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18 quotes about love being a journey (the beginning, middle & end).

These quotes about love are a tribute to you and all the ways you choose to love, even when it’s hard… whenever you can. It's all a practice and a path, and you make love your priority one decision, one breath at a time.

This thing called life on earth? We’re in it together. And it’s not easy, which is why it’s best to go hand in hand, one step at a time. Love: it’s how we make it through .

18 Quotes about Love Being a Journey

1. “Your task is not to see for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi

2. “Our real journey in life is interior; it is a matter of growth, deepening, and of an ever greater surrender to the creative action of love and grace in our hearts. Never was it more necessary to respond to that action.” – Thomas Merton

3. “Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.” – Ursula LeGuin

4. “The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” – Albert Ellis

5. “Love is the spirit that motivates the artist’s journey.” – Eric Maisel

6. “Being driven is not the same as being passionate. Passion is a love for the journey. Drive is a need to reach the destination.” – Simon Sinek

7. “Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are travelling the dark journey with us. Oh be swift to love, make haste to be kind.” – Henri Frederic Amiel

6. “To love yourself is a never-ending journey.” – Oprah Winfrey

9. “Life is a journey and it’s about growing and changing and coming to terms with who and what you are and loving who and what you are.” – Kelly McGillis

10. “To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.” – Anna Louise Strong

11. “I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.” – Leo Buscaglia

12. “Love is the beginning of the journey, its end, and the journey itself.” – Deepak Chopra

13. “Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.” – Marianne Williamson

14. “Love cannot be forced, love cannot be coaxed or teased. It comes out of heaven, unasked and unsought.” – Pearl S. Buck

15. “Love is meant to be an adventure.” – Gordon B. Hinckley

16. “We can only learn to love by loving.” – Iris Murdoch

17. “Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family.” – Thomas S. Monson

18. “This itself is the whole of the journey, opening your heart to that which is lovely.” – Buddha

Which of these quotes about love is your favorite?

Tell me in the comments. I read every single one, and I’d love to know!

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Embark on a journey of a lifetime with these inspiring journey quotes. Life’s a thrilling ride, filled with ups and downs.

It’s about braving the storms and cherishing time spent with loved ones.

So whether your path is spiritual, an exciting travel adventure, or just starting something new in life, let these quotes fuel your spirit for exploration and discovery.

Journey quotes to begin your path towards greatness

1. “Never give up on your dreams, no matter how painful and difficult your journey is.” – Lisa

2. “The journey is never ending. There’s always gonna be growth, improvement, adversity; you just gotta take it all in and do what’s right, continue to grow, continue to live in the moment.” – Antonio Brown

3. “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” – Lao Tzu

4. “Sometimes its more about the journey than the destination.” – Jamal Crawford

5. “Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.” – Arthur Ashe

6. “Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.” – Greg Anderson

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7. “Not all those who wander are lost.” – J.R.R. Tolkien

8. “Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination.” – Drake

9. “Sometimes we make the process more complicated than we need to. We will never make a journey of a thousand miles by fretting about how long it will take or how hard it will be. We make the journey by taking each day step by step and then repeating it again and again until we reach our destination.” – Joseph B. Wirthlin

10. “Enjoy the journey and try to get better every day. And don’t lose the passion and the love for what you do.” – Nadia Comaneci

11. “Struggle teaches you a lot of things, and I am happy that I witnessed a roller coaster ride. The journey has improved me as a person and made me more matrure.” – Manoj Bajpayee

12. “Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh be swift to love, make haste to be kind.” – Henri Frederic Amiel

Life is a journey quotes

13. “Life is a journey that must be traveled no matter how bad the roads and accommodations.” – Oliver Goldsmith

14. “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.” – Robert Frost

15. “Learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it.” – Lolly Daskal

16. “Life is a journey that have a lot of different paths, but any path you choose, use it as your destiny.” – Unknown

17. “The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday.” – Steve Maraboli

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18. “Life is a journey, not a destination.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

19. “Everyday you got a chance to make your journey more beautiful than yesterday.” – Nitin Namdeo

20. “Every day is a journey and the journey itself is home.” – Matsuo Basho

21. “Everybody has their own story; everything has their own journey.” – Thalia

Enjoy the journey quotes

22. “Enjoy the journey as much as the destination.” – Marshall Sylver

23. “Enjoy the journey of life and not just the endgame.” – Benedict Cumberbatch

24. “Enjoy the journey and try to get better everyday. And don’t lose the passion and the love for what you do.” – Nadia Comaneci

25. “Enjoy the journey, the destination will come.” – Verghese

26. “Don’t wait for everything to be perfect before you decide to enjoy your life.” – Joyce Meyer

27. “Dream big, stay positive, work hard, and enjoy the journey.” – Urijah Faber

28. “The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance, and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.” – Oprah Winfrey

29. “Aim for the sky, but move slowly, enjoying every step along the way. It is all those little steps that make the journey complete.” – Chanda Kochar

30. “Enjoy the journey, enjoy every moment, and quit worrying about winning and losing.” – Matt Biondi

31. “Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and enjoy the journey.” – Babs Hoffman

32. “I haven’t been everywhere but its on my list.” – Susan Sontag

33. “You must remain focused on your journey to greatness.” – Les Brown

Inspirational journey quotes

34. “You can never regret anything you do in life. You kind of have to learn the lesson from whatever the experience is and take it with you on your journey forward.” – Aubrey O’Day

35. “Life is a journey. When we stop, things don’t go right.” – Pope Francis

36. “There’s no map for you to follow and take your journey. You are Lewis and Clark. You are the mapmaker.” – Phillipa Soo

37. “I’m different than most people. When I cross the finish line of a big race, I see that people are ecstatic, but I’m thinking about what I’m going to do tomorrow. It’s as if my journey is everlasting, and there is no finish line.” – David Goggins

38. “We don’t receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us.” – Marcel Proust

39. “Though the road’s been rocky it sure feels good to me.” – Bob Marley

40. “We are at our very best, and we are happiest, when we are fully engaged in work we enjoy on the journey toward the goal we’ve established for ourselves. It gives meaning to our time off and comfort to our sleep. It makes everything else in life so wonderful, so worthwhile.” – Earl Nightingale

41. “Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.” – Steve Jobs

42. “If my ship sails from sight, it doesn’t mean my journey ends, it simply means the river bends.” – Enoch Powell

Motivational journey quotes 

43. “Make voyages. Attempt them. There’s nothing else.” – Tennessee Williams

44. “Gotta take that adventure in order to understand your journey.” – Jennifer Pierre

45. “Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” – Theodore Roosevelt

46. “The beauty of my journey is that it’s always been pretty unpredictable, so stay tuned.” – Andreja Pejic

47. “The journey not the arrival matters.” – T.S. Eliot

48. “The future depends on what you do today.” – Mahatma Gandhi

49. “The goal is to die with memories, not dreams.” – Unknown

50. “Never throughout history has a man who lived a life of ease left a name worth remembering.” – Theodore Roosevelt

51. “The harder you work from something, the greater you’ll feel when you achieve it.” – Sudhashree Acharya

52. “Once you have traveled, the voyage never ends, but is played out over and over again in the quietest chambers. The mind can never break off from the journey.” – Pat Conroy

53. “The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.” – ILHQ

54. “When setting out on a journey do not seek advice from someone who never left home.” – Rumi

Positive journey quotes

55. “You may only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” – Mae West

56. “Every day you got a chance to make your journey more beautiful than yesterday.” – Nitin Namdeo

57. “Stay positive. Better days are on their way.” – Unknown

58. “Your destiny is to fulfill those things upon which you focus most intently. So choose to keep your focus on that which is truly magnificent, beautiful, uplifting and joyful. Your life is always moving toward something.” – Ralph Marston

59. “You make a life out of what you have, not what you’re missing.” – Kate Morton

60. “Every sunset is an opportunity to reset. Every sunrise begins with new eyes.” – Richie Norton

61. “Life is very interesting. In the end, some of your greatest pains, become your greatest strengths.” – Drew Barrymore

62. “Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don’t think you’ve lost time. There is no short-cutting life. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time.” – Asha Tyson

63. “And suddenty you know…It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.” – Meister Eckhart

64. “Find out who you are and do it on purpose.” – Dolly Parton

65. “Your success will be determined by your own confidence and fortitude.” – Michelle Obama

66. “Be yourself, everyone else is already taken.” – Oscar Wilde

67. “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” – Wayne Dyer

Journey of life quotes

68. “The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.” – Tony Robbins

69. “When you have a dream, you’ve got to grab it and never let go.” – Carol Burnett

70. “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” – Charles R. Swindoll

71. “You take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing, no one to blame.” – Erica Jong

72. “If all difficulties were known at the outset of a long journey, most of us would never start out at all.” – Dan Rather

73. “It’s your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself that determines how your life’s story will develop.” – Dieter F. Uchtdorf

74. “Your Monday morning thoughts set the tone for your whole week. See yourself getting stronger, and living a fulfilling, happier & healthier life.” – Germany Kent

75. “Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – Lou Holtz

76. “Our lives are the journey we take to find our true selves!” – Alyssa Gonzalez

77. “Your braver than you believe, stronger that you seem, and smarter than you think.” – A.A. Milne

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100+ life journey quotes to inspire you.

Life is a journey. How often have you heard that?

As we find our road through life, we all need inspiration and guidance. And this is never so true as when we are travelling, especially as solo travellers. 

This can come from many sources: friends, family, self-help books. But sometimes, a simple quote about life’s journey can provide inspiration or make us view our path through a different lens. 

Drawing on the writings of authors and poets, scholars and spiritual leaders here are my favourite life journey quotes. Is your favourite there? 

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My Top 10 Life Journey Quotes

There are many quotes about life as a journey out there and picking a list of favourites is a tough call. From Maja Angelou to Mark Twain, here are those that continue to inspire me.

1. Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away. – Maya Angelou

2. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did so. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.   – Mark Twain

3. Remember where you have been and know where you are going. Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way. – Nikita Koloff

4. We are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.  – Paulo Coelho

You are far from the end of your journey. The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart. See how you love. Buddha

6. You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. – C.S. Lewis

7. When setting out on a journey do not seek advice from someone who never left home. – Rumi

One of the greatest journeys in life is overcoming insecurity and learning to truly not give a shit.  J. A. Konrath

9. Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant. – Robert Louis Stevenson 

10. Sometimes life takes you on a journey that changes everything you thought you wanted. – Melaina Rayne

Life Journey Quotes: First Steps

Every journey begins with a single step. Taking that first step is often the hardest part of any endeavour, whether that’s booking your first trip alone , quitting your job or moving overseas.

Be inspired to take the plunge with these inspirational life journey quotes.

11. Big things have small beginnings. – Prometheus 

12. The only impossible journey is the one you never begin . – Tony Robbins

13. A little step may be the beginning of a great journey. – Unknown

14. If all difficulties were known at the outset of a long journey, most of us would never start out at all. – Dan Rather

15. Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey. – Vera Nazarian

Beginning are usually scary and ending are usually sad, but it’s everything in between that makes it all worth living. Bob Marley

The Next Steps: Quotes on the Journey of Life

But that first step is just that; the first step on the road of life. Life – and travel – can present a series of obstacles to overcome.

17. Life’s journey is a collection of stories. Make yours a bestseller. – The Flashpacker ( Bridget Coleman )

18. One may walk over the highest mountain one step at a time. – John Wanamaker

19 . … a journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it. – John Steinbeck

20. To get through the hardest journey we need take only one step at a time, but we must keep on stepping. – Chinese Proverb 

21. Life is a journey. When we stop, things don’t go right. – Pope Francis

22. The only thing that is ultimately real about your journey is the step that you are taking at this moment. That’s all there ever is. – Alan Watts

23. Life is a journey, travel it well. – Unknown

The key to realising a dream is to focus not on success but significance, and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.  Oprah Winfrey 

25. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all. – Helen Keller

26. No journey is too great, when one finds what one seeks. – Friedrich Nietzsche

27. Aim for the sky, but move slowly, enjoying every step along the way. It is all those little steps that make the journey complete.  – Chanda Kochhar

28. A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike . – John Steinbeck

29. No journey is too great, when one finds what one seeks. – Friedrich Nietzsche

30. A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike. – John Steinbeck

31. I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination. –  Jimmy Dean

32. Your journey will be much lighter and easier if you don’t carry your past with you! – Tamara Kulish

33. May the stars guide you on your journey, and your heart always lead you home. – Melaina Rayne

Life is a Journey Quotes to Inspire Solo Travellers

Any seasoned solo traveller knows that travelling alone has the power to change your life . But sometimes it can be difficult to find the words to describe your experiences. 

To empower you to travel alone , here is the pick of the best life journey quotes that can be applied to solo travel.

34. It’s your road, and yours alone, others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. – Rumi

35. No one can decide the road that inspires us to kick-start a journey better than the one embarking on the path. We may find others joining our journey, but we have to take the first step alone to reach our destination.  – Dr Prem Jagyasi

36. Don’t be scared to walk alone. Don’t be scared to like it. – John Mayer

37. Travel only with thy equals or thy betters; if there are none, travel alone. – Buddha

There are some places in life where you can only go alone. Embrace the beauty of your solo journey. Mandy Hale

39. No one you have been and no place you have gone ever leaves you. The new parts of you simply jump in the car and go along for the rest of the ride. The success of your journey and your destination all depend on who’s driving. – Bruce Springsteen

40. The man who goes alone can start today; but he who travels with another must wait till that other is ready. – Henry David Thoreau

41. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone. – Neale Donald Walsh

42. If you make friends with yourself you will never be alone. – Maxwell Maltz

I have traveled many roads in my life. Some were imbued with pain and I needed to avert my gaze. Others were so beautiful that I would have remained there forever. But always, at some point in these routes, I reached a place where I encountered myself. Pablo Holmberg

44. The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before. – Albert Einstein

45. Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s okay. You’re here to live your life, not to make everyone understand.  – Banksy

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Making Friends on the Journey of Life

Of course, none of us needs to be alone. Other people can play a huge part in our life journey.

46 . A journey is best measured in friends, not in miles . – Tim Cahill

47. Friends are as companions on a journey, who ought to aid each other to persevere in the road to a happier life. – Pythagoras

48. In this journey of life, you will meet people who will make you feel alive! – Avijeet Das

49. On a hard jungle journey, nothing is so important as having a team you can trust. – Tahir Shah

50. Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. – Izaak Walton

The main thing that you have to remember on this journey is, just be nice to everyone and always smile. Ed Sheeran

52. Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are travelling the dark journey with us. Oh be swift to love, make haste to be kind. – Henri Frederic Amiel

53. We never know the journey another person has walked, so be kind to everyone. – Lynette Mather

Having Faith in Yourself: Best Life Journey Quotes

Life throws obstacles at us, and it can be difficult to believe in yourself and in your ability to deal with these challenges. Even with those important first steps, you sometimes have to throw caution to the wind. 

54. Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be…Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you’ll live as you’ve never lived before. – Erich Fromm

I believe that life is a journey, often difficult and sometimes incredibly cruel, but we are well equipped for it if only we tap into our talents and gifts and allow them to blossom.  Les Brown

56. Trust yourself, trust the road, trust the weather, and trust your destination! This quarto-trust can create a miraculously successful journey!  – Mehmet Murat Īldan

57. Have faith in your journey. Everything had to happen exactly as it did to get you where you’re going next! – Mandy Hale

58. Things are only impossible until they’re not. – Jean-Luc Picard, Star Trek ( the Star Trek universe can teach us much about travel )

Finding Your Path on Life’s Journey

As profound as it may seem, sometimes getting lost is the first step to finding our way on the journey of life, and there is not necessarily one right path. The correct path is the one that is right for you. 

59. In the middle of the journey of our life I found myself astray in a dark wood where the straight road had been lost sight of.  – Dante Alighieri

60. Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost. – Erol Ozan

You have to get lost before you can be found. Jeff Rasley

62. Life is a journey that has a lot of different paths, but any path you choose use it as your destiny. – Ryan Leonard 

63. This thing we call life is not a destination with an end but a path down which we continue to journey as long as we can breathe. Life is to be lived not squandered or to give away waiting for the end to close upon us.  – Byron Pulsifer

64. The path isn’t a straight line; it’s a spiral. You continually come back to things you thought you understood and see deeper truths . – Barry H. Gillespie

65. Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Lessons Learnt Through the Life Journey

Some of the best life journey quotes relate to the lessons you learn along this journey. Many of these lessons may not be obvious at the time, especially in tough times, but ultimately they help shape who we are.

66. A journey taken in vain is not a wasted journey if you have learnt something. – Anthony T. Hincks

67. All journeys have secret destinations of which traveler is unaware. – Martin Buber

68. Always remember life is a learning journey. Keep filling your mind with all that is worthy. – Catherine Pulsifer

69. One’s destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things. – Henry Miller

Learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it.  Lolly Daskal 

71. We do not receive wisdom, we must discover it for ourselves, after a journey through the wilderness which no one else can make for us, which no one can spare us, for our wisdom is the point of view from which we come at last to regard the world. – Marcel Proust

72. Travel far enough, you meet yourself. – David Mitchell

73. In order to complete our amazing life journey successfully, it is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of wisdom, and find the blessing in every curse. – Anthon St. Maarten 

74. What you learn in tough times can be used in many ways to bless your personal life journey.  – Scott Gordon

75. Sometimes in your life you will go on a journey. It will be the longest journey you have ever taken. It is the journey to find yourself. – Katharine Sharp

Enjoy the Journey Quotes

Ultimately, what is it all for unless you enjoy the journey?

As travellers, we are often guilty of fixating on the destination, instead of learning to enjoy the journey, and celebrating the triumphs instead of stressing about the difficulties.

76. Roads were made for journeys not destinations. – Confucius

77. Life Is What Happens When You’re Busy Making Other Plans . – John Lennon

78. The journey is the reward. – Tao Expression

79. In the tapestry of life, every thread matters. Weave a journey worth treasuring. – The Flashpacker (Bridget Coleman)

80. Life is a journey, and if you fall in love with the journey, you will be in love forever. – Peter Hagerty

81. It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.  – Ernest Hemingway

82. Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it. – Greg Anderson

83. Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination . – Drake

84. Accomplishments will prove to be a journey, not a destination. – Dwight D. Eisenhower

85. And at the end of the day, there is nothing but the journey. Because destination is pure illusion. – Rich Roll

86. Life is a journey, not a destination. Learn to enjoy the ride. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

If ever there was a metaphor to illustrate the importance of the journey over the destination, it is life itself. For everyone who departs from birth is destined for death, so the journey IS life. Savor it! Michele Jennae

88. The journey in between what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life takes place. – Barbara De Angelis

89. Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.  – Arthur Ashe

It is not the destination where you end up but the mishaps and memories you create along the way! Penelope Riley

91. Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don’t think you’ve lost time. There is no short-cutting to life. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time. – Asha Tyson

92. Embrace your life journey with gratitude, so that how you travel your path is more important than reaching your ultimate destination. – Rosalene Glickman

93. Life is a journey to be experienced, not a problem to be solved. Winnie the Pooh

94. Let your joy be in your journey – not in some distant goal. – Tim Cook

95. Live now; make now always the most precious time. Now will never come again. – Jean-Luc Picard, Star Trek

96. Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore. – Andre Gide

Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride! Hunter S. Thompson

98. Every day is a journey filled with twists and turns. Every day, if you smile, you will feel alive, my son. – Santosh Kalwar

99. Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey.  – Fitzhugh Mullan

100. I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be . – Douglas Adams

101. We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time. – T.S. Eliot

102. Life is an opportunity, seize the day, live each day to the fullest. Life is not a project, but a journey to be enjoyed. – Catherine Pulsifer

103. I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be. – Douglas Adams

104. Time is a companion who goes with us on the journey and reminds us to cherish every moment, because it will never come again. – Captain Jean Luc Picard in Star Trek

Life Journey Quotes: Final Thoughts

Life for me, like travel, is all about the journey. The shape of that journey is up to the individual.

I hope that these life journey quotes help inspire you to live your best life. That’s all that any of us can aim for.  

Enjoy the journey.

Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind. Anthony Bourdain

About Bridget

Bridget Coleman has been a passionate traveller for more than 30 years. She has visited 70+ countries, most as a solo traveller.

Articles on this site reflect her first-hand experiences.

To get in touch, email her at [email protected] or follow her on social media.

77 Beautiful Journey Quotes & Captions To Inspire An Inner Awakening

Searching for some words to accompany your own journey? I’ve compiled the best list out there of the most beautiful journey quotes to inspire and uplift you…

Maybe the most famous quote about journeys that millions across the globe know is from Lao Tzu.  The ancient Chinese philosopher once said, “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” And since then, adventurers, journeyers and wanderers have passed on their own journey inspiration. 

Whether your journey is a metaphorical or literal one, you will love my list of the best journey quotes that are guaranteed to lift you up and propel you forward. 

These are the 77 best journey quotes.

The Best Journey Quotes 

You may recognize a number of these quotes about journeys, as they come from the minds of some of the greatest individuals throughout history. These writers, leaders, musicians and adventurers understand the power of a life changing journey. 

1) “If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t walk run, then walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but by all means keep moving.” – Martin Luther King Jr. 

2) “the road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination.” –  don williams, jr., 3) “the best part of life is to decide to make the journey through life like a best selling book. tell a fantastic story when you are ready to tell others how you did it. make sure life the best story ever written through a journey filled with overcoming obstacles, taking risks, and continuing to develop.” – catherine pulsifer, 4) “we are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. life is eternal. we have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. this is a precious moment. it is a little parenthesis in eternity.” – paulo coelho.

5) “If ever there was a metaphor to illustrate the importance of the journey over the destination, it is life itself. For everyone who departs from birth is destined for death, so the journey IS life. Savor it!” – Michele Jennae

6) “life is a journey, and if you fall in love with the journey, you will be in love forever.” – peter hagerty, 7) “the secret of getting ahead is getting started. the secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.” – mark twain, 8) “it is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.” – ernest hemingway.

9) “To finish the moment, to find the journey’s end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

10) “our battered suitcases were piled on the sidewalk again; we had longer ways to go. but no matter, the road is life.”  ― jack kerouac, 11) “in order to complete our amazing life journey successfully, it is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of wisdom, and find the blessing in every curse.” – anthon st. maarten, 12) “this thing we call life is not a destination with an end but a path down which we continue to journey as long as we can breath. life is to be lived not squandered or to give away waiting for the end to close upon us.” – byron pulsifer.

13) “Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant.” – Robert Louis Stevenson

14) “life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “wow what a ride”” – hunter s. thompson, 15) “sooner or later we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. the true joy of life is the trip.” — robert j. hastings.

Short Journey Quotes 

Quotes don’t have to be lengthy to capture the spirit of what they are trying to convey. These short journey quotes say so much with so little words. 

16) “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” – Lao Tzu

17) “learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it.” – lolly daskal, 18) “a journey is time suspended.” –  louis l’amour, 19) “take voyages. attempt them. there’s nothing else.” ― tennessee williams.

20) “I’m an idealist. I don’t know where I’m going, but I’m on my way.”  — Carl Sandburg

21) “stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey.” – fitzhugh mullan, 22) “life’s a journey, not a race.” – unknown, 23) “life is a journey. when we stop, things don’t go right.” – pope francis.

24) “It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.” ― Ursula K. Le Guin

25) “you must remain focused on your journey to greatness.” – les brown, 26) “i tramp a perpetual journey.” ― walt whitman, 27) “the real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” – marcel proust.

28) “It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” – Abraham Lincoln 

29) “life is about waking up. it is a journey of discovery and you’ve already bought the ticket and are sitting on the train.” – michael sheridan,, 30) “the only impossible journey is the one you never begin.” – tony robbins, 31) “without music, life is a journey through a desert.” – pat conroy.

32) “What you learn in tough times can be used in many ways to bless your personal life journey.” – Scott Gordon

33) “accomplishments will prove to be a journey, not a destination.” – dwight d. eisenhower.

Inspiring Journey Quotes  

Searching for the courage to take the first steps on your own journey? These inspiring journey quotes will light a fire under you, guaranteed to give you the courage you seek.

34) “I discovered that a fresh start is a process. A fresh start is a journey – a journey that requires a plan.” – Vivian Jokotade

35) “if you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” – unknown, 36) “you don’t have to understand my journey. you just need to respect it.” – izey victoria odiase, 37) “when setting out on a journey do not seek advice from someone who never left home.” – rumi, 38) “to get through the hardest journey we need take only one step at a time, but we must keep on stepping.” – chinese proverb, 39) “you have learned a lot, but there are still lots of learning for you as you journey through life. never stop learning.” – kate summers, 40) “when you’re on a journey and you come to a wall, always throw your pack over first, because then you will be sure to follow.” – yongey mingyur rinpoche, 41) “ big things have small beginnings.” – prometheus.

42) “Life is a journey that have a lot different paths, but any path you choose use it as your destiny.” ― Ryan Leonard

43) “this is your journey, your body, your mind, and your spirit. dig deep, own it, and start doing things for you and by you.” – unknown author, 44) “as you journey down the path, don’t forget to be present moment-by-moment and absorb the beauty and richness of simply being alive.” – cary david richards, 45) “life is a journey of either fate or destiny. fate is the result of giving in to one’s wounds and heartaches. your destiny unfolds when you rise above the challenges of your life and use them as divine opportunities to move forward to unlock your higher potential.” – caroline myss.

46) “Temporary setbacks create opportunities for fresh commitment and renewal. There are seasons of sunshine as well as rain.” – T. D. Jakes,

47) “i believe that life is a journey, often difficult and sometimes incredibly cruel, but we are well equipped for it if only we tap into our talents and gifts and allow them to blossom.” – les brown, 48) “to find your confidence, get out of your comfort zone, overcome your fears, and begin the journey to discover and accomplish what you want to do with your life.” – doretha dingler.

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49) “Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter.” – Izaak Walton

50) “always say yes to new adventures.”, 51) “it is better to travel well than to arrive.” –  arthur c. custance, 52) “always take the scenic route.”.

53) “Travel is the only thing you buy that makes you richer.”

54) “don’t listen to what they say, go and see it for yourself.”, 55) “what’s on my bucket list everywhere.”, 56) “on a hard jungle journey, nothing is so important as having a team you can trust.” – tahir shah.

57) “Travel not to find yourself, but to remember where you have been all long.”

58) “don’t spend your money on things. spend it on experiences”, 59) “leap and the net will appear.” – zen proverb, 60) “all journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.” ― martin buber, 61) “life is journey, travel it well.” – unknown.

Funny Journey Quotes 

These funny quotes about journeys are short, punchy and shine a humorous light on some of the many obstacles a journey may come up against. 

62) “Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.” – Confucius

63) “me: “i want to travel more”, the bank account: “”like, to the park”, 64) “i have panicked unnecessarily in all four corners of the globe.” – jon ronson, 65) “good things come to those, who book flights.”.

66) “A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it.” –  John Steinbeck

67) “i crossed a time zone and i feel younger already. if i keep traveling west, i can become immortal” – jarod kintz, 68) “sometimes the road less traveled is less traveled for a reason.” – jerry seinfeld.

Celebrity Journey Quotes 

Actors, entrepreneurs, musicians and more are the minds behind these poignant celebrity journey quotes that are sure to inspire and make you smile. 

69) “The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance, and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.” – Oprah Winfrey

70) “sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination.” – drake, 71) “you can handle just about anything that comes at you out on the road with a believable grin, common sense and whiskey.”– bill murray, 72) “you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. so you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. you have to trust in something; your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. this approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.” – steve jobs.

73) “The main thing that you have to remember on this journey is, just be Nice to everyone and always smile.” – Ed Sheeran

74) “you take people, you put them on a journey, you give them peril, you find out who they really are.” – joss whedon, 75) “if all difficulties were known at the outset of a long journey, most of us would never start out at all.” – dan rather, 76. “every day is a new journey for me, and i feel like, in my lifetime, i’ve been blessed to experience such a lot.” – bindi irwin, 77) “not everyone will understand your journey. that’s okay. you’re here to live your life, not to make everyone understand.” – banksy.

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Every journey begins with a single step.

Your journey begins with a choice to get up, step out, and live fully

The longest journey begins with a single step, not with a turn of the ignition key.

The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.

Realizing your goal, resolution, or transformation is a journey. Change, like any meaningful endeavor, proceeds sequentially through steps. The journey begins with the contemplation stage of specifying realistic goals, getting ready, or getting psyched. The planning stage is all about prepping. How exactly will I do this thing? At some point you will jump from preparing and planning to perspiring, the work of implementing the new, desired behavior. Getting there is wonderful, but we need to keep you there, which entails persevering through slips and, finally, persisting over time.

I'm the type of person that likes to dream big, and I've often found that every great journey begins with a dream.

According to the ancient Chinese proverb, A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a cash advance.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Watch your step.

Sometimes journeys begin long before their first step is taken

The Day We Let Our Convictions Define Our Life Rather Than Our Insecurities, Our True Journey Begins.

The longest journey begins with a single step.

The journey begins, though, with understanding what it means to be a christian. To say you believe in Jesus apart from conversion in your life completely misses the essence of what it means to follow him. Do not be deceived.

The longest journey begins with a single step, not with the turn of an ignition key. That’s the best thing about walking, the journey itself. It doesn’t much matter whether you get where you’re going or not. You’ll get there anyway. Every good hike brings you eventually back home. Right where you started.

Since the moment of self-consciousness comes to a permanent end - and a new journey begins- is such a decisive stroke or milestone in the contemplative life, I can only speculate why so little has been said of this breakthrough; in fact , I may never get over the silence on the part of writers who say nothing about this second movement.

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Every Journey Begins with a Choice: 65 Great Quotes About New Beginnings

Every journey begins with a choice. It seems kind of simple, doesn’t it? But sometimes we need extra support with those choices because it’s not always quite as simple as one might think. I invite you to use these 65 great quotes about new beginnings to inspire you to move forward with confidence and joy.

We all face many new beginnings in life — expected or unexpected — and must make decisions about how to proceed on the next stage of our life journey. Every new journey begins with a choice — and you must make the best choice possible if you want to live your best life .

Sometimes you may face a new beginning that is scary, unwanted, or difficult — as in the case of divorce, death, employment, etc. Do the best you can — that’s all you can do sometimes. Consider your options and make a choice.

Sometimes you may be excited, nervous or a little of both about a new journey in life — as in the case of marriage, children, new home, etc. Again, make the best choice you can make with happiness and pride.

And sometimes you just need to make a choice about getting up in the morning and moving forward with your day. Life can be challenging sometimes for everyone. So I’ve included everyday is a new beginning quotes here, too — for your daily inspiration. Just get out of bed and put one foot in front of the other!

Whatever new journey you face in life, be inspired by these awesome quotes about new beginnings that encourage and motivate you to remember every journey begins with a choice — you have choices about the paths you take and the way you handle every new journey.

Thank you for visiting. I hope you find these quotes inspirational! Please share them with friends and family who might need motivation and encouragement.

Special Note: In case you haven’t figured it out yet, this article is not about Pokémon:)

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Every Journey Begins with a Choice

Whether it’s a big choice, or a little choice, or somewhere in between — make your choice and move forward. As Dory says in her adventures, “just keep swimming.”

“Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most.” | Buddha

“The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward.” | Amelia Earhart

“Understand that the right to choose your own path is a sacred privilege. Use it. Dwell in possibility.” | Oprah Winfrey

“I’ve come to believe that each of us has a personal calling that’s as unique as a fingerprint – and that the best way to succeed is to discover what you love and then find a way to offer it to others in the form of service, working hard, and also allowing the energy of the universe to lead you.” | Oprah Winfrey

“Your life is a journey of learning to love yourself first and then extending that love to others in every encounter.” | Oprah Winfrey

“Nobody’s journey is seamless or smooth. We all stumble. We all have setbacks. It’s just life’s way of saying, ‘Time to change course.’” | Oprah Winfrey

“ Living your best life is your most important journey in life.” | Oprah Winfrey

Are You Choosing to Live Your Best Life?

These motivational quotes should provide lasting inspiration for you to find your courage and confidence to start anew — whether is be a new career, a new relationship, a new home — YOU CAN DO THIS!

“Your journey begins with a choice to get up, step out, and live fully.” | Oprah Winfrey

“At every fork in the road, you make a choice. And it is those decisions that shape our lives.” | Mike DeWine

“Every great story on the planet happened when someone decided not to give up, but kept going no matter what.” | Spryte Loriano

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” | Maria Robinson

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.” | Harriet Tubman

“Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.” | Vivian Greene

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” | Mark Twain

“At any given moment you have the power to say: This is not how the story is going to end.” | Christine Mason Miller

“Celebrate endings — for they precede new beginnings.” | Jonathan Lockwood Huie

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“Every day begins with an act of courage and hope: Getting out of Bed.” | Mason Cooley

“Be willing to be a beginner every single morning.” | Meister Eckhart

“Divorce is the starting point of a brand new life. Don’t lose the chance to redesign it upon your dreams.” | Rossana Condoleo

“Just make a decision — any decision — and keep moving forward.” | Unknown

“Sometimes you just know it’s time to start something new. Trust the magic of new beginnings.” | Unknown

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” | Lao Tzu

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” | Martin Luther King, Jr

“The next chapter of your life is always more interesting than the last one.” | Michael Lipsey

“You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one.” | Michael McMillian

“You don’t have to have it all figured out. Just move forward.” | Unknown

Quotes About New Beginnings

I’m so excited to share these truly great words of wisdom in this collection of inspirational quotes about new beginnings. We’ve put together a collection of many talented leaders who speak great words about how every journey begins with a choice — even a choice to just to get out of bed in the morning.

“Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over.” | Guy Finley

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” | George Eliot

“The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide you’re not going to stay where you are.” | J.P. Morgan

“The beginning is the most important part of the work.” | Plato

“We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come.” | Joseph Campbell

“It’s a wise man who understands that every day is a new beginning, because boy, how many mistakes do you make in a day? I don’t know about you, but I make plenty. You can’t turn the clock back, so you have to look ahead.” | Mel Gibson

“Let go of the past, free yourself of disappointments, embrace a new perspective and grasp the possibilities of the future.” | Susan Ballinger

“Never allow waiting to become a habit. Live your dreams and take risks. Life is happening now.” | Paulo Coelho

“You can’t be that kid standing at the top of the water slide, overthinking it. You have to go down the chute.” | Tina Fey

“The visionary starts with a clean sheet of paper, and re-imagines the world.” | Malcolm Gladwell

“The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each new day to have a new and different sun…. Don’t settle down and sit in one place. Move around, be nomadic, make each day a new horizon.” | Jon Krakauer

“Each new day is a blank page in the diary of your life. The secret of success is in turning that diary into the best story you possible can.” | Douglas Pagels

“What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. Don’t complain.” | Maya Angelou

“The start of something new brings the hope of something great.” | Unknown

“I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me.” | A.G.

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Ever y journey begins with a choice is a profound thought when you consider the many choices we make in a single day, week, month, year — and in our lifetimes.

“You can learn new things at any time in your life if you’re willing to be a beginner. If you actually learn to like being a beginner, the whole world opens up to you.” | Barbara Sher

“The life you have led doesn’t need to be the only life you have.” | Anna Quindlen

“Change can be scary, but you know what’s scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing.” | Mandy Hale

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go. They merely determine where you start.” | Nido Qubein

“You are far more than your worst day, your worst experience, your worst season, dear one. You are more than the sorriest decision you ever made. You are more than the darkest sorrow you’ve endured. Your name is not Ruined. It is not Helpless. It is not Victim. It is not Irresponsible. History is replete with overcomers who stood up after impossible circumstances and walked in freedom. You are not an anemic victim destined to a life of regret. Not only are you capable, you have full permission to move forward in strength and health.” | Jen Hatmaker

“Never underestimate the power you have to take your life in a new direction.” | Germany Kent

“Challenges are gifts that force us to search for a new center of gravity. Don’t fight them. Just find a new way to stand.” | Oprah Winfrey

“A new day: Be open enough to see opportunities. Be wise enough to be grateful. Be courageous enough to be happy.” | Steve Maraboli

“The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure.” | Joseph Campbell

“And now we welcome the new year, full of things that have never been” | Rainer Maria Rilke

“Every sunset is an opportunity to reset.” | Richie Norton

“The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.” | Josiyah Martin

“No one can ever take your memories from you – each day is a new beginning, make good memories every day.” | Catherine Pulsifer

 “Even the greatest was once a beginner. Don’t be afraid to take that first step.” | Muhammad Ali

“Every moment is a fresh beginning.” | T.S. Eliot

“There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth… not going all the way, and not starting.” | Buddha

“I discovered that a fresh start is a process. A fresh start is a journey – a journey that requires a plan.” | Vivian Jokotade

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” | Herman Hesse

“If all you can do is crawl, start crawling.” | Rumi

“The hardest part is starting. Once you get that out of the way, you’ll find the rest of the journey much easier.” |  Simon Sinek

“Don’t be afraid of new beginnings. Don’t shy away from new people, new energy, new surroundings. Embrace new chances at happiness.” | Unknown

“If you wish to be happy right from the beginning of your day, then it is about time to leave behind your past.” |  Lorin Hopper

“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.” | C. S. Lewis

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“Keep on beginning and failing. Each time you fail, start all over again, and you will grow stronger until you have accomplished a purpose – not the one you began with perhaps, but one you’ll be glad to remember.” | Anne Sullivan

“Every accomplishment begins with the decision to try.” | James Allen

I hope you have found encouragement in these quotes about new beginnings. Don’t forget that it just takes the decision to START and you’ll be moving toward your hopes and dreams. Every journey begins with a choice — sometimes it’s as simple as starting!

If you enjoyed these quotes, you may want to check out other Sassy Sister Stuff pages of inspirational quotes about living life on your own terms and quotes about life and struggles .

Love to All! ~Susan

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50+ Amazing Journey Of Love Quotes That Will Make You Feel Better!

Last Updated on November 22, 2020 by Scott M. Thomas

This is a stunning writing about the journey of love quotes and sayings. 

Staying together year after year is not an easy task. It is not always possible to be together with the people you love. So the journey of love should always be enjoyed. That’s why here you’ll see some great quotes we’ve collected that you’ll love reading. Or you can use these as love captions. That way you can make your bond more beautiful and strong. Thanks.

“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new.” – Ursula LeGuin

“The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” – Albert Ellis

“Love is the spirit that motivates the artist’s journey.” – Eric Maisel

“Being driven is not the same as being passionate. Passion is a love for the journey. Drive is a need to reach the destination.” – Simon Sinek

“Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are travelling the dark journey with us. Oh be swift to love, make haste to be kind.” – Henri Frederic Amiel

“To love yourself is a never-ending journey.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Life is a journey and it’s about growing and changing and coming to terms with who and what you are and loving who and what you are.” – Kelly McGillis

“To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.” – Anna Louise Strong

“Love is like a virus. It can happen to anybody at any time.” – Maya Angelou

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Watch your step.” – Thomas S. Monson

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a cash advance.” – Alton Brown

“It’s easy to fall in love. The hard part is finding someone to catch you.” – Bertrand Russell

“You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.” – Oscar Wilde

“Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost.” – Erol Ozan

“Love is the beginning of the journey, its end, and the journey itself.” – Deepak Chopra

“Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.” – Marianne Williamson

“Love cannot be forced, love cannot be coaxed or teased. It comes out of heaven, unasked and unsought.” – Pearl S. Buck

“Love is meant to be an adventure.” – Gordon B. Hinckley

“We can only learn to love by loving.” – Iris Murdoch

“If you’re brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting, which can be anything from your house to bitter, old resentments, and set out on a truth-seeking journey, either externally or internally, and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher and if you are prepared, most of all, to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself, then the truth will not be withheld from you.” – Elizabeth Gilbert

“Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family.” – Thomas S. Monson

“This itself is the whole of the journey, opening your heart to that which is lovely.” – Buddha

“Our battered suitcases were piled on the sidewalk again; we had longer ways to go. But no matter, the road is life.” – Jack Kerouac

“I have learned to live my life one step, one breath, and one moment at a time, but it was a long road. I set out on a journey of love, seeking truth, peace and understanding. I am still learning.” – Muhammad Ali

“Your task is not to see for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi

“Our real journey in life is interior; it is a matter of growth, deepening, and of an ever greater surrender to the creative action of love and grace in our hearts. Never was it more necessary to respond to that action.” – Thomas Merton

“If a hug represented how much I loved you, I would hold you in my arms forever.” – Unknown

“In any journey, more important than all the scenery and natural wonders, will be the people you will meet.” – Liviu Rebreanu

“I have loved you in infinite forms, infinite times and will love you forever.” – Unknown

“Don’t judge my path if you didn’t walk my journey.” – Unknown

“I love you neither with my heart, nor with my mind. My heart might stop, my mind can forget. I love you with my soul because my soul never stops or forgets.” – Rumi

“When setting out on a journey, do not seek advice from those who have never left home.” – Rumi 

“The water shines only by the sun. And it is you who are my sun.” – Charles de Leusse

“To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life.” – Elizabeth Gilbert

“I’m not afraid of my death, I’m afraid of losing loved ones.” – Efrat Cybulkiewicz

“Embark on the journey of LOVE. It takes you from yourself to yourself.” – Rumi

“All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.” – Martin Buber

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Our Journey Of Love Quotes

“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” – Rumi

“There is a madness in loving you, a lack of reason that makes it feel so flawless.” – Leo Christopher

“Let’s make this lovely journey last for a lifetime, do not ever let me go. I am yours as long as you want me to.” – Unknown

“Our journey isn’t perfect but it’s ours. I’ll stick with you ’till the end.” – Unknown

“I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.” – Leo Buscaglia

“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you.” – Rumi

“There is only one royal road for the spiritual journey…Love.” – Sathya Sai Baba

“I’ve learned two things in my life. One that love is the beginning and end of all meaning. And two that it is the same thing whatever shape our souls have taken on this journey. Love is love. Is love.” – Clive Barker

“Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.” – Rumi

“It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.” – Ursula K. Le Guin

“Coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving.” – Terry Pratchett

“Do not follow where the path may lead.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Why do you go away? So that you can come back. So that you can see the place you came from with new eyes and extra colors. And the people there see you differently, too. Coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving.” – Terry Pratchett

“I swear I couldn’t love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.” – Leo Christopher

“The journey of love has been rather a lacerating, if well-worth-it, journey.” – D. H. Lawrence

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Stages of Love: Unraveling the Journey from Attraction to Commitment

We’ve all felt it, that dizzying sensation of falling head over heels for someone. But what exactly is happening in our brains when we tumble into the abyss of love? As an expert in human emotions and relationships, I’d like to delve into the stages of love , exploring each phase from a psychological perspective.

In its infancy, love is a whirlwind of attraction and infatuation. You’re consumed by thoughts of your beloved, with every detail about them seeming absolutely perfect. This honeymoon phase can be intoxicating but it’s also temporary – a fact many people find hard to accept.

Beyond this initial enchantment lies the second stage: deep attachment. Here, comfort and companionship overrule passion as you settle into the rhythm of life together. But don’t be fooled! This isn’t a downgrade from those earlier fireworks; it’s a deeper bond formed through shared experiences and understanding. It may not be as flashy as infatuation but it’s arguably more rewarding.

So why does this transition happen? And how can we navigate these stages effectively? Let’s dive in further, examining the science behind these shifts in emotion and offering some tips on sustaining long-term love.

Understanding the Stages of Love

Ever wonder why love feels like a roller coaster ride? It’s because it doesn’t stand still. It evolves, changes and grows through various stages. Let’s unravel this mystery together.

The first stage is the “Infatuation Stage”. We’ve all been there, haven’t we? When our heart skips a beat every time that special someone comes into view. Butterflies in the stomach become a daily phenomenon. Infatuation can feel exhilarating, but it’s often short-lived.

Next up is the “Honeymoon Phase”. This is when you can’t seem to get enough of each other. You’re both head over heels in love, spending every possible moment together. Studies show that this phase usually lasts from one to two years.

• Stage 1 : Infatuation
• Stage 2 : Honeymoon Phase

Once the honeymoon phase fades away, reality sets in and we enter the “Disillusionment Stage”. This is when couples start noticing each other’s flaws and arguments may become more frequent.

After weathering through disillusionment (if you make it), you’ll find yourself in the “Deep Attachment Stage”. By now, you’ve seen your partner at their best and worst yet choose to stick with them anyway. This stage signifies deep emotional attachment and stability.

Finally, we have what experts call “Mature Love” or lifelong partnership where companionship trumps passion. The bond forged over shared experiences becomes unbreakable here.

Here are these stages again:

• Stage 3 : Disillusionment
• Stage 4 : Deep Attachment
• Stage 5 : Mature Love

Understanding these stages can help navigate relationships better while also managing expectations realistically.

The First Stage: Attraction and Romance

I’m sure we’ve all felt it, that initial spark when you meet someone who piques your interest. It’s the first stage of love, often characterized by physical attraction and a sense of excitement. This is the time when our hearts race, our palms sweat, and we can’t stop thinking about that special someone .

What causes this overwhelming feeling of attraction? Science suggests it’s a cocktail of chemicals racing through our brains. There’s dopamine, responsible for feelings of happiness and desire; adrenaline which fuels those nervous butterflies; and serotonin that keeps us dreaming about our new love interest.

Let me paint a picture with some examples. Remember that high school crush? The one who made your heart flutter every time they passed by your locker? Or maybe it was a friend who slowly transformed into something more in your eyes. This phase is marked by idealization – seeing only the best in the other person – and intense emotions.

But remember folks, while these feelings might be intoxicating at first, they’re not designed to last forever. Psychologist Dorothy Tennov coined the term ‘limerence’ to describe this state. Limerence lasts on average between 18 months to 3 years before transitioning into deeper stages of love.

So let’s break it down:

• Physical attraction kicks things off.
• Brain chemicals like dopamine create happy, obsessive thoughts.
• These intense feelings don’t last forever but transition into deeper stages over time.

Although this stage can feel like a whirlwind, it sets up an important foundation for relationship building as we move forward through subsequent stages of love!

The Second Stage: Building a Deeper Connection

If you’ve ever been in love, you’ll know it’s not all rainbows and butterflies. It’s during the second stage of love that we really start to build those deeper connections. Let me tell you, it’s more than just sharing your favorite pizza toppings or TV shows.

During this phase, trust begins to solidify as the foundation of the relationship. You’re starting to reveal your authentic selves, not just the polished versions you presented during the initial attraction stage. Sharing vulnerable moments and stories is typical during this period. For example, you might discuss past relationships or personal insecurities – yes, we’ve all got them!

Now don’t get me wrong; this stage isn’t always easy. It can be uncomfortable getting so emotionally raw with another person. But studies have shown that vulnerability is key in building deep relationships! According to a study by Dr.Brene Brown at the University of Houston:

It’s also important to note that communication plays a vital role here too – and I’m not just talking about chatting over dinner! Real communication means expressing needs, desires, fears…the whole shebang.

Here are some pointers for effective communication in this stage:

• Be clear about what you need from your partner.
• Show empathy when they share their feelings.
• Respect boundaries set by each other.

At its core though, building a deeper connection boils down to one thing: understanding one another on an intimate level – physically and emotionally. That’s where real love starts taking root!

So there you have it – that’s the second stage of love for ya! While it may feel like an emotional rollercoaster ride at times (and believe me, it often does), remember that it’s paving way for a stronger bond between you and your partner. But hold on tight, we’re just getting started!

The Third Stage: Disillusionment or Understanding?

I’ve arrived at the third stage of love, and let’s be honest – it’s a bit of a crossroad. We all start off in relationships with hearts full of hope, but then reality sets in. This stage can either lead to disillusionment or understanding. It all depends on how we navigate the twists and turns.

Think back to your first love, when everything seemed perfect. Then suddenly you started noticing flaws in your partner that you’d never seen before. You may have even started questioning if you were right for each other at all. That’s disillusionment setting in, folks! But hold on – don’t hit the panic button just yet.

You see, this stage isn’t necessarily a death sentence for your relationship. In fact, it could be an opportunity for growth – a chance to build deeper understanding and acceptance. For example, instead of focusing on annoying habits like leaving dishes unwashed or forgetting birthdays (yes, we’ve all been there), try focusing on what initially drew you to them: their sense of humor? Their kindness? Their resilience?

Here are some stats to chew on:

Now I’m not saying it’ll be easy; but developing understanding is key for long-term happiness in relationships.

So where does one begin? With communication – that’s where! Talk about your feelings without blaming each other (easier said than done!). Be patient with yourself and your partner during this challenging time.

And remember: every couple goes through this third stage at some point. It’s NORMAL. So take heart – if others have navigated these choppy waters successfully, so can you!

• Understand that disillusionment is part of the journey
• Focus on your partner’s positive traits
• Communicate, communicate, communicate

So here’s to understanding and working through disillusionment – because that’s what love is all about.

A Closer Look at the Fourth Stage: Creating Lasting Bonds

Peeling back the layers of love, we find ourselves nestled in the fourth stage – creating lasting bonds. It’s a step that may seem daunting but is truly rewarding. This phase is all about building on the emotional intimacy you’ve established and solidifying it into a durable, long-term connection.

Let’s get down to brass tacks here. In this stage, you’re no longer just dating or ‘seeing each other’. You’re committed to making this relationship work. The bond that forms during this period isn’t merely based on attraction or romance; it’s anchored in mutual respect, trust, and admiration.

These aren’t just hollow words. Studies back them up too! For instance, a study by Drs John and Julie Gottman found that couples who show mutual respect and admiration are more likely to have long-lasting relationships.

Here are some key aspects of bonding:

• Shared Experiences : Activities like traveling together or overcoming challenges as a team strengthen your bond.
• Mutual Goals : Sharing life goals aligns your path forward as a couple.
• Open Communication : Talking about feelings promotes understanding and closeness.

By now you might be wondering how exactly one goes about creating these lasting bonds? Well fear not! I’ll walk you through some practical steps:

• Practice active listening: Show genuine interest in what your partner says.
• Express appreciation regularly: Small acts of kindness go a long way.
• Keep promises: Trust is built when actions match words.

This stage of love is indeed an art – an art of nurturing, patience, understanding, compromise, and above all else… Love itself! So why don’t we roll up our sleeves and dive deeper into this beautiful journey?

The Fifth and Ultimate Stage of Love: Unconditional Acceptance

Reaching the fifth stage of love, unconditional acceptance, feels like a breath of fresh air. It’s the point where you’ve seen all sides of your partner – the good, bad, and everything in between – and still choose them every single day. You’ve moved past petty disagreements and superficial flaws to understand that no one is perfect.

This stage isn’t about grand gestures or intense passion – it’s about comfort, stability, and an unshakeable bond. Couples in this phase find joy in everyday moments shared together – a quiet dinner at home after a long day or a lazy Sunday morning spent reading newspapers while sipping coffee.

A study published by the Journal of Social Personal Relationships highlights some fascinating statistics regarding couples who reach this stage:

Now don’t mistake unconditional acceptance for complacency. In fact:

• It means recognizing that your partner isn’t perfect but choosing to love them regardless.
• It’s about understanding that people grow and change over time.
• And most importantly, it involves being a consistent source of support for each other without any conditions attached.

Unconditional acceptance doesn’t mean you accept harmful behaviors or disregard your own needs. Instead, it’s all about balance – acknowledging differences but not letting them overshadow the love you share.

Remember that reaching this stage is no small feat but those who do often enjoy relationships characterized by deep respect, mutual understanding, lasting affection…and yes – plenty of laughter too!

Common Challenges During Love’s Various Stages

Navigating the realm of love isn’t always a smooth cruise. Let’s delve into some of the common challenges that crop up during love’s various stages.

The initial stage, often referred to as the ‘honeymoon phase’, is no stranger to pitfalls. It’s characterized by intense attraction and infatuation, which can cloud judgement. We become so engrossed in our partner that we might overlook red flags or potential issues down the road. We’re also likely to idealize our partners during this phase, which can lead to disappointment when reality finally hits.

Moving on to the power struggle stage, couples often wrestle with differences and conflicts. This is where individuality and independence come into play – we start realizing that our partner isn’t perfect and may not align with every aspect of our life. The key challenge here lies in maintaining respect for each other while navigating these differences.

Next up is stability – a stage where many relationships face comfort zone issues. As mundane routines set in, passion may take a back seat leading to feelings of boredom or dissatisfaction. How you keep the spark alive becomes crucial at this point.

Then comes commitment – deciding whether you’re ready for long-term investment can be daunting. Fear of losing personal freedom or making wrong decisions are common challenges faced in this stage.

Lastly, co-creation involves building something together like starting a family or business venture. Balancing personal goals with joint dreams can be tricky here.

Here’s a quick rundown:

• Honeymoon Phase: Overlooking flaws due to infatuation
• Power Struggle Stage: Dealing with differences and conflicts
• Stability: Waning passion due to routine
• Commitment: Deciding on long-term investment
• Co-Creation: Balancing personal goals with joint ventures

So remember folks, love isn’t just about hearts and flowers; it comes bundled with its fair share of trials and tribulations. But hey, that’s what makes the journey worthwhile, doesn’t it?

Conclusion: Navigating the Journey of Love Successfully

We’ve traversed quite a journey, haven’t we? From the exhilarating first stages of infatuation to the profound depths of enduring love, each phase plays its unique role in our love journey. And just like any other expedition, navigating this path requires understanding, patience, and above all, commitment.

Remember that falling in love is easy; it’s staying in love where the real challenge lies. It’s not always about grand gestures or romantic escapades. Sometimes it’s about those quiet moments you share with your partner on a lazy Sunday afternoon or how you communicate during a disagreement.

Don’t be afraid of conflict either. I can’t stress this enough – conflicts are not necessarily bad for your relationship. On the contrary, they’re opportunities to learn more about each other and grow together as a couple.

• Understand your partner’s perspective
• Learn to compromise
• Communicate effectively

The keyword here is resilience. You need to withstand storms and navigate rough seas if you want to keep sailing together.

And let’s not forget the importance of maintaining your individuality while being part of a pair. It’s vital for both partners to have their own hobbies, friends and interests apart from each other because at the end of the day we’re all individuals sharing our lives with another individual.

Lastly but certainly most important – never stop expressing love for one another. Say ‘I love you’ often and mean it every time you say it.

So there we have it! These are my thoughts on successfully navigating through different stages of love:

• Patience and understanding
• Effective communication
• Maintaining individuality
• Never stop expressing love

Love isn’t always going to be perfect but remember – “A great relationship doesn’t happen because of the love you had in the beginning but how well you continue building love until the end.” Go out there and build your love story with courage and conviction.

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A List of The Correct Order of the 11 Movies in The Love Comes Softly Series

Do you ever hope to go back in time to the beautiful 19th century rugged, open country where trust, faith, love, family, friends and hard work are core values still sought after and revered? Are you a sucker for some good old-fashioned love stories? Then the “Love Comes Softly” series is for you!

Are you confused about which movies are part of the series? Well, many people are! It’s a great Christian series by Janette Oke but it can be tricky knowing which order to watch them in.  So here’s the list with the correct order of the Love Come Softly Series – if you want to watch them in storyline order, not the order they were released.

#1 –  Love Begins (2011)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 72% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review – love begins is a wonderful beginning to an excellent series. i have read the book series and these movies are similar in ways but pretty different. if you haven’t read the books or if you don’t compare them to the movies (because they really are quite different) then you will really enjoy the entire movie series..

Main Characters – Ellen Barlow and her sister Cassie, Clark Davis

Summary – After their father’s passing, Ellen Barlow (Julie Mond) and her sister Cassie struggle to maintain the family farm in Anderson’s Corner. When Clark Davis (Wes Brown) finds trouble in town on his way to California, Ellen agrees to hire him at the farm to work off his debts.

Before long, Clarke and Ellen unexpectedly develop feelings for each other. Ultimately, a turn of events inspires the pair to begin a legacy of love and faith together in this stirring family drama.

#2 – Love’s Everlasting Courage (2011)

Mommy Bear’s Family Movie Review –This is the most recent movie in the series and just like all of the other movies in the series, it is inspirational and motivating. It has a great story to follow and is touching.

Main Characters – Ellen Barlow Davis and her daughter Missie, Clark Davis

Summary – With the bank threatening to seize their farm, Clark Davis (Brown) and his wife Ellen (Julie Mond) struggle to support their family on land withered by drought. To make ends meet, Ellen takes a job in town, but she pushes herself to exhaustion and succumbs to scarlet fever.

Devastated, Clark is determined to stay and raise their daughter on the land that he and Ellen loved. With help from his parents (Ladd and Boxleitner), the family’s love and courage lead them to inspire new beginnings in this compelling story based on the epic Love Comes Softly series.

#3 –  Love Comes Softly (2003)

Is it any good  bear-ometer score: 84% like it, mommy bear’s family movie review –   it is very uplifting and keeps you on your feet. it has a great story of strength and faith. this is the original movie and probably the best done one, imho..

Main Characters -Marty and Aaron Claridge – Clark Davis and daughter Missie Davis

Summary – Marty and Aaron Claridge (Katherine Heigl and Oliver Macready) travel west in search of new opportunity. But when tragedy strikes and Marty is suddenly widowed, the young woman must face the rugged terrain, bleak weather, and life among strangers – alone.

That is until a handsome widower named Clark Davis (Dale Midkiff) suggests a platonic “marriage of convenience” until Marty can return home. As the months pass, though, Marty and Clark discover an unexpected new love where there was once only loss.

#4 –  Love’s Enduring Promise (2004)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 82% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review – this is a movie that shows faith and wisdom. it is a heartwarming film that everyone in the family can watch and enjoy together. you don’t have to worry about the content being dirty at all. you will fall in love with this series if you give it a try..

Main Characters – Clark, Marty & Missie Davis -Willie LaHaye

Summary – Based on Janette Oke’s best-selling novel, this poignant sequel to Love Comes Softly will draw you in from beginning to end. Missie Davis (January Jones) is devoted equally to teaching school and doing her fair share on the farm.

When a handsome railroad heir (Mackenzie Astin) starts to woo her, Missie is nearly swept off her feet. That is until a mysterious stranger (Logan Bartholomew) with a troubled past shows up. Torn between two very different men, Missie learns what is truly important in this inspiring film that the whole family will enjoy.

#5 –  Love’s Long Journey (2005)

Mommy Bear’s Family Movie Review – Another wonderful part of the Love Comes Softly series. It is fun to see Missie and her husband embark on their new journey together. This series is very wholesome and good.

Main Characters – Missie Davis LaHaye & Willie LaHaye

Summary – Missie’s (Erin Cottrell) surprise discovery – her pregnancy – sets her on a new course that’s at once thrilling and terrifying.

After all the planning and dreaming, she and her husband, Willie (Logan Bartholomew), have headed west in a covered wagon, leaving behind the prairie home of Missie’s parents. Now, caught between the excitement of the new adventure and the pain of not knowing when she’ll see her family again, Missie copes with the challenges, and cherishes the rewards, of her new homestead.

#6 –  Love’s Abiding Joy (2006)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 71% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review –this is a wonderful story of hope and joy. it is a great way to show that although we have struggles and trials in our lives the lord always knows what he is doing and has a plan for each of us..

Main Characters – Missie Davis LaHaye & Willie LaHaye – their adopted son Jeff LaHaye and love interest Colette Doros

Summary – Following a treacherous journey West, Missie (Erin Cottrell) and her husband (Logan Bartholomew) have set up a homestead where they’ve begun to raise a family. And now that a railroad line connects the states, Missie’s father (Dale Midkiff), is able to visit. But when the joyful reunion is interrupted by tragedy, the faith and love of this family is once again challenged in a story you and your family will never forget.

#7 –  Love’s Christmas Journey (2012)

It was really hard to decide where to put this movie since it has characters that are barely mentioned or not mentioned at all in any of the other movies. I decided to put it here because it makes the most sense character-wise since all the movies that follow this have Belinda in them. You may wish to watch it last or watch it separately, at Christmas time.

Main Characters –

Ellie Davis King (Clark and Marty’s daughter, not mentioned in the films but in the book Love’s Enduring Promise) & Aaron Davis (Clark and Marty’s daughter, seen in the movie Love’s Enduring Promise), both half-siblings of Missy (daughter of Clark & Ellen, who dies in Love’s Everlasting Courage)

Summary – Inspired by the best-selling “Love Comes Softly” book franchise written by Janette Oke, the first-ever uplifting, almost 3 hours, Christmas story in the series.

While still mourning the loss of her husband and daughter (neither her husband nor daughter are in any other movies), recently widowed Ellie Davis King visits her brother Aaron Davis and his children for Christmas.

Ellie agrees to watch Aaron’s children when he has to leave town. When a fire is set, Ellie works with a handsome deputy to clear a friends name and learns that if she can trust her faith, this Christmas may bring more miracles than she hoped.

#8 –  Love’s Unending Legacy (2007)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 75% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review –this is not my favorite of the series but i still liked it a lot. it has a cute and precious storyline and makes it intriguing to watch. this movie is sweet and shows another great side to love.

Main Characters – Missie Davis LaHaye & Son Mattie LaHaye – Belinda Marshall, Jacob Marshall – Zach Tyler

Summary – Missie LaHaye bids a reluctant goodbye at the grave of her late husband Willie, who died two years previously in the line of duty as the sheriff of Tettsford Junction. Even after giving up her job as the town schoolteacher, Missie has found running the ranch on her own overwhelming, so she has resigned herself to letting her son Jeff and his new bride take control of it jointly with her brothers Aaron and Arnie.

Missie and her ten-year-old son Mattie travel back to her hometown to live near the farm of her parents, Clark and Marty Davis.. Certain she will never find love again.

Missie redirects her feelings and when the “orphan train” arrives in town, she adopts Belinda, a feisty young teenager who’s arrived with a secret. As Missie struggles with raising Belinda, she finds she is falling for the local sheriff who might be the only man who can help her save Belinda….and herself.

#9 –  Love’s Unfolding Dream (2007)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 80% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review – this is a cute film from the love comes softly series. there is a lot of determination and dedication shown by the main characters and not to mention some fun romance to go along with it. it is fun to watch the story unfold as you wonder what will happen next..

Main Characters – Belinda Marshall LaHaye Tyler – Drew Simpson

Summary – Missie’s (Erin Cottrell) adopted daughter Belinda (Scout Taylor-Compton) is determined to become a doctor, but despite her dedication and ability, Doc Jackson (Robert Pine) believes women should stay at home – and so does Belinda’s suitor, Drew Simpson (Patrick Levis)!

But with faith and hard work, Belinda begins winning the hearts and minds of everyone around her, including a wealthy dowager (Nancy Linehan Charles), who just might help make Belinda’s dreams come true in this satisfying family drama that also stars Samantha Smith and Dale Midkiff.

#10 –  Love Takes Wing (2009)

Mommy Bear’s Family Movie Review –This movie is great for learning and seeing a good example of faith and hope when you endure and keep trying.

Main Characters – Belinda Marshall LaHaye Tyler Simpson

Summary – Still as feisty as ever, Belinda Simpson is now a doctor in a small Missouri town where an unknown plague is spreading fear and resentment among the townspeople. One local resident thinks the illness was spread from the town orphanage and wants to see it shut down.

Belinda struggles to make sense of the disease and God’s plan for the beleaguered town. But with the support of Lee Owens, the town’s handsome young blacksmith and her best friend, Belinda learns that if she can rely on faith and love then everything else may just fall into place!

#11 –  Love Finds a Home (2009)

Is it any Good?  Bear-ometer score: 76% like it

Mommy bear’s family movie review –this one is a little bit more boring than the others in the series in my opinion but i still enjoyed it. the storyline is not as dynamic as the rest of it is..

Main Characters – Belinda Marshall LaHaye Tyler Simpson Owens

Summary – The eight compelling film based on Janette Oke’s acclaimed Love Comes Softly novel series stars Sarah Jones as Dr. Belinda Owens, a young woman with a loving husband (Jordan Bridges) and a rewarding career. But when Belinda’s pregnant friend Annie (Haylie Duff) comes to stay, Belinda must come to grips with her own inability to conceive.

And when Annie’s meddlesome mother-in-law (Oscar Winner Patty Duke) gives Belinda advice about her medical practice. Belinda looks to a higher power for strength, wisdom and even diplomacy in this riveting installment of the popular, uplifting films about the enduring power of love and faith.

You can read more information here:

Hallmark.com

September 18, 2012 at 12:28 am

You forgot the last movie Love's Christmas Journey. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love%27s_Christmas_Journey

September 18, 2012 at 11:17 pm

Thanks for the heads-up. I did not include it since it is not on DVD yet, but looks like it's coming out on 10/30/12 so I'll order it and get it on our site when it comes out.

September 16, 2014 at 2:08 pm

I don’t have the dvd’s, but I’ve watched them several times. It would be nice if the hallmark channel would play all of them and in order. Have any pull with them? Thanks

June 29, 2015 at 8:52 pm

Unfortunately, no. I wish they would do the same thing!

July 21, 2018 at 10:56 pm

On this movie Haley Duff’s character was pregnant. She then qent to be with her husband before the birth of her baby. Lillian was adopted from the orphanage on this movie. She wasn’t grown up. Also it ended with Belinda getting married. She wasnt pregnant. There is another movie out there somewhere. I remember seeing it several years ago. Lillian was probably 16. Belinda was pregnant. They lived in a white house. I think Belinda and a boyfriend went in a cave and started caving in. She and the boyfriend were rescued by her adopted Dad. Does anyone remember what I’m talking about?

July 21, 2018 at 10:59 pm

I accidentally typed Belinda. It should be Lillian and her boyfriend went in a cave or something similar to one.

February 14, 2020 at 7:01 am

I agree, I would love to see them in order, to make more sense of the story he is trying to portray, I loves these shows but would like to see them in order and WITHOUT Commercials. Also I saw them on TBN and they are selling them which I thinks sucks.

August 15, 2020 at 7:00 pm

I am not sure what you mean by “they are selling them.” Could you elaborate?

September 9, 2020 at 7:33 pm

Frndlytv tv is doing that now I dvrd them

May 29, 2015 at 12:25 am

Love’s Christmas Journey comes sometime after Love’s Unending Legacy and around the time of Love’s Unfolding Dream since Aaron and Ellie are Clark and Marty’s children (married in Love Comes Softly) and Missy is older than Aaron by 10-12 years (Belinda in Unfolding Dream is Missy’s adopted daughter). Hope that helps.

January 10, 2016 at 9:46 pm

I thought marty and clarke had two son’s. Aaron who Marty was pregnant with when her husband Aaron died and another son who is “Loves enduring promise”? I did not remember that they had a girl (ellie). Can anyone clear up?

August 21, 2016 at 3:46 pm

Me either I’ve watched all except this one

July 21, 2018 at 9:23 pm

Clark snd Missy had 2 boys. The first one was by her husband that died then they had a boy together.

December 21, 2016 at 9:35 pm

I believe in the books series they had a daughter named Ellie =)

April 17, 2020 at 5:40 am

The movies are quite different from the books. I think the titles are in the same order as the books, but there are a lot of differences in the story line.

October 17, 2020 at 6:36 pm

Yes the difference are vastly different! In my opinion so different that they are barely related. Same time period and some similar names but other than that they don’t go together. I like the movies but can’t think of them as the books turned into movies. Even the movies seem a bit disjointed.

March 27, 2021 at 5:51 am

July 2, 2017 at 7:30 pm

Clark had a daughter by his first wife..his first wife died ND then he met soon to to be second wife who was married too..and her husband died. She was pregnant by her first husband had a boy..then she had another baby boy by Clark her second husband..

July 25, 2017 at 4:58 am

Ellie was in the book series but not the movie. It gets confusing. Hope this answers your question.

August 3, 2017 at 2:06 am

I was also wondering who Ellie was also, when Missy met Willy, Clarke and Marty had 2 sons?

August 19, 2017 at 3:56 am

in the book Marty has the son of her first husband, then a son and a daughter with Clark. In the movies they change Willie’s background to add more drama and they neglect to add Marty & Clarks adopted daughters.

September 28, 2018 at 8:52 pm

Please forgive me if I’m wrong. I got interested in the series when Hallmark showed several of them on s Saturday a few weeks ago. I haven’t seen all of them yet. I have ordered the DVD’s. In one of the movies I watched Marty and Clark had two sons and the daughter that they lost due to crib death. Then the local pastor talks her in to adopting an older daughter. Afterwards they find out that the girl has a brother given to another abusive family. Anyway they eventually get him away from the family. I’m sorry but I don’t remember all the names.

December 2, 2019 at 2:47 pm

They did not state that the last child after Aaron was a boy. The child never spoke in the movie and the child’s name was never mentioned. It could have been a girl. Remember Missy as a child, she dressed in boys clothes. Also the boy Marty had from her first husband did not die. She named him after her first husband. He is the child that caused Clark’s accident with the ax on his leg.

April 12, 2020 at 12:25 am

Marty had Aaron, from her late husband. Clark delivered and raised him. Clark had Missy, from his late wife Ellen. Clark and Marty has another boy; which they named Arnie. He does speak a few lines in the movie, Love’s Enduring Promise, then you never hear him mentioned again.

February 27, 2022 at 9:06 pm

Ellie was adopted

July 5, 2021 at 8:54 pm

I believe the second child’s name is Ernie, not Ellie. He is the direct child of Clark and Marty after their marriage. He appears in Love’s Enduring Promise. Patrick 😊

August 11, 2018 at 3:46 am

Please Note: Number 9 and Number 10 came out last in production but if you want to watch them in the order of the story line and what comes first in the order of time then you must start with no#9 listed here as it is number #1 in the story. Then watch #10 listed here next which is the 2nd DVD in the story. Then the rest of the order here is correct because their listing of no#1 Love comes softly is 3rd in the story line. Love comes Softly was the first book written and most of us read it and fell in love with the story. And each year or so the Author would come out with another book; usually of the next generation. After the last DVD in the series; Love finds a Home, The Public Loved the Story so much that Janette Oke finally went back and wrote about the past lives of the 2 main characters that started in her first book Love comes Softly. So those are Love Begins and then Love’s everlasting courage. That should be watched before Love comes Softly. As far as Loves Christmas Journey…i would watch that last. You can kept reading the many comments but i can assure you my comment is the real deal. I have all 11 DVDs and all the books and plan to past them down in my family after I’m dress and gone. I’m 65 yrs old and have been enjoying these since i was a young mother. GOD BLESS , ENJOY!

September 19, 2018 at 8:39 pm

Pamela, That is awesome! I watched “Love Comes Softly” on Hallmark Channel last night. (I recorded it and got too busy to watch it a couple of weeks ago when it was on.) I knew of the book and remembered it as I watched the movie because years ago my younger sister passed all her Janette Oake books on to me after she read them. Anyway, I decided last night to share these movies (the whole series) with my soon to be 11 year old granddaughter. (I also have to look and see if I still have the books in my book collection – probably do!)

I am a couple of years older than you and still enjoy a good, Godly love story. This is why I want to share it with my granddaughter! Thanks for sharing – it blessed my heart to know there were others in my age group watching these movies. I pray they have a wonderful impact on my granddaughter!

February 3, 2021 at 7:18 pm

Putting #9 and #10 at the beginning makes no sense! They are about Clark and Marty’s adopted granddaughter. To put them at the beginning before Clark and Marty even meet is illogical!

May 24, 2021 at 4:18 am

Thank you for clearing that up. It was confusing to have the #9 character have the same name as the #1 character and HIS daughter is also named Missy! NOW it all makes since!! My husband and I love these sweet Christian movies and will be sad to get to the end. I guess all we lack is the Christmas movie. Thank you again!

July 22, 2019 at 3:17 am

It’s listed. It’s number 7. I love the movies. I’ve watched them so many times.

November 6, 2021 at 11:06 pm

Its number 7 on the list above

January 4, 2023 at 9:52 am

It’s mentioned earlier. I think #8

September 18, 2012 at 12:29 am

Love's Christmas Journey takes place after Love Finds a Home.

December 19, 2016 at 10:01 pm

You are correct on that!

November 14, 2012 at 6:19 am

I haven't watched any of these yet because it seemed impossible to figure out the order, and I'm picky that way. Thank you so much for doing this!

November 24, 2012 at 11:37 pm

the order is definitely confusing! I'm not sure the order listed here is correct? Can anyone help? I have 10 DVDs in the series…. now I found Loves Beginning and Love's Christmas Journey…. so… Is Loves Beginning the 1st and not Love Comes Softly?

November 28, 2012 at 11:30 pm

Yes. The order is very confusing. The first three came out last but are actually the first ones in the series. Love's Christmas Journey is first (just came out on DVD about a month ago) then Love Begins and so on.

March 28, 2016 at 1:30 am

loves christmas journey is not first, as it is about Aaron which is Marty’s son from her first marriage, that she has in love comes softly, so it would most likely be last or around the same time as the last one which is love finds a home.

July 22, 2019 at 3:22 am

It should be after loves abiding joy. I wish Clark and Missy were in the latter movie

May 20, 2017 at 1:31 am

If you go by the way they came out, the order is: 1.Love comes softly. 2:Loves enduring promise 3:Loves Long journey 4: Loves Abiding Joy 5:Loves unending Legacy. 6:Loves Unfolding Dream 7: Love Takes Wing. 8:Love finds a home 9:Love Begins. 10:Loves Everlasting Courage 11:Loves Christmas Journey. I bought them as they came out in this order.

September 12, 2021 at 3:38 am

We have watched 2 of these movies and I really liked them, so glad you put them in order for my husband and I. Thanks

November 29, 2012 at 5:05 pm

SO: There are 11 total in the Love Comes Softly Series?

December 2, 2016 at 4:37 pm

I have just purchased the 10 DVD set of “Love Comes Softly”. Now I want to purchase the “Loves Christmas Journey”. I have fallen in Love with this series ans wish to find out if there is a listing of anymore in this same art of watching and the older ones that take part in this age or Year. I am 89 years of age and I find these type of film to be the finiest ever printed in to film. The younger Generation can learn much from the way of life in those days and what they had to do to get along and it was fun time too. Thank You for any and all information you can give to me. I am late at finding this site and much has gone on before my seeing this site. Please excuse my intelligence on this must wonderful Site. Please keep up your good work for all of us.

August 3, 2017 at 2:13 am

If you watch Love Begins, (1st movie) that is when they introduce Clarke Davis, he ends up marring Ellen, his first wife. Then comes Loves Everlasting Courage. Ellen and Clarke have a daughter Missy. Then the story goes to Love Comes Softly after Clarke lost his wife Ellen, Missy is about 8 when Marty comes into the picture.

February 3, 2021 at 7:26 pm

I totally agree!

March 12, 2013 at 10:46 pm

Thanks for the list. I haven’t seen half of these. Guess I have something to look for.

March 13, 2013 at 4:46 am

Thanks for the list. I haven't seen half of these. Guess I have something to look for.

March 24, 2013 at 12:25 pm

This order is wrong. Movies in a series are meant to be viewed chronologically which is how the writer/director intends it for the audience. It is impossible to look at movies in your order, because while we were viewing Love Comes Softly in 2003, Christmas Journey was not created until a decade later. Christmas Journey has to be viewed last… that is the point of creating what is known as a “prequel”.

March 24, 2013 at 6:03 pm

i love this series! and yes this MUST MUST be watched in order

March 28, 2013 at 6:00 pm

This list is meant for those people who buy the movies and want to watch them in the order that they happened in the character's lives, not production order. If you want to watch them in production order, we have the release date so you can easily figure that out. Thanks for stopping by!

August 10, 2014 at 3:49 am

Vishwanath Samsundar- Sorry to tell you but this order listed here is correct- They just weren’t produced that way. I’ve watched all of these on numerous occasions and own several.

August 3, 2017 at 2:15 am

Who is Ellie? In the Christmas Journey…I haven’t seen that one yet, but can’t seem to be able to figure out where she fits in?

March 31, 2019 at 5:37 am

She was Marty and Clark’s daughter in the books. I like the movies but I am tired of all the husbands dying. They didn’t in the books. Belinda was not adopted but Clark and Marty’s youngest daughter. The movies have changed the family members around and changed story lines. I whole heartedly encourage reading the book series it was my absolute favorite growing up and I made sure I got it on kindle so I know I can read it at any time.

March 26, 2013 at 4:19 am

I love these movies Love Comes Softly. Can someone email me the names and order the movies comes in so I can make sure I have them all. My email is [email protected] . Thanks Mary

March 28, 2013 at 12:00 pm

This list is meant for those people who buy the movies and want to watch them in the order that they happened in the character’s lives, not production order. If you want to watch them in production order, we have the release date so you can easily figure that out. Thanks for stopping by!

July 21, 2018 at 12:02 am

Rebecca the list you posted is correct right? I remember watching several of them it went way back to before Missy was born so it was kinda confusing. I love these movies. Will there be any more in the future to add to the Love Saga?

May 2, 2013 at 8:00 am

I appreciated your listing all the Janette Oke movies in order! Thanks–these movies have really given me a much needed lift!

May 2, 2013 at 2:00 pm

May 14, 2013 at 12:08 pm

loves christmas journey is not the first one. its one of the last arron is marty’s son which she dosen’t have till she marries clark. but love begins and loves everlasting courage are a prequal to love comes softly and are before marty and clark meet.

November 4, 2013 at 9:38 pm

Love’s Christmas Journey takes place after Love Finds a Home.

November 5, 2013 at 4:38 am

Love's Christmas journey cant be first its about Aaron, Marty's son so how can it be first? Love Begins is first, Love's Christmas journey is or should be last. I am going to keep searching, I have all the movies and would also like to know the order.

January 7, 2014 at 7:55 pm

1.Love Comes Softly is first,2. Love's Enduring Promise, 3.Love's Long Journey,4. Love's Abiding Joy,5. Loves, Unending Legacy,6. Love's Unfolding Dream, 7.Love Takes Wing,8.Love Finds A Home, 9. Love Begins.10. Love's Everlasting Courage, 11. Love's Christmas Journey. I have all of them but the last two. I Love them and watch them often.

October 29, 2015 at 6:53 pm

I don’t understand how everyone can say that Love comes softly is first…how do you think the whole sequence started.. with Clark Davis and Ellen Barlow..which afterwards they got married and missy was born… now the story goes on after that..

January 7, 2014 at 8:28 pm

Love that series but only have first 3 hint hint my husband

January 8, 2014 at 12:24 am

I have 9 of them.

June 2, 2014 at 2:46 pm

You forgot the last movie Love’s Christmas Journey. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love%27s_Christmas_Journey

June 2, 2014 at 8:46 pm

They have the order right except for the first one. Ellie and Aaron are Marty and Clark's kids, so that movie would have to be sometime after Love Comes Softly. These movies have the characters and the timeline all screwed up. The books make more sense. But I still love these movies.

June 15, 2014 at 2:11 am

My daughter and I are reading the books. We just read the movie synopsis that says that Willie dies. My daughter doesn’t even want to watch the movies anymore. Why would they stray that far from the original story line? Then she adopts the girl who is her sister in the books? I do not understand why they made such major changes in the story line. Disappointed 🙁

April 5, 2015 at 10:32 pm

Love comes softy is the first movie and love endearing promise is this second

October 28, 2015 at 2:27 am

This is how it begins… Love begins.Love’s Everlasting courage..Love comes softly..love’s Enduring Promise…love’s long journey…love’s Abiding joy…love’s Unending Legacy…love’s Unfolding dreams…love’s takes Wings…Love finds a home..love’s Christmas journey…

September 3, 2016 at 5:46 pm

YESSS!! Deb M.. I have them all and all of the books. Watching them today.. I didn’t want to argue with anyone or hurt anyone’s feelings by sounding rude. But YOU ARE CORRECT!! (smiley face) Thank you for clearing this up for everyone..

August 11, 2018 at 2:58 am

I agree. I have researched this for years and this is the way i watch them. If you what them how they came out then you will just get confused!!

May 30, 2015 at 12:15 am

So i’m confused…where is the Christmas one supposed to go in the story?

November 2, 2015 at 1:25 am

These movies are wonderful I love God’s message in each one There is not enough movies like this anymore.

December 8, 2015 at 11:51 am

I just recently purchased Loves Comes Softly, and my mother (91) and I watched it about 5 times, plus. Then I saw 4 other movies from this series and purchased them and now we are watching them. The order is confusing, but when I found your list of the correct order that was so helpful, now I can tell my children what I need from my Christmas list.

August 20, 2017 at 1:11 am

I just finish Volume 1 & 2 of the Love Comes Softly series by Janette Oke. I just read a comment from Yvonne Hale from Dec Dec 8th 2015, saying they found 4 more movies from this series. I would really like to find these DVDs. Is there any way I can find out the names and where to find the rest of this series??

February 25, 2019 at 2:45 pm

THEY ARE SHOWING AGAIN NOW ON THE HALLMARK CHANNEL 187 AND YOU CAN RECORD THEM.DURING FEBRUARY AND MARCH OF 2019.

January 1, 2016 at 5:35 am

Where does ellie come in when did clark and marty have her? Thought the only girl was missy….

January 10, 2016 at 8:10 pm

You commentators are largely correct on “Loves Christmas Journey”. The story occurs somewhere between “Love Takes Wing” and “Love Finds a Home” but is not directly related to these characters. Aaron Davis and Ellie King in this story are the half-brother and sister of Missie Davis and the natural children of Clark and Marty. The story, like “Love Begins” and “Love’s Everlasting Courage” is not written by Janet Oke. It should appear last in your published order for viewing. Maybe there is confusion over Ellie. She is not the Ellie who marries Clark Davis, but his daughter.

You can date the movies roughly from the 1850’s gold rush (Love Begins) and the dates on the crosses at the start of “Love’s Unending Legacy” (Sonny Huff – 1879, Kathy LaHaye – 1885 – Willie LaHaye – 1886)

I hope this helps

July 23, 2017 at 11:07 pm

Uh, Aaron is the baby who was born at the end of Love Comes Softly. His father was Aaron, who died, making Marty a widow, who then married Clark. He was an adult in Love’s Christmas Journey in 2011 (8 years after he was born in the 2003 movie! ). Clark and Marty had another son, Arnie, in the second movie. I don’t know who Ellie is, from Love’s Christmas Journey. Maybe Clark and Marty had another daughter after Missy married Willie and they moved away? Is she mentioned in any of the movies when Clark and/or Marty visit or write to Missy? And I always wondered what happened to Ellen’s younger sister, Cassie, after Ellen married Clark in Love Begins. (I’ve seen them all lots of times on Hallmark and TBN!)

July 23, 2017 at 11:12 pm

I meant in the movie made second (2004), Love’s Enduring Promise, not the second chronologically. So confusing!

p.s. I’ve only seen the one where Willie dies two times, several years apart. I don’t like that one.

February 3, 2016 at 12:47 am

i like all of them ,, i hope she can make more 🙂

March 7, 2016 at 5:03 am

Thanks for the list! Exactly what I wanted.

It made me laugh that you find the last one boring – that’s my very favorite! I think it’s hilarious. I guess I like character development more than exciting plot.

August 29, 2016 at 4:47 pm

Great series! It makes you want to watch more!

September 12, 2016 at 2:29 am

Where did Cassie go? I don’t recall her being mentioned.

February 23, 2017 at 3:51 pm

What happened to Ellen’s sister, Cassie. She is not mentioned in the next movie after Ellen and Clark at wed.

February 23, 2017 at 3:53 pm

I assume Clark Davis had a son also named Clark Davis, but there is no explanation as to how they became separated.

May 1, 2017 at 12:13 am

everyone who left comments said something different about the order of the movies …so I am still very confused ….

August 5, 2017 at 12:39 am

I just watched in this order..

Love Comes Softly Loves Enduring Promise Loves Long Journey Loves Abiding Joy Loves Unending Legacy Loves Unfolding Dream (it says The sixth installment) in the description.

I’m gonna watch the other 4 now and see if I can figure out the order. I watch it every time it’s on but they haven’t had all 11 on yet. Unless I missed recording them.

October 20, 2017 at 3:47 pm

My friend recommended these books to me, so I bought part 1 of the collection (books 1-4) but haven’t read them yet. Just last night I found 3 of the movies in a used book store and snatched them up, but had no idea what order they go. Thanks for this page – it will really help me to know in what order to watch the movies as I track them down!

April 10, 2018 at 4:41 pm

Here is a couple possible ways that I think the order of the movies go. 1. Love Begins; 2. Love’s Everlasting Courage; 3. Love Comes Softly; 4. Love’s Enduring Promise; 5. Love’s Long Journey; 6. Love’s Abiding Joy; 7. Love’s Unending Legacy; 8. Love’s Christmas Journey; 9. Love’s Unfolding Dream; 10. Love Takes Wing; 11. Love Finds a Home; 1. Love Begins; 2. Love’s Everlasting Courage; 3. Love Comes Softly; 4. Love’s Enduring Promise; 5. Love’s Long Journey; 6. Love’s Abiding Joy; 7. Love’s Unending Legacy; 8. Love’s Unfolding Dream; 9. Love Takes Wing; 10. Love Finds a Home. Then Similar to /Inspired by movies Above is Love’s Christmas Journey. My sisters and I have been trying to figure the exact order of the movies and we have come to the conclusion that maybe Love’s Christmas Journey doesn’t fit into the order of the rest of the movies so it should be watched at a different time then the rest of them. If one of these orders is not correct then I am still very confused. So if someone could let me known what you think that would be great!

September 18, 2018 at 5:31 pm

Hi there… took me a little while to figure them out as well but I think viewers have a better knowledge of the order than the producers or TV networks. I agree with your second version and that Christmas Journey is not part of the series- Aaron would be a character but his sister was Missy, not Ellie. He was named after his mother’s first husband, & his biological father(Marty was married to Aaron when he died in Comes Softly). I am rewatching all the movies right now and started with Christmas Journey, just finished Long Journey, so the first few are fresh in my mind.

July 24, 2018 at 6:07 pm

Sorry, everyone! I just went through and changed the order of the movies and now I’m pretty sure I have them in the correct order. I got my information from the link at the bottom of the page from Hallmark Channel. They should know the order but I did find they don’t know as much as they should. They forget to include one of the movies. I researched IMDB and found where it fits in. Enjoy the movies!

September 17, 2018 at 7:22 pm

WOW! From the first time I pulled this page up until now, approximately 6 months time span, SOMEONE has changed the “order” of the list of these great movies! You can’t just do that – Love’s Everlasting, the one SOMEONE has changed to #-10 HAS be number ONE because it STARTS the series with Clark and his FIRST wife. My question is, WHERE does Christmas Journey fit in? It’s obviously not the first but not the last either as Aaron, one of the main characters is the baby from Love Comes Softly(named after his deceased father) after Clark remarries but Ellie was not Aaron’s sister, Missy was…. so was this a production error or just an extra movie??? And this also would have meant Missy had remarried a third time from her sheriff husband, had a third child(WHEN DID ALL THIS HAPPEN??!!) YES, I HAVE WATCHED THESE MOVIES A LOT AND AS I AM NOW AN ENGLISH MAJOR, AM VERY INTO PROOFING/EDITING….

September 17, 2018 at 7:42 pm

Oh my! And I have to admit I am wrong…Love Begins HAS to be the first because that’s when Clark and Ellen first meet- then Everlasting Journey, followed by Comes Softly…..then etc etc. I still think Christmas Journey IS NOT part of the series but from the same producers, writers and same storyline.

September 18, 2018 at 5:39 pm

Lots of opinions but I guess when you watch these movies so many times, one would become somewhat of an expert(of what I’m not sure), but seems like I notice something more or different every time I watch. So, it would start with Love Begins, Everlasting Coursge, Comes Softly, Enduring Promise, Long Journey, Abiding Joy, Unending Legacy, Unfolding Dream, Takes Wing, & Finds a Home(all Love, of course). The Christmas Journey is not part of the series but does have some of the same characters, follows a split storyline, etc.. I have to say, these movies have a calming influence on my mind when I’m stressed- glad they came out on DVD!

September 19, 2018 at 4:19 am

From what I’ve seen, April has the perfect list according to storyline. Even though Love Begins & Love’s Everlasting Courage were produced last (2011), they were written to begin the series. After the 1st two, the rest were produced from 2003 to 2009, except for Love’s Christmas Journey=2012. Clear as mud?? Anyway, very worthwhile TV watching. Yay, Hallmark! PS FYI: Some movies are shown on Hallmark Channel & some on Hallmark Movies & Mysteries. Do check the guide…

September 20, 2018 at 6:58 pm

And is it just me it seems to me like they like to play some of them a lot and then some of them hardly ever. I’m sure that’s partly because some really aren’t as good as the others . . .

November 1, 2019 at 1:09 am

So where do you watch the Christmas movie in the series? I am going to binge watch them with my kids but it’s been a while so now I lost track of the order and I just ordered the Xmas dvd that I was missing. I know it’s been a year but I appreciate it. 🙂

September 20, 2018 at 7:00 pm

OK. Check out the list now and see if you think I got it right. I was confused there for a bit. It makes it especially confusing when they use different characters for the same people and they just play them so randomly on Hallmark.

September 20, 2018 at 7:56 pm

AARON DAVIS AND ELLIE KING IN THIS STORY ARE THE HALF-BROTHER AND SISTER OF MISSIE DAVIS AND THE NATURAL CHILDREN OF CLARK AND MARTY. THE STORY, LIKE “LOVE BEGINS” AND “LOVE’S EVERLASTING COURAGE” IS NOT WRITTEN BY JANET OKE. DON’T BE CONFUSED BY ELLIE. SHE IS NOT THE ELLIE WHO MARRIES CLARK DAVIS, BUT HIS DAUGHTER. This is the plot summary for Love’s Christmas Journey… not sure where it came from because if Ellie were really one of Clark & Marty Davis’ natural children, I think she would have shown up in an earlier movie, such as Love’s Unending Legacy OR Love’s Unfolding Dream. Also, Aaron is Marty’s natural child but not Clark’s- Aaron’s father died at the beginning of Love Comes Softly, that’s who he’s named after “Aaron Luke, his father and mine” Marty tells Clark the day he’s born. Marty and Clark do have a son together but his name is Arnie. Ok, this has made me tired and I need a nap… The movies are all good and Hallmark is remiss in playing them all together when they show “marathons”.

November 4, 2018 at 11:55 pm

read the book series I don’t understand how anyone could get things so messed up. the baby who died was Kathy and she was not clark and marty’s baby but willie and missy’s. also missy is the one who adopted belinda who was the orphan from the train and her brother eventually. yes clark and martie did have two sons. in the love’s enduring promise aaron who is the son from aaron and marty then there is arnie who is the son of clark and marty. in that series they have three children.

February 27, 2019 at 9:29 pm

Thank you SOOO MUCH, this has been a huge help. I also agree with all of your comments on each mobie, the zingers and not-so zingers in the series but all wonderful movies about strong faith 🙂

March 10, 2019 at 12:03 am

Yep. It’s an awesome series!

December 14, 2019 at 3:56 am

Aaron the son of Marty and Aaron in Love comes Softly, I assumed got married as he has 2 children in loves Christmas Journey. What happened to his wife? and is their courtship and her death addressed in the book series?

April 23, 2020 at 8:46 pm

What happened to Ellen’s sister Cassie?

November 12, 2020 at 11:54 am

Sorry, but if you read the books you know that they are in the right order, to begin with, the way the movies were made. As a writer myself I know we sometimes go back after and do a backstory to fill you in like them remembering where certain things happened. It doesn’t make the order wrong with the way the books or movies were made. Think of it as someone coming into your life at one point then later you telling them about your parents’ or grandparents’ lives before you. It doesn’t mean that they should’ve told you about them before you learn about them.

January 31, 2021 at 5:04 am

What ever happened to Cassie (Ellen’s sister)?

April 18, 2021 at 3:32 am

I like all the movies with Belinda. I like smart women. They are a turn on Although Katherine Heigl is among my favorite actors, so her movies are good too.

April 18, 2021 at 3:36 am

All the movies are on Up Faith and Family on Amazon Prime

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35 Quotes To Inspire You On Your Journey Of Success

Journey is defined as a long and often difficult process of personal change and development; traveling from one place to another. The path to success might be tough, but once gain momentum, everything will fall to its place. Always remember to enjoy the journey because sometimes it’s more worthwhile the the destination itself. Don’t forget to thank all the people you helped you on your way. Everyone’s journey is different, so try not to compare yours to others. May these quotes inspire you on your journey to greatness .

1.  “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” Lao Tzu

2.  “Don’t expect anyone to understand your journey , especially if they’ve never walked your path.”

3.  “The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday.” Steve Maraboli

4.  “It’s all about the journey not the outcome.” Carl Lewis

5.  “The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.” Tony Robbins

6.  “The true journey is one that is traveled with an inner GPS fully activated.” Alexis Brooks

7.  “The journey is yours. Enjoy each and every step .” Anonymous

8.  “Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.” Arthur Ashe

9.  “Embrace the journey.” Anonymous

10.  “Stay patient and trust your journey.” Anonymous

11.  “The journey is long but the goal is in each step.” Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

12.  “Life is a journey.” Anonymous

13.  “The journey is the fun part.” Jaime Tardy

14.  “Every day is a journey, and the journey itself is home.” Matsuo Basho

15.  “Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination.” Drake

16.  “Life is not a race but a journey to be savored each step of the way.” Anonymous

17.  “This is your journey, your body, your mind, and your spirit. Dig deep, own it and start doing things for you and by you.” Anonymous

18.  “Your journey has molded you for the greater good .” Asha Tyson

19.  “Life is a journey filled with unexpected miracles.” Anonymous

20.  “The end of a journey means the start of another.” Anonymous

21.  “There is only one map to the journey of life and it lives within your heart .” Willie Nelson

22.  “All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.” Martin Buber

23.  “To travel is to take a journey into yourself.” Danny Kaye

24.  “You must remain focused on your journey to greatness.” Les Brown

25.  “Take the journey even if it means alone.” Anonymous

26.  “Love is the spirit that motivates the artist’s journey.” Eric Maisel

27.  “Our journey is about being more deeply involved in life and yet, less attached to it.” Ram Dass

28.  “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.” Anonymous

29.  “So the single most vital step on your journey towards enlightenment is this: learn to disidentify from your mind.” Eckhart Tolle

30.  “Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.” Anonymous

31.  “We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.” Kenji Miyazawa

32.  “The best journey always takes us home.” Anonymous

33.  “The journey is much easier when you are not carrying your past.” Anonymous

34.  “The journey to freedom is paved by the substance of our character.” Erwin McManus

35.  “The only journey is the one within.” Rainer Maria Rilke

I hope these Journey Quotes inspired you to aim for success. Do let us know which one was your favorite in the comments section below.

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Hilary Williams

March 12, 2019 at 2:05 pm

What an amazing quotes that transforms life. It gives one the courage to actually owns his own journey. I Love This.

March 28, 2019 at 6:14 pm

Glad you enjoyed the article Hilary

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March 11, 2019 at 10:58 pm

Comment: The quotes are very inspirational, they give me more courage to push harder

March 28, 2019 at 6:15 pm

Glad you enjoyed the article Haddy

February 1, 2019 at 12:40 am

I I enjoy the wonderful quotes. It has been very inspectional.

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120 Inspirational Quotes About Journeys + Journey Captions For Instagram

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There are so many inspirational quotes about journeys that are used by travellers around the world. Whether you are a backpacker travelling around South East Asia, a business traveller who travels frequently, a student who plans to travel the world, someone who goes on one annual vacation each year or any other type of tourist , there are times when all we want is some quotes about journeys and some great journeys captions for Instagram. And in this article I give you just that! Read on for some of the best quotes about journeys there are…

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There are so many quotes about journeys and journeys captions for instagram to choose from that I had a tough job narrowing down the best! I have chosen my favourite 120 quotes about journeys and journeys captions for Instagram and categorised them for you too to make them easier to find!

Lets start off by looking at some of the very best quotes about journeys and journeys captions for Instagram. Here are my top picks-

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. – Lao Tzu (‘Every journey begins with a single step quote’)

Life’s a journey, not a race. – Unknown

The only impossible journey is the one you never begin. – Tony Robbins

The journey between what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life really takes place. – Barbara De Angelis

Always remember life is a learning journey. Keep filling your mind with all that is worthy. – Catherine Pulsifer

When setting out on a journey do not seek advice from someone who never left home. – Rumi

It’s all about the journey, not the outcome. – Carl Lewis

We never know the journey another person has walked, so be kind to everyone. – Lynette Mather

The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday.  – Steve Maraboli

The journey is yours. Enjoy each and every step. – Unknown

And at the end of the day, there is nothing but the journey. Because destination is pure illusion. – Rich Roll

Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost.―  Erol Ozan

If you are looking for some of the very best journey captions for Instagram then you will love these quotes about journeys-

Life is a journey, and if you fall in love with the journey, you will be in love forever. – Peter Hagerty

Life is a journey that must be travelled no matter how bad the roads and accommodations. – Oliver Goldsmith (One of the best ‘Life is a journey quotes’)

Focus on the journey, not on arriving at a certain destination. – Chris Hadfield

Man’s real home is not a house, but the Road and that life itself is a journey to be walked on foot. – Bruce Chatwin

Aim for the sky, but move slowly, enjoying every step along the way. It is all those little steps that make the journey complete. – Chanda Kochhar

Sometimes life takes you on a journey that changes everything you thought you wanted. – Melaina Rayne

Enjoy the journey and try to get better every day. And don’t lose the passion and the love for what you do. – Nadia Comaneci

One of the greatest journeys in life is overcoming insecurity and learning to truly not give a shit. – J. A. Konrath

Not all those who wander are lost.―  J.R.R. Tolkien

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.―  Ursula K. Le Guin

There are plenty of inspirational quotes about journeys, here are my favourites-

Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be…Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you’ll live as you’ve never lived before. – Erich Fromm

Life is a journey filled with unexpected miracles. – Unknown 

We don’t receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us. – Marcel Proust

To finish the moment, to find the journey’s end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom. – Ralph Waldo Emerson 

All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveller is unaware. – Martin Buber

To get through the hardest journey we need take only one step at a time, but we must keep on stepping. – Chinese Proverb 

What is a journey? Is it just distance traveled? Time spent? No, it’s what happens on the way. It’s the things that shape you. At the end of the journey, you’re not the same. – Mayor Richard Wilkins III

There are some really funny quotes about journeys too! Here are my top picks-

A journey is like marriage. The certain way to be wrong is to think you control it. – John Steinbeck

The soul of a journey is liberty, perfect liberty, to think, feel, do just as one pleases. – William Hazlitt

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. – Izaak Walton

Previous journeys in search of treasure have taught me that a zigzag strategy is the best way to get ahead. – Tahir Shah

A journey taken in vain is not a wasted journey if you have learnt something. – Anthony T. Hincks

Books are the plane, and the train, and the road. They are the destination, and the journey. They are home.―  Anna Quindlen

No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.―  Heraclitus

All that is gold does not glitter. Not all those who wander are lost.―  J.R.R. Tolkien

Sometimes we all need a bit of motivation! Here are some motivational quotes about journeys to keep you moving-

You take people, you put them on a journey, you give them peril, you find out who they really are.” – Joss Whedon

I believe that life is a journey, often difficult and sometimes incredibly cruel, but we are well equipped for it if only we tap into our talents and gifts and allow them to blossom. – Les Brown

The best part of life is to decide to make the journey through life like a best selling book. Tell a fantastic story when you are ready to tell others how you did it. Make sure life the best story ever written through a journey filled with overcoming obstacles, taking risks, and continuing to develop. – Catherine Pulsifer 

Look at education as a continuous life long journey. – Catherine Pulsifer 

You must remain focused on your journey to greatness. – Les Brown

In setting goals in life, you determine the essence of the change that will be happening and this decision will take you from the present to the desired goal. Between the two points, the present and the goal, there’s the journey: your life. – Yaniv Shlomo

We advance on our journey only when we face our goal, we are confident and believe we are going to succeed. – Orison Swett Marden

The journey was a surreal dream. This world was about knowing the person you’d always wanted to be and setting your foot down to it, remembering the person you’d thought you were as a child and rejoicing in its living, breathing actuality. – Christopher Hawke

The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one. – Mark Twain

Improvement in the important areas of your life can and should be an ongoing journey. – Mark Sanborn

Some of the best quotes about journeys are about the journey of life. Here are some of my favourites-

The only journey is the one within. – Rainer Maria Rilke

Every day is a journey, and the journey itself is home. – Matsuo Basho

The only journey is the one within.―  Rainer Maria Rilke

We have stories to tell, stories that provide wisdom about the journey of life. What more have we to give one another than our ‘truth’ about our human adventure as honestly and as openly as we know how? – Rabbi Saul Rubin

This thing we call life is not a destination with an end but a path down which we continue to journey as long as we can breath. Life is to be lived not squandered or to give away waiting for the end to close upon us. – Byron Pulsifer

We should not judge people by their peak of excellence; but by the distance they have traveled from the point where they started.―  Henry Ward Beecher

…there ain’t no journey what don’t change you some.―  David Mitchell

The only thing that is ultimately real about your journey is the step that you are taking at this moment. That’s all there ever is. – Alan Watts

Simplicity is making the journey of this life with just baggage enough. – Charles Warner

What you learn in tough times can be used in many ways to bless your personal life journey. – Scott Gordon

In the middle of the journey of our life I found myself astray in a dark wood where the straight road had been lost sight of. – Dante Alighieri

The longer you journey with your eyes on heaven, the more you begin to see. – Joni Eareckson Tada

You have learned a lot, but there are still lots of learning for you as you journey through life. Never stop learning. – Kate Summers 

The benefits of the accomplished journey cannot be weighed in terms of perfect moments but in terms of how this journey affects and changes our character. – Ella Maillart 

And what about the journey of love? Whilst this list of quotes about journeys might be shorter than the rest, it is just as important!

Sometimes the longest journey we make is the sixteen inches from our heads to our hearts. – Elena Avila

A journey is best measured in friends rather than miles – Tim Cahill

In this journey of life, you will meet people who will make you feel alive! – Avijeet Das

Each new year that rings in on this journey of life brings new challenges and dreams for us to explore. May this new year bring you happiness and lots of love. – Catherine Pulsifer 

Neither to heaven nor to hell, my journey is towards my home. – Sw. Chidananda Tirtha

Many people embark on spiritual journeys and these are some of the best quotes about journeys that relate to spiritual aspects-

Life is a journey. When we stop, things don’t go right. – Pope Francis

Our life is an endless journey; it is like a broad highway that extends infinitely into the distance. The practice of meditation provides a vehicle to travel on that road. Our journey consists of constant ups and downs.  – Chogyam Trungpa

A journey is a person in itself; no two are alike. – John Steinbeck

The geographical pilgrimage is the symbolic acting out an inner journey. The inner journey is the interpolation of the meanings and signs of the outer pilgrimage. One can have one without the other. It is best to have both. – Thomas Merton

We are travellers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity. – Paulo Coelho

Life is a journey of either Fate or Destiny. Fate is the result of giving in to one’s wounds and heartaches. Your Destiny unfolds when you rise above the challenges of your life and use them as Divine opportunities to move forward to unlock your higher potential. – Caroline Mys

In order to complete our amazing life journey successfully, it is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of wisdom, and find the blessing in every curse. – Anthon St. Maarten 

Life is a journey and it’s about growing and changing and coming to terms with who and what you are, and loving who and what you are. – Kelly McGillis 

What about quotes about journeys and the destination? Here are some of the best-

The key to realising a dream is to focus not on success but significance, and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning. – Oprah Winfrey 

Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination. – Drake

One may walk over the highest mountain one step at a time. – John Wanamaker 

Winning and losing isn’t everything; sometimes, the journey is just as important as the outcome. – Alex Morgan

Learn to trust the journey, even when you do not understand it. – Lolly Daskal

It is more important to go slow and gain the lessons you need along the journey then to rush the process and arrive at your destination empty. – Germany Kent

The journey of every ignorant and obedient society always ends up in the same place: In the desert! – Mehmet Murat ildan

There are plenty of quotes about journeys that refer to the way that the journey begins too, here are my top picks-

Big things have small beginnings – Prometheus 

No one can decide the road that inspires us to kick-start a journey better than the one embarking on the path. We may find others joining our journey, but we have to take the first step alone to reach our destination. – Dr Prem Jagyasi

Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride! – Hunter S. Thompson

Even journey has an end. – Seneca

One step must start each journey. One word must start each prayer. One hope will raise our spirits. One touch can show you care. – Unknown

Every day is a new journey for me, and I feel like, in my lifetime, I’ve been blessed to experience such a lot. – Bindi Irwin

There ain’t no journey what don’t change you some. – David Mitchell

Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey. – Vera Nazarian

A journey, after all, neither begins in the instant we set out nor ends when we have reached our door, step once again. It starts much earlier and is really never over because the film of memory continues running on inside of us long after we have come to a physical standstill. Indeed, there exists something like a contagion of travel, and the disease is essentially incurable. – Ryszard Kapuściński

I discovered that a fresh start is a process. A fresh start is a journey – a journey that requires a plan. – Vivian Jokotad

Life is about the journey, not the destination- ever heard this before? I bet you have! There are lots of other quotes about journeys that are along these lines too, these include-

The journey is the reward. – Tao Expression

Life is a journey, it’s not where you end up but its how you got there. – Unknown 

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end. – Ernest Hemingway

The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination. – Don Williams, Jr.

I tramp a perpetual journey. – Walt Whitman

Remember, the work of art lives in the experience, the journey within the process, not in the resulting monument to be presented in a certified art-place. – Eric Booth

Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it. – Greg Anderson

If ever there was a metaphor to illustrate the importance of the journey over the destination, it is life itself. For everyone who departs from birth is destined for death, so the journey IS life. Savour it! – Michele Jennae

Trust yourself, trust the road, trust the weather, and trust your destination! This quarto-trust can create a miraculously successful journey! – Mehmet Murat Ildan

There are also lots of quotes about journeys that refer to the physical act of travelling. Here are some of the best-

Life is journey, travel it well. – Unknown 

Life is a journey that has a lot of different paths, but any path you choose use it as your destiny. – Ryan Leonard 

Embrace your life journey with gratitude, so that how you travel your path is more important than reaching your ultimate destination. –Rosalene Glickman 

Life is about waking up. It is a journey of discovery and you’ve already bought the ticket and are sitting on the train. – Michael Sheridan

Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey. – Fitzhugh Mullan

I haven’t a clue how my story will end, but that’s all right. When you set out on a journey and night covers the road, that’s when you discover the stars. – Nancy Willard

You don’t have to understand my journey. You just need to respect it. – Izey Victoria Odiase

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end. – Ursula K. Leguin

A journey is time suspended. – Louis L’Amour

Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s okay. You’re here to live your life, not to make everyone understand. –Banksy

Gotta’ take that adventure, in order to understand your journey.  – Jennifer Pierre

Not I, nor anyone else can travel that road for you. You must travel it by yourself. It is not far. It is within reach. Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and did not know. Perhaps it is everywhere – on water and land.―  Walt Whitman

The most important reason for going from one place to another is to see what’s in between, and they took great pleasure in doing just that.―  Norton Juster

And last but not least there are lots of quotes about journeys that refer specifically to success, here are some of my favourites-

Life is an opportunity, seize the day, live each day to the fullest. Life is not a project, but a journey to be enjoyed. – Catherine Pulsifer

Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant. – Robert Louis Stevenson  

On a hard jungle journey, nothing is so important as having a team you can trust. – Tahir Shah

If all difficulties were known at the outset of a long journey, most of us would never start out at all.  – Dan Rather

Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome. – Arthur Ashe

Accomplishments will prove to be a journey, not a destination. – Dwight D. Eisenhower

Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it. – Henry David Thoreau

Peace is a journey of a thousand miles and it must be taken one step at a time. – Lyndon B. Johnson

The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday.―  Steve Maraboli

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Just to state the obvious, relationships can be very rewarding but they are not easy. They are journeys that may bring challenges in the beginning, the middle, and the end. I want to share in this post a few of the difficulties and things to keep in mind, as couples navigate these stages.

To start a relationship we may need to overcome fears and doubts , old and new, that get in the way. Taking the risk of being open and vulnerable can sometimes be really difficult. Do we feel safe enough to let the other in? Do we allow ourselves to love and to be loved? Should we risk expressing our feelings despite the fear –or maybe the anticipation- of rejection and pain?

Many of the people that I have worked with in my practice have struggled with these questions. Some believe that their emotions are too big, they are too needy, or their baggage is too complicated, and wonder if they will be too much. Others, on the other hand, feel like there is something wrong with them and wonder if they will ever be enough. Some others carry a deep secret and a profound shame with them, and wonder: if they really knew me, would they run away?

These questions are not unusual, but can sometimes be paralyzing. The answers are never simple and cannot be known in advance. Becoming aware of our doubts, fears, hopes, and motives, accepting them as part of us, and understanding where they come from, are usually helpful first steps. While self-awareness is essential, sometimes we may think too much, so it is important to listen to our mind, our heart, and our body. Looking inside of ourselves with love and kindness is also crucial, in order to have a sense of what is important for us in a relationship, what we are looking for, and what our own personal boundaries are.

The more time we spend together with our partner , the more opportunities we have for connection and intimacy, but also for friction and disappointment. The more history is shared, the more opportunities to become closer and create meaning together, but also to harbor anger or to feel hurt. Whatever will happen to an established couple relationship is a function of three elements: the two individuals and the relationship itself.

The first two are each individual’s experiences, thoughts, and feelings. These will define what each person believes they need and want from a relationship, and how capable or willing they are to find a middle ground. For example, I once had a client who, a few months before his wedding, told me: “I want to do what my father did with my mom: I just want to tune out, find a way to ignore her.” The role-models we had in our life many times define, consciously or not, what we believe relationships are about.

The relationship itself is the third element, and it is bigger than the sum of its parts. For example, a dynamic I have observed often times can be called “pursuer-avoidant,” in which one person wants more from the other (more affection, more attention, more communication, more time, etc.), and the other is evasive or avoidant, whether because he feels uncomfortable, overwhelmed, or afraid. This dynamic sometimes leads to gridlock in the relationship, undermines the possibilities for negotiation, and can trigger resentment on both sides.

What to do when our baggage and our partner’s does not seem to match? There is no one single answer because a couple is a complex, ever-evolving entity. However, it is important to keep an open and curious mind about our partner’s experience, thoughts, feelings, needs, dreams, and goals. Truly acknowledging and respecting our differences is vital for understanding each other. Taking ownership and responsibility for our actions and the things we say (or do not say), as well as being open to receiving feedback, is important to maintain a strong friendship and a sense of safety and trust in the relationship.

Endings are almost never easy. Sometimes the difficulty resides in becoming willing or able to end a relationship that feels stale, is not meeting our needs, or has become toxic or abusive. Sometimes the challenge is to cope with the loss of a relationship, whether it was our own choice, our partner’s decision, or caused by life events out of our control.

The prospect of ending a relationship can be daunting, especially after a long time together. Are we making a rushed decision? Is there no way we can work this out? How much more can I stand? Have I been waiting for too long already? How can I deal with this uncertainty? These are some of the questions I have heard several times. As a therapist, it is not my job to answer them, but to be with my clients as they struggle with them, helping them untangle, make sense, and understand the meaning of the situation.

Most times this process is anything but rational and linear. A wide range of feelings will probably emerge, many times in conflict with our rational thoughts. Love, guilt, fear, pride, avoidance, grief, sadness, anger, and hope – we may feel them all at the same time, or we can go back and forth between them.

Paying attention to our patterns and personal history is equally important: do we tend to cut relationships as soon as we feel uncomfortable? Do we turn relationship into a personal project that admits no failure? Developing self-awareness to understand the nature of our fears is useful to reduce their effect on us. Kindness and patience with our difficulties, as well as respect for ourselves and our partners, are some of our best allies in this part of the journey.

Even though human beings are “wired” to be in relationships, these are not easy and sometimes require a lot of work. This “work” involves looking within and looking across. We must look within to become aware, accept, and understand our own thoughts, feelings, wishes, hopes, and challenges. We must look across to recognize, make space for, and honor our partner’s experiences and reality. Each step of the journey brings new challenges and opportunities for each person and for the relationship itself. It is in this journey, more than in any imagined destination, where the promise of love, connection, and fulfillment can be found.

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Journey to Self-Love: 39 Tips on How and Where to Start Yours

When was the last time you really felt like you loved yourself? It’s a question that I used to ask myself often, and one time, in particular, comes to mind.

Recently, I was praising my son’s latest efforts at learning how to ride a bike. As lots of parents know, it can take some serious work to find positive and encouraging words for them to keep going.

But, I knew my son was doing his best, which is worthy of praise.

That’s when it hit me-my hard work also deserves recognition. Yet, too often, I’ll zero in on all of my imperfections.

While I may always have a different kind of love for myself than I do for my child, it’s important to step out of cycles of negativity and engage in a journey to self-love that transforms my mental well-being.

Self-love is integral to so many aspects of your life. Without self-love, your mental health, your physical health, and even the opportunities you take can be negatively impacted.

My life without self-love was a difficult journey, and it wasn’t until I started loving and accepting myself that things became much easier for me.

Where there is self-love there is endless happiness .

But the one major obstacle in my path was where to start with self-love.

If you’re ready to cultivate change in your life but don’t know where to begin with self-love, in this article I’ll be given helpful tips that will get you started on your self-love journey.

• Identify negative self-talk, and replace it with compassionate understanding. Speak to yourself like you would to a beloved friend, with care.
• Invest in activities that feed your mind and soul. Find hobbies that make you feel alive, fostering a deeper connection with yourself.
• Understand that self-love is a journey, not a destination. Commit to continuous growth and acceptance, knowing that taking care of yourself evolves with you.

Table of Contents

Journey to Self-Love: How to Start?

1. Acknowledge How You Are Feeling

One of the easiest ways to figure out how to begin a self-love journey is to simply acknowledge and validate your emotions. Doing so is an important aspect of practicing self-care and self-love.

While it might be hard at first, taking a moment to recognize how you feel makes it possible to begin creating a strong and deeper connection with yourself that promotes emotional well-being.

One simple and effective way to do this is through self-love journaling, which allows you to express your emotions freely and without the fear of being judged.

I’ve established a daily practice of spending at least 30 minutes every night journaling so that I can get in touch with myself and dive deeper into the events of my day.

It’s amazing how many things can just fly by you if you don’t take the time to fully explore what’s happening to you, both internally and externally.

Alternatively, you can also achieve similar benefits by verbally acknowledging your feelings. For instance, I like to say my feelings out loud.

Saying, “Today, I feel stressed out and overwhelmed” makes my feelings seem more concrete and valid.

It’s hard to ignore what you just wrote down or said, which means you’ll already be doing the work of acknowledging that your feelings exist.

This kind of self-awareness empowers you to manage your emotions effectively, which gives your personal growth a boost.

2. Accept How You Are Feeling

Emotions are a normal and inevitable part of the human experience, and it is important to embrace this truth.

By accepting your emotions, you create a space of compassion and understanding within yourself. Instead of criticizing or suppressing your feelings, remind yourself that it is perfectly okay to feel the way you do.

I’m a big fan of positive affirmations that remind me of the fact that it’s normal to feel emotions and experience them.

I’d recommend repeating affirmations such as, “It’s perfectly okay to feel this way right now, and I fully accept and honor all of my emotions, even the big ones.”

Embracing this acceptance allows you to develop a healthier relationship with yourself, promoting emotional well-being and self-compassion.

It opens the door for personal growth and self-acceptance, leading to a more authentic and fulfilling life.

3. Think About Your Feelings From Another’s Perspective

It’s helpful to picture yourself in someone else’s shoes to gain a fresh perspective on your emotions. For instance, you can think about what it would be like for a friend who is dealing with the same emotional experience.

I’ve always found that stepping outside of myself worked wonders for me emotionally.

Recently, I had a stressful time at work when I had to take on some extra responsibilities while my coworker was out on leave.

Naturally, adding more onto my plate left me frazzled, and I’ll admit I felt incompetent when it came to doing a few things that were new.

But, I made sure to take a step back and view myself like I would someone just starting their first day at a new job.

Suddenly, I started to feel the same sense of compassion and empathy for myself as I would give to someone else.

Whenever you get stuck in a negative downward spiral, try this exercise for size.

While it might take some imagination to see yourself from someone else’s perspective, it’s a great way to stop beating yourself up for something that’s completely understandable from another angle.

4. Create a Habit of Accepting Who You Are

Embracing your unique qualities and traits is a powerful act of self-acceptance and self-love.

By recognizing and appreciating the aspects that make you who you are, you cultivate a sense of confidence and authenticity.

Instead of seeking validation from others, shift your attention inward and focus on the qualities you genuinely love about yourself.

I used to play the comparison game all the time and look to people to tell me that I was indeed worthy. But rather than assuring me or bolstering my confidence, it left me feeling worse.

Treat yourself with utmost respect and kindness, acknowledging that you are deserving of love and appreciation from within.

By doing so, you cultivate a strong sense of self-worth and build a foundation for a fulfilling and authentic life.

5. Focus on What Calm Your Mind and Soul

Cultivating self-love can be achieved through the practice of being present at the moment.

When you consciously focus on the present, you become more attuned to your thoughts, emotions, and sensations.

By practicing mindfulness, you develop a heightened awareness of your inner world, gaining a deeper understanding of your feelings and experiences.

This understanding is important if you wish to love yourself, as it allows you to recognize and acknowledge your emotions without judgment.

Being present also enables you to fully engage with the world around you, appreciating the beauty and opportunities that exist in each moment.

Through this intentional awareness, you create space for self-compassion, self-acceptance, and ultimately, a profound sense of self-love.

Mindfulness can be cultivated in any number of ways, but my favorite is mindfulness meditation.

I meditate for at least 10 minutes each day, and I’ve found plenty of audio and videos to guide me through it so that I never get distracted.

6. Set Personal Boundaries for What Matters to You

Learning to set boundaries is an essential aspect of self-care and preserving your overall well-being.

It involves recognizing your limits and understanding when to say no to others in order to prioritize your own needs.

By establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries, you protect your time, energy, and emotions from being drained by external demands and obligations.

This practice allows you to create space for self-reflection, relaxation, and pursuing activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.

Setting boundaries also helps in maintaining healthy relationships, as it encourages open communication, mutual respect, and a balanced give-and-take dynamic.

I learned the hard way that my lack of boundaries was making me feel as though I mattered less and opening me up to poor relationships.

Boundaries can also be simple and designed to preserve relationships.

By valuing and protecting your own needs, you cultivate a stronger sense of self-worth and preserve your mental and emotional health.

7. Find Physical Activity That Gives You Joy

Exercising isn’t on everyone’s list of top priorities, but it’s far more important than it seems, especially in regard to loving yourself.

Engaging in regular physical activity offers a multitude of benefits for both your physical and mental well-being.

By finding an exercise routine that you genuinely enjoy, you can make it a consistent and fulfilling part of your daily routine.

Physical activity not only boosts your mood and increases energy levels through the release of endorphins, but it also promotes overall health and longevity. Whether it’s jogging, dancing, swimming, or practicing yoga, the key is to choose an activity that brings you joy and suits your preferences.

By incorporating regular exercise into your life, you can experience improved cardiovascular health, increased strength and flexibility, reduced stress and anxiety, better sleep quality, and increased self-confidence.

8. Maintain a Healthy Diet

Nourishing your body with nutrient-dense foods is an essential aspect of taking care of yourself and your overall well-being.

By focusing on a well-balanced diet that includes ample amounts of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains, you provide your body with the necessary nutrients for optimal functioning.

Not only does this benefit your physical health by supporting proper organ function, boosting the immune system, and maintaining a healthy weight, but it also has a profound impact on your mental well-being.

Certain nutrients found in these foods, such as omega-3 fatty acids, B vitamins, and antioxidants, have been linked to improved cognitive function, mood regulation, and reduced risk of mental health disorders.

Additionally, eating a balanced diet can increase energy levels, enhance focus and concentration, and promote a more stable emotional state.

With that in mind, I know how much of a struggle it can be to change your diet, I’ve been there. My advice is to start small.

Gradually begin introducing healthy snack foods and more fruits and veggies over time without restricting yourself. 

As you get used to eating healthier, making small changes all the time to switch over to a healthy diet becomes quite simple.

I’ll also note that keeping some pre-cut veggies and packable fruit handy makes it easier to stick to this goal when you’re on the go.

9. Have a Good Sleep Routine

Getting sufficient sleep is paramount for maintaining optimal physical and mental health. It is recommended to aim for a minimum of 7 hours of restful sleep each night.

Establishing a nightly routine and maintaining a consistent sleep schedule can contribute to creating a healthy sleep environment.

By prioritizing regular sleep patterns, you allow your body to regulate its internal clock, promoting better quality sleep.

Some of the ways I’ve improved my sleep hygiene include winding down before bed by reading a book or listening to a podcast, creating a relaxing ambiance, and avoiding stimulating things like screens and caffeine.

Sustaining healthy sleep habits sharpens cognitive function, boosts mood, strengthens the immune system, and supports overall well-being.

10. Start a Gratitude Journal

Journaling is great for self-love . Gratitude journaling? Even better!

Creating a special time each day when you can acknowledge and appreciate the positive aspects of your life is an amazingly powerful practice that boosts your positivity and elevates your mindset.

Loving yourself becomes much easier when you can see yourself in a positive light.

Practicing gratitude is something that you might already do in your thoughts, but writing down the things that you are grateful for reinforces all of the good things that come when you start shifting your mindset to one that is focused on positivity and abundance.

This simple act of reflection helps you recognize the blessings and beauty that exist in your life, no matter how small they may seem.

As you develop a habit of gratitude, you become more aware of your own worth and the richness of your experiences, nurturing a sense of appreciation and contentment.

11. Seek Therapy or Counseling Only if You Feel You Need It

As someone who struggles with anxiety and depression, loving yourself is often much easier said than done.

If you find yourself grappling with self-love, reaching out to a licensed therapist or counselor can provide invaluable support on your journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance.

These professionals possess the expertise to help you navigate the complexities of your thoughts and emotions, offering guidance and insights tailored to your unique experiences.

Through therapy, you can gain a deeper understanding of the underlying factors that contribute to your struggle with self-love, and develop effective strategies to challenge negative beliefs and cultivate self-compassion.

Therapists create a safe and confidential space for you to explore your inner world, offering empathy, validation, and practical tools to promote healing and personal growth.

Seeking professional help is a courageous step towards prioritizing your well-being and can empower you to transform your relationship with yourself, allowing you to develop a genuine and enduring sense of self-love.

12. Learn to Say “No”, It’s Mandatory

Protecting your time and energy requires discernment in accepting commitments that truly align with your priorities and values.

It’s essential to recognize that putting yourself first is not selfish but rather an essential act of caring for yourself.

By respectfully declining requests or obligations that don’t serve your well-being, you honor your own needs and prevent burnout.

I could never say no, and it made self-love much more difficult to attain.

Saying no allows you to create space for activities and relationships that truly nourish and uplift you, people with a lack of self-love will shy away from doing such action. This behavior will empower you to set clear boundaries, prioritize self-care, and live in alignment with your authentic self.

13. Limit Your Social Media Use

Excessive time spent on social media can have a detrimental impact on self-love as it often negatively affects self-worth.

Setting boundaries on social media usage is critical to promoting a healthier relationship with oneself.

By consciously limiting the time you spend scrolling through feeds and engaging in comparison, you create space for self-reflection and self-compassion.

I used to scroll through social media, paying attention to every negative thing that was targeted my way or comparing myself to others I saw leading the perfect lives.

Guess what? It never helped me in any way, shape, or form.

Redirecting that time and energy towards activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul allows you to focus on your own growth and happiness.

By disconnecting from the constant stream of curated lives and embracing your own unique journey, you cultivate a stronger sense of self-love, acceptance, and appreciation for the present moment.

14. Regularly Spend Time in Nature

Nature has a profound impact on mental health, offering a multitude of benefits such as stress reduction, improved mood, and relaxation.

Actively seeking opportunities to spend time outdoors and immerse yourself in the beauty and serenity of the natural world can greatly contribute to your overall well-being.

Whether it’s taking a walk in a nearby park, going for a hike in the mountains, or simply sitting by a peaceful lake, connecting with nature allows you to escape the pressures of daily life and find solace in its tranquility.

The sights, sounds, and scents of nature have a soothing effect on the mind and body, promoting a sense of calm and inner peace.

Engaging with the natural environment also encourages mindfulness and present-moment awareness, grounding you in the here and now.

Of course, this works best if you’re near nature. If you’re a bit far removed like me, you can always grow your own houseplants indoors, look at videos or photos of nature, and find other ways to get your daily dose of nature.

15. Dress The Way That Makes You Feel Good

Choosing clothing that makes you feel confident and comfortable is an important aspect of cultivating self-love.

The clothes you wear have the power to influence your mood, self-perception, and overall confidence.

When you select clothing that aligns with your personal style and makes you feel comfortable in your own skin, it becomes a form of self-expression and a reflection of your authentic self.

Dressing in a way that makes you feel good uplifts your spirit and boosts your self-esteem. It reminds you to honor and appreciate your unique body and personal taste.

By intentionally choosing clothes that make you feel confident, you are embracing self-love by valuing your individuality and presenting yourself to the world in a way that resonates with your true self.

I like to keep things sporty but still fashionable when I’m out and about with my family and friends which helps me shine when I go out. It’s how I stay confident and in love with myself.

16. Invest Time in Hobbies and Interests

Dedicating time to activities that bring you joy and fulfillment is an essential component of self-love.

By carving out regular moments in your schedule for hobbies, passions, and interests, you create a space for personal growth and self-expression.

Engaging in activities you enjoy allows you to tap into your creativity, explore new talents, and experience a sense of accomplishment.

It also provides a break from the demands of daily life, nurturing your mental and emotional well-being.

Although I’m rather busy, I always make time for things that I enjoy doing like writing my own stories or making candles!

Do what enriches your life. 

17. Do 5 Minutes of Deep Breathing and Meditation Daily

Deep breathing and meditation are powerful practices that can have a transformative impact on your well-being and self-love journey.

By consciously engaging in deep breathing exercises and regular meditation, you can reduce stress and anxiety, and cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness.

Deep breathing techniques, such as diaphragmatic breathing or box breathing, help activate the body’s relaxation response, calming the nervous system and promoting a state of inner peace.

Meditation, on the other hand, allows you to observe and detach from your thoughts, creating a sense of mindfulness and presence.

Through these practices, you develop a deeper understanding of your inner landscape, allowing you to cultivate self-compassion, self-acceptance, and a stronger connection with your authentic self.

I’m a big fan of using both, with meditating being my go-to exercise when I’m at home and deep breathing being the perfect exercise for when I need a quick reset when I’m at work or otherwise out of the house.

18. Avoid Toxic Relationships or Walk Away if You’re in One

Safeguarding your emotional well-being involves consciously distancing yourself from toxic or harmful relationships.

Recognizing and acknowledging relationships that drain your energy and negatively impact your self-worth is an important step towards self-love.

By setting boundaries and creating distance from individuals who exhibit toxic behaviors or consistently bring you down, you create space for healthier connections.

Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive, and uplifting individuals can have a profound effect on your self-esteem and overall well-being.

Seek out relationships that energize and inspire you, where you feel valued, accepted, and respected for who you truly are.

I used to solely spend time with people who I thought were fun but who actually said many things behind my back and treated me poorly on occasion.

 Now, I only spend time with people who love me for me.

19. Surround Yourself with Like-Minded People

Spending time with supportive and understanding individuals who share your goals and values is great for your sense of connection and self-acceptance.

Surrounding yourself with like-minded people creates a supportive network that understands and celebrates your aspirations.

Their presence can provide a sense of validation, encouragement, and a shared sense of purpose.

Engaging with individuals who genuinely support your journey nurtures a deeper sense of connection, as you feel accepted and understood for who you are and what you strive for.

These relationships become a safe space where you can openly express yourself, share your challenges, and celebrate your victories.

I started by asking myself, who am I? Then, I looked for spaces where I could find people who would share a similar journey and goals that I could connect with.

20. Set Personal Goals and Track Your Progress

Establishing and actively pursuing personal goals is a powerful tool for boosting your sense of accomplishment and self-worth.

By setting meaningful objectives and working towards them, you create a sense of purpose and direction in your life.

Regularly assessing your progress allows you to track your growth and development, providing a tangible reminder of your capabilities and achievements.

Celebrating both small and significant successes along the way reinforces a positive self-image and cultivates self-love. It serves as a reminder that you are capable, resilient, and deserving of recognition.

I recommend getting started by setting s m a r t goals . These goals help you stay on track, keep you focused on exactly what it is you want, and make it easier to celebrate every milestone until you reach the final lap.

By acknowledging and appreciating your accomplishments, you develop a mindset of self-empowerment and motivation, encouraging you to continue striving for personal growth and fulfillment.

21. Learn New Skills to Advance in Your Life

Engaging in the process of learning new skills can have a profound impact on your self-esteem and experience a sense of achievement.

When you challenge yourself to expand your knowledge and abilities, you embark on a journey of personal growth and discovery.

As you acquire new skills, whether it’s learning a musical instrument, mastering a new language, or acquiring a professional skill, you experience a boost in confidence and a deep sense of accomplishment.

Each milestone reached and each obstacle overcome reinforces your belief in your own capabilities, nurturing a stronger sense of self-love. By actively engaging in the pursuit of knowledge and skill development, you demonstrate self-care and a commitment to your personal growth.

I love learning new skills so much that I make time for at least an hour of a course each day. I also dip my toes into new hobbies every now and again to expand my horizons.

21. Make Time Daily for Self-Reflection

Regular self-reflection is a powerful practice that allows you to gain deep insights into your thoughts, feelings, and actions, aiding your journey toward self-love.

By setting aside dedicated time for introspection, you create an opportunity to evaluate your progress and make necessary adjustments.

Self-reflection helps you become more aware of patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that may be hindering your self-love journey.

It enables you to identify areas where you can improve and develop greater self-compassion.

Self-reflection comes in many forms, but my favorite still remains journaling. It allows me to keep a consistent record of my thoughts, feelings, and personal growth.

If I never need to see how far I’ve come or get advice from old me, I just have to flip the page.

22. Listen to Your Favorite Music

Music has the remarkable ability to influence our mood and mindset, making it an incredible tool for promoting self-love and positivity.

By curating a playlist of songs that inspire and uplift you, you create a personalized soundtrack for your journey toward self-acceptance.

Choose melodies and lyrics that resonate with your aspirations and evoke feelings of empowerment, joy, and self-appreciation.

As you immerse yourself in the melodies, the music acts as a therapeutic outlet, allowing you to connect with your emotions and find solace.

 It serves as a reminder of your strength, resilience, and unique journey. The power of music lies in its ability to create a safe space for self-reflection, healing, and self-expression.

Still, I’ve found that using my own playlists can get quite stale.

If you need something new and exciting to give you a boost during any part of the day, look on platforms like Spotify for something uplifting that someone else created.

23. Have a Self-Care Routine

Prioritizing self-care is essential for nurturing your mind, body, and spirit.

Of course, self-care encompasses nearly everything, from goal-setting to exercise.

I like to start by focusing on certain parts of the day. Say, for example, your mornings.

My mornings consist of getting up, stretching, exercising, then doing some meditation.

Once I’ve meditated, I’ll then jump in the shower and eat a hearty, healthy breakfast before I get started on work.

It hasn’t failed me yet!

24. Learn and Practice Forgiveness Towards Yourself and Others

Acknowledging your mistakes and accepting that everyone is prone to errors is an essential step in cultivating self-love.

Embracing a mindset of self-forgiveness allows you to release the burden of past transgressions and create space for personal growth.

Recognize that making mistakes is a natural part of being human, and they offer valuable lessons and opportunities for self-improvement.

By forgiving yourself, you demonstrate compassion and understanding toward your own imperfections.

Letting go of self-judgment and guilt enables you to move forward with a renewed sense of self-acceptance and love.

I used to judge everything little thing I did that I deemed as bad. Now, I’ve embraced radical forgiveness to move past the minor mistakes I make and work towards the life of love that I deserve.

Embrace the transformative power of forgiveness as a catalyst for growth. It will advance your journey to self-love with openness and compassion.

25. Celebrate Your Achievements, No Matter How Small They Are

Recognizing and celebrating your successes, no matter how small is a powerful practice that can significantly impact your self-esteem.

By consciously acknowledging your accomplishments, you shift your focus toward the positive aspects of your journey. Celebrating even minor milestones cultivates a sense of pride and reinforces your belief in your abilities.

It serves as a reminder that you are capable and deserving of recognition.

I like to celebrate myself by keeping a document open with all the things that I’ve achieved throughout the week. Then, when I’m satisfied with what I’ve accomplished, I’ll treat myself to something small as a reward.

26. Seek Support From Loved Ones That You Can Trust

Reaching out to friends and family for help and encouragement is a valuable aspect of your journey toward self-love.

Recognize that you don’t have to navigate this path alone. Your loved ones can provide support, understanding, and a sense of belonging as you embark on your journey of self-discovery and acceptance.

Sharing your challenges, fears, and triumphs with trusted individuals strengthens your bond and creates a support network that uplifts and empowers you.

Their perspective, guidance, and encouragement can offer valuable insights and inspire self-reflection.

Opening up to others also helps you develop vulnerability, deepening connections and reinforcing the notion that you are deserving of love and support.

27. Take Regular Breaks From Work to Fresh Up Your Mind

I’ve been known to overwork myself. But speaking from experience, burnout is very real , and it doesn’t contribute to a healthier happier you.

In fact, overworking is actually reinforcing the belief that you don’t deserve time and space to yourself.

Allowing yourself time to rest and recharge is important for maintaining your overall well-being.

Regular breaks serve as a vital antidote to stress and prevent burnout by providing an opportunity to replenish your energy reserves.

Take moments of pause to step back, reflect, and prioritize self-care. It gives you the chance to engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, nurturing your mental health.

Better yet, embracing rest and relaxation paves the way for a healthier mindset, increased productivity, and a greater sense of balance in your life.

28. Learn to Manage Stress Effectively

Developing healthy coping strategies is essential for managing stress and nurturing your self-love journey.

Prior to learning self-love, I would turn to a wide range of coping mechanisms to try to get through life, and they weren’t always healthy.

Things like overeating or avoidance prevented me from treating myself with love and care.

But like me, you can turn it around.

You can manage stress more effectively and healthily by incorporating practices like exercise, mindfulness, and effective time management into your day.

29. Find Ways to Help Others

Engaging in acts of kindness and helping others not only benefits those receiving support but also has a profound impact on your own mental health and overall well-being.

Volunteering or offering assistance to those in need can create a sense of purpose and fulfillment, creating a deeper connection with your community.

Helping others promotes feelings of empathy, compassion, and gratitude, which in turn boost your own self-worth and sense of self-love.

It reminds you of the power you possess to make a positive difference in someone else’s life. The act of giving generates a ripple effect, spreading positivity and creating a virtuous cycle of well-being.

In today’s world, you have two ways you can go about this.

I got started by volunteering for various organizations online, but there are plenty of in-person opportunities that are likely available to you if you ask around in your city.

30. Learn to Laugh at Yourself, Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

Developing a sense of humor is a valuable asset in your journey toward self-love.

Embracing lighthearted moments and allowing yourself to laugh not only brings joy and positivity into your life but also helps you navigate tough times with greater resilience.

Laughter has a remarkable ability to reduce stress, uplift your spirits, and promote a sense of well-being.

It allows you to find light in challenging situations, shifting your perspective and enabling you to approach obstacles with a more positive mindset.

It serves as a reminder to embrace imperfections and find beauty in the whimsical and unexpected.

I always get a good chuckle when something unexpected happens, and sometimes I’ll even seek out laughter by watching funny videos online.

So, allow yourself to laugh, find humor in everyday moments, and embrace the transformative power of laughter as an integral part of your self-love journey.

31. Give Yourself Time and Be Patient With Your Progress

Framing self-love as a journey, rather than a destination, is essential for cultivating a sustainable and fulfilling relationship with yourself.

Recognize that it takes time, effort, and dedication to develop a deep sense of self-acceptance and love.

Be patient with yourself as you navigate through ups and downs, setbacks, and triumphs.

Practice self-compassion, extending the same kindness and understanding you would offer to a dear friend, and embrace the process of self-discovery, acknowledging that growth and transformation occur gradually.

After all, if you can’t be patient and kind to yourself, how can you expect to navigate life with joy?

32. Disconnect From Technology Regularly

Unplugging from devices and disconnecting from screens offer a valuable opportunity to cultivate mindfulness and self-love by embracing the present moment.

In a world filled with constant digital distractions, dedicating time each day to detach from screens allows us to fully engage with our surroundings, thoughts, and emotions.

By immersing ourselves in the present moment, we can develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, appreciation, and gratitude for the simple joys of life.

This intentional disconnection enables us to develop a stronger connection with ourselves, enhancing our overall well-being and nurturing a greater sense of self-love and acceptance.

If you’re like me and you’re always on electronics but you want to limit your time, try installing website or app-blocking software . You’ll be amazed at how much personal time you’re able to spend with yourself when you limit your online activity.

33. Love Your Flaws, They Are What Make You Unique

No one is perfect, and it’s vital to accept and embrace your unique qualities, quirks, and flaws.

Self-acceptance is a powerful act of self-love that allows you to recognize and honor your authentic self. By acknowledging and embracing your individuality, you cultivate a sense of self-worth and inner peace.

It used to bother me that I couldn’t be or do everything perfectly. But I soon came to realize that no one can.

Understanding that flaws and imperfections are a natural part of being human empowers you to let go of self-judgment and unrealistic expectations.

Instead, you can celebrate your strengths, talents, and other aspects of yourself, knowing that they make you beautifully and wonderfully unique.

34. Learn to Spend Time Alone With Yourself

Embracing solitude is an essential part of self-love, as it allows you to truly understand and appreciate who you are.

It’s in these moments of peace that you can discover your likes, dislikes, and passions.

Whether it’s enjoying a book on a rainy afternoon or exploring a new hobby, appreciating your own company can open up a new world of self-discovery.

After all, you’re a fascinating person with unique talents and perspectives.

I like to spend some time with myself throughout the week just to get in touch with who I am enjoying an activity I like and doing some of my favorite things like making candles or watching a good show.

Spend some time getting to know yourself better, and you’ll find your own company to be truly enjoyable. Remember, being alone can be a good thing, and it’s certainly not the same as being lonely!

35. Practice Self-Love Affirmations Daily

Repeating positive affirmations daily can be a game-changer in your journey of self-love.

Speaking positive words to yourself, such as “I am worthy, I am capable, I am strong,” can help cultivate a mindset of positivity and self-belief. You’ll be surprised at how this simple practice can transform your outlook and elevate your sense of self-worth.

If you’re like me and you struggle a bit at the beginning, don’t worry. Affirmations can still work for you.

I started with something that was more believable: “I am worthy of love.”

By doing this, I was able to make sure that I was gradually building myself up so that I could confidently repeat some of the affirmations that I wasn’t ready for yet.

36. Work on Creating a Positive Mindset

One of the best decisions I’ve made was to intentionally cultivate a positive mindset.

Whenever I face a challenge, I remind myself of my past victories and use them as a springboard to overcome whatever lies ahead.

I’ve learned that staying positive isn’t about ignoring the negative, but rather understanding that even in adversity, there is potential for growth and learning.

Don’t become bitter and resentful toward the world. Instead, think of every development as an opportunity to challenge yourself and grow.

When you change your mindset, the world around you and the world within you completely transform.

37. Make Your Environment Serene and Uplifting

My home is my sanctuary, a place where I find peace and inspiration.

I’ve made it a point to fill my space with things that uplift me – be it plants, art, or a cozy reading nook.

This tranquil environment acts as a constant reminder of what brings me joy and peace, helping me love myself and my surroundings more.

Make your space a sanctuary that reflects your personality and uplifts your spirit. Fill it with things that bring you joy and help you know and appreciate who you are.

A serene and uplifting environment can serve as a daily reminder of your tastes, interests, and the things you love, helping to develop a sense of self-love.

38. Take a Vacation or Short Break When Needed

Remember, it’s okay to pause when you need to.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, taking a short break or a vacation can do wonders for your well-being. It doesn’t have to be a grand getaway; even a simple day off can refresh your mind and rejuvenate your spirit.

As someone who used to work to the point of burnout and past the point of burnout, doing this does not serve you at all.

In fact, one of the ways I managed to take on more responsibilities at work was by carving little mini-breaks into my day.

Taking a quick walk around the office, warming up a cup of tea to enjoy at my desk, and striking a yoga pose when the door was closed were a few little “me” times I enjoyed that relieved my stress.

It’s really all about paying attention to your mental and physical health and wellness that’s true self-love.

Always listen to your body and mind, and give them the rest they deserve. It’s not an indulgence, but a necessary act of self-love.

39. Respect Your Own Feelings and Intuition

I’ve learned the hard way that dismissing my own feelings and intuition can lead to regret.

Now, I make it a point to listen to that inner voice, trusting in my own judgment and emotions whenever a situation arises. When I feel uncomfortable or uncertain, I step back to reflect and honor those feelings.

Do you have gut feelings that you push down? Do you tend to ignore your intuition when it shows its face?

If so, it’s time to show yourself some love and listen to that inner voice that is so essential to the quality of your life.

Loving Yourself Begins With You

Are you looking for where to start with self-love?

Look no further than the person in front of the mirror. Discovering where to begin with self-love starts with you!

As long as you put the effort in and gradually build up a list of habits that help you love, accept, and appreciate yourself, the life you dream of is more than possible.

After all, where there is self-love, there is endless happiness!

Just remember that as with any new journey, making progress takes time.

Similar to how my daughter’s saxophone journey will take years before she reaches a professional level, gaining greater self-love requires consistent effort.

Soon, you’ll be able to look back at when you used to wonder if you really loved yourself and be able to say that today you truly do!

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you overcome negative self-talk as you work on self-love.

You overcome negative self-talk by acknowledging your negative feeling and letting it go by using your self-love strategies helps you overcome anything!

How does physical exercise help you develop greater self-love?

Physical exercise helps you develop greater self-love by improving your mental health by sending oxygen and endorphins to your brain. You’ll get a confidence boost every time you meet a fitness goal.

How do you practice greater self-compassion to gain deeper self-love?

By choosing to learn from your mistakes and let them go helps you to cultivate a greater sense of self-compassion that helps you along your journey to self-love.

What can I do right now to start a self-love journey?

To start a self-love journey, you’ll need to create a list of what is important in your life and what area in your life you want to make a change for the better. From there, focus on the items that are most important to you and go from there.

How do you know you’ve reached the end of the journey to self-love?

Self-love is a neverending process. You’ll have moments when you need to go back to the early strategies of acknowledging your feelings, and there will be other times when you suddenly realize you gained a deeper insight into why you’re so amazing.

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Self Love , Self Care , Self Improvement · September 29, 2021

How To Start A Self Love Journey For Beginners

Congratulations on taking the first step of learning how to start your self love journey! Read this blog post to learn more on how to navigate the journey of self love.

To give a disclaimer before I begin: I’m young AF. I’m in my early 20s and I mainly know how to start a self love journey from a young person’s perspective. It might be difficult to learn from me if you are older. I feel so weird and awkward giving my 30-something-year-old cousins advice, so… I don’t ever want to be a 20-something life coach. I want to give advice about self love. I truly know how to advise teenagers and 20-somethings.

Disclaimer 2: I honestly recommend getting a therapist. Finding a therapist that works for you does wonderful things for your mental health. After reading this post, please Google, “how to find a therapist” because therapy changed my self-esteem and anxiety tremendously.

I learned that reading all the posts and IG self love quotes is one step out of many when on a self love journey. A self love journey is also continuous.

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How I Started My Self Love Journey

When I turned 20, I told myself that I’m not spending my 20s hating myself just like I did when I was a teenager. I was exhausted and tired of crying myself to sleep, fitting beauty standards that weren’t ever meant for me to fit, overworking, feeling like everyone else is better and prettier than me, and everything else. I was mentally, physically, spiritually, and even somehow mathematically exhausted.

I was closing my third semester of college and I had the worst semester ever. I was trying to fit into a crowd that wasn’t ever going to accept me, took a lot of my professor’s shi*ty attitudes personally, overworking myself to please my then-boss, and felt ugly. It seems like everyone was living their best life and I wasn’t. I felt like a complete failure.

Self love was something I always wanted. I honestly don’t want a million dollars or to be the smartest person in the world or the prettiest either. I want to be so confident and to love myself fully. You have no idea how jealous (and I admit it) I get of people who are so confident (and not the kind of confidence that’s a front to impress others) and full of self-love.

But being a self love journey never honestly ends. It’s almost like a muscle that we always have to take care of.

Here are my self love journey tips:

How To Start a Self Love Journey

1. realizing that you want to change & that you are worthy of self love..

Like I mentioned before, I was tired of hating myself. Hating myself was not getting me anyway and I finally realized it. I read a quote once that went like this, “Hating yourself isn’t getting you anywhere; why not try loving yourself.”

We are generally harder on ourselves and it’s so hard to love ourselves. I know. I’m still learning how to love myself.

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2. Take time to get to know yourself.

This part of the self love journey can go in many directions, but it’s important to know who you want to love aka YOU. Figure out what you like and what you dislike. Create boundaries. Learn your love language .

This part of the self love journey is crucial. I recommend that everyone takes the time to figure out who they are and learn how to accept themselves. It’s difficult and I’m still trying to accept myself (even after a year after writing this blog post) .

3. Take care of your body.

Yes, that includes exercising and eating healthier. I can honestly say that exercising has made me feel more confident about myself. A good 30 minutes of exercising changes my whole day and mood. I may not have my ideal body yet but the fact that my body can move, stretch, sweat, etc. is so amazing.

Aside from exercising, you should change your diet to healthier options. I know that may be a pain in the butt to change your whole diet, but it’s worth it. The foods you eat affect your mood and energy. It is also important to remember in order to care about your body, you have to nourish it. Yes, it’s nice to eat doughnuts and pizza now and then, but it shouldn’t be every day.

Finally, you also need rest. Resting is a huge challenge for me because I love working and doing my hobbies. I find that sometimes resting is the best option for me. If someone you love was working all night until they couldn’t keep their eyes open, you’d most likely tell them that they need to go to bed. You have to know when to tell yourself that.

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4. Start a gratitude journal.

Gratitude is one of the best emotions you can have. When I started my self love journey, I used a small notebook. Now I can probably fill up a college-ruled notebook with things I like about myself and what I’m grateful for. I also included external things and I remember thinking about how great my old college apartment was during my senior year of college and how grateful I was for it.

Understanding what gratitude is can help you on your self love journey because of how you appreciate what you already have.

Update:  I also find gratitude helps out a lot more when you’re consuming tons of social media, especially TikTok or Instagram because of the consumerism and influencers constantly telling you that you need this product or that product or need this to look better. Sure, there are products that may help you, but most of the time influencers recommend products for the check—let’s be honest.

5. Write a list of things you like about yourself.

I know this sounds hard, especially in the beginning. But when I first started my self-love journey, I made myself write a page of things I liked about myself. I challenged myself. Even if I struggled, I finished the page. It’s one of the self love habits that is the hardest. Even though I don’t do it that much anymore, it’s a nice way to begin. You have to like something about yourself (even if it is your taste in music or the way you can draw or if you can do a backflip).

Also, a thing that helped me with my self-esteem is that I realized that I never hated myself when I was younger. I learned how to hate the littlest things about myself due to society’s beauty standards and being told simple things such as hairy legs is a flaw. Remember those beauty companies have to make money so they created random flaws (e.g. thigh gaps, hip dips, etc.) I also realized that most of my insecurities also stem from other people projecting their own onto me.

6. Start with small habits of kindness toward yourself.

Take yourself on dates. Buy things that you love. Save money for a nice vacation. It’s the little things that count. Pay off your credit cards. I recommend getting into the habit of creating habits to help you achieve the life you want. One book that changed my view of habits was Atomic Habits by James Clear . It helps you realize that habits can be good or bad and how doing a small thing every day can yield huge results.

Related:  9 Lessons from Atomic Habits that I Wish I Knew Earlier

7. Work on self-talk.

This is the BIGGEST change I made in my self-love journey. It wasn’t until I went to therapy that I learned what self-talk was. Self-talk essentially is the way that we talk to ourselves. We are always going to be our biggest critics. Changing my self-talk is one self love technique that I always have to do. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m not as critical of myself, but there are times when I feel pressured and self-reject myself, especially at my first job after college.

I recommend trying to find evidence for your thoughts and starting to question them. For example, if you consistently think everyone hates you at your job, then figure out if they really do. I remember this one of the things I was telling myself, but I didn’t have any evidence. I was assuming and catastrophizing (more terms from my therapist).

Basically, work on how you talk to yourself. Most of the thoughts that we have are very black and white or extreme. A majority of our thoughts are not even our own. Our brain picks up on so much each day. 99% of the time people project their insecurities, values, fear, and opinions on us. Speak kindly to yourself. It’s enough that the world makes things hard, don’t add to it….which adds to my next point.

8. Be easier on yourself.

As I mentioned before, it’s hard to love yourself. In a world where we are taught that our natural features are flaws and that some random product will fix it, it’s just hard. It’s not until you realize that most of our flaws aren’t flaws that it gets easier. Society creates such rigid, unrealistic beauty standards that should not even exist. We’re humans. We are going to make mistakes. Most things are out of our control, anyway. We are going to not look perfect. Perfection does not exist.

Simply, be easier on yourself. Do not give yourself impossible expectations.

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9. Reject society’s expectations and pressures and follow your own path.

One of the key steps of being on a self love journey is rejecting society’s expectations for your age, beauty, and lifestyle. Like I mentioned before, society has unrealistic beauty standards and expectations for us. Most of these expectations are outdated and only for the extremely wealthy, lucky, and/or intelligent. We only see the special .00001% of people.

Quit comparing yourself to the 19-year-old millionaire. They probably did not have fun during their teens and had to work every day or had a trust fund.

Quit comparing yourself to the ultra-beautiful girl on Instagram. She may have plastic surgery. She maybe hates her body. Maybe she uses Photoshop (which a lot of influencers use, so PLEASE DON’T COMPARE.)

Quit being jealous of the popular friend group at your school. They probably do not even like each other and only tolerate each other for convenience.

Quit comparing. It steals the joy.

Instead, figure out your own path in life. Again, find yourself. Learn what you love and dislike. If you don’t want a corporate job, then find another job path. Learn how to ignore society’s impossible standards. Also, learn that Instagram and most social media are just people’s highlight reels. Gone are the days of casual and fun social media, sadly.

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10. Surround yourself with positivity.

Listen to motivational videos, follow self love and body positivity accounts on social media, unfollow anyone who makes you feel unworthy, and keep a Pinterest board just for positive quotes. Fight negativity with positivity. Learn how to be realistic with your thoughts and actions instead of jumping to conclusions and thinking the worst. Think about a positive outcome and if that’s too hard for you at first, think of neutrality.

To add, also don’t be delusional about your positivity or get into toxic positivity. I prefer to find practical positivity. For example, I may not be the best, but I’m a hard worker and my best is enough. I’m not the best at this task today, but I can learn how to get better if I keep trying.

Update: I know that a lot of self love prompts and quotes turn into this “Everyone loves me” or “I’m the most beautiful or attractive in the room,” which is fine. I do not want to diss anyone who likes this type of content. But that is a long way from first starting out loving yourself and isn’t addressing if you love yourself internally even if you’re not the most attractive in the room. Because there will be times when you simply aren’t and are you going to be fine with that? I honestly feel like it’s super surface-level. This is a new trend I’ve seen everywhere on social media and think it can be more useful. Instead, the quote can be “I love me,” “I’m beautiful in my own way” or “I’m beautiful according to my personalized beauty standards.”

11. Learn your love language.

During my first self love journey, I wrote down affirmations daily and journaled a lot. I also listened to positive videos. This helped me a lot because my love language is words of affirmation.

Find out what your love language is and self love exercises and activities for it.

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12. Realizing that material items don’t mean much.

A ton of self love/self care content centers on buying this and that. But I will tell you that I got caught in spending tons of money on material items that later did not matter. Yes, buy those face masks for Self Care Sunday and buy yourself a nice outfit now and then.

But DO NOT rely on materialism. A lot of self love and care content tells you to buy whatever. But are you coping with life through shopping sprees and retail therapy?

You don’t need a designer bag or fancy sports car for self love. You need to work on your thoughts, habits, and self image.

13. Set standards for every aspect of your life.

It’s common for people to say set standards for dating, but really we need standards everywhere. Even for things such as eating, socializing, and how you treat yourself. One thing that was personally hard for me was sticking to my standards. If I didn’t want to buy produce at a certain store, I didn’t. It’s hard when you have limited options, but have standards.

This even goes as far as what thoughts you tolerate and the habits you have. Create standards for both external and internal things. It’s not being picky, but it’s realizing what you like and what you don’t want. You don’t owe anyone anything.

You don’t have to work at this job. You don’t have to lower your dating standards. You don’t have to hang out with those people. Set standards and stick to them.

14. Do a lot of self-reflecting.

Journal. Journal. Journal. Be with yourself. This is where you truly learn about yourself. Question your insecurities and projections. Figure out if you are settling or if you are leveling up.

15. Realize that going on a self love journey is not easy.

There is a lot of heartbreak and healing when it comes to a self love journey. You can look up all the self love activities and tips, but you need to realize that it takes commitment and work. It’s not easy. You’ll have times when you realize that you felt like you wasted so much time. You’ll realize that you need to go back to the drawing board. There are times when you think you’re good, but really not. You really need to sit back and realize that you are taking a huge step towards undoing a lot of what you learned and changing habits.

16. Commit to self love.

Over the summer, I realized I needed to adjust and get back on my self love journey. 2020 was rough and 2021 was rougher for me. I graduated college and had tons of anxiety because I was distracting myself from the fact that I was no longer a student and my life was centered around being a student. I had a lot of regrets and felt like a failure. I was constantly comparing and looking at people’s Instagram.

I failed to commit to self love and putting myself first. I was so caught up in what others were doing that I wasn’t even realizing the things I had. I lacked patience, abundance, and self-compassion.

I recommend really sitting and realizing that self love is a commitment. It’s a muscle that you have to work out. It’s like a plant that you have to water. It’s realizing that self love isn’t all rainbows and butterflies.

17. Self love is continuous.

Originally, I wrote this blog post back in 2021, and about a year and a half later, things later. I’m older, a little wiser, and more of an adult. I think that now I realize that a self love journey is really a journey. It never stops. Similar to the last point, self love is a commitment and it’s an important commitment that we promise ourselves. Now, that I’m looking back and reflecting, I think that we always need to check in ourselves. I thought for a while that I was at peak self love and that it’ll stay, but it dropped and I had to get back on a focused self love path. I think that we need to realize that self love isn’t a one time thing we do, but it should be ingrained in our habits and for us to continuously work on.

Overall, I recommend starting out with a 30-day self love journey challenge and reflecting on it. Take it easy and be easy on yourself.

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Also, I recommend listening to BTS’s Love Yourself album or even one song. This album honestly is what made me revive my self-love journey over the summer. I listen to that album a lot to remind myself that I have reasons to love myself. I recommend checking out my blog post about BTS self-love songs because their music honestly is so moving and deeper than you’d ever expect.

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Every Single Love Comes Softly Movies (In Release Order)

• November 20, 2021 February 14, 2022

Love Comes Softly television film series tells a beautiful Christian tale of family, love, and faith.  Here is the list of all Love Comes Softly movies in order of release

The Love Comes Softly movies in order

• Love Comes Softly (2003)
• Love’s Enduring Promise (2004)
• Love’s Long Journey (2005)
• Love’s Abiding Joy (2006)
• Love’s Unending Legacy (2007)
• Love’s Unfolding Dream (2007)
• Love Takes Wing (2009)
• Love Finds a Home (2009)
• Love’s Christmas Journey (2011)
• Love Begins (2011)
• Love’s Everlasting Courage (2011)

About Love Comes Softly Movie Series

In 1979,  Janette Oke  came out with a novel titled “ Love Comes Softly “, the book was a huge hit and made the character Marty Claridge popular, further Janette Oke continued publishing more novels in the series.

In 2003,  Hallmark  came out with a film based on “Love Comes Softly” book series with the same name starring Katherine Heigel in the lead. The film told the story of Widow Marty Claridge finding love again.

The film became a huge success and got spawned into sequels after sequels.

Love Comes Softly Movies in Order: What is the Order of Love Comes Softly Movies?

Marty Claridge travels to the east with her husband for good fortune but things become really difficult for her when her husband dies. For convenience, she temporarily marries another widow man in the town which starts a completely new chapter in her life.

How Many Movies are in the Love Comes Softly Series?

To date, There are eleven Love Comes Softly series that tells the tale of Marty, Clark and their family.

Do You Need To Watch Love Comes Softly Movies In Order?

All Love Comes Softly films are connected to each other and the entire series involves prequels and plots that can only be understood if you have watched previous films. To properly understand and enjoy the series, it is important to watch Love comes Softly movies in order.

What Order Should I Watch Love Comes Softly?

You can either watch Love Comes Softly series in release order or in chronological order. The best way to watch Love Comes Softly series is to watch them in release order so that you don’t spoil the suspense.  Here is the list of all Love Comes Softly movies in order of release

Marty and Aaron Claridge move to the west in search of a bright future but in Tragedy, Aaron dies leaving Marty a widow and she cannot go back home because of the approaching winter season. She asks for him from Ben Graham and his wife Sarah who advises her to join recently-widowed Clark Davis for a temporary marriage.

Marty agrees and starts to live with Clark and his nine-year-old daughter. Initially, it becomes challenging for the three of them but as time passes they share their emotions and hardship with each other and develop a strong bond.

Love’s Enduring Promise (2004)

Missie Davis has grown up and currently, she is working as an elementary school teacher. She is very beautiful and she loves her novels more than anything. Everything is going fine in Missie’s life but when she meets Grant, a handsome New England railroad executive she gets attracted to him.

Meanwhile, Nate appears and tells Missie about his feeling for her, Now it’s up to Missie to choose a guy whom she loves to choose a guy who helps her family in difficult situations.

Love’s Long Journey (2005)

After her marriage with Willie, Missie suddenly gets pregnant, and with Willie starts her new adventure which will bring many challenges and thrills in her life. Willie and Missie leave their parent’s house and travels towards the west to work for their dreams.

Willie is excited to start his dream Lahaye ranch in the Wild West while Missie is missing her teaching days and her family but she has to concentrate on her pregnancy.

Love’s Abiding Joy (2006)

Willie and Missie LaHaye have settled in the far West, Willie is taking care of the family while with sons Jeff and Matthew he is expanding his family ranch. Missie is planning to start teaching again and in between, they get the news of the frontier railroad comes to town.

Missie is very happy as she can meet her father again but all the family gets crumbled when their young daughter Kathy dies due to a tragedy.

Love’s Unending Legacy (2007)

After two years of the death of her husband, while working as the sheriff of Tettsford Junction, Missie leaves her job as a school teacher that she loved the most and resigns herself from the ranch to let her sons and their wife run the ranch jointly.

Further, then she travels back to her hometown to live with her parents Clark and Marty Davis with her 10-year-old son, Mattie.

Love’s Unfolding Dream (2007)

The little girl Belinda Tyler, which Missie adopted her grew up now and has a dream to become a doctor but society doesn’t accept a girl to work in the medical field. Belinda is a tough girl and proves that she is fit for the profession but working with local doctors.

while working in the town, meets Drew who wants to practice law and doesn’t want to stay in the unsophisticated town, Belinda feels for him now she has to choose between her love and her dream.

After the death of her husband, Belinda is very sad and he is not able to forget the happy moments she had with her husband. To come out from the memories of her husband, she moves to a small Missouri town and takes on the job of a local doctor.

Soon, Belinda learns that the town is fighting with an infection, she teams up with her friend Annie and Lee Owens to find the cure.

While Peter is on his job, his wife Dr. Annie Watson is pregnant and is living with her best friend, Dr. Belinda Owens. She takes care of Annie with all that she has learned but Annie’s mother-in-law Mary is creating trouble for her by her own folksy wisdom.

Belinda has to take care of Annie while fighting her own family problems.

After the death of her daughter and husband, Ellie King is a window and is alone, she keeps remembering the good time she spent with her family. To come out of her loss, Ellie decides to visit her brother Aaron Davis so that she can celebrate Christmas with Aaron and his family.

Ellie starts to feel better at Aaron’s home but her problem increases when Aaron travels out of town to purchase land and doesn’t return back.

Clark is a very handsome guy and has big dreams in his eyes, he wants to go out of the town to travel the world. One day while sitting in a local cafe he starts to fight with one of his friends.

The fight results in damaging the entire cafe and now he has to pay for it. He starts to work as a farmhand for Ellen and Cassie so that he can pay the price for what he has damaged.

A young family has a dream of going and settling in the western frontier but doesn’t have enough money. The wife and the husband decide to work hard to make but the wife dies while working at a seamstress shop.

Now the husband has money but is deeply sad with the tragic loss and is struggling to take care of his small child.

Love Comes Softly Movies In Chronological Order

Love Comes Softly movies were not released according to the storyline, hence the chronological and release order of the series is different. If you want to watch Love Comes Softly movies in a linear timeline then  here is the list of all Love Comes Softly Movies In Chronological Order

Is there a sequel to Love’s Unfolding Dream?

After  Love’s Unfolding Dream (2007) , in 2009 hallmark released a direct sequel titled  Love Takes Win g  which continued the story further.

Which Love Comes Softly Movie is the Best?

Love Comes Softly is a Christian story of the 19’s and a popular creation from Hallmark. The series has an amazing story of love and romance but out of all eleven Love Comes Softly movies which one is the best?  Here is a quick round-up of all Love Comes Softly movies based on IMDb ratings.

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Based on Janette Oke’s book series, Hallmark premiered a series of movies that told the story of an amazing story of love, family, and life. you can either watch the series in chronological order or in release order, both ways it’s perfectly fine.

You can watch the series on  amazon prime . Here in this article, I have listed all movies in release order and in chronological order which you can follow to watch the series.

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The Journey Begins: First Impressions

• Episode aired Mar 20, 2018

An expert matchmaker brings four couples comprised of eight strangers together for a 30-day, cross-country test of endurance, stamina and compatibility, with the hopes they will eventually e... Read all An expert matchmaker brings four couples comprised of eight strangers together for a 30-day, cross-country test of endurance, stamina and compatibility, with the hopes they will eventually end up at the altar. An expert matchmaker brings four couples comprised of eight strangers together for a 30-day, cross-country test of endurance, stamina and compatibility, with the hopes they will eventually end up at the altar.

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• March 20, 2018 (United States)
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