Friends and Why you Need Them

September 26, 2019

Anna Hammerschmidt

Travel friends. What is a travel friend? How do I find them? Do I even need travel friends? Honestly, the concept of a travel friend was once bizarre to me. I have friends, really fantastic friends; friends who I love and support and would give the world for…but they don’t travel the world with me. Of course, if any of my friends wanted to travel with me, I am always up for an adventure. But, I realized I needed friends who had that same mentality. I need friends who not only want to travel, yet will actively say yes to adventure. And that is where travel friends come in.

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Why You Need Travel Friends

Before we delve into the how to find travel friends, I want to take a moment to say why I think you need travel friends. First and foremost, I am a huge activist of solo travel. If you want to take a trip, you do not need anyone to travel with. I actually enjoy solo travel and find it to be incredibly rewarding. And traveling solo is actually where I connected with many of my travel friends. Yet, sometimes it’s really nice to have someone to travel with.

I’ve met some incredible people over the years who have helped aid in great travel experiences and memories I will carry with me for a lifetime. From the girls I met on my study abroad trip to the friends I met while working as an au pair, I started off my travels with some pretty solid friendships. Soon enough, I started making friends via Instagram and through mutual travel friends. I have created this web of friends in far flung corners of the world, and that is something I will forever be grateful for. There is something very comfortable about knowing you have a friend who is down to travel or knowing that you can connect with friends while on the road.

How to Find Travel Friends

Now lets get to the nitty gritty, finding travel friends. I mean, you can’t just put out an ad saying “travel companion needed” or “looking for a travel buddy”. Mind you, you need to put yourself in a position to make friends yet there are ways to find friends more organically. There are various ways to find travel friends. Some of these tactics, I have utilized myself. Others are tested tried and true.

Group Tours

A great way to make travel friends is through group tours. This is how I made my first few travel friends. Not only did we connect on the group tour, we ended up traveling together on various other instances. The group tour I did was through a study abroad program, yet there are plenty of companies who arrange group travel. Meeting people on group tours was one of the most organic ways I was able to make travel friends. When on a group tour, you quickly learn what type of travelers people are and discover if you are able to spend an extended period of time together. After being stuck on a tour bus with someone for a few days, trust me, you will know if you’re travel compatible.

One of the best parts about group travel is that it brings together like minded people. Chances are most the people who are on a group tour love to travel. Additionally, there are even tours geared towards specific demographics including young adults, singles and 50+, which make it even easier to find compatible travel friends.

Activities/ Excursions

If you are traveling independently, a great way to make travel friends is through organized group activities and excursions. Through all of my experiences with organized group activities and excursions, I have always made a friend to talk to. Even if these friends don’t translate to life long friends, it is nice to spend a day with like minded people. The best part about these organized excursions, whether they are a day trip, walking tour or activity is that everyone in the group shares an interest in the destination you are visiting or the activity at hand. There are tons of group activities and excursions on Get Your Guide . 

Social Media

One of the best ways to meet travel friends is online. This literally goes against everything I was taught growing up about not talking to strangers online. Well, I talk to “strangers” online on a daily basis. In fact, I have made most of my recent friends online through social media. While I’m sure nothing is less comforting to my parents than me telling them I’m “meeting up with some friends I met on Facebook” or that “I just booked a trip with this girl I met on Instagram”, this is the society we are living in. And it works! But, you have to be a little smart about it. (i.e. Don’t get catfished).

How do you make travel friends online? Well, you’re not gonna just slide into someones DMs and book a trip together. You have to have some sort of established friendship first. Join Facebook groups that pertain to your travel interests or follow fellow travelers on Instagram who you connect with. Post and be social and get to know the people in these groups/platforms. You might just meet some great travel friends. Here are a few examples of how you can meet travel friends on social media.

Instagram has become a very natural place for me to make friends on social media. Yet, this could be easier for me as a travel blogger . Over the years, I have followed other travelers on Instagram. After following each others adventures online and getting to know each other by watching stories, commenting and DM-ing, you truly feel like you know that person. So when the time comes to meet up with a fellow traveler you met on Instagram, whether it be for a cup of coffee if you’re in the same city or to book a trip together, it feels like you are meeting up with a lifelong friend. I never used Instagram with the intent to seek out friends, yet I am amazed by the incredible people I have met from that platform.

Facebook is perhaps the easiest social media platform to make friends on. With endless Facebook groups, you are bound to find a group that pertains to the type of traveler you are. There are groups for female travelers, cruisers, destination specific travels and so much more. Seriously, there is a group for almost everything on Facebook. And if there’s not, make one! You will absolutely find a group that fits your needs and interests on Facebook.

Facebook is one of the first platforms I made travel friends. When I was an au pair in Genoa, Italy , I used a local au pair group to make and meet up with friends for coffee, dinner and day trips. Facebook is especially useful for meeting up with new travel friends when you’re traveling solo. One of my favorite Facebook groups for female travelers is Girls Love Travel . I see daily threads where people are making plans to meet up around the world. Yet, as you are only having limited conversations in these groups, be sure to meet up with your new travel buddy in a public place.

Apps/Websites

I personally haven’t used apps or websites, aside from social media to make travel friends. Yet, there are some great resources out there. There are various apps and websites dedicated specifically to help you find travel buddies. Here are some of the best apps and websites out there to help you find travel friends. 

Travello is free app which was designed as “a social network for travelers”. The main goal of this travel buddy app is to help you meet other travelers with similar interests who are near you. 

Trip Together

Trip Together is a travel app/website that helps you meet up with other traveler during your travel plans. 

Travel Sisters

Travel Sisters is a females only travel website that helps you connect with other female travelers around the world. 

Meet People While You’re Traveling

One of the best ways to make new friends in general is being open to conversations with people. While you’re traveling, be open to meeting new people. If you’re approachable and conversational, you may just make a new travel buddy. Whether you are traveling solo or with someone, try to strike up a conversation when you are at an attraction, in transit or grabbing a drink. You never know who you may meet or the friendships you can establish. Here are a few examples of places you can meet friends while traveling: 

I tend to meet a lot of people while flying or on a train. Something about sitting next to someone for hours makes for a great place to establish a friendship. If they’re headed to the same destination, you may decide to meet up and explore that place together. 

At your Accommodations

Your accommodations are a great place to meet people while traveling, whether that is meeting other travelers or locals. If you are staying in a room of an Air Bnb, you may be able to connect with your host or other travelers staying there. Hostels are known to be a great place to make travel friends as you may be sharing a bedroom or common space with other solo travelers. (Truthfully, I have never stayed at a hostel… but feel like that it has been a missed opportunity for making travel friends). Lastly, some hotels are even good to meet fellow travelers. While some people in these accommodations may want to relax and keep to themselves, there will be people who are looking to talk to other travelers. Head to the common spaces, bar or hotel lounge and you may run into someone who is looking for a travel friend.   

At Attractions

Standing in line to enter an attraction can take a long time. Take a moment to chat with the people near you. If you’re going to wait in line to get into a palace or museum, you might as well spend that time getting to know the people who are waiting with you. 

Current Friends / Family

Last but not least, find travel friends in your current social pool. While it is always great to meet new friends, don’t underestimate your current friends and family. My family and friends have been some of my favorite travel companions. There may be someone in your family or friend group who would love to travel with you. Keep in mind, you may want to go on a short trip to test the waters first. There’re some people who simply are not travel compatible. 

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It could also be that his hormones need supplementing — something that should be discussed with an endocrinologist. If he’s having erectile difficulties, the specialist to consult would be a urologist. Of course, none of these doctors can help if a man doesn’t want to be helped, has a girlfriend on the side or is not completely straight. If that’s the case, the person you should consult is a lawyer. Hopefully, the divorce will be amicable.

DEAR ABBY: I am a woman over 50, and my job has become more demanding as I have worked my way up the corporate ladder. The problem is, I can no longer put in the long hours and extra days. I’m a salaried employee, and I’m not compensated for all the overtime. I take my job seriously. I love what I do and don’t want to quit. On top of this, my husband of 35 years puts pressure on me when I get home. He’s retired and waits around for me to do things for him. He will cook, but he won’t wash dishes, do laundry, sweep floors, etc. I’m at the end of my rope. I don’t know where to turn. — CAN’T DO IT ANYMORE

DEAR CAN’T: There is nothing I can do to help you regarding the money you are earning (or not) at your job. That’s why it may be time to remind your retired husband that you are over 50 now and can no longer work full-time at a demanding job AND do all the housework. Then suggest that because he has so much time on his hands, he find a part-time job so you both can hire someone to do the housework he finds so unappealing. At this point, you’re entitled to more help than he has been giving.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at http://www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

I'm a mom of 3 and I prefer to vacation with each of my kids individually instead of traveling as a family

• I am one of four siblings and we used to travel together as a family. 
• I have three kids of my own now, and I travel individually with each of them instead of together.
• It's too expensive to fly five people, and we always need two rooms. 

Growing up with three siblings, I regularly spent my summers at a beach house with cousins and spring breaks in Arizona, watching the San Francisco Giants ' spring training. I always thought I'd do the same when I had my kids and spend our vacations exploring new places as a family.

Now that I have my own three kids, I've found that I don't particularly enjoy family vacations . It's expensive to fly with five people, you always need two hotel rooms, and my husband doesn't enjoy travel. I am the planner, and that role is tough when you are trying to please five different personalities, especially with teenagers in the mix.

Traveling with just 1 child is so much easier

A few years ago, I had the opportunity to travel to Florida and bring one of my kids along. While I would normally have declined the opportunity in favor of a full-family trip, I decided to take my oldest kid along. I couldn't believe how easy it was to travel with only one kid: We could visit the hotel's pool when she wanted to and enjoy a tepanyaki restaurant where her brothers would have turned up their noses.

Since then, I've sought out opportunities to travel with my kids individually, and it has become my favorite way to see a new city or country.

My middle kid could spend all day fly fishing on a river in Wyoming without a care in the world. This activity would be particularly hard for my youngest due to his ADHD. He's much happier on a food tour or doing something active like hiking.

When my daughter and I visited Costa Rica on a cruise this past spring, we spent part of our time in Quepos, visiting the many thrift stores in town. If I'd been there with all three of my kids, there's no way we could have spent as much time doing this activity that she loves.

Individual trips mean we avoid sibling drama

There's nothing worse than planning a big family vacation and having your kids fight with each other and complain the whole time. Small rental cars, hotel rooms where sharing beds is required, and early wake-up times are typical triggers. Somebody always feels they got the short end of the stick, and it's just not fun to referee sibling fights while trying to relax.

Single-kid trips allow me to accommodate teens who need more sleep with later wake-up times, and there's no fighting over who gets to sit in the front seat of the rental car.

Traveling with my kids individually lets me get to know them in a new way

My three kids are all teenagers, and they'll likely go to college in the next few years. I especially love traveling with them individually as I get to see their personalities develop.

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When my middle kid and I cruised to Alaska two years ago, he was one of only a few kids on the ship. Without others his age to hang out with, we spent many afternoons in the Crow's Nest, where he taught me how to play Catan. I'm not going to say that we shared our deepest and darkest secrets, but I got to know him outside his place in our family, which was invaluable.

While we do occasionally go on whole-family trips and force Dad to accompany us, I prefer these solo-kid adventures and hope they continue. Cross your fingers that I can convince one of them to hike the Camino de Santiago with me in the future.

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