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Boarding School: Answers to Parents’ Most Common Questions

We’ve all heard of boarding school, but what does it mean to consider sending your child to boarding school today? Families often ask me about age, tuition, and boarding school life. The answers to these important questions may surprise you!

What is boarding school?

Boarding school is generally defined as a school community where students live and study. In the United States, boarding is geared towards the high school years although there are several junior boarding schools that serve middle grades. Most are full-week seven-day boarding but many offer five-day boarding as an option.

What age is best for boarding school?

It all depends on when your child is ready, but here in the U.S., the most common entry points for boarding school are 9th and 10th grades, so students are between the ages of 14 and 16. Many schools offer the option of a post-graduate year for 18 or 19-year-olds. Additionally, there are junior boarding schools that start as early as 5th grade, so 10 or 11 years old.

Why do parents send their kids to boarding school?

The days of students being “sent away” are long gone. The primary reason to consider boarding school is the opportunities they offer, whether it is in a particular sport or art discipline or for enrichment or therapeutic resources. Many schools have large campuses with facilities that could include ice rinks, dance and art studios, squash courts, rowing and skiing venues and theaters. There are even a few schools that allow students to get their pilot’s license. While some students seek specific extracurriculars, others may be looking for a chance to try a lot of new activities.

Can you get financial aid for boarding school?

Boarding schools tend to have robust financial aid budgets since many are long-established institutions, and they typically are only funding students for the 4 years of high school. Additionally, some boarding schools may offer regional or merit scholarships.

How do you get into a boarding school?

If you’re considering boarding school for your child, the Parents League School Advisory Service is the place to start. Our experts can help your family with:

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Why Kids Go to Boarding School

Boarding schools offer additional resources and opportunities, but they come at a cost.

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Boarding school campuses provide more opportunities and facilities to participate in sports, music and other extracurricular activities.

While Hollywood often depicts children being “sent away” to boarding school, the reality is that many students go to boarding schools to participate in innovative programs, live more independently at a younger age and gain a better shot at getting into top colleges.

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Today’s boarding schools offer students an array of academic choices, from robotics and engineering to intensive writing and arts programs. The campuses provide more opportunities and facilities to participate in sports, music and other extracurricular activities. And, because most boarding schools emphasize college preparation, students get accepted to universities at very high rates.

“Our students are really excited, really motivated to be here,” says Wynne Overton, chief enrollment officer at Chatham Hall, a girls boarding school in Virginia serving grades 9-12. “One thing that all of our students have in common is they’re planning to attend a college.”

Boarding schools represent only a sliver of K-12 schools in the United States. About 35,000 students attend U.S. private schools as boarders each year at campuses scattered nationwide, though mostly on the East Coast, according to the Association of Boarding Schools . This compares to about 48.1 million K-12 students who attended U.S. public schools in the fall of 2020, according to data from the National Center for Education Statistics .

Cost is a major factor. Although most schools offer financial assistance, the average annual tuition for seven-day boarding schools is $37,590, according to the Education Data Initiative , and t he most prestigious schools can top $60,000 per year. The majority of boarders tend to be older students, while elementary school students are more likely to attend these schools as day students.

Smaller Classes, Larger Facilities

Class sizes at boarding schools usually range from five to 15 students, far fewer than most public schools. At Chatham Hall , for example, the average class size is eight and the student-to-teacher ratio is 5-to-1. This allows teachers to give students more attention, and schools can provide more individual counseling and mentoring services. Students also can reach out after hours to teachers and other faculty, many of whom live on campus.

Boarding schools often offer enhanced facilities such as ice rinks, fitness centers, and crew and equestrian centers. Smaller school sizes mean that all students can participate in sports if they choose. Most schools also offer the opportunity to pick up a musical instrument and play in a band or orchestra. While many more-established schools have college-quality libraries, most boarding campuses have created media centers equipped with computers, courseware and technology, and facilities designed for group collaboration.

More Experiential Learning

Because most boarding schools are relatively small, they can provide more experiential learning inside and outside the classroom. For example, Garrison Forest School , an all-girls school in Maryland with a boarding program for grades 8 to 12, offers a women in science and engineering program. Students are placed in labs at Johns Hopkins University and invited to work on research projects. They gain real-world experience and do college-level coursework as they work with mentors from Hopkins for a semester.

Beyond expanding educational opportunities and burnishing transcripts, the program also allows students to discover whether they really want to work in a lab or engage in complex problem-solving prior to entering college, says Michelle Placek, the school’s director of communications and marketing.

“You want to be a scientist or engineer, but here’s what it’s like,” she says. “Our whole mission is helping students find their voice.”

The Village School in Texas, a K-12 campus that houses boarders in grade 7 and higher, offers an entrepreneurship diploma that focuses on finance, leadership, international trade and marketing. Within the program, students can specialize in engineering or social-enterprise studies. Village students also can participate in various internships, mentoring and job shadowing at private companies or government agencies.

“It’s important that students learn experientially through activities like real-life internships and hands-on classroom activities,” says Natalie Goodwin, the school’s boarding admissions manager. “It is also important for students to have a variety of opportunities available to them such as IB (International Baccalaureate) diplomas and entrepreneurial programs that teach how to think and solve complex problems differently.”

Hanging With a College Crowd

A top reason why children go to boarding schools is to get into college, and nearly all campuses boast acceptance rates well above 90%. Because almost all students expect to attend college, they are focused on the same goal. Administrators say that helps students to avoid the distractions that can occur in a typical household or from peers who are less focused on academics.

“It’s really easy to sit down for study hall when all your friends are doing that,” Placek says.

Boarding schools say the experience is similar to college, except with more controls, support and guardrails in place because students are not yet adults. Children are given more control over their schedules, activities and free time than their counterparts in public schools, and thus learn to be more self-sufficient at an earlier age. They also learn to live closely with other people before college.

“This helps ease students into college life and beyond, preparing them to build relationships and create a safe and inclusive community with those they spend time with — even those from different backgrounds, cultures and experiences,” Goodwin says.

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10 things you need to know about boarding school in 2023

In the U.S., public school enrollment in pre-kindergarten through grade 12 dropped 3% from fall 2019 to fall 2020, according to the National Center for Education Statistics 2022 Report on the Condition of Education . This decline brought total enrollment back to 2009 levels—about 49.4 million students—completely erasing a decade of steady growth in the public sector. Boarding schools may be benefitting from this shift.

While boarding schools are still not the status quo for the largest portion of the American student body, they are a unique schooling opportunity that can set students of all ages up for success. And, among the 250 schools that appear on Fortune’s inaugural list of the world’s leading boarding schools in 2023 , parents and students alike can find a school that’s a good fit.

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Still, navigating the process of selecting and applying to boarding schools can be overwhelming, especially if your only knowledge of the subject is from the likes of various books and media like Netflix’s Wednesday TV series. To demystify the process, Fortune spoke with two experts who appear on Fortune’s list of the top boarding school advisors . They shared the following 10 things you need to know about boarding schools.  

1. Boarding schools have day or flexi-boarding options 

A traditional boarding school refers to student living and literally “boarding” away at a school, but there’s a lot more flexibility in school offerings. Many U.S.-based boarding schools offer alternative options, such as a day school status, where students get to return home as they would after public school, or weekly-only boarders, where students return home on the weekends but board during the week. 

“Most boarding schools have primarily boarding students with a small population of day students,” Holly McGlennon Treat , a partner at The Bertram Group , an educational consulting group, tells Fortune.  She has been a boarding school advisor for 30-plus years. “But it’s a completely same experience, it’s just some kids go home and spend the night at home and other kids go home to their dorm.”

These types of “flexi-boarding” arrangements are an increasingly common trend in the U.K., says Jess Harris, head of education at Quintessentially Education , an educational consulting agency. “It might be that when students are first preparing to go to full boarding, they actually start on a couple of days a week, almost having a big sleepover with their friends.”

Flexi-boarding can help combat homesickness and worry as well as provide more options for families. “A lot of the schools are offering weekly models whereby [students] can come Monday through Friday and they can still have the freedom to return to their families on the weekend,” Harris tells Fortune . 

2. Boarding school isn’t only for wealthy people  

While finances are still the “biggest barrier” to some students looking to go to boarding school, the tide is changing, Treat says. “Boarding schools are doing everything they can to recruit and support families in a range of socio-economic statuses,” she adds.

An important distinction to consider is that many boarding schools offer need-based financial aid and occasionally scholarships. In fact, Treat says organizations such as A Better Chance are designed to help with the expenses of boarding school. “There are community-based organizations that support low-income families to have access to boarding school and help them entirely with the process.”

Oftentimes, Harris says, the U.K.’s top boarding schools offer scholarships for up to about 30% of the students, which is resulting in a shifting environment at boarding schools.

“If you went into those same schools 50 years ago, you’d see a much different sort of cohort of students,” she says. “The schools are doing a lot to make sure that they’re introducing diverse year groups and making sure that they’re supporting pupils as well. It’s not just that sort of top, top, people who can necessarily afford it.”

3. Boarding school isn’t a punishment 

While it’s easy to associate boarding school with the well-known colloquialism of “getting sent away to school,” Treat says this is the furthest thing from reality and implies that boarding school is used for discipline.

“The exact opposite is true: Boarding schools are looking for engaged kids who are excited to learn,” she adds. “Now they don’t have to be perfect, but being in a more engaging environment is going to be the key to someone’s success.” 

And the boarding schools portrayed in media and pop culture is again, not entirely accurate.

“The old-school strict nature of boarding is something that we often have to dispel for families,” Harris says. “We’re in 2023. Your students do not need to be taking freezing cold showers because they’re not entitled to hot water anymore. It’s a much more liberal, forward-looking, open-minded environment than the very traditional idea of boarding school.” 

4. Boarding school offers diversity

Another common misconception about boarding schools is that their student bodies are lacking in diversity. “I think that there’s a mystique around boarding school that it is primarily—or that it’s only—upper-class white kids and it’s really much more diversified than it ever has been historically,” Treat says. “Living among people who are different—with different thoughts and belief systems—is obviously incredibly educational.” 

In the U.K., Harris adds, there’s a rich history of boarding schools popularized by famous Britains, like members of the monarchy. But people need to be much more realistic about what boarding school actually is like for the majority of students. 

“Understanding that you’re not necessarily going to live in a castle, you’re not necessarily going to meet the future king,” Harris says. “Those bits are important to like take into consideration.” 

5. Individualized academic and personal success are emphasized 

Students in boarding schools benefit from the small classes and very individualized attention that extends beyond the classroom into sports, extracurricular activities, and artistic pursuits, Treat says. “Because of the 24-hour nature of boarding school, the growth experience is truly a wraparound growth experience for the whole child—not just the student within the child.” 

What’s more, the consistent environment of boarding school provides students with a position to continually thrive, Harris says.

“The opportunities that are created when a student is in an educational environment full-time are obviously further reaching than when they’re only attending during set hours of the day,” she explains. “By being involved within the educational environment on a 24/7 basis, you are typically in a very well-structured position that has a whole bunch of opportunities that account for learning that goes well beyond the classroom.”

Beyond the classroom, learning can reflect in the extracurricular or engagement opportunities at boarding school, sports, volunteering components, and social development, Harris says.

6. The ideal student is the one who wants it

The best fit for a boarding school student is the one who wants it, Treat says.

“Any student can go but they have to have the desire. It’s just a willingness,” she adds. “There are boarding schools out there that can accommodate a wide range of learners.”

Although boarding school can be a “very unique and intense environment,” it’s all about finding a good fit, Harris says. The right student in the best school for them can prosper there, she adds.  

7. Boarding school fosters well-rounded students 

Boarding schools can be good for teaching necessary life skills such as independence and self-responsibility, which make these students more prepared for the college experience, Treat says. “It’s more college readiness, having had the experience of living independently, having the academic skills and having the academic skills and preparedness for college, the organizational and planning skills.”

Not only are students better prepared for the shift from post-secondary education life, but they may also stand out more on college applications because of the experience and opportunities that they’ve had at boarding schools. This includes leadership qualities such as “excelling in the arts or the athletics,” Treat says .  

Students build independence and life skills by being away from home, even if it’s on a weekly basis, adds Amelia Buckworth, senior education coordinator at Quintessentially Education . “When it comes to the sort of preparation for university and adult life, gaining those independent skills from a young age, I think, can be really, really beneficial.”  

8. Don’t focus on name brands 

Oftentimes, parents get caught up in the “name brand” image of some popular boarding schools, and measure success based on those metrics, Treat says.

“Parents focus too much on name-brand schools and thinking that it is the path to success. But the truth is the path to success is finding that special sauce that really helps your kid thrive—the culture, the sense of connection—that’s the key,” she says. “I can’t emphasize enough how important a sense of connection is for kids, not the name of the school or the bumper sticker on the back of your car.”  

The brand is meaningless if it’s not the “best fit” school for a student, Harris adds. “As parents and as families you’re going to have the best understanding of your own values and ethos and you need to make sure that your family values align with the values of the school,” she says. “So we class that as ‘best fit’ and make sure that you are choosing a genuine match for yourself and your students. The best fit might not be the best name school in the country. It’s not all about name and brand—it’s about an environment that’s going to suit your student.” 

9. Boarding schools require applications 

The applications for boarding school are not to be taken lightly. While the process is similar to college applications, Treat says applying to boarding school is a bit more complicated.

“There are student essays, parent essays, teacher recommendations, grades and sometimes standardized tests, or an entrance exam,” she says, adding that students who can’t travel to a school will do a Zoom interview in lieu of an in-person interview.

And, like college, boarding schools often have recruiters. “There are admission folks who go to various regions all around the United States and the globe and meet with kids,” Treat says. 

10. Boarding school is worth it

Attending boarding school can be “a game changer,” Treat says. “It puts kids on a completely different trajectory in terms of opportunities. They can really thrive during their middle school and high school days, because those are really hard growth years.”

The specialized community of boarding schools is pivotal, Treat notes. “Being in a community that really specializes in helping kids thrive during that period of time offers a lot of individualized attention towards that effort. It really helps kids elevate themselves.” 

Even though a boarding school education is often a massive “financial commitment,” Harris says each family values its worth differently.

“The majority of the time because education is such an influential and game-changing stage of life, I do think it is worth it,” Harris says. “But at the same time, it probably depends on what your other local options were, and what your alternatives might look like.” 

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What Is a Boarding School?

Here are 14 things you should know about learning and living in the same place for high school.

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1. Classes are small—and the work is challenging.

Many employ the " Harness Method ," which involves an open dialogue wherein teachers sit at tables with students for discussion-based classes. The Association of Boarding Schools (TABS) also found that 91 percent of boarding school students reported their school to be "academically challenging" (compared to 70 percent of private day school students and 50 percent of public school students). Boarding schoolers also spend an average of 17 hours a week on homework—more than twice the eight hours public schoolers spend, on average.

2. Athletics or extracurricular activities are often required.

Boarding school students spend two to three more hours on activities like sports, music, and reading than their day school counterparts.

3. Some schools have Saturday classes.

In order to accommodate inter-school athletic games scheduled for Wednesday and Saturday afternoons, which can sometimes require long drives, many boarding schools have half-days of classes on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

4. Teachers live in the dorms with students.

They act in loco parentis , and they're often just a short walk from a dorm room bedroom when a student needs extra help.

5. There are a lot of rules.

Some, like the U.K.'s Eton College, have strict dress codes. Many American boarding schools ask boys to wear jackets and ties to class, while others only require semi-formal attire on special occasions such as weekly seated dinners. Students are also usually required to take part in study hall and check in with the teachers they live with (aka "dorm parents") every night.

6. The campuses are beautiful.

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7. They're also diverse.

Unlike public and private day schools, which draw from a local area, boarding schools welcome students from around the world. Fifty-nine percent of boarding schoolers reported their school as being "ethnically and racially diverse," compared to 19 percent of private day and 39 percent of public school students.

8. They prepare students well for college life.

Eighty-seven percent of boarding school grads said their school prepared them well academically for university life, TABS reported, compared to 39 percent of public school students and 71 percent of private day school students. In fact, there's very little that changes when a boarding school grad goes off to college—except that there's nobody telling them when they have to go to study and go to bed.

9. It's also a good foundation for the professional world.

Forty-four percent of boarding schoolers achieve management positions by mid-career, compared to 33 percent of private day and 27 percent of public school alums.

10. Almost everyone loves it.

90 percent of boarding school alumni say they would repeat the experience.

11. Parents aren't there, but there are dedicated weekends for them to visit.

Students can always go home on weekends, too.

12. Snow days don't exist, but Headmaster's Holidays do.

At my alma mater, these exciting days were announced with videos made by Taft alumnus Peter Berg featuring his cool friends like Larry David, Will Smith, Robert Pattinson, and Mark Wahlberg.

13. Despite the academic pressure, cheating is rare.

Roughly 70 percent of boarding school students say there is little to no cheating in class. Many schools have honor codes, and students often sign a pledge that they did not cheat on every assignment, test, or exam. (During my time at Taft, teachers would occasionally leave the room during tests and I never witnessed any malfeasance.)

14. All in all, boarding school students are among the most satisfied.

Ninety-five percent of boarding school students reported being satisfied or very satisfied with their academic experience, compared to 86 percent of private day or public school students.

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That’s a common misperception about boarding schools. And maybe that used to be partly true a very long time ago. Today, boarding schools are known for strong academics, the ability to play a different sport every season, and the opportunity to try new things that you may not normally get to try. And because you live where you learn, you build really close friendships too.

Boarding schools are as unique as you are. There are so many schools in so many different areas, so learning more about each one is a good idea. Overall, boarding school students say that their school provides more opportunities for leadership and to try new things. It’s worth checking out!

Here, everything is on one campus, so you can make the very most of your time. From classes, to meals, to social events, after-school and evening activities, every opportunity is all in one place. Plus, living on campus means always being with your best friends.

Spoiler alert: boarding schools are nothing like you see on TV (and that’s a good thing).

While the campuses may be just as beautiful, there’s no wizarding curricula or throngs of contemptuous, gossipy teens. Instead, boarding school is like one big family. You’ll have the opportunity to take on leadership roles, try new things, live with your best friends and find out what you’re passionate about.

Boarding schools are as unique as you are. There are lots of different kinds of schools, so learning more about them is a good idea. Overall, boarding school students say that their school provides more opportunities for leadership and a very supportive environment. It’s worth checking out! Have a look at more than 200 boarding schools of all types – junior boarding schools, coed, all-boys, all-girls, learning differences and military schools in the US and Canada.

Great question! Happy, loving families that have strong connections make great boarding school families. And believe it or not, your connections to your family will probably grow even stronger when you’re living away from them. Like sleep-away camps in the summer, after the first day or two, you start to get involved, and that homesickness begins to fade. You’ll get to see your parents for events at the school, and of course you go home on breaks and vacations. About 70% of boarding school students say that boarding school has helped them develop self-discipline, maturity, independence and the ability to think critically. All things that help prepare you for college, and for life.

All-boys prep schools are just as much fun as public or private high schools. In all honesty, you’ll probably make closer friends at boarding school because you do everything together – from classes to meals to sports to hanging out on the weekends. And, don’t worry, many all-boys schools are located close to all-girls or coed high schools, so you’ll interact with kids from other schools frequently at dances, mixers and games.  Read more   about how all-boys boarding schools are intentionally tailored to the way boys learn.

That’s a common misperception about boarding schools. And maybe that used to be partly true a very long time ago. But these days, boarding schools are pretty competitive, and you even have to take an entrance exam to be accepted. So, if you have good grades, you shouldn’t have a problem getting in. Today, boarding schools are known for strong academics, the ability to play a different sport every season, and the opportunity to try new things that you may not normally get to try. And because you live with your friends in a dormitory, you build really close friendships too.

Not really. All schools can have cliques, but at an all-girls school, the competition is rarely centered on one girl or one group competing over another for status or attention. All-girls’ schools provide the opportunity to compete to be your best self. Students cheer each other on and are genuinely happy for another’s success. Another benefit is that there is a lot less pressure to dress up and wear make-up at an all-girls school, so students are able to focus on their classes, athletics and arts activities without pressure to impress boys. Girls have the ability to be in more leadership positions as well at an all-girls school, enabling them to achieve in all aspects of life, not just academics.  Learn more  about the benefits of attending all-girls boarding schools and how girls feel more engaged and empowered in that environment.

No way. About 70% of boarding school students say there is little or no cheating in class, compared to 31% of private day and 26% of public school students.

Yes. Boarding school students are busy doing many interesting things. They spend considerably less time watching TV – only about three hours per week. If you like to stay busy, but also have some free time to spend like you want, boarding school might be just what you’re looking for.

Yes. While most boarding schools do require all students to be involved on one team per school session, the good news is that you can try a lot of different sports beyond just the typical ones most schools offer. Dance counts as an athletic option at boarding school too. And, more good news is that 35% of current boarding school students spend between seven and 14 hours per week on non-athletic extracurricular activities like the arts, student government and clubs. There’s really something for everyone.

At boarding school, teachers often live in the same building you do. Entire families may live in your same dormitory, and they are there for you, like a family. You’ll also eat breakfast, lunch and dinner with your teachers and coaches in the school dining halls, so you see them every day, many times a day. We did a study and found that boarding school students enjoy more time with teachers, coaches and staff members outside of class than public and private day school students do – about nine hours per week, compared to four hours. That’s a big difference!

Boarding school is pretty unique in that kids from many different states and countries choose a school for a particular reason. That means most boarding schools have kids who have grown up somewhere in the US or Canada, but could also have kids who have grown up in Europe, Asia or the Middle East. You’ll make lifelong friendships in boarding school because you share so much – classes, sports, a dormitory and meals. If you’re looking for a place to make friends from all corners of the globe, boarding school could be for you.

Yes, you would. It’s a fact that at boarding school, 12 hours per week are dedicated to exercising or playing sports, compared to about nine hours in private day and public schools. If you’re looking for more challenges, more variety or more interesting activities, boarding school is definitely the way to go.

Absolutely. Boarding school students spend about six hours per week on creative endeavors, like performing music and painting, compared to four hours by private day and five hours by public school students.

For most students who go to boarding school, homesickness does not last very long, if it even shows up at all. At the beginning of the year, schools do a really good job of making sure students meet one another, participate in fun activities to break the ice, and get comfortable in their new surroundings. If you are homesick, there are always older students who know the ropes, and adults who are there 24/7 looking out for you to make sure that you’re okay. In the end, homesickness is totally normal, but it usually only lasts for a little while.

The admission process is actually a lot of fun. During the journey, you will learn a lot about yourself and about the schools to which you apply. At each school, you will meet students, admission officers, and oftentimes even parents who want to share with you why they love their school. The hope is that through the admission process, you will find the best school for you. Of course, each school has its own set of criteria for evaluating students as candidates. Some schools are very competitive, and just a few students are admitted. Yet other schools’ admission processes are much less grueling. At those schools, it’s less about what you’ve accomplished so far, and more about what you’re capable of doing once you get there.

If you feel like it might be hard for you to make friends, remember that there are lots of other new students just like you who feel the same way, and are likely just as nervous as you. Generally speaking, students at boarding schools are eager, open-minded and adventurous. Most students find it very easy to make new friends as they begin the adventure of their life.

New students, and younger students, tend to have more structure built into their day. They have fewer free periods and more structured study time in the evenings. But as students get older, they earn more independence and freedom each year. By the time students are seniors, they have a good deal of freedom, and are expected to manage their time effectively. The goal is that over time students become completely self-reliant and able to manage their time and responsibilities so that they are ready for the freedoms and challenges of college and university life.

Students and faculty work hard to create great options for students on campus each weekend. From dances and mixers, to movies, games and other activities, schools make sure that weekends are action-packed on campus. Weekends are also a time for students to go home, or visit the homes of friends who live nearby. And, weekends are also a great time to relax, take a nap, watch TV and hang out with friends.

There are many. First and foremost, boarding school will challenge you by offering you more opportunities to stretch and grow than you ever thought possible. Whether it’s in the classroom, on the stage, or on the field, boarding school is an immersive environment. That means everything is right there for you on campus. Faculty, staff and coaches are available 24/7. It’s a close-knit community that you’ll belong to. You won’t be a number at boarding school – everyone will know your name.

At most boarding schools, there is an expectation that students will be involved in some aspect of school life. Whether it’s the arts, athletics or another activity, boarding school students are often at their busiest after school. Schools offer a wide variety of options, from traditional sports and arts to mountaineering, community service and much, much more.

Nothing compares to home cooking, but boarding school food is pretty good. At breakfast, lunch and dinner, you’ll find lots of options, and you’ll never go hungry. And if you don’t like the options one day or another, you can always order a pizza!

It depends on the school. As a general rule, most schools do not allow students to have cars on campus. Students are allowed to leave campus often, either by Uber or a shuttle, or on school-supported trips. At some schools, seniors are able to have a car on campus.

No. Boarding school is for students who are looking for more. Students who attend boarding school are often very successful, and truly want to attend. And in fact, it’s usually their idea. Ultimately, boarding school is a place where you can do more, try more and be more.

Considering boarding school is a family decision. Ask your child questions about their dreams, what they’d like to do, what their hopes are. Listen to your child and the needs they express. Parents can encourage the whole family to go visit and see a few schools – no decision needs to be made right away. Often, after getting onto a campus where a student feels very comfortable, they will self-identify with schools that seem to be the best fit for them. As parents, your involvement with your student doesn’t end when they enroll in boarding school, and it often makes the bond stronger between parents and their children.

Most schools have events and activities to kick off the school year, specifically designed to build connections between new students, existing students, faculty and staff. From dances to bonfires, every school plans beginning-of-the-year activities in order to get students involved early and often, making friends among the school community at every level.

Dorm parents play an integral role in helping with homesickness, as they live with their families (and often pets) in every student dorm, available to talk to every day and evening. If homesickness lingers, all schools have counseling support for students to help deal with the transition from living at home to living on a boarding school campus. Most schools also have strong peer counseling programs, in which older students take a leadership role and work to bring younger students into the fold at a comfortable pace.

This question may have come from some old stereotypes of boarding schools. In admissions, we look at character, citizenship, teacher recommendations and grades. When our schools are making admissions decisions, they consider whether a student will succeed academically and also whether they will contribute in a positive way to the school community. Some schools have more qualified applicants than spots available, so requirements do focus on good character and demonstrated ability to live and learn in a community in a respectful way.

Our schools work carefully to build a student body from all economic levels. Schools designate financial aid budgets in order to accept students from families who may not be able to pay the full tuition on their own. Ask about financial aid options for your family during the application process, in order to make sure that if you do need assistance, you qualify by each school’s posted deadlines for submitting the required paperwork.

Boarding schools are focused on helping our students lay the groundwork for lives full of great choices and great options. Our schools foster the development of student skills like persistence, discipline, hard work and curiosity. We encourage kids to grow in ways that colleges are going to respect on an admissions basis and on a community-building basis. Kids who go to boarding school understand how to manage their class load, how to get their homework done without their parents forcing them to, how to seek out adults when they need help and how to become their own advocate. We prepare kids for success in college and beyond by making learning together in a community big fun!

Student safety is every school’s top concern. Our schools are located in urban, suburban and rural areas, so each school has their own set of safety issues and precautions. For instance, in our middle schools, we make sure that adults are present in every building where our middle school students are. Our middle schools and high schools include security ranging from doors locked on all administration buildings throughout the day to pass cards permitting entry to buildings, 24/7 gate protection and even roving security guards walking campuses each day. Additionally, all schools have plans for extenuating circumstances that might occur.

While boarding schools are known for rigorous academics, competitive sports and developing critical thinking skills useful for life, there are no guarantees of an Ivy League acceptance. Many boarding school graduates do attend Ivy League and other prestigious universities. What we can guarantee is that the character and independence kids learn at boarding school allows them to adjust more quickly and seamlessly to university life.

Each school is unique, and while most weekdays are fairly structured, there is typically an hour or two of free time each evening. Some schools have Saturday morning classes. But there are many opportunities and events in dorms and classes as well for students to just be teenagers and relax among friends.

Risk takers by nature, boys find a new comfort level with nontraditional subjects and activities when they are encouraged to do so by trusted mentors within the safety of a close-knit community. Young men, who may not step up in the presence of girls, take on leadership roles at all-boys schools, often heading community service programs or serving as mentors to younger students.  Learn more   about the ways that all-boys boarding schools teach students based on the way they learn best.

Each school has a unique campus look and feel, and level of formality. Not all schools require uniforms. Some schools maintain a level of formality because it’s a special tradition on campus. For instance, dining together for “family style” meals, where students serve their table of peers and faculty, just like they would at home. Visiting several school campuses will be critically important to get a glimpse of what campus life would look like and feel like for you and your child.

Research from the National Coalition of Girls’ Schools  (NCGS)  and others point to some specific advantages of an all-girls education. Primarily, girls who attend all-girls’ boarding schools are known to develop greater self-confidence and leadership skills. They feel safer speaking up in class, feeling like their opinions are respected. Students at these schools are steeped in an environment in which learning and success are valued. They have higher aspirations and greater motivation than their female peers at coed independent and public schools.  Learn more about the benefits of an all-girl boarding education.

Boarding school presents an alternative learning environment where many happy, well-adjusted kids thrive. A loving home life is a wonderful springboard to boarding school, and allows each student to grow and learn in a new environment, becoming more independent and resilient. It’s natural that you will miss your child and they will miss you. Kids who are looking for more challenges academically, more diverse friends and more opportunities to try new sports or activities see boarding school as the opportunity of a lifetime.

Not according to our research. In fact, 95% of boarding school students say that their social lives do not revolve around drugs and alcohol, compared to 82% of private day and public school students. Many boarding schools also have ethics standards and codes of honor, and experimenting with drinking or drugs (or sex) is not tolerated.

The process begins by identifying schools either in your general area or that specialize in the talents of your child. Once you visit several campuses, you’ll have a good idea of which schools will provide your student with the best possible educational experience for them. Your child will then take an entrance exam. There are two main tests – the SSAT and the ISEE. Some schools accept both tests, while others accept one or the other. For international students, the TOEFL Junior (Test of English as a Foreign Language) test is required. You can start your journey  here . Begin by locating schools in your preferred geographic location and requesting information on the schools that interest you. Then click on the links to the tests your child will need to take. TABS is the best resource for learning all about boarding schools, how to apply and what to expect.

Absolutely. Each school has different programs for parental involvement and interaction, but all schools recognize the critical role that parents play in their child’s development during their school years. There are typically many opportunities to visit campus and catch up with your student. While some schools do have policies against cell phone and social media usage, we find that those students quickly adapt to a new schedule full of interesting activities and rarely miss their devices.

Many high schools in the US and Canada feature state-of-the-art equipment, great faculty and diverse teaching styles. Likewise, many boarding schools in the US and Canada feature state-of-the-art equipment (available all day long), talented teachers (who spend every day with your child, and often represent their dorm family) and hands-on, real-world learning opportunities, like mission trips abroad to provide water to communities, composing the score for the school musical, or chopping wood to heat living quarters.

Most schools have a full-time school counselor or psychologist on campus to meet the needs of all students on a confidential basis. Additionally, schools offer a wide network of other resources ranging from faculty leadership, student advisers, dorm parent, peer-led honor councils and off-site counselors that are willing and able to help a student in need, anytime, regardless of topic.

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What to Look For in a Boarding School

Choosing to pursue a boarding school education is no small decision. The name “boarding school” itself is even a bit deceiving, as it implies that living away from home is the main distinction. But another way to look at boarding school is that it’s an immersion into an all-encompassing educational setting that offers an entirely unique approach to how a student experiences learning, develops socially, and even views their future. Boarding schools entrench students into a community that not only aims to advance their education, but also boosts character development along the path they wish to pursue.

So, it’s only natural that choosing a boarding school should be as multifaceted a process as each student’s unique qualities. If you’re just embarking on the boarding school search or have yet to make a decision, our list below acts as a solid starting point for narrowing down the best educational experience for your family.

Create a Wish List

Early on in the process, sit down with your child and brainstorm a list of hopes and concerns about the boarding school experience. Get it all out in the open without worrying about whether one school will meet all the criteria. Creating this guide will help you determine the “must-have” factors, wish-list items and things that you’d prefer to avoid. These early topics may include:

• Location/distance from home
• School and class size
• Extra-curricular activities, specializations and supporting facilities
• Cost and financial aid
• Personal connection or recommendation
• Philosophy and mission statement
• Spiritual affiliation

Then, go a step further in your discussion. Especially if you’re looking at boarding high schools, every unique institution has the power to shape a student’s future. Drew Casertano, Headmaster of the Millbrook School in Millbrook, New York, encourages students to take this opportunity to consider their long-term goals, “This is the first time in an adolescent’s life when they actually have to think about who they want to be.”

The right boarding school should provide the atmosphere to foster this growth along a path to which they feel drawn, both in and outside the classroom.

Explore the School’s Philosophy

A boarding school’s mission statement contains specifically handcrafted wording that should reflect their values and goals. This statement is the central focal point from which all decisions at the school are made, making it an excellent launching-off point for narrowing down schools and determining their values.

Meg Grover, Director of Admission at the Millbrook School, reiterates the importance of considering a school’s mission statement in the early stages of the search. “Before [families] get to campus, they should look at the mission statement of a school. As parents, you need to reflect on whether or not that reflects the values that you have as a family.”

Take the time to explore the curriculum materials, teaching methodology and how the school works to uphold and social and emotional balance. These factors determine topics like homework, test taking, grading, mentoring, and setting long-term learning goals. Traditions and history also shape how a school approaches yearly meetings, uniforms and community building.

Families can also glean insight into the administration by checking out faculty professional development and curriculum growth opportunities. The culture within the teaching community directly reflects the culture created in the classroom.

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Rankings and Reviews

Private education is an investment, especially in the case of an all-encompassing as boarding school. And while rankings are useful, The Association of Boarding Schools , or TABS, advises focusing on finding the right fit for each student based on academic focus and curriculum style.

Additionally, beyond test scores, student-teacher ratios, and other stats, seeking first-hand reviews and visiting the school for an in-person interview is the most important part of this step in the process to get a sense of each school beyond the numbers.

Specializations and Focus

An affinity for a specific academic focus is one of the top reasons for seeking an independent school education. Narrow down your choices by ensuring your shortlist features the performing arts class, science offering, or broad range of Advanced Placement classes that you seek. As students’ interests develop over the years, variety is key.

A common draw toward boarding schools is the extended athletic facilities, ones that even match or challenge many university arenas. Casertano of Millbrook advises families to look beyond the programs themselves during your on-campus visit. Specifically, he recommends identifying which facilities and support systems breathe life into these programs. Is there a structure in place to fully promote students in their endeavors on a daily basis?

Extra curriculum support to look for include:

• International partnerships with schools and professors
• Mentorship with specialized teachers in your field and the opportunity to create independent study projects later in your education
• The college counseling experience

Daily Life, Social Development and Community

“For a [boarding school] experience to be truly exceptional,” Casertano explains, “two realities have to exist: one is that the student needs to be known and known well by a group of their teachers.” The other, he continues is, “You need to be needed. You need to play a meaningful role in the life of your community.”

Many teachers overlap in a student’s schedule: instructing in the classroom, coaching on the soccer field, and supporting them around campus. Teachers get to know each student as their fully rounded self and can mentor them as such. This creates a community where each student is truly known and needed, as Casertano notes.

Boarding schools also offer a wider range of programs to explore and connect with peers regarding student’s passions, spirituality and identity. Are there LGBTQ+ programs on campus, for example? Discuss community-centric offerings as well as opportunities for student-run initiatives or faculty mentorship.

Prep for Your On-Campus Tour

Perhaps the most important portion of the process, tours and overnight visits help you push past the on-paper facts and provide a much clearer view of daily life at the school.

Meg Grover points out that observing the school community and its energy is a window into daily campus life. For example, she advises you ask: Do the students greet one another as they pass on the path? Do they greet you? Take a look inside the classrooms as well. Feel for an energy of engagement with the lesson and the discussion taking place.

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Additional areas of focus on your trip may include:

• How does the school communicate and collaborate with parents throughout the school year?
• Housing questions: access to supervision and assistance, quality of space, etc.
• Tour specific facilities based on your academic, artistic or athletic focus.
• Which student groups and events do the school regularly offer and where do they meet?
• Where do students go in the event of a medical question?
• Does the cafeteria offer options for those with dietary restrictions?
• How do the school and its students interact with its surrounding area?

Once you’ve narrowed your search down to one or two schools, ask about shadowing or overnight visits to connect with the students one-on-one. Nicholas Maldonado, the Recruitment and Admissions Coordinator of the Arthur Morgan School in North Carolina, uses a 48-hour interview process to encourage prospective students to observe the daily schedule first-hand and connect with potential classmates before starting themselves. “This structure allows for applying students to get a real feel for what our school and community are all about. They can picture what life would be like if they were accepted and therefore make an educated decision.  They also get to start forming relationships so when they do become students, they already feel like they know someone.”

Boarding school selection all comes down to the unique qualities of each school and your student. The distinctive culture and mission statement of each institution will serve your child’s life in a different way. It’s also important to remember that admission departments hope to find the best fit for your student as much as you do — an idea that can quell nerves during the interview process. Finding the right fit should come down to choosing a boarding school that excites and inspires your child to learn the whole year round.

Author: Ginny Bartolone

Ginny is a freelance writer and actress based in Montclair, NJ. She regularly contributes to a range of wedding, lifestyle and spirituality websites, as well as in her own blog, MaybeThereWillBeCupcakes.com . She is also currently completing a book about her two hikes across Spain.

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Are you planning to send your child to a boarding school? Here's the necessary groundwork you should do before you make a choice.

Growing up on Malory Towers (by Enid Blyton) a teenage girl in the 90's would be in awe of the adventures a boarding school entails. Today's literature-deprived generation would easily be able to identify with Harry Potter movies, which added glamour and excitement to a place where an adolescent could escape insufferable relatives. However, in India every child belonging to this generation would be able to recreate the drama that ensued a boarding school threat.

A caring and nurturing family environment is considered best for a child's well-being by psychologists and sociologists. Adding fuel to the fire the media leaves no stone unturned in drilling into our minds that only the unwanted and misbehaved children are packed off to boarding schools. Chances are that as parents (no matter how nice your children are), you have at least once in your life considered sending your child to a boarding school away from home to discipline him and knock into him some appreciation for home and all you do for him. True! raising children is a monumental task, infuriating to say the least, yet other things need to be considered.

A qualitative study undertaken by two psychologists from Kinnaird College for Women, Lahore, Pakistan in 2015 published in the International Journal of Emergency Mental Health and Human Resilience revealed that hostels have great importance in the educational journey of students. Desirable personality characteristics such as confidence, punctuality, social skills, realistic attitude, responsibility, and sharpness in many domains of life were attributed at least in part to hostel life. The researchers also found that in hostels students learn to live with different types of individuals, which increases their level of patience. It prepares students to accept challenges in practical life. Although these findings were based on college students, these can be generalised to others in boarding schools as well. However, this may not be the whole truth. These findings have not been consistently seen. Academic and career success as well as personality is determined more by individual factors than by attendance in boarding schools.

There is no thumb rule that will help parents decide a boarding school for their children. Parents need to make a decision based on a multitude of factors including the child's age, temperament, health, academic competence and hardiness. Along with these, external factors like home environment, values of the school in question and the general level of satisfaction amongst boarders must also be taken into account.

Contraindications for sending a child to a boarding school

• Remember that a boarding school is not a dumping ground for problems you cannot handle. An unruly child needs love and attention along with therapeutic intervention, not a strict warden who believes in punishment as the only means to an end.
• One cannot run away from the responsibility of looking after the children on the pretext of a busy personal/social life. A child brought into this world by your consent has to be your priority.
• Academic dullness or learning difficulties cannot be resolved by exacting educational standards. Children with learning difficulties need professional help with oodles of patience thrown in.
• A child who is physically not at par with others his age may be dealt a rough hand for something that is not in his control. Similarly an emotionally distraught child needs the stability and security of loved ones around for a speedy recovery. These emotional disadvantages include mental and emotional disorders.
• In a society engulfed by pressure from social media, packing off children to 'fancy' boarding schools for the sake of status should not be allowed.

Checklist of things to do before sending your child to boarding school

• Check the credentials of the school right from Google search results to getting in touch with the alumni to the former teachers. You are sending your child away from home and in today's scenario you cannot take a chance.
• Make sure you are able to fulfill financial commitments throughout the term you intend your child to be there and include travel expenses, food and clothing expenses and also technology requirements.
• Have a complete physical and mental health check-up for your child before you make the final decision.
• Many of us believe that independent living skills could be fostered through boarding schools and hostels; however, we fail to realize that as a culture we don't train and prepare our children for this independence. Sewing on a button, cooking simple meals, washing clothes and ironing them, tying shoelaces, packing are some of the skills they must master. Add first aid knowledge to their repertoire.
• Teach your child how to say NO. It's a word all Indian parents discourage but remember the skill of saying no may prevent your child from becoming an addict or gang member (common consequences of being in a boarding school).
• Our children know their minds well, yet they are not able to weight the consequences of their actions because we never let them face the music. Teach them how to balance the pros and cons and choose the most beneficial solution.
• If you haven't spoken to them yet about 'good touch' and 'bad touch', now is the time to do it. In sex-driven culture, it is only fair to warn our children about the imminent dangers and how to recognize them along with lessons in self-defense is essential. Parents of adolescents need to discuss reproductive and sexual health with their teenagers. Remember, prevention is better than cure. If you feel shy about such matters consult a professional to impart correct information.
• Be prepared for the emotional vacuum their going away would cause and develop a plan to cope with it.
• Make sure your child has all required materials:
• Course material
• Appropriate and adequate clothing
• Comfortable footwear
• Comfort food
• Sufficient money to meet daily expenses
• Bedding: most hostels expect one to carry a mattress, pillow, bedsheet, pillow covers and blankets.
• Family mementoes and keepsakes from friends
• Contact details of all family members
• Technological assistance required by the school
• Medicine kit
• Toiletries like toothbrush, toothpaste, soaps, shower gels, shampoo etc.
• General items like calculator, data dongle, mosquito repellant, reading lamp, flashlight etc.
• Hobby or interest related things-books, guitar etc.

Emotional Management

• The first emotional reaction of a child to the news of going to a boarding school may be fear, excitement or an oscillation between them. It is imperative that your child understands your reasons behind this decision well.
• Prepare your child much before you intend to send them away. Don't drop the bomb in a crisis situation. Explain your reasons well and have the courage and patience to listen to their concerns as well.
• Assure children that it's alright to feel lonely and homesick for a while and that these feelings will only increase their self-dependence.
• Teach your child how to control stress levels and anxiety so that he can manage even when you are not around.
• Kindness in tone and love in gestures will help them understand that you love them unconditionally and will be there for them even if they are far away.
• Remain calm yourself.

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Written by Neha Makhija on 29 March 2017; updated on 20 December 2019

The author is a clinical psychologist and school counsellor.

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Why Do Parents Send Their Children to Boarding School? Exploring the Benefits

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Welcome to Randolph-Macon Academy, a private day and boarding school that proudly serves students from grades 6-12. We are dedicated to providing a superior university-preparatory curriculum enriched with military values to prepare our graduates for lives filled with meaning and success. 

Our commitment to excellence is evident in the achievements of our students, with the Class of 2023 having 58 graduates who received over $19.3 million in scholarships. We take pride in the fact that 100% of our graduates are accepted into universities, most of which are the best in the world. 

As a parent considering the best educational path for your child, you might wonder why people send their children to boarding school. Today, we’re sharing insights into the benefits of boarding school education, particularly at Randolph-Macon Academy.

Students at Our Private Boarding School in Virginia Learn Independence

One of the primary benefits of boarding school is the development of independence and self-discipline in students. At Randolph-Macon Academy, we foster an environment that encourages students to take responsibility for their learning and personal growth.

Our military values instill a sense of discipline and order, which helps students manage their time effectively, prioritize their tasks, and develop strong study habits. This level of independence is invaluable as students transition to university life and beyond.

Students Gain Valuable Life Experience in a Diverse Environment

Diversity in a school environment fosters a rich educational experience and prepares students for a multicultural society. It encourages the exchange of different perspectives, ideas, and cultural experiences, which enhances critical thinking and problem-solving skills. 

A diverse school community promotes empathy, respect, and understanding among students from various backgrounds, helping them appreciate and celebrate differences. It also prepares students to work and thrive in diverse teams in their future careers. 

Students at Randolph-Macon Academy come from various backgrounds, cultures, and countries, providing a rich tapestry of experiences and perspectives. This exposure to diversity enhances students’ understanding of the world, fosters empathy and respect for others, and prepares them to thrive in an interconnected world. Still wondering: why do parents send their children to boarding school ? There are more benefits to consider! 

Boarding School Encourages Active Participation in Extracurricular Activities

Boarding schools like R-MA offer a wide range of extracurricular activities and leadership opportunities that contribute to the holistic development of students. Through sports, arts, clubs, or community service, students can explore their interests, develop new skills, and take on leadership roles. These experiences enrich their school life and strengthen their college applications and future career prospects.

Our Day and Boarding School Community Fosters Life-Long Friendships

The close-knit community and supportive environment at our day and boarding school is unparalleled. At Randolph-Macon Academy, our faculty and staff are deeply committed to the well-being and success of each student. The small class sizes ensure personalized attention, and the 24/7 campus life allows students to form strong connections within our community. This supportive network provides a sense of security and belonging, helping students confidently navigate adolescence’s challenges.

Boarding school education, particularly at Randolph-Macon Academy, offers a unique and enriching experience that prepares students for a successful future. From fostering independence and self-discipline to providing a diverse and inclusive community, the benefits of boarding school are numerous and impactful. We invite you to explore our opportunities and consider the lasting advantages a boarding school education can provide for your children. 

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The school visit: what to look for, what to ask

by: The GreatSchools Editorial Team | Updated: December 5, 2023

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Be sure to visit all the schools on your list, if you can. A visit is the best way to determine whether a school is right for your child. Even a short visit will help you identify a school’s strengths and challenges. It’s also the only way to get a feel for a school’s climate — intangible but important factors like the dynamism of the teaching, engagement of the students, quality of communication, level of respect between students, teachers, administrators, and parents, and the overall sense that the school offers a safe and inspiring learning environment .

School visit checklists

Use this printable guide to help you plan your elementary, middle, or high school visit.

Before your visit

• Do your homework. Read about the schools you’ll be visiting. Examine their school profiles on GreatSchools.org. Talk to other parents and check your local newspaper for articles about the schools.
• Contact the school.  Most schools conduct regular school tours and open houses during the enrollment season — typically in the fall. Call the school or go online to schedule a visit.
• Ask and observe. Jot down your questions before your visit (the sample questions below will help you create your list).

Key questions to ask

• Does this school have a particular educational philosophy or mission?
• What curriculum does the school use for math, reading, science, etc? Ask if the school follows the Common Core State Standards , Next Generation Science Standards , and which program(s) are they using to teach children to read ?
• What is the average class size ?
• What is this school’s approach to student discipline and safety? Do they practice restorative justice ? Are the discipline practices fair for families of color ? Do they practice corporal punishment , and if so, can you opt out of that for your child?
• How much homework do students have? What is the school’s philosophy/approach to homework ?
• What kind of library resources are available to students?
• How is technology used to support teaching and learning at this school?
• How do the arts fit into the curriculum? Is there a school choir, band or orchestra? A drama program? Art classes?
• What extracurricular opportunities (sports, clubs, community service, competitions) are available for students?
• How do students get to school? Is free school busing available?
• Is bullying a problem at the school? Does the school have an anti-bullying policy ?
• Does the school have a program for gifted students ?
• How does this school support students who have academic, social or emotional difficulties?
• What strategies are used to teach students who are not fluent in English?
• What professional development opportunities do teachers have ? In what ways do teachers collaborate?
• Does the school offer Physical Education (PE) classes?
• What are some of the school’s greatest accomplishments? What are some of the biggest challenges this school faces?

Features to look for

• Do classrooms look cheerful? Is student work displayed, and does it seem appropriate for the grade level?
• Do teachers seem enthusiastic and knowledgeable, asking questions that stimulate students and keep them engaged?
• Does the principal seem confident and interested in interacting with students, teachers and parents?
• How do students behave as they move from class to class or play outside?
• Is there an active Parent Teacher Association (PTA) ? What other types of parent involvement take place at this school?
• How well are the facilities maintained? Are bathrooms clean and well supplied, and do the grounds look safe and inviting?

Especially for elementary schools

• What are some highlights of this school’s curriculum in reading , math, science and social studies?
• What criteria are used to determine student placement in classes?
• How does this school keep parents informed of school information and activities? Are they easy to communicate with ?
• Does the school let parents know what their rights are (and aren’t ) in regards to your child’s education?
• Is quality child care available before and after school?
• How much outdoor time do kids get each day?

 Especially for middle schools

• How does the school guide and prepare students for major academic decisions that will define their options in high school and beyond? Do they provide advice to parents on how to help this age group ?
• Does the school offer tutoring or other support if students need extra help?
• Are world language classes (French, Spanish, etc.) offered to students?
• If the school is large, does it make an effort to provide activities that create a sense of community ?

Especially for high schools

• Does this school have a particular curriculum focus, such as STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) or the arts?
• What kind of emphasis does the school place on college preparation ?
• Does the school have a good selection of Advanced Placement (AP) and honors classes?
• What percentage of students take the SAT or/and ACT ?
• Where do students go after they graduate? How many attend four-year college? Are graduates prepared for college ?
• Are counselors available to help students make important decisions about classes?
• Is college counseling and support available?
• Does the school offer a variety of career planning options for students who are not college bound?
• Does the school staff set high expectations for all students?
• Does the school have a tutoring program so students can get extra help if they need it?
• How do students get to school? Is there a parking lot, and are buses (public or district-provided) available?
• Does this school have any school-to-work programs or specialized academies ?
• What is the school drop-out rate ?

Especially for charter schools

• When and why was this school created ?
• Does the school have a specific focus?
• Who is the charter holder, or the group that created the school?
• How does the school select teachers? Are the teachers certificated?
• Is this the permanent location or facility for the school? If not, will the school be moving to another location in the near future?

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Questions to ask when visiting a boarding school.

Prior to purchasing a new car, most people first test drive a few vehicles to decide what is a good fit for the driver or not. And when it comes to choosing a high school, a similar “test drive” is necessary to see if the school is a good fit for the prospective student.

And testing out a school is especially important if one of the high school options is a boarding school.

With boarding school being an alternative option to traditional high school, it is also important to know what questions to ask when on a campus visit. A campus visit is meant to be informative, but it’s normal to have several questions that need answering, but sometimes you won’t think of these questions until later.  

Go prepared, and consider asking these four questions as you visit a boarding school for high school.

Question 1: What activities or practices does the boarding school have in place to promote community between all of the students?

Why this is important: At a boarding school, there are students from all over the country, and they will come in not knowing one another. It is important for the boarding school to have a methodology in place that helps the students get to know each other and help “break” the ice with their classmates as well as the other students and faculty on campus.

Question 2: How does the boarding school prepare students to handle living and thriving on their own, both in and out of the classroom?

Why this is important: Since these students will be high-school age, most of them will be coming to the boarding school without having any real notion of what it is like to be on their own. They’ll need to do their own laundry, get to classes on time, and make sure they are managing their time well enough outside of the classroom to get their studies done — along with prioritizing time to enjoy afterschool activities.

So, the boarding school you choose to send your high schooler to should be prepared to give examples of how they will help your child succeed practically and academically.

Question 3: How do you support your students that are going through homesickness?

Why this is important: Experiencing homesickness is going to happen. The students are bound to  miss being at home with their family and friends at some point during the year. Some will struggle with it more than others and having a good system in place to help the students address their homesickness is very important.

Question 4: What are the relationships like between students as well as between students and faculty after graduation?

Why this is important: Living with fellow students for an extended period of time can result in close relationships between students. How those relationships are nurtured during their time at school is very important, but also providing students the means to stay in touch with each other and the faculty after graduation is equally as important. How they are able to maintain some of their relationships and how they interact with each other during reunions should show how their boarding school experience enabled their high school friendships to progress throughout the years.

There is definitely much more to consider when someone is considering a boarding school for high school: understanding how the parents will partner with the school, what kind of financial aid is available, and how the boarding school will help the students grow both academically and socially are also key.

Attending a campus visit will help address some of the more obvious questions, and hopefully the four questions above will help spark some questions that you may not have thought of before.  

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Tips for first-time boarding school parents

Sending your child to boarding school is a big step. Excitement can easily mix with feelings of nervousness or worry about spending time away from each other. We have gathered a few tips and things to keep in mind for first-time boarding school parents, so you can enjoy the unique experience your child is about to embark on together as a family.

Your child is in safe hands

One of the most important things to keep in mind as boarding school parents is that your child is in safe hands. Sending your child to boarding school is a big commitment and requires you to put a lot of trust in the school to take care of your child. Our Pathway Managers offer each student individual academic, social and emotional support, while also working together with the student on goal-setting and personal development. Pathway Managers also act as a communication hub, connecting parents and families with teachers, Residential Advisors, University Advisors, nurses and more. This means that your child can always turn to their Pathway Manager for guidance, whether it be for academic or personal matters, and that you as parents will be kept informed about your child’s development at school.

Encourage your child to make new friends

Boarding school is an amazing place for making new friends. Even if your child doesn’t know anyone at their new school at first, they will soon be making new friends from all over the world. With students from over 75 different countries, our campuses make for a diverse, inclusive, and open environment. A major perk of attending boarding school is that when the school day is over, your child will still be surrounded by their new friends while enjoying extracurricular activities or catching up on homework in their dorm room. Attending boarding school together creates a special bond, many of our students end up becoming friends for life who later visit each other as they go on to university and beyond.

A care package is always a good idea

Sending your child a care package with some of their favorite things is a great way of making them feel more at home on campus. Maybe your child has a favorite snack that isn’t available abroad or a certain brand of shampoo that they love and have gotten used to at home. Why not also include some family photos or something to read? Often, it’s the little things that make a big impact. Being able to eat that yummy chocolate bar from home might be just the right thing to ease a bout of homesickness .

Help them create their home away from home

Another way to help your child get settled in on campus is to think about how you can make their dorm room feel extra cozy and comfortable. While you’re packing, consider adding some slippers to wear inside, a cozy blanket, and some small ornaments to make the room feel more personal.

Remind them that boarding school abroad is a once-in-a-lifetime experience

Experiencing high school at an international boarding school is truly a once-in-a-lifetime experience. As boarding school parents, you set your child up for a future full of possibilities by sending them to an international high school abroad. Not only will they thrive intellectually , but they’ll also develop their interpersonal skills and gain a strong cross-cultural awareness that will expand their worldview and prepare them for their future studies and careers. Your child will be living and studying in an incredibly vibrant and inspiring environment where they will be surrounded by people who come from all over the world, allowing them to learn from and inspire each other. They will become part of a unique community, a global network of friends who will be able to support each other and connect with each other as they move on to further studies and careers.

Keep in touch, but give them space

Even if your child is far away from you physically, there have never been more ways to communicate with each other from a distance than there are now. While your child is at boarding school, they’re always just a phone call away. Why not schedule a family Facetime or Zoom call to catch up with your child and hear everything about what they’ve been up to at school lately? Maybe you can get a virtual tour of how they’ve decorated their dorm room! Make sure there’s a good balance though, keep in mind to give your child space and time as they get settled into this new exciting chapter of their life.

At EF Academy we work with the whole family to ensure that you and your child receive the support and guidance needed to prepare you for the exciting journey ahead.

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When are year 6 SATs 2024? Key dates for parents and pupils

Year 6 pupils in England will soon be taking the key stage 2 (KS2) national curriculum tests, which are often referred to as SATs.  

The assessments are used to measure school performance and to make sure individual pupils are being supported in the best way possible as they move into secondary school .   

When are SATs?  

This year, SATs will take place over four days from 13 May to 16 May 2024.

The timetable is as follows:

What are the tests on?   

While pupils won’t be able to see what’s on the test beforehand, t he assessments only include questions on things that children should already have been taught as part of the national curriculum.  

You can find past papers on GOV.UK .  

As usual, there won’t be a test for English writing or science. Instead, this will be reported as a teacher assessment judgement.  

This is a judgement teachers will make based on your child’s work at the end of KS2.   

Does my child need to revise for SATs?  

Children shouldn’t be made to feel any unnecessary pressure when it comes to the KS2 assessments and t eachers will make sure that all pupils in their class are prepared.  

You should follow their general advice about supporting your child’s education throughout the year and ahead of the tests.  

While it is statutory for schools to hold the assessments, headteachers make the final decision about whether a pupil participates in them.   

Some pupils – for example those with special education needs or disabilities – may be assessed under different arrangements if these are more appropriate.   

If you have concerns about your child participating in the KS2 tests, you should speak to your school in the first instance.  

What if my child finds the SATs tests too difficult?  

It’s important to remember that one of the purposes of the key stage 2 assessments is to identify each pupil's strengths and the areas where they may have fallen behind in their learning as they head into secondary school.   

The results will help their new school determine in which areas your child needs the most support.   

The tests are designed to be challenging to measure attainment, including stretching the most able children. It means some pupils will find them harder than others.    

It takes three years to create appropriate tests. During the process, they’re rigorously trialled with year 6 pupils and reviewed by education and inclusion experts to make sure they’re the right difficulty level.   

The Standards and Testing Agency (STA) is responsible for developing the tests, and Ministers don't have any influence on their content.   

When will we find out the results of SATs?  

Schools will receive test results on Tuesday 9 July 2024.  

Before the end of the summer term, your child’s school will send you a report which will include test results and teacher assessment judgements.  

This should provide you with a good sense of the standard at which your child is working in each subject.  

The school will report your child’s test results as a scaled score for each subject. This is created from the number of marks your child scores in a particular test. A scaled score:  

• below 100 means that your child may need more support to help them reach the expected standard;  
• of 100 or more means that your child is working at, or above, the expected standard for the key stage.  

If your child is working below the overall standard of the key stage, or they have special educational needs, reporting will be different, and you should speak to your child’s teacher for more information.  

You can also find more information about  results at the end of key stage 2  on GOV.UK.  

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In The Pandemic: Parents' Concerns About Boarding School

Disclaimer: I am not a health professional. I am a concerned parent and grandparent. This article draws attention to some of the questions I have about sending my grandchildren off to boarding school. ~Rob Kennedy

Getting your child ready for school in the summer of 2020 is a nerve-wracking experience for parents. We have always been concerned about our children's safety both at school and at home. We have taught safe behaviors since they were tiny tots. Sending them away from home to a residential school always posed issues of separation and homesickness that you and I were able to deal with more or less successfully. But sending them off to boarding school in the middle of a global pandemic? Well, that's something else again, isn't it?

Suddenly, all those familiar scenarios of dropping our children off at school seem so benign and distant. This COVID-19 pandemic is unlike anything you and I have seen in our lifetimes. The virus seems to attack people of all ages. It seems to lurk in hosts and find new hosts via droplets that hang in the air. It lives on common surfaces such as doorknobs and stair railings. It spreads to its new host when he touches his face. Worst of all, there's no vaccine for the COVID-19 virus. Scientists are scrambling to create vaccines, but it doesn't look as though anything will be available before early 2021.

I have listened to This Week In Virology podcasts for several months. I have concluded that frequent handwashing, wearing a 2-ply mask in public, social distancing, staying home whenever possible, are necessary steps to protect myself and others from the virus. That's what the health experts recommend. But what about children in boarding school? How safe are they going to be? Let's look at some of the safety steps and protective measures your child's boarding school will most likely implement when it reopens in the fall of 2020.

Will my child have to be tested before she goes to school on Opening Day?

It depends on the school because each private school determines its protocols. Generally, schools seem to be requiring a negative result on a polymerize chain reaction (PCR) test before school opens. Given all the news reports we have seen about how long it takes to get test results, i.e., 7 to 14 days, I recommend scheduling the test well in advance. Ask your school for guidance, and plan accordingly.

Will we be able to arrive at school to drop her off whenever we want?

Probably not. Most schools will set up a schedule of drop off times and drop off points in order to prevent crowding. Be prepared for that.

Will the school take everybody's temperature daily?

Most schools seem to be planning to take temperatures daily. How they do that depends on the school and its financial resources. Taking individual temperatures involves a certain amount of risk. That's why some schools have installed risk-free body temperature measurement systems.

What happens if my child gets sick at school?

In most cases, the school will isolate her. You will be required to pick her up as soon as possible, in any case, within 24 hours. If you live more than a three-hour drive away from the school, you will have to nominate a friend or relative who lives closer to the school, who can come quickly to pick up your sick child. The school will recommend the next steps depending on the situation. That will likely include testing for the virus.

What do I do if my child tests positive and must quarantine for 14 days?

You will keep her home from school and carefully monitor the situation, always following your health professional's instructions. She must isolate even if she is asymptomatic. Be prepared to assist the school with any contact tracing requirements it might have. The school will indicate when she can return to school.

What do I do if I think she has been exposed to somebody who has COVID-19?

Alert the school of your suspicions. If she is at school, the school will test her and advise. You will have to come and pick her up. If she happens to be at home when you suspect exposure to the virus, quarantine and isolate her, and get her tested. Once you have the test results, notify the school.

Will the school schedule further testing at my expense?

Testing is costly. I have seen prices ranging from $25 to $150. So, be prepared to pay for additional testing as the school year proceeds.

How do I know that the school is cleaning and sanitizing facilities thoroughly?

Most boarding schools have implemented deep cleaning and sanitizing programs. Read the CDC guidelines, Reopening Guidance for Cleaning and Disinfecting Public Spaces, Workplaces, Businesses, Schools, and Homes , to understand the steps involved. Also, everybody will be able to wash their hands frequently and use hand sanitizer.

What kind of mask is best?

The experts seem to agree that cloth masks work best. You can make your own or buy them commercially. Cloth masks cost more initially, but because they are washable, they are less expensive in the long run. I suggest supplying each child with a dozen masks. That way, you will have a few in the laundry and a few ready to wear. Read the Cleveland Clinic's guidance on wearing masks, Unsure About Actually Wearing a Face Mask? Here’s How (and Why) to Do It .

Will my daughter still be able to play field hockey and other sports?

School sports programs will look much different in the academic year 2020-2021. Students will wear masks. Temperatures will be taken. Social distancing will be observed. NFHS releases high school sports guidelines during coronavirus pandemic outlines some of the measures that the National Federation of State High School Associations suggests. Some sports are riskier than others. Expect the riskier sports to remain off the table until the situation improves.

Will my school teach in-person or online?

Because the situation is so fluid, there are no easy answers to this question. Much depends on the physical layout of your school's facilities. Since most boarding schools tend to have small classes (12-15 students), it is quite possible that most of the teaching will be in person. Be prepared for some online instruction as well.

What do I do if I can't afford the tuition I have previously agreed to pay?

Speak to the school office. Explain your situation. Perhaps they will be able to work something out.

What can I do to support my school?

Your school needs your support more than ever during these troubled times. If you can afford it, make a gift to the school. Personal protective equipment (PPE), testing, cleaning and sanitizing, and so many more measures explicitly related to the pandemic, are expensive items. Most schools had not budgeted for them. So, your financial help in this area will be much appreciated.

Many families are struggling financially as a result of furloughs, layoffs, and other employment challenges. Consequently, they will probably be asking the school for financial assistance with tuition. Your generous support of the school's financial aid fund will make all the difference in helping students receive the education they deserve.

If you are at a time in your life and career where you can make a major unrestricted gift to your beloved alma mater, this is the time to do it. The need has never been greater.

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