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Vibe check: what does the most overused word of our era actually mean?

‘Vibes’ are everywhere, from pop culture to politics. Is it a symbol of human connection – or has it become meaningless?

T he most important people in the history of the word “vibes” are the Beach Boys. Before the release of Good Vibrations, in 1966, if you heard someone say “a vibe”, they were probably talking about a vibraphone – the xylophone-like percussion instrument with ringing metal bars, invented in 1916. The thought that a person could give off “vibes” was a niche, mostly hippy concept that Brian Wilson heard about from his mother.

At first, it was frightening. “[She] used to tell me about vibrations,” Wilson told a biographer, years later. “She told me about dogs that would bark at people … that a dog would pick up vibrations from these people that you can’t see, but you can feel.

“It scared me,” he said. “The word ‘vibrations’.” Wilson originally wanted to call the song Good Vibes, but his lyricist, Tony Asher, said it was a “lightweight use of the language”. Nevertheless, by 1970, John Lennon was saying it (“You give off bad vibes”), then Bruce Springsteen (“Hey vibes man!”), and, by 1983, Kate Bush (“Vibes in the sky invite you to dine”, in Blow Away).

Since then, the word “vibe” – and various promises to change it, check it, luxuriate in it – has become inescapable. A “vibe” can be an idea, a message, a connection between two people, an atmosphere, “off”, unquantifiable, a sensation as clear as the weather. Dressing nicely is “a whole vibe”; a “vibe shift”, as popularised by a 2022 New York Magazine article , is a coming cataclysm. (“Will any of us survive it?” the piece asked.) A day of bliss spent with the people you love is simply “a vibe”.

But, without anyone intending it, the popularity of “vibes” threatens to make it mean nothing. Jessi Grieser, an associate professor in linguistics at the University of Michigan, said that “vibe” had undergone a process known as linguistic generalisation, where its meaning had slowly expanded.

The New York Times asked last year: “Is crime that bad, or are the vibes just off?” Bloomberg described an economic downturn as a potential “ vibecession ”. Google announced that its maps will soon be able to perform “vibe checks” on entire neighbourhoods – with AI. The example provided was a trip to Paris. Imagine having your arrondissement “vibe-checked” into oblivion by a robot.

Peak vibes might have arrived last year in the form of a poster, on the streets of New York, during the city’s Democratic primaries. Suraj Patel, a 38-year-old lawyer and former Obama staffer, was running for Congress against two of the state’s longest-serving politicians. Thanks to a radical redistricting, the two incumbents, Carolyn Maloney and Jerrold Nadler, plus Patel were all vying for the one seat.

Patel, the outsider, started putting up a distinctive poster. There was a photo of him, in a blue business shirt, smiling widely, with large stylized flowers curled up and blooming around him. Campaign leaflets spoke of the cost of living, the climate crisis, abortion rights. But the poster had no policies, and no party affiliation. Along the top, it just said “Change the vibes”.

“I truly think it encapsulates the mood of the public right now,” Patel tweeted . “We don’t need more defeatism. We need happy warriors who are pro-abundance, pro-democracy, and pro-vibes.”

But what did it mean to be “pro-vibes”?

“It’s energy. It’s for the future,” Patel told the Guardian in August, ahead of the primary. “The design of that poster and the use of the word ‘change the vibes’ is exactly to change the vibes.”

Patel admitted that there had been “hand-wringing” about such a vibes-heavy poster. “People on my campaign were very skittish about using it,” he said. But the final design, to him, was perfect. “People of all ages are understanding this poster,” he said. “Whether they understand the term ‘vibes’ at some level – maybe they don’t. But they get it, they get the concept.”

For some, “vibe” is an entire profession. Chris Low works as the global head of vibe for the graphic design technology company Canva, which had a recent market valuation of $US25.6bn. “I always say the head of vibe with a slight smirk on the side of my face, knowing that people will think that’s quite a funny job title,” Low said. “I get a lot of people reaching out to me on LinkedIn just for the purpose of commenting on my job title.”

Before he was in charge of vibes, Low was a restaurateur and chef, who ran a cafe near Canva’s offices in Sydney. Canva hired him because two of the company’s founders loved “the vibe” of his cafe. “They’d come in every morning for their coffee, and they heard I was selling, and they said, ‘Can you bring the vibe from your restaurant into our office?’” Low said.

“I didn’t know Canva at the time,” he added. “It seemed quite strange.”

Now, Low heads up an international vibe team of 60 people, who are known as “vibies”. They are responsible for social events, food, “activations” (the company’s name for small pop-up activities like cooking classes or Friday drinks), and the design and maintenance of the office’s physical spaces. Last year, the vibe team performed over a thousand vibe-related events.

“When I first heard the word, when Cliff [Obrecht, the company’s co-founder] said to me, ‘Bring the vibe of your restaurant,’ I almost didn’t know what he meant.” Low said. He has now been the head of vibe for seven years. “In the tech world, that’s a long time,” he joked. “Now you’re seeing vibe teams popping up left, right and centre these days.”

The whole vibe

There is undoubtedly value in having a word for the unquantifiable. The German word “Zeitgeist” was loaned into English, in 1848, perhaps precisely because it encapsulated what we were missing before “vibes”. A classically German compound noun, it literally means “time-spirit”, and the broader German concept of “Geist” itself is maybe even more modern-day vibes-ey – combining to make “Volksgeist” (“national spirit”) and “Weltgeist” (“world-spirit”).

Part of what is driving vibes could be that everyone is actually feeling it. On 11 February, the New York Times crossword ran a clue: “Emotional assessment of one’s surroundings, in lingo”, nine letters. The answer was “vibe check”. Like it or not, part of the contagiousness of “vibes” is that everyone seems to understand, on some level, what it means.

Rap culture and Black vernacular might have been early pioneers. “This is the case with lots of our common slang,” Grieser said. “Most of it comes from Black language practices.” Quincy Jones launched Vibe magazine in 1993; A Tribe Called Quest released Vibes and Stuff in 1991; R Kelly’s debut single was She’s Got That Vibe, also in 1991; and one of Kendrick Lamar’s hits of 2013 was Bitch, Don’t Kill My Vibe.

According to Grieser, the linguistics professor, when “vibe” and “vibrations” first took off, the word was usually collocated with emotions – specifically “good” or “bad”. Using the Corpus of Contemporary American English – an archive of texts used to understand how English is evolving, spanning roughly a billion words, from the 1990s up until 2019 – Grieser found a slow shift to a more amorphous use of “the vibe” or “vibing”. “Things can be ‘a vibe’” and “the really recent move is ‘whole vibe’”, she said. A more recent dataset, of web-based newspapers and magazines from 2010 until 2021, showed “vibing” rising significantly in 2021. “I wasn’t able to find any sort of watershed that seems to have started that or a single spot,” Grieser said. “But we do get that big spike in 2021.”

It’s this use of “the” vibe that has started to snowball with new meanings. “We use that actively,” Low said. “Sometimes, it’s enough to say that a particular behaviour decision isn’t ‘the vibe’.”

But even though he is the head of vibe, his company has not defined to him what “the vibe” is. “To box it, to draw lines around it, I don’t think is really conducive,” he said. “We facilitate and allow it to grow naturally.”

“It’s not ‘the vibe’ to be one certain type of personality. We don’t assume that vibies are always extremely extroverted,” he added. “It actually can be ‘the vibe’ to sit down quietly and share a game of cards.”

Grieser said the word’s earlier links to mysticism were also disappearing. “If you look at some of the sources from English corpora, it’s E! Online, the BBC, the Daily Mail, the Independent, ESPN – this is no longer the countercultural weirdos who are using ‘whole vibe’.”

Patel, the New York political candidate, denied that “vibes” was becoming meaningless. “I don’t think it’s losing meaning at all – I think people are finally picking up on the meaning,” he said. “You know, the energy of the moment, the energy of a room or someone’s personality or something … It’s capturing this nearly ineffable word or description of the generalised feeling of something. That’s what we were going for. And I don’t think there’s a better word out there to encapsulate it right now.”

An ancient obsession

While the use of “vibes” as a word might be recent, our obsession with intangible vibrations dates back to antiquity. Ancient Greek philosopher-scientists conceived the idea of “quintessence”, a “fifth element” that made the world work. Mystics and esoterics in the early 20th century claimed to be able to see “auras”: normally invisible fields of energy around people. The ancient Chinese concept of “qi” – the life force of living things – is also among the first to include the inverse: a concept of “negative qi”, which can include emotions like fear or being socially anxious or awkward. Similar, really, to “bad vibes”.

Trying to explain feelings and energies we can’t see has been an object of religious faith, and to an extent, a field of scientific discovery. The sound of the vibraphone and the music of Good Vibrations are, after all, actually vibrations.

Before “vibes” was a job at a tech company, it was a word of deep import for the New Age movement. Oleg Yankelevich is a New York-based reiki practitioner, who works with human and animal patients, including dogs, cats, and sometimes horses and hamsters. Yankelevich said he first heard the word “vibes” when he started practising reiki 22 years ago. “Back then, the word was not used a lot, as it is now.”

Now, people come to Yankelevich complaining that their vibes are “not in the right place”. They leave saying, “I feel my vibe has changed.” “It’s not so much that it’s being overused, but that the term has been growing,” he said.

For Yankelevich, “vibes” are real, not just slang. “If they say that this party is ‘a vibe’, then that means they are picking up on a certain energetic vibration that’s going on and is giving them a certain feeling,” he said. “In terms of wellness and energy work, there are similarities.” (But if someone says an outfit is “a vibe”, then “it may be just a term that they use as a filler”, he added. “They might not necessarily be aware of what the word means.”)

“If you think about it, vibrations are all around us,” he said. “They’re in everything, and they’re everywhere.” In quantum mechanics, “everything is described as being made up of a vibrational molecule,” he said. “Everything releases some kind of a vibration.”

Dr Nick Herbert, a physicist who was an early researcher in quantum mechanics – and who studies the afterlife and human consciousness – said he would consider whether real science could be behind the idea of “vibes”.

“One of the most important events in the history of vibes was James Clerk Maxwell’s theoretical discovery that light is an electromagnetic wave vibrating in a narrow spectral band, implying that there are other EM waves invisible to humans vibrating at frequencies higher and lower than RGB,” he said. “I would guess that the notion that we live in a vast ocean of invisible radio waves was one of the main inspirations for vibes, for ‘getting on the same wavelength’, for ‘being in tune’.”

Could there, then, be a scientific basis to vibes?

“To really touch the truth of what good vibes between souls might mean, we would have to answer the question: what is it that is doing the vibrating? What is the medium, in other words, in which vibes vibrate?

“No one has the slightest notion how to answer this question. It probably, in my opinion, has nothing to do with quantum mechanics. Which is now, like radio once was, the hottest science fad for some people to dress up their deep ignorance – (our deep ignorance – in phoney knowledge-sounding words.”

Yankelevich said “vibes” was “a universal word, in a sense … People apply it differently based on their given situation. And I think that’s a fantastic thing.”

Grieser sketches a slightly gloomier picture. “It’s hard to get much broader than the space that is currently occupied. We just kind of mean ‘the state of affairs’.” She added: “I mean, New York Times headline, that’s kiss of death for a piece of slang.”

But to Low, “vibe” is unfairly maligned, and it can mean something genuine, human and beautiful. “I feel like the word ‘vibe’ has this kind of shallow connotation,” he said. “[But] what makes us tick, what connects us, what creates that kind of sense of community changes over time. And that doesn’t make it shallow.

“I love the word ‘vibe’,” he said. A job by any other name wouldn’t be the same.

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I don’t know why, but I got a really bad vibes when I saw that music producer Chris kiss April at that party. Her hands were balled up into fists and she didn’t seem like she liked it in a traditional way. I have my eye on him.

The woman got a bad vibe when she read the tweet from her ex. She wasn’t sure if she was being paranoid, but she felt like the violent message was about her. He said stupid shit all the time, but this tweet referenced beating someone with a blunt object.

Even though we only met over the internet, I got a really good vibe from the graphic designer that is doing my website. 

That girl I went on a date with definitely passed the vibe check. She was so cool, I hope I get to see her again.

What is the origin of the word vibe?

According to Etymonline , the word vibe was used in the 1940s as an abbreviation for the word vibraphone, and since 19067 as an abbreviation form of vibration. The slang term vibe has been around since the 1960s. Using the word vibe to talk about the distinctive emotional quality of a person, place or thing was popularized by hip-hop and rap music. 

What are synonyms of the word vibe?

There are a plethora of different words that one can use in place of the word vibe. These are known as synonyms, which are words and phrases that have the same meaning as another word or phrase. Synonyms are very useful to know if you are trying to expand your vocabulary or if you are trying to avoid repeating yourself. Learning synonyms is a great way to improve your own vocabulary of English words. This list of synonyms of vibe is from Thesaurus .

•  sense
•  space
•  property
•  medium
•  color
•   climate
•  surroundings
•  place
•  local color
•  spirit
•  background
•  character
•  ambience
•  feeling
•  quality
•  flavor
•  impression
•  semblance
•   taste
•  atmosphere
•  scene
•   environment

Overall, the word vibe means a feeling or ambience, usually about a stranger or someone you do not know well. If someone has good vibes, they’re probably cool to hang around with. If someone has a bad vibe, steer clear. 

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The Year in Vibes

By Kyle Chayka

At some point during the course of 2021, the word “vibe” became utterly ubiquitous. I tried to count but would lose track of how often it was deployed in conversations with friends. I couldn’t stop myself from using it, either, the way you can’t stop yourself from yawning after someone else does. It caught on like the Strasbourg dancing plague of 1518, spreading long past the point of semantic satiation. What did it mean? What didn’t it mean? “Vibe” was a placeholder for an unplaceable feeling or impression, an atmosphere that you couldn’t or didn’t want to put into words. You didn’t like a bar because the vibe was off. The new Netflix show has kind of a “Sopranos” vibe. The two of them didn’t vibe as a couple. It’s a linguistic shortcut for the ineffable.

New Yorker writers reflect on the year’s highs and lows.

Maybe we used the word so much because 2021 itself has offered an unplaceable vibe. It is a year that feels as though it does and does not exist, a hangover from the depths of terror in 2020 that provides a significant improvement and yet remains vacuous and unstable. For a moment, with the arrival of vaccines in the spring, we all thought we were on the cusp of Roaring Twenties vibes, a Hieronymous Bosch-style summer of orgy and excess. Instead, with the serial announcement of new COVID -19 variants , we became strung up with tightrope vibes, as if we could fall backward in time at any moment. A year that never started can’t really end, either, and so the boundary of the New Year feels unreal as well. But the time did pass, and in looking back we have to recall grace where we can.

In April, I described vibes as, ultimately, moments of audiovisual eloquence, ephemeral, multisensory collisions so sharp that they amount to poetry. They can be recorded and shared as TikTok videos or just observed as fleeting impressions. Sometimes a particular image is a vibe. Or an action is a vibe, or an aesthetic, or a feeling. It’s anything that becomes representative of a mood in society at large, to which one can point and say, “That’s a vibe.” Here are some of the strongest vibes I’ve registered in 2021. Call it my attempt to capture the year’s ambiguous nonverbal phenomena, both positive and negative.

Office-building hallway. Dead-end street. Loading dock. Nighttime hotel atrium. @SpaceLiminalBot is a Twitter account with more than four hundred and eighty thousand followers that tweets photos of “liminal spaces”: disused, off-hours, haunted. The mood is spooky but also calm; in these spaces, nothing happens. By definition, “liminal” means “transitional,” a threshold. (What qualifies, exactly, is hotly debated on the r/LiminalSpace subreddit.) But it became a meme in 2021, the year of liminality, its meaning expanded to describe pretty much anything empty and weird. Examples of liminal vibes include the Twitter account @gameauras , which collects “video game images with elegiac auras” and tweets screenshots of virtual liminal spaces, and the TikTok account @pineacre , which films montages of mundane institutions (laundromats, grocery stores) in the Arkansas Ozarks.

The philosopher Jane Bennett noted that matter is vibrant—everyday detritus, even trash in the gutter, can emit its own vibe that capitalist consumerism encourages us to ignore. The year’s most poignant piece of trash was a wrinkled face mask, paper or cloth, left strewn on the ground, its strings tangled, its symbolic hygiene demolished. There’s an abjectness to the mask; it’s the kind of detail a future movie would pan past in order to evoke the time period’s general despair. Perhaps the mask was lost by accident and its owner is anxiously debating the awkwardness of going into a store without one or just giving up and returning home.

Owing to pandemic restrictions, the third season of the Netflix show “Master of None,” which débuted in May, was filmed mostly in the United Kingdom. This wouldn’t present a problem if the season’s intended location were not upstate New York, where Lena Waithe’s character purchases a sprawling historic house after the success of her novel. I felt a creeping sense of unease as I watched the season, with its detailed settings and elegant cinematography. I didn’t realize why, exactly, until I read a behind-the-scenes. The landscape of the house was too lush and pruned for actual upstate; it didn’t look like the outskirts of any run-down Hudson Valley town I had ever seen. More than the story line, this dislocation has stuck in my head, the eerie sense of being told something’s true but knowing deep down that it’s not.

“Young, famous novelist moves into a ramshackle mansion on the coast of Ireland” is the plot of Sally Rooney’s 2021 novel, “ Beautiful World, Where Are You ,” but it also evokes the ideal of devotees of Dark Academia, a Tumblr aesthetic that became a TikTok vibe and then a life-style template. (People these days seem to study abroad in Edinburgh just to shoot moody videos.) Dark Academia is all about staying inside, gazing out a brick-lined window at the rain, leafing through a book without reading it, lighting candles—in other words, a cozy quarantine when it doesn’t make sense to go outside. Rooney’s dark Dublin streets, fraught magazine parties, and domestic dramas both describe and serve the mood.

At one point this year, there was an expectation that offices would fully reopen and that working from home would become slightly more optional. The situation hasn’t changed so drastically. Office workers are still hiding from family members and negotiating which leftovers to eat for lunch. There is no better reminder of the combination of convenience and ennui of working from home than a mug of coffee going cold. You get up to microwave it, then repeat the process thirty minutes later. Even the mug seems exhausted.

Life has haltingly resumed, but nothing seems quite as good as it used to be. Plenitude is thwarted by persistent supply-chain issues; glamour is a pale facsimile of its former glory. Activity wraps up early. In Nolita, the sidewalk cabins outside Balthazar amount to something like a forced smile, a tourist attraction trying its best to remain attractive. The white-aproned waiters whirl, but something seems hollow. Maybe it’s the reminder that a brief period of unmasked post-vaccine freedom ended too quickly. Or it’s the pall cast by the Balthazar proprietor Keith McNally’s overactive Instagram, which romanticizes—as the TikTok kids say—his own business a bit too strenuously. We’re still not yet sure what post-pandemic luxury might look like.

A press photo from the 2021 Met Gala documents Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, in elaborate formal attire including matching masks, kissing—or, rather, mashing their masked faces together, their features entirely obscured. There’s no better encapsulation of the strained belief that everything might be normal if we just try hard enough. Celebrations can still happen! Celebrities can still fall (back) in love! And yet, the signs keep indicating that normalcy remains far away. The photo offers an update to the ominous Magritte painting “The Lovers,” from 1928, in which two figures, their faces draped in cloth, make out, oblivious to the barrier.

One innocently impish face with a blond pixie cut seemed to float behind a large swath of culture this year. Diana, Princess of Wales, was an influence not just in fashion and beauty but in affect and sensibility. “The Crown” released its fourth season late in 2020, introducing Diana as a character (played by Emma Corrin), and Netflix resurfaced the documentary “Diana: In Her Own Words.” The clothing brand Rowing Blazers offered a version of her notorious black-sheep sweater , which proliferated through Instagram ads. But 2021 brought the true Diana mania. In March, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s Oprah interview presented another reminder of his absent mother. In November, the film “ Spencer ,” starring Kristin Stewart, brought Diana flamboyantly back to life. Anxious, flighty, embattled, sick, struggling with an order of power beyond her understanding or control, Diana is a sympathetic figure for the ongoing pandemic era.

My personal vibe of the year is encoded in this one quintessentially eighties track from the Japanese keyboardist Hiroshi Sato, in collaboration with the Canadian Australian torch singer Wendy Matthews, recorded in 1982. In the sensory-deprivation chamber of last winter, the song played incessantly in my mind, and I haven’t stopped listening to it since. In part, it’s the looping modular-synthesizer backbeat that’s so sticky, like passing through a neon-lit city in a taxi after midnight. (The track is an amped-up version of the original, which is from earlier on the album.) But it’s also the story sketched by the lyrics: sitting down to practice piano and reaching for a good memory for musical inspiration. Matthews’s voice soars: “As I play / Any trace of sorrow fades away / And the window goes from night to day.” The song offers the hope of making the best of downbeat times, which is about the best vibe we can hope for.

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I saw her feel the vibe from her phone, then look down at it and then back at me and nod vigorously.

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Wanderlust (n.).

Origin: German Pronunciation: vawn-duh-luhst Meaning: a strong desire to travel

Resfeber (n.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: race-fay-ber Meaning: the restless race of the traveler’s heart before the journey begins, when anxiety and anticipation are tangled together; the nervous feeling before undertaking a journey

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Strikhedonia (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: strik-he-don-e-a Meaning: the joy of being able to say “to hell with it”

Eleutheromania (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: eleuthero-ma-nia Meaning: an intense and irresistible desire for freedom

Origin: Hawaiian Pronunciation: ak-i-hi Meaning: listening to directions and then walking off and promptly forgetting them

Exulansis (n.)

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: exu-lan-sis Meaning: the tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it — whether through envy or pity or simple foreignness—which allows it to drift away from the rest of your life story, until the memory itself feels out of place, almost mythical, wandering restlessly in the fog, no longer even looking for a place to land.

Hodophile (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: hodo-phile Meaning: a lover of roads; one who loves to travel

Saudade (n.)

Origin: Portuguese Pronunciation: sau-da-de Meaning: a nostalgic longing for something or someone that was loved and then lost, with the knowledge that it or they might never return; “the love that remains”

Fernweh (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: feirn-veyh Meaning: an ache for distant places; a longing for far-off places; an urge to travel even stronger than wanderlust; being homesick for a place you’ve never been

Selcouth (adj.)

Origin: Old English Pronunciation: sel-kooth Meaning: unfamiliar, rare, strange, and yet marvelous

Serendipity (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: seh-ruhn-di-puh-tee Meaning: finding something good without looking for it

Pilgrimage (n.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: pil-gruh-mij Meaning: a journey, especially a long one, made to some sacred place as an act of religious devotion

Gökotta (n.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: yo-kot-ah Meaning: literally translates to the early cuckoo morning or dawn picnic to hear the first birdsong; the act of rising early in the morning to hear the birds sing at sunrise and appreciate nature

Schwellenangst (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: shwel-en-ahngst Meaning: fear of embarking on something new; fear of crossing a threshold

Voyage (n.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: voy-ij Meaning: a long journey involving travel by sea or in space

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: yoo-gehn Meaning: a profound awareness of the universe that triggers emotional responses too deep, powerful, and mysterious for words

Origin: Danish Pronunciation: hue-gah Meaning: the Danish practice of creating warmth, connection, and well-being; a complete absence of anything annoying or emotionally overwhelming; taking pleasure from the presence of gentle, soothing things; celebrating the everyday

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Vagary (n.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: va-ga-re Meaning: an unpredictable instance, a wandering journey; a whimsical, wild, and unusual idea, desire, or action

Origin: Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: mo-rii Meaning: the desire to capture a fleeting experience

“With every click of the shutter, you’re trying to press pause on your life. If only so you can feel a little more comfortable moving on living in a world stuck on the play.”

Musafir (n.)

Origin: Arabic Pronunciation: mu-sa-fir Meaning: traveler

Musafir remains one of my most favorite words associated with travel.

Odyssey (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: aw-duh-see Meaning: a long and eventful or adventurous journey or experience

Sonder (n.)

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: sohn-dehrr Meaning: the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

Gadabout (n.)

Origin: Middle English Pronunciation: gad-uh-bout Meaning: a habitual pleasure-seeker; a person who moves about restlessly and aimlessly, especially from one social activity to another; a person who travels often or to many different places, especially for pleasure

Acatalepsy (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: ey-kat-l-ep-see Meaning: incomprehensibleness; the impossibility of comprehending the universe; the belief that human knowledge can never have true certainty

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: noh-mad Meaning: a person who does not stay long in the same place; a wanderer

Cockaigne (n.)

Origin: Middle English Pronunciation: ko-keyn Meaning: an imaginary or fabled land of luxury and idleness

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: o-ni-sm Meaning: the awareness of how little of the world you’ll experience

“The frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time, which is like standing in front of the departures screen at an airport, flickering over with strange place names like other people’s passwords, each representing one more thing you’ll never get to see before you die—and all because, as the arrow on the map helpfully points out, you are here.”

Nemophilist (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: ni-mo-fi-list Meaning: a haunter of the woods; one who loves the forest for its beauty and solitude

Trouvaille (n.)

Origin: French Pronunciation: troo-vee Meaning: a lucky find; a chance encounter with something wonderful and valuable

Safarnama (n.)

Origin: Persian Pronunciation: su-fur-nama Meaning: travelogue; an account of the travels

Smultronställe (n.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: smool-tron-stall-uh Meaning: literally translates to place of wild strawberries; a special place discovered, treasured, returned to for solace and relaxation; a personal idyll free from stress or sadness

Livsnjutare (n.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: livs-noo-tuhreh Meaning: literally translates to enjoyer of life; someone who loves life deeply and lives it to the extreme

Wayfarer (n.)

Origin: Old English Pronunciation: wey-fair-er Meaning: someone who travels, especially on foot

Kopfkino (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: kof-kino Meaning: literally translates to head cinema; the act of playing out an entire scenario in your mind

Hireath (n.)

Origin: Welsh Pronunciation: her-rith Meaning: a homesickness for a home to which you cannot return, a home which maybe never was; the nostalgia, the yearning, the grief for the lost places of your past

Peripatetic (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: per-uh-puh-tet-ik Meaning: a person who travels from place to place

Luftmensch (n.)

Origin: Yiddish Pronunciation: looft-mensh Meaning: literally translates to an air person; an impractical dreamer with improbable plans and no business sense; one with their head in the clouds

Solivagant (adj.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: soh-lih-va-ghent Meaning: wandering alone

Waldeinsamkeit (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: vahyd-ahyn-zahm-kahyt Meaning: literally translates to woodland solitude; the feeling of being alone in the woods

Ecophobia (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: eco-phobia Meaning: a fear or dislike of one’s home

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: u-key-yo Meaning: literally translates to the floating world; living in the moment, detached from the bothers of life

Meraki (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: may-rah-kee Meaning: to do something with soul, creativity, and love; when you leave a piece of yourself in your work

Wabi-sabi (n.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: wabe-sabe Meaning: finding beauty in imperfections; an acceptance of things as they are

Vorfreude (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: vor-froy-dah Meaning: the joyful, intense anticipation that comes from imagining future pleasures

Cosmopolitan (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: koz-muh-pahl-i-ten Meaning: belonging to all the world; not limited to just one part of the world; someone who has traveled a lot and feels at home in any part of the world

Peregrinate (v.)

Origin: Middle English Pronunciation: per-i-gruh-neyt Meaning: to travel or wander from place to place

Sojourn (n.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: soh-jurn Meaning: a temporary stay

Shinrin-yoku (n.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: shin-rin-yo-ku Meaning: literally translates to forest bathing; a leisurely trip to the forest for recreation, relaxation, meditation, and therapy

Origin: Thai Pronunciation: ti-eow Meaning: to wander or roam around in a carefree way

Origin: Serbian Pronunciation: mir-ak Meaning: enjoyment of the simple things in life; the feeling of bliss and sense of oneness with the universe that comes from the simplest of pleasures; the pursuit of small, daily pleasures that all add up to a great sense of happiness and fulfillment

Dépaysement (n.)

Origin: French Pronunciation: de-pe-iz-ma Meaning: the feeling that comes from not being in one’s home country; disorientation due to experience of unfamiliar surroundings; being out of your element like a fish out of water

Itinerant (n.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: ai-ti-nr-uhnt Meaning: one who travels from place to place

Numinous (adj.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: noo-muh-nuhs Meaning: having a strong religious or spiritual or supernatural quality; indicating or suggesting the presence of divinity; describing an experience that makes you fearful yet fascinated, wed yet attracted – the powerful, personal feeling of being overwhelmed and inspired

Heimweh (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: haim-ve Meaning: homesickness; nostalgia; a longing for home

Sprachgefühl (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: shprahkh-guh-fyl Meaning: the character and spirit of a language; an intuitive sense of the rule and rhythm of language

Mångata (n.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: mo-an-gaa-tah Meaning: the glimmering, roadlike reflection of the moonlight on water

Dromomania (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: dro-mo-ma-nia Meaning: an uncontrollable impulse or desire to wander or travel

Sehnsucht (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: zen-zukt Meaning: the inconsolable longing in the human heart for we know not what; a yearning for a far, familiar, non-earthly land one can identify as one’s home

Dérive (v.)

Origin: French Pronunciation: de-rive Meaning: literally translates to drift; a spontaneous and unplanned journey where the traveler leaves their life behind for a time to let the spirit of the landscape and architecture attract and move them

Absquatulate (v.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: ab-skwoch-uh-leyt Meaning: to leave abruptly without saying goodbye

Thalassophile (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: thal-as-o-fahyl Meaning: a lover of the sea; someone who loves the sea or ocean

Yoko meshi (n.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: yoh-koh-mesh-ee Meaning: literally translates to a meal eaten sideways; refers to the peculiar stress of speaking a foreign language

Forelsket (v.)

Origin: Norwegian Pronunciation: phor-rel-sket Meaning: the euphoria you experience when you are first falling in love

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Rückkehrunruhe (n.)

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: rukee-ren-ruhee Meaning: the feeling of returning home after an immersive trip only to find it fading rapidly from your awareness—to the extent you have to keep reminding yourself that it happened at all, even though it felt so vivid just days ago—which makes you wish you could smoothly cross-dissolve back into everyday life, or just hold the shutter open indefinitely and let one scene become superimposed on the next, so all your days would run together and you’d never have to call cut.

Eudaimonia (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: u-de-mon-e-a Meaning: literally translates to human flourishing; a contented state of being happy, healthy, and prosperous

Sturmfrei (adj.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: stirm-fra Meaning: literally translates to storm-free; the freedom of not being watched by a parent or superior; being alone in a place and having the ability to do what you want

Origin: Mandarin Chinese Pronunciation: yu-yi Meaning: the desire to see with fresh eyes, and feel things just as powerfully as you did when you were younger-before expectations, before memory, before words

Photophile (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: pho-to-phile Meaning: Derived from the biological term “photophilic” for an organism that thrives in full light, it means a person who loves photography and light

Traipse (v.)

Origin: Unknown Pronunciation: trayps Meaning: to walk or go aimlessly or idly or without finding or reaching one’s goal

 Neophile (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: neo-phile Meaning: one who loves or has a strong affinity for anything new or novel

Ballagàrraidh (n.)

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: bal-la-ga-rye Meaning: the awareness that you are not at home in the wilderness

Vacilando (v.)

Origin: Spanish Pronunciation: vah-see-lan-doh Meaning: to wander or travel with the knowledge that the journey is more important than the destination

Quaquaversal (adj.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: kwey-kwuh-vur-sul Meaning: moving or happening in every direction instantaneously

Coddiwomple (v.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: kod-ee-wom-pul Meaning: to travel in a purposeful manner towards a vague destination

Vemödalen (n.)

Origin: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: ve-mo-da-len Meaning: the fear that everything has already been done

“The frustration of photographing something amazing when thousands of identical photos already exist—the same sunset, the same waterfall, the same curve of a hip, the same closeup of an eye—which can turn a unique subject into something hollow and pulpy and cheap, like a mass-produced piece of furniture you happen to have assembled yourself.”

Commuovere (v.)

Origin: Italian Pronunciation: com-muo-ve-re Meaning: a story that touches or stirs you and moves you to tears

Natsukashii (adj.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: nat-soo-kash-ee Meaning: of some small thing that brings you suddenly, joyously back to fond memories, not with a wistful longing for what’s past, but with an appreciation of the good times

Querencia (n.)

Origin: Spanish Pronunciation: keh-rehn-syah Meaning: a place from which one’s strength is drawn, where one feels at home; the place where you are your most authentic self

Novaturient (adj.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: no-vah-ter-y-ent Meaning: desiring or seeking powerful change in one’s life, behavior, or situation

Komorebi (n.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: koh-moh-ray-bee Meaning: sunlight that filters through the leaves of trees

Flâneur (n.)

Origin: French Pronunciation: flah-nœr Meaning: one who strolls around aimlessly but enjoyably, observing life and his surroundings

Hanyauku (v.)

Origin: Kwangali Pronunciation: ha-ahn-yoh-kuu Meaning: to walk on tiptoes across the warm sand

Dès Vu (n.)

Origin: Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows Pronunciation: des-vu Meaning: the awareness that this will become a memory

Gallivant (v.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: gal-uh-vant Meaning: go around from one place to another in the pursuit of pleasure or entertainment

Nefelibata (n.)

Origin: Portuguese Pronunciation: ne-fe-le-ba-ta Meaning: literally translates to cloud-walker; one who lives in the clouds of their own imagination or dreams, or one who does not obey the conventions of society, literature, or art; an unconventional or unorthodox person

Petrichor (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: pet-ri-kawr Meaning: a distinctive scent, usually described as earthy, pleasant, or sweet, produced by rainfall on very dry ground; the smell of earth after rain

Circumnavigate (v.)

Origin: Latin Pronunciation: suh-kuhm-na-vuh-gayt Meaning: to sail or travel all the way around the world

Hitoritabi (n.)

Origin: Japanese Pronunciation: hitori-tabi Meaning: traveling alone; a solitary journey

Torschlusspanik (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: tursh-luss-pan-ik Meaning: literally translates to gate-closing panic; a sense of anxiety or fear caused by the feeling that life’s opportunities are passing by and diminishing as one ages

Globetrotter (n.)

Origin: English Pronunciation: globe-trawt-uh Meaning: a person who travels widely

Menggonceng (v.)

Origin: Indonesian Pronunciation: menggon-ceng Meaning: to travel by getting a free ride, usually on the back of a friend’s bicycle

Vagabond (n.)

Origin : Old French Pronunciation: va-guh-baand Meaning: a person who wanders from place to place without a home or job

Gemütlichkeit (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: guh-myt-likh-kahyt Meaning: a feeling of cozy warmth, friendliness, and good cheer with a sense of belonging

Erlebnisse (n.)

Origin: German Pronunciation: ayr-leeb-nis-eh Meaning: an experience that one feels most deeply, and, in a sense, ‘lives through’ – not just mere life experience, but something memorable which happens to someone

Livslogga (v.)

Origin: Swedish Pronunciation: Meaning: literally translates to life log; continually capturing and documenting one’s life through pictures

Poudrerie (n.)

Origin: French Pronunciation: pu-dre-ri Meaning: fallen snow blown by the wind from the ground, appearing like fine powdery particles across the streets and highways

Yeoubi (n.)

Origin: Korean Pronunciation: yu-bi Meaning: literally translates to fox rain; a sunshower – the event of having a light rain while the sun is still shining

Morriña (n.)

Origin: Galician Pronunciation: mo-rina Meaning: a very deep, nostalgic, and melancholic homesickness experienced as one intensely longs to return home; “a ‘saudade’ so strong it can even kill”

 Víðsýni (adj.)

Origin: Icelandic Pronunciation: vith-see-nee Meaning: a panoramic view

Xenophilia (n.)

Origin: Greek Pronunciation: zen-uh-fil-ee-uh Meaning: love for, attraction to, or appreciation of foreign people, manners, customs, or cultures

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What does the noun vibe mean?

There are two meanings listed in OED's entry for the noun vibe . See ‘Meaning & use’ for definitions, usage, and quotation evidence.

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How common is the noun vibe ?

How is the noun vibe pronounced, british english, where does the noun vibe come from.

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The earliest known use of the noun vibe is in the 1940s.

OED's earliest evidence for vibe is from 1940, in Swing .

vibe is formed within English, by clipping or shortening.

Etymons: vibraphone n. ; vibration n.

Nearby entries

• viatic, adj. 1656–
• viatical, adj. & n. 1847–
• viaticated, adj. 1727–
• viaticum, n. 1562–
• viator, n. ?1504–
• viatorial, adj. 1816–
• viatorially, adv. 1880–
• viatorian, adj. 1656
• viatorious, adj. 1727
• viatory, adj. a1631–67
• vibe, n. 1940–
• vibe, v. 1968–
• vibex, n. 1771–
• vibist, n. 1955–
• vibrable, adj. 1727
• vibracular, adj. 1891–
• vibraculoid, adj. 1896–
• vibraculum, n. 1854–
• vibraharp, n. 1930–
• vibraharpist, n. 1943–
• Vibram, n. 1950–

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Hit and run tourism is everywhere on the news, with people bemoaning the bad behaviour of tourists converging on one picture or sculpture before rushing onto the next, or taking selfies in inappropriate locations and then moving on, leaving behind mounds of litter and noise. What's clear is that there are ways that tourists can be motivated to change their behavior and some traveler groups are trying to create consensus around what it actually means to visit a country.

More People Are Visiting Every Country In The World

There's a small group of people who have visited every country in the world—about 400 or so, as reported by CNN . In 2023, though, 50 people joined this group, more than ever before, and they can all say they have been to all 195 UN-recognized countries and territories.

There are more organizations welcoming these travelers too. The Travelers Century Club was the first to launch in 1954—its members need to have visited 100 or more countries and territories. Now there are also two others, Nomad Mania and Most Traveled People.

Most people in these clubs don't suddenly decide to travel to every country in the world. Many, such as Rauli Virtanen who is believed to be the first person to have traveled to every country in the world, are already incredibly well traveled before they decide to make it a mission.

Many, as Virtanen acknowledges, can only travel the world because they are fortunate to have the right passports coupled with enough wealth (or jobs that pay for travel expenses).

Travel, however, has always been a competitive sport—whether that be Ernest Shackleton getting to the Antarctic, Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay climbing Mount Everest or Amelia Earhart crossing the Atlantic. Today's equivalent is probably to visit every country. Ugandan-American travel influencer Jessica Nabongo became the first Black woman to document her travels to every country in 2019 and Gunnar Garfors is the first person to visit every country in the world twice.

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New ios 18 ai security move changes the game for all iphone users, nyt strands hints spangram and answers for monday april 29th, more and more people are complaining of 'hit and run' tourism.

Now that visitor numbers are springing back to pre-pandemic levels, some of the old travel nuisances have also returned. Gion district in Kyoto, Japan, is reporting that tourists are causing a nuisance when trying to take photographs of the women Geishas and that while on-the-spot fines exist, they are unenforceable.

Milan's mayor wants to ban gelato and alcohol sales after midnight to preserve the city's tranquility and Japanese authorities are to build a big wall blocking the view of Mount Fuji from a gas station because of badly-behaved tourists stopping for a selfie and leaving litter everywhere.

The same kind of tourism is happening because of Netflix's Emily in Paris. The show portrays a side of Paris that critics say is stereotypical, and simply untrue (could 'Emily' afford the apartment she has on her salary?) but more insidiously for critics, it has encouraged a form of Parisian tourism that is only interested in a form of collection, identical to the character. The photo eating the same pain au chocolat in the same boulangerie. Tick. The photo drinking the same chocolat chaud in the same 18th century tearoom. Check. For some travelers, the only way to live an experience is by taking a picture and then posting it.

So, What Does It Really Mean To Travel To A Country?

So maybe the real question is, what does it mean to 'visit' a country? Is it spending time there, even if we never speak a word of the language? Never speak to a local? Nomad Mania members suggest that 'a visit' should normally constitute things such as passing through immigration, staying a night, and traveling in a moving vehicle.

The Director of the Galleria dell’Accademia in Florence, best known for housing Michelangelo’s David, notes that there are also different ways that people can be encouraged to pass through some of the world's most famous—and most Instagrammable—locations. Writing in The Guardian , Cecilie Hollberg suggests several things that have worked to reduce such 'hit and run' tourism in her museum—holding exhibitions in winter, extending opening hours, getting the local residents involved, changing signage and museum trajectories so that visitors don't all head straight for selfies with David, as well as reducing the numbers in tour groups.

In the age of the climate crisis, it might also depend on how we travel. Torbjørn “Thor” Pedersen set off from Denmark in 2013 to visit every country without flying and he finally arrived in his final country, the Maldives, in May 2023 after 9 years and 203 countries/territories and returned to Denmark by ship. Some travel challenges it seems can be slow burn and meet current Instagram trends.

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How Do You Match A Vibe With Someone?

The intricacy of catching a vibe.

You've heard it before, haven't you? The phrase "catching a vibe" is frequently bandied about, especially in social and romantic contexts. But what does it actually mean? How does one go about catching a vibe with someone else? Ah, the nuances! The subtleties! They're like atoms in the air; you can't see them, but they affect everything.

Well, in this exploratory sojourn into the phenomenon, we're not just scratching the surface. We will delve deep into the mechanics, the science, and the body language cues that define "vibing" with someone. This guide is not only to illuminate your understanding but to provide you with actionable, down-to-earth tips that you can use to create that special kind of chemistry with someone—yes, the kind that makes everything click.

According to relationship experts, catching a vibe isn't solely based on charisma or shared interests; it's a multi-faceted connection that involves a range of interpersonal skills and self-awareness. Studies suggest that vibing can indeed have a profound impact on the quality of our relationships.

So, buckle up! It's a roller coaster ride through the labyrinth of human connections. Whether you're looking to enhance your friendships, relationships, or even professional interactions, this article will provide insights that you can apply in myriad ways.

It's essential to note that despite the casual airiness of the term, "catching a vibe" is an intricate process. But worry not! By the end of this read, you'll not only be well-versed in the fine art of vibing, but you'll be itching to test your newfound expertise.

Let's catch that vibe, shall we?

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The phrase "catching a vibe" is now a staple in modern lingo, but it's more than a catchphrase or a mere buzzword. It encapsulates a complex interplay of emotional, psychological, and even physiological elements. Whether you're in a bustling café, a loud party, or an intimate conversation, vibes are the undercurrents that steer the direction of interactions.

When you say you're catching a vibe, you're tapping into a specific frequency of understanding and connection with another person. According to Dr. John Gottman, a renowned expert in marital stability and relationship analysis, the attunement to your partner's emotional state is crucial in building long-lasting relationships. So, think of it as tuning your radio to match the station perfectly; any static or interference, and you lose the connection.

The significance of vibes extends beyond immediate interactions. Have you ever considered how you feel more energized around certain individuals, while others seem to drain your energy? The 'Law of Vibes,' as some refer to it, suggests that we are not just attracted to people, but we are also drawn to the energy they emit. And yes, energy, in this context, is a palpable thing!

Psychologists affirm that humans are generally very perceptive creatures and can pick up on subtleties that we may not consciously recognize. It's like having an internal compass guiding you toward positivity and steering you away from negativity.

And let's not forget the professional world. The ability to catch a vibe is not restricted to personal relationships. Business professionals and leaders acknowledge the critical role that a good vibe plays in team dynamics, negotiations, and partnerships. You're not merely selling a product or a service; you're selling a vibe, a vision, an atmosphere that others want to be part of.

Understanding the multifaceted nature of vibes can equip you with the tools you need to navigate the complex maze of human interaction. After all, catching a vibe is not just for the 'cool kids'; it's a life skill, a social elixir, and a cornerstone of fulfilling relationships.

The Science Behind Vibing: Chemical Reactions and Brain Waves

Let's put on our lab coats for a moment and delve into the science of vibing. Yes, there's actual scientific backing to this phenomenon. Studies in neuroscience and psychology have identified various neurotransmitters and hormones such as oxytocin and dopamine that surge when we connect with someone. The activation of these "feel-good" chemicals isn't merely a momentary high; it fosters a sense of bonding and community.

The brain, being the highly complex organ it is, uses electrochemical signals to communicate. When we vibe with someone, our brain waves can actually synchronize. Research conducted by Princeton University found that during a deep conversation, the brain activity of both the speaker and the listener can become aligned, creating a unique harmonious interaction. It's like watching a perfectly choreographed dance unfold, but at a cellular level.

You might be thinking, "Okay, that sounds cool, but how does that help me?" Well, understanding this biology of bonding can help you make sense of why you feel a certain way around different people. If the conversation is flowing and you're catching a vibe, it's not mere coincidence; there's biochemical wizardry at play.

It's noteworthy that our brains are wired to pick up signals from our environment and the people around us. Our limbic system, often referred to as the "emotional brain," plays a critical role in catching a vibe. It's always scanning and interpreting emotional cues, even when we're not consciously aware of it. This system helps us to feel safe, engaged, and connected when the vibes are good.

If you've ever had "butterflies in your stomach" when you met someone new and exciting, that's your brain's amygdala and reward system in action. So the next time you find yourself irresistibly drawn to someone, remember, it's not "just a vibe"; it's a complex biochemical symphony.

And let's not overlook the social aspects. From an evolutionary standpoint, vibing is an adaptive mechanism. Being able to form alliances and understand social cues has been crucial for human survival . Essentially, catching a vibe is nature's way of telling you who could be a potential ally and who could be a threat.

Breaking Down the Vibe Spectrum

Alright, let's pivot from the lab back to real life. Catching a vibe isn't a one-size-fits-all kind of deal. There's a whole spectrum of vibes that can be experienced and shared. From the chill and laid-back to the electric and exhilarating, the variety is as diverse as the colors of a rainbow.

So, what constitutes this spectrum? Emotional vibes, intellectual vibes, and physical vibes are the big three. Imagine them as separate dials on a control panel. Cranking up one dial doesn't necessarily mean the others will follow suit. You might connect emotionally with someone but find your intellectual conversations are like trying to mix oil and water.

Let's dive deeper. Emotional vibes are the kind you feel when there's an inherent understanding or empathy between you and someone else. These vibes often surface during deep, meaningful conversations or shared experiences that tug at your heartstrings.

Then, there are intellectual vibes. These come into play when you and someone else are on the same wavelength in terms of your thoughts, ideas, and discussions. Whether it's a shared interest in existential philosophy or your love for cheesy 80s action movies , these vibes create a meeting of the minds.

Physical vibes are perhaps the most straightforward. They arise from physical attraction, chemistry, and the often-elusive "spark." While they can be intoxicating, physical vibes are just one part of the equation. It's like having a beautiful wrapping paper; it enhances the gift but isn't the gift itself.

Understanding this spectrum allows you to better navigate the complicated terrain of human interaction. You'll be better equipped to recognize what's working, what's not, and why. After all, the key to catching a vibe is in appreciating its multi-dimensional nature.

Mirroring: The Subtle Art of Catching a Vibe

Now that we've dissected what a vibe is, let's delve into how you can actively engage in catching a vibe. One effective technique is mirroring—a subtle but potent way to build rapport and foster connection. Think of it as echoing someone's behavior, speech patterns, or even their mood, albeit not in a creepy or stalker-like manner!

When we mirror someone, we're not just mimicking; we're signaling that we're in tune with them. It's a subliminal message that says, "Hey, I get you." Mirroring can happen naturally, but being consciously aware of it allows you to use it as a powerful tool for connection.

Professor Tanya Chartrand of Duke University's research into mirroring shows that this subconscious behavior can lead to positive evaluations and liking. It creates a sense of familiarity and comfort, facilitating a smoother interaction. Essentially, mirroring can make the process of catching a vibe more accessible and more effective.

The areas where you can apply mirroring are incredibly diverse. Whether it's adopting a similar tone of voice, using the same kind of language, or even matching your body language, these are all avenues through which mirroring operates. But remember, subtlety is key. The idea isn't to become a clone of the other person but to reflect enough of them to establish a connection.

If you're unsure how to start, try mirroring small behaviors or phrases and gauge the reaction. If the other person seems more engaged or comfortable, you're on the right track. You can then continue to mirror more behaviors gradually, deepening the connection and, in turn, catching that elusive vibe.

When done genuinely and respectfully, mirroring can be a tremendous asset in your social toolbox. You'll be surprised how much easier it becomes to connect with people when you understand the art of subtle reflection. Consider it a stepping stone on your path to becoming a vibe connoisseur.

Body Language: Reading Between the Lines

So you're getting the hang of this, aren't you? Let's not stop at spoken language, because a lot of vibe catching happens through nonverbal cues, particularly body language. In many ways, our bodies are far more articulate than our words. Psychologists estimate that up to 93% of communication is nonverbal. That's a colossal percentage, making it a crucial element when it comes to catching a vibe.

A crossed arm, a sideways glance, a hearty laugh—each of these can say volumes about what's going on internally. For instance, if someone is leaning in while talking to you, making eye contact, and nodding, that's a solid indicator that they are engaged and perhaps even catching a vibe with you.

Let's talk specifics. Facial expressions are often the most telling. A smile is universally seen as a sign of openness and interest, but don't forget about micro-expressions—those fleeting facial movements that last only a fraction of a second. They can reveal a person's true emotions and are incredibly hard to fake. For the keen observer, these are goldmines of information.

But here's a word of caution. While body language is insightful, it's not foolproof. Always consider the context and other cues before jumping to conclusions. Cultural differences can also influence body language. What's considered a welcoming gesture in one culture might be seen as rude or invasive in another. Therefore, having a broader understanding of different cultures can add another layer of sophistication to your vibe-catching abilities.

Paul Ekman, a psychologist renowned for his work on emotions and facial expressions, opines that mastering the art of reading body language can significantly improve our interpersonal interactions. When you begin to pay attention to these subtleties, you become more adept at not only expressing your own feelings but also at understanding those of others.

To hone your skills, try this simple exercise: the next time you're in a social setting, spend a few minutes just observing. Don't engage in conversation; just watch people's interactions and see if you can gauge the vibes around you. The more you practice, the better you'll get at catching vibes, even when not a single word is spoken.

The Role of Communication: Verbal Vibes

We've talked about the unspoken, so let's pivot to what's actually said. Verbal communication is equally vital in catching a vibe. Words, tone, pacing—these are the building blocks of spoken interaction, and they're potent tools for making (or breaking) a connection.

But how can you make sure that you're sending the right verbal vibes? First, listen—really listen. Active listening isn't just waiting for your turn to speak; it's about fully engaging with the other person. This is an underrated skill but an immensely valuable one for catching a vibe.

Also, take note of your tone and volume. These can significantly impact how your words are received. A soft, warm tone can create a sense of intimacy, while a louder, more energetic tone may generate excitement. Paying attention to the nuances in your voice can make all the difference.

Another aspect to consider is the content of your conversation. If you're discussing topics that both parties are passionate about, chances are you'll find it easier to catch a vibe. Shared interests and common values can go a long way in fostering a strong connection.

It's also worth mentioning the concept of 'conversational threading.' This involves picking up on topics, phrases, or keywords from the other person's statements and using them to extend the conversation. It shows attentiveness and interest, and it can enrich the discussion. This method is often used in public speaking and negotiation but is equally effective in casual conversations.

Remember, words are potent. They have the power to elevate a conversation and enhance your vibe-catching prowess. Whether it's through humor, empathy, or shared knowledge, the way you converse is a direct reflection of your vibe.

And don't underestimate the power of a well-timed pause. Pausing gives the other person a chance to absorb what you've said, and it offers you a moment to gauge their reaction. In a world where everyone is in a hurry, taking a moment to pause can be a refreshing and effective way to deepen a connection.

The Context of Vibes: Places and Social Settings

You know the saying, "Location, location, location?" Well, it applies to catching a vibe too. The environment you're in can dramatically influence the kind of vibes you catch—or don't catch—with someone. Ever noticed how it's easier to relax and open up in a cozy café as opposed to a crowded subway train? Context matters.

Let's dig into this a bit. Different social settings have their own 'ambient vibes.' A lively party, a solemn church service, a bustling marketplace—each comes with a distinct atmosphere that sets the stage for personal interactions. Learning how to adapt your vibe to match these settings can be a game-changer.

Think about music festivals. The vibe there is electric, energetic, and communal. People are more open to meeting strangers and sharing experiences. Contrast that with a library, where the vibe is one of focus and individuality. Catching a vibe in each of these places requires a different approach.

Moreover, some places are naturally conducive to certain kinds of vibes. Nature spots like beaches or forests often induce a relaxed, peaceful vibe, while urban settings like a city skyline at night can give off a vibe of excitement and possibility.

Timing also plays a role. The vibe you might catch with someone during a sunny afternoon picnic could be quite different from the one you'd experience at a late-night dinner. Different times of day come with their own natural rhythms and moods.

Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, emphasizes the impact of the environment on our romantic and social relationships. She argues that settings can activate different parts of the brain, influencing our behavior and feelings. When you consider this, it becomes clear how integral context is to the art of catching a vibe.

So the next time you're finding it hard to vibe with someone, consider the setting. Maybe all you need is a change of scenery to shift the dynamics. From choosing the right venue for a first date to picking the perfect meeting place for a business interaction, never underestimate the power of context in catching a vibe.

Trust Your Gut: Intuition and Vibes

Okay, let's switch gears a bit and delve into something a little less tangible but equally potent: intuition. Have you ever just "known" something without being able to explain why? That's your intuition at work, and it plays a significant role in catching a vibe.

Intuition is often dismissed as something woo-woo, but there's science behind it. Your brain has this incredible ability to process information at lightning speed, far faster than you can consciously analyze. When you get that gut feeling, it's your brain's way of telling you that it has picked up on patterns or cues that you may not consciously recognize.

It's not magic; it's just your brain doing its thing—working behind the scenes to sift through a barrage of information and drawing on past experiences to guide you. It's a survival mechanism honed through millennia of evolution. So when you feel a certain vibe but can't quite put your finger on why, trust that your intuition is onto something.

Now, this isn't to say that you should blindly follow every hunch. Intuition is a tool, not a guarantee. It's crucial to balance intuitive insights with rational thought. Evaluate the situation, take into account any biases you may have, and then act accordingly.

But how do you develop a strong sense of intuition? One effective way is through mindfulness practices. Mindfulness can help you become more attuned to your thoughts and feelings, which in turn can sharpen your intuitive abilities. The more present you are, the better you'll be at catching vibes.

Research by Dr. Joel Pearson, a cognitive neuroscience professor, suggests that intuition is a real psychological phenomenon that can be measured and harnessed for decision-making. His work implies that trusting your gut can lead to better outcomes, especially in complex, uncertain situations.

So, the next time your gut tells you something about a person or a situation, give it some credence. Your intuition might just be your secret weapon for catching a vibe.

Shared Interests and Experiences: The Glue of Good Vibes

You know what makes vibing easy? Shared experiences and interests. I mean, have you ever tried to catch a vibe with someone who has zero in common with you? It's like trying to mix oil and water. But when you share interests, the vibe almost catches itself.

When you and someone else are passionate about the same things, it creates an immediate sense of camaraderie and understanding. It's like a shorthand that allows you to connect on a deeper level without needing to explain every little detail. This is why people often become fast friends or even romantic partners after discovering common interests.

But why do shared interests work so well in helping you catch a vibe? One reason is validation. When someone shares your interests, it validates your passions and beliefs. Validation creates a strong emotional bond, and that can be a powerful thing.

You know what's even better? Shared experiences. These can be powerful catalysts for creating an incredible vibe. Whether it's traveling to the same places, working in similar industries, or even experiencing similar hardships, these shared experiences create a unique bond that's hard to replicate.

Now, it's essential not to fake it. Pretending to share someone's interests just to catch a vibe is a recipe for disaster. Authenticity is key. So instead of pretending, why not expand your horizons? Take up new hobbies, read up on different subjects, and broaden your understanding of the world. You'll naturally catch more vibes that way.

In a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, researchers found that shared activities increase the quality of relationships. Participating in mutual interests was strongly linked to higher levels of relationship satisfaction. So, whether you're just making a new friend or looking to deepen an existing relationship, finding and engaging in shared interests can be your shortcut to catching a good vibe .

The next time you meet someone new, try steering the conversation toward potential shared interests or experiences. You might just find the perfect glue to make that vibe stick.

How Technology Affects Vibing: The Digital Dilemma

Ah, the double-edged sword of technology. On one hand, technology has made it easier than ever to connect with people worldwide. On the other, it has also complicated the art of catching a vibe. The absence of physical presence in digital interactions often strips away the subtle cues that help us catch a vibe in real-life settings.

Have you ever tried to decipher the tone of a text message and ended up completely misjudging the vibe? You're not alone. The lack of nonverbal cues in digital communication can make it incredibly challenging to gauge the emotional context.

Emoji and gifs try to fill this gap by adding a layer of emotional texture to digital interactions. But they are far from a perfect solution. Sometimes a smiley face is just a smiley face, devoid of any deeper emotional nuance. The essence of catching a vibe often gets lost in digital translation.

Then there's the issue of digital overload. The constant barrage of emails, messages, and notifications can make it hard to focus and truly engage in any conversation, thereby making it difficult to catch a vibe. The irony is palpable; technology connects us but also keeps us disconnected.

So how do you navigate this digital minefield? One way is by being mindful and intentional in your online interactions. When chatting with someone online , try to focus solely on that conversation. Close those extra tabs and mute those notifications. The quality of your digital interactions will likely improve, making it easier to catch a vibe, even through a screen.

Sherry Turkle, a professor at MIT and a leading expert on the social and psychological effects of technology, advocates for more 'sacred spaces' free from digital interruptions. She believes that setting boundaries around our tech use can facilitate more meaningful interactions, both online and offline.

So, while catching a vibe in the digital realm has its set of challenges, it's not impossible. By being more mindful and intentional, you can still find genuine connections in a world increasingly mediated by screens.

Red Flags: When Vibes Go Wrong

So far, we've been talking about all the good stuff, like the magical experience of catching a vibe with someone. But let's switch lanes for a moment and get into the nitty-gritty of when vibes go wrong. Yes, it happens, and it's crucial to recognize the red flags.

Let's say you're in a social setting, and something feels off, but you can't quite put your finger on it. That's a red flag! Sometimes, a bad vibe is a warning sign that something is amiss. Your intuition is ringing alarm bells for a reason.

Some common red flags include inconsistency in words and actions, a general feeling of unease, or even overt signs of hostility. These can all signal that you're not on the same wavelength with someone, and it might be best to tread carefully. Inconsistent vibes are often a symptom of underlying issues that could be as simple as a temporary mood swing or as complex as a fundamental mismatch of values.

Another red flag could be a sense of forced interaction, where you feel like you're trying too hard to catch a vibe. Genuine vibes are generally effortless and flow naturally. If it feels like pulling teeth to maintain a conversation, it's probably not a match.

Don't ignore these warning signs. Acknowledge them, and take appropriate action. Sometimes, it may mean having an honest conversation with the person to clear the air. At other times, it might mean distancing yourself to preserve your own well-being.

Dr. John Gottman, a psychologist and researcher known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis, talks about the "Four Horsemen" as indicators of a doomed relationship: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. While these are primarily focused on romantic relationships, they can serve as general red flags in any interaction where you're trying to catch a vibe.

The key is to be aware and act accordingly. Bad vibes aren't always a dead-end; sometimes, they're just bumps on the road that can be navigated with care and attention.

Conclusion: Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe

And there you have it, the full spectrum of catching a vibe, from the science behind it to the red flags to watch out for. The saying "your vibe attracts your tribe" holds a lot of truth. The kind of energy you put out into the world is likely what you'll attract back.

In a way, catching a vibe is like dancing. It requires rhythm, timing, and a shared understanding of the space you both inhabit. Sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow, but when you find that sweet spot, everything just clicks.

If you've made it this far, then you're clearly invested in understanding the complexities of human interaction. And that's great! The more you understand, the better you'll be at catching a vibe.

Remember, you don't have to get it right every time. We're all continuously learning and evolving. Each interaction is a new opportunity to practice your vibe-catching skills. So go out there, be your authentic self, and catch those vibes!

Don't forget to listen to your gut, watch for those red flags, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. Vibing is an art, not a science, even though science can offer us plenty of insights into it.

Catching a vibe is a multifaceted experience that goes beyond mere social skills. It's an intricate interplay of chemical reactions, non-verbal cues, shared experiences, and intuitive insights. The next time you find yourself in a social setting, you'll be well-equipped to navigate the subtle nuances of vibes.

Happy vibing!

Recommended Resources

1. "Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking" by Malcolm Gladwell - An exploration of the power and function of intuition.

2. "The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships" by Dr. John Gottman - A comprehensive look at relationship dynamics and what makes or breaks them.

3. "Reclaiming Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital Age" by Sherry Turkle - This book explores how technology affects our relationships and what we can do to reclaim meaningful conversation.

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What Does It Mean to “Vibe With” Someone or Something?

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You might have heard someone say that they “vibe with” someone or something, but what does this actually mean? If you want to learn more about this popular slang phrase, you’ve come to the right place! We’ll go over its definition and we’ll explain what it means when someone says they “vibe with” you. We’ll also go over the meanings of similar phrases, so keep reading!

Meaning of “Vibe With”

If you “vibe with” someone, you like them and enjoy their company. You feel comfortable in their presence, and your connection is natural and easy. You can also use this phrase to refer to objects or places that give you these same feelings.

• “Thanks for setting me up on that date with your friend! We had an immediate connection, and it felt like I’d known her forever. I really vibe with her!”
• “I made a new friend yesterday. We met in line at the grocery store. He’s really cool, and I definitely vibe with him.”
• “I was worried about starting my new job, but thankfully I really vibe with all my coworkers. Everyone is super nice and welcoming.”
• “I really vibe with our new professor. Her first class was awesome, and she made everyone feel really safe to speak up in class and ask questions.”

• “Wow, did you redo your bedroom? I totally vibe with this new decor—it’s so relaxing, and the ambience is perfect.”
• “I’m super picky about my coffee, but this latte is amazing. I also really vibe with the atmosphere in here. I think I may have found my new favorite coffee shop!”
• “I was nervous to try out this new lipstick color because it’s a lot bolder than I usually go for, but I actually vibe with it. I’m glad I branched out!”
• “I really vibe with your outfit—you look amazing! Where did you get it from?”

• “I tried to give him a chance, but I didn’t vibe with him at all on our date last night. I’m gonna let him know I’m not interested.”
• “I’ve tried to be friends with her several times, but we always end up getting into arguments. I just don’t think I vibe with her as a person.”
• “I don’t really vibe with that bar. Every time I’ve gone there, the ambience was terrible and the music was too loud.”

• “I went on a date yesterday, and he had such a cool vibe. I’m definitely gonna ask him out again.”
• “The dinner party had a really weird vibe after the hosts got into a fight. Everyone was acting super awkward and uncomfortable the rest of the night.”
• “I’ve only known my new roommate for a few weeks, but she has such good vibes. I feel super comfortable with her!”
• This bar has bad vibes. It’s too loud and crowded! Can we try another place?”

• For example, if you’re at a party with a friend and they ask you if you’re having a good time, you could reply, “Yeah, I’m good! Just vibing.”
• Or, if you’re out on a date and your friend texts you to ask how it’s going, you could reply: “It’s actually going great! We’re totally vibing.”

• Alternatively, “catching a vibe” with someone can mean meeting up with them in a romantic context. [7] X Research source
• For example, if you’ve matched with someone on a dating app, you could send a message that says, “Hey! Were you looking to catch a vibe tonight? We could meet up and grab some drinks or food if you’re free.”

• “I was worried that this party would be lame, but it’s actually a vibe. I’m happy I came!”
• “The string lights you set up in your room create such a cool atmosphere. It’s definitely a vibe.”
• “It’s not the vibe”{endbold} On the flip side, saying something is “not the vibe” means that you disapprove of it, or that it’s not cool or fun. For example, you could say, “I wanted to give this bar a chance, but no one’s dancing and people are acting really stuck-up. It’s not the vibe.”
• “We were all exhausted after our twelve hour flight, but she kept blasting really upbeat, loud music on the way home from the airport. She just didn’t realize that it was not the vibe.”
• “I tried to enjoy the hike, but he just kept complaining the whole time. He said it was too hot out, that his shoes hurt, that he was hungry. It was not the vibe.”

• “I thought we were in a good place in our relationship, but now the vibes are off. He’s acting really weird and distant.”
• “Do we have to stay at this party? I don’t know if it’s just me, but I feel like the vibes are off. The energy in here is super strange and no one’s mingling.”

• “I heard you went on a first date last night! Did he pass the vibe check? Or will you be letting him down easily?”
• “The party absolutely did not pass the vibe check. They didn’t have any snacks or drinks, and no one was socializing.”
• “Okay, quick vibe check! Is everyone enjoying themselves, or should we head to a different bar?”

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Biden-Harris Administration Announces Final Rule Requiring Automatic Refunds of Airline Tickets and Ancillary Service Fees

Rule makes it easy to get money back for cancelled or significantly changed flights, significantly delayed checked bags, and additional services not provided  

WASHINGTON – The Biden-Harris Administration today announced that the U.S. Department of Transportation (DOT) has issued a final rule that requires airlines to promptly provide passengers with automatic cash refunds when owed. The new rule makes it easy for passengers to obtain refunds when airlines cancel or significantly change their flights, significantly delay their checked bags, or fail to provide the extra services they purchased.

“Passengers deserve to get their money back when an airline owes them - without headaches or haggling,” said U.S. Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg . “Our new rule sets a new standard to require airlines to promptly provide cash refunds to their passengers.”  

The final rule creates certainty for consumers by defining the specific circumstances in which airlines must provide refunds. Prior to this rule, airlines were permitted to set their own standards for what kind of flight changes warranted a refund. As a result, refund policies differed from airline to airline, which made it difficult for passengers to know or assert their refund rights. DOT also received complaints of some airlines revising and applying less consumer-friendly refund policies during spikes in flight cancellations and changes. 

Under the rule, passengers are entitled to a refund for:

• Canceled or significantly changed flights: Passengers will be entitled to a refund if their flight is canceled or significantly changed, and they do not accept alternative transportation or travel credits offered. For the first time, the rule defines “significant change.” Significant changes to a flight include departure or arrival times that are more than 3 hours domestically and 6 hours internationally; departures or arrivals from a different airport; increases in the number of connections; instances where passengers are downgraded to a lower class of service; or connections at different airports or flights on different planes that are less accessible or accommodating to a person with a disability.  
• Significantly delayed baggage return: Passengers who file a mishandled baggage report will be entitled to a refund of their checked bag fee if it is not delivered within 12 hours of their domestic flight arriving at the gate, or 15-30 hours of their international flight arriving at the gate, depending on the length of the flight.  
• Extra services not provided: Passengers will be entitled to a refund for the fee they paid for an extra service — such as Wi-Fi, seat selection, or inflight entertainment — if an airline fails to provide this service.

DOT’s final rule also makes it simple and straightforward for passengers to receive the money they are owed. Without this rule, consumers have to navigate a patchwork of cumbersome processes to request and receive a refund — searching through airline websites to figure out how make the request, filling out extra “digital paperwork,” or at times waiting for hours on the phone. In addition, passengers would receive a travel credit or voucher by default from some airlines instead of getting their money back, so they could not use their refund to rebook on another airline when their flight was changed or cancelled without navigating a cumbersome request process.  

The final rule improves the passenger experience by requiring refunds to be:

• Automatic: Airlines must automatically issue refunds without passengers having to explicitly request them or jump through hoops.   
• Prompt: Airlines and ticket agents must issue refunds within seven business days of refunds becoming due for credit card purchases and 20 calendar days for other payment methods.  
• Cash or original form of payment: Airlines and ticket agents must provide refunds in cash or whatever original payment method the individual used to make the purchase, such as credit card or airline miles. Airlines may not substitute vouchers, travel credits, or other forms of compensation unless the passenger affirmatively chooses to accept alternative compensation.    
• Full amount: Airlines and ticket agents must provide full refunds of the ticket purchase price, minus the value of any portion of transportation already used. The refunds must include all government-imposed taxes and fees and airline-imposed fees, regardless of whether the taxes or fees are refundable to airlines.

The final rule also requires airlines to provide prompt notifications to consumers affected by a cancelled or significantly changed flight of their right to a refund of the ticket and extra service fees, as well as any related policies.

In addition, in instances where consumers are restricted by a government or advised by a medical professional not to travel to, from, or within the United States due to a serious communicable disease, the final rule requires that airlines must provide travel credits or vouchers. Consumers may be required to provide documentary evidence to support their request. Travel vouchers or credits provided by airlines must be transferrable and valid for at least five years from the date of issuance.

The Department received a significant number of complaints against airlines and ticket agents for refusing to provide a refund or for delaying processing of refunds during and after the COVID-19 pandemic. At the height of the pandemic in 2020, refund complaints peaked at 87 percent of all air travel service complaints received by DOT. Refund problems continue to make up a substantial share of the complaints that DOT receives.

DOT’s Historic Record of Consumer Protection Under the Biden-Harris Administration

Under the Biden-Harris Administration and Secretary Buttigieg, DOT has advanced the largest expansion of airline passenger rights, issued the biggest fines against airlines for failing consumers, and returned more money to passengers in refunds and reimbursements than ever before in the Department’s history.

• Thanks to pressure from Secretary Buttigieg and DOT’s flightrights.gov dashboard, all 10 major U.S. airlines guarantee free rebooking and meals, and nine guarantee hotel accommodations when an airline issue causes a significant delay or cancellation. These are new commitments the airlines added to their customer service plans that DOT can legally ensure they adhere to and are displayed on flightrights.gov .  
• Since President Biden took office, DOT has helped return more than $3 billion in refunds and reimbursements owed to airline passengers – including over $600 million to passengers affected by the Southwest Airlines holiday meltdown in 2022.   
• Under Secretary Buttigieg, DOT has issued over $164 million in penalties against airlines for consumer protection violations. Between 1996 and 2020, DOT collectively issued less than $71 million in penalties against airlines for consumer protection violations.  
• DOT recently launched a new partnership with a bipartisan group of state attorneys general to fast-track the review of consumer complaints, hold airlines accountable, and protect the rights of the traveling public.  
• In 2023, the flight cancellation rate in the U.S. was a record low at under 1.2% — the lowest rate of flight cancellations in over 10 years despite a record amount of air travel.  
• DOT is undertaking its first ever industry-wide review of airline privacy practices and its first review of airline loyalty programs.

In addition to finalizing the rules to require automatic refunds and protect against surprise fees, DOT is also pursuing rulemakings that would:

• Propose to ban family seating junk fees and guarantee that parents can sit with their children for no extra charge when they fly. Before President Biden and Secretary Buttigieg pressed airlines last year, no airline committed to guaranteeing fee-free family seating. Now, four airlines guarantee fee-free family seating, and the Department is working on its family seating junk fee ban proposal.  
• Propose to make passenger compensation and amenities mandatory so that travelers are taken care of when airlines cause flight delays or cancellations.   
• Expand the rights for passengers who use wheelchairs and ensure that they can travel safely and with dignity . The comment period on this proposed rule closes on May 13, 2024.

The final rule on refunds can be found at https://www.transportation.gov/airconsumer/latest-news and at regulations.gov , docket number DOT-OST-2022-0089. There are different implementation periods in this final rule ranging from six months for airlines to provide automatic refunds when owed to 12 months for airlines to provide transferable travel vouchers or credits when consumers are unable to travel for reasons related to a serious communicable disease. 

Information about airline passenger rights, as well as DOT’s rules, guidance and orders, can be found at   https://www.transportation.gov/airconsumer .

Newsletter: Blanket presidential immunity was unthinkable until Trump came along

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Good morning. I’m Paul Thornton, and it is Saturday, April 27, 2024. Here’s what’s been happening in Opinion.

Ever since Donald Trump emerged as a presidential candidate nearly a decade ago, there’s been this odd tension between holding him accountable as we would anyone else, and letting him run amok in the hope that the traditions and comity that enable politics in this country would outlast him, and one day we could all go back to how things were. All along, we’ve hoped that the former president would start respecting democratic “norms.”

Now, in hindsight, it looks like all that’s done is hinder the enforcement of laws that he so clearly has violated. The U.S. Supreme Court’s hearing Thursday of Trump’s absurd presidential immunity claim bears that out.

For starters, we shouldn’t be here. We shouldn’t have to write down that a federal law against, say, assassinating political opponents applies to the president too — because our constitutional system subordinates everyone to the law. Trump, while he was in office, may be constitutionally protected from prosecution ( though that’s debatable ), but once he’s out, he’s a citizen like you and me. Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell (R-Ky.) made precisely that point when justifying his vote in early 2021 to acquit Trump in his second impeachment trial.

But Trump apparently had a sympathetic audience Thursday at the Supreme Court , where many of the justices during oral arguments expressed a desire to define which acts taken as president count as “official,” which are “personal,” and to what extent someone who flouted the most fundamental aspect of our democracy — carrying out election results — can be prosecuted. Justice Department special counsel Jack Smith’s indictment of the former president clearly lays out how Trump’s conduct after the 2020 election violated specific U.S. laws. By my listening to the oral arguments Thursday, there’s no real debate over the specific allegations made in Smith’s indictment.

But because of who he is, the justices may allow Trump to avoid prosecution on some charges altogether or in effect delay his Jan. 6 trial until after the election. That is extraordinary. Op-ed columnist Harry Litman, a veteran of the U.S. Justice Department, recaps the hearing and lays out the grim implications for our constitutional system :

“Going into Thursday’s showdown, the critical question was whether the court’s opinion would permit the trial to go forward without further proceedings. In the wake of the arguments, that seems more unlikely than ever. Indeed, the court’s questions raised the additional alarming prospect that it could confer the kind of expansive presidential immunity that would further weaken the constitutional principle that a president is not a king.”

Antiabortion states should not deny pregnant women emergency care . The first sentence of this Times editorial also captures the disorienting state of the Supreme Court: “It’s absurd that in the 21st century, the Supreme Court is debating how close to death pregnant women need to be before doctors can perform a medically necessary abortion.” But in overturning Roe vs. Wade in 2022, the court opened a Pandora’s box, and earlier this week it heard arguments on an Idaho law outlawing all abortions except in cases of rape, incest or imminent threat to the life of the mother. The editorial board reminds the justices: Women are not incubators.

Criminalizing homelessness is unconscionable, but is it unconstitutional? In yet further Supreme Court news, the justices heard a case this week on the law against sleeping in public in Grants Pass, Ore., a topic covered by my colleague Kerry Cavanaugh in Wednesday’s newsletter . Op-ed columnist Robin Abcarian says the case demonstrates a sad fact of modern America: “We continue to fail the homeless people who live among us, and no single court ruling in the world is going to solve the underlying issues.”

America’s “big glass” dominance hangs on the fate of two powerful new telescopes . If the situation on terra firma feels bleak, you won’t feel much better looking skyward after reading the op-ed article by the respective presidents of Carnegie Science and Caltech, Eric D. Isaacs and Thomas F. Rosenbaum. They warn that the U.S. risks ceding its global leadership on building large telescopes.

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Lots of people lie to their doctors. His father did — with tragic results . Paul Karrer’s dad really wanted to drive — so much that he withheld information from his doctor about the severity of his epilepsy, allowing him to be certified healthy enough for a license. Karrer says that ended in the worst way possible: “In 1998, when he was 67, my father had his final seizure while driving. He caused an accident, killing the driver of the other car, and himself. The passenger in his car was severely injured and spent months in the hospital before she died. It was all shocking, unnecessary and horrible.”

California law requires police to fix these bad policies. So why haven’t they? Six years ago, the state enacted legislation calling for the end of dubious witness identification practices by police. Todd Fries, an attorney who directs the Northern California Innocence Project, says his group has since found that law enforcement agencies have largely failed to implement reforms meant to prevent the conviction of innocent people.

More from this week in opinion

From our columnists

• Jonah Goldberg: The GOP can still do what’s rational and right. Here’s the proof
• Jackie Calmes: MAGA Mike sings a chorus of “Kumbaya” with the Democrats, but for how long?

From the op-ed desk

• Pat Tillman was killed 20 years ago. Let’s remember him and ponder the nation’s lost opportunity
• This Passover, have room in your hearts for Israelis and Palestinians

From the editorial board

• Social media companies refuse to safeguard kids. It’s up to lawmakers now
• In eco-minded California, there’s still no constitutional right to clean air and water

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• Charge an extra fee? Restaurants should have to tell customers before they enter
• Should Kamala Harris step aside as Joe Biden’s running mate?
• The major difference between Donald Trump and King David

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