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16 Tips for Flying With Toddlers and Young Kids

Traveling with toddlers can be hard, at least if you're not properly prepared. Here, experienced flight attendants share their secrets for flying with young kids.

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With long security lines, cramped airplane seating, and busy waiting areas, flying isn't the most pleasant experience—and all of the frustration increases exponentially when you add a toddler into the mix. Some young children simply don't have the patience for airport security. They might despise sitting quietly for hours on end, and they might be uneasy during turbulence or get upset with the ear-popping changes in air pressure.

Thankfully, though, you can have a worry-free travel day with proper preparation and planning. Whether you're jetting off to your relative's house or Disney World, check out these stress-reducing strategies for flying (and traveling) with toddlers—some of which came straight from flight attendants.

Book an Early Morning Departure

If you're traveling with toddlers or young children, you should book an early morning departure. These give you the best chance of avoiding delays at takeoff and landing, a flight attendant named Patrick explains. "They are usually less crowded, too," he says. "Plus, everyone is tired and just wants to nap—kids especially."

Save Your Upgrades for Toddler-Free Travel

Traveling in first class with kids can be more stressful than it's worth. Mom Joanna recounts the story of traveling with her loud, lively toddler and incurring the vocal wrath of her first-class seatmates for the entirety of the flight. "It's not fair, but you're just going to get more empathy and support with kids in economy," says a flight attendant.

Talk to Your Kids About What to Expect

"My experience is kids do so much better when they know what to expect," says Shireen, a mom of three from Australia who's traveled to the U.S. several times with her kids. She recommends watching a Let's Go Play video on YouTube , which goes over the entire flight experience, from baggage check-in and ticketing to onboard etiquette and safety.

Dress in Layers and Skip Shoes With Laces

Whether you are changing climates or simply dealing with in-flight heat and/or air conditioning, you can and should be ready for drastically changing temperatures when traveling with a toddler. Wendy, a flight attendant and mom, suggests you dress your kids in comfortable layers—preferably without buttons, zippers, or anything that could prevent them from getting to the bathroom in time.

The same principle applies to shoes: Avoid laces and opt for slip-ons. "There's the added benefit of getting through airport screening that much faster," she says.

Bring Surprises

When flying with a toddler, a wrapped new plaything has two advantages: Kids love to unwrap stuff, and a new toy has more attention-grabbing pull.

Consider Using a Smaller Stroller

Getting through an airport without a stroller is unthinkable for some parents, so consider switching out your regular-size stroller for a small, compact umbrella stroller or travel stroller. Also, check your stroller at the gate before boarding; the crew will have it waiting for you when you get off the plane.

If you've got more than one little traveler with you, consider a kid harness (aka leash), Wendy suggests. "I was so against them until I saw a woman with three young boys using them in baggage claim. It made so much sense," she says, "with the exit doors to outside right there. Look, flying is stressful enough. Do what you need to do to protect your kids and your sanity."

Pack Just Enough

Flight attendants urge parents to pack enough essentials for the flight. "Unfortunately, you can expect there to be zero food on a plane that would interest a kid," says Lynn. "And we are so limited in what we can offer in terms of comfort items as well."

On the flip side, parents will struggle if they zealously overpack. "Usually, when it's one parent traveling with one or more kids, they'll bring way too much stuff in an attempt to keep their kids happy," Wendy says. "They forget they have to carry all that stuff off the plane with them, along with their kids."

Plan Your Packing List

To guard against over-packing while ensuring you don't forget anything critical, consider writing out a full packing list. Star or highlight those items that will need to be packed last minute (like the lovey your kiddo sleeps with or the tablet that's currently charging) so you have a checklist to consult one last time before heading out the door.

Sample Airplane Packing List for Toddlers

When packing your carry-on for the plane ride, use this list as a starting point:

• Comfort item: Consider packing one of your toddler's favorite comfort items in your carry-on for mid-flight snuggles. If the comfort item is a pacifier, be sure to pack more than one, lest it gets flung down the aisle or on the floor.
• Sanitizer, wipes, pull-ups, and diapers: You'll want these critical items within reach at all times during your travels. Not sure how many diapers to throw in the carry-on? One diaper per hour of travel is recommended.
• Electronic devices: If there is any time to let up on strict screen time rules, it's when you're traveling. Make sure that whatever device you're bringing is fully charged and ready to go—and don't forget the chargers for the flight back. Consider pre-loading the tablet or phone with your kids' favorite movies or shows for offline viewing.
• Kid-size headphones: Be sure to follow the basic rules of travel etiquette and pack comfy headphones your little one can wear while enjoying their favorite games or shows. Have more than one kid in tow? Consider investing in a splitter so both can enjoy the show with their own set of headphones.
• Art supplies: A small box of crayons and blank paper can go a long way when it comes to entertaining your toddler on a plane. Mix things up and pack some fun stickers or even plain sticky notes to add to the excitement.
• Plastic bags: You never know when you'll need an extra bag for wet clothes, a dirty diaper, or even just for trash, so pack a few extras.
• Water bottle: Toss an empty clean water bottle into your bag to fill after you get through security. Just make sure that it's leakproof!
• Healthy and fun mess-free snacks: While you don't necessarily want to load your kid up with sugar just before take-off, consider packing a mix of healthy and fun snacks that are relatively mess-free to keep their bellies full and happy. Cheerios, pretzels, crackers, string cheese, and granola bars are good options.

Be Prepared for Security

When you pack, make sure items that need to be removed during security are easily reached. Keep in mind that traveling with snacks may mean extra scrutiny during the screening process.

Prepare for Air Pressure Changes

If your child has recently had an ear infection or a cold, get your doctor's approval before flying. The change in cabin air pressure may cause pain for your toddler. After passing through security, stock up on enough water for everyone to get through a possible delay and have enough left for the descent, which is often the most bothersome time for ear pressure discomfort. Have your kids drink some right after takeoff and during the last 30 to 45 minutes of the descent. The swallowing helps with the pressure changes and gives an added hydrating benefit.

By All Means, Use Pull-Ups

Your little one may have moved beyond Pull-Ups into big kid underwear, but pull-up diapers are a great resource when flying with a recently potty-trained toddler or young child. "I even use them on my 6-year-old," says Wendy, who adds that it's much less stressful than having to race to the bathroom or deal with an in-seat accident.

Show Some Appreciation

Flight attendants love to receive a certain gratuity for dealing with toddlers. "Any kind of chocolate found in an airport, handed over at boarding, does wonders," says Patrick. Of course, it will have zero effect on the random bad-tempered, unprofessional cabin crew member. But it's a nice gesture nonetheless, particularly when flying during the holidays when most flight attendants will be working and away from their families.

"It will be so appreciated," he says. "And we will remember you and look out for you. And not only that, you'll probably score a free drink out of it."

Seat Kids Away From the Aisle

Aisle seats can be dangerous for toddlers and potentially give them a little too much freedom of movement. For example, little hands and feet can be bumped as people walk by and hot coffee and water may be just within reach as the food and beverage cart passes by. If you can, consider the window seat, which offers the benefit of a view and puts you between your toddler and any other passengers in your row.

Beware of Germs

Toddlers tend to get sit a lot, but you can try to avoid any travel-related illness by keeping your little one's hands clean. When flying with a toddler, wipe everything from hands to tray tables down with sanitizing wipes when you're getting settled in your seats—and above all else, do not send your kids to the bathroom without shoes. "The floor is a Petri dish," a flight attendant confides. "You're in the air, things jostle. That's not just water on the bathroom floor."

Keep Your Composure

There's not much you can do to assuage that passenger who complains the moment your child sneezes or giggles. Here's what you need to remember: As long as you're trying (and what parent isn't?), you've got almost everyone on your side. "An adult having an issue with a screaming child is acting like a child as well," offers a flight attendant and mother named Patience. "Don't engage. Just worry about your own child."

Choose an Airline With Kid-Friendly Perks

There's nothing a family-friendly airline wants more than happy, occupied kiddos. As such, many leading carriers have all kinds of kid perks to offer their littlest travelers from a wide array of their favorite TV shows and movies to kid-approved headphones and snacks.

Before boarding, be sure to check in with the gate agent about whether the airline offers priority boarding for families with young children. Often airlines call special boarding for families so they can board a little early so you'll have time to settle in. Other great perks to look for are family lounges or airports with areas for kids to burn off some steam during layovers or before boarding.

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6 Tips to Flying Solo With Just Your Kids

Flying with little kids is rarely easy, although once you do it a few times there are definitely tips and tricks you'll pick up to make it more manageable. Generally speaking, the more hands you have to help with the kids, the easier the flight experience. But for a wide variety of reasons, you may find yourself flying solo without another spouse, parent, or adult there to assist you and the littles.

My family's travels typically include my husband and two kids (currently 2 and 5 years old), but there have been a handful of times where I found myself flying solo with the kids. Several of my friends told me I was crazy and that they would just cancel the vacation instead of taking their kids by themselves. But I ignored their stance and told myself I could do it. My take is that if there is somewhere you want to go, then flying solo with the kids is worth it. And meeting my parents down in sunny Florida with my two kids to escape the cold of the Northeast was well worth it on multiple occasions.

Spoiler alert: Flying solo with kids is really not bad at all.

1. Ship Items to Your Destination in Advance.

Sometimes I feel like when I am traveling with kids, I am packing up my entire house and trying to fit everything in my suitcase. My first solo flight with my two kids included needing to travel with an endless supply of diapers, formula, burp clothes, baby food and bottles. Instead of bringing it all down with me (which would have taken up a suitcase by itself), I was able to order everything I needed in advance from Amazon and had it waiting for me at my destination. While I had everything shipped to the condo we were renting, many hotels are willing to accept packages on your behalf. Just let them know in advance. I suggest having your items arrive the day before your schedule to land so the hotel doesn't have to hold onto it for too many days (increasing the chances that it may be misplaced), but giving yourself a one day buffer in case of a shipping delay.

Another idea is to use a bag VIP delivery service . You would still check-in your bags at the airport, but they could be delivered to your final destination.

There are also many companies who will deliver baby items straight to your hotel or vacation rental. This includes cribs, high chairs, strollers, etc. This could definitely help lighten your load which is very important when flying without an extra set of hands.

2. Curbside Check-in is Your Friend.

There is rarely a reason to ever enter the airport with your luggage. Get rid of it as quickly as possible with curbside check-in. Yes, it might cost you a few extra dollars (at the very least, a tip), but it is well worth it! Do not try to lug everyone's carry-ons through the airport if you are the solo adult with kids (other than a backpack of essential items you need for the plane). There are many airline co-branded credit cards that help you avoid the cost of checked bag fees .

3. Bring the Right Gear.

Think about the most efficient way to get your kids through the airport while keeping your hands as free as possible. For example, if you have a baby and a toddler, put the baby in the baby carrier and the toddler in the stroller. Of course, you know your child best, but do not expect the toddler to walk the entire way through the airport and dedicate the stroller only for the baby. You may decide this is the time to invest in a double stroller.

Bring carabiners. You can use them on your stroller to hold a handbag, your backpack, or even connect it to your luggage! This is also a way to carry more and still be hands-free.

4. Be Strategic With Your Flight Times.

Pick a time that you know will work well — considering your kids normal morning wake up time, nap times and bed times. Do not book a flight during the "witching" hour or at a time when you are cutting their nap short. While these are suggestions for flying with kids in general, they are even more important when flying solo as you do not have the extra hands to wrangle multiple tired and cranky kids. I personally like picking times that coincide right with nap time. A 1pm flight, for example, has always worked really well with my son's afternoon nap. We get on the plane, he plays a little bit, and next thing you know he is out cold. This allowed me to attend to my daughter, if needed.

If you are flying with kids who are out of the nap stage, evening flights may work well. A 7pm - 8pm departure may ensure that they pass out shortly after the flight takes off, but just make sure that you are able to handle a few sleeping children when the flight lands.

5. Pack Entertainment.

I always have a backpack that I bring on the flight that contains only items my kids will need at 36k feet — snacks, water, coloring items, small toys and a Kindle Fire. Having items that will keep your kids entertained will go a long way on the flight. You'll also want to bring an extra set of clothes. There is nothing worse then a child complaining their pants are wet because they spilled the apple juice and all your backups are stored underneath the plane. Don't go overboard since you do not want to travel with extra luggage, but be mindful of your kids' interests and needs.

Pro packing tips:

• Bring a backpack, not an over the shoulder bag.
• Use ziplock baggies to organize items — all extra clothes in one baggie, snacks in another, keep color items together, etc. This way you can just easily pull out the baggie to find what you are looking for and have some options to contain messes.
• Keep the items you'll most likely use first on top.
• For children 4 - 5 years or older , have them wear their own backpack with items they will need.

This is also a good time to throw most ( but not all ) rules out of the window. Make the flight that one-time exception where they are allowed an extra lollipop or an extra show on the iPad, just don't disturb others in the process. Breaking your normal house rules might give you that extra peace and quiet needed for a smooth flight. I always load a new movie onto my kids Kindle Fire prior to the flight so there is a surprise waiting for them.

6. Sit in the Back of the Plane.

I find the back of the plane the "family friendly" area anyways, but when flying solo being close to both the restrooms and flight attendants is important. Being in the back allows you to take a child to the bathroom, while leaving the other far away in their seat. You are also closer to the galley (depending on the plane type) where it is easier to ask a flight attendant for more water or snacks. You also have easier access to ask the flight attendant for assistance, if needed.

Being in the back of the plane also increases the chances of being near other friendly families who are willing to help. Or at the bare minimum, they'll give you an extra pass if your kids aren't perfect. The front of the plane usually includes passengers who pay for better seats or have elite status.

Bottom Line

Flying solo with your kids is 100% doable. Do not let your fear get in the way and allow you to miss some really fun opportunities with your kids. You can do it and before you know it you'll probably be planning additional solo adventures with your kids!

Fifteen Tips for Flying Alone with a Baby or Toddler

By: Author Shelly Rivoli

Posted on Published: September 30, 2022  - Last updated: April 16, 2024

Flying alone with a baby or toddler requires the swift dexterity of an octopus.

And in the days and weeks ahead of your flight, it’s easy to get bogged down in the logistical what-ifs? Some questions you may be asking if you’ll be a solo parent making the flight … with a baby or toddler:

• How do you get your carry-on bag, diaper bag, stroller, and possibly a car seat onto the X-ray scanner while you juggle your child? And if they ask to see your boarding pass and photo ID for a second time?!
• How do you fold your travel stroller at the gate with your child in your arms?
• What do you do with your baby while using airplane lavatories?
• And how do you install a car seat on the plane while wrestling your toddler and situating your carry on bag?
• And if you’re flying with a lap baby, how will you eat your dinner when there may not even be room for the fold-out tray with your child in your lap?
• Anything else to consider? How about negotiating baggage claim in an army of strangers slinging their heavy suitcases off the conveyor belt?

DEEP BREATH…

Help is here. Consider these tips and strategies to help streamline your first time flying alone with a baby or toddler.

But first! Pin this to your travel board for future reference and to help others!

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15 tips for flying solo with a baby or toddler:

1. if you haven’t already purchased your tickets ….

It may be well worth comparing your airline options using the Airlines Table in Travels with Baby: The Ultimate Guide… (beginning pg. 244) to see if any offer family-friendly perks that could make all the difference for you. You can also check the airlines included in my Need to Know Airline series for airline-specific tips when flying with a baby or toddler.

2. Take a “test drive” around your home (or around your block!) …

Hit the sidewalk with whatever suitcase(s), stroller, backpack, baby carrier or sling, or other gear you plan to transport through the airport on your own. Don’t wait until you get to the airport to discover your plan needs a little fine-tuning… And once you’ve ironed out this detail, it may also give you a helpful boost of confidence as travel day draws near.

3. Ask your airline (or check their information on your airport’s website) if you’ll have the option of curb-checking …

It can be extremely helpful when flying alone with a baby or toddler if you can curb-check your baggage on arrival at either of your airports.

This may help you avoid struggling through the hairpin turns of the line inside the airport. An extra fee may apply (around $2 per item usually), but it could be well worth it.

4. If you want to wear your baby or toddler through the airport to keep your hands free …

When flying alone with a baby or toddler, you may really need to keep your hands free for other things. My advice? Keep it simple!

Use a simple cross-body sling that will slip off and back on easily with one hand in case you are asked to remove it and put it through the X-ray. You’ll also be less likely to get asked to remove a simple fabric sling than a baby carrier with thick straps and multiple heavy-duty buckles.

While you’re not allowed to wear your baby in the sling in the airplane during takeoff or landing, it could also prove helpful in saving your back and arms during lengthy flights (and be helpful when breastfeeding). See recommended Child Carriers, Wraps & Slings for travel here.

5. Keep toddlers and older babies buckled in …

Also at security, keep your little one buckled into her travel stroller until the last moment — when you have finished loading all other items onto the X-ray belt first. S ee recommended Travel Strollers here.

On the other side of the scanners, collect your stroller first and strap in your child before collecting your other gear.

It may take a few moments longer initially for your stroller to catch up to your other gear. However, your child will be safer and you’ll be much faster at getting the rest of it together when you have two free hands.

6. Instead of lugging along a car seat in addition to your child …

There are many reasons a parent may prefer not to bring aboard a car seat. But if you’re flying alone with a baby 12 months or older, you may especially prefer to use the CARES child aviation restraint during your flight.

The FAA-approved CARES flight safety harness can be used for children 12 months and older flying in their own airplane seat. See my full review of the CARES harness with pros and cons and detailed photos.

You may also be able to simply rent the baby gear you need, including a car seat, at your destination. See the Worldwide Directory of Baby Gear Rentals to check your location.

7. If flying with your child’s car seat …

Make sure it’s airline approved and is likely to fit in the airplane seat. To avoid unpleasant surprises, see the section on Flying with a Car Seat and be sure to read the Seven Easy Ways to Get Your Car Seat to the Gate.

Depending on your travel plans and needs, you may prefer to roll your child through the airport strapped into his car seat, and either check your stroller or leave it at home. (See recommended car seat travel bags and carriers here .)

And don’t miss Five Things to Know Before Flying with a Car Seat and How to Travel with a Car Seat (Without Losing Your Mind) .

8. As you approach security …

Be assertive! Tell the first guard you see, “I’m going to need some assistance please,” and expect it (and ask the second guard you see, too, if you must).

A security guard should help you get your items into the X-ray, and one will hopefully help you collect them again on the other side.

If you’ll be flying alone with a baby often, you may also want to apply for or renew your account for TSA PreCheck or CLEAR express lanes. You can read more about using TSA PreCheck and CLEAR with kids in this post.

9. Keep your travel documents safely close to you …

Don’t take any chances. Wear your travel documents and those of your child, boarding passes, cash, and credit cards safely in a necklace-style travel wallet.

Your important items will be easy to locate and access each time they are needed en route — even while you have a child in your arms).

Better still, the necklace-style travel wallet will slip under your sweater or shirt when not needed for far greater security and convenience than carrying a purse or placing your wallet in a carry-on. ( See more styles and options here. )

10. When using airport restrooms …

Fortunately many airports now have family restrooms, and some others offer baby care/nursery rooms for travelers with babies. Visit your airport’s website in advance to check for these and their locations.

Where those options don’t exist, use the handicapped stall where there is plenty of room for your child to sit in his stroller and for you to park any extra gear.

11. When using airplane lavatories with a baby …

You can slip your baby into your over-the-shoulder sling (but remember flight crews in the U.S. will not allow you to hold the child in the sling during takeoff or landing).

12. Throughout your flight …

Don’t hesitate to ask a flight attendant if you need help with anything, from assistance in installing your child’s CRS to getting your bag into the overhead bin. After all, your seat should come equipped with a flight attendant call button—don’t be afraid to use it.

13. At baggage claim …

Always keep your baby or toddler secured in his stroller or car seat (if transporting stroller-style) so he is safe while you juggle luggage. And aim for a less popular portion of the claim conveyor belt where the “suitcase sling zone” is not so frantic or crowded and other passengers will likely be more aware of your child.

14. Rather than wait in potentially long lines for taxis or rideshare services after your flight …

Check the rates for private car service at your destination. It may not cost much more to have a driver ready and waiting for you on arrival, and in some cases, they may also provide car seats or safety boosters for your child. (See my Recommended car service in Paris providing car seats and you’ll find a few in NYC here .)

15. Don’t forget! Crossing international borders alone with your child …

Are you flying alone with a baby or toddler and without the other parent INTERNATIONALLY? Even traveling from the U.S. into Canada, you will need a notarized letter of consent from the absent parent, or evidence that you are the child’s sole legal guardian.

See more on this topic and a sample letter of parent consent to travel in this post.

You might also like:

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How to Travel With a Toddler on a Plane

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Preparing to Travel

Storing drinks and snacks, pros and cons of pre-boarding, should you bring a car seat, keeping your toddler entertained.

Traveling with a toddler can be exciting and daunting. The thrill of showing your little one a new part of the world, or visiting friends and family, can easily be overshadowed by the stress of taking them around the airport and sitting through a flight.

Most parents find themselves racking their brains about what they should bring to keep their toddlers safe and entertained during the flight. While this will vary depending on the length of your journey, there are certain regulations and recommendations parents should be made aware of to make their flight a success.

Let's take a look at some tips and tricks for traveling with a toddler that will take the stress out of flying, so you can enjoy your trip from start to finish!

Orchestrating a plan before arriving at the airport will make for a far less turbulent experience. Like any vacation, you'll benefit immensely from getting organized in advance. Of course, sometimes travel is more spontaneous, but if possible, you should absolutely take advantage of getting your ducks in a row.

Booking a Flight

Either a direct flight or an indirect flight with a longer layover is in your best interest when traveling with a toddler . As you've seen on most outings with your little one, toddlers can be slow movers who require a lot of baggage. So trying to make a connecting flight with a toddler in tow can be challenging—particularly when you have a short layover.

If you're booking a flight with a layover, a couple of hours is ideal. This will give you time to change your toddler if needed, have a real meal, and let your little one burn off some energy before getting settled again.

While you may want to consider your toddler's naptime when booking your flight, don't fret if you can't find one that perfectly aligns. Revolving your flight around your toddler's regular schedule can be beneficial if you're looking to maintain their routine, but remember, flight times do get changed rather frequently. Also, there's no guarantee your toddler will fall asleep on the plane given the new environment and its excitement.

What to Check

Be sure you know which bags you're checking (and whether they meet the airline's weight requirements) before you arrive. Trying to reconfigure your luggage with a toddler in tow will add undue stress to your trip!

The maximum weight limit for most checked bags is 50 pounds. Carry-on items must meet Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) guidelines. They may not exceed 22" x 14" x 19" and must be able to be stored in an overhead compartment or under a seat.

"Always check your suitcases," says Sarah Mann Hall, a mother of two from Denver, Colorado. "It's so much easier to wrangle a toddler if you aren't also dealing with luggage."

You may also want to invest in a travel wallet to organize all passengers' identifications and boarding passes. This will help with getting through security. Remember, the goal is to make the process as smooth and fast as possible. If you're using electronic boarding passes, don't forget to charge your phone before getting to the airport.

What to Bring Onboard

Consider your carry-on to be a more intricately packed diaper bag. Of course, you'll want to be sure you're armed with all the essentials. But, unlike with a road trip or afternoon outing, there won't be the option to stop along the way for items you forgot. That's right: no convenience stores in the sky!

Here are the items you should make sure you have at your disposal before takeoff.

• Diapers: The general rule of thumb is one diaper per hour of travel time.
• Snacks: Your child's favorites, plus formula or breastmilk, if applicable.
• Blankets or loveys: Comfort items are helpful for calming anxious toddlers.
• Pacifiers: If your toddler uses a pacifier, pack a few. The sucking can also help relieve the pressure in their ears during takeoff and landing.
• Changes of clothes: You can never be too prepared—one for you, one for your toddler.
• Toys: Books, stuffed animals, or simple puzzles are safe bets.
• Sippy cups: Bringing an empty sippy cup is beneficial if your toddler uses one, as the flight attendant can fill it during drink rounds. This way, you can avoid the hassle at security.

Can You Bring a Stroller on a Plane?

You can bring a stroller through the TSA checkpoint, and almost all airlines allow you to bring a stroller on board. You may need to check it at the gate, but each airline has their own rules. Be sure to check the airline's website before departing!

The last thing you want on a flight is a hungry, fussy toddler. Packing snacks and beverages to bring on board will certainly remedy that issue, but you may be wondering what you're allowed to bring and what's off-limits.

TSA guidelines state liquids must be under 3.4 ounces or 100 millimeters to be allowed on board, but the nourishment you pack for your toddler is an exception to the rule. Milk, juice, and formula (if applicable) for your toddler can exceed this amount and do not need to fit in a quart-sized bag.

If you're planning on a shorter flight, remember breastmilk can be stored at room temperature for up to 4 hours. However, once breast milk is cooled, it must remain cool until it is consumed to prevent it from perishing.

Accessories that are used to keep beverages cool, such as ice and gel packs, are allowed in your carry-on. They will be subjected to screening, but are not prohibited on the airplane. You may also bring on jars or pouches of baby food for your toddler.

"Aim for snacks with protein to keep your child full longer," says Kristen Gonzalez, a nutritionist and health and wellness coach at BBK Fitness in Billerica, MA. "Homemade granola, veggies with Greek dressing, and nut butter sandwiches are great options. Kids find snacks especially appealing if you cut them into fun shapes."

Of course, if it's a shorter flight and your airline offers an in-air snack, you may find it easier to simply ask for food and drink for your toddler from the flight attendant. That said, bear in mind this takes the control out of your hands, as the refreshments won't necessarily be delivered on your ideal schedule.

Many major airlines have family pre-boarding policies that allow families with young children to board the plane early. This gives parents an opportunity to get their children settled before the rush and also offers the chance for little ones to get acclimated with the environment. Each airline's policy varies in terms of how soon families can board and the maximum age of children who are considered for preboarding.

Pre-boarding means you won't have to make your way through a huge crowd of people, nor will you have to worry about getting your toddler buckled in a hurry while also organizing snacks and toys. However, some parents caution against pre-boarding, as little ones can get antsy if they're seated too long.

"Doing early boarding is not always a good thing," says Julie Zupan, a traveling mother of three from Medford, Oregon. "Sometimes, it is worth waiting until toward the end of the line so they can get as much energy out as possible."

Whether you decide to take advantage of pre-boarding depends on the airline's policies, your toddler's temperament, and who else will be traveling with you. Double-check with your airline before your flight to see what options are available.

Whether you bring a car seat on the flight is entirely your decision, as there are no regulations in place that require you to do so. Some parents feel more comfortable knowing their toddler is fastened into a car seat on the plane, while others prefer to get their child their own seat or keep them on their lap.

Your child may feel more comfortable (and nap) during the flight.

Securing your child in a car seat is the safest way to fly, per the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA).

Carrying a car seat through the airport can be cumbersome.

Installing the car seat on the plane is sometimes difficult given the tight quarters. You will need to familiarize with seat sizes to ensure your car seat will fit.

Car seat safety experts universally agree flying with a car seat is the safest option for toddlers since runway emergencies do occur, which are similar to car crashes but at five times the speed. Toddlers may ride on your lap at no added cost but will need their own ticket if you are installing the car seat on the plane.

If you plan to bring your car seat on board, bring a copy of the FAA regulations along with you, as some flight attendants may not be fully informed about car seat rules.

In short, nearly all convertible and infant seats are approved by the FAA. American airline carriers must abide by these regulations, but international carriers do not. Check your airline's policy before you travel to be sure you're clear on their rules.

Once you're settled on the plane, you'll want to be sure your little one is kept busy. After all, no parent wants to be the one whose toddler is squirming and squealing throughout the flight.

Safe bets for entertaining your toddler include:

• Mess-free coloring books
• Board books

Even if you don't typically allow electronics at home, you may consider making an exception during the flight. Movies or apps for toddlers can be a great distraction, which will translate into a much smoother flight.

A Word From Verywell

The best way to approach a flight with your little one is to show up calm yet prepared. Your toddler will pick up on any tension, which you can eliminate by ensuring you understand all guidelines ahead of your journey. Having a plan in place for your arrival at the airport, security, and boarding will help things run much more smoothly.

Be sure to bring items on board that will comfort and entertain your toddler, as well as plenty of diapers and food. Remember, you won't be the only one on board trying to keep their little one entertained, and you'll be at your destination before you know it!

Federal Aviation Administration. Carry-on baggage tips .

Transportation Security Administration. Traveling with children.

Centers for Disease Control. Proper storage and preparation of breast milk.

Federal Aviation Administration. Flying with children.

Car Seats for the Littles. Leaving on a Jet Plane – The CSFTL Guide to Safe Air Travel with Children .

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Easy Tips for Flying Alone with Toddlers

Flying with toddlers can be scary – I wrote this post when I was flying with one child . Now that I’m traveling with two in tow I have a system in place for success. The days leading up to a trip are hectic, especially if you’re traveling alone with your children. List making is helpful, but you have to be prepared for a sudden delayed flight or toddlers gone wild. From vomiting during takeoff to full blown sister fights, I’ve seen it all. If you’re traveling with kids alone, write down these tips to save your sanity.

Tips for Flying Alone with Toddlers

NOTE: I have updated this post since first writing it in 2019. My daughters are now 4 and 7 – and we have another one on the way! We took our first solo plane ride a few weeks ago and I used all of the same tips below – except for the stroller. Both of my daughters are old enough to walk alone through the airport!

I packed a few of these disposable face masks for kids since masks are required at the airport and on the plane. We also carried travel size antibacterial wipes in each of our backpacks to wipe down our seating area (and to clean messy hands while in flight).

Be Flexible

The worst thing you can do when traveling alone with children is to set high expectations for the trip. More often then not you will experience something unexpected, like your three year old projectile vomiting as soon as the plane hits the air. The airplane has motion sickness bags in the back of the seats in front of you – but these disposable vomit bags are great to have on hand.

I’ve learned to roll with the punches and to anticipate anything when I’m traveling with kids alone.

Sometimes my daughters sleep, sometimes their ears hurt and they scream, other times they are pleasant and enjoyable. Just remember to be flexible, not rigid. Toddlers are going to live their best lives no matter what.

Pack Extra Everything, but Pack Wisely

Bring only necessary items for the flight in your carry-on bag – toys, sanitizer , snacks, extra clothes, bandaids, etc. Then check everything else in a suitcase! There is no reason to bring the maximum number of carry-on bags with you when you’re traveling with toddlers or you risk overwhelming yourself. A backpack is the easiest bag to carry when you’re traveling because it gives you two free arms to push a stroller/carry a toddler.

My toddlers love to do two things on a plane – eat and watch the iPad. These are the headphones we have and they’re the best. If we are on a long flight, the iPad can get boring, so I pack a few other activities. Any kind of workbook or coloring book is entertaining for toddlers – like mess-free Magic Ink books or Puffy Sticker books. Window clings are a lot of fun and mess free, as well as Wikistix .

Arrive Early, but not TOO Early

Everyone knows the airlines require passengers to arrive at least two hours before departure time, but I rarely follow that rule. My daughters aren’t easily entertained in an airport for two hours. Depending on the departure airport and security wait times, I schedule to arrive at a maximum of 1.5 hours before our flight. Did you know can check the security wait-time for airports online ? There is no reason anyone traveling alone with kids should sit at the airport for longer than they have to!

When Flying Alone with Toddlers – Always Pack Surprises 

I always pack surprises in my backpack that I keep hidden until disaster strikes. Sister quarrel? It happens – Ailey pulls Annabelle’s hair because she can’t see out the window and both girls start screaming. Quarters are tight on an airplane so timeout doesn’t really work. When all else fails, I pull out my secret weapon – candy/activity book/toy. Some flights I don’t have to pull out a new item, but it’s calming to know its there in case of an emergency.

Use a Stroller if Traveling with Little Kids

If your kids are small enough to ride in an umbrella stroller, bring it on your trip. It’s easier to push a crabby kid in a stroller than to have to carry said child. We just received this stroller that folds in half with the push of a button – it’s IDEAL for parents traveling with toddlers. The compact stroller can fit in an overhead bin or get checked at the gate. It also has ample storage under the seat for a child’s backpack, blankie, or even a small purse. Don’t forget to check your stroller at the gate before boarding. The flight attendant will give you a ticket to keep track of your stroller. Most airlines have an attendant waiting by the door of the plane to collect strollers – but if there’s not one there, just leave it by the door.

Bonus Tip: Bring your own water bottles and snacks!

Airports charge an arm and a leg for drinks and snacks, so I bring as many provisions as my bag will carry. We pack our own water bottles and fill them at the sanitary filling stations around the airport. Before traveling with kids we take a trip to the store together to pick out their favorite foods. Applesauce pouches, fruit strips, and individually packed snacks with lids are the best!

Overall, flying alone with toddlers isn’t THAT bad. Sure – there have been tantrums and dirty looks from fellow passengers. But if I remain calm and confident, the storm always passes quickly. Never worry about what others are thinking and just focus on your little ones! They are all that matters. And when in doubt… order yourself some bubbly if you’re on a long flight.

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March 27, 2019 at 11:19 am

Sounds like you are a pro!! I love the idea of packing surprises. How fun!

March 27, 2019 at 12:15 pm

Great tips! My kids are no longer toddlers but there is no such thing as over planning when traveling with kids.

March 27, 2019 at 12:22 pm

These are all great tips! Definitely something to keep in mind if I ever have kids. A helpful tip that I’m sure you probably already know (for older kids/adults) is to chew gum during takeoff to help offset the pressure changes. https://www.closet-fashionista.com/

March 27, 2019 at 12:34 pm

Great tips! I will be referring back to them soon when we go away to FL! Thank you!! (And I will def be ordering some bubbly )?

March 27, 2019 at 1:13 pm

These tips are so helpful!!! I will definitely be referring back to this for our next trip!!

March 27, 2019 at 1:14 pm

You were so prepared! Great tips.

March 28, 2019 at 8:50 am

What a great post! It sounds like you had an amazing trip!

March 28, 2019 at 8:58 am

Definitely keeping these tips in mind for when my time to have kids (and travel with them) rolls around!

March 30, 2019 at 2:32 pm

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April 1, 2019 at 10:43 pm

These are very helpful! I have flown several times with my kids, this last time I had to make a trip by myself with all 3. I am so thankful my oldest was 10 at that time, so he was able to help out a lot. I agree with not OVER packing, it makes going through the security line easier as well as just getting around the airport easier.

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July 6, 2021 at 8:01 am

I used ALL of these tips when I flew alone with my two littles (then 4 and 5) in Feb 2020. They were perfection! Can’t wait to apply the updates with my next solo parenting flight! Thanks!!

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What it's like travelling with kids as a solo parent

Feb 17, 2020 • 6 min read

Travelling solo, with kids. It sounds like an oxymoron – how can you be alone when you have little people with you? – but as any parent who has hit the road without a co-pilot knows, it’s very much a one-person show. Being a single-parent traveller will bring a host of unexpected challenges, all of which can be overcome. Believe it or not, travelling solo with kids is even better than travelling solo. 

Hitting the road alone

Some parents have to travel solo with kids because their partner is working, not interested in travelling, or are otherwise incapacitated. Others travel with their kids because they’re single parents. If that’s the case, you’re probably used to some of the logistics required, but you might not be prepared for the experiences you’re to have.

Early nights

When you’re operating on a child’s timeline, dinner is usually eaten early, which means restaurants are empty, with no need to book. Many countries have a  dining-out culture  that means kids are well catered for with smaller portions of healthy delicious meals (not just chicken nuggets and chips). Waitstaff in many countries are exceptionally kind and friendly to children; you may see them sneak a secret caramel or lollipop at the end of the evening. 

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Going out at night is nearly impossible, unless you can find a reliable, trustworthy sitter. But who has the energy to stay up all night after a full day of travelling experiences? Children in bed early wake up early too – so get your rest when you can. If you’re craving some socialising you can also check into accommodation with common spaces, like larger guesthouses and hostels. Striking up a conversation and finding out about other people’s travels is obviously  easier in social accommodations  than at a hotel or AirBnB. 

Managing sickness

Getting ill is never pleasant, but it’s something you need to be prepared for. Before you depart make sure you have a well-stocked first-aid kit with all the essential medicine you’ll need if you get struck down by a tummy bug, someone gets a cut or a bruise, or worse.

Old-school as it may sound, a  phrasebook is your best friend  in a medical emergency when you don’t speak the host country’s language. If all else fails, you can point to the descriptions you need to describe symptoms or request medicine at a pharmacy or a clinic. Unlike phones, books never run out of battery charge or get their screen smashed if you drop them. Also make sure you’re  properly insured before you leave , so you can seek professional help without worrying about the cost.

Have some rainy-day activities in your travel kit – not just for rainy days, but for any days you’re on the road and not well enough to go out. Staying at accommodation that also serves food, especially breakfast, is also a good idea, so you don’t need to go out if you’re feeling under the weather.

“Where’s your mother/father?”

Ask any parent who’s travelled alone, and they’ll report being asked this with great regularity. Having a short backstory at the ready will help satisfy nosy parkers. Be prepared for more  serious questions when you cross borders , though. You may need to take your children’s birth certificates with you (especially if you do not share a family name with them), as well as a letter from their co-parent saying you have permission to travel with them.

Curiosity may be behind some of the questioning, but child protection is paramount. If someone wants to know why you’re on a bus from Liverpool to London without your children’s mum, try to remain courteous, rather than outraged – there are some kids out there not as fortunate as yours.

Be mindful what you  share on social media  too. The current thinking for child safety is to hold back any holiday snaps until you’re back home, even if you do have all your accounts locked down to private settings. If you do want to share, be very aware of what information you put out there. A hilarious near-miss tale might be amusing in retrospect, but your co-parent back home may be having heart palpitations. 

Will I be lonely?

This is the perennial question for anyone setting off on a solo trip. The answer is always yes and no. There will be moments in life when you will feel lonely. Sometimes these moments arise even in the company of others; while on the road, the company will include your children. Making new memories, enjoying new experiences, and developing new perspectives together is a beautiful way to continue to deepen your lifetime bonds – but you will also meet new people.

Much to my surprise when I’ve travelled with my kids, strangers are usually open and friendly, not hostile and suspicious as I feared – just as they are with solo travellers. Children will play with other children, even without a shared language. They can easily strike up a game of tag or hide-and-seek, or kick a ball around, without needing to understand what the other is saying. 

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Adults, both locals and other travellers, are often more than willing to help you out in any way they can, even if you’re coping just fine. In cultures where the care of children is a shared enterprise don’t be surprised if your guesthouse hosts insist on minding your kids while you have a nap or eat a meal in peace.

Be warned, though: in more patriarchal societies, both male and female solo parents will raise some eyebrows – women are not expected to do this work alone, and men don’t often show their parental side in public spaces. You may be a curiosity, and not always a welcome one. 

New perspectives

In different places you may also be exposed to parenting philosophies that are at odds with your own. In  Hong Kong  I was amazed at how well-behaved other children were, and tried to achieve the same with my own kids (‘You will stand in this queue in the cold for an hour without complaint: see how the other kids are doing fine’) but one does not become a strict parent overnight.

In  Morocco  I was told by a well-meaning but old-fashioned parent that physical punishment was the appropriate response to a fussy eater. I am not sure my high-school French was enough to explain why this was not what I had read in my ‘new age’ parenting handbooks. 

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What surprised me the most travelling solo with my kids was the interactions I had with younger adults who were more willing to embrace kids and a solo parent than I expected. After playing my kids at table tennis at a hostel in  Australia , a bunch of carefree backpackers reminded me that I once thought family life meant sliding into a suburban dystopia. But in fact, people all over the world keep working, travelling and living life just as they did before they started a family.

If you want to get a feel for travelling with your kids but you’re not ready to go on a fully independent adventure,  there are now tours available  that will let you having life-changing experiences along with other like-minded families. 

If making new friends while getting outside your routine and comfort zone is the only reason you want to do it, it’s the only reason you need. Bon voyage!   

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This article was first published Feb 7, 2020 and updated Feb 17, 2020.

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25+ Toddler Travel Essentials: Traveling with a Toddler Checklist (2024)

Planning a family trip, but unsure what you need in terms of toddler travel essentials? Keep reading for my traveling with a toddler checklist (from a mama of twin boys).

From ensuring you’ve packed the essentials, to anticipating toddler needs on the go, the mere thought of organizing a trip with toddlers in tow can be overwhelming.

As a mom of twin boys who started traveling at four months and have now been on over 50+ trips, I understand the joys and challenges that come with traveling alongside your little ones. But rest assured mama, you got this!

My all-inclusive toddler travel essentials list draws from my personal experiences and takeaways from traveling with my twin boys. Whether you’re planning a weekend getaway or a long-haul international trip, these toddler travel essentials will help alleviate the stress that often accompanies toddler travel prep.

You’ll find, not only the toddler travel essentials that have worked best for my kids but also items that my fellow traveling moms swear by. Please remember that every kid is different – so what works for one may not work for the other (even with twins!) It’s likely that you won’t need all the items listed (that’s where your mama intuition will come in). Also please be aware that toddler travel needs change as your little one grows from 12 months to three years and so on.

Think of this blog post as your roadmap to smoother, more enjoyable travel with your toddler! The focus will shift from worrying about forgotten items to creating cherished memories with your little adventurer. It’s broken down into two simple sections: the day of travel (i.e. what needs to be in your diaper bag or toddler’s backpack) and carry-on/checked luggage (i.e. what you may need at the hotel/vacation rental or during the trip).

Day of Travel: Toddler Travel Essentials

When flying with a toddler, what you include in your diaper bag travel checklist can make a significant impact on your flying experience. Simply because most airports don’t offer items that cater to kids. The toddler travel essentials listed below will help you fly with your little one with ease.

Toddler Travel Essentials: Transport Checklist

As a mom of twins, my biggest concern before traveling with my infant twins was how I would transport them during the trip, especially at the airport. As they got older and more accustomed to traveling to different regions and climates, I realized that what’s required for one trip may not be required for the next. As you prepare the toddler travel essentials you will need to take into consideration where you are traveling to and what activities you’ll be participating in.

Travel Strollers

For my boys’ first and second trips to Milwaukee, Wisconsin and Puerto Rico (respectively), we used this double stroller travel system which easily connected both car seats. To be fair, however, it was a bit cumbersome gate-checking a double stroller. You have to, not only detach the car seats, but also remove a seat and fold the stroller. All the while somehow holding or containing two kids.

After our travels in Europe and taking the train from Amsterdam to Paris, I realized a double stroller was not conducive to travel. I noticed European parents using small travel strollers – some of which folded compactly and could fit in the overhead rack. That’s the exact moment that I became obsessed with the GB Pockit Stroller . I absolutely love how I can roll the stroller on the plane with the baby in tow. Once the baby is settled, I simply fold it up and place it overhead.

There are several good options for compact travel strollers and many of those can fit overhead on a plane. Depending on the climate you’re traveling to, you may want to consider getting a mosquito net cover , rain cover , and/or fan for the stroller. Another great stroller accessory when carrying a lot of things is a stroller organizer . Being able to keep your hands as free as possible when traveling with kids makes the journey a lot easier and less stressful.

As my boys got older, they became more resistant to using a stroller. That’s when our handy beach wagon came to the rescue. It was perfect for fitting both kids or their luggage. Our personal rules to the kids were “either pull the wagon or ride in it.”

If you prefer a wagon specifically designed for kids, there are several options including Wonderfold , Evenflo , and Gladly Family . These wagons come with seat belts and seats specifically designed for kiddos.

Lightweight or Travel Car Seat

Another toddler travel essential that I stressed about when first traveling with my twins was car seats. I couldn’t imagine carrying two standard-sized car seats along with all of the other kid travel needs. Luckily, some genius out there with kids designed lightweight and portable travel car seats for parents on the go.

We started with the Cosco Car Seats which are relatively lightweight at about 12 pounds. We didn’t have any issues with it. However, when we discovered the WAYB Pico was foldable, only 8 pounds, and could be used with kids up to 50 lbs (we were nearing the weight limit of our Cosco Car Seats), we knew it was time to switch.

It’s extremely easy to travel with the WAYB Pico Car Seat. I personally love how spacious the car seat bag is. It’s roomy enough to fit additional items, like life jackets.

Ride Safer Travel Vest

Another great option is the Ride Safe Travel Vest for car travel only. It is available in three sizes and fits kids from 22 to 110 pounds. The best part is that the travel vest only weighs a bit over two pounds.

CARES Kid’s Fly Safe Harness

Due to the amount of stuff you have to bring, traveling with twin babies and toddlers is no easy feat. Once I started buying my kiddos their own seats on the plane, I was happy to find the CARES Kid’s Fly Safe Harness to use on the plane instead of a car seat. It quickly became one of our toddler travel essentials.

This harness is designed for kids that weigh 22–44 pounds and is very compact. So compact, that each boy would carry theirs in their backpack! Plus, the setup was super easy and only took a minute or so.

Toddler Luggage and Travel Backpack Essentials

As your little one gets older, they’re going to want more independence. A great way to satiate that need is to add toddler luggage and/or a toddler backpack to your toddler travel checklist. Keep reading for my favorites.

Toddler Luggage

At two years old, my boys were over the moon when they got their own toddler-sized luggage . We found it was best to give them two-wheel luggage since it seemed easier for them to know which direction to roll it. Initially, they carried just lightly packed luggage or backpacks to limit the weight. As they got older, they started to carry both, which has made traveling with kids so much easier.

Toddler Travel Backpack and Harness Backpack with Leash

Once your little one gets old enough and is a relatively good walker, a toddler travel backpack is a must-have. These backpacks can be relatively light and easy for your little one to carry. As they grow, they can begin to carry some of their needs, like entertainment, snacks, and/or diapers.

If you have a kid who likes to wander or have multiples (like myself), consider investing in a harness backpack with a leash .

Toddler Luggage Accessories Checklist

Packing for yourself can be a challenge. Throw in packing for a toddler, and you may end up with more things than you can physically carry. Luggage straps, compression packing cubes, and vacuum storage bags have been the key for my family to travel as lightly as possible and have even allowed us to fly with only carry-ons.

Luggage Strap

Believe it or not, I have traveled with my twin toddlers solo several times. One of the biggest hurdles I initially faced was how to carry everything by myself. A luggage strap is a quick and effective solution. Simply attach your kids’ luggage to yours, and pull all of it together.

Cincha Travel Belt

The Cincha Travel Belt is a great way to ensure that any bag set on the handles of your luggage stays put. The worst thing is walking through the airport and having your bag slip or fall off the handles. You won’t have to worry about that with this travel belt.

It especially comes in handy as a toddler travel essential, since you can easily attach the diaper bag or even a car seat bag onto the handles of your luggage. Honestly, it’s been a game-changer! The fewer things I have to carry in my hand or back, the better.

Toddler Travel Essential: Feeding Checklist

Feeding toddlers can be a challenge all on its own. Add in travel and an airport full of germs, and no wonder people are intimidated by traveling with their kids. This “feeding toddlers while traveling” checklist will make the feeding on-the-go process easier and less of a headache.

Snack Catcher OR Snack Spinner

If your toddlers are anything like my twins, snacks are a travel must-have . Unfortunately, that normally equates to a mess. That’s where the snack catcher and snack spinner come in handy.

The snack catcher is a great option if you’re packing a single snack. It’s very small and can easily fit into your toddler’s backpack. On the other hand, the snack spinner is a travel essential for those toddlers who require a variety of snacks. They come with five snack compartments and an interactive button. It’s a bit larger, around 6.5 inches, so it may or may not fit in your toddler’s backpack, depending on its size.

Of course, if you have a snack catcher or spinner, you must have snacks. Honestly, they count as a form of entertainment. Below are some of my kids’ favorite travel snacks:

• Applesauce or other pouches
• Graham crackers
• Veggie straws
• Dried fruit
• Cheese crackers

Spill-proof Water Bottle

A spill-proof water bottle is hands-down one of the most important toddler travel essentials since, for some unknown reason, toddlers are always thirsty. I recommend getting a bottle that can easily fit in your toddler’s backpack because they seem to be the easiest things to lose and/or forget when traveling.

Additionally, don’t fret about carrying your own drink pass airport security in a kid’s water bottle. It’s allowed, but it has to be screened . This simply means the officer will ask you to remove the top of the water bottle so they can place a paper above the opening. This ensures there are no foreign or illegal substances.

Personally, I think it’s worth it!

Easy Clean Bibs

Toddlers are notorious for smearing food all over the table and themselves while they eat. Using a long-sleeved, easy-to-clean, waterproof bib will minimize the amount of clothing you have to change after mealtime. You’ll love them so much that they’ll become a part of your everyday diaper bag essentials.

Foldable Placemats

As toddlers, my boys LOVED to eat. I couldn’t expect us to go anywhere to eat without them wanting to share in the meal. These foldable placemats ensured my boys had something clean to eat on, that they couldn’t pick up and throw on the floor. They became so handy that they quickly became a diaper bag essential, even when we weren’t traveling. Plus, they are simple to clean. (I would use bottle and pacifier wipes. )

Portable High Chair

The portable high chair is another toddler travel essential that quickly became an everyday diaper bag essential. How many times have you been out to a restaurant and either there wasn’t a high chair available (especially with twins, this happens more than you would think) or the high chair was dirty?

This is also important when trying to feed your kiddo at a vacation rental or a family member’s house. Where does your kid sit? Portable high chairs ensure you have a clean place for your little one to safely sit around the table. The high chairs that we used easily adapted to almost any type of chair and folded small enough to fit two inside of our diaper bag.

Toddler Utensils

Toddler utensils are more of perk than a toddler traveling essential. Can your toddler use regular or plastic silverware? Most likely – yes. But since toddler utensils are made for your little one’s little hands, and help them master their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination, why not add them to your toddler packing list?

As a bonus, they can easily fit in your diaper bag.

Toddler Travel Checklists: Diapering Essentials

On the first few flights with my twins, at least one of them had a blowout. If there’s one area I want to be over-prepared for when traveling with kids, it’s diapering essentials.

Changing Pad Liner

Believe it or not, some airplanes don’t have changing tables. Most have at least one bathroom with a changing table, but when there’s an emergency (because toddlers love to wait until the last minute to tell you they have to go), how would you know which one to go to?

A changing pad liner ensures you have a clean and ample space to change your toddler while traveling. It also has space for you to store diapers, wipes, and other diapering essentials. Sometimes I would bring a dog training pad so that I wouldn’t have to worry about soiling my liner. I could easily wrap all the soiled items in it and dispose.

Toddler Travel Potty

Once my twins started potty training, I wanted to ensure they were comfortable going to the potty while traveling. Therefore, I purchased a toddler travel potty before our travels so they could get comfortable using it (hopefully eliminating the possibility of them not wanting to use it while traveling).

For reference, there are (3) different toddler travel potty options : 1) Toddler travel potty that includes a bowl 2) Toddler travel potty that does NOT include a bowl 3) Toddler potty seat

There is no wrong or right option – just whatever works best for you and your toddler. We personally liked the style that included the bowl.

Adding a wet bag to your toddler travel checklist will ensure you have a place to store any potentially soiled clothing. The last thing you want to do is put soiled clothes into your clean diaper bag!

Diapers, Training Pants, and Wipes

I’d be remiss if I didn’t add the basic necessities when it comes to diapering a toddler.

A quick suggestion to the potty training mama- don’t be afraid to use training pants while traveling, even for the kiddos who are pretty advanced. It takes the pressure off of everyone. I can’t tell you how many times my kids “suddenly” had to go potty during landing.

Toddler Plane Sleep Essentials

The best thing that could happen when flying with kids is they fall asleep during the flight. Making your toddler as comfortable as possible will help them sleep on the plane , especially on long-haul flights.

JetKids BedBox or Inflatable Travel Bed

One item that’s guaranteed to make my toddler travel checklist when I want my kiddos to sleep on the plane is a comfortable toddler travel bed .

We love the JetKids BedBox . It turns their seat into a lay-flat bed. Each time we use it, it basically guarantees they’ll get comfy enough to drift asleep. Plus, the compartment is large enough to use as a carry-on to fit your kiddo’s clothing and belongings. Another more affordable, option is the inflatable travel bed , which wedges between your child’s seat and the seat in front of them. This way, they can stretch their legs out and fall asleep.

Planes are notorious for being cold. Be sure your toddler is as comfy as possible by adding a blanket or jacket to the travel packing list. A blanket that folds into the bag easily fits in most toddler backpacks and attaches to luggage.

Also consider adding a hat to your toddler travel checklist, especially if your kid tends to get cold easily. This could even become a diaper bag essential, as many restaurants and stores tend to be chilly.

Portable Sound Machine

Some children have a hard time falling asleep without a sound machine. If this is your kid, be sure to add a portable sound machine to your toddler travel packing list. It’s lightweight and small enough to easily fit in your diaper bag.

Toddler Travel Essential: Entertainment

When preparing for a flight, it’s common to bring some type of entertainment to pass the time in the air. Toddlers aren’t any different.

Most toddlers need multiple forms of entertainment on their travel checklist. I recommended bringing at least one new or rarely used toy/entertainment so that they are excited about playing with it, and hopefully play with it longer.

Below are some of our favorite toddler entertainment travel essentials:

• Window Clings
• Felt Friends Craft Activity
• Mess-Free Coloring
• Suction Toys
• Magnetic Tiles
• Busy Board Backpack or busy board
• Small Construction Vehicles or dolls
• Fidget Toys
• Reusable Sticker Pads
• Squishy Toys
• Foldable headphones

Other Toddler Travel Day Essentials

Extra Set of Clothing

An extra set of clothing is a must for both toddlers and babies, especially when checking luggage. Just remember when you’re on the plane and somehow you and/or your little one get dirty (it happens more than you can imagine), you only have what’s in your diaper bag.

Teething Toys

If your toddler is teething, it’s important to have teething toys on the travel checklist. While on the plane, your little one’s ears may pop, which may magnify their gum irritation. The sucking and chewing motion will help minimize the irritability of both the gums and ears.

Hand Sanitizer and Disinfectant Wipes

It seems as if one of toddlers’ favorite activities is to drop something on the floor and put said item in their mouth. It’s one thing when they do it at home, but it’s an entirely different game when done at the germy airport. Keeping hand sanitizer and disinfectant wipes in your diaper bag will allow your baby to play happily while giving you peace of mind.

Toddler Travel Essentials: Required Documentation

What a bummer would it be to pack all of your toddler travel essentials, only to forget the correct documentation?

• Copy of birth certificate OR 
• Letter from the hospital indicating age
• A signed and notarized letter stating permission for travel to X destination
• Passports and/or visas (if required)

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Toddler carry-on/checked luggage packing lis.

The toddler travel essentials listed below can vary depending on the age of your toddler, their propensity to get dirty or soil their clothes, and the type of destination you’re traveling to. For example, beach vacations require their own set of travel essentials.

Toddler Travel Packing List: Clothing

These are the general packing guidelines that I use when traveling with my kids. If possible, stay at a vacation rental or hotel with a washing machine. Or come prepared with sink laundry detergent .

• Underwear: 1 per day, plus 2 additional
• 1 outfit per child, per day
• 1+ additional outfits per child (especially more tops if your toddler drools a lot)
• Socks: 1 pair per day, plus 1 additional pair because socks disappear
• Shoes: 1-2 pairs, depending on activities
• Pajamas: 1 per every 2 days (you may need to increase if the toddler soaks through overnight training pants)
• Weather-specific clothes: i.e. coats, hats, or beach clothing

Toddler Travel Packing List: Toiletries

Packing as light as possible is key for traveling with kids. It’s recommended to get travel-size toiletries or use leak-proof pouches or travel containers .

• Tear-free bath soap and shampoo
• Baby lotion
• Hairbrush/supplies (headbands/hair barrettes/products)
• First aid kit , including Infant medicine (ibuprofen or acetaminophen), bandaids, thermometer, etc.
• Sink laundry detergent
• Baby Sunscreen
• Natural mosquito repellent 
• Inflatable travel bath  
• Kid flossers

Toddler Travel Checklist: Sleeping Essentials

It can be a challenge for some people to fall asleep in a new place, and toddlers aren’t any different. Therefore, recreating their home environment as closely as possible increases the chances of your little one sleeping through the night. Be sure to add these toddler travel sleeping essentials to your checklist!

Pack and Play , Portable Baby Travel Crib , or Baby Travel Tent

There are a variety of toddler travel bed options . There is no right or wrong option, it’s more what works best for your family’s needs and price point. Whichever one you decide to go with, try it out at home for a few nights just to make sure your little one enjoys sleeping in it.

Portable Black-out Curtains

In order to get some children to sleep, the room needs to be pitch black. If this is your toddler, be sure to add portable black-out curtains to the essential packing list. They are relatively small to carry and the setup is pretty simple since the attached suction cups stick to the window. It’s worth bringing them if a good night’s sleep is on the line.

Portable White Noise Machine

Similar to black-out curtains, some kids have a hard time falling asleep without a white noise machine. If this is your toddler, a portable white noise machine is indeed a travel essential. This one is compact and can attach to most things. It offers three different sounds to help your little one drown out any disruption and drift off to sleep.

Smartphone Baby Monitor  

If you’re planning to stay in a vacation rental or somewhere where your toddler will be sleeping in a different room, you may want to add a smartphone baby monitor to your packing list. The camera itself is relatively small and you use your phone as the monitor. It’s a great way to check in on your toddler without having to physically go into the room or take up a lot of space in your luggage.

Toddler Travel Essentials: Packing Light

Packing light is key when traveling with kids, especially if you’re like me and get overwhelmed when you have a lot to carry. Now you may be saying, “traveling with toddlers and packing light, that’s an oxymoron!”

Yes and no.

Yes, toddlers have more things to bring than the average person. But no, it doesn’t have to mean you overpack or bring more than you can carry. Try the tips below out for size!

Compression Packing Cubes

Compression packing cubes , which are different from regular packing cubes, help clear out extra air – allowing you to pack more in a small space. In fact, when using compression cubes, we’re able to pack all of the boys’ belongings either in their toddler luggage or JetKids BedBox .

Vacuum Storage Bags

Another great option for fitting your toddler’s travel essentials into a carry-on or toddler luggage is vacuum storage bags . They normally come in two options: foldable and vacuum. I personally like the vacuum storage version since they get the most air out. They’re also the easiest to use, in my opinion. Be aware that you have to carry the manual pump to get the air out of the bag while traveling. Luckily, the pump doesn’t take up much space.

Similar to the compression packing cubes, we’ve used vacuum storage bags with JetKids BedBox and toddler luggage .

Other Toddler Travel Essentials

Babyproofing.

If you know your toddler will be spending a significant amount of time at your vacation rental, you may want to add babyproofing items like outlet covers or corner protectors to your packing list. This isn’t necessarily a travel essential, but they’re nice to have to keep your toddler safe while exploring the new space.

Toddler Travel Checklist Essentials

Having a detailed toddler travel packing list can give you the confidence you need to travel with your little one with ease. It gives you a great feeling of preparedness and leaves you ready to conquer whatever may come.

In addition to having a checklist of items you need to pack, I would recommend also having a checklist that mentally walks you through each step of the flying with kids process . Think about how you can most effectively get the kids and luggage to the check-in counter. What if there’s a delay? Is there any special toy or treat you can use to pass the time? This gives you a plan and helps you feel prepared for your trip.

Of course, these are lists you can create yourself. But if you’re a parent, I’m sure your time is limited. That’s why I’ve created detailed, interactive checklists that include all of the above toddler travel essentials and allow you to track what you’ve packed, add your personal items, and browse links to my favorite products.

Using these checklists will not only save you time and energy, but they’re also reusable – eliminating the need to recreate the packing list for each trip.

There are three checklists available including a traveling with babies checklist, a traveling with toddlers checklist, and a traveling with kids mental preparation checklist.

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Tips for travelling solo with kids

Travelling solo with kids can feel daunting – especially the first time you set off on a trip together, or face a first flight. But after a string of trips with my daughter, including the Eurostar to Paris and a long-haul flight to Florida as a toddler plus more recent holidays exploring Cambodia and Oman when she was five, I can vouch for the fact it’s definitely possible.

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As with any other family travel, a lot of it comes down to planning and practice – as well as choosing a holiday that’s right for you. While some people are ready to start travelling as a solo parent from almost day one, most of us prefer to take it slower – a day out locally first, before building up to a long-haul flight and packed itinerary. I certainly did!

So whether you’re considering travelling alone with kids for the first time or considering a new solo travel challenge, here are my solo parent travel tips before you book.

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Choosing a single parent holiday

There are around two million single parents with dependent children in the UK alone these days – not to mention plenty more who may be married or in relationships but are also travelling solo.

Although I’m married, my husband can take time off less easily, so it’s usually just me and Minnie heading off together.

And more travel companies are starting to realise the demand. Just because you’re travelling solo with kids, you aren’t restricted to holidays designed for single parents only – depending on the age of your kids, a twin room or one with a bed and a sofa bed can work just as well with a single adult, while self-catering options tend to give even more space.

Which holiday is right for you?

Start by considering what you want from the trip? Is it a holiday with plenty of facilities, such as a kids’ club where they can make friends? Is it a hotel with babysitting or baby listening so you can have some time to yourself while they’re sleeping? Is it simply a relaxed escape by the beach so you can have some time together as a family?

If you’ve got a holiday in mind, it’s worth researching who it’s aimed at – you can even call the company to find out details of families who usually sign up (or are already signed up on a group tour, for example).

If you’re hoping your kids are going to enjoy a trip with new friends for company, there’s nothing worse than discovering the only other children are five years older or younger once you arrive.

If you’re not sure where to begin, a site like 101 Family Holidays only features child-friendly breaks and lets you filter the choices based on destination, budget and even the age of your kids.

Plan in some space

Travelling solo with kids can be intense – so whatever holiday you choose, it’s a good plan to add in some extra flexibility and down-time.

Having that time together makes for some amazing memories and helps build a fantastic bond, but it doesn’t mean all the stresses of parenthood vanish (alas) – and with no other adult on hand to help, a bit of space to recover your patience is always good.

The occasional session at a kids’ club can be a welcome break, or it could be as simple as booking accommodation with some extra space so you get to relax properly in the evening after their bedtime. That can go double if you’re travelling with a baby or a toddler, when sleep isn’t guaranteed!

Hotels like the Sands Resort in Cornwall has baby listening and childcare, as well as a kids’ club and creche, not to mention spacious rooms. And as well as lots of facilities for kids, including soft play and a toddler playground, plus a baby splash pool in the indoor pool, there’s also a spa and an adults’ dining section in the restaurant so you get a chance to indulge too.

Check out my review of staying at the Sands Resort & Spa in Cornwall when my daughter was a toddler.

If your kids are a little older, there’s no reason you can’t explore and sightsee if you want more than a beach break, but it’s still worth considering ways to wind down at the end of the day. Even booking a hotel with a pool after a day out and about is great.

Sometimes a hotel isn’t the best option – when my daughter was younger, self-catering was definitely our preferred way to stay, whether it’s a villa for a beach break or an apartment for a city break.

I’m a big fan of i-escape which has a special kids collection with options in European cities, which you can tailor to suit your kids (and the child-friendly essentials you might need for your stay).

Or Oliver’s Travels has collections of child-friendly villas for different age groups, with options for babies and toddlers up, and properties which sleep two. The destinations vary from France, Spain and Portugal to Croatia, Greece and Turkey too.

What’s your budget?

You can find UK camping that’s perfect with kids or five-star hotels that welcome families, so there’s no need to be restricted by budget. But it does pay to doublecheck if free child places apply when there’s only one parent travelling – some will always consider the second person on the booking as an adult.

The same goes for single supplements: some places won’t charge outside school holidays, but you can find the discounts vanish if it isn’t term time.

Self-catering can be a great way to get away without splashing out, and guarantees you the extra space too.

The aptly-named Helpful Holidays has hundreds of properties across the South West, including plenty sleeping two, such as single-storey barn conversions so you’re not worrying about toddlers and stairs. You can even filter to ensure you’re within half a mile of a beach.

All-inclusives can work unexpectedly well too. Although they’re not the cheapest choice, knowing that you won’t have to put your hand in your pocket for ice creams, childcare, a holiday cocktail or two, makes it easier to plan.

If you’re travelling with fussy eaters, the sheer variety and choice (plus the ability to pick and choose at buffets) can often make all-inclusives a good bet as well. And there are options in Europe if you don’t fancy long-haul.

Check out our review of Ikos Dassia in Corfu – the all-inclusive resort in Greece is part of a small group with sister resorts on the mainland and another in Kos.

For a proper escape, Beachcomber Hotels in Mauritius has free kids’ clubs for age three to 12 – one hotel on the island has a family village within the resort, including spacious apartments, another includes champagne by the glass in its price as well as family-friendly facilities.

Or in the Caribbean, Beaches resorts have one-bed family suites, kids clubs and a whopping 20 restaurants at Beaches Turks & Caicos where we stayed – not to mention Sesame Street.

When to book with a single parent specialist?

Although it’s certainly not your only choice, picking a trip with a tour operator that specialises in holidays for solo parents is a great option if you’re new to travelling solo with kids. Some even have an online forum to chat before you go, to get tips and reassurance (not to mention staying in touch afterwards).

If you’re newly divorced or bereaved, it can also be helpful to know you won’t be surrounded by happy nuclear families – at least for the first holiday solo – and for adults with younger kids, there’s always the option of adults to talk to after littler ones are in bed.

Others will also organise activities and excursions, such as Single Parents on Holiday , but you’ve got the flexibility of your own time together as well.

When to book with a group?

Joining a group holiday can be a great solution when you’re travelling as a solo parent – with escorted tours aimed at families, it’s easy to remove one stress by handing over the planning to someone else, finding a more active or adventurous option with teens in particular, and ensuring that there’ll be other kids for company.

And while toddlers might be happy spending every day at the beach, tweens and teens want more from their trips: with the added bonus that there should be no cries of ‘I’m bored’ or stubborn refusals to venture away from the WiFi (hopefully).

Activities Abroad have teens-only departures and will even age match on some holidays so you can guarantee other children of a similar age. There’s a mix of soft adventure and more challenging trips with older teens, whether you fancy canoeing, canyoning or white-water rafting.

On The Go Tours also have departures aimed at teens – Pharaoh’s Adventure for teens in Egypt, for example, is for 12 plus. There are also group tours to suit younger kids, such as the Egyptian Family Adventure for age five plus which has a triple-share option.

Explore has its own small group family tours as well, suitable for 7+. I am seriously tempted by this trip to Belize with Minnie’s 7th birthday on the horizon.

Surviving a solo parent holiday with kids

Get your kids involved.

While you’re not going to involve babies in planning out an itinerary, it’s worth talking to your kids about the trip before you go. With older children, they’ll want to be involved in the planning and choosing – and picking a trip that suits everyone (or at least compromises on what everyone wants) is always going to be more fun.

But even with younger kids, talk through everything from the journey – what will happen at the airport, explanations that there are times they will simply need to do certain things (whether it’s X-ray machines or showing their face at immigration – to what you’re planning. If they feel less stressed by the unknown, you’re also likely to.

Kids tend to be very adaptable but knowing that if they endure the security queue quietly, there’s airport soft play goes a long way to avoiding meltdown.

Make life easy on yourself

Work out how to reduce any potentially stressful situations along the way – there’s enough to consider without making life any harder. It could be meet and greet parking at airports so you’re not hanging around with tired children waiting for a shuttle bus, or splashing out on private transfers to get to your accommodation faster.

Consider what time you’re flying too. Very early or late flights might well be cheaper, but if everyone’s exhausted and tetchy from lack of sleep, it’s not going to get things off to a good start.

Equally, a night flight can be ideal if your kids tend to sleep on planes, rather than a long stretch trying to entertain them, or flights that arrive in time for bedtime.

Some airports and airlines will have special assistance for families with parents travelling solo too – I’ve always found cabin crew keep an extra eye out when they know you’re flying alone, and have always been more than happy to help hold or watch my daughter if I needed to go to the toilet during the flight, for example.

Or Eurostar has family-friendly carriages, and can help solo parents travelling with young kids.

And it’s reassuring too to know that you can manage everything without a helping hand, whether that’s using a baby carrier or packing lighter so you can manoeuvre a case and a buggy.

In my experience, people are always ready to help though – anyone from a besuited businessman watching me approach an escalator with suitcase and stroller, to a woman at airport security who held Minnie as I tried to collapse the buggy, have all stepped in when they suspected I might struggle.

Avoid struggling with heavy bags or too much beyond the essentials when you don’t have to as well – secure bag storage like Luggage Hero and Radical Storage have locations around the world, so it’s easy to drop baggage off and squeeze in a little more exploring.

Don’t forget the paperwork

When you’re travelling solo with kids, it’s not just the passport, tickets, money that you’d normally have to remember – depending on the destination you’re visiting, you may well need specific paperwork to show you are the parent (especially if your last name is different from your child’s) and permission to take them overseas.

That’s as true whether their other parent is at home or out of the picture, so it’s worth looking at whether you might need a birth certificate and any other authorised documents.

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Great Post! I feel like we’re seasoned solo parent family travellers now and I can also say that solo travel with children is definitely possible I think confidence comes with trying new experiences. I like to include my son in the planning of a trip, visiting a new place as a solo parent is so much easier when my son is on board with decisions about where to go and what activities to take part in. Looking forward to checking out some of the links you’ve included

Thank you! And I totally agree – the more you do, the easier it seems to get. And having your kids on board makes a big difference (although I admit sometimes I overrule my daughter because I know she’ll enjoy something when we get there, whatever she says before we go 😉 )

A travel agent just talked me out of taking my two kids internationally on my own. She said that there is no insurance that would help if something were to happen to me while we’re abroad. If I got really sick or injured or whatever — she asked me, what would happen with my little kids if we’re in Belize and I’m hospitalized or something?? That stopped me in my tracks and now I’m afraid to take them anywhere on my own internationally. Until they’re teenagers I guess??

I completely understand why you’d worry but I think that’s such a shame she talked you out of it. It’s always a good thing to think about risks and plan accordingly, but also balancing that risk with what’s likely – after all, what would happen if you got sick or injured at home? In my experience, there’s always someone to tell you it’s impossible – even when it’s not.

Insurance can and will certainly help cover a lot of eventualities as well, and while they’re little, you’re likely to be choosing trips which are less risky anyway. We’ve had some great adventures, but our earliest trips were much easier and closer to home as I built up confidence.

I’ve also found while travelling solo with my daughter that people are more helpful than not too. Thankfully neither of us has been injured/hospitalised but we’ve both been ill while travelling, and we’ve found help and solutions. It would be a shame to miss out on the wonderful experiences you could have because of the fear of something which might well never happen, or wait for years until they’re older.

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Flying with a baby and toddler: 50 clever tips and hacks that every parent needs to know

By Becky Lucas

Ask any new parent about their biggest fear when travelling abroad with their offspring. More often than not, an image of themselves trapped inside a plane cabin will spring to mind: screaming baby in arms, toddler on the rampage, covered in some sort of bodily fluid, the angry eyes of all surrounding passengers trained on them, silently asking why they cannot control their children. But then, ask them again, post first-flight together, and typically they’ll share that the worst part of it all was the sense of dread and apprehension before the big travel day. The majority of parents or carers find themselves both pleasantly surprised by the kindness of airline staff and co-passengers – most of whom have usually cared for young children themselves at some point and so can empathise and tend to look at you all with a nostalgic glint in their eye – as well as instead empowered by the experience. If you think about it: once you feel more confident  travelling with a baby , you can go anywhere in the world with them.

As a  Condé Nast Traveller  contributing editor and mother-of-two, I’ve found myself flying more often since having children and enjoying it (sometimes). Here are the canny little tips and tricks I’ve picked up in answer to some commonly asked questions, combined with words of wisdom from a whole network of people who’ve survived the ultimate, high-air-pressured parenting challenge.

Should I fly with my baby and a toddler?

• Putting aside the fact that most airlines allow kids under two to fly for free or a fraction of an adult’s price ( Skyscanner’s travel advice hub  has a handy summary of child fees broken down by airline) and the  eco considerations of flying  anywhere at all, if you’re nervous about booking that flight with your baby and toddler, try considering how your children have behaved on trains, buses and other types of public transport. If you can visualise a flight as an extension of these sorts of positive journeys you’ve already made together, it should help you hit that book button. Break it down in your mind into a series of manageable steps: the car or train ride to the airport, the walk to the gate, a stint onboard and however you’re getting to your final destination upon arrival (hopefully after being greeted by some helping hands).
• This may seem obvious, but if possible – fly with your partner, friend or another family member. Even if they’re sitting at the other end of the cabin, having someone there to tag-team the childcare or help you on and off the aircraft and psychologically be there in case of emergency will make all the difference. If you are travelling with another adult, it may make sense to separate the toddler and baby on board so you can take turns to endlessly entertain the oldest or rest a little more with the sleepier youngest.

What are the best flights to book when travelling with a baby and toddler?

• Think about the timing that would work best regarding your children’s napping habits and capacity to sleep through the most exciting experience of their lives and the length of your journey while factoring in your  budget . Some parents prefer the more expensive early daytime flights as they know their children are likely to stay wide awake throughout, some prefer the afternoon to time in with the longest nap time, and others always go for night flights as they gel with overnight sleep windows. It’s best not to get too hung up on perfectly synchronising your schedules since  flights can often be delayed or even cancelled , and children can unexpectedly buck their personal trends – and all tiredness should typically level out over a day or so anyway. Plus, any parent knows it’s challenging to coerce a child into sleeping or staying awake when their bodies tell them otherwise – you’ll all end up frustrated and fatigued. Kids can be surprisingly adaptable when it comes to sleep patterns and travel – probably a bonus of having no real concept of time yet.

What are the best seats to book when travelling with a baby and toddler?

• If you can, it’s worth flying direct and upgrading to  business class  to allow you and your clan more space, assistance and privacy. Slightly less obvious, it could be worth booking separate seats for your baby and your toddler and bringing an airline-approved car seat for them to sit and sleep in rather than your arms, which could be more comfortable for them and you. Be sure to pick one that fits into your buggy as, obviously, if you are solo and also with a toddler, you have no hope of lugging one across the airport. Some argue that this is the safer option from the get-go – you’d never have your baby in your lap in your car, so why is it permitted on a plane?
• Don’t assume you will automatically be allocated a bassinet (a cot that can be attached to a wall at the front of a row of economy seats) with your baby’s flight reservation – contact the airline and book it in advance as there are typically only two per aircraft.
• Sometimes passengers with maximum airline points get allocated these front-row [bulkhead] seats instead. Therefore, if you haven’t pre-booked your bassinet, ask at the airport check-in desk if any empty rows are available so that you could possibly lie your baby or toddler on the spare seats between you – while holding them, though at least giving your arms a break.
• As well as booking bulkhead seats for the bassinet access, they also boast extra legroom and floor (or play) space, while putting your toddler in a window seat helps stop them from running off and keeps their belongings together, out of the aisle. That said, there is often no storage under a bulkhead seat, and the armrests typically don't move, so they can be less comfortable for sleeping toddlers.
• If you are travelling with another adult, you could book one of your seats in front of your toddler so they only get to kick you or your co-carer and not a fellow passenger – if this would put your mind at ease more than having said fellow adult sitting on the other side of your little foot-thrower instead.
• Air New Zealand  offers Sky Couches in economy, which are a wonder – allowing you all to lie down flat and get a better quality of sleep in the air. The airline is also broadening to include ‘ skynest’ bunk beds from September 2024 .

What should I pack for a flight with a baby and toddler?

• Check what your particular airline allows in the cabin regarding weight per passenger and for a baby or a toddler, as this varies wildly. ( Skyscanner’s travel advice hub  also summarises luggage allowances for kids broken down by airline). Thankfully most companies seem to allow decent-size changing, food and toy bags but don’t bank on it.
• Some airlines don’t permit certain creams such as Sudocrem, so it’s worth checking that banned substances list very closely ahead of time too.
• Find out what your hotel can have ready and waiting in your room. Typically, that includes space-saving essentials such as nappies, wet-wipes, formula, etc.
• You can order items such as formula and baby food from  UK airports ’  Boots pharmacies online  to collect in-store after the security gates – as long as you type at least five days in advance. You, therefore, don’t have to factor them into liquid limits or your baggage allowance.
• The latest genuinely game-changing piece of child-friendly flying kit is the toddler flight bed. From the  Bubba Board  and the  Stokke Jetkids BedBox  to inflatable options, it’s now possible to carry onboard clever seat extenders which help turn your little one’s chair into a bed that they are far more likely to sleep and lounge comfortably on for longer. This is much easier than having a child sleep across your lap, and they tend to enjoy “making their bed”, too. However, be sure to double-check whether the airline permits them, as not all do.
• It’s worth taking a buggy even if you plan on carrying your baby throughout if you have somewhere to strap in your unpredictable toddler should you need to contain them and have your ready-made luggage trolley. Airline staff will now typically ask you if you have a buggy or a  Baby Zen Yoyo . The latter folds down wonderfully to fit into the luggage shelf in all aircraft cabins and therefore doesn’t need to be checked in, allowing you to use it immediately on and off the flight rather than having it separated from you often until the very last of the luggage makes the carousel. The  GB Gold Pokit+  also comes highly recommended.
• Flying with a baby and toddler is simply not possible without a baby carrier or sling: you otherwise do not possess enough hands. Holding tired babies in a carrier and walking up and down the cabin often also helps keep them calm (and quiet). Classics include the  BabyBjorn  and  ErgoBaby , while carriers from  Artipoppe  are more relaxed and creative.
• Put your travel documents into said baby carrier if you can, or pop them into your buggy’s back pocket to guarantee quick, stress-free access.
• Pack spare clothes for yourself and the children in case of emergency food spillages or worse.
• Dress wisely in the first place – wear something comfortable, with pockets and easy breastfeeding access if required. New brand  The Mum Collective  should have something equally practical and luxurious-feeling.
• A  snoozeshade  may be helpful to ensure darkness over your baby’s bassinet or upon arrival.
• If your baby isn’t breast-feeding, give them a dummy to suck on during take-off and landing to help equalise the air pressure in their ears. Your toddler may want a dummy too, or a water cup or appropriate suckable sweets would work.
• Pack more of everything you might need for the journey – especially those parenting essentials of wet wipes, nappies, muslins and dummies.
• To save space, take a small changing mat, such as the  Polar Gear Baby Portable , into which you can store wipes and a nappy.
• A tip that comes up repeatedly is to take as many baby and toddler snacks as possible – particularly fruit, if your airline and destination allow. Small (peanut-free) snacks such as raisins and cut-up grapes in cute Tupperware should help mesmerise your child – possibly even with each item individually wrapped to prolong the ritual of opening them up.
• Be aware: water bottles and baby foods in pouches tend to build up air pressure and may explode slightly upon opening – not something you want to happen all over your cabin mates.
• Meanwhile, book your kids’ in-flight meal ahead if you can – having it arrive before everyone else’s will make them feel special.
• You can also ask to have your meal served after your kids’ have finished – so you can focus on your meal once they no longer need your food-shovelling assistance.
• Make a grab bag. That involves putting the things you need to change one nappy into a bag that can sit by your feet or in the back of the seat in front while your main nappy bag is up in the cabin luggage rack.
• Super organised parents can put different outfits into clear bags so they can see what they’re grabbing or use  packing cubes  to divide up their suitcase space better.
• A common suggestion is to pack new or favourite toy(s) for the flight – ones that aren’t going to explode everywhere or give your fellow passengers a headache. Sensible suggestions include sticker books, peelable window stickers, mess-free wipeable colouring books (so you don’t need to worry about marks on the seats), triangular crayons that don’t roll away, interactive or magnetic books such as the Usborn Travel Activity Book, and bath fidget spinners for toddlers and babies. Some children have bags that they only use for flights, filled with wrapped-up presents to open only once they’re in the air – the strategy being that this will help keep the whole flight experience positive and exciting for them. (Others think this may then put the focus on unwrapping rather than the toy itself – but you know your child!) All parents should avoid including Lego or anything with small parts that are easy to lose, what with the minimal table space. Short on time? You can order Keep Em Quiet activity packs online, which tend to live up to the name.
• Once your more wholesome fun has run its course (if it does), your toddler will likely be happy to watch a screen for several hours, something which the vast majority of parents loosen right up on, given the extreme, high-altitude circumstances. Be sure to download their favourite shows onto a tablet and invest in some  young child-friendly headphones  for both the sake of their ears and those of their fellow passengers, as well as a tablet holder that hangs on the seat in front. Forgotten your tablet? Suggest they try any appropriate in-flight games instead, with your help.
• Remember that your baby is likely to find their surroundings fascinating enough without any new toys - they just perhaps need a familiar comforter if there’s one they’re particularly attached to.
• A pillow or blanket is a good idea for each of them if you have the space, for that comforting, homely smell.
• Don’t forget to pack some Calpol in your checked luggage, for peace of mind.

How do I make the airport experience smoother with a baby and toddler?

• Talk about the flight with your toddler beforehand to get them excited rather than anxious about it – you could even read kids’ books on the topic. Use role play to explain what will happen at security and once you get on board (ie, everyone will take a big nap, hopefully).
• Check in online before you arrive to save time, though it is worth going to the check-in desk to find out if your flight is full and whether you can block the seat next to you. This is particularly valuable if travelling with a toddler under 24 months without a seat.
• The second hardest part of flying with a baby and toddler (after boarding the flight, see below) is juggling yourselves and your belongings through security – as, at this point, you have to fold down your buggy. A staff member will likely hold your baby if they are allowed (some are and some aren’t), or someone in the queue behind you is likely to offer – partly from kindness and partly as otherwise you will hold them up. Skyscanner’s travel expert and experienced family traveller Naomi Hahn also points out: “Make sure to head for the priority lanes at security – most airports have dedicated lanes for families with young children, so you don’t have to wait in a queue and can get on with the start of your holiday.”
• Get a good meal at a restaurant with high chairs if you can – there’s nothing worse than hungry and emotional children if you find yourself stuck on the runway for hours pre-meal time or discover that the airline food will not cut it.
• Only boarding your flight first when families are offered this option if you are very anxious about cabin space. Alternatively, one of you could head-on with the baby while the other watches the toddler run about, using as much energy as possible.

How do I actually get on board a flight with a baby and toddler?

• The hardest part, I have found, when travelling alone with a baby, is getting on the plane; this, therefore, is the part you should plan most closely and maybe even practise if you get the time to. Put your baby in your carrier, then your backpack(s) on (I have managed to wear one over another). If you’re very nervous about your toddler running off – ensure you have one of those little bags with a (for want of another word) ‘lead’ for them to wear, or ask a staff member or kind passenger to watch them within the confined space of the boarding gate lounge for a minute. It’s also a wise idea to have some toddler currency on you (snacks again, a screen, a new or old and much-loved toy). Collapse your buggy down, sling it over your shoulder, and then slowly make your way to your seat. The chances are very high that someone will offer to help you with some of your luggage: accept it, or don’t hesitate to ask for it if you need to.

What helps keep a baby and toddler calm and happy during a flight?

• If you are breastfeeding your baby – that’s pretty much the answer to everything! They find it emotionally comforting, it levels out their blood sugar, and the sucking helps equalise the air pressure in their ears. Just bear in mind that your body is producing milk in relation to your normal eating, sleeping and feeding routine, so may be a little slower. If bottle feeding – take formula and make it up on the flight so you don’t need to worry about getting it through customs and keeping it sterile (thankfully, not something you have to consider if breastfeeding). And make sure you and your toddler drink as much water as possible.
• Travel pillows  are fun for adults, so imagine how absorbing the squidgy things are for toddlers. Bring one for them shaped like a  dinosaur  or  unicorn  – along with a matching eye mask.
• If you all need a distraction or mood change, take them both to the exciting tiny toilet, even if you don’t need to go, or the gallery areas, post food service.
• Change them into their pyjamas to encourage them to sleep, and carry out as much of your regular bedtime routine as possible to try and normalise the situation.

What should I do if one child needs changing while the other is sleeping?

• In this scenario, ask a staff member or a kind co-passenger to sit with your sleeping child while you sort the other. Needs must, and you’ll be back very soon if they wake up a bit startled while you’re gone.

What helps reduce baby and toddler recovery time after a flight?

• Fresh air and sunlight help reset one’s body clock, so try to fit in a walk to get your bearings.
• Keep them up until a normal bedtime in your destination if you can – though again, don’t get hung up on this. Often you’ll no doubt find yourselves in Mediterranean countries where supper time is later anyway, so keeping their body clock in tune with the timezone back home may do you well both there and upon your return, and you might even get a slight lie-in on your holiday mornings.
• Some parents recommend Arnica 30 for jet lag and time zone changes - though do consult your GP before trying any such lotions or potions.

Two final things…

• Smile, stay calm and try to relax. If you’re feeling – or at least acting – breezy, they will be too.
• Like childbirth, this is just (hopefully) one day of your life – and all the prep and travel will be worth it once you reach your end goal: the sort of family holiday that your lifelong memories are made of.

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Flying Alone with Two Babies: 20 Tips for Survival

Flying alone with two toddlers can be scary, and managing everything on travel day can seem impossible. I’ve learned from experience that with the right preparation — and realistic expectations — flying by myself with our one-year-old and three-year-old can be a fun day for all of us.

Besides coming to the airport with a little extra patience (one time it took us so long to walk to baggage claim that our suitcase was moved to unclaimed luggage!), here are my top 20 tips for surviving and thriving your solo flight with two toddlers:

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Flying Alone with Two Toddlers: Planning and Packing

1. pack lightly for your trip..

Packing lightly is not something that comes naturally to me. I’ve been known to fly with an entire suitcase of toys cross-country, load our truck bed with our large Fisher-Price Piano for road trips, and fill our massive L. L. Bean roller duffle to the brim for short weekend adventures.

Flying alone with two toddlers is a different story. Even if I check a bag, there are times when I need to manage both kids and all the luggage myself, so packing light is essential. When I can, I try to have disposable goods like diapers and wipes delivered to our destination to help save space.

2. Time your flight for sleep… Or not.

Whenever we travel with our kids , we find it ideal for them to sleep for as much of the trip as possible. If we’re driving , we always leave at bedtime or at 4:00 AM so the kids can go back to sleep in the car.

The last time I flew alone with our two toddlers, we planned the flight around their afternoon nap time so they would both doze off on the plane. Of course, my plan backfired. No one slept on the plane, and our daughter (who is still under 18 months old) lost it from overtiredness before the end of the flight. In the end, she was a happy camper once we deplaned, and she caught up on sleep later in the day.

3. Organize your bags for in-flight access.

I’ve learned from experience to plan which bags I’ll have at our feet, so that I’m not leaving our two toddlers in their seats while I rummage in the overhead compartment for the emergency snack stash. Even if you plan to carry everything on with you, there’s a chance that the overhead bins on your plane will fill up. In that case, you’ll need to gate-check any bags you planned to stow in the overhead, leaving you without access to them during the flight.

4. Get creative with compact airplane toys and activities.

When we travel with our kids and extended family, I’m all for carrying on as many toys as possible . I’ll even distribute a few books and activities to aunts, uncles, and grandparents to share the load and reduce the weight in our diaper bag.

If it’s just me traveling with the two littles, I significantly reduce the amount of toys I bring on the plane. I avoid heavy books, toys with small parts, and anything that might roll away, like crayons or stacking cups. Instead, I might bring an LCD writing tablet and a few fidget toys like bubble poppers or suction spinners for the window.

The last time I flew with our two toddlers by myself, the only toy I brought was a roll of blue painter’s tape to save space. The kids loved tearing the pieces off and using them to decorate the seat back in front of them, my water bottle, and each other.

5. Invest in a compact travel stroller.

Bringing a stroller helps reduce the number of bags I need to carry, and it keeps our younger daughter secure while we walk through the terminal. Although many airlines require parents to check full-size strollers at the ticketing desk, most airport staff allow travel strollers to be pushed right up to the gate.

Our UPPAbaby Minu stroller (pictured above with an extremely tired toddler after landing) is easy to fold into thirds and bring onto the plane or gate-check. If you’re set on bringing your travel stroller on board, see our list of lightweight strollers that fit in the airplane overhead bin .

6. Use a standing ride-along board.

Clipping our Lascal BuggyBoard Mini onto the travel stroller gives our older son a place to stand and rest when he’s tired of walking. This is especially helpful when my husband isn’t with us to carry him around.

When we aren’t using it, I can easily slide the ride-along board into the under-seat stroller basket. For boarding, I fold the BuggyBoard inside our Minu stroller and use a bungee cord to secure it in place.

7. Use a baby carrier (yes, even for toddlers).

For our firstborn, I only used our soft baby carrier until he was a little under one year old. Now that I’m managing two toddlers, I often find myself relying on the carrier to hold our younger daughter — who’s almost one-and-a-half — while keeping my hands free.

Our Beco Gemini model is comfortable to wear and holds up to 35 pounds. We also love the Artipoppe and Ergobaby Omni 360 . Read about more travel baby carriers that can support toddler weight here .

8. Bring the good snacks.

Snacks are one of the best tools for keeping toddlers happy. To make snacks more effective for managing the plane ride, I try not to let our kids fill up too much before the flight.

On our most recent flight, I brought Cheez-It crackers and alphabet cookies to keep the kids content. As a medical professional and a mom who generally feeds our children a nutritious and well-rounded diet , I realize these are not the healthiest choices, but flying alone with two toddlers is the time to pull out all the stops.

9. Pack a kid-friendly water bottle.

I’ve learned from experience that when the beverage cart comes by on the plane, the kids always want something to drink. You can expect that the plane won’t be equipped with kids’ cups, so be sure to bring a bottle or straw cup to pour your water into for the flight.

10. Choose a travel-friendly diaper bag.

All diaper bags are not created equal. Look for a large model with lots of pockets, so there’s a designated spot for every item. The last thing you need is to spend time digging through your bag for that emergency pacifier with no way to find it.

Our Dagne Dover Diaper Tote has a luggage sleeve that makes strolling through the airport much easier. For more great diaper bags, check out our guides on The Best Diaper Bags for Two Kids and the The Best Diaper Bags for Travel .

11. Talk to your toddlers about what to expect.

Don’t underestimate your son or daughter’s ability to mentally prepare for travel day. Although explaining to an 18-month old that you need them to walk through security and sit quietly on the plane may not be effective, older toddlers might appreciate a heads up about what to expect. You might even find that they’re better equipped to listen and stay close to you if you explain the importance of sticking together.

Flying Alone with Two Toddlers: Managing Travel Day

12. wear comfortable clothing with pockets..

You never know who’s going to be napping (or climbing!) on you for the flight, so it’s best to avoid harsh zippers or buckles that might be uncomfortable for little faces to rest on.

I also learned the last time I flew with our toddlers how important it is to have pockets. Because I wore a sweatshirt and leggings with no pockets, I didn’t have a good spot to stash the luggage stub for our bag that was checked at the gate. I lost the stub almost immediately, making it much more difficult to locate our suitcase when I couldn’t find it at baggage claim later on. Learn from my mistake and always wear clothing with pockets!

13. Have someone drive you to the airport if possible (and pick you up, too!).

Flying alone with two toddlers will be significantly easier if you can have someone drive you to the airport, especially if they can park and help you get your luggage (and children) to check-in. Although it’s not always possible, I’ve also found it helpful to have a family member pick us up at our destination and assist at baggage claim.

14. Be realistic about what you can carry, and check what you need to.

If I’m traveling on my own with our children, it’s often worth it to check a bag so that I’m not hauling too much luggage through the airport while trying to keep the kids contained. Although many parents prefer to carry car seats onto the plane and use them in flight , we’ve found that it works well for our family to check them or rent car seats at our destination . This allows me to avoid buying a separate airplane seat for our daughter (until she turns two) and reduces what I need to lug through the airport.

15. Give yourself extra time at the airport.

Unexpected obstacles (diaper blowout, anyone?) are even more difficult to manage on your own with two little ones, so give yourself extra time to deal with them. On our most recent flight together, the airline originally had my son and I sitting a few rows apart from each other. I was thankful to have spare time at the gate to change our seats before boarding.

16. Let older toddlers help if they want to.

Whenever we’re at the airport, our three-year-old always wants to help check in at the kiosk, carry a bag, or push the stroller. Although it requires some serious patience (and extra time), I try to let him help as much as possible so that he can enjoy the day and feel independent rather than becoming frustrated.

17. Plan to have your kids burn some energy at the gate.

When we arrive at the gate, I like to get our daughter out of the stroller or carrier and let her walk around with her brother for a while. That way they aren’t both itching to run around the airplane aisles as soon as we board. Some airports even have an airplane-themed indoor playground in the terminal.

18. Change diapers just before boarding.

When it’s just me and the two kids flying together, I try to take advantage of the spacious airport restrooms, so I can roll the stroller right into the bathroom stall. Although it isn’t always possible, the goal is to avoid dealing with an in-flight diaper change in those tight airplane lavatories with two children.

19. Board early enough that there’s still overhead space.

I made this mistake the last time I flew alone with our two toddlers. I was trying to avoid having them on the plane any longer than they needed to be, so I decided to wait at the gate and let others board first, even though the airline staff offered us early boarding. By the time we got on the plane, the overhead bins were full. We had to check both our small roller bag and our stroller instead of carrying them on, making things more difficult at our destination.

20. Save the screen time for when you need it.

Although there are plenty of activities that are healthier for kids to engage in than screen time, an iPad with a few movies downloaded onto it is a magical tool for long flights. Instead of letting our kids use the screen while we’re in the airport or at the beginning of the flight, I try to wait until we’re farther into our journey. If they’ve already been using it all day, the iPad won’t be as effective for keeping them engaged.

The Upshot on Flying Alone with Two Toddlers

I hope this guide gives you reassurance that flying alone with two toddlers is possible, and it can be an exciting experience for your little ones. Above all, give yourself grace, and realize that your travel day probably won’t go perfectly, no matter how much planning and preparation are involved. Although flying alone with little kids can cause some stress and take a lot of work, it’s often worth it to adventure with your family, and it makes for great stories and memories for years to come.

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With a background in medicine as a licensed physician assistant, Christy is a freelance writer and mom of two young kids. As someone who loves to ski, run, and hike, she most cherishes introducing her son and daughter to the beautiful outdoors and spending time with her precious family.

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Travelling solo with a toddler, tips & tricks!

Travelling solo with a toddler can be quite exciting.. Will your baby be good, how will you manage all the luggage with only two hands?! I travelled solo to Genoa, Italy , with Lotte. It was our first “girls only” city trip, and is was great!

Travelling solo with a toddler: how do I prepar?

This partly depends on how much you have already travelled with your child. Lotte has seen quite a lot of the world. The only thing being really different is her father and brother won’t join us. No much preparing needed on that part. Nevertheless whether you have travelled a lot with your child or not, it’s always important to talk them through what’s coming: “Lotte we will have a transfer. It’s very important you walk by yourself, as mum has to carry all suitcases and doen’t have any hands free to carry you as well”. When your toddler is a first time traveller or flyer, there are plenty of children’s books you can read, which prepare them for the upcoming trip.

How do you manage all the luggage?

Travelling light is the key word. Make sure you don’t take to much as you all have to carry it yourself. Are you going on a weekend trip? Try to take handluggage only. I took a trolley, backpack and a little trolly, which Lotte carried herself. Will you be away for a longer period of time? You will be check-in in your suitcases and can bring a little more luggage as well. Don’t forget you will be carrying it all on your own at some points. So make sure you can. Taking 2 suitcases and a stroller might be a problem.

Tip: if you carry your toddler in a child carrier, you can take a shoulder bag and  two trolley suitcases all by yourself.

Travelling solo with a toddler: what do you bring? 

Of course the usual stuff and I can highly recommend these items when travelling solo, I tell you why;

# Stroller Only take one when it’s usefull at your destination as well. For example, lot’s of Asian cities aren’t very stroller friendly. The stoller is perfect at airports, with all the long walks and waits. At your destination it’s the perfect spot for a little nap. If you take a stroller you probably can’t push a trolley as well, stroller + backpack is a more ideal combination.

# Kids carrier for toddlers My fav! Perfect for “stroller unfriendly destinations” or just because you like carrying better. They come in all shapes and sizes. For a toddler I can highly recommend these two:  Deuter Kid Comfort  and  Tula Toddler  . The first one is perfect for long hikes, the second one is more suitable for short strolls. When travelling alone with a child the biggest benefit of a kids carrier is def that you have both hands free (to carry your suitcases for example).

# Trunki kids suitcase Our kids love their Trunki’s. The Trunki is a suitcase especially designed for kids. The come in the cutest designs, have wheels and a pull cord. Kids can either use it as a walker or take a seat and have you pull them. When having your own trolley in one hand, you can pull the Trunki with your baby on it, in the other.

# Entertainment If you want to relax yourself as well during the flight, some kids entertaiment is mandatory. For long haul flights I fill a backpack with lots of little presents, varying from a ricecracker to stickers, 1 for every hour. I wrap them all, to give it that extra touch as my kids looooove to unpack. And, yes.. we always take the  iPad packed with all kids of apps for some (educational) entertainment. The Ipad is about 100 games and films in one and takes so little space. Don’t forget a headphone  as well. Your fellow passengers will thank you for that.

# Snackies A hunry child is a grumpy child, and thats something you don’t want! I always take apples, carrots, cumcumber, bell peper en of course a little cookie. I find it very handy to have water with me as well. Therfore I always take my empty  Dopper  bottle and fill it up after the security check.

# Peanut butter and vitamine pills Do you have difficult eaters like we do? If so, take a jar of peanut butter (assuming they like this) and vitamine pills. You can use the peanut butter to fill empty stomachs and the vitamine pills to ease your own conscience 😉 .

# Tripod  and  bluetooth remote control To capture all the beautiful moment of your trip together. Of course you can ask someone passing by, to take a picture as well, but if you don’t like asking or just what to be able to take pics every moment, these gadgets are a must have. You can put the tripod on the ground or even connect it to, for example, a bridge. The bluetooth remote control enables you to take pictures from yourself, from a distance. Love it!

Travelling solo with a toddler: thats it? 

Almost.. don’t forget to relax! Kids are so sensitive, they will pick it up when you are totally stressed out. Always make sure you don’t stuff your program from dusk til down. Make sure you have a travel speed your baby can keep up to and add things they like as well. Do the “grown up stuff” in the morning a and the “kids stuff” in the afternoon.

Is your child a little older? Ask them what they want to see and do. This will make them even like this trip more.

I loved travelling alone with Lotte. You have so much time for each other as you are together 24/7 making beautiful memories. If you have the posibility take you child on a trip with you, one on one, you won’t regred it!

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Flying Alone with a Baby | 22 Helpful Tips for Easier Travels

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Flying alone with a baby for the first time can be a daunting experience, but with some careful planning and preparation, you can have a smooth journey.

In fact, traveling with your baby can be a lot of fun. For babies and toddlers, everything is new, and therefore more magical. Babies are like little sponges absorbing everything they experience. But traveling can also be a huge challenge, particularly if you are flying alone with an infant. Have no fear, though. 

Whether you’re a single parent or just traveling alone with your baby, this guide to flying alone with a baby or toddler walks you through the process, step by step, and includes the most helpful tips for flying solo with your little one.

My experience flying alone with a baby the first time

The first time I traveled alone with my baby, I booked a tight connection, had a delayed departure, missed a flight, and didn’t get home until the next morning. It was a long, miserable day for both my baby and for me. I was unprepared, overwhelmed, and afterwards, never wanted to fly alone with a baby. 

In retrospect, there were some things that were simply out of my control, but there were also a few things I could have done to make the situation easier.

Tips for flying alone with an infant | Step-by-Step Guide

There are a few things I learned after my first experience flying alone with an infant. It isn’t easy, but it isn’t necessarily rocket science either.

My first experience was a nightmare, but the next one was easier, partially because I learned from my mistakes. Hopefully, this guide will help you avoid many of the headaches and stresses that I dealt with during my first solo flight with a baby.

Before the flight | How to prepare for your first flight alone with a baby

Half the battle of flying alone with a baby is won before the flight. In fact, there are preparations you can make before you even leave for the airport to help ensure a stress-free trip.

Choose the right flight

Opt for flights that align with your baby’s schedule, preferably during their naptime or bedtime, if possible. If your flight involves a connection, you will also want to allow for extra time during the layover. 

Navigating a new airport with a baby adds an extra level of stress. Having more time to work with helps you minimize the risk of something going wrong, a missed connection, or forgetting something on the plane .  

Although long layovers make for a longer travel day, they aren’t necessarily a bad thing. There are a lot of things to do during a long layover to help pass the time with your little one. 

Be sure to specify that you will be traveling with a lap infant when you book your flight! It’s important to note that some airlines require you to call to add a lap infant to your ticket rather than booking online.

Book an aisle seat

My daughter loves to look out the airplane window. When we travel as a family with a lap infant, we usually book a two-seat row, if available. That gives us access to both the window and the aisle. However, when flying alone with an infant in your lap, you have to choose one or the other.

In a solo situation, I recommend the aisle seat with your lap-baby. It allows you to get up and walk if your baby is fussing, needs a scenery change, or in the more likely scenario, a diaper change is necessary.

Additionally, on longer international flights, if you book a bulkhead seat, you can also request a bassinet that attaches to the bulkhead area, allowing your baby to sleep more comfortably during your flight.

Pack all the necessary supplies such as diapers, wipes, formula or breast milk, extra clothes, blankets, and pacifiers in a small baby carry-on bag that will fit under the seat. You’ll want those items readily available at arms’ length rather than stored in an overhead compartment. 

While you will want to have all your baby travel essentials for your trip, some of those items, like baby gear, can go in your checked bag or larger carry-on bag. 

Anytime you are flying with a baby or flying with a toddler , you’ll want to pack extra supplies, but don’t go overboard! Consider buying some items – like extra diapers – when you arrive at your destination.

Choose a Backpack style Diaper Bag 

Your diaper bag does not count against you as your carry on or your personal item. But you’ll want to be strategic with what type of carry-on bag for your baby that you bring.

When flying alone with a baby, a backpack or a diaper bag with straps you can wear as a backpack, like this one , is an ideal option. This allows you to be hands-free when navigating the airport, accessing your flight details on your phone, or messaging family back home or at your destination.

At the airport | What to plan for upon arrival to the airport

Your second battle when flying alone with a baby will be won upon arrival at the airport. Here are a few tips to make the arrival and check-in process easier.

Have someone drop you off

This might not always be an option when traveling alone with a baby, but when possible, have a friend or family member take you to the airport and pick you up. 

This typically saves you from having to find a parking spot, embarking on a long walk from the parking lot or a shuttle ride to the terminal, and makes the overall arrival process quicker, safer, and less stressful.

Arrive Early

Plan to arrive at the airport earlier than you typically would. Give yourself plenty of extra time before the flight to check-in, go through security, and get settled. This allows you to handle any unexpected situations calmly. 

Babies are sensitive to your emotions. If you remain calm and composed, it can help soothe your baby and make the journey more enjoyable for both of you.

Check Luggage

Even if traveling with a larger carry on, you may want to consider checking it, particularly if flying on a smaller plane or aircraft type.

Many airlines require larger carry-on bags to be gate checked, which adds one more thing you have to do when getting on and off your flight. 

If you end up with a tight connection, not having to wait for your gate-checked luggage could make all the difference between making your connecting flight and missing it.

Check your car seat through to your destination

If you are flying alone with your infant, the last thing you want to do is haul a bunch of baby travel gear through the airport.

But, if you are going on a trip where you will be renting a car, or visiting family members or friends that do not have a car seat for your little one, you’ll need to bring one with you. 

Plan to check your car seat through to your destination, along with your luggage.

Luckily, if you are traveling in the United States, checking car seats for air travel is free and does not count against your allotted number of bags.

Going through Security when traveling alone with a baby

You’re packed, you’ve planned, you’ve checked in, and you’ve arrived at the airport. Let’s get you through security with your baby with ease. 

Consider getting TSA Precheck

TSA Precheck is a program offered by the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) in the United States that allows expedited security screening for eligible travelers.

You can go through dedicated lanes that are typically shorter and faster. The reduced waiting times can minimize the stress of traveling with a baby.

Additionally, you can keep your shoes on when passing through security and do not have to remove electronics from your carry-on bag, which means fewer steps during the security screening process.

Wear your baby in a carrier

This is probably the number one thing you can do to make flying alone with a baby easier. I am such a believer in babywearing at the airport that I wrote a full post about it.

There are so many different types of baby carriers on the market that you don’t have to spend a fortune on one, but I promise you, if you plan to fly solo with an infant, a baby carrier is an investment you won’t regret.

Using a baby carrier rather than a stroller can be extremely helpful when flying with a baby, especially during security checks and when you need your hands free. You typically do not have to remove your baby from a soft-bodied carrier when going through security. 

A baby carrier also provides a familiar and soothing environment for your little one and keeps them close and safe next to your body.

READY TO INVEST IN A BABY CARRIER? CHECK OUT OUR POST ON THE BEST BABY CARRIERS FOR TRAVEL TO FIND THE BEST ONE FOR YOU.

Wear slip-on shoes and dress comfortably

Going through security isn’t particularly hard with a baby, especially if you wear them in a carrier. But taking off and putting back on a sneaker or a boot by yourself while holding or wearing a baby is an entirely different story. Avoid the hassle, and wear shoes that easily slip on.

I like these ballet flats by Dr. Scholl’s . They are stylish yet comfortable. And they have an extra layer of memory foam padding inside which makes all that airport walking a bit easier on your feet.

You’ll also want to opt for loose clothing for you and for your little one. This not only keeps you both comfortable but loose clothing allows easy access for diaper changes.

At the gate | What to do while waiting for your flight with a baby

You’ve made it through security! One more step closer to a successful flight alone with a baby. Hopefully, you still have plenty of time before your flight boards. 

Make a Bathroom Stop and Snack Run

During this time, make a point to go to the bathroom and buy snacks for your flight. 

Airplane lavatories are very small, so use the family restroom at the airport before you board to go to the bathroom and change your baby, if needed. 

And while you may have packed plenty of snacks for your little one, you need to take care of yourself, as well. Traveling and parenting is exhausting, so be sure to fuel up on snacks to keep you energized during your flight.

Let your baby explore or play

Your baby is going to be cooped up in a cramped airline seat for the duration of your flight, so take the opportunity before the flight to let your baby out of the carrier or your travel stroller, if you brought one.

Your little one can use the time before your flight to burn off energy, explore, play, and hopefully tire out so he or she will sleep on the plane.

This is especially important if traveling with toddlers or babies 12 months old or older, who like to move around and explore a lot.

Ask the gate agent for an empty row

While you’re waiting at the gate, glance at the seating chart or ask the gate agent if there are any empty rows on the flight.

If so, ask if you can move to the empty row. This will give you some extra room or at least an extra seat for your little one to move around if flying with a lap infant.

This is also beneficial if you plan to nurse during take off and landing. I’m all for nursing in public, but no one particularly enjoys nursing right next to a stranger in a cramped row on an airplane. An empty row gives you a little more privacy while you nurse your baby. 

If you prefer, you can always bring expressed breastmilk or formula with you when you travel .

On the flight | In-flight tips for flying alone with a baby

You have officially made it to the part of flying alone with a baby that you are probably dreading the most – the actual flight! Don’t stress. These tips will help you tackle your first solo flight with your little one.

Bring entertainment

Pack toys, books, and other small items to keep your baby engaged during the flight. A new toy that your little one has not seen before may also keep their attention longer than their toys that they have already grown tired of.  

Favorite comfort items can also help them feel more at ease in a new environment. 

And, while this might seem strange, when my daughter would get fussy on a plane and her toys, books, and snacks were not helping, I would pull out my phone and play videos I had recorded of her. She loved watching videos of herself, even at only a few months old!   

Nurse or bottle feed during take off or landing

Changes in air pressure can affect babies more than adults. Offer a pacifier or a bottle during ascent and descent to help relieve ear pressure.

You are allowed to fly with formula or expressed breastmilk in reasonable quantities. If you exclusively breastfeed, nurse right after or during take off. 

Feeding your baby during these times helps equalize the pressure in their ears, which can alleviate discomfort and a baby with a full belly is typically a happy or sleepy baby. 

Bring food pouches and snacks

This is one of the things we recommend to anyone flying with a baby who is already eating solids or those flying with a toddler .

You’ll definitely want to come armed with snacks anytime you are traveling with kids. But if you’re playing man-on-man defense and flying alone with an infant, food pouches are definitely the way to go.

Skip the spoon and squeeze it directly into their mouth because it’s just easier when you are balancing a kid on your lap.

Feeding a baby one-handed while holding her with the other, and trying to keep her from grabbing everything on site is a delicate dance that traveling parents become pros at after just a few flights.

As for other snacks, Gerber Puffs or Cheerios are a great way to keep a squirmy baby occupied during your flight.

See what else is in our carry-on bag for kids here.

Make friends with those around you

Don’t be afraid to ask for assistance from a flight attendant or another passenger if you need help hoisting your carry-on into the overhead compartment when flying alone with a baby.

On one of my last flights alone with my daughter, the lovely woman sitting next to me even offered to hold her for part of the flight. 

As parents who travel frequently, my husband and I have also helped a woman traveling solo with her kids. We even gathered and carried all of her checked luggage outside to the car where her husband was waiting to pick her up.

Most people will take sympathy on you if you are traveling alone with a child or multiple children, so don’t be afraid to make friends with those around you.

How do you use the bathroom on an airplane when flying alone with a baby?

Bathroom breaks in the airplane lavatory may be one of the most awkward things about flying alone with a baby. If you have to go to the bathroom during your flight, you have a few options, and none of them are honestly ideal. 

Your first option would be to ask an airline staff member to hold your baby for you while you quickly go to the bathroom. A trustworthy passenger that you have made friends with on the flight might be a second option. 

The final option, and the one I have chosen more than once, is to strap my baby into the baby carrier and go to the bathroom while wearing my baby. It’s a bit awkward, but doable. The loud sound of the toilet flushing in the lavatory may scare your little one though. So, be prepared for that. 

Flying alone with multiple kids? Check out these great tips and tricks before your flight.

At your destination | Tips to make traveling alone with a baby easier upon arrival

You’ve made it! At this point in the process, the hard part is over. 

While the most challenging part of your solo flight with a baby is behind you, here are a few final things to plan for upon arrival at your destination.

Arrange for someone to pick you up or take a taxi instead of public transport

Public transportation, like metros and buses, adds yet another layer of confusion or stress to a trip. When you arrive at your destination you and your child may very likely be tired. 

When possible, arrange for someone to pick you up at the airport, or plan to take a taxi or rideshare service to your hotel or Airbnb .

Buy items when you arrive

Some essentials like diapers can be very bulky when you consider the average baby goes through 8-10 diapers a day. 

Rather than bringing several dozen diapers or more, plan to bring enough for 2-3 days and buy the rest when you arrive at your destination. This will help tremendously when trying to pack light. 

Having traveled to more than 30 countries as a family, we’ve never had any trouble finding diapers in any of the destinations that we have visited.

Take your time and travel slow

Whether you are solo traveling with your baby to a new and fun destination or visiting family in another state or country, anytime you travel with a baby, give yourself extra grace and extra time. Pad your itinerary with a few more days, if possible, try not to fit too many activities into your trip, and take things slower than you typically would with a partner or without a baby in tow.

Slow travel will ultimately make your trip a more enjoyable and less exhausting experience.

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20 Tips for International Travel with Toddlers

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Family travels are some of our most fun and memorable adventures.  International travel with toddlers can seem overwhelming and scary at times.  Well not anymore!  These family travel experts have mastered international travel with toddlers (and kids) to help make the adventure more enjoyable for all.  Use this list of top 20 tips to keep your family safe and prepared on your next international travel with toddlers and older kids.

Preparing for your upcoming international travel with a toddler:

Passports.  .

•     “Passports take a very long time to get, so you should just get one now.  Whether or not you are planning on traveling out of the country, it’s always good to have a passport for you and your family members.”  – Annette at Tips From A Typical Mom

Communication.  

2.      “There are a million ways/apps to stay connected and free WIFI all around the world.  But sometimes you want/need an internet connection from your phone.  Contact your service provider and ask about short term international plans, they may be more affordable than you thought.” – Regina at Full Time Field Trip

3.      “We like to get a SIM card in the country we’re visiting.  FYI, your phone must be unlocked for this.  While we may pay a bit more in the airport or bus station, it’s worth it to havewhat we need to help us navigate to our next location.” – Regina at Full Time Field Trip

Get Travel Insurance.

4.      “Without question, you need travel insurance.  An accident or illness in a foreign country can be complicated, stressful, and expensive.  Good travel insurance is worth every penny just for the peace of mind.”  – Shannan at Captivating Compass 

If you are looking to explore travel insurance, I recommend starting with World Nomands Travel Insurance .  They are easy to use and a program that is developed by travelers for travelers.

Disabilities. 

5.      If you have disability needs you will need to research what the country you’re considering would have available for you.  Not all countries have the same disability access laws. – Melissa at Disabled Disney

Traveling International with a Toddler, Baby, or older Kids:

Choosing flights.  .

6.      For international flights, “we have always chosen a flight with seat-back entertainment which is a lifesaver when you have kids!  We also choose the four seats in the middle of the plane, and I sit on one end and my husband on the other, sandwiching the kids between us.” – Nikki at Yorshire Wonders

7.      “Pack a bag that works as a carry-on and is roll-able.  I packed a carry on but it was a duffle bag and it was the WORST to hold on to in the custom’s lines.” – Annette at Tips From A Typical Mom

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Jetlag Recovery.  

8.      Help your kids recover from jetlag by having a big breakfast the first morning you arrive, even if you just landed and don’t feel hungry.  Usually people think because they aren’t hungry they shouldn’t eat.  This is not the case when you are traveling international with toddlers and kids.  Filling up bellies first thing in the morning helps kick start your body into knowing that you have started your day and adjust to a “new normal”.  – Tiffany at Mommy And Me Travels

Bonus: Check out the tips and tricks to fighting jetlag for kids from Mum With Wanderlust.

Paperwork. 

9.      “In theory, all you need to travel is your passport.  In certain places, and for certain types of visas, you may also need birth certificates and a marriage license.  Keep your documents safe in a waterproof, RFID protective case.  Have a digital copy on your phone.  Ask a trusted friend or family member back home to keep a digital and hard copy of your documents in case of an emergency.” – Regina at Full Time Field Trip

10.     “As you plan, make a list, even months in advance, making lists will help you keep things organized.  From itineraries to packing, to places not to be missed, your lists will help keep it all organized along the way.” – Shannan at Captivating Compass

Culture Shock.  

11.     “Culture shock can affect kids as much or more than adults.  Baby, toddlers, and kids like routine and rhythm in their lives.  They might find the sights, smells, and sounds of new places unsettling.  Try to empathize with them, acknowledge the things that might worry them and give them the time and space to adjust to their new surroundings.  Bring familiar toys and sometimes spend more money to go to a restaurant or indoor playground that reminds them of home.” – Kirsty at World For A Girl

12.     “Adjusting to different safety standards (if any at all) can be challenging (especially for parents). You always need to be aware of potential dangers.  From dodgy playpark equipment, street stands with flaming grills to open sewers, keeping your eye on toddlers and younger children can be hard work.  Try carrying toddlers in child carriers as a way of keeping them safe and speak openly to older children about any dangers.” – Kristy at World For A Girl. 

How will you access your money?

13.     “Look for credit cards and banks with no foreign transaction fees.” – Regina at Full Time Field Trip

Wondering were to find the best credit cards for travel?  We love all of the benefits that come with our Chase Sapphire Travel Card and think this is a great card for you to start your search.  

14.     “Call your bank and let them know that you are going out of country so they don’t freeze your cards.” – Annette at Tips From A Typical Mom

15.     “Withdraw money with your debt card from an ATM.  The currency conversion rate is usually much better because there is no fee involved as there is when you use a bank or those little stands in the airport.” – Tiffany at Mommy And Me Travels.

16.     “Aside from my travel pocket money, I have an emergency stash of cash in a safe place on my person, in case of lost luggage or theft.  Hiding it in a piece of clothing like socks or shoes will allow you to use them when all you have is yourself.” – Yamy at Gofamgo

Kids International Travel – Learn before you go:

Learn a few phrases. .

17.     “Knowing ‘Thank you’ and ‘Please’ in the local language is a minimum.  Improve your language skills before you go, if possible, and then try them out in-country.” – Shannan at Captivating Compass

18.      “Watch some YouTube videos to learn the basics of the language.  Choose a ‘word of the day’ that you all learn and practice to keep your language skill developing.  Ask the locals for help with pronunciation.” – Deb at World Wise Kid

Rules and Customs.  

19.     “Research what the rules and customs in the country you are visiting before you go and learn from the locals once you arrive.  Doing this will enhance your travel experience because people will notice your efforts and be willing to help you more.” – Sarah at State By State

20.     “Study the local transportation system ahead of time.  If you’re traveling by train, do you insert the tickets into a machine for a stamp/validation before boarding, or not?  If driving, are there toll roads, and how do they work?  Knowing ahead of time is incredibly helpful!” – Sarah at Dandelion Seeds  

International travel with toddlers, international travel with kids, traveling internationally with toddler, or traveling internationally with baby; however you phrased it to find this article, I hope that you are now feeling more comfortable and ready to tackle your next family adventure.  One last bonus tip: You can purchase almost everything you might need in other countries.  If you bring nothing else, make sure you have with you: your passports, insurance cards, and prescription medications.  

Let us know below if you have any questions, additional tips to share, or how these tips helped with your international family travels.

Check out our other post on planning a family vacation:

1 –  How to start planning you next family vacation and adventure ! 

2 –  Saving Money On Transportation

3 –  Choosing Family Accommodations

4 –  Sightseeing with Kids: Tips and Tricks  

5 –  20 Ultimate Packing Tips and Tricks when Traveling With Kids

6 –  25 Tips for Saving Money on Food While Traveling  

7 – 12 Tips for Road Trip with Toddlers

8 – 20 Tips for International Travel with Toddlers (This Post)

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21 Comments

I have never really given a thought to the small things one would need to consider when travelling with a toddler because I do not have children of my own but I can only imagine how much more research and preparation is required when you do travel with kids! For example, I always book budget flights for myself which do not have onboard entertainment but I see what you mean by it can be a lifesaver to keep the kids busy! Also, travel insurance is a must, not just with toddlers but even otherwise!

I don’t have any kids just yet, but these here seem like some great tips!

This is a great list of tips if it traveling internationally with or without kids I would say. I think that these tips are also useful even if I travel alone. I do not have kids but my cousin has and I’m going to pass on this blog post to her and I’m sure that she will find it really useful. Thanks for the share.

This is a very informative post! I don’t have kids but would definitely share this with family and friends who do. Sounds like you have it all figured out.

Flying with toddlers sounds so stressful. I don’t have kids but these are great tips for when the time comes. I definitely would make sure to get a seat that has entertainment 🙂 And I agree that travel insurance is super important!

Good tips for all types of travelers! Remembering to call your bank to put travel notices on your cards is a good tip. I know I have had problems with this in the past before I knew you needed to do that.

This is a great and very detailed article! I have traveled with infants and toddlers several times alone with two of them very long flights and I wish I have had a guide like this back then!!

Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips. My sister is all geared up for an international trip for the first time with her baby, am sure she will find these tips helpful!

I’m headed to China with my 3-year-old in September. This post was helpful and the timing was perfect!

I never really travel with toddlers because I don’t have any. But, I do see them on the planes when I go home from Japan to US for a visit.

My sister-in-law is just now feeling comfortable to travel with her kids and so we’ve been looking at places to go. So these tips will be handy for when we make a decision.

Love your post i will be traveling soon and these tips are helpful.

Ooooo so many great tips!!!! I travel with my daughter all the time. I swear it was easier when she was an infant\toddler. All they do is sleep in planes lol

Such great tips. I did a lot of traveling with my baby but not International. Very helpful.

Traveling with children can be so scary and difficult to navigate. So glad you rounded up these great tips to reference.

We have done a ton of domestic travel with our toddler but not international yet. These are awesome and so helpful!

These are all great tips! I traveled from the United States to Germany several times with two children. These tips would have come in handy.

I haven’t done international travel with my kids yet, but we do travel around the US a lot. The few times I’ve gone international, I like having the overnight flight because you can sleep on the plane and when you wake it feels like morning and helps get on schedule easily.

The thought of international travel with a toddler has always made me a bit nervous. But these tips are so great! I could see using a lot of these if we ever travel for an extended period of time or internationally.

I have actually found that taking overnight flights to be helpful. They can sleep on the plane and then are ready for the day.

Some great tips from everyone here. I’ve gotten a few of these wrong in the past.

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5 Tips For Traveling Alone With Kids

What’s one surefire way to make traveling with kids even harder? Traveling alone with kids.

Winter break, presidents day weekend, spring break, summer break, Columbus Day… there are ongoing opportunities to take your kids on a getaway. Before I was divorced, it didn’t take much to urge me to get us all out of doge. Post-divorce, I was overwhelmed and we pretty much stayed within walking distance of home for two years.

As a single parent , it’s easy to feel stuck at home. How can you go away when you will be outnumbered? How can you bear to stay home for yet another day off from school when it seems everyone else is doing something? Maybe you aren’t single but your husband can’t take time off and the thought of taking them on your own seems insane.

Well, it may be insane, but it’s also doable. Here are some tips for making it as easy and fun as possible…

1. If you can bring help do. This can be costly or challenging (finding a relative or friend who can take time off to accompany you). But, if you can find a way, take advantage of it! My kids had been asking to go to Disney World for years, a typical request of the 10 and under crowd. My ex and I are not “Disney” people, or so we thought, so that coupled with a crumbling marriage made a trip there impossible. Two years after separating I decided it was time. My kids were getting older and soon I would miss the sweet spot, both enthusiastic, walking, out of diapers and strollers and done with naps. I wanted a three day jaunt in and out swiftly before I lost my mind. I knew this was too much to take on my own. Logistically with age and height differences, my kids would want to go on different rides and sometimes one of my kids wouldn’t be allowed on the ride, I needed another adult. I debated whether or not it was “weird” to bring someone and then I got over myself. I am a single parent. I can let that stop me from doing things or I can find my own way to do what I want. I was lucky that a friend/ sometime babysitter whom I and the kids love was able to take a day off from her job and join us. I know I am blessed to also have had the funds to pay for her expenses. You can save your internal thoughts about how I have no idea what its like for everyone else and most people cant afford it. I GET THAT. But, you might be able to on some level. Many hotels have pull out couches and roll away beds so it could just be an extra flight. Maybe a friend or relative would like a getaway and you can get a cheap flight or use airline miles. My friend and I shared a room with my kids and had a fun 3 days in Disney. My kids knew she was coming because I felt we needed an extra hand. Everyone else thought she was my partner/girlfriend and since she is 10 years younger than me and a knockout I was thrilled.

2. Be prepped for lonely nights. Other than Disney, the other trips we have taken have been just the three of us. After long, fun, exhausting days I got my kids to bed and was ready to relax. It’s then being alone really sucks. At night, alone while my kids slept, I had no one to recount the day with; no one to spend my few hours of alone time with and it was lonely. Now I download a movie on my iPad and bring reading material. Great days can be bittersweet. Our first trip, skiing, I was so elated watching my kids ski for the first time and it dawned on me that I wish I had someone to bear witness, to share the joy. Being prepped helps, it was the unanticipated loneliness that first trip that tripped me up.

3. Be honest about what will work best. We can’t do it all, or I certainly cant. I know my limits and two kids at the beach is WAY above my threshold right now. Depending on your kid’s ages your options will shift over time. Be realistic about what you can handle. Don’t bite off too much more than you can chew. A few days away with you miserable and shouting at the kids is worse than three chill days at home. Plan something you can do with relative ease. My kids and I can go to the beach just the three of us when they are in high school.

4. Cities can be a great option. Mountain lodges, beach rentals, wilderness excursions. These can be tricky with young kids and one parent. I took my kids (8 and 5 at the time) to New Orleans and it was awesome and manageable. We had access to public transportation, museums, an aquarium and a zoo and the kids got to really feel what another culture was like. We ate local food, walked through the French Quarter and went to a small music festival. New Orleans is unique in what its activities, but Philadelphia, Boston, Chicago… there are so many cities that have a lot to offer and an abundance of hotels in varying price ranges making a trip affordable. Just because you want out of your city for a few days, don’t discount a different city.

5. Manage expectations. My son still asks if his dad, my ex can join us on a vacation. I do hope one day we can be a big kumbaya blended family, but that is not today. It’s also not tomorrow or next winter break. When I told him of our last trip instead of the excitement my daughter showed, he was disappointed; he would have no one to play basketball with, no one to throw the football with, I would spend time with his sister who would be with him? I am sorry his dad can’t come and I realize certain things they do I can’t or don’t want to. I empathize but enough with the boo-hooing. We can still have a great time, just different. I had a talk with him before we left so he knew what to expect and what probably wasn’t going to happen. He didn’t play basketball or football but I went in the ocean with him, jumped the waves and went on slides. I did what I could and talking about it prior to arrival made it easier for him to swallow that which was missing during the vacation.

This article was originally published on May 1, 2013

12 Tips For Traveling With Teens (Age 13-17) + Where To Go

Traveling with teens can be incredibly rewarding, but no matter what age they are, it also comes with a fair share of challenges.

These challenges alter, as your kids get older, needing new strategies and quite often – a whole new type of holiday.

When kids become teenagers, they have a whole new set of needs, requirements, and challenges to take on themselves, generating little anxieties like ‘fitting in’ and ‘fear of missing out’.

Their friends become far more important to them as they start to fine-tune their interests and develop their adult personalities.

Trust me, we have 2 kids, one is of tween age and the other well into her teens. We’ve had some incredible adventures with our two girls in their teenage years, and know that a fair bit of understanding, and leeway, is required if everyone is going to get along on holiday (or at all).

In this guide, we share our tips for traveling with teens so you can make the most of your family vacation…

1. Involve them in the planning process

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• 6. Make sure there's plenty to do

7. Find activities that will challenge both of you

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Don’t just schedule the entire itinerary for them, ask them where they’d like to go and what they would like to do.

They might have somewhere in mind they’ve always dreamed of going, or have found a hidden gem whilst scrolling on Instagram.

This is their holiday too, so let them be a part of the planning process . On our teen New York trip , Kalyra chose The Cursed Child on Broadway, and exploring Greenwich village on a NYC food tour . In London, she chose Harry Potter Studio tour, and Matilda in the West End. On our 4 Week Europe tour, she chose Cinque Terre , which our tween also thought was the best thing we did!

Take them somewhere they’ve never been before, somewhere exciting that will build anticipation and give them bragging rights in the school playground.

Whether that’s hiking the rim of Kings Canyon or snorkeling with whale sharks on the Ningaloo Reef in Australia or snow boarding in Japan – give them something unique and different to try.

Don’t just go back to Disney World in Orlando or visit the same destination just because you enjoy it. Get out of your comfort zones and discover a new place together.

Think about fueling their adrenalin, beyond action movies, computer games and theme parks.

Instead, choose activities like jet boating in New Zealand , scuba diving with bull sharks in Fiji or pot holing at Jenolan Caves. Our daughter, Kalyra loved swimming with the pigs in the Exuma Islands.

While they’re young and have no worries about work, retirement, or the struggles of adulthood – give them fond memories to look back on in years to come. They won’t stay young forever, so help them to enjoy this period of their life.

Whether your budget is large or small, you are going to need more room with teenagers, and seriously, separate rooms.

If your budget decrees separate tents rather than separate rooms, fine, just make sure they’re separate. You can book two adjoining rooms that can be connected, if you prefer.

Kalyra loved our Avalon Waterways river cruise as her and Savannah had their own suite across the hall from us. That’s invaluable independence for a teen. You can read more reasons why she loved our Danube River cruise as a teen .

There are plenty of budget options for places to stay for bigger families, and contrary to what you might believe, hostels are not just for backpackers.

Youth Hostels are a great idea for families, most of which now have double rooms and family rooms, so it’s possible to find a combination of the two that works.

You don’t have to stay at all inclusive resorts to save money, just book a hostel!

6. Make sure there’s plenty to do

Make sure your chosen destination has a range of activities suitable for teenagers – whether that’s surfing, horse riding, volleyball or football.

Nothing bores a teen more than watching everyone else have fun without you, watching your younger brothers or sisters enjoy activities that you’re not invited to because you’re over 12.

There is no greater bonding experience than facing those challenges together, whether that’s facing a fear of heights at the top of Auckland Sky Tower , a black run down the mountain or trying scuba diving for the first time.

When you come through the other side unscathed and pretty damn pleased with yourself, you’ll have bonded in more ways than one.

This is the digital age and you will just cause massive melt downs trying to get them to leave their smartphone at home.

Allow them to take it with them and get them a local sim card so they can stay connected. This will be important to avoid “roaming mobile bill shock”.

Ensure the hotel or resort you’re staying at has free Wi-Fi, find out the cost involved and if necessary, plan a visit to a cafe every now and then so they can use the internet there.

Smartphones are how they stay connected to their friends back home. It’s important for a teen to have that connection to avoid FOMO. Plus, I love seeing what my girls capture on their phone camera. It gives me an interesting insight into what they are enjoying.

It’s exhausting traveling, and everyone needs a little “me time” even when you’re traveling as a family.

Take days off, or what my kids like to call “lazy days,” between adventure days. It’s okay – you’re on holiday, so it’s acceptable to spend at least one day in your pyjamas watching in-house movies.

Ensure there is free time every day, so they have time to rest after exploring attractions and can upload their selfies to social media.

With teens, it’s also easy to leave them in the hotel room or apartment if they’re tired and want to relax. This happens a lot with our teen. By the end of the day she just wants to lie on the bed. Craig and I detest doing that so we head out for more exploration and evening fun (close to the accommodation) while her, and Savannah chill in the room.

Sleeping in seems to be a human right that teenagers hold dearly. You may think they are lazy, but sleep is actually important for their emotional and physical growth , so avoid waking them up unnecessarily.

If you don’t want to sleep in yourself, or want to catch a sunrise, use the time to have breakfast in peace or go for a walk. Take the alone time while you can!

If you want them to put down their phone and get off social media, then get them a journal to document their adventures.

Older kids will especially love this, as they begin to develop deeper thoughts and opinions about things.

One of the easiest things you can do to make teen travel easier is to give your teen responsibility to look after themselves.

No one likes an overbearing parent, so let them do them.

Give them their own case and allow them to pack it themselves, and look after their own belongings.

One of the biggest life lessons they will learn is independence, and travel is a great classroom for that.

Best Places to Travel With Teenagers

We’ve had many family holidays with our teens and know it’s not easy to pick destinations.

As we mentioned earlier, be sure to share family vacation ideas with your teens and have them weigh in on where they would like to take their family holiday.

Below are some suggestions for the best vacations for families with teens that are fun for the whole family.

Most teenagers dream about a vacation in Europe. The best city for teenagers is one of the most popular – the romantic city of Paris.

Paris has a unique local culture and a ton of things to do with teens . We visited Paris in the summer of 2023 with our teens and they loved it.

They will love seeing the Eiffel Tower , shopping along the Champs-Élysées Avenue, and marveling at the works in The Louvre. It was their favorite destination on our Europe trip.

Another city with a ton of attractions for teens is London . The big city of London has everything from history, world-class museums, and iconic landmarks like Big Ben and Buckingham Palace where they can snap a selfie or two.

It’s also where Harry Potter fans can get the true experience. You can visit The Harry Potter Experience at the Warner Bros . Studio Tour, as well as take walking tours and watch Harry Potter and the Cursed Child in the West End.

London has a bustling scene full of music and arts, with numerous theaters, live music venues, and street performances to keep your teens engaged.

Be sure to visit trendy neighborhoods like Camden or Notting Hill for a taste of London’s creative energy.

New York City is an exceptional place for teenagers because it’s packed with iconic landmarks, from Times Square to the Statue of Liberty , with each landmarks providing excellent photo opportunities.

It’s also well known for cultural diversity. Teenagers can explore neighborhoods like Chinatown and Little Italy, immersing themselves in different cultures through food, shops, and vibrant street life.

With museums like The Met, MoMA, and the American Museum of Natural History, the city is full of world class museums that offer incredible art and educational exhibits that engage and inspire young minds.

And let’s not forget Broadway Shows. It doesn’t matter what kind of teenager you have, there is a theatrical production to cater for every taste.

Chicago is another big city that makes for an excellent destination for teenagers, offering a blend of culture and entertainment.

The city is home to world-class museums like the Art Institute of Chicago and the Museum of Science and Industry, which can broaden and inspire young minds.

The Navy Pier, an iconic waterfront attraction, is a wonderful place to visit. It offers rides, games, and an array of entertainment options, including the famous Ferris wheel and boat tours on Lake Michigan.

If you have teenage boys who love sports, Chicago is a sports-loving city, with teams like the Cubs, Bulls, and Bears. Teenagers can catch a game and experience the electric atmosphere of a live sporting event.

And for those who love to shop, head to Magnificent Mile, a renowned shopping district that showcases high-end stores, trendy boutiques, and a variety of dining options, making it a paradise for teenage shoppers.

Chicago is also famous for its comedy scene, with legendary improv theaters like Second City and iO Chicago where teenagers can enjoy hilarious performances (well, if age appropriate). Check out all Kalyra and I did on a mother-daughter getaway to Chicago.

For active teens who prefer outdoor adventure, consider a road trip through Yellowstone National Park.

Visiting Yellowstone National Park offers adventure, education, and natural wonders. It’s famous for its geysers, including the iconic Old Faithful. Teenagers can witness these geothermal marvels up close and learn about the park’s volcanic history.

Yellowstone is also home to a diverse range of wildlife, including bears, wolves, and herds of bison. Teenagers who love animals can go on wildlife safaris and capture amazing sightings.

The park offers endless opportunities for hiking, camping, fishing, and even whitewater rafting. It’s a chance for teenagers to disconnect from technology and connect with nature.

Above all, Yellowstone is an educational experience. There are educational programs and ranger-led activities, allowing teenagers to deepen their understanding of ecology, conservation, and geology.

Teen travel is one of the best ages to travel with since they are becoming young adults and have more opinions and ideas about what interests them.

We hope this guide helped you plan your next vacation as a family and gave you some inspiration for traveling with teens.

Need more inspiration for traveling as a family? Here are some other helpful guides…

• Best Family Travel Tips
• Is family travel too expensive? 11 tips to help
• Podcast episode: Embracing family travel and our 18 month Aussie road trip
• The Ultimate Family Road Trip Survival Guide
• 17 tips for flying with kids
• 25 Best tips for travel with kids
• Best Travel Gear for kids
• Pros & Cons of travel with kids
• 9 reasons you won’t travel with kids
• Is travel with kids too hard
• How to travel with a picky eater
• How to balance school with travel

Do you have any tips for traveling with teens? Let us know in the comments.