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Finding a gay travel partner can be a fun and exciting way to explore new destinations and experience new cultures. The LGBT Travel Buddy platform is an excellent resource for finding like-minded individuals who are looking for travel companions. Here are some tips for finding your perfect chill gay travel buddy on the platform:

Create a profile: The first step to finding a travel partner is to create a profile on the LGBT Travel Buddy platform. Include information about your interests, preferences, and travel plans. This will help other users get to know you and determine whether you might be a good fit as a travel companion.

Use the search function: The platform has a search function that allows you to filter potential travel partners by location, interests, and other criteria. Use this function to find individuals who match your travel preferences and plans.

Message potential travel partners: Once you’ve found a few potential travel partners, send them a message introducing yourself and explaining why you think you would make a good travel companion. Be sure to include information about your travel plans and what you hope to get out of the trip.

Get to know each other: Before committing to a trip together, getting to know your potential travel partner is important. Exchange messages, have a phone or video call, and discuss any concerns or questions you may have. This will help ensure that you are both on the same page and have a successful trip together.

Make your travel plans: Once you’ve found a compatible travel partner and made all the necessary arrangements, it’s time to start planning your trip. Consider booking flights and accommodations together to save money and ensure that you’ll be staying in the same place.

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LGBTQ Travel: A FABULOUS Guide to Gay Travel in 2024

We’re going to start this LGBT travel guide off a little differently than any old post. We’re going to start with a story .

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Baby Indi, aka your caffeine addicted author, left home at 18. I booked a one-way ticket and swapped small town Australia for the delightful chaos of Ho Chi Minh City. Bold move for someone who still got lost in her four-street town.

With no phone, no map, and no iota of Vietnamese, I stopped for coffee in an alley. The first foreigner I’d seen in five days sat next to me. We got to talking and I thought things were going well. Then they asked:

“So you’re a lesbian right? Aren’t you afraid of travelling gay? ” I barely knew how to travel, wasn’t entirely sure I was a lesbian, and I didn’t really know how to give them an LGBTQ-friendly spiel… A gay travel guide assortment of tips and advice… Their questions really threw me. Should I be afraid to be a gay traveller?

Luckily, I kept travelling . I’ve never liked questions I couldn’t answer, so I started collecting dots and figuring out just how “difficult” it was to travel queer.

I learned that you’ve got to call a spade a spade and admit that sometimes being an LGBT traveller is not easy. But I also know that travelling can be the best gift to give yourself while trying to figure out which booties you like bumping and how to live a life that is still not considered “normal”.

Also, there are some super smashing gay friendly cities to fill the inspiration cup along the way. 😉

So buckle up, queer fam – this is everything I’ve learned so far and everything I wish I’d known before I went travelling. This is The Broke Backpacker’s LGBT Travel Guide!

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Experiences of LGBTQ Travellers – A Challenges and Inspiration Sandwich

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For this article, I interviewed several other badass LGBT travellers. I have included their insights throughout this piece.

A common theme in the interviews was the sticky topic of labels. Labels are a bit of a funky one. They can feel very claustrophobic. It can also feel like you’re making it easier for someone else to understand you – and then they still don’t.

Also, it might be obvious to some, but there is  so  much more to someone than who they choose to smush. I feel like I’m a scrappy dirtbag, a sailor, and history nerd with a propensity for saying fuck at inappropriate times. Oh, and  then  I also happen to date men and women, sometimes at the same time (although to be honest, monogamy is my preferred arrangement these days).

But everyone I interviewed agreed that no matter which LGBTQ+ letter described us best, there are some common challenges (and rewards!) to being a gay traveller.

Hitting the road as a solo traveller is always going to be daunting. Hitting the road as a couple will always have its moments of drama. But whether you are backpacking alone, or with your partner, if your sexual orientation and/or gender presentation is not considered “normal” there are going to be unique challenges.

At one end of the scale, to put it bluntly, you could be beaten up. Or arrested.

Moving along the sliding scale of discrimination, as a gay traveller, you may face various forms of judgement depending on where you are in the world.

Perhaps it’s a little optimistically nihilistic of me, but I choose to remember that hometowns and family members aren’t always the most accepting rays of sunshine either.

There will, unfortunately, be people in every country who cannot find it in themselves to understand someone who is different from them. But you go ahead and live your best life anyway.

Besides, the transformative experience of travel is something undeniable. I also think it’s especially powerful for those of us who are gay. We weren’t handed the same script as everyone else. There is no “normal” for us – we have to write our own manifestos .

But instead of that being alienating, I think that’s a hidden superpower! Sorry, I’m not signing on to a 9-5 job and pretending to care about taxes. It’s just not part of the gay agenda.

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But most importantly, Tribal is a place for open-minded and friendly travellers. Diversity and respect are two of the big core values that the hostel represents. No matter where you come from, what you look like or what you prefer, Tribal will welcome you with open arms!

Solo LGBTQ+ Travel

Going on a solo backpacking trip is all about freedom – and the consequences of that freedom. It can be little things like choosing the exact place you want to eat for breakfast. Or big decisions like saying, “to hell with it, I’m gonna live on a sailboat !”. There are no negotiations with anyone else!

BUT, you trade security for freedom when you travel alone . This gritty growth zone is the ultimate reward from solo travel. You get to break free from your old self and see just how diverse the world truly is.

A Nugget of Wisdom from a Cutie Interviewee

“(Coming from a small city) I had a very specific impression of what it meant to be gay… there wasn’t any nuance. Travelling alone was like realising oh, this is it. Even just little things like seeing two men (in Barcelona) holding hands in public and no one batting an eye. Immediately I was like, I want to live here forever.”

I want to stress that solo experiences will differ depending on which LGBTQ letter you most strongly identify with. Your gender, and your presentation of that gender, will also shape your experiences.

Even a small thing from my own travels drove this point home for me. The more feminine I look outwardly, and the ‘straighter’ I behave, the fewer comments and judgement I get about my sexuality. But then the less masculine I look, the more comments and fear that is directed toward me about being a delicate little girl travelling all alone who is going to DIE. So much for badass solo female travel …

Travelling as a trans person, or as a gender non-conforming person, is not something I have experience with. I’m not going to speak for someone else’s experience.

However, I do believe that it is not so much your sexuality or gender presentation itself that bothers people – it’s how far from the ‘norm’ you appear to deviate. Another way of saying this is: (unfortunately) the more you look like stereotypes of the gender binary, the less discrimination or judgement you will face.

Travelling Together When Gay

There will be differences in the challenges – and rewards – of travelling as a partnership or group of friends depending on the same factors above. I’ve found that judgement comes less from your sexuality directly and more from how you present yourself. People are so damn afraid of anyone non-conforming!

A Nugget of Sad Reality From Another Interviewee

“(In a rural Australian town) it didn’t matter that I knew other gay people in town. Obviously, we exist. But if (as a lesbian), I was to hold my girlfriend’s hand in public I’d worry about getting spat on. Or at least, some kind of comment.”

I’ve been lucky that there have never been overt threats of violence made toward me relating to my sexuality. When I was living and travelling in Central America , two of my gay friends faced more overt threats of violence from small sections of the community (mostly borrachos late at night). But in many ways, they were very accepted too.

Nobody questioned their cross country quest on a motorbike, or whether they would be safe alone on the road. Well, of course, their mamas worried! I suspect that because the two friends I have in mind were typically masculine looking, they didn’t face the same judgement they might have if they were more feminine presenting.

Travelling in an LGBTQ group is not all compromising schedules or judgemental comments. You get to bond with your nearest, dearest, and most fabulous – all while travelling the world! There is also an extra sense of security. To this end, even finding a travel buddy can be a great way to make memories with someone special as well as feel a little safer.

A group of people – no matter what their orientation – checking into a hotel raises fewer eyebrows than a same-sex couple. Maybe the real gay agenda is uniting enough gays to safely check into a hotel in a foreign country.

The best place for gay travel? Well, that depends on your type! 😉

Let’s face it, there is nothing quite like some steamy cross-room eye contact with a chiselled stranger in a foreign country. One minute, you’re sipping wine and pretending you speak the language better than you do. Nek minnit… giggity.

Whether you want to swan through classy restaurants, luxury LGBTQ hotels, and secluded beaches – or you just want to PARTY HARD – there are gay-friendly cities for you!

However, as I wrote this, I reflected on why there are safe spaces and gay cities in the first place – even why we have Pride in the first place. Gay Pride commemorates the Stonewall Uprising of 1969 . Gay Pride commemorates LGBTQ resistance to the violent police enforcement of immoral ‘morality laws’.

The New York cops raided a gay bar – as was typical of the time. They checked the sex of drag queens. They roughed up those who had gathered in a safe space. They violated our community and expected compliance. Yeah, fuck that. The uprising that followed marked a turning point for LGBT rights in the USA.

Our moments of joy and our spaces of inclusion have been fought for – tooth and nail. Then, when they couldn’t arrest us, they ignored us.

Again, fuck that . There was nothing to be gained hiding behind closed doors while misinformation allowed the AIDS crisis to spiral out of control. No, we stepped up and advocated for ourselves. We created community.

To that end, joy itself became an act of resistance . Existing as your unedited, loud, proud, gay-ass self gives those around you permission to be themselves.

So there is no reason for you to not claim your space as an LGBT traveller in some of the world’s best gay cities.

#1 Wellington, New Zealand

Wellington makes the top of my list for gay travel partly because there isn’t a whole lot of dedicated gay bars and LGBTQ+ spaces. There is a small and thriving scene, but Wellies (as the locals call it) is so welcoming and diverse that you don’t need to restrict yourself to LGBTQ places to feel safe .

There’s no need to worry about whether or not you can hold your partner’s hand in the street here!

The city is alternative, funky, and has more coffee shops per head than New York! There are some truly epic hikes to be done around the area (try the Pinnacles Loop track where they filmed some of Lord of the Rings). Plenty of accommodation options around Wellington too, from the budget-friendly right up to the ooh-la-la . Also, museum nerd or not, you have to see the Museum of New Zealand Te Papa Tongawera!

Wellington really has a bit of everything. It’s a beautiful city and, if you can get past the miserable weather (summer notwithstanding), you might find yourself wanting to stay here forever.

#2 Melbourne, Australia

What is it about great gay cities and good coffee? Melbs (as the locals call it) is another city that thrives on coffee, art, and craft beer. It might get a bit overshadowed by Sydney’s showy Madi Gras parade, but the gay travel scene in Melbourne is still epic.

The best things to do in Melbourne are interwoven into the fabric of this progressive city. So, while you can find cheeky speakeasies and gay bars all over Melbourne, you don’t have to stick to one area of the city to have a gay ol’ time!

You should try and time your trip with the Melbourne Comedy Festival or the Melbourne Fringe Festival. No one does comedy quite like Australians.

And let’s face it: if you come here single, the Aussie accent can prove hard to resist. Or so I hear…

#3 Bangkok, Thailand

Have you heard the saying that anything goes in Bangkok? I’d say there’s never been a truer aphorism! Bangkok is a very liberal city – and even more so for foreigners.

Alongside incredible street food, golden temples, and floating markets, there is also incredible nightlife. You can find a party that suits your style. There are burlesque clubs (I’m looking at you Maggie Choo’s!) and drag shows, as well as parties that go well past dawn.

Far from what many still believe, gender has never been binary. Across cultures, and throughout history, there have existed those who don’t fit into ‘male’ or ‘female’.

Thailand is known for having a thriving scene full of kathoey , or ladyboys. I think this is partly due to Thailand’s broad acceptance of LGBT folks – as well as the low cost of medical and gender reassignment surgery.

Now, I didn’t go to Bangkok looking for sex shows, kinda shady dance clubs, or taking drugs with three beautiful ladyboys – and yet, thanks to my terrible sense of direction, that’s exactly what happened (sorry mum!).

There is so much intrigue and adventure to be had in Thailand with or without a soiree of Bangkok’s red-light district! But, it is quite a safe city in which to experiment in certain pleasures.

There is also the classic backpacker scene, which most definitely means booze, babes, and a total lack of worldy inhibitions. Book a place to stay in Bangkok , find a place to party, and the rest will fall into place.

As a gay traveller, you’re spoilt for choice in Bangkok!

#4 Barcelona, Spain

This is where the sexy eye contact with a sexy stranger anecdote came from. The many colourful neighbourhoods of Barcelona are known for brimming with a burning passion, vibrant art, cobblestone streets, fantastic wine… and an epic gay scene!

This city was the birthplace of the Spanish Pride movement and today is home to bars, beaches, and boulevards that are LGBTQ friendly. The balmy weather, the sexy locals, and the tolerance of the city means it is consistently ranked as one of the best gay cities in the world!

How could you say no to tapas, paella, and red wine while sharing a kiss with your partner on a beach?

There are even beaches specifically for LGBT folks.

Also, for the art nerds like me, the streets are literally shaped by Antoni Gaudi. His modernist architecture gives Barcelona its classic building style that has been the backdrop for many romantic proposals.

Barcelona is definitely a more refined place to travel to – but that certainly doesn’t mean you won’t be in for a good time.

#5 Berlin, Germany

To me, Berlin is the grungier counterpart to Barcelona’s sleepy Spanish siesta take on LGBT travel. There’s way less sunshine – and a little more hedonism. But sometimes you need a little bit of that in your travels. 😉

I’ve been to Berlin twice. The first time I spent all day bawling at the Holocaust museum and shaking at the Berlin Wall monument. I was grappling with how such horror affected the psyche of a city.

The second time I went to Berlin, I got my answer. I think that you have to respond to sadness with an overwhelming embrace of life at its ‘most’. That’s how I explain what happens when the sun sets and the techno takes off.

There are clubs and bars galore, as well as cheeky substances on offer to enhance your night. Being gay in Berlin isn’t going to be about restraining your sexuality – but maybe it’ll be about restraining yourself in other ways (like, how about we limit it to three orgies per night?).

Again, I wasn’t exactly looking for sex clubs. And yet, my incessant curiosity and patent disregard for following directions lead me to drinking liquor out of a plastic bag and waiting for my new friend to finish her shift at a very kink-friendly club.

Berlin is a lot to take in; it’s a big city filled with diverse areas and a whole lot of history. But it’s definitely somewhere you can feel safe as an LGBTQ traveller.

#6 Riga, Latvia

Eastern Europe has a mix of Catholic and Communist values when it comes to gay rights. That is to say: it’s not known for being exactly accepting.

Riga – and Latvia at large – has tried to define themselves as the opposite of these values. It has an alluring and classy art nouveau scene with some truly stunning architecture. As a reaction to the values of many of its neighbours, there’s also thriving nightlife!

There are a few gay bars, but it’s not a huge scene. That being said, Riga is quite open-minded and LGBTQ travellers aren’t likely to face open discrimination.

We don’t always go travelling to go from bar to bar though! There is so much more to Riga that will make you fall in love with it. The buildings are incredibly ornate and look straight out of a gothic novel – House of Blackheads is insane!

Plus, you can try your hand at learning Latvian. It’s not the easiest language to learn on your travels , but damn if it isn’t fun to try and pronounce uz redzesanos (goodbye).

#7 Mexico City, Mexico

Viva la Mexico! I would argue that this could very likely be the best gay city in the world . There is a heady mixture of sinful nightclubs, low key dining, and incredible art and history. Mexico City itself is quite liberal – it was the only place in Central America you could get an abortion and was the first Latin American city to legalise gay marriage!

Transgender people have also been able to legally change their pronouns since 2008. Guess that’s why it’s Mexi- can and not Mexi- can’t .

Zona Rosa is the famous gay neighbourhood in Mexico City – and you should definitely visit. Be prepared to PARTY, though! There is also an incredible crafts market here where I found a good deal on amber, but you can find almost anything .

If you are looking for something a bit more chill, I had an amazing time Couchsurfing in Roma. There is still a good gay scene here, but it’s a bit more laid back – think more good coffee and fine wine.

Mexico City can be quite confronting. There is extreme wealth and poverty side by side. There is an element of criminality that can’t be ignored. However, there is such an energy to the city and the locals are so overwhelmingly welcoming that I think it should be at the top of your gay travel list!

#8 Medellin, Colombia

Medellin has truly transformed from the murder capital of the world to one of the most welcoming cities in Latin America – and the world – for gay travellers. Brimming with colourful neighbourhoods and areas , Medellin offers EPIC food, endless fun, and people so beautiful that if you’re not bi… you might just try. 😉

The Pride festival is not to be missed here! It’s an epic show of support in true Latina fiesta style. The locals of Medellin are super welcoming – especially to foreigners. While Colombia is still quite a conservative country, gay marriage is legal and so is same-sex couples adoption.

The Flower Festival held in August is not something to be missed. And neither is a street food indulgence – I mean the churros, empanadas, even the perfectly barbequed corn. They are all amazing!

And Colombians – of both genders – really know how to dance. I was left wondering if I was born with two left, unsexy feet!

#9 Cape Town, South Africa

Cape Town is the unofficial gay capital of Africa. Along with torrents of captivating coffee, the best gay cities always seem to have scrumptious wine of the vine – and Cape Town doesn’t disappoint .

There is incredibly beautiful scenery around alongside some great hiking to be done around the edges of the city.

Cape Town is also a great place to learn to surf… or even swim with great white sharks. That could be a romantic surprise for your not-so-confident-in-the-water friend! Be sure to check out the nearby penguin colonies too.

I will say that the lived reality of some gay South Africans does not match their fairly progressive legislation. Even though gay marriage is legal here, there is still resistance to queer folks in parts of the country. However, as an LGBTQ foreigner – especially in the progressive areas of Cape Town – you are unlikely to face discrimination. Many businesses openly display rainbow flags, and there is a concerted effort to promote equality amongst large sectors of the local communities.

#10 Tel Aviv, Israel

Tel Aviv is a paradox within a paradox . The most accepting city of LGBTQ rights within a notoriously divisive country within an even more infamously unaccepting region of the planet.

But, the Tel Aviv Pride is known to be rambunctious and full of life! There are many amazing bars that are LGBTQ+ friendly, and you are likely to feel right at home when partying with Israelis. Because once the bass starts to wobble at an Israeli throwdown, there is only shalom.

There are many gay bars in Tel Aviv that range from low key gardens, to epic nightclubs. It’s also a fascinating city full of complex history and holy sites. (Yes, even in Israel’s “Sin City” there are holy places!)

So, as a foreigner, you are unlikely to face discrimination in Tel Aviv. In fact, you’re probably going to have an amazing time eating hummus and partying all night. But you probably won’t be able to escape this feeling that gay spaces in Tel Aviv aren’t exactly representative of the country as a whole. But in no way is Tel Aviv either.

On Tel Aviv, From Another Interviewee

“The reason it is so full of life is that it has had to resist pressure from within Israel and across the Middle East. Throughout Israel and beyond there is pervasive resistance to ‘queer’ lifestyles. I love to be out in ‘gay Tel Aviv’ because it is a break from the constant pressure to conform.”

Like I said at the beginning of the article, I’m not going to tell you that you shouldn’t go somewhere . I’m not going to tell you how you should or shouldn’t travel in these places either. Ultimately though, there are countries in the world where it is more dangerous to be an LGBTQ traveller.

The penal code of some countries explicitly criminalises acts of buggery – with punishments varying from death to prison sentences to fines. On top of that, there are cultural and religious perceptions of ‘queerness’ that range from acceptance to contempt.

However, I think it’s important to recognise that even within countries that are considered safe for LGBT travellers, there are ALWAYS people that won’t accept you. Many of us come from families that don’t fully accept us. And even within countries where being gay is a literal crime, gay people still exist. Life is murky soup and no matter where you go, you will find that people are people.

Perception is Everything

“That reminds me of being in Greece with a girl I was seeing… she got really scared I s’pose for being out together and holding hands at night together because of all the men just standing there on the corners. I didn’t feel like they were looking at us like they wanted to attack us, so I think it depends on the person (as to how comfortable you are).”

The most comprehensive article on LGBTQ travel safety I found was this list of the 150 Worst and Safest Countries for LGBTQ travel ; the article made the link between many countries which have “anti-gay” legislation and their status as former British colonies. Add that to the dirty laundry list of colonialism – widespread criminalisation of non-hetero activities and the breeding of stigmas that still lingers to this day.

When thinking about the regions of the world and how dangerous it would be to travel gay there, I thought about this question: what would happen if I held the hand of my same-sex partner in public in this area?

If no one would blink an eye – I think this is a pretty accepting area. If there may be some eyebrows raised and judgement passed, but ultimately little risk of violence, then it’s amber. If there is a threat of violence or holding hands could be seen as criminal, this is a red area for gay travellers.

There is no easy way to generalise whole countries. As we know, some of us come from green zone countries and yet still face homophobia from our families or communities. Conversely, some places that are likely safe for LGBTQ travellers are not safe for LGBTQ locals.

And within countries that on the whole are unaccepting, there are still some of the best gay cities to be found. Mexico is a good example of this. Even though it is a country that can be quite conservative and overtly violent toward LGBTQ travellers and locals, Mexico City is one of the safest and most enjoyable cities for gay travellers in the Americas!

Also, some countries in South America, for example, might seem like they wouldn’t be considered ‘safe’ countries. I would argue that somewhere like Brazil will add elements of danger to your travels, but they won’t necessarily stem from your sexuality.

Gay or straight, walking through a favela in the early hours of the morning will lead to you fighting street dogs at best and at worst… Let’s just say there is an element of common sense to all travel.

Tl;dr? Life is murky soup: use common sense.

How to Travel in the ‘Red’ Areas (some ideas from one queer to another)

And on the topic of common sense…

• Sometimes masking is your safest option. As one friend glibly put it to me: “There’s no problem travelling gay – you just pretend you’re straight.” But in all seriousness, if you find yourself in an unsafe area – in any country – sometimes it’s best to just play the game.
• Travel with someone else anywhere you don’t feel safe. There is strength in numbers should something go terribly wrong. But another person can be all the confidence boost you need when travelling somewhere you don’t feel super safe in.
• Always let your mum (or a friend) know where you’re going and when you expect to be back. That way, if you are alone and the worst does come to pass, there are people in the know who can raise the alarm.

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There are general safety tips that apply to ALL travellers.

Things like not showing off your sexy, shiny new watch and locking your valuables away… It’s always worth keeping an eye on the weather before you head out and go on a hike you’ve never done before… And for veteran backpackers, these things become second nature.

However, I do want to highlight a couple of extra safety tips that are unique to the queer travel community.

Down to the Fun Stuff

Hook up apps are da bomb ! They are a tried and tested method to find love and sex on the road . Where else can you find the best bars to go to and also chat with cute-ass strangers? But I’m gonna lightly drizzle on this parade.

If you do use dating apps in countries where there are legal or violent repercussions for being gay, a quick word of warning: the police and other vigilantes have been known to use apps to lure other gay men to icky ends.

Do I think this is fucked up? Absolutely.

Do I get riled up for a twenty-minute rant about why the fight for LGBTQ rights is far from over and then voice memo it to my colleague at 8.30 in the morning? Fucking oath I do. (But he loves it.)

BUUUUT… do I still think that Grindr can be a super fun way to meet people on the road? Hellz yeah!

The same goes for casual sex. The backpacker life and hook up culture go together like good wine and gay cities. There’s a fair bit of experimenting and the odd romance on the road that makes you believe in love again. Why shouldn’t gay travellers indulge in the same sexy smush times?

You just gotta do it safely. Safe sex is good sex.

Yes, safe sex includes raspberry-flavoured condoms but it also involves some genuine sensitivity, open communication, and the odd moment of vulnerability. Free love is about love as much as it is about sex, so be kind to each other.

Also, sex toys are considered illegal in several countries. This is something worth knowing before your bag gets searched at the airport and suddenly old mate from customs is wielding three of your double-ended dildos! (Was that one a personal anecdote?)

Travel Insurance – The Not So Sexy Essential

When your sense of direction is as shit as mine is, you find yourself in some interesting travel situations. Sometimes it’s in the back room of a sex club in Bangkok; sometimes it’s assisting a sailor to extract a botfly from his own leg and trying not to vomit in your mouth.

Basically, the best travel can get weird . To cover your butt while you’re out adventuring – I’d highly recommend getting some travel insurance.

ALWAYS sort out your backpacker insurance before your trip. There’s plenty to choose from in that department, but a good place to start is Safety Wing .

They offer month-to-month payments, no lock-in contracts, and require absolutely no itineraries: that’s the exact kind of insurance long-term travellers and digital nomads need.

SafetyWing is cheap, easy, and admin-free: just sign up lickety-split so you can get back to it!

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What to Pack for LGBTQ Travel

Along with the usual essential travel items , there’s a few extra items that you don’t want to forget! If you’re taking PrEP, or hormone medication, make sure you have enough to last through your trip. These are not often readily available throughout the world.

As I mentioned before, sex toys are illegal in many countries . They have been used in some instances as evidence that a gay or transgender person was intending to work as a sex worker in that travel destination.

Do I call bullshit? Yup. This is likely discrimination through and through. But call a spade a spade, know the risks, and hide your sex toys well.

Also if you are travelling as a transgender or gender non-conforming person, getting through airport security – no matter what country – can be an extra challenge. Things like having paperwork from your doctor explaining why you might be travelling with needles, or having a passport photo that looks as close to your appearance as possible can make it a little easier. I’m going to pass the mic to this excellent breakdown of the challenges trans folk face with the TSA.

Top Tips LGBTQ Travellers Wish They Could Tell Their Younger Selves

• Hook up apps aren’t just for hook ups! The best bars, the most secluded hikes, and even some of the best street food can all be found by having a chat on hook up apps. Also, not to be crass, but you can also find certain substances on there too if you’re so inclined. It’s not all bang city!
• But they are still good for hook ups. Duh! Especially when you are new to a place, one way of meeting people is a cheeky swipe of Tinder or Grindr.
• Don’t be afraid of the world . “I wish I had been less afraid,” is the phrase that came up again and again when talking with other LGBTQ travellers about their first time on the road. The world is not as scary as we make it out to be and you’ll always find your tribe.
• Travel provides the anonymity to find yourself . Sexuality is a complicated beast and it’s hard to listen to yourself and what you truly want over the din of other people. Sometimes you have to become a ‘no one’ and unwatched by friends and family to give yourself the space to learn more about yourself as a traveller, as a gay person, and as a human on this crazy planet.
• GO TRAVELLING SOONER. This is the NUMBER ONE tip for gay travellers. You can always come home (or find a home). But leaving and discovering the world and your place in it rewards you 1000-fold. Go travelling as soon as you can. Whether that means hitchhiking for the first time , or backpacking around Europe, or a road trip up the coast of your home country. Just go travelling sooner.

The top questions gay travellers always want to know!

Can I still travel alone if I’m gay?

Of course you can! And I’m a huge advocate of solo travel for LGBTQ folks as well as anyone else. Will you always be comfortable? Probably not. You can do your best to be safe, and you can do all the ‘right’ things, but ultimately there is risk. Nonetheless, I think you should still travel alone as an LGBTQ person. Fear should not be a limiting factor in your growth or adventure.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you as a gay traveller?

So many little moments of hilarity spring up when travelling but this one comes to mind: I was in a market in New Delhi, India, on a sort-of-not-quite-but-definitely-a-date that lesbians are fond of. She began haggling hard with one of the vendors for a scarf while I sat on the milk crate. Shopping, unfortunately, has never really been my thing. Two other young Indian guys were waiting for their girlfriends in nearby market stalls. I started chatting to one of them who realised I was also waiting for my girlfriend, like he was. Once that penny dropped, he kept showing me photos of his brother and his brother’s husband in America and suggesting the best underground gay bars in New Delhi! I guess it wasn’t so much funny as incredibly sweet. Life is murky soup: people are always people.

Will travelling LGBT be dangerous?

It’s most likely not going to be dangerous! Especially if you pick a destination that is known for being welcoming to LGBTQ travellers. You could learn salsa in Medellin or hike in Portugal or party it up in Bangkok! And even if you do push into countries that aren’t known for being LGBTQ friendly, there are no guarantees that you will face danger. But you may find yourself editing the way you present yourself to the world at times.

How do I deal with people who don’t accept me as gay?

A good friend of mine (in her words) is a “fat, hot lesbian”. I think I’ll throw it to her to answer this one: “I grew up near London. I’ve had mouthy twats… if they see a gay person, you know, I can’t even count how many times I’ve been told, YOU FAT LESBIAN. But you’re not telling me anything I don’t know, ya prick! I’m fat and I’m gay well done you’ve got eyes! But in all seriousness, you can’t expect that someone who’s been raised in a Church for twenty, forty, fifty years who has been told that being gay is a sin to just suddenly love the first gay person they meet. You will also be wrong about a lot of things in your life, and this is just something they’re fucking wrong about.”

Should I ever hide being gay while travelling?

I think there is a distinction between hiding your sexuality publicly and ignoring it personally. Sometimes I do think that hiding that you are gay while travelling is the safest option. Knowing a country and how risky it is to LGBTQ travellers helps, but ultimately there will be moments that set off your intuition. Listen to your gut and get the hell out of dodge. But even as you might have to hide yourself publicly, you should never forget within yourself who you are or what you stand for.

By now I think it’s clear that I want everyone to go travelling as soon as you can. You have the space to grow into yourself without the pressures or expectations of home. You get to push yourself into the best version of yourself.

I know it would be a lie to say that I never faced hurdles for being queer. You have to look the beast in the eye and know that some regions of the world still don’t accept the LGBTQ community.

However, this should not be a reason for you to stay at home. The greater presence of gay travellers then the more normalised we become, and the less dangerous it is for the LGBTQ travellers that come after us.

Also, there is far too much good coffee and the fresh mango on this side of the Pacific to be sampled for LGBTQ travellers to simply stay at home! You’ve got continents to hitchhike and the great gay cities to enjoy. Travel bonds are supercharged, and you can’t help but come back with friends that you never can quite kick out of your heart (not that you want to!).

We were never given a script to follow. There is no ‘normal’ life when so many people – even within our own communities – still don’t see who we love as normal . In that sense, there is no point trying to fit your fabulous self into an itty bitty box that only has room for a dead-end job and forgetting to take the trash out. There is all the more reason to explore the world as an LGBTQ traveller.

“Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”

That is to say, joy is an act of resistance . So pack your bags and prepare to travel gay. You’ve got a chiselled stranger, a glass of fine wine, and the secluded beaches of somewhere spectacular to enjoy.

Hey, folks – thank you for making it to the end of the article and I hope you enjoyed it!

Basically, as I touched on at the beginning of the article, I can only write from my experience. If you think that a crucial piece of advice is missing for our queer travelling family – please reach out in the comments. Especially if you are a trans traveller – I’d love to be able to put together some more resources and inspiration for y’all.

Indigo Blue

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Finding Your Tribe: How to meet other LGBTQ travelers

Posted on Last updated: 26 August 2019

Home » Gay Travel » Finding Your Tribe: How to meet other LGBTQ travelers

Whether backpacking in Southeast Asia, solo traveling in South America, or just on a city break in Europe, you’re a part of a community of travelers. And as an LGBTQ traveler , there’s an instant connection and sense of camaraderie. Traveling while gay (or queer, or LGBTQ, or…) instantly makes you part of a community.

“Community” is a word often used when talking about LGBT issues, but, at a broad stroke, the LGBTQ community is made up of a mix of genders and sexualities. We all end up lumped together with an all-encompassing acronym despite a diversity of people and ideas.

Thankfully, the LGBTQ community is increasingly accepting and diverse. But it can still be a challenge to meet other LGBTQ travelers and make gay friends whether at home or when traveling.

5 ways to connect with LGBTQ travelers

1. connect on lgbtq facebook groups.

Our world is increasingly more connected on social media networks, and Facebook is pretty much the biggest. One of the best ways to meet other LGBTQ travelers is to look for and join various Facebook networking groups.

Many groups exist specifically for certain regions and cities. And while there are many that are specifically for the LGBTQ community, some of the larger city-wide groups can be equally useful. For example, there are huge groups for some cities, such as “Secret Tel Aviv” and “Free Advice Berlin” run by volunteer moderators.

Joining one of those city-specific Facebook groups can be really useful to get local tips for your next travel, or there are global Facebook groups just for LGBTQ travelers, such as the  LGBTQ Travelers group which I set up last year as a way to connect.

How do you find useful Facebook groups? It can take some digging, but many travel guides are increasingly mentioning them as well. Use the  Facebook search  feature to look for groups based in the city you plan to visit with popular terms like gay, LGBT or queer + the city you plan to visit.

Join my LGBTQ Travelers Facebook group here.

2. Use Instagram to make friends

Even if Facebook groups are a a great way to connect and collect travel tips , Instagram is great for making friends and meeting new people. The information you might get from a Facebook group will be useful for planning a trip, but if you’re looking to make friends or meet new people, then Instagram will be more useful. That’s probably why Instagram is also one of the best dating apps!

There’s also an under-utilized search feature on Instagram, which can be helpful for making gay friends. If you search certain hashtags or locations, you’ll often stumble on cool spots to check out.

Follow @travelsofadam on Instagram

3. Get travel inspiration from Reddit

The “front page of the internet,” Reddit has always been a favorite spot to connect online. It’s also often cited as a social media network because of the Reddit community, though most people don’t necessarily think of it as a network. But gay and lesbian people have been using Reddit for a long time to connect and share important information, tips, and advice for the community.

There are a number of different Reddit groups (subreddits) which are useful for the community. Again, like the Facebook groups, there are many subreddits dedicated exclusively to certain cities—and many of those actually arrange Reddit meetups. There are other, more specific subreddits to just gay life in many of the biggest cities around the world, too, but you’ll find the best Reddit meetups in the non-LGBTQ-specific groups.

Looking to meet LGBTQ travelers? Join my Meetup.com group, Queer Travel Social , to meet local LGBTQ travelers here in New York City.

Lear more about our Queer Travel Social events here.

To connect with other LGBTQ travelers and the larger LGBTQ community, though, there are some great places on Reddit to find information, ask questions, and get advice. One of the biggest LGBTQ subbreddits is /r/ainbow , but for LGBTQ travelers, you can also join my brand new /r/gaytravel subreddit.

Join the LGBTQ Travelers subreddit group here.

4. Read and follow LGBTQ media

Despite an increasingly segmented world, many niche media outlets have had to shut down. GayStarNews was the latest LGBTQ publication to stop publishing—a big surprise for the LGBTQ community. But more local LGBTQ publications still exist around the world.

Gay bars and clubs are often the “go-to” spot as makeshift LGBTQ community centers (though those also exist) and you’ll often find printed weekly & monthly guides or magazines available in those spots. LGBTQ-owned and LGBTQ-friendly venues often connect and work together to provide a community space for the locals, and as a traveler, if you can tap into the local scene, you’ll be privy to all the best local travel tips.

From the  Philadelphia Gay News  to Siegessäule in Berlin, there are still at least 100+ independent LGBT publications from around the world. This website maintains a global directory of LGBTQ media outlets. For places where LGBTQ resources may be more limited, these kinds of local publications and guides are often online-only, such as Element Mag which serves Singapore. These digital magazines often provide weekly or monthly event calendars, plus interviews and stories from the local community.

For any LGBTQ traveler, finding these locally published magazines should be at the top of the to do list if you’re looking for the most recent travel information.

5. Get out there and make new friends!

Of course, the best way to make gay friends (at home or abroad), is to simply put yourself out there and be willing to talk to strangers. Hang out in the gay bars, meet new people at the gay clubs, and attend LGBTQ community events and festivals.

Go to drag shows (often a great way to meet people because they’re so social), and visit LGBTQ community centers (where you can often find pamphlets and flyers for LGBTQ events and LGBTQ-owned businesses).

The best gay travel experiences come from connecting with other LGBTQ travelers and locals, so you just have to make sure you get out there to make new friends and meet new people—as much as you can digitally on social media as in the real world.

For more gay travel stories, follow me on Instagram .

• Gay Travel Buddies Are Perfect for Sharing an Adventure

Finding connections and people to travel with seems like two things that typically don't go together. Invariably, you'll use online dating sites to meet new guys, get to know them, go on dates, date for a while, and then plan trips. However, it's time to turn this on its head! Now you can meet people with the sole purpose of going traveling! Get chatting and create an itinerary that works for everyone! You could even go as a group and make the most of it. There are hundreds of different things to try; let's dive into how to get started.

Meeting Perfect Gay Travel Companions

Finding the right people to travel with doesn't mean searching in your friendship group. Sometimes your friends don't share the same passion for adventure; subsequently, you can feel a little stuck. No longer! With hundreds of travel buddy websites emerging, you can meet like-minded men wanting the same adventure. Just like anything online, there are lots to choose from, which can lead to confusion; we've compiled a lot of the top websites for you so you can have a safe / fun-filled holiday!

• Misterbnb. The gay version of Airbnb connecting you with gay-friendly hosts across the world. The site offers a great deal on accommodation and will show you the local gay scene. Brilliant if you're ready to make the jump and get adventuring.
• Multiple gay dating services (Gaystryst, Grindr, etc.) Those platforms make it effortless for single gay guys to meet others. Use these platforms for dating, hooking up, or as platonic sites to find friends and companions. The versatility is endless and can make your experience better. Join communities through gay dating services and find people who share your travel passions.
• Travel Buddies. With no emphasis on sexual orientation, this app opens your scope of a search to show what's available. Get in touch with people who've traveled before and know what they're doing, or get to know voyaging newbies like yourself and learn together.

This selection of websites, whilst short, will introduce you to the world of gay travel buddies and enable you to get comfortable before exploring further. Who knows what sort of people you could meet through these sites?

How to Discover the Best Gay Travel Buddy?

A special mention goes to LGBT Travel Club who endorse safe journeying around the UK and help people like yourself understand their rights and what's available to them. They've done some influential work and should be your first port-of-call if you plan to go to England, Wales, Scotland, or Northern Ireland.

Another way to make the most of your journey is to join Facebook groups. The platform has seen a decrease in popularity in recent years (Instagram seems to have taken first place); regardless, the communities on there are bountiful. Either find groups in your area or in the places you wish to go. It's surprising how helpful Facebook can be when connecting with new people. Additionally, with the dating feature they're recently added, you can combine your wish to have an adventure with your desire for romantic companionship.

When you venture out to gay-friendly areas, you'll find that they'll have a selection of gay bars/ spaces that you can visit. Australia, for example, has three hot places for you to visit and have some fun at. From Gaytopia to The Blokes Pub Club – Gay Blokes Social Club in Melbourne, to Sydney's Non -Scene Gay Men Meet up, there's something for everyone; it's about time you find your scene.

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Anything online presents its own dangers/ risks. However, it's how careful you are that determine if they're legitimate concerns. Keeping friends and family clued up on your travel plans will keep you safe; get insurance for your journey and do your research on the areas you're about to explore.

What if I don't meet anyone I like?

There's always a chance that you won't click with anyone online and thus face the prospect of venturing out alone. That's completely fine! If you're safe (outlined above) and you're sensible, you'll be fine. Alternatively, delay your travel plans until you meet someone you'd be happy to travel with.

What if I want to go somewhere that isn't necessarily "gay-friendly"?

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Many people have tried backpacking and loved it! It's brilliant character building and is something you can do solo or in a group. It's a cheaper way of seeing multiple places and will show you how to appreciate the little things in life. If backpacking is calling to you, explore the opportunity!

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Must-see LGBTQ-friendly destinations for every kind of traveler

From Nova Scotia to Phnom Penh, in quaint small towns and big cities alike, these places support and welcome travelers with pride.

As longtime travelers, we do love a lively drag show or a Pride parade, but we also want to go beyond the obvious to discover cute small towns, safari adventures, and pockets around the world that offer more well-rounded experiences—while still being able to be our true selves. That’s what led us to write the National Geographic book Out in the World, a travel guide that supports LGBTQIA+ travelers, and our allies, in meaningful ways—including queer-owned and welcoming businesses, and memorable activities where everyone feels like part of a community.

Here are 10 exciting destinations (plus our lodging tips in each), from surprising small towns and exciting big cities, to romantic beaches and wild national parks.    

Great Barrier Reef, Australia

Located off the coast of Queensland, Australia , the world’s largest reef system is home to 1,600 species of fish, 134 species of sharks and rays, 30 species of whales and dolphins, and 700 species of hard and soft coral.  

If you’re interested in snorkeling, book a day tour with Wavelength Reef Cruises , an eco-certified company that offers smaller group excursions and is owned by local marine biologists. The company visits popular reefs such as Tongue, Opal, and St. Crispin (we spotted dolphins and whales en route), with the skipper picking the best spot based on the day’s conditions. Other companies, such as Quicksilver Cruises , offer excursions where you can choose between scuba diving and snorkeling.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Cairns and Port Douglas, gateways to the Great Barrier Reef, are very queer friendly.  

Where to stay:   The adults-only Pink Flamingo Resort in Port Douglas offers colorful private villas (with an outdoor shower and hammock). Turtle Cove is an adults-only beachfront resort (with clothing-optional sections) for LGBTQIA+ people and allies in Wangetti (about 30 minutes from Port Douglas). The queer-owned Gunnadoo Holiday , with views of the Coral Sea, is near the Daintree Rainforest in Rocky Point.

New York City, New York

New York City ’s history, especially in Greenwich Village, can be explored via Christopher Street Tours, which gives the inside scoop on historic sites and LGBTQIA+ pioneers. We could spend all day people-watching in Washington Square Park, but so many other great sites are nearby: the Stonewall Inn, a historic landmark where the 1969 riots helped launch the gay rights movement ; Marie’s Crisis Café , a classic LGBTQIA+ piano bar (dating back to 1929), where you can belt out show tunes; and Henrietta Hudson for lesbian karaoke and dancing. And don’t overlook the Museum of the City of New York, which details the city’s history and has a moving exhibit on progress for LGBTQIA+ rights.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   NYC has the largest queer population in the United States and is an essential location of the LGBTQIA+ rights movement in the country.  

Phnom Penh, Cambodia

In Cambodia , same-sex activity is legal and same-sex relationships are widely accepted, especially in major cities. The buzzing capital Phnom Penh has a small LGBTQIA+ scene with a few bars and restaurants central to the community.  

For drinks, head to Blue Chilli, the longest running LGBTQIA+ bar in the country, with drag shows, dancing, and cocktails. At Space Hair Salon and Bar , you can get your hair done and your drinks poured in one place; the Pride of Phnom Penh is a bijou music bar with LGBTQIA+ crowds; and the Toolbox is “geared” toward gay men.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Pride week is typically in May. When in temples, make sure to wear appropriate clothing that covers your shoulders (shawls are not permitted in some places). Just as in some other areas of Asia, public displays of affection are not especially encouraged (for any type of couple).

Where to stay:   Arthur & Paul is a spa boutique hotel for men only. Mad Monkey Hostel has dorms and private rooms, plus a beer garden, restaurant, and pool. It also hosts Pride events and gives back to the community through clean water projects and beach cleanups. Palace Gate Hotel & Resort is on the riverfront with sophisticated rooms and a lush pool area.

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

Rio , in eastern Brazil , is world renowned for its Carnival celebration but its beaches, mountains, and other natural spaces beckon year-round. Start at Ipanema Beach, a hot spot for the queer community and one of the cleanest beaches in the city (here you’ll find Rua Farme de Amoedo, a famous LGBTQIA+ street with some of the city’s best queer nightlife). Also check out Copacabana Beach, which also has a lively queer crowd, music, restaurants, and bars. Or visit Praiade Abricó beach, the city’s only nudist option.  

LGBTQIA+ lowdown: Rio is the queer mecca of Brazil, priding itself on initiatives like vocational training courses for trans people, anti-bullying projects to support queer students, and legislation outlawing discrimination in the city’s nightclubs.

Where to stay: Praia Ipanema Hotel has modern rooms and balconies with sweeping views of the beach. MGallery Santa Teresa Hotel is a luxury boutique hotel on a historic coffee farm dating back to the 1850s. It boasts a spa and Michelin-listed restaurant. Or try LaSuite by Dussol , a minimalist and modern hotel with views of the beach, the landmark Christ the Redeemer statue, and the Cagarras Islands.

Cape Winelands, South Africa

In addition to hundreds of wineries (including some of the oldest outside of Europe), the Cape Winelands, South Africa , offers expansive estates and historic towns only an hour away from Cape Town . Award-winning Cabernet Sauvignon, Chenin Blanc, and Pinotage are among the varietals at M’hudi Wines , the first entirely Black-owned wine tourism farm in South Africa.

Between Cape Town and the Cape Winelands area, don’t miss Steenberg Farm , the first winery in South Africa to join the International LGBTQ+Travel Association   (IGLTA). Established in 1682, Steenberg Farm has some of the country’s best winery views and Sauvignon Blanc. While touring the wineries, let someone else do the driving with Vine Hopper (Stellenbosch) or the fun Franschhoek Wine Tram .

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   South Africa amended its constitution in 1996 to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation (the first country to do so) and legalized same-sex marriage in 2006. Still, there are ongoing incidents of racism and homophobia, so visit with caution.

Where to stay:   Maison Chablis Guest House is a quaint and inviting country house, with a pool. Queer-owned Holden Manz Wine Estate is a hidden gem where you can enjoy some Merlot or Syrah, and wine and dine in the Franschhoek Kitchen. Sugarbird Manor at Protea Heights Farm has serene views and an amazing infinity pool amid vineyards.

Nova Scotia, Canada

Nova Scotia is known for its rugged coastline, rolling hills, world-famous lobster, outdoor hiking and cycling, lighthouses, and the world’s highest tides. In 2023, it hosted the North American Indigenous Games , bringing together 756 nations to compete and connect through sports across 21 venues.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Nova Scotia is a queer-welcoming destination with Canada’s largest population of trans and nonbinary people and extensive protections for queer people. It also has a wide array of services, including First Love Yourself, Gender Creative Kids Canada, and Nova Scotia Rainbow Action Project.

Where to stay: The Pebble Bed & Breakfast has charming rooms overlooking Northwest Arm, an inlet with bright blue waters for boating and fishing. The Wellshire Bed and Breakfast in Lunenburg is in the historic Old Town with a well-tended garden and pond. The Halifax Marriott Harbourfront Hotel is eco-certified and has picturesque views of the water, plus an indoor pool and fitness center.

Eureka Springs, Arkansas

A mountain town famous for its mineral springs and Victorian architecture, Eureka Springs, Arkansas , may not be the first place you think of as a queer-friendly destination, but with more than 30 percent of its population identifying as LGBTQIA+, the town is a leader in southern hospitality.  

Millions come for the Great Passion Play, the “Christ of the Ozarks” statue, and Thorncrown Chapel , an architectural gem with 425 windows. According to architect E. Fay Jones, it’s a place to “think your best thoughts.” In downtown Eureka Springs, stroll the Historic Loop, a 3.5-mile (5.6 km) walking tour with 300 Victorian-era buildings. Don’t miss the rainbow steps on North Main Street for a Pride photo spot.  

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Nicknamed the “gay capital of the Ozarks,” Eureka Springs has long advocated for equality. Before the United States legalized same-sex marriage in 2015, Eureka Springs residents formed domestic partnership registries, and the town enacted laws banning discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender expression.

Where to stay:   Gay-owned options include Magnetic Valley Resort, an all-male (including trans men) retreat in a serene setting, and the pet-friendly Wanderoo Lodge , which has a bar, restaurant, and the town’s largest swimming pool.

Barcelona, Spain

Northern Spain’s only coastal city, Barcelona has it all: history, art, Gaudí-designed landmarks , gastronomy, and Instagrammable sites at every turn. Trendy neighborhood, Eixample, known by the locals as Gaixample for its large LGBTQIA+ community, is great for craft beer bars, art galleries, high-end stores, modernist buildings, and the Arc de Triomf, designed as the entrance to the 1888 Barcelona World Fair. You should also visit the Gaudí houses: Casa Batlló (“House of Inspiration”) and La Pedrera Casa Milà, Gaudí’s last private residence project (completed in 1912), for immersive hologram experiences. Mar Bella Beach (with a clothing-optional section) is popular with the LGBTQIA+ community.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Barcelona, the Catalan capital, is particularly welcoming to the spectrum of the queer community, with multiple LGBTQIA+ events, queer-friendly districts, and inclusive hangouts.

Where to stay: Kimpton Vividora in the Gothic Quarter is a pet-friendly favorite with a pool. Hotel Ohla , in the same area, is known for the 1,000 ceramic eyes on its facade and its Michelin-starred restaurant. The hetero-friendly Axel Hotel in Gaixample is also quite popular with the LGBTQIA+ community and houses Sky Bar, which features a fan of feathers representing diversity

Cologne, Germany

Few places do Christmas markets better than Germany , and the progressive university town of Cologne is no exception. Each market offers a chance to sip warm glühwein, browse handmade arts and crafts, take in ornate decorations, and sample Wiener schnitzel. The biggest and most famous Christkindlmarkt can be found in front Cologne Cathedral, where a giant Christmas tree and pretty overhead string lights set a jolly atmosphere. In the (holiday) spirit of inclusiveness, don’t miss Heavenue , a queer Christmas market featuring sexy St. Nick, live shows, and stalls bursting with color.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Cologne competes with Berlin for the most queer-friendly city in Germany. You’ll find one of Europe’s biggest Pride festivals, two distinct LGBTQIA+ neighborhoods (Rudolfplatz-Schaafenstrasse in the west and Heumarkt-Mathiasstrasse in the east), and lots of queer spaces.

Where to stay: The Excelsior Hotel Ernst am Dom is a five-star luxury option steps from the Cologne Cathedral. Maison Marsil is a family-owned boutique hotel with lots of character in the heart of the city.

Los Cabos, Mexico

On the southern tip of Mexico’s Baja California peninsula, the Los Cabos region includes the popular towns of Cabo San Lucas and San José del Cabo, connected by the Corridor: 20 miles (32 km) of walkable beaches, golf courses, resorts, and great spots for snorkeling and fishing.  

Visit Cabo San Lucas’s popular Medano Beach, crammed with oceanfront hotels and plenty of places to sip margaritas all day. Just across from the beach, you’ll see the landmark El Arco, a three-story limestone arch where the Pacific Ocean meets the Sea of Cortez. Take a water taxi to Lovers Beach, a beautiful swimmable spot on the Sea of Cortez side of the arch.

LGBTQIA+ lowdown:   Cabo San Lucas is particularly welcoming, hosting an annual LGBTQIA+Pride march. It’s also home to many inclusive resorts and businesses.

Where to stay:   ME Cabo on Medano Beach puts you near all the action; walk to town or sit by the pool with views of the sea and El Arco, then join the parties along the busy beach strip at night. It also holds the Queer Destinations Committed distinction, an internationally recognized standard of inclusivity for the LGBTQIA+ community.

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These Are the Safest Destinations for LGBTQIA+ Travelers in 2024, According to a Travel Index

The No. 1 spot is a five-way tie between Canada, Malta, New Zealand, Portugal, and Spain.

Matt Kirouac is a travel writer with a passion for national parks. He’s a culinary school graduate and a recent transplant to Oklahoma City after two and a half years of RV living. He covers LGBTQIA+ travel, food, and all things Disney.

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For LGBTQIA+ travelers, safety and inclusivity are important factors in vacation plans, and the latest Gay Travel Index once again sheds light on destinations that exceed expectations, fit the bill, or fall short. Since 2012, Spartacus has used a meticulous rubric for grading and ranking countries from the most queer-friendly to the least, providing a reliable metric — for locals and travelers alike — for which countries are improving, and which are getting worse.

The intensive rating system features 18 categories that range from anti-discrimination laws and transgender rights to oppressive religious influence, prosecution, and the death penalty. Zero points are the neutral mark, with points added or deducted based on human rights — or lack thereof. Both positive and negative, points are weighed against the severity of local law or customs. For instance, countries that still punish homosexuality with the death penalty get more deductions than countries that have the death penalty but don’t act on it.

In a five-way tie for first place this year, as the most queer-friendly destinations with 12 points each, are Canada, Malta, New Zealand, Portugal, and Spain, followed closely by Australia, Switzerland, Denmark, Germany, Iceland, Norway, and Uruguay. The U.S. earned a lukewarm ranking of 41, with a total of just four points. On the opposite end, the most hostile countries remain Saudi Arabia, Iran, Chechnya, and Afghanistan, all of which still practice the death penalty for homosexuality.

Notable this year was Norway, rising from 17 to 8, thanks largely to its reversal of conversion therapies . Estonia also leapt up from 15 spots to 32, due to the nation legalizing same-sex marriage . Meanwhile, the United Kingdom tumbled from 9 to 21, losing points for diminished LGBT marketing and hostile locals. The U.S. also lost ground, falling from 35 to 41 due to religious influence and hostile locals. Russia took the biggest plummet, from 177 in 2023 to 205, losing an additional five points for its increased prosecutions of LGBT people.

The index also ranks the 50 states individually, with unique-to-U.S. categories like hate crime laws, gay and trans panic defense, and queer infrastructure, while the censorship category reflects the various “Don’t Say Gay”-style laws across the country. With 14 points, New York earns the No. 1 spot for its LGBT protections, lack of censorship and conversion therapies, and concerted efforts put into LGBT marketing and infrastructure. California, Colorado, Nevada, and Oregon are all tied for second, followed by Washington, Illinois, Massachusetts, New Jersey, and New Mexico. Alabama, Mississippi, Tennessee, and Montana are some of the least queer-friendly states, with Oklahoma in last place for the second year in a row, due to censorship, lack of trans rights, and — as tragically evidenced by the recent murder of non-binary student Nex Benedict — hostile locals.

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