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• Vacances en famille en Normandie
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• Week-end à moins de 3h Bordeaux

Réservez vos Vacances en Famille Monoparentale en France

Vous souhaitez partir en famille en vacances monoparentales ? Nous avons pensé à vous ! Familytrip vous a dégoté des bons plans pour voyager seul(e) avec des enfants à prix réduit. Évadez-vous grâce à nos tarifs parent solo pour vos prochaines vacances avec enfants ! Camping, village vacances, résidence, hôtel, location insolite... Il y en a pour tous les goûts !

752 hébergements

Pont-Royal en Provence

Entre Alpilles et Luberon, le village a tout pour plaire : clubs enfants, espace Aqua-ludique, golf, centre équestre... le bonheur en famille ! OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Club enfants et ados offert pendant les Vacances de Pâques, Eté et Toussaint OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Pack bébé offert pour tout séjour d'au moins 2 nuits jusqu'au 31 juillet 2024

• Formules restauration
• Clubs bébés dès 3 mois et clubs enfants
• Espace Aqua-ludique avec jeux

9 km de l'hébergement

Rendez-vous animaliers quotidiens, oiseaux en vol libre, nourrissage, et journées spéciales pour la conservation des espèces menacées, le Zoo de La Barben vous attend pour vous faire découvrir plus de 130 espèces d'animaux ! Partez à la rencontre des 650 mammifères, oiseaux et reptiles du parc pour une sortie en famille qui ravira les petits comme les plus grands.

40 km de l'hébergement

Alliez le charme de la Provence aux sensation fortes ! Le Wave Island de Monteux est le parc Aquatique de la région avec 17 attractions adaptées à chaque tranche d'âge. Les petits bouts se régalent au Kids Island tandis que les plus grand jouent les intrépides dans les vagues de Da Wave... Le parc est ouvert de fin mai à début septembre !

Village Cap Esterel

Un séjour de rêve en famille ? Découvrez le Village Club Cap Esterel à 700 m des plages et profitez des clubs et des multiples activités OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Club enfants offert pendant les Vacances de Pâques, Eté et Toussaint OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Pack bébé offert pour tout séjour d'au moins 2 nuits jusqu'au 31 juillet 2024

• Clubs enfants et bébés de 3 mois à 17 ans
• Plage à 700 m, accès à pied ou en petit train
• Espace Aquatique avec bassins et jeux

10 km de l'hébergement

Le Zoo de Fréjus est l'un des plus beaux parcs animaliers de la région Paca ! Les enfants adorent participer au nourrissage des animaux ainsi qu'aux animations qui se déroulent toute la journée.

32 km de l'hébergement

Découvrez les ours polaires, assistez à des spectacles avec des orques, des dauphins ou encore des manchots ! Marineland regroupe des aquariums, des spectacles d’animaux, un parc aquatique et un parc d'attractions pour les enfants ! Tout y est pour une sortie en famille réussie !

30 km de l'hébergement

Glissez et profitez en famille au Parc Aquatique Aquasplash avec ses nombreux toboggans et piscines. Aquasplash est situé à Antibes et constitue un lieu idéal pour vivre une journée mêlant plaisir, adrénaline et détente !

Normandy Garden

A 10 km de Deauville, découvrez le plaisir de vacances en famille au Normandy Garden : bulle aquatique, aire de jeux couverte... à 2h de Paris en Normandie ! OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Club enfants offert pendant les Vacances de Pâques, Eté et Toussaint OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Pack bébé offert pour tout séjour d'au moins 2 nuits jusqu'au 31 juillet 2024

• Bulle aquatique
• Restaurant sur place
• Aire de jeux couverte

23 km de l'hébergement

Premier parc de loisirs en Normandie, le Zoo de Cerza est un incontournable pour votre séjour en famille ! Vous y trouvez plus de 1000 animaux sauvages en semi-liberté sur 60 hectares. Les attractions phares du parc : le safari-train, le cinéma en 3D-relief, l'espace tropical ou encore la mini-ferme : un espace conçu pour favoriser le contact avec les animaux !

33 km de l'hébergement

Le plus grand parc d'attractions de Normandie vous ouvre ses portes pour faire le plein de sensations fortes ! Venez revivre l'histoire Normande autour de 4 univers : Belle Époque, Vikings, Pirates et Chevaliers .

11 km de l'hébergement

Profitez d'une pause détente à la Thalasso de Deauville située en bord de plage. Des massages pour petits et grands (à partir de 6 ans), individuels ou en duo. A réserver au minimum 15 jours à l'avance.

Village Belle Dune

A 10 km de la Baie de Somme, l'Eco-Village de Belle Dune est un véritable écrin de verdure à 2h30 de Paris. OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Club enfants offert pendant les Vacances de Pâques, Eté et Toussaint OFFRE SPÉCIALE : Pack bébé offert pour tout séjour d'au moins 2 nuits jusqu'au 31 juillet 2024

• Complexe aqualudique chauffé
• Club enfant de 3 à 17 ans
• Eco-village piétonnier

7 km de l'hébergement

Parc ornithologique, ce site d'observation d'oiseaux reconnu dans toute l'Europe est situé au cœur de la Réserve Naturelle de la Baie de Somme. Un lieu privilégié pour l’observation de la nature et des espèces animales et végétales.

14 km de l'hébergement

Partez à la découverte de la Baie, de ses milieux, son histoire et son devenir. Un voyage initiatique et ludique oscillant entre émerveillement, observation et éducation.

18 km de l'hébergement

Classés Jardin Remarquable, les Jardins de Valloires sont des jardins paysagers contemporains s'étendant sur une superficie de 8 hectares. Créés par Gilles Clément, ils viennent valoriser l'Abbaye Cistercienne d'Argoules datant du XIIème siècle. Ouverts d'avril à novembre, observez l'évolution de ce jardin botanique au fil des saisons, pour une sortie en famille ludique et passionnante !

16 km de l'hébergement

Effectuez un incroyable voyage dans le temps au Musée Picarvie ! Découvrez la vie dans un authentique village picard au XIXe siècle au travers de 40 métiers qui sont présentés et animés par une collection de plus de 6000 outils : l'atelier du serrurier ou celui du maréchal ferrant, l'échoppe du vannier, l'école et ses pupitres en bois, le café où trône le gramophone...

Holiday Green

Vous séjournez à Fréjus sur la Côte d'Azur dans un domaine 5* à quelques kilomètres des plages où vous avez le choix entre vacances reposantes ou actives !

• Parc aquatique
• Clubs enfants
• Piscine intérieure

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Ski nautique, wakeboard, baby-ski, bouées tractées, bateaux sans permis, pédalo… sur le dynamique port des Issambres! De quoi faire le bonheur des plus petits comme des plus grands.

Cerza Safari Lodge

Inspiré des réserves africaines, le Cerza Safari Lodge vous accueille en Normandie pour un week-end ou des vacances en famille insolites au sein d'un immense parc zoologique de 60 hectares !

• Séjour original type safari
• Zoo de 60 hectares à visiter
• Bulle tropicale et mini-ferme

25 km de l'hébergement

Camping Montana Parc Gassin Golfe de St Tropez

Sur une colline surplombant le Golfe de St-Tropez, au pied du village typique de Gassin, le Camping Parc Montana **** vous accueille au sein d'un parc arboré de 31ha

• Animations pour toute la famille
• Parc aquatique avec toboggan
• Plage à 3 km

29 km de l'hébergement

Camping Les Palmiers

Entre le port de Hyères et le port de l'Ayguade, le Camping Les Palmiers vous ouvre ses portes à seulement 300m de la plage pour des vacances sous le soleil Varois

• Espace aquatique avec toboggans
• Plage accessible à pied
• Clubs enfants et animations

Découvrez en famille le parc animalier et botanique de Sanary-sur-Mer. Serval, flamant rouge, suricate, caïman à lunettes ou encore lémurien seront vos compagnons pendant cette parenthèse bucolique.

Pour des vacances en famille à proximité des plages, choisissez le Camping Les Biches, avec ses logements tout confort et ses nombreuses activités pour petits et grands

• Parc aquatique avec toboggans
• Première plage à 4,5km
• Clubs enfants de 6 à 12 ans

31 km de l'hébergement

Une sortie au Zoo lors de vos vacances en famille c'est l'émerveillement assuré pour petits et grands. L'écozoo des Sables vous présente des espèces locales et plus exotiques, tout en sensibilisant à l’écologie et à la préservation de la faune et de la flore. Nous vous souhaitons une belle découverte !

Cottages du Valjoly

Sur la frontière Franco-Belge, les Cottages du Valjoly vous accueillent pour vos week-ends et vacances en famille dans un cadre naturel préservé avec accès à un centre aquatique

• Accès au centre Aquatica
• Séjour dans un parc naturel
• Nombreuses activités nautiques

Envie d'un weekend ou de vacances insolites dans un cadre préservé ! ? Le village vacances de DefiPlanet' concentre hébergements (cabane, roulotte...) et activités insolites pour un séjour sous le signe de l'aventure !

• Hébergements insolites
• Piscine intérieure et extérieure
• Parc d'attractions ludo-éducatif (fermé jusqu'au printemps 2024)

28 km de l'hébergement

Faites un saut dans le futur en visitant le Parc du Futuroscope ! Des attractions qui plairont à toute la famille, les plus grands comme les plus petits, pour une sortie en famille insolite et pleine de sensations !

La Vallée des Singes est constituée de sentiers ombragés, de cours d’eau et de cascades et vous invite à une exploration unique. Un site touristique à découvrir en famille dans la Vienne, où vous pourrez observer de très près les gorilles, chimpanzés, bonobos... Au total, rencontrez 34 espèces de singes et assistez à leur nourrissage dans un cadre naturel préservé.

La Vallée du Paradis

Le Camping La Vallée du Paradis est situé à Agay à quelques minutes de Saint-Raphaël à seulement 600 mètres des plages de sable de la Méditerranée ! Sur place : parc aquatique, clubs enfants et animations font le bonheur de toute la famille !

• Parc aquatique avec toboggans et pataugeoire
• Clubs enfants de 4 à 12 ans inclus
• Plages de sable à 600 mètres

Camping Taxo Les Pins

Au coeur d'une pinède, le camping Taxo Les Pins **** vous accueille en famille dans un cadre idéal avec piscine, toboggan et animations pour petits et grands

• Formule en location
• Grande piscine avec toboggan
• Club enfant de 6 à 12 ans (selon périodes d'ouverture)

Camping Le Nid d’Été

Venez découvrir en famille Sables d’Olonne, à seulement 2,5 km des plages !

• Plage à 2,5km
• Moments en famille
• Piscine et pataugeoire chauffées

6 km de l'hébergement

Camping Les Tamaris

Le camping club Les Tamaris***** vous accueille au coeur d'un vaste terrain arboré et fleuri de 17 hectares pour des vacances sous le signe du soleil et de la mer !

• La plage à 2 km
• Le grand parc aquatique avec toboggans
• Les clubs enfants pour les enfants de 4 à 17 ans

Une sortie dans un des plus beaux parcs zoologiques de France. Entre Narbonne et Perpignan, plus de 3000 animaux sont à découvrir sur 300ha pour une immersion totale dans les grandes plaines africaines ! Au cours de ce véritable safari, les enfants adoreront voir au plus près les éléphants, lions, girafes et crocodiles !

Camping La Croix du Sud

Séjournez en famille au Camping La Croix du Sud dans une ambiance conviviale à seulement 600 m de la plage

• Plage à 600m
• Piscine avec toboggans

Camping Beau Rivage

Un camping calme et familial, pour profiter pleinement de vos vacances les pieds dans l'eau à Mèze au bord du bassin de Thau, en Occitanie. Un cadre idyllique avec piscine et aires de jeux

• Le Bungat Club pour les enfants de 6 à 12 ans du lundi au vendredi
• Les airs de jeux
• Les activités sportives

Embarquez pour un voyage de 2h30 à la découverte des merveilles des mondes marins. Plus de 400 espèces et 30 000 animaux marins attendent vos yeux ébahis à Montpellier, dont des requins, des manchots ou des poissons tropicaux et méditerranéens.

44 km de l'hébergement

Un Requinarium unique en Europe dédié à l’un des prédateurs les plus redoutables de l'océan ! Découvrez un espace muséographique de 1000m² et près de 30 espèces de squales évoluant dans des aquariums géants dont un sur 2 étages. Un parcours aussi ludique que pédagogique a été imaginé avec des jeux et des vidéos ; c'est la sortie idéale en famille pour apprendre tout en s'amusant !

Camping Le Logis

Vacances au grand air en famille : activités, animations, confort et détente, c'est tout ce qui vous attend au camping Le Logis !

• Club enfants en juillet/août
• Première plage à 600m

B'O Cottage Résidence

Bienvenue en Normandie en Famille entre lacs et forêts à la résidence B'O Resort de Bagnoles de l'Orne avec piscines intérieures, spa d'exception et clubs enfants sur place

• Deux piscines intérieures
• Espace aqualudique, pataugeoire et jeux d'eau pour les enfants
• Espace spa à 300 mètres avec parcours détente

Center Parcs Domaine du Lac d'Ailette

Profitez d'un séjour exceptionnel en famille, entre activités de nature et bulle aquatropicale : bienvenue au Center Parcs le Domaine du Lac d'Ailette !

• NOUVEAU : des activités bien-être avec Dr.Good !®
• Lac de 140 hectares et plage
• Accès illimité à l'espace aquatique

Collines de Sainte-Féréole

Bienvenue en Corrèze à la Résidence Les Collines de Sainte-Féréole qui regorge d'activités pour les enfants où vous séjournez en lodges troglodytes avec vue imprenable sur la campagne alentours !

• Piscine extérieure chauffée
• Grands cottages
• Tennis et étang de pêche

Les Gorges de l'Hérault

La Résidence Park et Suites village vous accueille dans l'Hérault à Brissac pour un séjour réussi en famille au cœur du Parc National des Cévennes !

• Piscine couverte chauffée
• Karting dans la résidence
• Aire de jeux pour les tout petits

38 km de l'hébergement

Domaine des Mauriers

Située sur la côte en Haute-Bretagne, la cité corsaire abrite des trésors inimaginables. Face aux îles anglaises de Jersey et Guernesey, à deux pas du Mont Saint Michel et des tranquilles stations balnéaires de Cancale ou Dinard, cet été, votre visite à St-Malo sera placée sous le signe des découvertes !

• Grand Aquarium de Saint-Malo
• Piscines chauffées
• Salle de remise en forme

Ne manquez pas le Grand Aquarium de Saint-Malo. Sur place tout y est pour que les enfants passent un moment inoubliable. Ce sont au total plus de 5000 poissons à découvrir en famille. Découvrez le bassin aux requins avec une vue à 360° et faites une ballade en nautibus : un mini sous-marin qui ravira les petits comme les grands. Une immersion totale dans le monde marin !

Résidence L’Écrin des Neiges

A seulement 100m des remontées mécaniques découvrez cette résidence L’Écrin des Neiges dans le département de l'Isère pour des vacances en famille !

• Piscine intérieure chauffée
• Résidence à 100 m des remontés mécaniques
• Ecole de ski à 150 m de la résidence

Chalets de Flambeau

La résidence 4* vous accueille à 100 m des pistes pour vos vacances en famille l'été comme l'hiver avec piscine intérieure chauffée, pataugeoire, spa, salle de sport et salle de jeux !

• Piscine intérieure et pataugeoire chauffée
• Espace bien-être
• Front de neige et télésiège à 100 m
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Parent solo, nous vous proposons des séjours faits pour vous !

Préparez votre départ en vacances en famille monoparentale et réservez votre séjour dans un de nos hébergements ! Camping, résidence, village club, hôtel... Nous vous avons sélectionné des séjours dans toute la France dont les prix sont adaptés aux familles monoparentales pour vos prochaines vacances avec vos enfants !

En fonction de votre projet de séjour, nous vous proposons des hébergements disposants d'infrastructures de loisirs et de détente aux quatre coins de la France : à la plage, au ski, ou dans l’arrière-pays français. Quelle que soit la destination qui vous fait envie, nous vous conseillons un hébergement en adéquation avec vos attentes.

En été, réservez un hébergement en bord de plage, sur le littoral du pays, pour profiter de l'air marin en famille ! Bébé, enfant et ado pourront apprécier les loisirs des bords de plage : châteaux de sable, baignade, sport nautique ou farniente... Il y en a pour tous les goûts !

En fin ou début d’année, partez en famille au sport d'hiver et appréciez les descentes des pistes de skis en famille. Nous vous avons sélectionné des hébergements adaptés aux familles monoparentales pour bénéficier de prix avantageux. Bébé, enfant et ado profiteront de cours de ski pendant que papa ou maman glissera sur les pistes rouges et noires, se reposera dans l'espace détente et spa ou se prélassera au bord de la piscine chauffée.

Nous nous engageons à proposer toutes sortes d'hébergements, du camping au village club en passant par l'hôtel et la résidence afin de satisfaire tous les budgets... Chez Familytrip, que vous soyez un papa ou une maman solo, vous trouverez forcément le séjour qui réchauffera le cœur votre famille ! Nous vous proposons des séjours avec club enfants pour permettre à vos enfants et ados de se faire de nouveaux amis et de bénéficier d'une multitudes activités. De nombreux établissements avec piscine chauffée et parc aquatique vous attendent également. Cela permettra aux parents solos de passer d'agréables moments avec les enfants à barboter dans l'eau et à faire des courses de toboggans !

Parent solo, vous aussi vous avez besoin de vacances et d'un moment de détente ! Prenez du temps pour vous au bord de la plage, de la piscine chauffée ou offrez-vous un moment de relaxation dans l'espace détente et spa. En vacances, les enfants ne sont pas les seuls à pouvoir profiter d'activités, certains de nos hébergements proposent également des activités et animations pour adultes ! Pour encore plus de détente, réserver un hébergement en formule restauration et séjournez dans une chambre tout confort ! Les parents solos ont eux-aussi le droit de se reposer et de prendre du temps pour soi en vacances ! Partir en vacances dans une résidence club ou un village vacances offre aux familles monoparentales un moyen de profiter pleinement des vacances : entre les activités de chacun et les moments en famille, il y aura toujours du temps pour permettre à papa ou maman de se reposer.

Si vous êtes à la tête d'une famille monoparentale, n'hésitez pas à nous appeler pour réserver et préparer votre départ en vacances. Chez Familytrip, nous avons à cœur de satisfaire toutes les familles, y compris les familles monoparentales ! Nous vous conseillons pour trouver la destination de vacances qui vous convient.

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Nos conseils pour partir en vacances quand on est parent solo

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Ce n’est pas un secret : partir en vacances avec des enfants ne rime pas toujours avec repos, surtout quand on est parent solo ! Et pourtant, vous en rêvez de ces vacances en famille pour vous détendre et profiter de vos enfants. Mais, en tant que parent célibataire, vous redoutez l’organisation du séjour et de devoir jongler entre les activités pour faire plaisir à toute la fratrie. Bref, vous vous sentez un peu dépassé(e). Pas de panique ! Pierre et Vacances a tout prévu pour accueillir les familles monoparentales. Notre objectif : que vous passiez des vacances mémorables !

Comment partir en vacances quand on est parent solo

S’organiser en toute simplicité.

Les vacances des familles monoparentales peuvent demander un chouia plus d’organisation qu’en couple. Alors, pour profiter au maximum, on mise sur le minimalisme et la simplicité en prenant uniquement l’essentiel ! N’hésitez pas à faire des listes de tout ce que vous souhaitez emporter durant vos vacances pour partir l’esprit léger et gagner du temps.

Choisir une destination proche

En tant que maman ou papa célibataire, nous vous suggérons des vacances dans une région proche de chez vous. Vous éviterez ainsi les trajets infinis accompagnés des sempiternelles « Quand est-ce qu’on arrive ? ». De très belles destinations de vacances se trouvent à moins de 4 h de chez vous et vous y trouverez toujours un village ou une résidence Pierre et Vacances pour un séjour d’une semaine (et plus si affinités). N’oubliez pas que bien souvent, les enfants apprécient les choses les plus simples : jouer sur la plage ou barboter dans une piscine font leur bonheur !

Sélectionner un lieu qui propose des activités ou un club enfant

Optez pour un village vacances avec club enfant et animations. Vos enfants pourront ainsi s’amuser, découvrir de nouvelles activités et se faire de nouveaux amis dans un cadre sécurisant. Pendant ce temps, vous ferez une pause bien méritée. Une fois vos batteries rechargées, vous aurez l’occasion de partager des activités en famille.

Solliciter des aides financières

Les familles monoparentales ont souvent un budget serré. C’est pourquoi partir en vacances dans un village vacances où (presque) tout est inclus se révèle être une excellente option pour maîtriser ses dépenses. Enfin, pour offrir à vos enfants les vacances dont ils rêvent, pensez à vérifier les aides financières dont vous pourriez bénéficier. N’oubliez pas non plus de réserver le plus tôt possible vos vacances pour bénéficier de nos offres à petits prix.

Où partir en vacances avec ses enfants quand on est seul ?

Nos villages en france :.

Faites vos valises, on vous attend dans les Landes, au Village Moliets . Ici, « vacances » rime avec plaisirs aquatiques ! Vous aurez le choix entre les eaux calmes de nos 4 piscines ou les vagues de l’Atlantique que vous pourrez rejoindre grâce à une balade à vélo dans la pinède. Envie de souffler ? Notre club enfant prend le relai et vos adolescents passeront de bons moments au SpOt. Le petit plus ? Vous n’aurez qu’à mettre les pieds sous la table grâce à nos forfaits restaurations.

À 2 h de Paris, nous vous invitons dans notre Village Normandy Garden , à deux pas de Deauville, Honfleur et Cabourg. Que le soleil brille à l’horizon ou que le ciel soit gris, vous pourrez vous prélasser dans les eaux chaudes de notre parc aqualudique couvert et dans son lagon extérieur. Lors de vos vacances, vos enfants auront la joie de s’amuser dans notre club enfant ou au SpOt. En famille, vous aurez l’occasion de vous adonner à vos activités favorites ou explorer les villes normandes de la côte.

En attendant, et pour vous aider à choisir votre destination, nous avons sélectionné pour vous nos villages les plus adaptés pour des vacances monoparentales . Que diriez-vous d’une semaine de vacances en Guadeloupe ou en Espagne à prix doux ?

La formule « Lit fait + petit-déjeuner » pour vous simplifier la vie !

La charge mentale des familles monoparentales est mise à rude épreuve. Alors, pour alléger votre quotidien le temps des vacances, nous vous proposons notre formule « Lit fait à l’arrivée + petit-déjeuner » (anciennement Bed & Breakfast). Comme à l’hôtel, vous n’aurez pas à vous préoccuper du ménage et votre linge sera changé régulièrement. Chaque matin, vous savourerez un petit-déjeuner préparé par l’un de nos partenaires. Quel bonheur !

Pour profiter de ce service, nous vous conseillons notre Résidence Les Restanques du Golfe de Saint-Tropez . Ici, vous irez de surprise en surprise. Son cadre naturel et ses hébergements avec vue sur la Méditerranée vous offrent un lieu idéal pour des vacances en famille. Son espace aquatique de 1600 m² fera le bonheur des enfants comme des adultes. Vous aurez le plaisir de barboter toute la journée dans sa piscine à vagues. À moins que vous ne préfériez lézarder sur la plage située à 3 km !

Du côté de l’Atlantique, vous vous installerez dans notre Résidence premium Haguna de Biarritz. Si vous rêviez de vous initier au surf avec vos enfants, c’est le moment idéal ! Vous pourrez profiter de votre semaine de vacances pour apprendre à dompter les vagues en famille. Puis, pour vous remettre de vos émotions, vous aurez le plaisir de vous détendre dans le solarium de la résidence ou au Centre de Thalasso Thalmar, situé à quelques pas. En soirée, baladez-vous sur la plage pour humer les embruns de l’océan.

Pour plus d’inspiration et d’idées de séjours en famille , découvrez toutes nos offres pour des vacances monoparentales qui raviront autant les enfants que les parents solos.

Des vacances sereines entre enfants et parent solo : c’est possible !

Laisser place à la spontanéité.

À la maison, vous faites partie des parents qui prônent une alimentation équilibrée et des horaires de sommeil suivis à la lettre ? Lâchez prise le temps des vacances ! Après tout, que vaut un sourire de vos enfants en train de savourer une barquette de frites ? Ou le plaisir de veiller une heure de plus avec papa ou maman pour faire une partie de jeu en famille ?

Faites participer vos enfants

Dès 6 ans, vos enfants sont en âge de vous seconder dans l’organisation et la préparation de vos vacances . Ils peuvent, par exemple, faire leur valise ou vous aider dans certaines tâches ménagères durant vos vacances. Ils seront même sûrement ravis de se voir confier de petites responsabilités !

Partir avec un autre parent célibataire

Jetez un œil dans le répertoire de votre téléphone : vous avez sûrement un(e) ami(e) ou un proche célibataire avec enfant qui serait ravi(e) de partager une semaine de vacances avec vous. Pourquoi ne pas partir ensemble ? Vous pourrez vous relayer, cuisiner ensemble et partager d’agréables moments. De plus, vos enfants auront le plaisir de s’amuser avec d’autres enfants du même âge. Moins de stress et plus de fun pour tout le monde ! En bonus, vous partagerez le prix de vos vacances.

User et abuser de nos services à la carte et des clubs enfants

En tant que parent célibataire, vous courez après le temps toute l’année. Les vacances sont le moment idéal pour ralentir le rythme et prendre soin de vous. Nos services à la carte et nos clubs enfants sont prévus pour vous octroyer un peu de temps libre durant votre séjour. Alors, n’oubliez pas d’en profiter pour vous faire chouchouter au spa ou buller au bord de la piscine. Vos enfants sont entre de bonnes mains, promis !

Vous savez tout ! Il ne vous reste plus qu’à réserver votre hébergement sur le site de Pierre et Vacances . Et surtout, garder en tête que l’essentiel lors de ces vacances monoparentales, c’est profiter de chaque minute avec votre enfant et de passer de bons moments en famille.

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What it's like travelling with kids as a solo parent

Feb 17, 2020 • 6 min read

Travelling solo, with kids. It sounds like an oxymoron – how can you be alone when you have little people with you? – but as any parent who has hit the road without a co-pilot knows, it’s very much a one-person show. Being a single-parent traveller will bring a host of unexpected challenges, all of which can be overcome. Believe it or not, travelling solo with kids is even better than travelling solo. 

Hitting the road alone

Some parents have to travel solo with kids because their partner is working, not interested in travelling, or are otherwise incapacitated. Others travel with their kids because they’re single parents. If that’s the case, you’re probably used to some of the logistics required, but you might not be prepared for the experiences you’re to have.

Early nights

When you’re operating on a child’s timeline, dinner is usually eaten early, which means restaurants are empty, with no need to book. Many countries have a  dining-out culture  that means kids are well catered for with smaller portions of healthy delicious meals (not just chicken nuggets and chips). Waitstaff in many countries are exceptionally kind and friendly to children; you may see them sneak a secret caramel or lollipop at the end of the evening. 

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Going out at night is nearly impossible, unless you can find a reliable, trustworthy sitter. But who has the energy to stay up all night after a full day of travelling experiences? Children in bed early wake up early too – so get your rest when you can. If you’re craving some socialising you can also check into accommodation with common spaces, like larger guesthouses and hostels. Striking up a conversation and finding out about other people’s travels is obviously  easier in social accommodations  than at a hotel or AirBnB. 

Managing sickness

Getting ill is never pleasant, but it’s something you need to be prepared for. Before you depart make sure you have a well-stocked first-aid kit with all the essential medicine you’ll need if you get struck down by a tummy bug, someone gets a cut or a bruise, or worse.

Old-school as it may sound, a  phrasebook is your best friend  in a medical emergency when you don’t speak the host country’s language. If all else fails, you can point to the descriptions you need to describe symptoms or request medicine at a pharmacy or a clinic. Unlike phones, books never run out of battery charge or get their screen smashed if you drop them. Also make sure you’re  properly insured before you leave , so you can seek professional help without worrying about the cost.

Have some rainy-day activities in your travel kit – not just for rainy days, but for any days you’re on the road and not well enough to go out. Staying at accommodation that also serves food, especially breakfast, is also a good idea, so you don’t need to go out if you’re feeling under the weather.

“Where’s your mother/father?”

Ask any parent who’s travelled alone, and they’ll report being asked this with great regularity. Having a short backstory at the ready will help satisfy nosy parkers. Be prepared for more  serious questions when you cross borders , though. You may need to take your children’s birth certificates with you (especially if you do not share a family name with them), as well as a letter from their co-parent saying you have permission to travel with them.

Curiosity may be behind some of the questioning, but child protection is paramount. If someone wants to know why you’re on a bus from Liverpool to London without your children’s mum, try to remain courteous, rather than outraged – there are some kids out there not as fortunate as yours.

Be mindful what you  share on social media  too. The current thinking for child safety is to hold back any holiday snaps until you’re back home, even if you do have all your accounts locked down to private settings. If you do want to share, be very aware of what information you put out there. A hilarious near-miss tale might be amusing in retrospect, but your co-parent back home may be having heart palpitations. 

Will I be lonely?

This is the perennial question for anyone setting off on a solo trip. The answer is always yes and no. There will be moments in life when you will feel lonely. Sometimes these moments arise even in the company of others; while on the road, the company will include your children. Making new memories, enjoying new experiences, and developing new perspectives together is a beautiful way to continue to deepen your lifetime bonds – but you will also meet new people.

Much to my surprise when I’ve travelled with my kids, strangers are usually open and friendly, not hostile and suspicious as I feared – just as they are with solo travellers. Children will play with other children, even without a shared language. They can easily strike up a game of tag or hide-and-seek, or kick a ball around, without needing to understand what the other is saying. 

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Adults, both locals and other travellers, are often more than willing to help you out in any way they can, even if you’re coping just fine. In cultures where the care of children is a shared enterprise don’t be surprised if your guesthouse hosts insist on minding your kids while you have a nap or eat a meal in peace.

Be warned, though: in more patriarchal societies, both male and female solo parents will raise some eyebrows – women are not expected to do this work alone, and men don’t often show their parental side in public spaces. You may be a curiosity, and not always a welcome one. 

New perspectives

In different places you may also be exposed to parenting philosophies that are at odds with your own. In  Hong Kong  I was amazed at how well-behaved other children were, and tried to achieve the same with my own kids (‘You will stand in this queue in the cold for an hour without complaint: see how the other kids are doing fine’) but one does not become a strict parent overnight.

In  Morocco  I was told by a well-meaning but old-fashioned parent that physical punishment was the appropriate response to a fussy eater. I am not sure my high-school French was enough to explain why this was not what I had read in my ‘new age’ parenting handbooks. 

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What surprised me the most travelling solo with my kids was the interactions I had with younger adults who were more willing to embrace kids and a solo parent than I expected. After playing my kids at table tennis at a hostel in  Australia , a bunch of carefree backpackers reminded me that I once thought family life meant sliding into a suburban dystopia. But in fact, people all over the world keep working, travelling and living life just as they did before they started a family.

If you want to get a feel for travelling with your kids but you’re not ready to go on a fully independent adventure,  there are now tours available  that will let you having life-changing experiences along with other like-minded families. 

If making new friends while getting outside your routine and comfort zone is the only reason you want to do it, it’s the only reason you need. Bon voyage!   

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This article was first published February 2020 and updated February 2020

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The clue’s in the title. These trips are for single parent families only (including any aunts, uncles or cousins who’d like to come along, of course). As long as you’re travelling with a child under the age of 18, you’re a family in our eyes. Plus, unlike other travel companies, children aged 17 years and younger receive a 10% discount off the price of their trip.

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Les vacances de Noël approchent puis ce seront celles d’hiver, Pâques et finalement l’été ! Mais voyager au bout du monde avec ses enfants lorsque l’on est parent solo , est-ce facilement possible ? Soyez rassurés, grâce aux experts de notre agence de voyage sur mesure, votre seul casse-tête sera de décider vers quel pays vous envoler en premier. Structures hôtelières adaptées, circuits pensés pour un maximum de confort… Découvrez 5 destinations vacances idéales pour les familles monoparentales !

Vacances parent solo au Pérou, sous le signe de la culture

Pour cette première idée de voyage seul avec vos enfants, rendez-vous sur les terres péruviennes. Laissez les mains expertes de votre chauffeur-guide local dessiner votre route à travers la célèbre Cordillère des Andes. Libéré de cette contrainte des trajets, profitez pleinement de vos découvertes des mystérieuses cités du pays avec vos explorateurs en herbe. Machu Picchu, lac Titicaca, paysages de l’Altiplano… des expéditions fantastiques vous attendent aux quatre coins du Pérou.  Le bestiaire (lamas, alpagas, condors des Andes…) devrait, en prime, éblouir toute votre famille.

Quand partir : La saison sèche (de Juin à Septembre) permet de découvrir pleinement les richesses de ce pays ! Les grandes vacances sont donc le moment idéal pour les familles monoparentales pour prévoir un voyage organisé au Pérou.

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Accompagnés de guides francophones, appréciez les joies d’une leçon d’histoire à ciel ouvert… Et laissez vos yeux s’écarquiller devant la grandeur de la pyramide de Khéops, l’une des sept merveilles du monde . Descendez le Nil puis, le temps d’une escale, arpentez les allées des marchés… Plus au sud, le temple de Philae, dédié au culte de la déesse Isis, captive enfants et parents ! De retour sur le bateau, vous n’avez plus qu’à mettre les pieds sous la table ! De vraies vacances sur la terre de repos de l’une des plus grandes dynasties.

Conseil : Un voyage organisé idéal pour les familles monoparentales qui donnera vie à tous vos contes d’enfants. La période parfaite pour ces vacances au soleil s’étend de Novembre à Mars !

Partez avec notre circuit Terres Sacrées

Chef de votre tribu au Kenya, au cœur de l’Afrique sauvage

Entre rivières peuplées d’hippopotames, vallées verdoyantes, savanes immenses et montagnes aux falaises abruptes , le Kenya est une source permanente d’émerveillement. A l’aube, le bus s’élance sur les sentiers du Parc Samburu … Les emblématiques animaux du « Big Five » jouent à cache-cache. Buffles, rhinocéros, lions, éléphants, léopards ? Essayez de les repérer à travers la végétation ! Au lodge, de nombreuses activités attendent les petits rangers : tir à l’arc, chasse aux papillons, recherche d’empreintes , une immersion dans la culture africaine !

Pour votre plaisir : De nombreux lodges de ce circuit possèdent un Adventurers’ Club proposant des activités pour les enfants. Parfait pour les parents solo souhaitant offrir à leurs petits des vacances en immersion totale.

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Nature au Sri Lanka et farniente aux Maldives, deux voyages en un !

Pour les parents solo, les vacances sont plus que précieuses. Nous le savons, c’est pourquoi nous vous proposons d’opter pour un voyage combinant deux pays. Imprégnez-vous de la culture sri lankaise, d’une balade à vélo au milieu des temples ou des plantations de thé jusqu’au soin des éléphants dans un refuge. Mettez ensuite le cap vers les Maldives. Appréciez l’ombre des cocotiers pendant que vos petites têtes blondes se lancent à la recherche des poissons colorés qui peuplent ces eaux turquoise…

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Travel Tips for Single Parents: 12 Best Tips for Traveling with Kids as a Solo Parent

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• December 8, 2023

Travel Tips for Single Parents (2023 Updated)

Are you a solo parent gearing up for an adventure with your little explorers? Traveling with kids solo can be an exhilarating yet daunting journey. As you prepare to embark on this exciting venture, mastering the art of solo parent travel becomes paramount.

Discovering the best strategies and tips for a seamless and enjoyable trip is your ticket to making unforgettable memories while ensuring a smooth and stress-free experience for both you and your children.

In this comprehensive guide, we’ve curated the ultimate collection of 12 invaluable tips tailored specifically for solo parents venturing into the realm of travel with kids. From safety precautions and smart packing to embracing flexibility and staying positive, each tip is designed to empower you on this adventure.

Join us as we delve into the art of solo parent travel , unlocking the secrets to making every moment count while navigating this enriching journey with confidence and joy.

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1. Prioritize Safety First

When embarking on a journey as a solo parent with children, safety becomes the paramount concern. Ensuring the well-being of your little ones while navigating unfamiliar territories demands careful planning and proactive measures.

Childproofing accommodations and surroundings stand as a cornerstone in guaranteeing a secure environment for your kids. From the lodging you choose to temporary accommodations, implementing childproofing measures minimizes potential hazards, allowing both you and your children to relax and enjoy the trip without unnecessary worries.

Moreover, navigating unfamiliar environments requires a strategic approach to safeguarding your children. Strategies involve establishing safety guidelines, familiarizing your kids with emergency procedures, and teaching them how to identify trustworthy individuals should they require assistance.

By prioritizing safety and implementing practical measures such as childproofing and proactive safety strategies, solo parents can significantly mitigate risks, ensuring a secure and worry-free travel experience for themselves and their children.

2. Pack Light and Smart

Traveling solo with kids necessitates a balance between carrying essential items and minimizing luggage for practicality and ease. Here, we delve into the art of packing light and smart, offering tips tailored for solo parents embarking on journeys with their children.

Tips for Efficient Packing:

Packing efficiently while ensuring all necessary items are on hand is key for a successful solo parent trip. Here’s a breakdown of effective packing strategies:

Essential Items Checklist for Solo Parents: Creating a comprehensive checklist is fundamental to ensure nothing vital gets left behind. It should encompass not only clothing and toiletries but also specific items crucial for your kids’ comfort and well-being. Here’s a suggested checklist:

Solo parents can leverage these efficient packing tips and customized checklists to streamline the packing process and ensure they have all the essentials while keeping luggage manageable. By striking this balance, they can embark on their travels with confidence and convenience, ready to create lasting memories with their children.

3. Prepare Your Children

Preparing children mentally and emotionally for a trip as a solo parent involves thoughtful communication and involving them in the trip preparations. Here are strategies to help kids feel more prepared and excited about the upcoming journey:

Suggestions for Preparing Kids:

• Use storytelling or visuals (such as maps or pictures) to depict the journey.
• Highlight exciting aspects of the trip that might interest them (fun activities, new places, etc.).
• Address any concerns or fears they may have and reassure them about safety and the experience.
• Allow them to help pack their belongings, choosing a few favorite toys or items to bring along.
• Discuss and plan some activities or places they would like to visit during the trip.
• Provide them with a small responsibility, like holding their own backpack or taking care of a specific item during travel.

By employing these strategies, solo parents can effectively communicate travel plans to their children in a way that instills excitement, reduces anxiety, and helps them feel more prepared for the journey ahead. Involving kids in trip preparations can empower them and create a sense of anticipation, making the travel experience more enjoyable for the whole family.

4.    Utilize Technology to Your Advantage

Leveraging technology can be a game-changer for solo parents traveling with kids, offering convenience, safety, and entertainment. Here’s a breakdown of how technology can assist in making the journey smoother and more manageable:

• Trip planning apps: Assist in organizing itineraries, flights, accommodations, and activities.
• Entertainment apps: Offer games, movies, or educational content to keep kids engaged during travel.
• Language translation apps: Useful for navigating language barriers in different regions.
• GPS tracking apps: Help keep track of family members’ locations.
• Emergency contact apps: Store essential contacts and medical information.
• Travel safety apps: Provide real-time updates on weather, security alerts, and local conditions.

By harnessing these technological tools, solo parents can streamline their travel experience, manage schedules effectively, keep children entertained, and ensure safety throughout the journey. These digital aids not only enhance convenience but also offer peace of mind, allowing parents to focus on creating memorable moments with their kids.

5. Plan for Smooth Travels:

Planning is a cornerstone for solo parents to ensure smooth and enjoyable travels with their children. Meticulous planning helps in organizing every aspect of the trip, from itineraries to accommodations and transportation, ensuring a hassle-free experience.

Emphasizing Meticulous Planning:

• Family-friendly activities: Plan activities suitable for different age groups and interests.
• Rest and flexibility: Allow time for breaks and flexibility within the schedule to accommodate unexpected changes or the child’s needs.
• Realistic timelines: Ensure the schedule isn’t too packed, leaving room for relaxation and unexpected delays.
• Transportation: Arrange transportation modes suitable for children, considering comfort and convenience.
• Accommodations: Select family-friendly accommodations with adequate amenities and safety measures.
• Schedules: Coordinate schedules considering kids’ routines and preferences, aligning activities during suitable times of the day.

By meticulously planning and crafting a thoughtful itinerary, solo parents can ensure that the travel experience is well-suited for both themselves and their children. Effectively managing transportation, accommodations, and schedules adds to the overall comfort and enjoyment, making the journey memorable and stress-free for the entire family.

6. Seek Assistance and Support:

Seeking assistance and support while traveling solo with kids can greatly alleviate the challenges and enhance the overall travel experience. Here’s a breakdown of the significance of seeking help and strategies to build a support network during the journey:

• Engage with other travelers: Interacting with fellow travelers can provide insights, tips, and even temporary support during your journey. Online travel forums, social media groups, or simply chatting with others at accommodations or attractions can be beneficial.
• Connect with locals: Locals often offer invaluable advice, recommendations, and assistance. Engaging in conversations or seeking guidance from locals can provide valuable insights into the area and culture, ensuring a more enriching travel experience.
• Join parenting or travel communities: Online communities or forums specifically catering to solo parents traveling with kids can offer a supportive network. These platforms allow sharing experiences, seeking advice, and even meeting potential travel companions.
• Connect with family and friends: Maintain communication with trusted contacts who can provide remote support or guidance during your trip. They can offer reassurance, advice, or even assist in case of emergencies.

By acknowledging the importance of seeking help and implementing strategies to build a support network, solo parents can ease the challenges of traveling alone with kids. Embracing the support of fellow travelers, locals, online communities, and trusted contacts fosters a sense of community and assistance, ultimately enhancing the travel experience for both parent and child.

7. Flexibility in Plans

Flexibility in plans is a key asset when embarking on solo travels with kids, allowing adaptability to unforeseen circumstances and ensuring a smoother and more enjoyable journey. Here’s an exploration of the importance of flexibility and strategies for managing unexpected situations:

• Weather changes: Be prepared to alter outdoor activities if weather conditions are unfavorable.
• Unforeseen closures or delays: Stay flexible to adjust schedules if attractions or transportation methods are unavailable or delayed.
• Child’s needs: Children might have unexpected mood changes or require breaks; adjust plans accordingly to accommodate their comfort.
• Embracing spontaneity: Sometimes, the most memorable moments occur when plans change unexpectedly. Encourage flexibility and an open mindset to embrace new opportunities or discoveries.
• Staying calm in challenges: Unexpected challenges may arise; maintaining a composed and adaptable demeanor can help manage such situations more effectively.

By acknowledging the importance of flexibility, solo parents can navigate unexpected situations or changes during their travels more smoothly. Being open to adjusting plans and maintaining a relaxed attitude enables them to create a more positive and enriching experience for both themselves and their children, fostering adaptability and resilience throughout the journey.

8. Establish a Routine

Establishing a routine while traveling solo with kids can offer a sense of stability and comfort, even in unfamiliar settings. Consistency in daily activities such as meals, bedtime, and activities can help children feel more secure and at ease during the trip.

Consistency and Comfort for Children:

• Aim to maintain regular meal schedules as much as possible, offering familiar foods that children enjoy.
• Encourage healthy eating habits by incorporating balanced meals, even when away from home.
• Create a bedtime routine similar to the one at home, such as reading a book, taking a warm bath, or engaging in calming activities before sleep.
• Ensure a comfortable sleep environment to promote restful nights.
• Plan activities or outings that follow a loose structure similar to their daily routines, allowing for familiar elements even in new environments.
• Incorporate familiar activities or hobbies that children enjoy to maintain a sense of familiarity and enjoyment.

By maintaining consistent routines for meals, bedtime, and activities, solo parents can provide a sense of stability and predictability for their children during travel. Establishing these routines helps children feel more comfortable and secure, contributing to a smoother and more enjoyable travel experience for the entire family.

9. Pack Snacks and Entertainment

When undertaking a journey as a solo parent with kids, ensuring that you have a variety of snacks and entertainment options readily available is pivotal for a smooth and enjoyable travel experience. Here’s a breakdown of the significance and strategies related to packing snacks and entertainment:

Importance of Packed Snacks: Packing an assortment of healthy and appealing snacks is crucial for several reasons:

• Maintaining Energy Levels: Long travels or unexpected delays can leave kids hungry; having snacks on hand prevents energy slumps and meltdowns.
• Convenience: Carrying snacks avoids the hassle of finding suitable food options in unfamiliar places, catering to children’s preferences and dietary needs.
• Distraction and Comfort: Snacks serve as a distraction during tedious waits or moments of restlessness, offering comfort and familiarity to kids.

Strategies for Packing Snacks:

• Healthy Choices: Opt for nutritious snacks like fruits, nuts, granola bars, or pre-cut veggies to keep children fueled and satisfied.
• Variety and Favorites: Include a mix of favorite snacks and introduce new options to keep things interesting.
• Packaging and Portioning: Use travel-friendly containers to prevent spills and pack snacks in portions for easy access and distribution.

Significance of Entertainment Options:

• Engagement during Travel: Entertainment items such as books, coloring books, puzzles, or electronic devices loaded with games or movies serve as effective distractions during long journeys.
• Comfort and Familiarity: Familiar entertainment items provide a sense of comfort and routine for children amidst the unfamiliarity of travel.

Packing Entertainment for Kids:

• Diverse Options: Pack a mix of entertainment, considering different preferences and age-appropriate options for each child.
• Space and Accessibility: Ensure easy accessibility to entertainment items in carry-on bags for quick access and use during travel.

10. Teach Independence

Encouraging independence in children while traveling solo empowers them and eases the responsibilities of the parent. Here’s an exploration of teaching independence and its benefits:

• Empowerment: Teaching kids to handle simple tasks fosters a sense of capability and self-confidence.
• Relieving Parental Load: Independent children can assist in carrying their belongings, following instructions, or managing their activities, easing the burden on the solo parent.
• Assigning Responsibilities: Delegate age-appropriate tasks such as carrying a small backpack, managing their belongings, or following travel instructions.
• Encouraging Decision-Making: Involve children in minor decisions, allowing them to choose activities or snacks, promoting decision-making skills.
• Self-Reliance: Encouraging independence nurtures self-reliant and adaptable individuals who are more prepared to handle various situations.
• Sense of Contribution: Contributing to travel tasks imparts a sense of responsibility and involvement in the journey, fostering a stronger bond between parent and child.

By meticulously packing snacks and entertainment and encouraging independence in children, solo parents create an environment that ensures both preparedness and empowerment, facilitating a smoother and more enriching travel experience for the family.

 11. Plan Rest Stops and Breaks

Planning rest stops and breaks during travel, especially when journeying with kids as a solo parent, is crucial for ensuring comfort, rejuvenation, and managing fatigue. Incorporating scheduled breaks within the travel itinerary allows children to rest, stretch their legs, and recharge, contributing to a more pleasant and manageable trip.

Importance of Planned Rest Stops:

• Physical Comfort: Long journeys can be tiresome for children; breaks provide opportunities to alleviate discomfort and prevent restlessness.
• Mental Refreshment: Pauses in travel allow children to relax, reducing stress and contributing to a more positive mood.
• Safety Consideration: Frequent breaks ensure the driver’s alertness, offering a safe travel environment for everyone.

Strategies for Planning Rest Stops and Breaks:

• Frequent Breaks: Schedule breaks at regular intervals or whenever signs of restlessness or fatigue are observed.
• Designated Pit Stops: Identify places of interest, parks, or rest areas along the route to plan for breaks where children can unwind and play.
• Snack and Hydration Breaks: Incorporate breaks for snacks, hydration, and bathroom stops, ensuring everyone remains refreshed.

12. Stay Positive and Patient

Maintaining a positive and patient attitude is paramount during solo parent travel with kids. The unpredictable nature of travel may bring forth unexpected challenges, and adopting a positive mindset is instrumental in navigating through such situations.

Significance of Positivity and Patience:

• Emotional Well-being: Positivity fosters a conducive and enjoyable environment for children, minimizing stress and fostering a sense of security.
• Problem-solving: A patient attitude allows for a calm and rational approach when faced with unexpected situations, enabling effective problem-solving.
• Role Modeling: By exemplifying patience and optimism, parents impart valuable behavioral traits to their children, promoting resilience and adaptability.

Strategies for Maintaining Positivity and Patience:

• Anticipate Challenges: Mentally prepare for potential challenges and approach them with a proactive mindset.
• Adaptability: Embrace flexibility in plans and expectations, acknowledging that unforeseen situations might arise.
• Practice Self-care: Prioritize self-care to manage stress, as a well-rested and composed parent sets a positive tone for the entire journey.

By proactively planning rest stops and breaks while maintaining a positive and patient demeanor, solo parents can ensure both physical comfort and emotional well-being for themselves and their children. These approaches contribute significantly to a smoother and more enjoyable travel experience, fostering a positive atmosphere and strengthening the bond between parent and child.

Traveling alone with kids can be both challenging and rewarding. From planning carefully to staying positive, each step is important.

Firstly, making sure kids are safe is the top priority. Packing smartly, including essential items like clothes, medicines, and snacks, helps. It’s also good to talk to kids about the trip and involve them in planning.

Technology, like apps and safety tools, can be very helpful during travel. They provide information and keep everyone safe.

Planning breaks during the trip is crucial. It gives everyone a chance to rest, especially kids. And staying patient and positive is key. It helps in solving problems and makes the journey enjoyable for everyone.

In the end, traveling alone with kids is about more than just reaching a place. It’s a chance to learn and grow together, creating special memories and having fun.

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Vacances monoparentales : Comment et où partir avec ses enfants ?

Choisir une destination de vacances proche de chez vous

Partir à moins de 4h de chez soi présente de nombreux avantages quand on est parent solo et que l'on voyage avec des enfants, et encore plus avec des enfants en bas âge. Cela permet de réduire considérablement le temps de trajet, le budget et le stress. En tant que parent, vous vous sentirez aussi plus en sécurité : moins de fatigue liée à la conduite et moins de stress dû aux embouteillages. Et si vous partez dans votre région, vous connaissez probablement déjà un peu la route. Ce qui est toujours rassurant. Et, si vous partez en train, il est plus facile d'occuper les enfants durant 4h que 8h.

Autre avantage pour les familles monoparentales: cela permet de réduire les coûts de déplacements , tels que les frais d'essence ou les billets de transports. Enfin, opter pour une destination proche de chez soi offre la flexibilité de partir pour un court séjour ou un week-end prolongé. Ce qui, en tant que parent célibataire, permet de concilier ces vacances avec les contraintes de la vie quotidienne, de garde ou autre impératif. Rassurez-vous, pour les enfants, partir est toujours un gage de découverte et d'aventure. Ils seront contents de s'évader, même à 2h de chez vous!

Opter pour un lieu qui propose des activités pour les enfants

On ne va pas se mentir: partir en vacances avec ses enfants en tant que parent solo n'est pas de tout repos. Il faut sélectionner les activités pour les occuper du matin au soir, gérer les repas et les tâches ménagères ou réguler les disputes de la fratrie. Alors, pour avoir un peu de répit et s'octroyer des (petits) moments de détente, nous vous conseiller de choisir un lieu de vacances qui propose des activités pour les enfants, ou mieux: des clubs enfants !

Ainsi, vos petits chéris s'amuseront grâce à des activités ludiques, sportives et éducatives adaptées à leur âge tout en étant supervisés par des animateurs qualifiés. En plus, ils se feront de nouveaux copains! Pendant ce temps-là, vous aurez le plaisir de vous adonner à une activité de votre choix, de vous offrir une petite heure de farniente au bord de la piscine ou de lire votre livre (sans être interrompu.e toutes les 10 minutes).

Parent solo : Comment partir en vacances sans se ruiner tout en faisant plaisir aux enfants ?

Financièrement, ce n'est pas toujours facile de partir en vacances quand on est un papa ou une maman célibataire, surtout quand on a envie de faire plaisir à ses enfants. Tout d'abord, il faut savoir qu'il existe (en France), des aides financières pour parents isolés telles que les aides aux vacances de la CAF (Caisse d'Allocations Familiales) et les bons vacances ANCV. Elles permettent de réduire les coûts liés au logement, au transport et aux activités durant les vacances.

Certaines associations à vocation sociale proposent des tarifs et organisent même des séjours pour les familles monoparentales dans des centres labellisés. Enfin, quelques clubs vacances , comme Belambra, VVF Villages ou encore Villages Clubs du Soleil et de nombreux campings proposent des séjours spécialement conçus pour les parents solos et leurs enfants à un tarif avantageux. N'oubliez pas de réserver tôt pour profiter des tarifs "Early bird"!

Le "Home exchange" qui consiste à échanger sa maison avec une autre famille est aussi une option intéressante, développée sur plusieurs plateformes internet. Ce concept permet de partir en vacances sans dépenser un sou pour son hébergement. Autre option: vérifier si, dans votre réseau, vous n'avez pas des amis, des collègues ou des contacts qui connaîtraient quelqu'un pouvant vous prêter sa maison en échange de petits services comme, par exemple, garder les animaux.

Enfin, une fois sur place, il suffit d'opter pour des activités gratuites ou à petits prix comme la randonnée, le vélo, les pique-niques en plein air, la visite de parcs publics, la plage… Vos enfants découvriront les plaisirs simples et, cerise sur le gâteau, ce sera l'occasion de créer de beaux souvenirs ensemble!

Partir à plusieurs  familles monoparentales !

Consulter les sites dédiés aux familles monoparentales

De très nombreux parents solos trouvent déprimant de partir seul, et s'organisent pour  partir avec d'autres parents célibataires et leurs enfants.  Il existe des groupes Facebook, des forums en ligne et des sites internet dédiés aux familles monoparentales et plus spécifiquement aux vacances. C'est l'occasion de partir avec une autre famille qui a les mêmes centres d'intérêt que vous et de partager quelques activités, ainsi que les frais d'hébergement. Et bien sûr, si vous avez confiance, vous pourrez leur laisser vos enfants une petite heure (ou deux), le temps de vous ressourcer.

Partir avec des amis ou de la famille

Partir avec des étrangers ne vous tente pas? Et si vous demandiez aux grands-parents de vous suivre en vacances? Ou bien à votre sœur ou même une amie, elle aussi maman solo? En plus de partager de beaux moments avec vos enfants, cela vous permettrait d'alléger votre charge mentale et d'avoir un peu de relais pour vous détendre. De plus, vos petites têtes blondes seraient sûrement ravies de partir en vacances avec papi et mamie, leur tatie, leurs cousins ou des copains! Ils pourraient s'amuser avec d'autres enfants du même âge et se divertir mutuellement pendant que vous prenez l'apéritif tranquillement. Résultat: plus de fun pour tout le monde et de jolis souvenirs en perspectives!

À vous de trouver les vacances qui vous conviennent! Rappelez-vous que, dans tous les cas, les enfants s'amusent avec peu et que le plus important, ce sont les précieux moments partagés avec vous.  

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One of the questions we are most frequently asked via our website is, “I am a solo parent - can I still join?” Our first reaction is always one of empathy for the person raising the question. It’s unfortunate that anyone would ever feel excluded or less able to participate in anything on this basis! We want to shout from the rooftops: Boundless Life is for ALL family units and we enthusiastically welcome solo-parents on a regular basis. 

That said, we understand that solo-parents may have a different set of concerns and prerequisites and often seek reassurance that Boundless Life is right for their circumstances. We could list all of our reasons, but you would probably much rather hear this from parents who are LIVING the Boundless Life.

Michele and Joanna arrived in our Tuscany location independently of each other almost a month ago. They have five wonderful children between them. Their respective partners were unable to join the cohort due to work commitments back home. They are now nextdoor neighbours in a large apartment building in the heart of Pistoia which is occupied entirely by Boundless Life families. 

I grabbed a few minutes with them between Extra Curricular Activities and gelatos to ask them about their decision to travel solo with their children and their life in Tuscany so far. 

Did you have any reservations about joining Boundless Life ahead of your arrival in Tuscany?

Michele: I must confess that I have spent a lot of my married life as a ‘single parent’. My husband has shipped to sea 6 months of a year since we started dating roughly 7 million years ago. I have had many situations where I was the only “single” parent and it can be lonely and isolating at times. I suppose my reservation about joining Boundless was that this would be isolating for such a long period of time…3 months!

Joanna: My biggest reservation was having to be a solo parent for 95% of my duration in Tuscany. My husband was able to join us for the first 2 weeks but due to work constraints he wouldn’t be able to return until we fly home in late June. I worried about the safety aspect as well as being lonely without his company. 

‍ How has Boundless Life helped you overcome these?

Michele: Well, now I am so sad I am only here for 3 months! My oldest is begging for just “a couple more months, Mom” and I have literally never been happier! The Boundless community is without equal. 

Boundless magically understands each person by deeply listening to each participant - to who they are, not just the words they say. I feel like they knew my needs more than I did and they placed me in the perfect living area to find “my people.” 

The most magical part is that the neighbours I have been blessed with agree completely with respectful parenting. If my children are in someone's space when that does not work for that particular family, I trust my fellow parents completely to set them on the correct path. I believe that these amazing co-parents also know that my apartment is a safe place for their kids. 

Did you know the kids figured out a way to tie ribbons to each other's windows and send notes to each other in a plastic flower pot!? They also organised “painting” classes with crushed rocks they found at a playground (and water) and taught several moms how to paint with the coloured water! Joanna’s daughter was the teacher and she runs a tight ship! Giggling is frowned upon FYI!

Joanna: I can not say enough about the community and the abundance of activities offered by Boundless. We are living in a self-contained apartment within the communal building and my three children are constantly roaming the building and playing with other Boundless families. 

There have also been times where I have had to lean on the help of other families (walking my kids to school, picking up groceries for me, etc) and everyone swoops in to help without skipping a beat. Outside of our living space, there are constantly optional activities and park meetups being offered. The hardest part is choosing which ones to skip! 

“The creativity that our living situation manifests within our children is astounding! I have 2 boys, aged 11 and 8 and both are stronger, smarter, gentler, braver and more perceptive citizens because of Boundless Life.”

How have your children adapted to life in Tuscany? Are they enjoying their time at the Education Centre? 

Joanna: My kids are LOVING their experience. I have three girls ages 4, 7 and 9.  I was worried about taking them away from their normal routines and friends, However, they have surprised me with their adaptability as well as their interest in living a new routine and making new friendships.  As far as the Education Centre experience goes, my kids have never told me so many details about their school day. Needless to say they’re loving the new school vibe. It is extremely hands on and lives up to its real world applicable concepts being taught. 

Michele: The creativity that our living situation manifests within our children is astounding! I have 2 boys, aged 11 and 8 and both are stronger, smarter, gentler, braver and more perceptive citizens because of Boundless Life. My children have never been in a school setting. I have homeschooled my kids from the start - although we have done several classes. I was convinced they would start begging for home from day two. I am still waiting for the begging! It has been 1 month! 

My youngest was diagnosed with ADHD and mild autism. The staff at the Education Centre and I had made several plans in case he could not manage a school experience. I pick him up one and a half hours early to help him be successful. He has taken to getting weepy and says, “Please don’t pick me up yet, Mom. I want to do reading here!” If you tell me there is a greater parenting win than that, I will not believe you!

‍ What’s it like being neighbours? 

Michele: To make Joanna laugh is an addiction I will never be cured of! There is an ease to her grace that is infectious. She is an absolute delight to be around and I consider myself extremely lucky to know her, let alone get to call her my friend. Joanna has also been my life-saver. The kids were sick and I got a really bad fever. It was Joanna that brought me Advil. 

My son got a hurt finger and Joanna had the band aids at the ready! My eldest takes online math class and the wifi went out but that 5th grade math whiz next door came to the rescue, whipping mixed numbers and improper fractions into a unicorn of pre-adolescent comprehension!  

Besides being neighbours, we tackled taking a train ride to the beach in Viareggio and spending the weekend together.  5 children between the two of us and I have never laughed more! Two other single married moms even joined us on the second day which we took as a great complement! I mean, we are kinda a big deal. (I am just kidding!) 10 children to 4 moms and everyone survived to have a blast. 

Joanna: I hit the neighbour jackpot! Michele is a sarcastic, witty character whom I feel like I have known my entire life, not just 4 short weeks. I think my four year old would agree, we have an awesome neighbour! We regularly keep our doors open and float between each other’s apartments. Sometimes after the kids have gone to sleep we are able to chat and enjoy adult conversations, sans kids. This is something I especially appreciate while being here alone. 

‍ In your experience, is it safe travelling solo with children? 

Michele: Life can be challenging with your children whether you are sitting at home or hang-gliding through the Azores. My children and I have worked hard to be a tight unit. We like to think of travelling like a project we are doing together, as a team. 

We have rules like when I say stop or go they respond immediately. They have a say in what gets packed and who is carrying what. I have them read signs, look for names of cities or bathrooms and everybody gets a little new toy for the time spent travelling. We live in a world we share with other people, animals and plants. Anything could hurt us but for every danger, there are loads of blessings that can help us and it is important to keep our eyes open for both!

Joanna: In a nutshell, yes. I frequently travel with my children, without my husband so safety is my number one concern. Before committing to the Tuscany cohort, I expressed this concern to Boundless several times and they assured me over and over that safety is one of the top reasons they vet their locations. 

With or without a travelling partner, it is always good to make your children aware of potential dangers before and during travel. But this is a lesson we try to teach them regardless of where they may be - constantly be aware of your surroundings and try to stay within eyesight of a guardian. Basically, it is always a good idea to make your kids aware of potential dangers, and especially when they are only with one parent looking after them. 

“The Boundless community does not care if there is one parent in the home or seven! The world is a gift we have given to our children and, whether we have the support of a partner or not, we are a community.”  

Some of the solo-parents contacting us fear that they will feel “left out” or on the outside of the community without the support of a partner. What would you say to them? 

Michele: With our other neighbours, we leave our doors open in the evenings so the kids can have run of the building. The group of us walk the kids to school in the mornings, picking up Boundless families on the way. The building decided to have a potluck every week to bond and to cook and to laugh together. (We invite the whole Boundless Crew to come every week too!) The Boundless community does not care if there is one parent in the home or seven! The world is a gift we have given to our children and, whether we have the support of a partner or not, we are a community.

It is important to know that Boundless has many (MANY!) different ways to participate as well. The kids have two kinds of after-Education Centre activities. There are activities run by Boundless that the kids do at the centre and escorted by the staff. Both boys do a painting class and the oldest does a guitar class (both amazing!) There are also activities within the community via local providers that Boundless has partnered with. This allows Boundless families to join thereby giving the kids a chance to make Italian friends. My kids do swimming lessons (which are some of the best I’ve ever seen and they have a fabulous time!) I even have a great Italian mom friend who practises Italian with me!) and the youngest joins a “football” team. The coaches go out of their way to make him feel welcome. 

The adults have activities too. I take a Boundless Italian class (with Joanna) twice a week. There are so many opportunities to do other activities too! I got to go to a cooking class, a spa and a spontaneous card game while the kids were in school or at the Education Centre for a kids’ movie night one Friday. One activity I wasn’t going to be back in time for but another family picked up the boys for me so I could go. I got to help another mom who was single parenting for a week get to go on a wine tour by picking up her kids. Trips to Lucca, Pisa, and Florence with several families makes sure that everybody has a great time. 

Boundless offers loads of help babysitting, car rentals and options to help life here be as welcoming as possible. We even have 2 bicycles to use which makes grocery shopping a lot more fun! Never…never…have I felt left out. Parenting is a team sport. Let the Boundless community be your support partner!

Joanna:   I feared this myself. I feared being the “third wheel” amongst other families.  I have to be honest, since being here I have never felt that way.  I was also surprised at how often other moms are solo parenting while their spouse/partner has to leave for business. The family dynamics are all over the board as far as which parent is working, when they’re working, how much they’re working, etc.  

A few weeks ago, there were a couple of families who were participating in a truffle hunt. I thought for sure they'd rather me not come since I was a solo parent and they might feel the pressure of helping to watch after my kids. They assured me this was not the case and insisted we come along.  It was a wonderful experience even while being a solo parent and we all watched after one another’s kids. After all, it takes a village, or a cohort! 

“They have fallen in love with learning, this different country and their brother. They have learned more deeply who they are as people and how this precious life can be savoured. Most of all, they got to really know their mother.”

If you could give one piece of advice to a solo-travelling-parent concerned about taking the plunge into slow-travel with their child(ren), what would it be? 

Joanna: JUST DO IT! There are so many things to be worried about and it will never be the perfect time and then you may wind up missing the opportunity all together. And while you have to do what is most comfortable for you, there is most likely an answer to any concerns parents may have. I have found that not only are my children out of their comfort zone but so am I. We have all taken the opportunity to be a bit vulnerable and learn together. My kids are watching me stumble through a foreign language and learn my way around our new temporary home. We are doing it together and that is something we will all remember.  And I have always said, no matter where you are, your children will probably misbehave or perhaps throw a tantrum, so why not throw your tantrum in front of the Colosseum or on a breathtaking Tuscan hillside?! Without hesitation, I am so glad I took the chance on experiencing Boundless Life despite being a solo parent!

Michele: I am a night nurse. I noticed that, at my jobs, I was funny, silly and happy, trying to keep my patients and my co-workers in high spirits. But at home, I was exhausted, crabby and frenzied. I realised one day that that funny person that helps everyone else laugh and survive in terrible situations, is someone my beloved children have never met. World schooling and solo travelling with my darling boys has been the single greatest gift I have given my children. They have met new people, new cultures and new challenges. They have fallen in love with learning, this different country and their brother. They have learned more deeply who they are as people and how this precious life can be savoured. Most of all, they got to really know their mother. (I can’t even type that without crying.) 

‍ HUGE thanks to Michele and Joanna for taking the time to talk to us and share their experience so openly and beautifully. A lot of tears were shed by the Crew reading this as it truly reflects what the Boundless Life is all about. Enjoy Tuscany, Michele and Joana. We are so happy to have you along for this wonderful ride. 

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As a single mom, traveling with my children while they were young was always a bit of a struggle. Carrying the gear for everyone, finding seats on flights together, keeping hands on both kids as they made their way through crowded attractions or airports, and don't get me started on the onboard lav situation.

But honestly, nothing was as bad as wanting to enjoy an all-inclusive type of vacation and being penalized for traveling solo. In fact, being single may cost you more than $2,671 additional per year. Think about it -- things like hotel rooms, car service, resort stays and some tours don't generally cost less just because there's only one adult involved.

Many all-inclusive resorts and cruises often have rates based on double occupancy, even when offering "kids stay free" packages. If you travel as a single parent, you are often forced to pay the additional fee for the nonexistent second adult in order to enjoy the ease and comfort of all-in-one-vacations.

But thankfully, the travel industry is starting to recognize that single parents want to travel, too, and more and more companies are waiving fees and making it easier for solo parents to travel with their children. Here are some of my favorite single-parent vacation options.

All-Inclusive Resorts

Hyatt ziva resorts.

For solo parents who are into the miles-and-points game, you're no doubt already familiar with Hyatt's Ziva brand of all-inclusive resorts. You can book Hyatt Ziva properties throughout Mexico ( Cancun , Los Cabos and Puerto Vallarta ) as well as the Hyatt Ziva Rose Hall in Montego Bay, Jamaica . And, beginning Nov. 1, 2019, at the Hyatt Ziva Cap Cana in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic.

While redeeming points at an all-inclusive property will zap your points balance, you'll have everything you need to have a fantastic vacation with your kids at your fingertips. Award nights at the Los Cabos and Puerto Vallarta properties can be booked from 20,000 World of Hyatt points per night for a standard room for two people. Additional guests over 3 years old cost an extra 10,000 point per night (with a maximum of four people in a room).

Suites at those resorts start at 32,000 points per night and are also 10,000 points for each additional person per night. Rose Hall and Cancun are slightly pricier with standard rooms for two set at 25,000 points per night and 12,500 points per night for additional guests. Award rates have not yet been announced for the forthcoming Hyatt Ziva Cap Cana. You can earn World of Hyatt points with the World of Hyatt Credit Card to use at these resorts or transfer them to Hyatt at a 1:1 ratio from Chase Ultimate Rewards and cards such as the Chase Sapphire Reserve and Chase Sapphire Preferred Card.

IHG All-Inclusive Resorts

IHG Rewards Club members can cash in on an all-inclusive stay in one of Holiday Inn's all-inclusive resort options where kids stay free. The Holiday Inn Resort Montego Bay is 50,000 points per night and the Holiday Inn Los Cabos is 40,000 points per night -- both include food, drinks and activities. Learn how to maximize IHG Rewards Club points for family travel .

Single Parent Package in Saint Martin

Sonesta Maho Beach Resort & Casino in Saint Martin may have received a devastating blow from Hurricane Irma in 2017, but it's wrapping up its yearlong, full renovation in February 2019, creating a near-brand-new resort catering to families. There you'll find five restaurants, a fun children's club, large pool with waterfalls overlooking the ocean and activities for kids and families. The resort features a Single Parent Package, waiving the single supplement fee and offering free stays for kids 12 and younger with discounts for older kids.

If you want to arrive well-rested and in style, here's how to fly to the Caribbean in a lie-flat seat .

Wyndham Rewards All-Inclusive Resorts

While all-inclusive resort operator Smile Resorts is Canadian-operated, you don't need to live in Canada to take advantage of its single-parent vacation offers. The collection features flight and accommodation packages, yes, mainly from Canadian airports (save for Buffalo, New York), with single-parent supplement fees waived.

Properties include Casa Marina Beach Resort and Viva Wyndham Dominicus Beach , both in the Dominican Republic, and Park Royal Ixtapa in Mexico. Each features kids clubs, pools, beaches and all you want from an all-inclusive resort. Kids ages 2 to 12 can eat and stay free, and teens are discounted, as well. You don't have to book through Smile Resorts to stay at the Viva Wyndham Dominicus Beach. If you have Wyndham Rewards points , you can spend 15,000 per night for a room. Just be aware that you'll likely get a room with a king bed, so this option might not work if you're traveling with multiple kids or older children that can't share a bed with you.

Grand Palladium All-Inclusive Resorts

Grand Palladium Hotels and Resorts are all-inclusive properties scattered across the Caribbean in Mexico, Jamaica and Dominican Republic (not to be confused with Palladium Hotels, which are adult-only resorts). The five-star resorts focus on the Raggs dog squad characters, with character breakfasts, kids club and extra-special family programming, like dance parties. It also offers single-parent rates, allowing up to three kids to stay in the same room at 50% off room rates at properties like Grand Palladium White Sand Resort & Spa in Riviera Maya .

Palace Resorts

Palace Resorts cater to single parents -- just think: 24-hour room service available (included) so someone can treat you to breakfast in bed daily. The Kids & Teens Stay Free package, which runs through Dec. 23, 2019, cuts out the single supplement and gives you a room with your kids 17 and younger, who travel for free. All the amenities of an all-inclusive, such as a playroom, teen hangouts, dining and activities, can be found at 10 oceanfront resorts in Jamaica and Mexico, including the Moon Palace Resort in Riviera Maya.

Beaches Resorts

Beaches Resort, the popular family-friendly all-inclusive chain in Jamaica (three properties to choose from) and Turks & Caicos opens up a few of its months during the year to single parents with solo-parent deals. The properties feature multiple price-point accommodations from simple studios to multi-bedroom villas, and offers more than a dozen dining options, full waterparks, Sesame Street character-themed activities, kids' clubs and programs for infants to teens ... and yes, even for parents.

Most mainstream cruise ships are not truly all-inclusive, but they do offer all your needs in one convenient location with lots of inclusions. Yet, with all of the tricks and treats cruise lines are offering for families , single parents don't always find breaks, unless they are sailing with MSC Cruises , an Italian cruise operator. For single parents, choose the All-in-One package, which creates an all-inclusive package for you and your brood, sans a second adult, with Babycare, Miniclub, Juniors Club, dining, waterparks, shows and activities.

Disney Cruise Line

Disney Cruise Lines (DCL), which can also be more expensive than many other large lines, may be worth the price when considering just how much they offer to single moms and dads. DCL connects solo parent travelers at meals to help them find and connect with one another and even plans activities specifically for single-parent families. Booking a state room with one adult and children is also a bit cheaper than a room with two adults and children. For example, a six-night Caribbean trip out of Galveston with two adults and two children starts at $3,250, while the same room with one adult and two children starts at $2,562.

On the Disney Cruise Line are included kids clubs, teen programs, family-friendly accommodations and, of course, a touch of Disney Magic onboard and during excursions. To help save with the pricy cost of a Disney Cruise, consider purchasing discounted Disney gift cards .

Solo Studios on Norwegian Cruise Line

If you are considering a cruise without the kids at some point, I have to give a quick nod to Norwegian for introducing a room class just for solo travelers . These studios are "cozy" (OK, small) at 100 square feet, but you won't pay the dreaded "single traveler tax." These rooms have exclusive use of a Studio Complex and Lounge. This is an area just for solo travelers staying in the studios where you can watch TV, order room service, have a drink and chat with other travelers.

Tour Groups

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If you're aiming to take on a more adventurous vacation with the kids, tour groups can help you plan and maneuver through all of the logistics at one price -- just show up and enjoy the trip. One of the best tour groups for families is Intrepid Travel, which specifically launched tours just for solo parents . The tours are kept small -- just three to five families -- and pair you and the kids with other solo parents who understand what it's like to travel as a single parent.

Tours are catered to kids with stays at hotels that have swimming pools, dining at restaurants with kid-approved menus and programming that connects your kids to school studies or hobbies. Another plus? Kids 17 and younger receive a 10 percent discount. The exotic tours mean you can show kids the world with the help of others and choose from visits to Morocco, Costa Rica, Vietnam or India in 2019.

OARS Single-Parent Camping Trips

For parents who love outdoor adventure but understand camping without another adult is tricky (just putting up a tent alone can be a real feat!), OARS offers single-parent camping and rafting trips in the US. While connecting other single-parent travelers and, often, teens, you can visit the western states of Colorado, Arizona, Colorado and Alaska. The majority of the tour options for families take place during school breaks.

Bottom Line

Whether you are a single parent, or your partner simply isn't always available to travel with you and the kids, don't be too nervous to travel alone with your children. You may find hotels and resorts willing to help (or even offer single-parent discounts) as packages for single parents traveling with kids are becoming increasingly available. When the trip is all about you and your kids, you're guaranteed to wind up with memory-making experiences for the whole family.

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The Challenges and Triumphs of Solo Parenting: Navigating Parenthood Without a Partner

Solo parenting can feel like you’re navigating an endless maze with no map or compass. Trust me, I’ve been there too – as a full-time solo parent while my husband is away for his military service, I’ve had to figure out how to raise our children single-handedly under challenging circumstances .

This article will help shed light on the hurdles and victories of solo parenting, offering useful tips and strategies to not just survive but thrive in this journey. Ready to turn your solo-parenting experience from exhausting into empowering? Let’s dive in!

Key Takeaways

Solo parenting is when one parent takes care of their children without a partner to help. it can be challenging, but with some strategies and support, solo parents can thrive., challenges of solo parenting include managing time and responsibilities , financial pressures , and emotional stress . however, there are ways to overcome these challenges by making lists, seeking help from government programs or local resources for financial support, and prioritizing self-care., survival tips for solo parents include planning meals and shopping in advance to save time and reduce stress, practicing mental pacing and picking your battles wisely to conserve energy, planning special outings for kids to create happy memories together, reducing expectations to avoid unnecessary pressure on oneself as well as seeking help when necessary., encouraging positive behavior includes building strong relationships with children through quality time and communication methods like playing games or going out. implementing reward systems can motivate good behavior in your kids, while practicing self-love allows solo parents to prioritize their own well-being., table of contents, understanding solo parenting.

Solo parenting means taking care of your kids by yourself. It’s not always easy , but it can be done well . I am a solo parent when my husband leaves for military service. That makes me a full-time solo parent , but just for a few months.

There are other types of solo parents too. Some people are single parents all the time. Others might become solo parents if their partner has to travel or is sick.

All kinds of families have solo parents sometimes. Military families know this well, but it can happen in other families too .

The Challenges of Solo Parenting

Managing time and responsibilities becomes a juggling act for solo parents as they navigate the demands of daily life without a partner to share the workload.

Managing time and responsibilities

Single parenting is tough . I manage my time and duties alone while my husband serves in the military. Making lists helps me a lot. I plan chores, meals, school runs, and bedtime stories.

It’s about finding simple ways to do things faster. Pairing socks while watching a show or cooking big meals for leftovers saves time too. Sometimes, fatigue sets in as solo parenting is hard work, but that’s okay! Getting help can make it easier, like swapping babysitting with friends or hiring someone reliable when needed.

Financial pressures

Money problems can hit hard when you’re a solo parent. You may deal with less money coming in and more going out . The bills can pile up fast. Rent, food, clothes for kids, school needs – it all adds up! It’s not easy to keep the cash flowing right.

Even so, there are ways to ease these pressures . Seek help from government programs or local resources. Look at your spending habits and find places to cut back if you need to. This might mean fewer trips out for coffee or making meals at home instead of eating out .

Every bit helps!

Emotional stress

Solo parenting can be emotionally stressful for both the parent and the children. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed and exhausted , but it’s important to remember to take care of ourselves too.

I remind myself to be kind and understanding towards myself, acknowledging the challenges of solo parenting and the fatigue that comes along with it. There may be times when we feel frustrated or resentful towards our absent spouse, but I choose to focus on the fact that they are also missing out on precious moments with our family.

By prioritizing self-care, seeking support from friends and family, and being open about my feelings, I’m able to navigate through this emotional stress with strength and determination.

Survival Tips for Solo Parents

Planning meals and shopping in advance, practicing mental pacing and picking your battles, and seeking help when necessary are just a few of the essential survival tips for solo parents.

Discover more practical advice and helpful strategies to navigate the challenges of solo parenting in this blog post.

Planning meals and shopping in advance

One of the survival tips for solo parents is to plan meals and shopping in advance . This can help simplify dinnertime and make it easier for us. By planning ahead, we can save time and reduce stress when it comes to preparing meals during busy days.

We can create a meal plan for the week, write down the ingredients needed, and do our grocery shopping accordingly. Having everything we need on hand allows us to quickly whip up a nutritious meal without feeling overwhelmed.

Simplifying meals by opting for quick and easy recipes or batch cooking can also make them more manageable for solo parents like me.

Mental pacing and picking your battles

As a solo parent, it’s important to recognize that you can’t do everything at once. Mental pacing is about taking things one step at a time and not overwhelming yourself with too many tasks or worries.

Prioritize what needs to be done and focus on those things first. Remember, it’s okay to let go of non-essential tasks or delegate them to others if possible.

Another crucial strategy is picking your battles wisely. As a solo parent, you may face numerous challenges throughout the day, but not all of them are worth getting stressed over.

Determine which battles are worth your energy and attention, such as safety concerns or major issues requiring discipline. Learn to let go of minor disagreements or behaviors that aren’t harmful in the long run.

Planning special outings for kids

One of the survival tips for solo parents is planning special outings for kids. Taking your children on fun and exciting adventures can create wonderful memories and help them feel loved and cherished.

Whether it’s a trip to the park, a picnic in the backyard, or exploring a new place together, these outings provide an opportunity for quality time and bonding . It’s important to plan these outings ahead of time, considering your schedule and budget.

By organizing special activities for your kids, you can create moments of joy and happiness that will strengthen your parent-child relationship .

Reduced expectations

I’ve learned that as a solo parent, it’s important to lower your expectations and be realistic about what you can accomplish. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on doing the best you can with the resources and time available.

It’s okay if the house isn’t spotless or if dinner is a simple meal. Managing everything on your own is challenging enough, so give yourself permission to let go of unnecessary pressure and embrace imperfection .

By reducing expectations, you’ll feel less overwhelmed and have more energy to devote to quality time with your children .

Seeking help when necessary

When you’re a solo parent, it’s important to remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. Managing everything on your own can be overwhelming , and seeking support is essential for both you and your children.

There are various ways you can reach out for assistance. You can ask family members or friends if they could watch the kids for a few hours so you can have some time to yourself or run errands.

Another option is hiring a mother’s helper who can assist with childcare and household tasks. Drop-in daycares are also available in many areas, providing short-term care if you have an appointment or need time alone.

Encouraging Positive Behavior as a Solo Parent

Encouraging positive behavior as a solo parent is essential for building strong relationships with your children and fostering their overall development. From implementing reward systems to practicing self-love, discover effective strategies that will empower you on this journey of solo parenting.

Read more here.

Building strong relationships with children

Building strong relationships with our children is essential in solo parenting. It’s important to make them feel loved and supported , even if we’re doing it alone. Spending quality time with our children can help strengthen the bond between us.

This can be as simple as playing games , reading together , or going on special outings . Showing affection and actively listening to our children also goes a long way in building trust and connection.

By being present and involved in their lives, we can create a solid foundation for a strong parent-child relationship that will support them throughout their lives.

Reward systems

Reward systems can be a helpful tool for solo parents in encouraging positive behavior in their children. By setting clear expectations and offering rewards for good behavior, you can create a positive and motivating environment at home.

This can help build strong relationships with your children and foster a sense of cooperation and responsibility . Rewards can take many forms, such as praise, special privileges, or small treats.

Remember to tailor the rewards to your child’s interests and age level . Keep consistency in applying the reward system to ensure its effectiveness.

Practicing self-love and self-care

Practicing self-love and self-care is essential for solo parents like me. I understand that it can be easy to neglect our own needs when we are constantly focused on taking care of our children.

However, I’ve learned that when I prioritize my own well-being, I am better equipped to handle the challenges of solo parenting.

One way I practice self-love is by being kind and understanding towards myself. There are days when I may not have all the energy or patience that I would like, and that’s okay. It’s important to give ourselves permission to rest and recharge without feeling guilty .

Another way I prioritize self-care is by simplifying certain aspects of my life. For example, instead of stressing over preparing elaborate meals every day, I focus on nutritious but straightforward options that save time and energy.

Additionally, rather than obsessing over having a perfectly clean house at all times, I remind myself that it’s okay if some chores go undone while I take care of myself.

Triumphs of Solo Parenting

Solo parenting brings about numerous triumphs, such as developing independence, building strong bonds with children, and experiencing personal growth and resilience.

Independence

Being a solo parent has its challenges , but it also brings a sense of independence . As I navigate parenthood without a partner, I have learned to rely on myself and make decisions based on what is best for me and my children.

This newfound independence has allowed me to discover my strengths and develop a strong sense of resilience . I no longer depend on someone else to take care of things or make choices for our family.

While it can be overwhelming at times, being independent as a solo parent empowers me to create the life I want for myself and my children. It’s liberating to know that I am capable of handling any situation that comes my way and providing for our needs without relying on anyone else.

Developing strong bonds with children

Developing strong bonds with our children is crucial in solo parenting. As a single parent, it’s important to prioritize building a deep connection with our kids. We can do this by spending quality time together, engaging in activities they enjoy, and actively listening to them.

By creating a warm and nurturing environment, we foster trust and open communication. Showing love and support consistently helps our children feel secure and valued. This strong bond not only strengthens the parent-child relationship but also provides a solid foundation for their emotional well-being as they navigate through life’s challenges.

Personal growth and resilience

Through the challenges of solo parenting, I have discovered personal growth and resilience . Every day presents new obstacles that require me to be strong and adaptable. While it can be overwhelming at times, I have learned to rely on my inner strength to keep moving forward.

As a result, I have become more confident in my abilities as a parent and gained a deeper understanding of myself. This journey has taught me that even in the face of adversity, I can persevere and grow stronger .

Support for Solo Parents

Connect with other solo parents in your community, utilize local resources and organizations, and explore self-help and self-improvement resources to find the support you need on your solo parenting journey.

Connecting with other solo parents

One of the most important things I’ve learned as a solo parent is the value of connecting with other solo parents. It can be incredibly comforting and helpful to know that you’re not alone in this journey. Here are some ways to connect with fellow solo parents:

• Join a Solo Parent Support Group using Meetup : Look for local community organizations or online communities specifically for solo parents. These groups provide a safe space to share experiences, ask questions, and offer support to one another.
• Attend Solo Parent Events : Seek out events or workshops tailored for solo parents. These gatherings often provide opportunities for networking and forming connections with others who understand your unique challenges.
• Participate in Online Forums or Social Media Groups : Explore online forums or social media groups dedicated to solo parenting. These platforms allow you to connect with other solo parents from all over the world, providing a wealth of support and advice.
• Create Your Own Support Network : Reach out to friends, family members, or acquaintances who are also single parents. Plan playdates or outings with their kids, providing an opportunity for both you and your children to bond with others who can relate to your experiences.
• Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you’re struggling emotionally or mentally as a solo parent, don’t hesitate to seek professional help from therapists or counselors specializing in single parenting issues. They can provide guidance and strategies to navigate the challenges you may be facing.

Utilizing community resources

As a solo parent, I’ve found that utilizing community resources can make a big difference in managing the challenges of parenting alone. Here are some ways I’ve tapped into the support available:

• Connecting with other solo parents : It’s helpful to connect with other parents who are going through similar experiences. Local support groups , online forums , and social media communities can provide a sense of belonging and a space to share advice and encouragement.
• Seeking out local organizations : Many communities have organizations that offer support services for families, such as parent-child programs, parenting classes, and workshops on various topics. Taking advantage of these resources can provide valuable information and connections.
• Utilizing childcare services : Finding reliable and affordable childcare is crucial for solo parents. Sharing babysitting duties with trusted friends or family members can be a great solution, as well as exploring local babysitting cooperatives or agencies that offer affordable childcare options.
• Accessing government assistance programs : There may be government assistance programs available in your area that can provide financial support for solo parents, such as child care subsidies , food stamps, or housing assistance. Researching and applying for these programs can help ease financial pressures.
• Exploring community centers and libraries : Community centers often offer activities for children and families, such as playgroups, storytimes, and recreational facilities. Libraries also host family-friendly events and have resources like books and educational materials that can enrich your children’s lives.

Pursuing self-help and self-improvement resources

As a solo parent, I’ve found that pursuing self-help and self-improvement resources has been extremely beneficial for me. Here are some ways I’ve taken care of myself and worked on personal growth :

• Reading self-help books and articles : I make sure to carve out time to read books and articles that offer guidance and support for solo parents. They provide valuable insights and strategies that help me navigate the challenges of parenting alone.
• Listening to podcasts : Podcasts focused on self-care , parenting tips, and personal development have been a great source of inspiration for me. I love listening to them while doing household chores or during my commute.
• Attending workshops and seminars : Whenever possible, I try to attend workshops or seminars that cover topics relevant to my situation as a solo parent. These events not only provide valuable information but also give me the opportunity to connect with other parents who are facing similar challenges.
• Seeking therapy or counseling : Sometimes, we all need professional guidance and support. I’ve found therapy to be incredibly helpful in dealing with the emotional stress of solo parenting and finding healthy ways to cope with any feelings of overwhelm or frustration.
• Joining support groups : Being part of a support group made up of other solo parents has been invaluable for me. It’s a safe space where I can share my experiences, seek advice, and receive encouragement from others who truly understand what it’s like.

Solo parenting comes with its fair share of challenges, from managing time and finances to dealing with emotional stress . However, by practicing self-care , seeking help when needed , and focusing on building strong relationships with our children , we can triumph over these obstacles.

Solo parenting may be tough at times, but it also brings independence, personal growth, and resilient bonds with our children. Remember to reach out for support from other solo parents and utilize community resources to make the journey a little bit easier.

Frequently Asked Questions About Solo Parenting

What are the challenges of solo parenting.

Some challenges of solo parenting include managing all responsibilities on your own, finding time for self-care, and dealing with feelings of loneliness or isolation.

How can I cope with the challenges of solo parenting?

Coping with the challenges of solo parenting involves seeking support from family and friends, practicing self-care, setting realistic expectations, and asking for help when needed.

Are there any triumphs in solo parenting?

Yes, there are triumphs in solo parenting, such as developing a strong bond with your child, learning new skills and strengths as a parent, and being proud of successfully navigating parenthood without a partner.

Where can I find support as a solo parent?

You can find support as a solo parent by joining local community groups or online forums for single parents, seeking counseling or therapy services if needed, reaching out to trusted friends or family members for assistance, and utilizing resources provided by organizations that support single parents.

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Alexandra, 35 ans, maman solo depuis 8 ans, une puce de 10 ans maintenant. Elle avait 4 ans lors de notre premier voyage solo (on en fait un tous les 2 ans à peu près)

Bonjour ! Je suis Aurore, j’ai 28 ans et je suis maman de 2 enfants que j’élève seule depuis 15 mois. Mon fils Noë a 6,5 ans et ma fille Pomeline a tout fraichement 3 ans.

Je suis partie 4 jours à Dublin au début de l’été 2014, seule avec Noë qui avait tout juste 6 ans.

En fevrier 2015, nous sommes partie tous les 3 passer un week-end dans les Cévennes où ils ont pu découvrir le ski. Noë avait 6,5 ans et Pomeline encore 2,5 ans. Pomeline y a découvert la neige pour la première fois.

J’emmène mes enfants une semaine en Corse à Ajaccio en avril pendant les vacances de Pâques.

Sinon nous partons régulièrement passer quelques jours vers Avignon et sur Paris où le dernier séjour en date remonte aux vacances d’hiver.

Clara, 32 ans, maman d’Elouen, 3 ans. Sur un road trip, accompagnée de Krystal et sa fille Sophie, 15 mois. Sur un autre encore, avec Liz et ses 2 garçons, Owen 7 ans, et Ezra 18 mois.

Quelles étaient vos craintes quant à ce voyage en position de mère célibataire ?

-« Comment gérer la fatigue des heures de voyages en avion avec bébé qui pete la forme en arrivant ! » J’appréhende toujours les arrivées car dans ces cas de voyage solo avec bébé, bien souvent, surtout en arrivant, on ne peut pas donner le relais à quelqu’un d’autre pour récupérer !

-Les bagages !! La galère du portage de sac + petite valise pour petit voyageur + bagage à main quand il faut aussi pousser la poussette avec bébé dedans.

Finalement on s’en sort toujours avec les chariots des aéroports et l’aide de locaux ou autres voyageurs. J’apprends aussi à emporter moins de choses afin de réduire les bagages.

Je n’ai jamais eu de craintes une fois sur place.

Ma première crainte était de ne pas réussir à me débrouiller seule et de rater ma destination ou le vol tout simplement. La gestion n’est pas évidente quand tout repose sur vos épaules.

Mes craintes lorsque je pars en voyage avec les enfants concernent l’occupation des enfants pendant le trajet ainsi que la gestion de ma fatigue tout au long du séjour. Après, avec un peu d’organisation et beaucoup d’improvisation sur l’instant ça passe toujours !

Voir comment je pouvais me débrouiller en anglais toute seule, et surtout, oui, surtout, comment allions nous nous supporter tous les 2 tout seuls, en vadrouille dans un pays étranger? Là, pas de porte de sortie, pas de possibilité de souffler 5 mn, histoire d’aller faire un tour… En étais-je capable?

Comment vous êtes-vous organisés pour ce voyage (seule, avec une agence, …) ?

Pour chaque voyage que nous avons fait jusqu’à présent, je ne suis pas passée par des agences. J’achète des vols secs via internet et réserve quelques nuits d’hôtels pour les premiers jours.

Comment réagissent vos proches à l’annonce d’un voyage en solo avec enfants ? Et l’autre parent, est-ce difficile d’avoir son accord (même si cela dépend beaucoup des relations entre vous) ?

Ils sont doublement inquiets évidemment ! , je laisse en général les coordonnées des points de chutes si je les connais à l’ avance à la famille et les rassure par des nouvelles régulières quand c’est possible. Dans mon cas, l’autre parent ne s’est jamais opposé à ce que j’amène notre fils en voyage avec moi. Il est d’accord. Certains de mes amis se disent admiratifs et d’autres pensent que c’est de la folie !

Je me débrouille toujours pour faire des voyages via des agences… Et toujours en « All Inclusive » pour ne pas avoir à cavaler… Comme ça, je pouvais profiter un peu plus sur place des excursions ou des villes environnantes.

Je m’organise toujours seule pour la planification de nos escapades. J’ai toujours réussi à avoir un bon plan pour l’hébergement ou le transport afin de réduire au maximum les coûts.

J’ai profité de mes 15 mois aux Etats-Unis pour progressivement me pousser à voyager seule avec Elouen. D’abord des tous petits trajets, puis des week-end, enfin, mon road-trip en Arizona/Utah/Californie avec Krystal, pour qui c’était une très très grande première: voyager seule avec sa fille, alors que nos maris étaient de l’autre coté du globe: intense!

Entre temps, je suis partie dans l’Utah en Mamans solos avec mon amie Liz. C’était la première fois qu’elle faisait ce grand trajet sans son mari, et pour ma part, la première fois que je laissais le mien et me lançait “seule” dans une telle aventure”. Bref, beaucoup de pas à pas.

Booking était mon super plan pour les réservations d’hôtel, puis les différents sites et blogs accordant une place aux enfants dans les voyage. 🙂

J’ai établi après de nombreuses recherches un plan/timing pour notre road trip, calculant le nombre de miles et faisant correspondre les trajets avec les heures de sieste. Nous roulions donc en moyenne 3 ou 4 heures par jour.

Comment s’est passé le voyage avec vos enfants ?

Tous ont été très positifs. Et différent selon l’âge de mon fils au départ.

A 13 mois au Laos, il faisait encore deux siestes par jour, ce qui me laissé pas mal de temps pour soit bouquiner en terrasse, soit aller me faire masser (il dormait dans la poussette), soit prendre mon repas tranquillement et discuter avec d’autres voyageurs. On a pu faire beaucoup de choses, c’était très agréable, il a été super cool ! Il allait facilement dans les bras des locaux qui adoraient s’en occuper !

A 20 mois, au Népal, il courait partout, parlait encore peu et il ne voulait pas que je le laisse un seul instant ! C’était plus fatiguant mais nous avions fait de belles rencontres. IL a été impressionné par les singes, les éléphants, les temples, et il me parle encore des personnes rencontrées et des journées au Fun Parc. Nous avions fait beaucoup de moto, il a adoré.

Les voyages en Thaïlande étaient idéals avec lui à la plage ! Encore aujourd’hui pour lui : mer = Thaïlande ou Egypte ! D’ailleurs, j’ai vraiment apprécié mon voyage avec lui en Egypte quand il a eu 27 mois. Un régal. Il parlait déjà très bien et pouvait s’exprimer sur plein de choses. J’avais pu le laisser un moment avec les locaux pour faire du snorkelling et avec des touristes pour nager avec un dauphin au large… il était plus autonome et c’était plus facile.

Une des difficultés majeures lors de ces voyages avec mon fils entre 1 et 2 ans : l’alimentation. Dur de trouver quelque chose qu’il veuille ou puisse manger ! Certaines fois j’avais la possibilité de cuisiner

mais sinon, il fallait faire avec ce qu’il y avait. Ce n’était jamais très équilibré au final mais ponctuel donc tant pis ! En Thaïlande, très facile de trouver des yaourts et quelques pots pour bébé.

Aujourd’hui mon petit bout de 2 ans et demi attend le prochain voyage avec impatience et moi aussi !

Les voyages se passent relativement bien dans la mesure où je prépare son petit sac de voyage en amont J

J’essaie de faire en sorte qu’elle ait toujours de quoi s’occuper pour ne pas trouver le temps long et me le faire ressentir (ni aux autres passagers d’ailleurs !)

Je lui explique aussi où se trouve le pays où l’on va, ce qui nous y attend, la langue parlée etc…

Les voyages se sont toujours très bien passés. Ce sont des moments qui nous rapprochent énormément. Mes enfants adorent l’idée même du voyage. Ils sont donc toujours partants pour bouger. Ils participent pleinement aux préparatifs des bagages et à toute l’organisation en amont. A chaque nouvelle escapade, mes enfants me remercient comme si je leur offrais le plus beau cadeau du monde. Mon fils ainé réclame en permanence des voyages et a déjà une multitude d’idée de pays à visiter. Son plus grand rêve serait de faire le tour du monde en montgolfière et en voilier. Comme nos voyages se passent toujours bien, je compte les emmener de plus en plus loin. A moyen terme je pense à la péninsule ibérique et au Maghreb. A long terme, le plus loin possible et le plus longtemps possible et pourquoi pas réaliser son rêve… !!

Mieux qu’espéré sur mon road trip Arizona/Utah!! Mais au bout du 5ème jour, Ils en avaient assez. Les 3 dernières heures entre Las Vegas et Edwards, dans le désert de Mojave, où nous vivions, ont été très éprouvantes pour ces petits bouts. Nous arrivions du Zion, nous avions donc déjà fait environ 3h30 de route avant. Quand j’y repense, je me demande si je n’ai pas été un peu folle de faire autant de route 🙂

Ma famille ne se pose pas trop de question à ce sujet, ils savent que j’arrive toujours à me débrouiller.

Le papa est assez absent de la vie de notre fille mais il ne l’empêche pas de découvrir le monde. Même s’il est un peu réticent, il me fait confiance à 100% concernant notre enfant, sa santé et sa sécurité. Il sait que je ne prendrais aucun risque ni ne la mettrais en danger.

Mes proches me soutiennent et m’encouragent dans mes projets de voyage avec mes enfants. Seule ma mère s’inquiète de me voir partir seule avec 2 enfants. Mais une fois cette inquiétude passée elle est plutôt fière car elle aurait souhaité oser faire de même lorsqu’elle était dans la même situation familiale que moi.

Le père de mes enfants habite en Normandie quand nous 3 habitons sur les bords de la méditerranée. Mes enfants ont donc du prendre l’habitude des longs trajets en voiture à chaque demi-vacance scolaire. Le seul réel accord que j’ai du lui demander concerne notre voyage en Irlande car c’est pour le moment le seul voyage à l’étranger que j’ai fait avec l’un d’eux.

Pour mon mari et le papa d’Elouen, pas de soucis. Il m’a toujours poussé. Il était quand même drôlement rassuré lorsque je lui ai dit que nous partions en mamans célibataires avec mon amie Krystal, et non pas moi toute seule pour 2500 km.

Coté français, je n’ai pas vraiment le souvenir de m’être étalée sur le sujet.

Coté américain, beaucoup d’enthousiasme et d’encouragement de la part de nos amis!

Mais dans l’ensemble, des deux cotés, nos proches au courant étaient ravis pour nous. Les autres n’ont pas dû me marquer, j’ai oublié 🙂

Quels ont été les moments difficiles du voyage en tant que maman solo ?

Les moments de fatigues après un long voyage où j’aurai eu bien besoin de calme et de vrai repos les pieds en éventails ! Les voyages maman solo avec enfants en bas âges sont riches et formidables mais pas vraiment reposant sauf pendant ses siestes la journée !

Le transport en avion est souvent pénible, surtout quand bébé ne dort pas pendant 13 heures …

Les moments un peu « pénibles », on dira que ce sont les temps de repos. On est un peu obligé de se caler sur le rythme de l’enfant pendant le séjour. Du coup, on se prive de faire certaines excursions plus ou moins longues, ou celle qui nécessitent de la patience (visite de musées, de lieux historiques etc)

Je me souviens rarement des moments difficiles. Surement parce qu’avec du recul ce sont des instants plutôt cocasses, inattendus et qu’ils font pleinement partis de l’aventure du voyage. Dans le genre cocasse, je me souviens au printemps dernier d’un long trajet en voiture où sur une aire d’autoroute j’ai du faire rentrer tout ce petit monde avec moi aux toilettes car ils refusaient de m’attendre de l’autre coté de la porte. Après les moments plutôt difficiles restent (comme tout parent) liés au manque de sommeil.

Pas réellement de moments difficiles. Il faut dire que je me suis posée 1 500 fois la question par jour avant d’y aller: en suis-je capable? J’étais donc probablement hyper conditionnée 🙂

Mais finalement, ce qui a été le plus difficile, c’est le fait de découvrir toutes ces belles choses sans mon mari.

Pour mon étape intermédiaire, lorsque j’ai voyagé ave Liz, dans l’Utah, notre retour, que nous avions fait 2 jours, a été un peu plus sportif. J’ai notamment souvenir de 3 aller-retour entre le parking et le point de vue du Bryce Canyon qui m’a permis cependant de tester mes qualités sportives: “Nan maman, je ne veux pas la poussette!” Maman, j’ai oublié ma voiture”, et enfin: “Maman, Cacaaaaa”. Heureusement à chaque fois il n’y avait pas long à marcher… Cela m’a finalement fait apprécier plus que jamais la vue, je suppose 🙂

Quels ont été les moments inoubliables que vous avez partagé seul avec vos/votre enfant(s)?

J’adore partir seule avec mon fils !! On est encore plus proche l’un de l’autre dans ces moment-là, il y a une véritable complicité qui nait du voyage et puis je suis entièrement disponible pour lui, on partage tous les instants ensemble même ceux plus pénibles et on apprend à faire avec. Il se montre toujours très coopératif en voyage ! Depuis qu’il parle, je ne me lasse pas de le voir commenter et s’émerveiller devant tout ce qu’il découvre et ce qu’il vit. C’est différent du quotidien, il y a un autre rapport, on est plus patient aussi je crois, il n’y a pas les tracas , la routine … Maman plus détendue = Petit voyageur aussi ! Pour moi chaque moment est inoubliables ! Au retour c’est un vrai bonheur de se rappeler et de parler ensemble du voyage !

Nous sommes partis en Laponie pour son premier voyage donc le moment le plus inoubliable pour moi, ça a été la rencontre avec le père noël.

Les falaises et les grottes de Majorque l’ont beaucoup impressionné.

Les volcans aux Canaries encore plus J

Le premier décollage en avion de mon fils fut un moment inoubliable. C’était son plus grand rêve jusque là. J’ai aussi adoré voir mon fils me réclamer lui parler anglais et s’entrainer à répéter plusieurs jours avant notre départ pour l’Irlande pour préparer son voyage de peur de ne pas se faire comprendre une fois sur place. Pour ma fille un des moments inoubliable a été lorsqu’elle a touché la neige pour la première fois. J’ai aussi été très émue de la voir chausser d’aussi petit ski.

Tous. Peut-être un peu plus la découverte de Monument Valley!

Avez-vous des conseils particuliers à donner aux autres mamans célibataires ?

Bien être conscient que : Voyager seul avec un enfant, c’est incontestablement envisager le voyage différemment !

Quand on a l’habitude de bourlinguer seul ou avec des amis, ce n’est pas toujours facile au début ! Ou bien si on a eu l’habitude de voyage en famille, avec l’autre parent qui pouvait s’occuper de mini voyageur pendant qu’on allait se faire masser ou nager ….on peut ressentir une certaine frustration. Il ne faut pas s’attendre à un voyage reposant !! Je parle dans mon cas qui voyage avec un enfant de moins de 3 ans!! Oubliez aussi les soirées à refaire le monde sur la plage jusqu’à l’aube avec des voyageurs sans enfants !

Non, voyager seule avec bébé c’est voir le voyage d’un autre œil, avec ses yeux a lui 😉 Je trouve globalement qu’il m’est plus difficile de faire connaissance avec d’autres routards (ou alors si , avec des familles )mais en revanche plus simple de rencontrer les locaux ! genial ! Le rythme du voyage change, les rencontres aussi, les activités également…

Prendre son temps. S’adapter au rythme de son enfant, ça permet aussi de se reposer. Alterner les journées visites avec des journées plus calmes et avec des activités pour enfants. La poussette a été indispensable pour moi, même si j’aurai parfois aimé la laisser à la maison pour être moins chargée dans les transports sur place et privilégier le porte bébé . Mais seule, surtout une maman, le porter tout le temps, c’est fatiguant. Et puis la poussette lui aura permis de faire de nombreuses siestes pendant des repas avec d’autres voyageurs ou que je visitais des sites qui se seraient avéré ennuyeux pour lui.

Eviter de trop se déplacer lors du voyage avec un petit bout, j’ai souvent choisi l’option « on se pose » quelque part 1 semaine ou plus dans chaque endroit. L’intérêt est que l’on soit bien et que l’on profite tous les deux !

Egalement pour les transports à l’intérieur du pays sur de longues distances, voyager moins « roots » et opter pour des bus touristiques ou taxi, voir voiture avec chauffeur pour s’arrêter plus souvent et pour avoir plus de confort, surtout avec un tout petit.

J’essaie toujours de trouver des chambres à petit budget avec mini bar ou frigo pour mettre son lait et ses compotes aux frais par exemple. Je trouve pratique que le petit déj soit inclus, ca évite une attente pénible pour petit voyageur qui veut « tout de suite » manger !

Bien se renseigner (sur les forums par ex) sur place de quoi trouver pour les enfants ( lait couches ect), tout ça évite bien du stress et permet une bonne organisation avant le départ. Une bonne organisation est vraiment primordiale avec enfant et encore plus en étant solo ! Cela n’empêche pas les imprévus ou changements de plans de dernières minutes mais ça permet de partir l’esprit tranquille !

Un petit truc qui me rassure aussi et qui peut servir : Je note à l’ avance dans un carnet les coordonnées des docteurs ou hôpitaux proches des villes où nous allons pour réagir vite en cas de pépins avec bébé.

Prendre un séjour « All Inclusive ». Se renseigner à l’avance des sites à visiter en fonction de l’âge de l’enfant et prévoir des activités en intérieur en cas de mauvais temps. Privilégier l’Europe pour ne pas avoir à faire un trajet trop long…

Pas de conseils particuliers mis à part d’oser ! Rien n’est impossible. Avec juste un peu d’organisation et d’impro, ça passe large !

Farfouillez longuement sur internet sur les blogs et sites dédiés aux voyages avec enfants, et surtout, surtout, vous faire confiance! Nous n’avons pas idée de nos ressources en temps que parent solo, en vadrouille.

Tout se passera bien, et n’hésitez pas à faire le grand saut. Débuter par un petit week-end en France est bien, puis une semaine, pourquoi pas avec une autre Maman solo, ou papa solo, et enfin, hop, on change de pays!

Y a-t-il des destinations qui semblent plus faciles que d’autres pour voyager en tant que maman solo ?

La Thaïlande est un pays facile avec les enfants. Dans tous les pays asiatiques en général les locaux adorent les enfants, ça facilite beaucoup le contact ! Globalement voyager avec un enfant attire la sympathie !

Dans mon cas personnel, j’ai fait le choix de commencer mes voyages en tant que maman solo dans des pays que je connaissais déjà. (Espagne, Laos, Népal) On n’allait pas vers l’inconnu total ! Plus facile donc pour moi de savoir comment gérer le voyage niveau logistique. Je pouvais me projeter avec lui sur place, être vraiment consciente du niveau sanitaire et quoi trouver sur place et par exemple au Népal , demander à des amis Népalais de m’aider un trouver un logement. Prochainement, je franchi une étape, nous partons là où je ne suis encore pas allé, et donc vers l’inconnu, mais mon fils a grandi et je suis très sereine. On verra à ce moment-là si ça a été plus compliqué ou pas !

L’Europe est plus facile dans la mesure où le temps de transport est moins long et où il est plus facile de circuler. Et puis, il y a tellement à voir sur notre continent. Mieux vaut commencer par le plus proche.

Majorque est très bien, l’ile est magnifique, les plages également. Les magasins de cuir ont fasciné ma fille.

Les Canaries sont très bien aussi mais pour des enfants à partir de 7/8 ans au vue des sites à visiter.

Cette année, nous faisons Rome, j’essaie de caler nos voyages en fonction de son programme d’histoire-Géo.

Malheureusement je n’ai pas encore trop d’expérience de voyage à l’étranger seule avec mes enfants. C’est au programme et d’ici là je vous dirai ! Mais en attendant que ma fille grandisse encore un peu je vais me concentrer sur des voyages en Europe et au Maghreb.

Les Etats-unis sont très accessibles pour un parent solo, du moins la zone Californie/Utah/Arizona.

De nombreux endroits, pour ne pas dire tous, sont kid friendly. Nous n’avions pas besoin de chercher partout les espaces destinés aux enfants. Et nous avons même découvert une super aire de jeux à Las Vegas, ce qui nous a donné une vision totalement différente de celle que nous en avions!

Et si c’était à refaire ?

Je referai tout pareil.

Nous repartons d’ailleurs bientôtJ. C’est une grande richesse à la fois pour mon fils et pour moi.

Quand on a voyagé seul au bout du monde en mode « sac à dos » avec un enfant tout petit, je crois que plus rien ne peut nous fait peur !!

Je referais toutes ces destinations sans hésiter !

Si c’était à refaire, je referai tout pareil. Je veux rester sur ma lancé. Je ne veux pas que le fait d’être seule soit un frein dans nos envies de voyage.

On repart pas demain? C’est pas ce qui était prévu? Nan? Pfffffffffffff….

J’espère que cet article va vous remonter à bloc, vous les mamans solos, et que vous passerez le cap, cet été peut-être. N’hésitez pas à poser vos questions en commentaires à ces mamans solos qui voyagent avec leurs enfants. Et si vous êtes une maman qui voyage avec vos enfants, contactez moi pour faire une seconde interview car j’ai encore des témoignages que je n’ai pas pu mettre dans ce très long article.

La maman nommée Marianne aurait-elle un compte réseau social par hasard ?! 🙂 je planifie un voyage en Asie avec ma fille de deux ans !

Bonsoir, Maman d’un p’tit bout de chou de 3 ans et demi, l’idée de partir voyager quelques mois en Asie ne me quitte plus. J’y suis déjà partie et ai voyagé plusieurs fois en mode backpacker mais voilà, aujourd’hui avec un enfant on se pose toutes sortes de questions qu’on ne se pose pas quand on a que sa petite personne à s’occuper… Y’aurait-il des mamans qui souhaiteraient échanger, partager leurs expériences ? Et pourquoi pas partir à plusieurs mamans :-)? Merci,

Bonjour Lou ! Je suis dans le même combat. Maman solo avec une petite fille de 2 ans et demi. J envisage de partir 3 mois de janvier à mars 2021 avec ma fille ! Je me pose plein de questions ! Je réfléchis encore où et serais je capable! As tu concrétise un peu plus ton voyage ?

Bonjour, Je souhaiterai partir en Thaïlande début 2021 avec ma fille qui aura 15 mois, je suis preneuse d’avis et d’échanges. [email protected] Bonne route 😉

J’ai depuis longtemps ce rêve de voyager… mais maintenant avec 2 garçons de 6ans et 7ans 1/2, j’avoue que j’ai peur. Mais l’envie est de plus en plus forte. As-tu concrétisé ton projet ,

Bonjour les filles Malheureusement avec le coronavirus mon projet de 3 mois devient compliqué mais je vais qd meme essayer de partir 1 mois avec ma fille, jusqu’ici je penche pour le srilanka !

Bonjour veuve depuis trois je pars tout les été en road trip de 2 ou trois semaines avec ma fille qui a maintenant 10 ans.

Je suis une fan de l île britannique et cet été nous sommes parties trois semaines en ecosse en road trip avec mon véhicule personnel.

Camping, camping sauvage, hotels, gestion du temps et de l’ itineraire, 5000 kms à conduire seule mais des paysages magnifiques, des randonnées extraordinaires, de l escalade tout oublier et se laisser porter.

Tout organiser seule, gérer la fatigue de la conduite, Gérer les craintes de ma fille, trouver les endroits ou dormir mais quel bonheur…

Bonjour, jeune maman de 37 ans veuve depuis peu, je commence à me poser 10000 questions sur nos premières vraies vacances solo… Mon fils a 9 ans et même s’il est “grand” l’appréhension est là…Cet article, ces témoignages ont été un bol d’air rassurant… Un grand merci et excellente journée.

Bonjour, Ayant déjà effectué des vacances en solo avec mon fils qui va avoir 8 ans (australie, japon), je continue sur ma lancé et programme l’Ouest Americain pour 2020. On pratique la randonnée, et on aime toutes les activités fun et à sensation. Je prévois un budget relativement conséquent pour profiter au mieux de cette destination. Mais il est vrai que malgré toutes les activités que l’on fait, j’aimerai bien partager ces moments avec des adultes et mon fils avec des copains. Si ca tente un autre parent solo avec un enfant d’environ l’âge du mien. On pourrait en discuter et voir si mon projet pour 2020 peut intéresser: mon adresse mail

bonjour, je m appelle johanna et j ai un pti gars de 8 ans avec qui j aimerai partir en voyage, mais ou, avec qui? j aimerai beaucoup partir avec d autres mamans solo avec enfants, se serait tellement fun! fais moi signe si tu veux qu on en discute!

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De part ma profession, mes vacances sont souvent en décalage avec celles de mon conjoint. Très envieuse de voyages, ce que je viens de lire me motive encore un peu plus et me laisse penser que c’est possible. En revanche la solitude n’est pas mon truc et l’idée de partager un voyage avec une autre maman et enfants me plairait. Existe-il des sites internet pour cela ? En tous cas voici mon e.mail si toutefois l’une de vous est dans la même situation : [email protected] .

Bonjour, je suis maman solo d’une fille de 5 ans et je rêve de faire un long et beau voyage mais je trouve plus sympa d’être avec une ou d’autre maman dans mon cas, si l’une d’entre vous est intéressée, me contacter pour commencer à rêver [email protected]

Bonsoir à toutes,

J’aimerais partir un peu cet été mais je suis seule avec mes 2 fils (4 ans et 2 ans et demi). J’ai envie de tenter mais j’appréhende beaucoup de n’avoir aucun moment de répit.

Auriez-vous des conseils, des idées d’endroits en France, …. ?

Merci d’avance !!!

bonjour, j’ai commencé à voyager avec mon fils dès son plus jeune age sur la france trop petit pour l’etranger en plus la sncf à un bon service livraison bagage certes pas donné mais bienvenue . dès ses 4 ans nous avons fait londres, nabeul(tunisie) venise, et à ses 5 ans et 6 ans 2 fois le bresil, et la 2ème fois au bresil foz iguazu, argentine, paraty tous les deux ce fut une super experience, meribel mode ski, futuroscope, puis du fou, etc… n’ayant pas de vehicule et sur paris il y a un organisme qui vends des voyages en car journée, week end semaines tres pratique nous en avons abuser et sans moderation.

Bonjour je veux partir avec mon fils au Brésil au mois de mars il aura 4 ans Des conseils svp

Bonjour, J’ai 36 ans et je suis partie seule cet été avec mes deux enfants de 10 et 5 ans. J’avais le choix entre: – attendre qu’on m’invite quelque part, – rester enfermée chez moi au mois d’août, – me retrousser les manches et plancher sur des vacances pas cher pour une semaine. Ni l’Europe ni l’Asie, je suis descendue en Ardèche avec une vieille caravane. Nous n’avons pas pris l’autoroute, pas de gps non plus. Ma fille m’a guidé avec le guide de la route et mon fils a regardé défiler le paysage. J’avais choisi un petit camping municipal, les voisins m’ont aidé à installer la caravane à mon arrivée, au bout de quelques jours les enfants ont fait connaissance avec d’autres enfants et moi avec d’autres parents. J’ai trouvé des activités à faire tous les jours, et pas trop cher dans ce coin, avec des repas trouvés dans les marchés. Bien sûr il y a des moments un peu raides mais résultat : je sais conduire et manoeuvrer avec une caravane, on a pris un grand bol d’air, ma fille est un co-pilote hors pair et mon fils ne veut plus prendre l’autoroute car il préfère “pouvoir regarder les maisons”! Cela m’a permis de prendre de l’assurance et de créer un nouveau lien avec mes enfants, l’an prochain nous recommencerons pour aller plus loin.

Merci beaucoup pour le partage d’expérience! moi meme mama d’un minipouce de 11 mois et demi nous sommes déja partis 2 mois en thailande … mais je connaissais deja pas mal et j’ai de la belle famille là bas… Serait il possible d’avoir les coordonnées de Mariane? Son témoignage m’a beaucoup touchée et je me reconnais bien à travers ses expériences, et je souhaiterai echanger et lui demander conseil pour un prochain voyage 🙂

Bonjour, je souhaite partir pour les 2 ans de ma puce, en novembre, 15 jours, 3 semaines…. mais je suis un oeu perdue…. habituée seule au côté routard des voyages, mais peur de partir sur un trop long voyage en avion… j’ai aussi envie qu’elle se mêle à la culture et voient de la faune locale… des idées? Des conseils? Merciiiii

ces témoignages m’ont beaucoup aidée ! merci pour cet article !

Premier voyage solo en Europe avec mon fils dans une semaine, à la fois excitée et pleine de doutes (avec des “et si…”). Même si les interviews dates un peu, je suis rassurée. Bravos mesdames!!

Bravo les mamans solos, quel courage, on ne peut que vous souhaiter d’autres magnifiques voyages et beaux souvenirs avec vos grands et petits !

Chapeau bas les nanas ! Je pourrais voyager avec enfant mais seulement avec un des deux pour commencer et plutôt en Europe. A méditer !! Chouette long témoignage très intéressant. Merci !

Merci Jolis Voyages de les encourager, je suis moi-même très admirative!

Merci pour ces interviews très intéressantes ! Grande voyageuse et futur maman pour la 1ère fois , plus que jamais je sais que je souhaite voyager avec mon enfant (vers ses 10mois , un peu de patience donc). Je me reconnais beaucoup à travers Mariane , et j’espère que mes futurs voyages à 2 se passeront tout aussi bien , privilégiant l’Asie , continent que je connais bien dans l’ensemble , et qui est cher à mon coeur. Voyager petit , c’est un véritable cadeau de la vie ! Les gens ont toujours tendance à dire des choses telles que : “Tu verras , quand tu seras maman tu ne pourra plus voyager” , etc … La preuve que non !

Effectivement Céline, on peut voyager avec des tout-petits et des plus grands mon site en est la preuve! Je vous souhaite en tout cas de belles escapades pour la suite et j’espère que vous nous ferez partager vos premiers voyages

Quel courage, je suis admirative! Nous sommes actuellement en Tour du monde avec nos 2 enfants de 2 ans et 5 ans et c’est parfois intense. Nous avons la chance d’être 2 pour prendre le relais de l’autre quand nécessaire. Pour le reste, je partage votre enthousiasme: vous leur offrez une très belle ouverture au monde et ça aurait été dommage de les en priver! Mais si je devais voyager sans mon homme, je ne me verrais pas partir sans eux! Vous avez raison

Bonjour Alice, merci de votre retour! et bon tour du monde que je suis un peu de loin!

Bonjour je me pose pleins de questions détails pratiques… surtout avez vous emmené la poussette ??? Je sais comme il faut choisir ses affaires en voyage sac à dos mais j’ai du mal à m’imaginer sur les routes sans …

J’admire beaucoup ces mamans solos ! Bravo Je suis aussi maman célibataire d’une petite fille de presque 3 ans. J’ai commencé quand elle avait 9 mois par des weekend en France dans la famille en voyageant en train. A ses 2 ans, je me suis lancée dans un voyage en avion direction Londres : la petite a adoré l’avion. C’est en effet plus facile d’aller seule avec un petit dans des endroits que l’on connait déjà!! Le plus difficile pour moi est comment voyager avec le strict minimum…. 🙂 A bientôt

Osons, osons !

Je suis partie l’année dernière une semaine en tunisie avec mes 3 schtroumpfs, au ski cet hiver et 20 jours cet été au maroc (et pas en club !!!). Et en général tout se passe bien ! Alors arrêtons de penser au pire et ….profitons ! Quelle belle leçon de vie nous offrons à nos enfants…. Les voyages forment la jeunesse …. et ouvrent l’esprit….

Bonjour, Je m’apprête à partir seule pour l’Asie avec mon petit garçon qui aura 13 mois, en février 2017. Serait-il possible de rentrer en relation avec Marianne pour échanger sur les destinations et le matériel que je prévois? Je pense partir 2 mois. J’ai tellement hâte 🙂 Merci de votre aide si possible. Bises Agathe

Bonjour 🙂 Tout comme toi je suis une maman solo d’une petite fille qui va avoir 3 ans en janvier. Et moi aussi j’ai été agréablement marqué par ce témoignage et voudrais bien savoir si on pouvait entrer en contact avec elle? Je suis entrain d’essayer de me décider à partir en solo avec ma fille…

Bonjour, j’ai adoré lit vos expériences et cela ma donner envie de partir avec mon petit bout de 7 ans je suis separee depuis peu et l’envie de parcourir de voir de nouveaux horizons me titille vraiment.J’aimerais pouvoir discuter en privée pour avoir quelques conseil. Merci et bravo

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6 Tips for Parents Traveling Solo With Kids

Even without other adults, a family vacation can go off without a hitch.

From navigating the double-occupancy requirements as a lone adult to booking tickets on airlines that don’t guarantee seats next to one another to untangling the visas and permissions needed for international travel — the logistics can be dizzying. “The travel industry should have more options geared toward single-parent family travel,” says Hargrove, whose own experience led to her business. “We’re a growing consumer segment looking for options that work for our families.”

Whether your crew is looking to see the sights of a big city like New York or Los Angeles, relax on the beach at a resort in the Caribbean or enjoy an everything-in-one-place destination like Great Wolf Lodge , the advice below can help you get there.

Plan in advance — and involve the kids as much as possible.

Schedule just enough while leaving room for spontaneity. Tomika Anderson, founder of Single Parents Who Travel , says she’s found huge value in front-loading the research and booking of activities before heading out on the trip. “The more parents are able to plan things out, the more they’re able to actually relax and enjoy their time with the kids,” she says.

This includes making travel arrangements like flights and train tickets, booking accommodations and handling any necessary paperwork beforehand. “You can fill out customs forms in advance,” Anderson says. “I didn’t know you could do that until recently.” Researching the paperwork you’ll need to travel with is a good idea in any case, as there might be some stipulations when traveling alone with kids. In order for a child in the United States to obtain a passport, for example, both parents have to be present when the child applies, and some countries, like Canada and Mexico, require a written letter of authorization from the parent who is not traveling with the child before they allow kids into the country with just one parent.

In addition to forms and paperwork, if there are any “must-dos” on your list — such as restaurants you’re dying to try — make reservations before your arrival. If your priorities are confirmed in advance, you’ll be able to enjoy the trip from the start.

Get kids involved, Anderson adds, even though you’re the default planner . “I usually present my son with different location options,” she says. “And if, say, we’re going to an amusement park we’ll say, ‘Okay, our priorities for this trip are going on these three rides,’ and then I’ll try to purchase express passes for those rides if I can.” Entrusting kids with a part in the decision-making gives them a sense of empowerment.

Be realistic about your destination.

What vibe do you want for your family getaway? A multi-day, multi-city sightseeing tour, or the type of vacation where you sit by the pool and relax? There’s no wrong answer. “I think all travel is good travel,” Hargrove says. “I feel the messaging around travel makes moms feel it has to be elaborate or extravagant, but that’s not true. It’s about creating experiences with your family, and getting outside the day-to-day to explore the world around you.”

Anderson likes going on cruises and visiting resorts that have kids’ clubs, where young ones can take part in activities tailored to their ages while the parents can have an adult moment to themselves. “The kids are not shortchanged,” she says. “They’re with other kids their age. They’re making friends. It’s just the best win-win scenario.”

Destinations like Great Wolf Lodge make it easy by having all the activities and amenities on-site, so you don’t have to research, book and find your way to each one individually. At their engaging water parks, your pack can float along the lazy river, master the wave pool, climb up the interactive four-story treehouse fort, fly down tons of thrilling slides and play basketball. There are dedicated pools for even the tiniest tots — and hot springs for parents. On dry land, you can bowl, challenge each other to air hockey at the arcade or a round at the mini-golf course, and get a new perspective while traversing the ropes course. Shopping, shows and dance parties can all be all part of your stay — while available dining options ensure chicken nuggets, pancakes, ice cream and pizza (plus coffee and cocktails for you) are always at the ready.

Anticipate the journey.

One of the biggest pain points for traveling with kids — whether solo or with other adults — is physically reaching the destination. Keeping the pros and cons in mind will help you plan accordingly.

For example, road trips are convenient for single parents of young kids because you don’t have to schlep all your gear through an airport or worry about baggage weight limitations or fees. You can also set your departure down to the minute, which makes it easier to plan around naps and mealtimes. Of course, going solo means doing all the driving yourself, so bake time into your itinerary for rests and pit stops.

For plane travelers, “getting to the airport early is super-important when traveling solo with kids,” Hargrove advises. “Buy a cheap compact stroller if you’re traveling with small children; it’s more practical than bringing a fancy one and you don’t have to worry about your nice things getting ruined.”

Once you’re past security, you can check on your seats. “I always go to the counter to request that we’re seated together or select our seats in advance,” Hargrove adds. “I avoid airlines with unassigned seating as much as possible.”

Link up with another family or families.

Vacationing with another solo parent means you’ll each have someone to share the load (and possibly expenses) with, and your kids will have at least one companion for activities.

Anderson experienced the benefits firsthand on a trip to the Middle East. “We split the cost of the hotel and the cost of the car. We both took turns driving from Dubai to Abu Dhabi. One parent would stay with the kids while the other went to get food or a massage. We were able to enjoy ourselves more because we had that trusted friend.”

Hargrove agrees: “When I’m traveling solo with my kids, there’s no substitute for an extra set of hands. There’s ease in knowing you have someone there with you.” At Great Wolf Lodge you can split the cost of a premium suite or villa — so you have multiple beds and bathrooms, depending on the option you choose. Just make sure your families are compatible travel companions. “You’ll want to consider kids’ age, activity level and interests,” Hargrove adds.

Look for packages and deals.

Great Wolf Lodge offers discounts to families who book in advance. You can save up to 40% on single-night stays and up to 50% on stays of two nights or more when you book more than 90 days in advance . To see deals specific to your area, sort by resort. Great Wolf Lodge also offers discounts for first responders and veterans, among others.

Don’t forget the other options available to you, Hargrove says. “Credit-card points are king — if you’re not using points for travel, you’re missing out on a ton of savings. In my case, I use them predominately for flights.”

Adjust on the go.

No matter how well you thought things out or how much you prepared, remember that sometimes things veer off course. “The reality is, there will be moments when things don’t go as planned, like the time my son’s ears popped and he had a meltdown on a flight, or when we were hiking and faced off with wild coyotes,” Hargrove says. “The more you travel together, the more you’ll value your experiences together, and the easier it will become. Travel has brought us closer as a family and every experience teaches us something new.”

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• Mar 2, 2023

6 Tips to Thrive as a Solo-Parent

Hey Mama! Melody here...

How can we stop surviving motherhood and start thriving as moms? How can we learn to be a solo parent? How can we be a happier mom when our spouse is deployed?

I am going to share six ways that helped me to thrive as a solo parent ...but first grab your life jacket and let's go on a little journey together...

On this voyage of solo parenting, I’ve made it halfway. Six months at sea and six months to get where I am going. My ship has now adapted to the rough waters, my hands have learned to grab on and hold on to hang on, out of fear that if I did let go completely, I would fall overboard. My ship would continue its trip to land, and I would forever be lost at sea. As a solo captain and the only passenger responsible for myself and my little human crew’s survival, I was forced to adapt and change in order to survive. Survive the calmness, the beauty and happiness that coincides with the calm, yet, also survive the rough waters, the overwhelmingly dark waters of the unknown and rigid storms that could creep up at any time.

I learned that by easing up on the sails (the lines/ also known as sheets, that allow me to be in control of my sailboat), I was preparing myself mentally for the journey to come and learning to be patient and ride along with the waves, as opposed to fighting them. Better planning and proper preparation for my voyage was key to survival. Better yet, to me thriving as a solo parent. To thrive I was required to take on both roles of the captain and co captain (or two captains you could say).

Let’s dip our toes off the boat, into the now relatively calm and soothing water, like the calmness of the sunrise after a storm that has wreaked havoc and caused many shipwrecks. My ship made it, safely and I know now so many reasons why that is. I also know how I can help other ships arrive fully intact with a happily relieved crew and captain!

Here is what I have learned, as a mother of three boys, and post a six-month journey of rigid, very large and strong waves and excessive winds of motherhood, and here is how I finally grasped hold of the calmness/joy/safety that follows.

In Motherhood, whatever your circumstance is as a parent, you need to understand and know there is only one of you as a mom. You will feel like everyone, and everything wants you and generally needs you at the same time. You will have days that you just want relief. You want someone to come and say, “go shower, I’ll hold the baby, here’s a nice hot meal, take a minute for you!” You may be lucky enough to have a partner who does these things, or you may have the occasional family member or friend who helps you do just that… but you might not. In my situation I didn’t get this. I had a family member come once or twice a week, if that.

I remember the first few weeks of my husband’s deployment. At the time I was still learning how to get on the boat, I was barely surviving a long day and I was thinking about how some other parents, by dinner or shortly after dinner time, would have a second adult coming to be on night watch. I remember holding my two sons, alternating spoon bites and bottles, while baby sensory shows played in the background and tripping over toys, dishes piled high, clutter and chaos consuming me, staring at the door thinking “no one is coming.” This was extremely sad to think about and it started to mentally affect my parenting. Once you see a little leak in the boat, at first you may think, “oh it’s a small little leak, its fine” but overtime the boat sinks. You need to fix the leak right away or be consumed and drown. I decided at that very moment, when I felt like I had hit rock bottom and when mommy burn out had consumed me that I would make the changes required to thrive. It did not help feeling sad for myself or putting the ownness on others to step it up and I do not recommend this. I tried to fill my days by inviting people over. Generally, I had a few drop ins at the beginning but then I noticed as time went on, people were busy with their families, lives and work. When I would have normally been enjoying some down time with my husband, that wasn’t an option for me anymore.

Main takeaway from my first tip: you can prepare and decide to be happy solo! You have your family (even if they aren’t with you physically) and you need to mentally prepare yourself for being happy alone.

Six months of solo parenting later and here is what I have learned.

Six tips to help you thrive solo-parenting:

1. MENTALLY PREPARE yourself to be alone and be OK with it! Find your hobby and your passions. If you aren't sure what those are, that is okay, sometimes we lose ourselves in the motherhood role and aren't sure how to find ourselves again. Take the time to really think about what used to make you happy, fulfilled, bring joy to your life and then start with something small. For me it was writing and reading. Do not allow yourself to float away, unless its in a bubble bath and you’re downing something (anything) to refuel yourself because you know the nights and days never end! Drop your anchor and mentally sooth your soul.

The definition of mental preparation is defined as "the act of mentally preparing oneself for a performance." As an athlete would prepare to run a marathon, you too, must prepare to do everything for yourself and your loved ones. All of the weight is on your shoulders now so you must have the mental capacity to endure and push through the pain.

How can you mentally prepare? Here are a few ways:

- Acknowledge your feelings and be in touch with how you are feeling. What triggers your feelings? Do you feel happier or more sad about certain situations? How can you change your environment so that you don't feel sad? I used to find certain songs or sitting in the house for too long (feeling/knowing my husband was coming in the door) would make me feel gloomy, emotional and lonely. So, instead of sitting around feeling this way, I forced myself to get outside more and make an effort to plan things ahead with people. Whatever fuels your soul you need to get out there and mentally stay positive!

- Learn from your mistakes, If something isn't working, along your journey, do not be too hard on yourself. Instead mentally accept that change is okay and that it is okay to do things differently now.

- Get out of your comfort zone and accept that changes will happen.

2. Act – TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR DAY – you are the boss and you need to take control and own your day. Specifically, wear your confidence hat, bow, lipstick, whatever it is, you are the creator of your day so make it AMAZING and your babies will follow your footsteps.

How? Daily affirmation of encouragement and positive mindset (believe in yourself and plan for success). Those without a vision will perish!

3. ESTABLISH ROUTINES- Stop being indecisive about your routines. I used to hmmm and ha about things all the time. STOP DOING THAT. YES or NO to things. YES, if you can do it, NO if it will push you over the edge. You do not need to do everything all the time and your kids will survive and be happier because ultimately you will be.

4. EMBRACE LIVING WITH SIMPLICITY- I became an aspiring minimalist because I was so sick of the chaos. SO…. ORGANIZE your home and rid the clutter – one bag a day is my rule of thumb, recycle and donate. Or the one thing in means one thing out rule. You do not need new organizers; you need less stuff. Sorry to be the one to tell you that. PURGE MAMA. The clutter-free home means less toys to pick up, less toys to trip over, less clothes to wash and ultimately less mental chaos. I am all for less chores and more love. Wouldn't you rather spend time giggling with your kiddos than cleaning? My goal with this is not to take away all toys, but rather, focus on the value of making memories and spending time on adventures together. Simplifying your life can truly help you to thrive as a mom!!

5. SAY YES TO HELP – anyone, anytime, say YES. Stop thinking you are super mom. Although, you do wear a cape and are capable of the extraordinary. Sometimes superwoman needs a massage, or a nice set of muscles to row the boat for a few minutes and give mom a break, take the help.

6. EAT and DRINK as much as you can. As a mom, especially as a breastfeeding mama, I am always hungry and always thirsty. For too long I would pick the soggy goldfish off my toddler’s plate or eat scraps from the pot of macaroni and cheese. Mama you’re a person, you aren’t a child, stop eating scraps off the floor. Fill your cute mug and water bottle, daily and often. Fill your cup Mama!

Thank you for reading: Thrive Mama Thrive Blog! Check out my other blog posts for more mom support and solo parenting advice. Let's thrive together!

I hope these mom/ solo-parenting tips help you Thrive at being the super mom that you are capable of being!

🖤 - 𝓜𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓭𝔂 𝓢𝓽𝓸𝓷𝓮

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 I am on a mission to Revolutionize the Midlife Experience of Women, Everywhere. I'm an Entrepreneur, a highly sought-after Coach and Wellness Expert. My favourite role in life is being a thriving Solo Mum to my wonderful son and like you, I am navigating Midlife and Perimenopause.

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In this post you’ll read about the personal journeys and successes of famous celebrities who embraced Solo Motherhood, showcasing their strength and courage.

First things first. Are you wrestling with a swarm of what-ifs each night? Are you  agonizing over the possibility of missing out on motherhood, the joy of raising a family – a regret you fear may haunt you if you don’t try? Are you worried that choosing solo motherhood may mean lifelong singleness, or that it could impact your future child, who’d grow up with a donor instead of a father. On top of it all, there’s the looming uncertainty: What if the fertility treatment doesn’t work? 

I know that celebrities may seem as if they don’t have the same worries as us, but I bet you that every single one of these women went through what you are going through right now in your head. And they knew that despite the inner turmoil, there was one thing they knew for sure – they wanted to become a parent and had to give it their best shot.

So we stand, looking up at these examples of the single moms of Hollywood and beyond. Each one illuminating their stories in the cosmic theater of single motherhood.

“When You Change The Way You Look At Things, The Things You Look At Change.” Dr. Wayne Dyer

FAMOUS SOLO MOMS

Monica cruz: stunning, spanish single mother by choice .

Born under the Spanish sun, Monica Cruz is no stranger to the spotlight. Known for her prowess in acting and dancing, she is also recognized as the stunningly beautiful sister of Academy Award-winning actress, Penelope Cruz. But Monica’s most defining role arrived at the age of 35, when she decided to step into the realm of solo motherhood.

Haunted by the rhythmic ticking of her biological clock, she made a choice – a choice to be a mother, a choice that would change her universe forever. Monica ventured into the world of IVF, using an anonymous sperm donor to fulfill her dreams of motherhood.

Antonella, her little star, came bursting into Monica’s universe, painting it with hues of unconditional love. Her decision to embrace motherhood as a solo parent, despite the societal expectations and potential backlash, illuminated her strength and resolve.

Navigating the complex world of single motherhood, Monica found her true North in Antonella. Her journey was and continues to be one of strength, resilience, and profound love, a beacon for others contemplating a similar path.

Natalie Imbruglia: She’s Not ‘Torn’ About Becoming A Single Mother By Choice

As the haunting notes of “Torn” resonate in our memories, we recall Natalie Imbruglia, the Australian actress and singer who ruled the music charts in the late 90s. Her enchanting voice and captivating performances set her apart, but it is her personal journey that I’m interested in exploring here.

At 44, Natalie decided to embark on the journey of becoming a solo mother. Undeterred by her age or the society’s norms, Natalie chose to explore IVF and sperm donation. In her life’s sky, a new star was about to be born.

Max Valentine, her son, arrived like a cosmic miracle, altering the fabric of Natalie’s universe. Her journey to motherhood was no easy feat. It was a rollercoaster ride through hormonal changes, fertility treatments, and countless medical appointments.

Yet, Natalie embraced each challenge, her maternal instinct guiding her through. She emerged as a supernova in the universe of solo motherhood.

Her decision to become a single mom, defying the norm, is a testament to her strength and determination. She has redrawn the boundaries of motherhood, showing the world that it’s not about the conventional path, but about the journey each woman chooses to go on.

These women, Monica Cruz and Natalie Imbruglia, embarked on the daring journey of solo motherhood, each leaving a stellar mark on the universe of single parenting. They challenged norms, defied expectations, and emerged as mothers, cradling their world – their children – in their loving arms. Their stories echo across the world, reminding us that motherhood knows no bounds, no norms, only love.

There’s No Single Path For These Famous Single Moms

Charlize Theron: This Oscar-winning actress chose to walk the path of single motherhood with two adopted children, Jackson and August. Unabashed, she dismantled society’s norms and mothers her children, redefining parenthood in her wake.

Sandra Bullock : A force majeure, she adopted her two children, Louis and Laila, post-divorce. Embracing her new role with grace and tenacity, Bullock has proven that the fabric of a family is woven not by circumstance, but by choice.

Rihanna: Then we have the vibrant Rihanna, a trailblazer who, while having become a mother with a partner herself, also raised her younger brother after her mother returned to full-time work. The young starlet became a guiding North Star.

Mindy Kaling : Standing tall in our constellation of solo moms is Mindy Kaling. A fiercely private person, Kaling became a single mother to daughter Katherine and son Spencer, keeping their births under wraps. An embodiment of discretion, she shines bright, navigating solo motherhood her way.

January Jones: The Mad Men actress is a mother to son Xander, choosing not to disclose his father’s identity. Jones’ tale echoes the primal power of motherhood, a pulsating reminder that the decision to parent stands proudly as an act of individual agency.

Taraji P. Henson: The Empire star has raised her son Marcell alone since his father’s untimely passing. Henson’s resilience sends a powerful message, shining a beacon of hope on the possibilities and joys of single motherhood.

Lucy Liu: Liu welcomed her son Rockwell via gestational surrogate, carving her own space in the pantheon of famous solo moms.

Tziporah Malkah & Foster Parenting

Coming from Australia, Tziporah Malkah, formerly known as Kate Fischer, exemplifies the spirit of solo motherhood. This model and actress, once engaged to businessman James Packer, chose to live a quiet life out of the limelight. Although Malkah does not have biological children, she took on the role of a solo parent when she fostered a teenager, providing him a safe, supportive home and showing the same unconditional love, dedication, and resilience that all mothers do.

Her story reminds us that motherhood isn’t defined merely by biological ties, but also by the love and care that one invests in raising a child. Malkah’s journey to becoming a foster parent adds a unique narrative to the constellation of solo motherhood. 

Sushmita Sen & Adoption Against The Odds

In India, we find Sushmita Sen, a luminary in the world of solo motherhood. Crowned Miss Universe in 1994, Sen has been an inspirational figure both on and off the stage. Choosing to embrace motherhood at the age of 25, she became the first Indian woman to adopt a child as a single parent. Sen faced legal challenges and society’sl pressures but held her ground firmly, opening the way for other single women in India to adopt.

Sen’s daughters, Renee and Alisah, are the stars of her universe. Her journey reflects her courage and defiance, illuminating the pathway for single women who wish to embrace motherhood via the adoption route. She embodies the spirit of solo motherhood, demonstrating that the choice to become a mother can be made independently of deeply entrenched expectations.

Both Tziporah Malkah and Sushmita Sen have carved their unique paths in the universe of solo motherhood. Their stories highlight strength and resilience, showing the world that the journey to motherhood can be embraced in different forms, and that each narrative holds its own unique, inspirational power.

So there you have it, an amazing roster of solo moms, each writing her own story in the rich tapestry of single motherhood. Their experiences are as diverse and remarkable as they are. Each one strikes a chord with me, reminding me that motherhood, in all its shapes, is a bold act of love and each story stands as a tribute to the boundless capacity of our human hearts.

My Nuggets Of Wisdom

Here’s a nugget of wisdom from Dr. Wayne Dyer that has been a personal touchstone for me and I hope it resonates with you too: “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Isn’t that so true when it comes to motherhood? 

Society often paints a picture of two parents raising children, but the amazing solo moms I’ve spotlighted flip the script. And guess what? I chose this path, too. By altering my own perspective on motherhood, I’ve rewritten my narrative and brought about a shift in how the world sees single parenthood. You can too.

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How to decide whether it's time to become a parent on your own..

Posted April 8, 2024 | Reviewed by Devon Frye

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When did you first begin to think about becoming a parent? Maybe it's something you've always wanted; maybe it's a dream that emerged more recently.

Either way, if you are sure you want a child but have been waiting for a partner to start making that dream come true, you might not want to wait too long. The odds of fertility problems unfortunately increase with age; however, modern reproductive endocrinology gives you many options for becoming a single parent.

If becoming a solo parent is the last thing you thought you’d ever do, you're not alone. Many solo parents felt that way in the past but changed their minds due to:

• A life event that told them it was time to pick up the phone and make a doctor’s appointment. This could be a milestone birthday, a breakup, a parent getting ill, or a job change.
• Seeing a friend or family member getting pregnant or parenting .
• Someone else’s divorce reminded them that we can start with a partner and still end up solo parenting. Some of my patients report hearing from their divorced friends that the best part of their divorce has been the increased control they have over many parenting decisions (schools, religion, activities, residence), and the closeness they develop with their children.

Even when children are told about being conceived via an egg donation or sperm donor insemination, they typically have a well-bonded, close positive relationship with their parent and normal psychological adjustment. In other words, having two parents does not seem to be essential for children to do well emotionally, and the quality of their family life seems more important for children than the composition or structure of their family life. 1

The Challenges of Solo Parenting

Solo parenting is not, of course, all rainbows and bubble baths. Some common challenges you may face include:

• Finances: Unlike "single by divorce" parents, single parents by choice are often going it alone financially; many say this is the toughest part. They are not only responsible for the initial medical costs (IVF, sperm/egg donation, adoption , or surrogacy), but they are also responsible for babysitters, food, household needs, clothing, toys, and educational enhancement, for starters. Even birthday parties and holidays add to the bill. Sometimes a person’s parents will help, but other times they can’t or say no. Be clear on their feelings and your own regarding financial help.
• Time management : Most of us run on a daily time deficit as is. It gets worse if you’re working and doing fertility treatments—and even worse still when you’re parenting. Self-care? Gym time? A full night’s sleep? Not always realistic.
• Working: Consider your job, your workspace, your hours, your boss, and your benefits. Although working remotely can make single parenting easier logistically, children’s need for attention may make your job more difficult. Furthermore, working remotely can also increase your feeling of isolation when you have a child . 2

What Aspiring Solo Parents Can Do to Cope

1. Create a support group. There’s no need to go it alone. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, there are currently more than 10 million single-parent homes, 80 percent headed by a mother; more than half of those mothers are solo and not divorced. 3

So, if you think you may be choosing to start your family on your own, think about creating a strong support team. Identify those in your life who can join your journey, who can answer your questions, go with you to doctor’s visits, sympathize or empathize, or reassure you or make you smile.

If you are not comfortable asking those you know to help, find an existing support group. There are many online support groups, including many that can be found in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory. It not only takes a village to raise a child; it also takes a village to support a single parent.

2. Share. For many, the hardest part of being a single parent by choice is feeling alone for the “firsts”—first word, first tooth, first step, first day at school. So, turn those firsts into opportunities to share .

Send out news and photos to friends and family by text, email, or social media . Or make a scrapbook, virtual or tangible. You'll be inviting others to share special moments in your life. They will usually feel complimented and enjoy responding—and you will no longer experience life changes alone.

3. Give yourself a break! The most common single-parent complaint is exhaustion. Plan for it. Ask your sibling , mother, father, or friend to watch your child sometimes—even when you have no appointments or chores and just need some time alone. If you can’t afford a babysitter, make an I.O.U. deal with another parent to give each other an hour's break each week. That time away from a child of any age can help you catch your breath, lower your adrenaline, and feel patient again.

Additional Factors to Consider

Having looked at the pros and cons of parenting solo, now look at your relationship with yourself. Do you tend to be self-blaming or self-supporting? Are you more likely to say to yourself in years to come, “Waiting was right for me. I only wanted a two-parent family for myself and my child”— or are you more likely to say, “I should have..., I would have…., I could have…” ?

Egg freezing may give you more time and help you feel more in control of the decision, but deciding at some point, one way or the other, will help you feel like you have been true to yourself.

( J Fam Psychol. 2021 Mar; 35(2): 192–202.

Single Mothers by Choice: Parenting and Child Adjustment in Middle Childhood, Barbara H. Fiese, Editor and Arin M. Connell, ersity Press. Oberlander, S. E., et al. (2006).

(Census Bureau November 17, 2022, Press Release Number CB22-TPS.99Mothers Maintain 80% of Single-Parent Family Groups).

Georgia Witkin, Ph.D. , is the Director of Patient Services Development for Progyny and an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry and Ob/Gyn and Reproductive Sciences at Mt. Sinai School of Medicine.

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How to Fly Your Kid Solo, Free of Stress

By Alexander Nazaryan

For many parents and guardians, putting a child on a flight alone may seem terrifying. Belligerent passengers, delays, turbulence: All loom large in a caregiver’s imagination.

Life sometimes leaves no other option. Hudson Crites , 17, of Marshall, Va., was 10 when he started flying unaccompanied to visit his father in Kansas and later Georgia, said his mother, Chelsea Tippett. But the extra attention from airline staff made Hudson “feel special,” Ms. Tippett recalls. Other than a single tarmac delay, he has had no problems.

On rare occasions, children have had troubling experiences. In December, Spirit Airlines accidentally flew a 6-year-old to Orlando, Fla., instead of the intended destination of Fort Myers. Spirit apologized, fired the gate agent responsible and offered reimbursement to the boy’s grandmother for her travel to Orlando. But while the boy was unharmed, his grandmother expressed worry that he had been kidnapped .

If you decide to fly your child unaccompanied, you’ll discover that each airline has its own procedures, fees and routes open to children. While some may find the process complicated, flying alone may be exciting for your child, instilling some independence. Here’s what you need to know.

Before you book, know the process

Regardless of the airline or route, flying an unaccompanied minor differs from an adult or a family catching a flight. Airlines require a trusted pre-authorized adult to be at the departure and arrival gates, and will ask you at booking to provide contact information for those adults. They will also need to present identification at the terminals.

The journey begins at the originating airport’s airline ticket counter. There, airline staff will check your identification and check in the child, perhaps handing them a lanyard or wristband to wear. The agents will provide you with a pass to get through security with your child. You will accompany them to the gate, where you will hand them off to a gate agent. You must stay at the gate until the plane takes off.

In the air, the flight crew will keep watch — but will not babysit, or sit with, your child. If the flight has a connection, a crew member will walk your child off the plane and a gate agent will take him or her to the next gate.

At the arrival airport, the child will be handed off by staff to the authorized guardian or parent who should have already checked in at the ticket counter with proper identification, gone through security with their gate pass and be waiting at the gate.

To learn more about this process, read the Department of Transportation’s online guide, “When Kids Fly Alone,” followed by the website of your selected carrier.

Choosing an airline and paying an extra fee

Before purchasing a ticket, experts advise you to consider an airline’s on-time performance. “Solid on-time performance is hard-earned, and signals a carrier that has tight control of its operation,” said the Ask the Pilot author, Patrick Smith. The Bureau of Transportation Statistics has those numbers.

Booking procedures vary. Delta Air Lines and American Airlines require you to call. United Airlines allows bookings online. JetBlue Airways does online bookings, too, but asks for three printed copies of its forms upon arrival at the airport.

International flights may call for a notarized consent letter describing where the child is traveling, with whom they’ll stay and how long they’ll be there.

On top of the ticket fare, flying an unaccompanied minor can be pricey.

Southwest Airlines charges $100 one way for each child, regardless of distance. Alaska Airlines charges $50 per child if the flight is nonstop; a connection adds $25. On Delta, one $150 fee will cover up to four children, and American’s $150 covers all siblings, with no cap on number. United charges $150 for one child, or two children flying together.

Restrictions: There are plenty

U.S. carriers allow children to fly as unaccompanied minors once they turn 5 and before they turn 18. But regardless of your child’s age, make sure he or she is ready by discussing the trip details and your expectations of their behavior. No policy can replace your judgment.

The low-cost carriers Frontier Airlines and Allegiant Air don’t allow unaccompanied minors, Other airlines have restrictions that, in the broadest terms, differentiate between young children and teenagers. American and Delta restrict children under 8 from routes requiring connections. Both airlines allow children between 8 and 14 to take some connecting flights.

On American, no unaccompanied minor is allowed to take an overnight flight requiring a connection, or a flight that includes a connection on its final leg that also happens to be the last such flight that day (“unless it’s the only flight,” the company adds). Minors are not allowed on code-share flights.

United and Delta have similar rules. Southwest, JetBlue and Spirit don’t allow unaccompanied minors on connecting flights.

JetBlue prohibits minors from flying to Europe, and limits the number of unaccompanied minors in one party to three. Spirit does not allow children on flights to Central or South America. Southwest doesn’t allow children on any international flights. American, United and Delta let minors fly abroad, but restrictions on connections, code-shares and overnights limit options.

American and Delta allow children to opt out of flying as unaccompanied minors once they turn 15 — that is, the child can fly without the assistance of airline personnel. JetBlue ends unaccompanied minor service at 14, while Alaska has an opt-out option at 13. Southwest boasts the lowest opt-out age: 12.

However, you should be able to accompany your child to the gate even if they’re not flying unaccompanied. American requires that you do so for teens between the ages of 15 and 17, even if they’ve opted out.

What to pack

Have a plan to head off your child’s hunger, boredom and thirst. If they are older, make sure they have emergency money and a charged phone.

When her two daughters, then 9 and 11, flew to Denver, Joey Conover of Charlottesville, Va., had a long list for their carry-ons.

“Pack a backpack with iPad, headphones, lightweight book to read, a pad of paper and colored pencils (markers might smear), a small travel game, water bottle (bring empty and fill in airport), snacks, some kind of surprise fidget or animals to play with, hoodie, and a lovey,” she wrote in an email.

“Write your name and phone number on the inside of their arm in Sharpie and put a parent’s business card in a luggage tag on both suitcase and backpack,” Ms. Conover said. (A sheet of paper with all their identification, and their guardian’s contact information, also works. Simply stick in an easy-to-access pocket.)

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I'm a 41-year-old widow with young kids. Here are the 5 things no one tells you about parenting alone.

• My husband died six years ago, leaving me to parent our kids alone. 
• I learned five important things in my years as an only parent. 
• Making decisions for my kids all by myself can be exhausting some times. 

Earlier this month, my daughter turned 14. When she woke up in the morning, I was the only parent who wished her a happy birthday. When she went to bed, I was the only parent who could share a memory from the moment she was born. In between, I was the only parent to help with their homework, meet with teachers to discuss class schedules, pay the registration fee for track, listen and advise about friend drama, and do the million other visible and invisible things related to parenting. The next day, I did it all again.

The same way I have for the last six years since my children's father, my husband and co-parent, died .

That day, I became a young widow and an only parent.

Then, I didn't know the term only parent . I knew only that what I was about to do — raise two kids by myself — was going to be hard and humbling. I felt clueless, alone, and terrified.

Now, I know more. Admittedly, I'm still terrified but slightly less clueless, and the least I can do is share those truths with other only parents who might be feeling alone and terrified.

Making decisions alone doesn't get better as time goes by

Making every decision about and for my children, big and small, is exhausting. Every mistake is mine to own, and the weight of this responsibility never lightens, never eases. But only parenting does become more intuitive and the confidence does build.

Other parents don't understand what I'm going through

The only way to truly understand the nuances and challenges of only parenthood is to be an only parent.

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Other parents, those with a co-parent or partner who provides support, whether emotional, mental, physical, or financial, can't fully understand. And that's OK. Every parent has their own challenges that no one else can understand.

Finding the people who understand your challenges — there are communities of only parents — can make all the difference.

I remind people I'm an 'only parent'

The purpose of naming myself as an only parent—or solo parent—is not to win the mommy wars, not to prove that I have it harder than other moms. It's to feel seen. To feel a little less invisible in a world built for twos.

Naming my experience and distinguishing it from others is an act of giving myself and other only parents permission to be seen, heard, and understood.

My heart breaks for my kids

My kids will always have that space that can only be filled by their other parent. They will always know an absence — and there's nothing I can do or give to change that. That truth makes my heart break on a daily basis. Also, I know that in learning to live with that absence, in learning to move forward even when the path is hard, my kids are learning perseverance. They're learning — through example and experience — that the hardest moments pass, and you're not defined by your worst days.

Even when it's hard, I'm grateful

When the house is a mess, the kids are pushing all my buttons, and everything seems to be going wrong, there's still an underlying glimmer — sometimes a very faint, barely-there glimmer — of gratitude.

My husband doesn't get to see the kids grow up. He won't see them at their best or their worst, and I know he would have loved to. It means that I can't help but be grateful for the fact that I'm here — I get to be here.

It's a privilege not granted to all.

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